The Definitive Seddit Inner Game Collection TofuTofu April 6, 2011 342 upvotes /r/seduction Hi guys. This post will be linked in the sidebar as the definitive Inner Game resource on seddit. Consider it the "hall of fame" of Inner Game posts. It will be updated as necessary. What is Inner Game? Inner Game is what goes on in your mind. It's the attitudes, values and emotions you carry with you in every moment of your life. A man with solid Inner Game will have few problems attracting women. He will have strong confidence and self-esteem. He is the man every one of you reading this should strive to be. I've put a lot of focus and effort into writing and collecting the best references on Inner Game possible. I encourage you to read the posts linked below. Revisit them from time to time and feel free to ask any questions you may have. Without further ado... My personal contributions on Inner Game. These should provide a good base to start from: Inner (and outer) characteristics that should define who you are as a man: Lesson 1: Primer on Being a Modern Alpha Male by TofuTofu How these characteristics are manifested internally and externally: Lesson 2: Alpha Body Language & Tonality AND MORE (from RSD) by TofuTofu How being happy affects your game and how to achieve happiness: Lesson 3: Importance of Projecting an Aura of Happiness and Well-being by TofuTofu What 'Giving Value' Means and its Importance: ON GIVING VALUE: Why you're not being invited out to do cool things by TofuTofu How to not let results affect your self-esteem: The Poker Analogy: Why Your Self-Esteem Shouldn't Be Dependent on Your Results by TofuTofu These are the best of the best Inner Game posts on seddit. Please read them carefully, they are worth your time: Inner Game traits of alpha males: The Inner Game of Being Alpha by MaysonNSS The 4 Foundations to Getting Success with Women by MaysonNSS How-to guide on improving your Inner Game: Ten Steps to strong inner game. (by me) by KillYourTelevision Another excellent guide on improving in pickup - baby steps: Pickup is Unicycling by Exurbia One sedditor's heartfelt story of inner game improvement: How I rebuilt myself by puaCurveBall Steps you can take to improve your being & mindset: How to play the game right. Just from what I know from my own experiences. by sparkreason How to carry the energy from your "good nights" with you as you develop: Peak Experiences defined: The Nights You Have That Top All Others and How To Have More of Them. by BLuefack How to be a value giver (read the comments): Give value without seeking approval. Can someone go more in depth on what this means? by unmovingshadow On having an abundance mentality: Scarcity vs Abundance: How neediness kills your game. by MaysonNSS On staying outcomes independent: Outcome Dependence: View From The Other Side by nycprowl On staying outcomes independent: Stop caring about outcome -> Entertain Self by testmypatience On eliminating neediness from your life: Why neediness is bad, why it exists, and how to fix it by chalengr Step-by-step guide for improving yourself: Lessons in Game by VanNorden On being in state and assuming attraction: Why Being In State is Important & Why NOT to Wait for IOIs, or, What Drinking Alcohol Taught Me by TofuTofu On how Vulnerability is totally congruent with Alphaness Vulnerability - Alpha vs Beta (and other concepts) by testmypatience Special advice for introverts: Introversion VS Extroversion and why it matters to you: Learn to vibe. by BLuefack Deep, detailed analysis of the core of self-esteem and inner game: Notes on "The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem" by Nathaniel Branden. Gets to the core of inner game issues. by thedude108 Small tips to improve your self-esteem & confidence: 10 Resolutions That Will Drastically Improve Your Life by MaysonNSS Some inspirational quotes: Some Quotes by frogma As per a sedditor's request: The 21 epiphanies that helped me in my quest to become better at seduction. by GreatBarrierReefer Buddhism and Inner game by bangthemermaid External Resources: "Intimate Connections" by David Burns (paperback) "The Blueprint Decoded" by Real Social Dynamics Lastly, many sedditors find the field reports [FR] on seddit to be inspirational. Feel free to read what your fellow sedditors are going through and comment. We all grow together. As you improve your Inner Game, please give back to the community as much as possible. Thank you.
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