I just wan’t to start approaching

Pedalcrunch · 2026-06-11T18:34:56+00:00

takes practice, start by talking to strangers, it'll help.

TheMindthief · 2026-06-11T20:27:46+00:00

Which idea hurts more to you? Being rejected and ridiculed? Or dying alone knowing you were too afraid to act?

Independent-Bad218 · 2026-06-11T18:44:49+00:00

For that job you might as well pay your friend to push you into sets. Coaches can work, but set expectations for yourself first, a high level overview is provided here.

Just remember, that at the end of the day, seduction is a lonely road and it is you who has to do the inner work one way or another.

MankuTheBeast · 2026-06-11T18:46:06+00:00

Dont be shy. be yourself. And go for it.

I mostly start simple. I would approach randomly and make the first a rejection on purpose. Direct "can I get your number" which leads to getting rejected and boom. I am ready : )

CrazyFrog22121998 · 2026-06-11T18:50:09+00:00

I do talk to strangers it became okey for me, just i feel like when i enter convo with some girls, part of me wants to escape from anxiety, also i was on a trip with few friends few months ago, and when i got into the flow state, i was approaching in the club with a little bit of pressure and pulled two numbers, its like i have to approach daily to stay in that state.

Special_Rice9539 · 2026-06-11T23:13:31+00:00

I still suck at making myself approach, so I do a lot of peacocking to get people to approach me. The cool thing about that is once you’ve had a couple interactions, you’re in a more social mood and approaching is easier

southparkslope · 2026-06-11T18:34:39+00:00

What’s stopping you?

Also if you did approach consistently, where do you think you would do it. Do you live in a city/town? Are you in uni?

South-Excitement1720 · 2026-06-12T19:23:28+00:00

In 20 years do you want to look back, and think "I am really happy I never approached anyone".

What about 30 years, 40 years, 50 years?

What when you cross over, will you want to look back on your life and be happy you never approached and think of all the oppurtunities you missed out on?

Title	I just wan’t to start approaching
Author	CrazyFrog22121998
Upvotes	8
Comments	23
Date	June 11, 2026 6:29 PM UTC (1 month ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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