Of course this only really applies to men who actually are attractive to women. Not some incels.

Imagine you are having a great date and at the end he says 'so are we fucking tonight'...even if you were going to the fact that he asked will make you feel gross. Its the same when a woman pushes for you to commit. Even if you were thinking about it and about to do it. It makes you feel 'the ick' because you start to feel like a means to an end.

This has happened multiple times to me. But it happened again recently and it got me thinking.

In the same way a man has to turn you on to make you want to sleep with him. A woman has to 'turn you on' to commit. Women who don't realise that struggle to get it.

And in the same way, men have to figure who is a cocktease and who isn't. Women need to figure out who is willing to commit. But demanding it is a pretty much a sure fire way to not get it. A woman who isn't looking out/ trying so hard for it is most likely to attract it. And a man who isn't trying to get laid will get Women who want to sleep with him.

Thoughts?