We all need quick guides to help get us to where we need to be. Many men need a quick rundown of the problems they have in dating and sex. This should help direct you to more Red Pill information quickly.

1) You're unable to generate any attraction at all. You go through life getting nothing. No interest at all, you can't get any traction or interest at all.

Diagnosis: Major, fundamental structural deficiency in physical appearance or personality, and you either cannot see it or refuse to admit it. But make no mistake about it -- others, especially girls, see it in you immediately, and that's why you're failing.

You're fat and out of shape. You dress for shit, you have a shitty haircut. You have bad body odor or bad breath. Your teeth look terrible. Something about your physical appearance is way, way off. Most of the time, it is that you are out of shape. That's why lifting is stressed here -- lifting heavy weights to exhaustion is a physical activity specifically intended for men.

The other possibility is that you have a major personality flaw or tic. Most of the time it's what I call "the weirdness factor". You are doing or saying something weird, odd, off-putting, strange, or creepy. Women are extremely attuned to this. It could be anything -- eye contact that lasts too long (staring/gawking) or not long enough (makes others uncomfortable). Your posture sucks. You have weird speech patterns or habits - stuttering, hesitance, spacing out. (I used to know this guy who would say something, then whisper it under his breath or mouthed it. He said he honestly didn't know he did it until others pointed it out to him. Took him a long time to stop.) You are so underconfident you'd rather play video games than talk to others. You're self centered to the point where you talk about literally nothing other than yourself.

The problem with these things, men, is that literally EVERYONE knows about it and can see it in you. People try to be nice to you, and they don't tell you about these major structural problems about yourself because they don't want to offend you or hurt your feelings. You might or might not see it in yourself, or you might not be willing to admit it.

Well, I don't give a shit about your feelings. You need to take a good, long, hard, honest look at yourself in the mirror, and at the way you interact with others. Have the courage to admit that you're a fat, out of shape fuck. Have the courage to admit that you need help selecting clothes that look good. Admit that your hygiene sucks and that you come off as weird. And then FIX IT.

2) You get dates, but are unable to get past one date and can't seal the deal. We've all been there. You get the date, she goes with you, but she bails at the end. She nopes out when you go for the kiss or isolation. She definitely nopes out on a second date, and ignores your texts and calls. And this isn't an isolated thing with a few girls -- you'll have that. No, this is happening to you all the time, every time, with every girl you take out.

Diagnosis: If this is you, where you are getting dates but they're ghosting on you after one date, it's because you have no Game. You can't or won't escalate. You have nothing interesting to say. You're boring and uninteresting. Whatever attraction she had for you, you killed it by not building on what was there. You have a narrow window, and you have to go through that window while it's open, not try to force it open a little more or expect her to leave it open forever.

3) Things fizzle or spin out after two or three months. Again, this is happening to you all the time. You get through the dates and you're seeing and having sex with her on the regular, but then she starts losing interest or things crash and burn.

Diagnosis: Too much alpha asshole; or (more often) too much beta comfort. If this is happening to you, where things fall apart or she is storming out in a huff, it's because you're either turning on too much asshole or too much comfort. Hard to believe that we still have to talk about this stuff, but there it is. Too much alpha and not enough comfort, and you'll drive her insane. She'll be so dreaded out she can't stand it, or you. She will absolutely hate you, and you'll deserve it. Too much comfort and not enough alpha, and you'll dry her up like the Sahara. She'll be so turned off she'd rather watch paint dry than be with you any longer. And by this time, she's ordering you around, and that's the end of the line for you and her.

Refer back to these quick diagnostic tools for your relationship/sexual issues, and then get to the TRP resources you need to help you get back on track.