Is pre-selection true attraction?

norwegiandoggo · 2024-07-19T21:16:49+00:00

Pre-selection is a factor for both of them because they know each other and women talk to each other about men.

So it's not like one is with preselection and the other is without.

Pre-selection is a weak form of attraction. It wears off. It's real alright. But short lived. Like wearing a cologne. You can smell it but it fades and eventually goes away unless you spray again .

drewster23 · 2024-07-19T20:24:30+00:00

I have no clue what the fu k you're talking about with pre selection, but you're literally asking should I go for the mentally unstable girl who only wants me due to jealousy and need for validation or girl who straight up wants me and wants to fuck me.

I'm not answering that for you because you should be smart enough to figure that one out. And if not you'll learn sooner rather then later.

Wing_Inevitable · 2024-07-19T21:17:39+00:00

Is pre-selection true attraction?

No.

So I currently have two women interested in me. But I’m struggling to make a choice.

Ok don’t.

Girl A

Is summery :

Has red flags out the ass but is hot.

Girl B.

Summery : she is into the poster but is meh.

Girl A now but I’m unsure how honest her attraction to me is.

Again she is hot - and that is basically all you give a fuck about.

So my question is how stable is attraction that is bolstered by pre-selection.

Like not much - Like an emotion.

Look get the mid chick (Girl B) and move on from this. There is no choice to be made.

You ain’t keeping hot girl.(Girl A)

Don’t be an idiot.

Edit : after reading the comments

Yea u/MrHound325 is probably right . You just want to be allowed to be a stupid fuck.

So there you have it - be an idiot

MrHound325 · 2024-07-19T21:03:51+00:00

Tldr: OP wants our permission to make bad decisions. He’s going to make bad decisions anyway but he’d feel better if we told him he should

Go make bad choices, OP

Jironasaurus · 2024-07-19T22:03:24+00:00

Feels to me like you are overthinking. It can be an attraction trigger, just like many other attraction triggers. Instead of focusing on whether it's "true attraction" or not, take the win and make your move/shoot your shot. Until the both of you end up together (be it in bed or a relationship), everything else is just mental masturbation.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-07-20T00:22:44+00:00

Pre selection is not true attraction personality-wise.

Pre selection is true arousal in the context of sex appeal.

Western-Month-3877 · 2024-07-19T20:55:40+00:00

Sounds like you’re asking on philosophical/deeper level. I mean, i can argue on either side whether it’s true attraction or not. But does it matter tho?

I would see that you wanna go with both of them, which i don’t blame you. But if you do it carelessly you might lose both instead of getting only 1.

McPigg · 2024-07-20T12:06:55+00:00

Its part of "true atrraction" but not the whole scope.

amBoringGuy · 2024-07-20T15:02:27+00:00

What are you worried about? Wheel them both while you’re working on getting another plate spinning. You don’t have to pick one and if one of them puts you to a decision then shut her down. She’ll most likely comply and if not, you just cut yourself free from a crazy control freak. Remember: this is your life. You are in control; act accordingly.

MouseAware809 · 2024-07-21T16:02:13+00:00

Girl A is pissed because you didn't make a move.

I have experienced this a lot, and didnt fully understand until I got a colourful FB message.

Title	Is pre-selection true attraction?
Author	mitigated-disaster
Upvotes	9
Comments	22
Date	July 19, 2024 7:56 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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