turning 25

Prestigious_Water336 · 2025-05-24T08:29:46+00:00

This takes longer than just 1 year to get good at.

I started doing game at 21. I didn't get good at it until around 26-27.

You gotta keep going out and grinding your social skills and social intuition.

Tyler020 · 2025-05-24T08:42:51+00:00

Steroids!? What??

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-05-24T09:55:10+00:00

Reading your posts -not just this one- and you saying you feeling unlovable, I don’t think being good at the game will solve your problem. You need some fundamental change, mindset-wise.

Substantial-Bad-4508 · 2025-05-24T14:24:02+00:00

Failure only exist when you do nothing but complain. Each failure is a success in disguise because you are then given the opportunity to understand what mistakes you have committed in order to improve your technique the next time around. So, stop telling yourself that you "suck" because you are your very own coach who is on the blackboard drawing the x's and o's towards the path of success.

In addition, being too picky can hurt your progress. Your attitude is similar to, "Tomorrow I want to bench press 800lbs!" when you're a skinny man who has never lifted weights.

Thus, I suggest that you work on your sense of confidence (your belief in yourself) and start practicing on your game with any opportunity that you can have because "practice makes perfect."

norwegiandoggo · 2025-05-24T09:27:47+00:00

Reading your post, i can 100% understand why women don't want to touch you with a 10 foot pole. Abhorrent mindset.

Betyouwonthehehaha · 2025-05-24T13:00:29+00:00

Bro you could’ve been pimping but instead you decided to be a racist incel smh

StepGeneral3597 · 2025-05-24T16:14:33+00:00

What is your definition of success? It seems like you’re doing very well, getting 6 new girls in over a year is nothing to be ashamed of.

Lord_Gooseduck · 2025-05-24T16:34:07+00:00

Girls will laugh at you for taking steroids and still lack self confidence. There is no easy way. Suck it up and start working on yourself

No_Relief7644 · 2025-05-24T16:35:20+00:00

If you think bulking up and taking steroids will help you, especially long term - makes me feel bad for you.

I lost my virginity when I was 25 and 4 years later I've slept with 8 women and honestly I don't even care anymore. I just want a girlfriend now.

I guess what I'm trying to say is I'm a skinny fuck but as I matured into my later 20s the maturity and confidence have come in and women respond better to me than ever. I don't look as good as I used to because I barely put effort in my appearance but I now know exactly what to do and where to go to meet women. The truth is it's different for everyone and it probably lies in what you're most passionate about. Lean into those communities.

Leading-Ad-4085 · 2025-05-24T18:14:48+00:00

Bulking up won't help. I was in your situation last year . I reached out , let's talk.

ResentCourtship2099 · 2025-05-25T02:38:48+00:00

I figure that's why the pickup artist and seduction industry has exploded in the past decade or more

AgentNightWing7 · 2025-05-25T09:51:38+00:00

Steroids will ruin your life

Title	turning 25
Author	GettingMoneyTrapStar
Upvotes	0
Comments	36
Date	May 24, 2025 8:21 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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