TofuTofu's Texting Rule (Reminder on text game)

o0MickeyD0o · 2011-08-21T19:26:12+00:00

Great info! BUT I got a question for ya. Last night, picked up a number from a blonde HB7. I texted her at the end of the night with basic formalities..."nice meeting you tonight. Drive safe and have a good night." She texted back the next morning "so good to meet you you're a dancing fool"...

Question is, what would be the best way for a day 2? Should I have not shot the "nice meeting you" message? It was my 2nd night going out sarging ever...wayyy to eager for my firt success. So now it's "here" and I wanna go further...thoughts?

Ssaintt · 2011-08-21T22:03:33+00:00

Thank you for posting this. My sentiments EXACTLY.

StarkNYC · 2011-08-22T01:04:23+00:00

agreed - in the past, i put waaaayy too much thought into follow up game.... thinking that was my biggest problem as i had little issue getting numbers.

in actuality, i just didn't run solid enough game in the first place. now, i ask out fairly quickly over txt/call (i'll give it a 2nd or third try after waiting a week or so) and then just next her.

too many girls in the world to spend my time focusing on the ones who aren't excited about meeting up with me.

hiphoprising · 2011-08-22T03:10:50+00:00

Okay first I think what everyone needs to decide is the difference between being Alpha and being real. At some point, it is going to go against the grain of your personality to be this idea of "alpha" PUAs have created. I find that avoiding texting someone (if you enjoy texting) is not improving yourself to become an Alpha, it's pretending to be an Alpha. If you are actually busy and don't like dicking around on the phone, by all means, don't break your schedule to text back. But if you are a student (primary or secondary), chances are you may have some free time as most people's schedules are not air-tight. I feel as if pretending to be Alpha comes in direct conflict with actually being Alpha and should not be supported by this community.

WillPierce · 2011-08-21T18:51:47+00:00

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2StandardDeviations · 2011-08-21T22:26:06+00:00

Well said.

2011-08-22T02:20:55+00:00

Currently, i'm out of state but managed to get my ex and another girl DTF through texting. Now i'm walking on egg shells to not change their mindset while still keeping them close. Sucks!

moltar · 2011-08-22T02:28:44+00:00

I use it as a general rule for all texting. I barely text. Usually in situations where myself or recipient cannot talk. Every other time I call. Texting takes too much time. Its impersonal and cannot convey as much as voice tonality can.

puppy22 · 2011-08-22T04:01:17+00:00

What about casual "chatting" with girls via text? (Normal conversation back and forth about the day, about something exciting, etc.)

Do these "text chats" increase flaking? Even if she starts the convo and keeps it going?

TofuTofu · 2011-08-22T04:32:09+00:00

I'm in highschool. What about texts with numbers that are given out, not with the intention of asking someone out? For example, I've got the number of a friend of a friend who had texted me, because she didn't know where my friend is.

Or otherwise, I've got the numbers of all of my classmates.

2011-08-22T06:54:33+00:00

What if you've set a date, but it's 4-5 days in the future? In those situations I feel like I need to keep texting her to keep things from getting stale.

WolfInTheField · 2011-08-22T14:07:05+00:00

See, i just blew it on a fairly solid number over this yesterday. Crap, i saw the light too late again :P Thanks TT, will remember it for the future. Seems I'm going sarging tonight :P

TofuTofu · 2011-08-22T17:27:48+00:00

I hear from a lot of good guys that calling instead of texting is way better. What's your opinion?

Vurv · 2011-08-22T04:15:33+00:00

Real [1] Modern Alpha Males are too busy being awesome to have time to text back and forth all day with women.

If you ever hear "Is your phone broke? It usually takes me an hour to get a text from you after I send one", you're probably doing things right.

Speedtarzanjujitsu · 2011-08-22T06:53:04+00:00

I've been trying to show this concept to my fraternity brothers. You have no idea how addicted to cell phones some of them have become. I'm teaching them to put it down and go have a casual conversation with someone random. I've been showing them this by leaving my phone at home and responding to people on MY time. It's helping pull them out of the social awkwardness that so many of them have.

Title	TofuTofu's Texting Rule (Reminder on text game)
Author	TofuTofu
Upvotes	91
Comments	42
Date	August 21, 2011 6:26 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/jpswl/tofutofus_texting_rule_reminder_on_text_game/
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