Femininity is an energy

girlwithasidecar · 2022-09-15T12:18:57+00:00

Most people miss the point of this sub for equating femininity to present a weakness

I think the problem is that no one seems to be able to articulate what it means to be feminine. You don't even do it in this post.

Consequently, there is a lot of musing on what it means to be femininity and it tends to be defined in opposition to masculinity. This is what you do here: masculine is strong so feminine must be weak BUT feminity isn't weak your thoughts go. Masculine and feminine are complements. Strong v soft rather than strong v week.

avotoastisgreat · 2022-09-15T13:19:38+00:00

I believe that as humans we all have divine feminine and divine masculine energy and to be a well rounded human based in harmony, you need to find balance between the two. No one is 100% feminine or 100% masculine. When people try to be 100% one or the other, I think that's when traits become toxic.

How I personally define masculine energy within myself: unwavering, brave, commanding, leading, determined, progressive.

How I personally define feminine energy within myself: empathetic, nurturing, peaceful, meditative, reflective, patient.

abishagofthevalley · 2022-09-15T12:22:25+00:00

The vibe I get from the RP women is that they are strong, level headed and determined. It's almost intimidating. The other fem forums exsude chaotic energy by comparison.

sunglasses90 · 2022-09-15T15:48:31+00:00

Your analysis is correct in my opinion. It’s a mixed bag. On the surface femininity can seem like weakness, but only because it’s seen as “softer”, some could say that men having a soft spot for their wife and kids and sacrificing time, money and energy for them is “weak” but I thing some softnesses is necessary for the survival of the human race so is it really a weakness? No, in that case I’d argue that it’s a necessary skill and therefore a strength.

I think these are hard things to define. In my mind redpill women make a choice to embrace femininity and traditional female roles, but that doesn’t mean you’re a helpless 1890’s Victorian woman with smelling salts fainting every 5 minutes. Throughout all of history women have been both feminine and capable at the same time. The main difference is that they didn’t get the recognition over men that we do now. Men still need and want us to be smart, strong, and capable they just don’t want the modern “anything you can do I can do better” attitude every waking minute that most modern women have adopted.

At the end of the day the definitions don’t matter. Your goal is to be the best version of yourself whatever that is, and to figure out how to find a man that matches you and your values. This sub helps guide you on certain things to analyze and understand gender differences, but we aren’t robots so some generalities will apply and some won’t to you and your partner.

leftajar · 2022-09-15T14:41:41+00:00

I've pondered on this a lot.

Men are physically stronger and better able to cooperate than women. For most survival challenges the Earth presents, men are better able to deal with those challenges.

So, why do women even exist, if men are more capable?

Because bearing and caring for children is incredibly important! All of female biology and psychology has evolved to meet that critical challenge.

Therefore, the demonization of femininity is all, I believe, downstream from the devaluing of motherhood.

We're lead to believe that parenting and nurturing is just another mundane task that can be outsourced, like hiring a plumber to un-clog a sink. This propaganda is pushed so that a woman can be just another worker bee, cranking out work-units to boost GDP.

The solution is to talk about how wonderful and amazing motherhood is, and how women are blessed to have such a rewarding and loving outler for their nurturing energy.

zaftig_stig · 2022-09-18T18:44:20+00:00

Alison Armstrong just did a webinar about femininity that was really good.

https://youtu.be/NySisSsKSSY.

AutoModerator · 2022-09-15T12:04:36+00:00

Title: Femininity is an energy

Full text: The beauty of a relationship is the masculine and feminine energy that the parties involved bring. The ying and yang to balance the equation.

As it has been said over and over again, the ship can never reach the shore if it is not handled and maintained well by all.

Most people miss the point of this sub for equating femininity to present a weakness. It does not. What a woman chooses to do, be it career or life choices should be respected.

Correct me if I am wrong but I have always associated this sub with women getting in touch with their feminine energy and aura. The problem had always been defining what that is.

It is a way of being. A state. We must first be human deserving respect and worth before anything else. Otherwise it becomes easy to lose yourself in the tide. This equates to having boundaries.

The energy is a feature. An aura or decoration that you get as you work on yourself. Some people have it naturally, others have to work for it. Hence the notion, that this sub provides tools. It depends on how you wield them.

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Title	Femininity is an energy
Author	cknyakina
Upvotes	58
Comments	23
Date	September 15, 2022 12:04 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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