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| 2 | Be the bossAnd if it's the former, you simply chose wrong. In which case it's still your fault for not seeing the signs. Sure, I get your point. I guess I’m just a little more sympathetic to the fact that it really does only come with experience — behind every guy who is successful with women there is heartbreak, a man who was taken for a ride. Sidenote: good to see you post in here again. Been a while. Thanks. I got older and life’s gotten busier. All good things. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/25 01:36 PM |
| 4 | Be the bossYeah, the problem with the OP is that he’s trying to reason his girl out of a position she didn’t reason herself into… you can’t negotiate desire or respect, which are two facets of the same stone. That said, overtly communicating your expectations isn’t a bad thing either. My wife packs me a lunch for work because I told her explicitly it’s what I want; she wants to be a “good girl” because “good girls get orgasms”. Likewise, if she acts like a brat I tell her so and then punish her in bed. Any… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/25 02:36 PM |
| 13 | How to hookup with 1 new girl a week from Tinder (Aug 2025)you need an apartment in the more expensive part of town Admittedly I did not read the whole OP. But I will comment that logistics is and has always been one of the most important pieces of getting laid. Your point is no different than knowing the good date spots and having social context wherever you do go out — setting matters. It’s not that having an apartment in an expensive area is important, it’s that you need to have somewhere to go nearby wherever you find/go out with women. It’s why fra… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/25 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Is it truly possible for a woman to desire you when you don't have the right body type?Oh, my comment wasn’t for you…. it was a metacommentary for anyone else who might be reading, to demonstrate a manifestation of the concept called “female solipsism” — a tendency for women to disregard general principles and trends in the face of a self-centered view of the world. It’s not that your comment is wrong as much as it is irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 10:38 AM |
| 12 | Is it truly possible for a woman to desire you when you don't have the right body type?OP: Women are generally attracted to a muscular physique. I have both anecdotal evidence and a formal study that demonstrates this. You: Yeah, but I don’t feel that way. \eyeroll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 09:01 AM |
| 4 | Many of you don't know what "Frame" isThey are smart people You are missing the point: I am not convinced that an individual with an Ivy League tier education is smarter on average than someone who graduated from a state school. Anecdotally I will acknowledge that MIT, Caltech, and a (very) few technical schools do provide a stellar education, but that simply indicates that a civil engineering graduate of MIT will design an excellent bridge. It says nothing about their critical thinking ability, nor does it translate to an ability t… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/21 06:11 PM |
| 13 | Many of you don't know what "Frame" isPlaying "who is the smartest?" is indeed a popular game among coastal-city-dwelling liberals. This is easy to notice. What fewer people notice is that there are many, many games of this form, simply with the adjective replaced. These games can, and indeed will, be found in every group of people. The trick is spotting the game, and knowing when and when not to play it. To flesh this out, opting not to play the game isn't simply checking out of the interaction. If you learn to operate on this meta… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/21 08:57 PM |
| 8 | Thoughts on asking to kiss someone?Don’t ask. I’ve had some pretty good success with saying something like “I’m going to kiss you now” back when I first started and was super nervous, but it’s not really necessary at all. But I’m also curious to hear how you might react to someone shy avoiding eye contact. Needs more data. Sometimes it’s because they really are shy — the tell is that they glance back at you when they think you aren’t looking. I don’t bother with women who give off a vibe that they really do not want me to approac… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 04:18 AM |
| 13 | As the average American woman is a whopping 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 135lbs and a size 4 to 6 now considered "high standards"?If you’re ahead of the bell curve, you can expect to hit those ahead of the bell curve. This is empirically untrue. Women aren’t as visual as men, so being in shape isn’t necessary nor sufficient to get laid. That said, being in shape makes the game way easier, in addition to all the other benefits. Muscles are a force multiplier for game. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Charisma and not so positive moodHow much can you deadlift? | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone else think Latinas are god awfully overrated?This is a fair response. Admittedly I did not read the rest of your comment; I have a bad habit of glazing over when I hear the word "racist", because what follows 99.9% of the time is an appeal to emotion, devoid of substance. I will do so now; here I can give you the benefit of assuming it was just sloppy writing. I believe the experience that you or any other member might assert is an individual and subjective experience. It is not representative of an entire race of women, but only your anec… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone else think Latinas are god awfully overrated?Not to mention it’s actually a pretty racist assertion. Who cares? What information does this add to your comment? | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Men’s biological imperative is to spread seed. Does a vasectomy reduce your power base?This thread is hilarious. +1 /u/Halitenina | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 02:33 AM |
| 2 | How to act when plate refuses your booty call“Some other time.” Then wait for her to reach out. She either will or she won’t. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 02:27 AM |
| 1 | If you know a "friend" is waiting a day to respond to your messages, how would you reply?I don't even want to reply to his last msg Then don't. I don't want him holding a grudge for the future Don't flatter yourself. He probably isn't even thinking about you. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Plate keeps asking for money, I won't budge. What do?Give gifts to girls who inspire, not because they demand. i try to escalate but she won't put out since I keep denying her the money. Are you dating a whore? It sounds like you are dating a whore. In the literal sense. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 09:30 PM |
| 5 | Taking the dating world way too seriously and it harms my productivity and moodYeah, he’s a sperg. How do I handle these "losing the game" thoughts? Women seem like the most important thing in the world until you have easy access. It’s kind like food being important to someone who is broke while you are secure with the knowledge that you can touch your phone in the right ways and a hamburger will show up at your door just like daddy likes it. (Fried onions, pickles and tomato. Double meat, hold the sauce.) If the BK Lounge is closed then you can just order Wendy’s. Or you … | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 09:24 PM |
| 19 | Once you see your LTR has been texting her ex is the relationship fucked?Why would you want to be with someone so blatantly disrespectful? There are so many women out there. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 09:13 PM |
| 15 | Making friends as an adultPeople develop social relationships by being in proximity with each other over time, not by sharing particularly strong experiences. That’s why you’ll be better friends with your XBox gamer buddies than your old college friend who took a trip to Italy with you for two weeks, even though you can remember a lot more details about Europe than Mario Kart. Frequent the same locations at similar times of the day/week. Invite people out, even if it isn’t to do stuff particularly exciting. Facetime is m… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Getting average grades but studying a week beforeAs someone who didn't do outstanding in school, I am not equipped to offer concrete advice. For what it is worth, it has never hindered me; despite going to a shitty school and not getting outstanding grades, I am really good at my craft, and work alongside people who were educated at the likes of MIT and Caltech, making the same salary and working on the same interesting problems. What I will say is that working harder at what you are doing right now is unlikely to help if you are optimizing to… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Getting average grades but studying a week beforeBecause good grades don't correlate with understanding the material as much as your ability to game whatever system your professor uses to award good grades. For example, you can know the information inside and out and still get blown out of the water by your peers who have the (recycled) questions in advance. Academia is such a joke. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 04:48 PM |
| 5 | How do you guys deal with disrespect?Or look them in the eyes and say tell me again. They will shit themselves ... or he might deck you in the face. Or, in the better scenario, try to deck you in the face, to which you respond by knocking him flat on his back. Now you get tossed out of the bar. Your date thinks you are an AMOGing jackass, which you are. Your night is basically over, since your buzz will certainly be ruined by the adrenaline rush of putting a guy into the ground. But at least you didn’t let some drunk asshole be dis… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 07:16 AM |
| 9 | real-world shit tests and how you passed themTalk to people when you are out and about. It is scary and hard the first thousand times but the 1,001th time is a little easier and you can start observing rather than getting caught up in your anxiety. Next time you go get coffee, tell the cute barista that you didn’t really want coffee, you just wanted to talk to her. Then obnoxiously read her name tag out loud. Make sure to have a big shit eating grin on the whole time. She will almost certainly roll her eyes, you’ll realize you haven’t spon… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 03:41 AM |
| 10 | real-world shit tests and how you passed themcan I teach my brain to THINK in this way QUICKLY to answer in less than a second? Make yourself laugh. Say things that you find funny regardless of what she thinks, not specifically because she will or won’t get offended. how did you master humor? any suggestions? Study it. Seriously. When you watch a movie or someone tells a funny story that makes you laugh, take a moment to reflect on why it was funny... besides the content, think about the rhythm of speech, the comedic timing, the eye contac… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 03:18 AM |
| 11 | How do you guys deal with disrespect?ast Saturday I'm at the bar and some 5'4 looking white knight starts threatening me after he claims I spilled some girls drink when walking past. Every single time I end up apologizing or just taking it That is what I would do, especially if I am just walking by and he stopped me, with no one else listening. People are crazy. It's not worth getting hit over the head with a stool to protect your ego. Extract yourself from the situation and laugh at the guy with your buddies for being a jackass wh… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 09:27 PM |
| 1 | An Upton Sinclair quote for the ManosphereBut OMG is he a horrible speaker. His YT channel is borderline unwatchable because of his inability to make a point in a cohesive, time-conducive manner. The best in a field often aren't super articulate. The ability to communicate effectively is itself a skill and says nothing about the speaker's mastery of the topic about which they are speaking. (Particularly, the only important thing is that an individual can communicate with other experts in his field.) Not making a case for Rollo either wa… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/21 08:14 PM |
| 15 | An Upton Sinclair quote for the ManospherePersonally, I don't recommend emulating anyone you don't envy, because if you follow people, you tend to end up where they are headed. This is worth highlighting. Don't hire the nutritionist who is fat. Don't work under the personal trainer who isn't strong. Don't take marriage advice from a therapist who is divorced. Don't take business advice from the tech-guru with three failed startups. Take advice from the person who is in the place you want to be. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/21 08:07 PM |
| 2 | BluePillers, what makes you still believe the bluepill? Have you gone from red/purple pill to blue pilled?Every time I come back to reddit I am reminded why I don’t come back more frequently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 08:01 PM |
| 1 | I am completely lost financially. Looking for advice.Where I come from, if $5,000 makes a huge difference one way or another, even over the long term, especially over the long term, then you fucked up. You picked a bad career, leveraged yourself into a bad financial position repeatedly, got screwed by your partner, or made some other series of bad decisions. And the effects are surprising: if you can save 50% of your take-home pay starting at age 20, you’ll be wealthy enough to retire by age 37. If you already have some assets now, you’re even clo… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/21 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Would you stay friends with your friend if he decided to transition to female?I will add that you can be proactive about this. In the last year I made a habit of taking thirty seconds to write down something I am grateful for every single day. Most of the time it is something silly like "I am thankful for having the ingredients and know-how to make a delicious, healthy breakfast" or "I am grateful for a job that pays really well and lets me sleep in", but the ability to open up hundreds of positive entries that I wrote myself really works wonders on my mental state when I… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 04:43 PM |
| 4 | I am completely lost financially. Looking for advice.frugal living strategies I have seen you give this advice before. I am still not convinced that living frugally is what will propel you to prosperity once you are making more than 60-70k a year. I can make my coffee at home instead of buying Starbucks and save three dollars. Then I can pay someone $12,000 to fix my central air conditioning. Unless you are grossly irresponsible, it is stuff like insurance and mortgage payments that make a difference, not being frugal in one's day to day. Living f… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 08:19 PM |
| 8 | Chick wants me to take her out on a date after ghosting me for 4 monthsCold texting a bitch that ghosted him. My last comment was more of a response to this idea in general than a follow up to the OP. Reading it again now, though, I'm still not sure what you are objecting to. He sent her a text to follow up from a first date, she ignored him. Maybe she was having a bad day. Maybe she was on the rag. Maybe she thought she had a chance with some hotter guy. Maybe she was in middle of something and just forgot to respond. The point is that they both moved on, and he d… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Chick wants me to take her out on a date after ghosting me for 4 monthsNah. Provided you haven't sent her a bunch of thirsty texts with no response (in which case she will be reminded when she gets your text and you are sunk out of the gate), it can be worth hitting a girl up one more time a while later, especially if you already have some kind of history. If she's looking to get some she is a lot more likely to sleep with an old hookup that she blew off than a random guy from a bar. Shit happens. People get busy. If a girl ignores a text (mildly disrespectful), pu… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 03:00 PM |
| 1 | When were your happiest times?Congratulations. Really. I have been told that there is nothing more fulfilling than having children if you have the drive to do so. If you don't mind me asking, did you actually feel a strong urge to have children, or was it something you came around to after your wife convinced you? What does it feel like? | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 02:12 PM |
| 15 | Chick wants me to take her out on a date after ghosting me for 4 months4 months later, she comes back to me talking about some “Hey stranger” and we get to talking This is where you fucked up. I know you want to get your dick wet, but don’t you have any pride? At all? | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 01:40 PM |
| 1 | How do you get rid of a cuckold fetish?therapy has NOT helped because they all subscribe to that same bull shit of accepting it I don’t have any advice for you but I am cracking up at the image of some therapist telling you it is totally normal to want your girl to get plowed by another dude. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Damn, how do you cope with the realization that love isnt real?Appreciate the flip side: that love is fake means it can be manufactured. Use that to your advantage. https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/66ct8o/the_two_sides_of_romance/ | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 06:22 AM |
| 3 | Is it ever ok to ask a girl from tinder/instagram out like " do you wanna..." Instead of " let's..."I am telling you that your situation is not so special or unique that the standard advice doesn’t apply to you. I read your post and literally rolled my eyes. Treat all women like the women they are. And I’m not judging you, dude. Ask /u/HumanSockPuppet; no one made more excuses than me back in the day about being special and unique. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 06:18 AM |
| 6 | How to deal with EDSure is. I used to be heavily addicted to caffeine. It can be done. Just gotta decide it is important enough. Ultimately there is nothing anyone can say to you that will fix your problems; maybe this will be the motivator you need. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 06:10 AM |
| 5 | Black men of Asktrp or honestly just men in general, do you call out hyper liberal BS?No, I let them let me fuck them as reparations. Sloots gonna sloot, no reason it shouldn’t be with me if it makes them feel good in more ways than one. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 06:06 AM |
| 21 | How to deal with EDPopsicle stick and a rubber band. Or, you know, you could stop taking drugs. That might help. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 05:58 AM |
| 26 | I’m feeling inferior to others due to my lack of incomeI’m scared of becoming a loser with no job. That is fair. You are about to be an unemployed loser. But that’s okay, since it is something external that can be fixed. I remember when I was unemployed out of school; that was when I learned that no one pays you for being smart. I feel inferior and stupid when I compare myself to others. Nah. I don’t know how smart you actually are, but tethering your self worth to your employment status is silly. You are going to feel shitty till you land a job, bu… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 05:55 AM |
| 20 | Where does someone with 0 experience startI work 80 hour weeks Fixing this would be a start. Why are you working 80 hours a week at sixteen years old? | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 05:47 AM |
| 5 | Is it ever ok to ask a girl from tinder/instagram out like " do you wanna..." Instead of " let's..."I have a unique situation Yeah I bet. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 05:41 AM |
| 8 | How has your experience been with the ultrakind girls?Sure. I am in a monogamous LTR with one. She is pleasant to be around and keeps me sexually satisfied. I acknowledge that it is an artifact of my strict conservative background, and a lot of guys would be happier with multiple LTRs, but this genuinely works for me. I don't want the headache of having a harem of women living with me, even if it means more sex and a feedback loop of keeping them attracted to me. I guess I'm just not as principled as many of the guys here: I don't optimize for bang… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Why aren't black chicks from the slums begging for a BetaBux?Don’t I? Please, educate me, then. I invite anyone to challenge my views. I beg anyone to present an intellectually honest argument that proves me wrong. I don’t value showing I am right nearly as much as being right. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 04:15 AM |
| 28 | Why aren't black chicks from the slums begging for a BetaBux?It’s simple: they don’t want to fuck you because you don’t turn them on. Human sexuality transcends class, race, and morality. People are are sexuality attracted to stuff that they intellectually don’t want to be all the time. And the opposite is true at well. It’s a problem loud-mouth feminists have to contend with. Why aren't these poor chicks begging for a guy to pay for her shit, or gunning for a green card, or whatever the fuck it is that girls want from Americans? Do these ghetto chicks on… | /r/askTRP | 01/03/21 02:55 PM |
| 2 | [Semi-Long] I purposely experimented being blue-pill on a plateOh right, I forgot to have you kicked out for moralizing. Doh /u/TheRedPike | /r/askTRP | 27/02/21 10:56 PM |
| 7 | Is anybody on here into nootropics ?Yes. They are drugs, and you should think of them as such. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/21 10:54 PM |
| 1 | [Semi-Long] I purposely experimented being blue-pill on a plateIt’s just science. If you think this is bad, wait till you hear about the Mouse House in the biology lab my roommate works in. This was not a good week for the Mouse House. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 07:46 PM |
| 1 | What is your experience with a narcissistic women?My experience is limited. I don’t hang out with nasty, unpleasant women. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Is your gut really ALWAYS right?Of course not. The way I cured my depression was to trust the process, contrary to everything my gut was telling me about it not being worth it to try. It’s often pretty good, though. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Views on Kevin Samuels ?a revolution is beginning. I'm glad to be a part of this movement. Kevin Samuels to me is a revolutionary for this era I have no idea who this guy is but if you recognize that he is a grifter then why are you willing to fall on the sword for his cause? | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 06:02 AM |
| 1 | NYC career advice (engineering vs. banking)I’m an engineer and I would blow my brains out if I had to do the sort of work my IB friends do, for 80 hours a week. That said, the majority of finance bros (read: first job out of school is IB) thrash 99% of tech bros in salary for the long term. So it depends what you are optimizing for; I know what I’d choose. I'm asking about the clout. Engineering pays enough in this regard if you are responsible: you won’t be dropping $1,000 for bottle service on a regular basis, but you can certainly liv… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 05:55 AM |
| 2 | What books are you reading?Most recently The Book of Why by Judea Pearl — it’s about his research in causal statistics. Very accessible and highly interesting. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/21 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Blackpilled past the point of no return. Now what?I’ve been blackpilled past the point of no return What does this even mean? Go be dramatic somewhere else. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/21 03:40 PM |
| 2 | How to make more money?No you got it wrong You bet. I’m not going to argue with you. I don’t really care about the way you invest. I just don’t want you offering advice that you are clearly unqualified to give. Capeesh? | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 03:55 AM |
| 3 | How to make more money?Yes. Literally. Go read about "the time value of money": there is a precise dollar amount you can calculate that represents the difference between cash in your pocket today vs. six months from now. Every day your money sits in Alibaba not growing is a day it could be growing elsewhere. And the stupidest part is that when Alibaba finally did start to trend upwards... you immediately sold. It is the absolute worst financial strategy you could have come up with, all because your ego is too big to a… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 02:35 AM |
| 6 | How to make more money?Why are you offering investing advice when the extent of your experience is Tesla, GameStop, and Google? e.g this Whenever I get into a losing position I put in a sell order for slightly more than I paid and sit on it. is terrible advice, precisely for the reason given by your next sentence. I'll probably break even due to the lawsuits) Hahahahaha no. Stop reading WSB. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Just came up on large sum of cash early 20's, keep my head down and be humble?I don’t know how much money you are talking about, but if it’s more than few thousand dollars I would speak to a professional financial advisor. If it’s not then dump it into your IRA; tax advantaged growth is a better return than the best risk-adjusted investment you’ll have access to. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 04:05 AM |
| 1 | The Most Important ThingI think a lot of what most people describe as "talent" is actually "enjoyment of practice". Kind of. That is why I tell people not to go into software engineering if they don't truly love it. It's hard to compete when you must force yourself to train while your competition actively enjoys the grind. Call it "genetics", or "non-genetic inheritance", or plain, old fashioned "luck". I don't entirely agree with the argument, since I have seen first hand that there really are people who simply "get i… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/21 07:20 AM |
| 0 | The Most Important ThingYour inner-engineer is showing. This is a great post. When you find yourself unmotivated, undisciplined, afraid, unwilling to proceed, trapped by despair... recognize that this is just belief that something is intractable. This is the key point I got out of your article, and I am somewhat torn about it. On the one hand, I think there is a big problem with the "blackpill" crowd where this becomes very relevant. It is clear that they suffer from the delusion that their very tractable problems are … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/21 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Found Out My Unicorn Is Not A Unicorn. Anger Phase"Should" is just a one word synonym for "I want it to be the case that". So you want to maintain self respect, dignity, whatever, however you subjectively define these things, at the expense of getting laid. Personally I don't even see using Tinder as demeaning, but I won't make that argument because it's besides the point. If you go into a bar and act like the douchiest douche in all the land, like that enormous asshole who wears his sunglasses at night who every sexless loser sniggers at over … | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Found Out My Unicorn Is Not A Unicorn. Anger Phaseno grown man with self respect should be on a dating app I never had much success with dating apps, but for the guys who can get it to work it is by far the most efficient way to get some strange. As easy as ordering a pizza. Refusal to capitalize on that because of your principles of “self respect” is bonkers. You do you. I would rather get laid. then don’t talk about “vetting.” I do agree with this as a rule of thumb — girls you meet on dating apps are a self selecting population. The ones wor… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 04:34 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when your girl is sad?https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8mjrkx/tears/ | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Lack of escalation and how to proceedPolarize. Make a move, and don’t give her an out that isn’t a clear, unambiguous rejection. Then you’ll know where you stand. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Why women after CC of 10 or more sausages are Damaged Goods? (the core reason)The fact itself happens to be unattractive. But if a woman manages to pull the wool over my eyes and makes me genuinely happy then more power to her. Ultimately I am optimizing for my own personal happiness, not some crazy MRA principle. Same goes for men. This has not been true in my experience. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 10:06 PM |
| 1 | What is being red pilled?I'm just confused as to what being redpilled is, and if I should join the subreddit. Are we the guys everyone thinks are neckbeards, or is this sub actually deeper and about self improvement Beats me. How about you try it out and report back? | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 08:56 AM |
| 7 | Why do girls send nudes and ghost shortly after?Because they’re bored. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 08:53 AM |
| 2 | [28 M] Need motivation to move out (call for help)!There is no magic combination of words anyone can say that will make you not a bitch. Moving out is hard. Life is hard. But you’re 28 and still your mother makes your bed... and that’s too long. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 08:51 AM |
| 14 | What twitter accounts are popular among red pilllers for self improvement and game?I don’t subscribe to the idea that self improvement is found by following Twitter accounts with profile pictures of dead philosophers. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 08:47 AM |
| 1 | In need of some career/job adviceI don't have a coding job So what you’re saying is you don’t know what you’re talking about? I’m not sure why you are offering advice about how to get a programming job when you’ve never had a programming job. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/20 07:03 AM |
| 23 | Is it ever OK to ask? Or be direct.Is it ever OK to ask a girl WTF she wants? Sure. Just realize that women have no idea what they want. The rule of thumb is that whenever a woman offers an opinion about something you should stick the words “Right now I feel that...” in front of it. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 07:05 PM |
| 14 | Should i leave my GF? She is bellow average and fatIt is your fault if your girlfriend is fat and you’ve been dating her for a somewhat significant amount of time. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 07:02 PM |
| 7 | LTR too soon and now I'm facing subtle consequencesHoly wall of text | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 06:38 PM |
| 24 | Should I wait for my girlfriend to call me after we had an argumentDon’t get visibly angry. It gives the impression that you aren’t in control of your emotional state. If you really can’t get a grip then shut up till you can. A stern talking-to is more productive than an angry tirade, because her thought process becomes “how do I get his approval” instead of “how do I get him to stop yelling at me”. I don’t have to yell at my girlfriend; telling her I am disappointed is far more devastating. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 06:35 PM |
| 2 | girl just texted me this..“I don’t think we should see each other anymore. I’m afraid I might hurt you again.” Either she will leave you, in which case she probably has some dumb bitch friend giving her advice and you didn’t have a chance, or she will back peddle so fast you will feel the splash. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Men have completely ruined women. We need to fix the problem at it's root.The problem with women today has nothing to do with “simps” — loser-men aren’t your competition. The problem is that with the advent of instant communication you are competing with every single guy in a 50 mile radius instead of whoever she bumps into during the day. Fortunately for men, women are fickle. So you don’t have to actually be better than every other man, you simply need to offer her the perception that you are. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/20 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Just "dumped" plate. Is her respone what you call a beta bait?Nothing says “not chasing” like agonizing over her texts and posting them online to get input from others. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 10:50 PM |
| 2 | My LTR hate the fact that I am working out ?Have you actually had a real conversation Hahahahaha get a load of this guy! And I’ll bet you think good communication is the key to a happy relationship, right? Don’t mind my pointing and laughing, everyone has to learn the ropes once. I do suggest you talk less and read/observe more, though. Helps with the process. The answer here is to smile and say “okay”. Make it clear that you aren’t working out for her. Maybe punish her for talking disrespectfully, but that’s a more general thing. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 10:23 PM |
| 13 | My LTR hate the fact that I am working out ?Time for a demotion. Harsh. Women who say they don’t like muscles aren’t lying — they really believe their own bullshit. No need to backhand her with an iron fist unless she actively sabotages you or just starts to genuinely piss you off. Just ban her from the room while you are working out if you need to. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 10:14 PM |
| 7 | Shall I tell my friend about weird situation regarding his gf?No. Mind your own damn business. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 08:11 PM |
| 13 | Girl I'm dating gets crazy on her periodThere is a difference between “I know my hormones are out of whack so let’s just cool it till this passes. I’m sorry and I will make it up to you when I am feeling better” and “I am an enormous bitch who expects to get away with anything because muh period”. Any girl worth LTRing will recognize and acknowledge when she is PMSing. Litmus test — ask her “hey, are you on your period right now?” | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 03:51 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean when a girl replies saying that "she doesn't know what she wants" after you ask her what she is on online dating for?Why are you listening to what women say? | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 09:02 PM |
| 3 | What does it mean to create emotion?https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4bivhd/seduction_in_one_picture/ | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Should I reply?What are you trying to accomplish? | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 02:35 AM |
| 2 | How to handle girl mentioning her past boyfriends?This guy gets it. +1 /u/CrazyHorseInvincible /u/TheRedPike | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 02:34 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle non-apologies such as "I'm sorry that you think that I'm such a bad girlfriend"?Ignore her tantrum. Be a strong, masculine presence. she was obviously upset about something and when I calmly told her "Don't do that. Be direct and communicate properly,” This is autistic, of course your girlfriend isn’t behaving. You’re not leading her properly. When my girl gets moody (on the rag or otherwise) as all women do, she retreats into her shell and apologizes when she feels better. You’re setting yourself up for a bad time by being intolerant of disrespect when you don’t inspire an… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Is the big key to TRP not being emotionally invested?Depends what you are looking for. There’s all kinds of useful stuff here and you are kind of missing the forest for a tree if the only takeaway you get is “don’t be emotionally invested”. It’s certainly a good rule of thumb when you’re starting out, but it doesn’t hold generally. Read HumanSockPuppet’s bitch management hierarchy guide. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | How do I get my successful uncle to mentor me?I should probably join them in the town square if we are going to continue to play free association. I’ll make sure to pack my riot gear, I could use a new TV. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | How do I get my successful uncle to mentor me?Heretic. That's old news. It's a good thing we don't stone people in the town square anymore (as much as some people would like to). Although someone recently pointed out to me that you can't have pre-marital sex if you don't get married, so we may be in the clear on that front. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/20 09:27 PM |
| 1 | How do I get my successful uncle to mentor me?I didn't actually expect you to know. All the people who ask about "finding a mentor" really just want someone to given them the master cheat codes to life. There are some cheat codes (as evidenced by this sub), but there is no magical combination of words anyone can say that will fix all of your shit for you. Figure out what specific thing it is you want, find someone who can help you with that specific thing, and ask them about that specific thing. I have an uncle -- my father's brother -- who… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/20 05:07 PM |
| 1 | How do I get my successful uncle to mentor me?So my question is, how do I ensure that he'll mentor me if I ask? What exactly would you be asking for? | /r/askTRP | 19/08/20 03:06 AM |
| 11 | What should I do when a girl is standing in front of me pretending I'm not there and she can't hear what I'm saying?Totally ignoring you and avoiding eye contact isn’t a shit test. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/20 09:48 PM |
| 44 | Share a typical daily schedule/ routine of a purposeful man.When I’m tired I sleep in. You enjoy being awake at the crack of dawn, I would rather be well rested even if that doesn’t make me a “purposeful man” or whatever. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/20 12:25 PM |
| 3 | Warning shot before breaking up?The problem here is that you kind of shit the bed by promoting a woman to LTR who doesn’t deserve it. Obviously calibrating your attention levels is always something you’ll need to do, but if you’re ignoring her for more than a day to keep her in line then something is wrong on a foundational level. Is pulling back attention the right thing to do here? Yes. Also demote her. Permanently. If she comes around then that’s great. If not, you’ll be too busy spending time with women who are actually pl… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Warning shot before breaking up?If she is an LTR then you can call out bad behavior directly. She will probably cry, and if she’s not actually LTR material then she might double down. As a guy it is your responsibility to lead your woman. Lead her. There’s a good chance you won’t be able to pull this off if you’ve been letting her ride herd all over you over the course of your relationship, but it’ll be good practice if you’re planning to break it off anyway. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Why the fuck isn't a clean diet one of the core principles of TRP?Sperg-like typing detected. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Why the fuck isn't a clean diet one of the core principles of TRP?I don’t get annoyed at people for not being as smart as I am — if I did then I would be annoyed quite often. I meant that I am less willing to wait to figure out that someone is teachable once they give me the slightest reason to think otherwise. Unlike you, if a guy tells me to go read Marx when I ask him to explain his point then I won’t even respond. The most sophisticated pathfinding algorithms are useless when applied to an NPC who is fundamentally incapable of leaving the tiny zone his pro… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Why the fuck isn't a clean diet one of the core principles of TRP?You have a lot more patience than I do. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Why the fuck isn't a clean diet one of the core principles of TRP?Show some gratitude you mong. What are you trying to prove in a space where guys who are winning at life are offering to help you win at life, free of charge? I don’t know why I let myself get surprised again and again by just how one dimensional people can be. Or maybe you’re just stupid and really don’t get it. I’m trying to give you a shred of credit, but your response is so inane that you are making it really difficult. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 07:32 AM |
| 25 | Why do girl say they don’t like muscular guysThey usually don’t realize it. Well-adjusted women genuinely want to be attracted to a guy who treats them nicely and isn’t necessarily the most conventionally attractive (physically and behaviorally). So they project and delude themselves into thinking that’s what they really want, because it’s hard to admit you are shallow when your whole life you are told that you are the fairer sex while men are shallow pigs. It’s the same reason why the most committed woman in the most gratifying, stable re… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/20 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Risk of losing job if I dont shit where i eatLeaving on read is just as dangerous as banging her. No it’s not. You aren’t professionally obligated to be her friend. You are professionally obligated to not stick your penis inside of her and/or make advances that can be interpreted as sexual. Stop thinking with your dick. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/20 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a high paying carer 23/M (long)Sure. I didn’t formally study CS and some of my coworkers didn’t even go to college. There is definitely a higher barrier to entry, but once you are in your formal education doesn’t matter at all. You just need to catch a break. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/20 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a high paying carer 23/M (long)It’s short for computer science. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/20 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Looking for a high paying carer 23/M (long)the first 5 years are 1000% dog shit All of my investment banker friends made 130k+ at entry level. Dogshit for sure if you think about it as an hourly rate, but the bottom line is comparable to software. and then the last 10 years are lots of hours but high pay. The OP asked how to maximize his paycheck. I don’t think it’s worth it, and it sounds like you don’t either. But our feelings about that wasn’t what he asked. Worse yet, this career pathway is in heavy structural decline I will admit th… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/20 04:03 AM |
| 1 | “Sweetie”I don’t know why you tolerate such disrespect. There are so many women out there who don’t act like enormous bitches. Seeing her for dinner with a few friends in a bit. Don’t forget your wallet. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/20 03:51 AM |
| 3 | Looking for a high paying carer 23/M (long)CS is good out the gate but peaks early. After 10 years any successful finance bro will beat out 99% of tech bros. As a software engineer myself, I would never give up the freedom I have at my job and the interesting problems I get to work on. But I suffer no delusions about what my bottom line will look like compared to my friends’ who are working 70 hours a week as investment bankers. Sounds miserable to me, but they get that fat check come bonus time. It’s a question of priorities. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/20 03:44 AM |
| 11 | People underestimate how freaking poor young people are today compared to the past and how much that affects their dating and sex livesI don't think the majority of women want to date men. I've literally never seen anyone get asked out in real life in any public place and the majority of my male friends are virgins as well. I don’t know dude, have you ever asked out a girl you’ve been casually hanging out with? It’s just that what you describe is so foreign to my experience. I mean, it’s hard to put yourself out there and I do get rejected a lot, but 99.9% of the time she’s more embarrassed than I am to turn me down. And I’m no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Muscle Men, Intellectuals, and the Perpetual StudentPeople get in the habit of looking for hidden messages in my writing. I don't know why. It's a bad habit that makes us human. Now, I have future plans for this train of thought, that involve talking about Cicero, the modern university, the job market, and public education... but that's for another day. Looking forward to it. Both of those things existed in the universe before TRP, and young men still needed TRP because they lacked specific knowledge about seduction. Young men... fail because the… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/20 07:43 PM |
| 4 | Muscle Men, Intellectuals, and the Perpetual StudentBut what other way is there? I don't know. That was my question. In the past, /u/Whisper has written articles about the general method of how to improve at any particular skill. The idea that domain specific knowledge trumps intelligence is not a new observation, and isn't particularly helpful beyond inflating your ego when you fail. So I am struggling to understand what the takeaway of this article is. Same thing can be said for fitness where the industry is full of fake gurus, BS supplements, … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/20 02:34 PM |
| 15 | Muscle Men, Intellectuals, and the Perpetual StudentThe vast majority of your failures did not and will not come because you aren’t strong enough, or smart enough, or blessed with some other critically necessary capacity, but because there was some key piece of information you didn't know. Maybe I am missing something, because I don't find this inspiring at all. If I could use my muscles and/or intellect to solve a problem then I could get ahead in life through sheer willpower. There is a genetic piece to it -- we all have natural strengths and w… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/20 03:26 AM |
| 5 | Best response to a “maybe” or “I’ll let you know” when asking a girl out, without seeming butt hurt.Nothing. Don’t respond. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Is being a good listener an attractive trait?Stop being autistic and go get laid. If you are in an environment where acting like a douchy frat bro will get you laid (indicated by who is getting laid) then you are weak for having such a big ego that you actively refuse to do what you need to do. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/20 06:22 AM |
| 2 | I cancelled on her. Did I do the right thing?What on earth does this have to do with sexual strategy? Why are you asking this here? | /r/askTRP | 29/06/20 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Question about sex for Red Pilled practicing StoicsI find this something hopeful and uplifting to look to. An ideal of the kind of person I want to be. Sure. But make sure you are doing things because you want to do them, not because some guy who has been dead for 1,000 years says you should. Framed in this context, I think your question boils down to "how can I reconcile being a 'good person' with spinning plates?", independent of Stoicism. My personal answer is that I don't believe having plates makes me a "lesser man" or whatever. And it's no… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Question about sex for Red Pilled practicing StoicsThe whole point is to act however you want. Do whatever you want because you want to, weighing the consequences of potentially breaking the law, getting beat up, or becoming a social outcast against potential gains. All this is to say that if you are adopting "Stoicism" like you would a religion then you aren't getting it. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Mid 20s. Don't give a shit about muchLet’s be precise. Power is the ability to maneuver. It is the means to pivot, to make a change to your life with no external oversight. As you gain more power, your sphere of influence expands, allowing you to control others, but even this is just an extension to the fundamental idea of power: the ability to shape your own destiny. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 07:37 PM |
| 7 | LTR constantly comfort tests me, and it’s getting annoyingYou get it. To further clarify, a relationship isn't a coin that you decide to give her. It's not a one-time commitment. Being in a relationship with a girl is a continuous decision. And you don't owe it to her to hang around, because she was getting as much out of the relationship as you were -- likely more, if you're ready to leave. If she wasn't, she would have left. So you don't even need a good excuse or justification to leave. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.What? I have no idea what you’re talking about. Great writing has minimal ambiguity. If your intention is to communicate information and there is discussion about what you really meant then you failed as a writer. All of this is to say that if you have a point then spell it out, for your audience if not for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/20 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Go macros, kill micros. Take some real pills.Uncompromising rejection of the narrative isn’t what TRP is about, dummy. TRP is about what works, regardless of how it fits the narrative. Rejecting the narrative for its own sake is like an edgy middle schooler repeating a bad word he heard in a movie. And you’re missing the point if you’re trying to convince anyone of anything, even your so-called “audience”. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/20 11:12 PM |
| 1 | I belive that I cant attract any womenGood. My goal here is not to mindlessly insult you. I am successful enough in real life that bullying people on the internet doesn't really do it for me. I just want you to understand that everything in your life that makes you unhappy is your fault. At first that seems a little scary, and might even be a little hurtful. But the truth is that this realization is freeing. It means that anything that makes you unhappy is within your control to fix. Sure, some people have to work harder than others… | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 04:16 PM |
| 1 | I belive that I cant attract any womenYou’re missing the point. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 02:19 PM |
| 5 | I belive that I cant attract any womenIt’s unbelievable. Without fail, every single guy who comes in here with this shit defeatist attitude saying he will never attract anyone is not lifting. You say you’ve lifted weights in the past. Have you ever, at any point, squatted 3 sets of 5 at 1.5x your bodyweight? That’s like 12 weeks of training, 3 months, if you’re starting with zero foundation. According to a post you made a few days ago here, you’re fat, borderline obese. If you can’t even be honest here, on an anonymous forum with pe… | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 01:15 AM |
| 18 | Random text from unknown number saying “Hey” ?Don't you have anything better to do? | /r/askTRP | 08/05/20 12:41 PM |
| 4 | A Letter Of Appreciation and GratitudeWe don't. Society already gave away the store. Just enjoy life with cheat codes. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/20 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Do you ask women what happened when they throw a tantrum or suddenly get upset?The best and worst thing about text is that it is emotionless. Clearly she didn't pick up on the fact that she got to you, even if you know that she did. Everyone loses frame sometimes. If you're lucky enough to get away with it then file the experience away as a lesson to learn from and move forward. But it creates confusion inside my head, cause the reality says the otherwise, the results are more similar to failing comfort tests, instead of shit tests. Go with what works. You're missing the e… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 08:30 PM |
| 7 | A Letter Of Appreciation and GratitudeThis is nothing new. Women don't want liberty. They don't know what to do with it. They want daddy -- a biological father, a dominant boyfriend, a federal government -- to tell them what to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/20 08:24 PM |
| 4 | Do you ask women what happened when they throw a tantrum or suddenly get upset?then the energy changed back to attraction, normal level, as before. Sounds like you got the result you wanted. What's the problem, here? Basically, once you soft next and get back, it's like you always have to soft next, until hard next. Yup. When she keeps being annoying and you get tired of it then you move on. Most women aren't worth the squeeze, especially once you let them get out of control. Gotta shut down that shit early, set expectations right out of the gate. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/20 05:09 PM |
| 3 | A girl sent a snap of another guy. Did I react correctlyThis is precisely why predictable behavior ("streaks") isn't desirable with a plate. It leaves no question in her mind of how you feel towards her. Until you switch over to control game, you want her to be second guessing herself. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/20 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Is anyone else finding it impossible to meet up with NEW plates since the coronavirus lockdowns? How can a guy adapt?The number of words you write is inconsequential. If your methods won’t work for others then your response was not relevant to this thread. OP: How do I get laid in XYZ context? You: Here’s what I do that really works for me. Faggot. But it won’t work for you. And I won’t confirm that it helped me get laid, either. See the problem? | /r/askTRP | 06/05/20 03:33 AM |
| 2 | For those that eventually married/ltr, how did you decide it was right to do so?LTR. It wasn’t a one-time choice, it’s a continuous decision to stay with her. Don’t get married like an idiot. It offers you nothing you don’t already have. open up to Yeah, don’t do that either. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/20 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Is anyone else finding it impossible to meet up with NEW plates since the coronavirus lockdowns? How can a guy adapt?I have no idea what you are talking about. Let’s try this again. Right now there is a global pandemic going on. For the most part, people are staying indoors. OP asked how he can hook up with new women in this particular climate. You responded along the lines of “stop being a faggot and do whatever the fuck you want. Get creative.” My question to you is: has that attitude actually helped you get laid in recent times, at all? Even once? Remember: I don’t care what normally works for you when ther… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/20 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Is anyone else finding it impossible to meet up with NEW plates since the coronavirus lockdowns? How can a guy adapt?My success here is mixed and isn't indicative of how others will come along. It's the best we've got. I would certainly prefer to hear "advice" from someone who did something that worked for them, even if it's only one data point, rather than something that hasn't been field tested at all. Personally, I don't have an answer for how to find new girls right now, which is what the OP asked, so I didn't say anything. Now for every girl sitting around at home sucking up a black hole of orbiters, ther… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Should I address my friends racist behavior?Now, one of the things he likes to do is make 'little' racist jokes, this can be from explaining how 'Japan deserved to be nuked'(great opinion to have at a anime convention), to glorifying the passive racism in some shows. I wouldn't classify him as a racist, but he definitely leans towards wrong scale of the spectrum. It would seem. Although I think we are talking about two different spectra. Find friends who know how to manage their autism. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Why did I have to be born with such trash genetics for gaining muscle?Are you eating enough? I had a lot of trouble bulking up for a long time because I wasn't getting enough calories down. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 10:17 PM |
| 8 | Is anyone else finding it impossible to meet up with NEW plates since the coronavirus lockdowns? How can a guy adapt?And are you having personal success with taking those approaches? I would also like to see the answer to this question. Your move, /u/FiveStarTendieDinner. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 10:16 PM |
| 16 | Love my LTR girlfriend, but she has gained weight and doesn't care/try to lose weightI literally told my LTR that she needs to lift weights three times a week. I used the words "expectations" and "standards" and didn't even feed her a bullshit line about merely wanting her to be healthy -- I told her that I also want her to look as great she could. When she expressed concern that I was judging her, I told her that I would definitely judge her if she started skipping workouts after I taught her what to do, but I can't be disappointed in her for not knowing any better. Which is tr… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Can you all recommend some good books?The Rise and Fall of the Third Reich. A word of warning, Shirer has this hangup about the Nazis being a bunch of closeted homos. Other than that, it's an awesome account of the war. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Why are TRP users essentially misogynistic but FDS users aren't vice versa?FDS constantly shits on men for the most idiotic reasons. And TRP doesn't? No. TRP shits on women for a very specific reason. Hint: it's not because anyone whose opinion counts there hates women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Plate cancel reply.Ignore. Obviously don't show up to the date, but let her wonder if you're pissed off or even got the message. It doesn't matter what you say. What matters is that you make her feel any emotion at all. Should i have offer other day? Not immediately. Let her bake a little. Hit her up again another time with a follow up date as if nothing happened. Or should i wait for her to suggest? Definitely not. You're almost always sunk if you even accidentally put the ball in her court. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/20 04:25 AM |
| 3 | What acts do you count as sex?I just date with low expectations and enjoy her till I don't anymore. If she makes me happy, managing to pull the wool over my eyes to hide the "character flaw" of "high n-count", more power to her. Circling back to banana bread, if she alters the recipe and bakes lots of sugar into it, and somehow I don't get fat, then everyone's happy. I'm certainly not going to avoid her (banana bread) on principle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 01:13 PM |
| 0 | What acts do you count as sex?So what’s the point of even wanting to know? Promiscuous women make my skin crawl. They are repulsive on a biological level, it's not a rational thing that I can explain. I don't want to know how many men she has been with, kind of like I don't want to know how much sugar is in this banana bread my girlfriend made for me. But it always bleeds through eventually, because too much banana bread makes me fat. So I'd rather know in advance than find out through experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 12:32 PM |
| 2 | How much do you think a good looking face matters for being successful with women?Right. There's nothing you're saying that isn't true, and I'm pretty sure the point I am making isn't lost on you. I just want to be clear for anyone else reading that the attitude "well, would you have a problem if she did/looked like that?" is dangerous, because there isn't a one to one mapping between sexual attraction for men and women. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Is cold approaching "indirectly" a fantasy? Never seen it work...The girl knows why you're still talking to her after you got directions and in my head it'll look like I'm trying too hard to be subtle. It's not about being subtle, because she's getting as much out of the interaction as you are. If she didn't want to talk to you she would excuse herself from the conversation. Women are a lot less fragile than you seem to think, and generally have extensive experience warding off unwanted male attention. If you measure effort by time spent and success by how ma… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 04:23 PM |
| 1 | How much do you think a good looking face matters for being successful with women?Not entirely correct. Women and men don't look for the same things in a mate. Men are attracted to tits/ass/face on a skin-deep level. Women are attracted to cannonball shoulders because a muscular physique indicates something about a man's disposition. In general, men can get away with being less physically attractive far more easily than women can, if they make up for it in other ways. It's the same reason why a hot girl can get away with acting literally autistic while a hot guy needs to have… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 04:17 PM |
| 6 | Making my move makes me feel cringe/awkwardMaking a move feels awkward until it doesn't. Just keep doing it and you'll get used to it. My "game" once she's back at my place (don't try this on a random bar ho) is to escalate aggressively until I get a hard no, and then recalibrate from there. So for me it's not a question of is she going to push my hand away?, it's how far can I get before she pushes my hand away?. And I can tell you that I have never had a girl freak out about this. Usually they are more embarrassed than anything, unable… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 01:18 PM |
| 1 | How long did your transformation to Alpha take?I hope to never become complacent. https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/734bvl/youre_not_good_enough_youre_not_smart_enough_and/ | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 06:37 AM |
| 3 | How much do you think a good looking face matters for being successful with women?Not as much as your shoulders. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 06:33 AM |
| 1 | How to reach abundance mentality if youve always been single?Pretend. Brain stems are stupid and can’t tell this difference between fact and fantasy in the context of your emotional state. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 06:32 AM |
| 1 | I forgot how to have fun.Learn to take life less seriously. It’ll come. https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/4bj7mk/i_forgot_how_to_have_fun/ | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 06:29 AM |
| 1 | This sub PREACHES “it’s just your turn” and “AWALT,” so why the fuck would you ever get in an LTR?It’s not that I think my girl won’t cheat on me. She might. I suspect not, but there’s always that chance. It’s more that she makes me happy when we are together. Eventually she may become annoying, or sleep with some other guy, but I’ll enjoy her while she’s still pleasant to be around, as long as that may be. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 06:22 AM |
| 1 | What do I do to get my finances.Thanks for the info about your “fairly meaty cock”. Have you tried mentioning that to girls you meet? | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 06:10 AM |
| 3 | Got asked "are you mad at me?:(". Will I look BUTTHURT if I respond this?Just say “nah” and stop there. Let her stew on that. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 06:04 AM |
| 12 | If and how to confront a girl who is spreading rumors about you?You don’t confront her. It’s a lose lose. By giving her the satisfaction of a response you are communicating that what she says has merit. Sounds like your friends know she’s a bitch so let her burn herself out alienating everyone. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 06:01 AM |
| 3 | Is it pointless to talk to a girl that lives far away?So like.... a friend? Are you asking if you should be friends with girls? | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think masculinity is under attack by the mainstream?Add to that the simple realization that authoritarian systems are absolute shit at identifying those who are valuable as innovators, instead of only valuable as ditch-diggers. Oh, absolutely. When I say "a few, select elite", I don't mean a monarchy or the highest scoring percentile of a state administered exam. (My choice of the word "select" was wrong.) I just don't agree with (or understand, perhaps) the premise that people will gravitate towards areas where they will be most productive like … | /r/askTRP | 24/04/20 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Why do you think masculinity is under attack by the mainstream?this can simply be understood as the difference between single-thread hill-climbing search and massively parallelized simulated annealing. Free minds are simply the latter approach applied over the noosphere, while free markets are an equivalent economic approach. I disagree. I would liken it more to the former, a single threaded gradient descent. The free market works because each individual seeking his local maximum collectively forms an efficient market. (I don't need to lecture you about the… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/20 02:58 AM |
| 7 | How to keep frame when you seem to lose control?Leave. Physically walk out of the room and calm down. Sometimes all you need is a change of scenery to break out of an emotional spiral. With practice it will take less time to recalibrate, simply requiring you to close your eyes and focus for a moment. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/20 06:22 AM |
| 5 | More philosophical question, why are men "hated"?One thing you seem to be really good at that I’ve been trying to learn is how to pick up on the insecurities of others. It’s useful for both men and women: “beta” (most) men love nothing more than having their insecurities pointed out to them by a confident man, and women are attracted to it on a primal level (“wow, he really gets me”). Any insight? | /r/askTRP | 16/04/20 06:19 AM |
| 7 | Should you suck up to high status people?Recognize that high status people are rarely going to actually help you unless they get a concrete benefit from it. I have the contact information of dozens of millionaires and a few billionaires, all of them on good terms and some even related to me. It still took me six months to find a job after school, and I landed it with zero outside help (not for lack of trying to leverage my network). Don’t act like an AMOGing doofus, but also don’t give out your respect unless others actually earn it. E… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Try this one weird trick to cure your anxiety. Psychiatrists hate it!why the phenibut? Why did I take it? Because I love playing with my biochemistry, always looking for the next "hack". I can't help myself when given an opportunity to try something new. I wouldn't actively seek it out, but until recently I wouldn't have hesitated to smoke meth if the opportunity presented itself, if only to experience it. My realization was that biology always wins. It's subtle, and we often forget in the moment, but when you're drunk you can't will yourself to be sober. Phenibu… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/20 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Try this one weird trick to cure your anxiety. Psychiatrists hate it!Eventually every guy who finds success with TRP realizes it’s his own damn fault. It's the most liberating idea to ever come out of this subreddit. Good to hear from you, dude. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/20 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Try this one weird trick to cure your anxiety. Psychiatrists hate it!... so that’s a no. Gotcha. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/20 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Try this one weird trick to cure your anxiety. Psychiatrists hate it!Your argument is about semantics. I say "rational process" and "logical" in the sense that you can think it away. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/20 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Try this one weird trick to cure your anxiety. Psychiatrists hate it!I got real results. And then I shared what I actually did to get those results. Can you do the same, instead of spouting unhelpful cliches like "be more alpha" and "just DGAF, bro"? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/20 10:34 PM |
| 7 | Try this one weird trick to cure your anxiety. Psychiatrists hate it!Did you actually read the article? Some of the negative feedback I've gotten is fair, but your response doesn't even make sense. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/20 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Try this one weird trick to cure your anxiety. Psychiatrists hate it!is it the above point? Yes. Even within this small comments section I have people who don't believe it, telling me that I am wrong. The answer is certainly not to spend a small fortune talking to therapists and taking down fistfuls of pill every morning. More generally, the point is that there is no getting around biology. People think they can pull off not sleeping or eating right in lots of different ways, but all you can do is mask some of the symptoms while continuing to get bitten in the as… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/20 02:16 PM |
| -16 | Try this one weird trick to cure your anxiety. Psychiatrists hate it!Clickbait tickles the right parts of your brain to get you to click. There are loads of articles on the front page, yet this is the one you chose to read. It's just biology, baby. See what I did there? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/20 05:47 AM |
| 3 | Why Are You Using Tinder?I’m not hot enough to use Tinder. But I would absolutely use it if I was. It would be like ordering a pizza for dinner. Or Chinese, if you like Asian girls. I don’t really care if that means I’m not “alpha”. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 12:35 AM |
| 2 | How to explain to parents why I prefer to date younger?I stopped showing off to my parents when I stopped receiving encouraging feedback. Now I only receive encouraging feedback. Your parents need you more than you need them. It’s the biggest delusion you’ve ever bought into, just waiting for you to poke a big, fat hole in it. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 12:30 AM |
| 7 | Can you really get any girl you want if your game is good enough?No. Even the best people fail. You just don’t see or notice it. IIRC /u/whisper once told me that his best is only like 1 out of 3. And he is quite literally one of the most skilled men in the world at gaming women. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 12:28 AM |
| 5 | If people catch you being a tryhard, what's a good way to minimize it and make them see you as opening up to them, rather than self-deprecating or bragging about it?“Yeah, I work out, meditate, and live a healthy life of general wellness and productivity. What an asshole, right?” | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 12:23 AM |
| 1 | How to explain to parents why I prefer to date younger?Imagine the conversation I’d need to have with my parents: “mom, dad - I prefer to date girls with low self esteem.” Of course, I could choose not to have that conversation at all, because I’m a grown ass man who doesn’t report back to his parents about all his sexual preferences. But that’s just me. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 12:15 AM |
| 14 | How do I break up with a long-distance relationship caused by coronaWhat’s the difference? You’re never planning on talking to her again. Who cares if she thinks you’re an asshole? | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 12:10 AM |
| 1 | What do I reply to a girl who says shes never been in love?The implication is that this is over text. The answer is not to respond at all. You’re trying too hard. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 12:08 AM |
| 1 | these hoes really gonna abstain from sex for 2 months?Who cares? | /r/askTRP | 31/03/20 08:23 PM |
| 2 | What was your biggest RP realization?https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4rqg37/there_is_nothing_i_can_say_to_you_that_will/ | /r/askTRP | 31/03/20 08:22 PM |
| 42 | What are your thoughts on blackpill thinking?It’s poison for your mind. Contemplating your shortcomings without deciding on a course of action is a waste of time, if not harmful to your mental health. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/20 03:59 PM |
| 14 | Should I tell her I'm a virgin?Why would you tell her? | /r/askTRP | 31/03/20 03:54 PM |
| 1 | What's the most common mistake that guys make when first trying to cold approach?I think it's much harder if you are neurotypical to "throw the switch". Is this something that you can relate to? Maybe it's an ex-frum thing. You're not supposed to be able to control that kind of power. I don't know what this means. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/20 06:28 PM |
| 1 | What's the most common mistake that guys make when first trying to cold approach?This happens to me a lot. When I’m on I’m the best, almost like a mania that everyone is tuned into, but it happens less often than I’d like. Have you been able to figure out what throws the switch? I’ve already ruled out diet, sleep, hydration, and exercise frequency/timing. The only somewhat consistent cause I’ve seen is breaking the routine, like going on vacation, getting some particularly good or bad news, etc. It’s almost like a spike of emotion helps me empathize better with other people,… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/20 10:21 PM |
| 6 | How to NOT argue with feminists.Over lunch.. Jezebel was at least able to converse like a human being, with no more than the occasional dribble of nonsense about {...} Since I am well aware that people who are in control of themselves speak to have an effect on others, and people who speak to adjust their own feelings are not that much in control of themselves, I let her ramble This point needs clarification. It almost reads like a non-sequitur. What indication were you given that she was speaking to adjust her own feelings ra… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/20 02:32 AM |
| 4 | If you had $50K cash sitting in the bank in your early 20s, what would you do with it?Doesn’t “taxed-advantaged” go hand in hand with “retirement”? I’m tired of slashing every paycheck to max out my 401k when it’s money that I won’t see till I’m old. So I’ll be a millionaire at 60. Whoop-de-doo. I’d rather spend the money now and come visit. That’ll definitely benefit me long term more than any amount of retirement money. Roping /u/whisper into the discussion, because this is something I wanted to ask in response to his recent post. What’s the point of hoarding all this money in … | /r/askTRP | 27/01/20 05:48 AM |
| 2 | How to stop being the workplace bitch?I’m in the military Looks like you are SOL, mein freund. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 05:27 AM |
| 21 | To have kids or notBe nice. You’re hurting my feelings. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 04:07 AM |
| 6 | How to deal with sisters abusive boyfriend?Not your problem. Unless your sister specifically asks you for help/advice, all you are going to do is alienate her. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 02:45 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys have enough motivation to increase. your SMV?You start seeing results. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 02:43 AM |
| 2 | The women I attract don't want to have sexThat is correct. Usually my game is “escalate till I get a hard no and recalibrate”. But because this girl was so inexperienced, even kissing became this huge deal in her mind. So it required a lot more comfort management than I would usually tolerate. Feel free to write a top level article about this if you have relevant experience. If it’s any good I’ll ask the mods to sticky it. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 11:49 PM |
| 1 | is anyone having a hard time finding male friends after you got muscular and better good looking ?I hang out with people who are rooting for me and hope I succeed, not people in competition with me. it really sucks not having close male friends You only need a few. I can count my good friends on one hand | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 03:21 AM |
| 9 | The women I attract don't want to have sexThat means you aren't attracting them. I was talking to /u/HumanSockPuppet about this religious girl I've been trying to corrupt (first one!), finally sealed the deal earlier this week. That she wouldn't let me escalate wasn't just her religious programming getting in the way, it was a fundamental lack of attraction. It was on me to get her more worked up, and I couldn't seem to do strike the right balance of push-pull. Fortunately her curiosity gave me a few do-overs till I got it right. Girls … | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Software EngineerWhere do you meet girls? Outside. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 07:13 AM |
| 7 | Resources to learn GamePractice. The progression: too timid to make a move —> too aggressive —> sweet spot in the middle. It’s literally about having enough balls to collect your own data. No one can help you progress to the next step because you need to experience it for yourself. Sack up. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 02:38 AM |
| 3 | You are allowed to game girls in your social circle.How do you know? Have you tried it? The thesis of this article is the observation that things don’t play out the way I would have expected them to. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/19 02:43 PM |
| 20 | You are allowed to game girls in your social circle.A dry spell is a couple of months without getting laid. I had a great setup that I was cruising on, I got lazy, and then I moved to a new city for work and lost all my hookups. Fun fact: you can sleep with your coworkers Heh my balls aren't quite that big. Some day, maybe, there’s this cutie in sales who’s been trying to get me out for drinks.... the two of you being friends is the least of that. Perhaps I didn’t articulate it well, but I was more focused on the potential social fallout of being… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/19 05:23 AM |
| 42 | You are allowed to game girls in your social circle.Sometimes it’s so hard to not compulsively flip the bozo bit, /u/whisper. I forgot how important it is to name articles well because all the spergs love to comment without actually reading. Then again, it’s not like they’re the target audience anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/19 05:11 AM |
| 10 | You are allowed to game girls in your social circle.You're missing the point. Did you even get past the title? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/19 04:34 AM |
| 5 | Gaming a deaf girlNo that’s just kids in general. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 10:52 PM |
| 13 | Gaming a deaf girlLet me know if she honks and shit while getting fucked. I’ve always wondered if that’s a real thing or just a meme. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Is Sapiosexuality real?Who cares? | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 04:55 AM |
| 3 | Feeling submissive?Do you watch a lot of porn? | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 04:53 AM |
| 3 | Joking and InsecurityOn a meta level, I want to comment that this conversation kind of reminds me of the discussions that pop up about LTRs. Some guys are hellbent against being in an LTR, no matter how happy a girl makes them. Even if she's a good lay, faithful, fun to be around, somehow they got the idea in their head that "LTR bad. muh", with no nuance. Which is silly, of course. If she makes you happy, objectively happy in the sense that you know from experience that there isn't really a better alternative, then… | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Joking and InsecurityI actively enjoy being at work. Crazy, right? It's surreal. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 05:21 AM |
| 7 | Joking and InsecurityThe fuckers that get laughs and do silly shit, everyone loves the dancing monkey mascot but nobody respects it or is tryna fuck it lol get out your feminine energy. The difference between us is that I'm not trying to fuck my coworkers. I have a job that pays enough to fund all my bullshit, lets me come and go as I please, and the work itself is intellectually stimulating. Given how good my life is, I would say that I am doing what makes my life best for me. I don't really care if that doesn't fi… | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 05:18 AM |
| 8 | Joking and InsecurityGet your work done, get paid, leave the joking and goofy shit for your homeboys. I spend the majority of my waking hours at work. I'm going to have as much fun as I can. I am the office mascot at work, but I'm also really, really good at what I do, so I can act however I want. The only things that matter is how much people like you, and your output, in that order. (Though the two are nearly always correlated.) | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 05:08 AM |
| 1 | How many of you stopped believing in love?You don’t get to “fall in love”. That’s a luxury wasted on women. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/19 12:55 PM |
| 16 | When I meet up with people from tinder, they usually don't want to meet me again. I believe I'm too boring. How can I improve at this?I like this post. You evaluated yourself objectively and came up with something you need to work on. Recognizing your weaknesses is often the hardest part of getting better. Forget what other people think for a moment. Are you interested in anything, passionate about certain topics? | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Friday night - Dark TraitsCareful not to cut yourself on the edge of your fedora. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 03:38 AM |
| 2 | I want to start Yoga Classes for my back and core but am anxiousWho cares how people perceive you? Take this to its logical conclusion. It's not even like you need to figure out a way to mitigate the symptoms of physical anxiety, because you're going for fitness reasons, not to be social. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Colleague goes to HR because I asked to get chicken wings togetherI assume best way to move forward is having minimal conversations with females at work. The best way to move forward is not trying to sleep with your coworkers. Swinging to the other extreme and observing them from a distance like some creepy weirdo is nearly as bad as overtly hitting on them. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 03:35 AM |
| 7 | LTR still wants to text ex-boyfriend. What to do?There is nothing I can say to you that will magically make you not a fucking retard. Close enough. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 06:04 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the Married Red Pill sub?I think the idea of that sub is they became RP after getting married and are now trying to figure out what to do about it. I agree, which is why I don't think about it much at all. I'm not married, and there is enough relevant information here to keep me busy. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | She sucks at blowjob. Not literally.Guide her. Tell her what to do. Hint: "Improve your BJ game" isn't helpful, unless you want her to go practice on other guys who will give her guidance. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 08:00 PM |
| 8 | Is there any place online or on reddit that you can go to where you can have frame battles with other people for fun?This is the most autistic thing I've read all week. And it's Saturday. Congratulations. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 07:58 PM |
| 2 | So, what are your thoughts on art grads?I don't really think about them. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 07:56 PM |
| 6 | Should you pretend to be a beta male at work?Source: worked at two Fortune 100 companies as an intern and received a job offer from a very prestigious company which I’ll be starting in 2 months So no relevant experience is what you're saying. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Got successful, dress well, in senior year of university, but I look too intimidating to women?they look away after 2 seconds of eye contact (looking down submissively away). They are clearly interested Have you tried talking to them? | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 03:28 AM |
| 3 | Do you guys reckon race matters when it comes to pulling girlsWho cares? | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on first date I had last nightWhat did I do wrong? Nothing, from what you described. Sometimes women just aren't into it. Maybe she was on the rag. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 03:26 AM |
| 5 | My head is full of trashI've gotten a lot out of daily meditation. I don't think it's necessarily useful for everyone, but I am extremely ADHD and it's how I've learned to stay focused without drugging myself. A lot of music plays in my head on its own This happens to me when I read, which is often. A way to combat it, specifically when a song is stuck in your head on loop, is to stop what you are doing for a moment and consciously think about the end of the song. An even better approach is to play it on an instrument,… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 03:23 AM |
| 3 | tweaking my text gameThere is no texting game. Have better in-person game. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 03:16 AM |
| 5 | New friends collegeGo out yourself. You'll meet more people doing that than sitting at home, pinky promise. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 03:14 AM |
| 3 | Has any dude here just went to a bar or club by themself ? How did that work out ? Is it recommended ?"dude, people will think it is creepy or weird going out to a bar by yourself. Who the fuck does that ?" So? How successful have you been by going to a bar by yourself ? Not very. I don't go to bars to meet women because I don't like sleeping with bar sluts and don't drink alcohol very often so I'm a light weight. (I do go out alone pretty frequently though, just to watch other people.) Nor am I attractive enough to get away with using Tinder or any other dating app. I have been extremely succes… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 03:11 AM |
| 8 | Should you pretend to be a beta male at work?Flirting with female coworkers is great fun, because we both know we aren't actually trying to sleep with each other. Just run normal game without physically escalating or saying something extremely vulgar and you'll be fine. My immediate supervisor (on paper) is a woman. She's one of the most talented engineers I've ever had the pleasure of working with, and I can get away with a lot more than I would be able to if she were a man, only because I talk to her like I talk to all women. You're kind… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Improv or toastmasters for improving public speaking?I like doing standup comedy. Find an open mic nearby. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 02:54 AM |
| 18 | How to start living?There is nothing anyone can say to you that will make you not a bitch. You just rattled off a whole list of problems that you know are problems. You know what you need to do. It's time to grow up and take action, not find the right person to talk to. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 02:50 AM |
| 4 | Real talk, does anybody else feel like a fish out of water trying to approach girls in person?wtf am I supposed to do? Ask for directions? Tell her I like her dress? Bother her while she's eating and ask to eat with her? Fuck if I know. Whatever pops into your head. Seriously. You know that inner monologue that's always running? Verbalize it in her direction. PUA lines are autistic as hell, but so is specifically NOT complimenting a girl because you read on some blog that it turns her off. Yeah, don't overdo it, but telling a girl you like her boots or whatever because you actually think… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Was this girl flirting with me?https://youtu.be/xa-4IAR_9Yw | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 09:40 PM |
| 4 | What's the best way to hard next a girl?Hard next implies you never plan on speaking to her again, for any reason. So how you choose to do it and what she thinks of you as a result doesn’t matter in the slightest. The problem is that lots of people can’t bear the thought of someone somewhere disliking them for any reason. Is that you? | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 04:44 PM |
| 26 | How can I make my voice deeper and talk slower ?Want to see a magic trick? Stand up straight and tip your head way back. Slowly, in your normal voice, say “bing bong”, really stretch out the nnnnggggg sound for both words. Do the same thing with “ding dong”, really stretching it out, then “king kong”. Repeat the above, this time intentionally making your voice slightly deeper. For the third and last iteration, head still back, make your voice as deep as you can. Now talk as you normally would; enjoy your deep voice for the next few hours. It’… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 11:25 PM |
| 37 | Girls who actually want you vs. girls who want you to want her.All girls want to feel passionately wanted. That's what turns them on. They typically play games and behave in a withholding manner to keep us wanting more. That's called a "tease" and is independent of a woman's desire to feel wanted. The juice there is never worth the required squeeze. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 08:19 PM |
| 11 | Why do guys with beta traits get a lot of girls in college? (Hear me out)It couldn’t possibly be that they’re just naturally good looking Could be. But I didn't get that sense from OP, and when I was in school I knew the exact type of guy in the art department that he's talking about. they’re either holding frame being alpha Never said that at all. or just being lucky . Finding a new sexual partner always requires a bit of luck no matter how attractive you are and how tight your game is. Instead of looking for reasons to blast TRP, maybe you should lay off the sarcas… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Maybe I'm misinterpreting it wrong but how are you supposed to approach a random girl if you're acting disinterested?It actually kinda works to act disinterested when a girl likes you Key words being "when a girl likes you". | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Maybe I'm misinterpreting it wrong but how are you supposed to approach a random girl if you're acting disinterested?Why on earth would you act disinterested when meeting a girl for the first time? | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Hired Gun GameCan I get the number right in front of their coworkers? Yes. Just don't embarrass her by asking in a way that paints a picture with her as a slut. ask them out as a group You are out of town for a weekend. Going out with the group wastes the already limited time you have to let your interactions with her bake. Skip straight to the one-on-one if you can get away with it (which you won't always be able to). | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Plating a 10You don't even know this girl. She might not even be the person in her pictures. You're counting your chicks when you haven't even seen the eggs yet. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 05:15 PM |
| 4 | 18, never kissed, missed opportunities. Escalation is my Achille's heel, I have a few questions to help change that.We are more similar than I feel like getting into right now. I can tell you that you will be surprised to learn how much of a turn on being nervous can be for some women, particularly if you frame it in the context of how attracted you are to her. The only mistake is being disingenuous. Let her see how much you want her. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 05:13 PM |
| 2 | I think i have a fear of women im attracted toI can always think of something amusing to say or discuss. But then when i think about going up and talking to a girl im attracted to, i go blank and my mouth gets super fucking dry. And then you get over that and asking for her number is what's hard. And then you feel comfortable asking her out and touching her on the arm is what's hard. And then touching her becomes comfortable and acting overtly sexual is what's hard. There's no shortcut. You just do it again and again and it eventually gets … | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 05:08 PM |
| 58 | Why do guys with beta traits get a lot of girls in college? (Hear me out)Because often the only thing that matters is being in the right place at the right time with the logistics sorted. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 05:01 PM |
| 3 | My clothes got pissed on by plates cat! WTF?it's not her fault. Uh... what? It doesn't need to be a dealbreaker, and whether he even needs to say something to her depends on their level of interaction beyond sex, but you're deluded if you think people aren't responsible for the way their pets behave. People who walk into my home can rest assured that they aren't going to leave with piss on their clothes. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 04:55 PM |
| 3 | I wanna talk to a girl at the pet store without everyone knowing I’m hitting on her. LolWho cares if everyone knows you're hitting on her? | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 04:51 PM |
| 1 | When a girl asks how many girls I’ve slept with is it bad to just say I’m a virgin and go along with it?Sure, that works. I've said it to many girls, and not a single one believed me. Even the first girl I "fucked" and could barely keep it up. Girls have no idea how hard it is for men to get laid. Telling a girl you are a virgin in the 21st century is like telling her you never ate fast food. Totally foreign, a laughable suggestion. Plus more likely to let me go in raw. I know you don't have much experience, but educate yourself before you do something dumb. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 01:35 AM |
| 5 | What are your views on treating people with respect but knowing some people take that as an opporunity to try to feel superior or disrespect you, how do you treat people?People don't respect you if you are unnecessarily nice to them. This isn't generally true as long as you aren't a doormat. I always err on the side of letting people think they are better than me. For example, I'll ask for advice even when I have no intention of following it. I know I have my shit together. I'd rather someone be in my corner, even if it means they walk around with a sense of superiority in their own mind. Walk around with your big ego and mean mug everyone who looks at you wrong… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 01:33 AM |
| 2 | How much does life change from 18 to early twenties?once you get around my age it becomes much more evident how inexperienced you are with women, which therefore makes it even harder to BECOME experienced. I disagree. As I get older I see more and more that people don’t know what the hell they are doing. At all. Even the grown ups. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 04:38 AM |
| 7 | I believe that looks are by far more important than frame, game, status, wealth etc. Change my mind.Change my mind Nah. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 04:34 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of guys who talk about lays?I don't really think about it at all. Who cares how much a coworker is getting? | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 04:47 AM |
| 5 | Is it weird to go to bars by yourself?I prefer to go out alone. That said, the game is way easier if you're out with someone else. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 04:43 AM |
| 38 | I'm going fucking insane being aloneI bought a camera and started doing a bit of photography Get a social hobby. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Don't you think that TRP is attracting the wrong type of girls?No idea. I wasn't attracting any girls before, so it's definitely a step in the right direction. So I just assume ALL women are like that, and take what I can get. It's been going swimmingly. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 02:56 AM |
| 1 | How bad where you when starting daygame? I go out intending to approach like 10 and only end up talking to 1 girl in the span of 5 hrs.Some days are better than others. And I never go out intending to talk to X number of people -- I just can't help myself when the opportunity presents itself. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Do you ever wear tight pants to flex on women?https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/000/738/025/db0.jpg | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 02:48 AM |
| 11 | The Art of Story Telling. How important is it?It can be a handy tool to have. Telling a good story is how you captivate an entire group of people. Watch other people do it -- not TV, or anything scripted (unlike wit, for which fiction is fine). Storytelling is a skill that can be learned like any other. Don't be this guy. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 02:46 AM |
| 6 | Won't Follow Me on Instagram?MFW she follows me on Insta | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 02:41 AM |
| 3 | Daygame tipsOpen by making some kind of mundane observation -- literally just let her in on your inner monologue. You will immediately know whether she's interested or not. I figured I'd dedicate them to the skill You don't even need to. Talk to the people around you when you do your normal routine. I always laugh when I hear guys complain they don't know where to meet women. Do it enough and it becomes not a big deal. Often I won't even go for the number because I can't be bothered; there's no shortage of … | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 02:39 AM |
| 2 | I hit my looksmax but all my dating attempts fail.There is a lesson to be learned here. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 02:29 AM |
| -1 | Let’s “Steel-Man” Both PositionsHow are you so good at writing? I’m somewhat articulate. I am very educated and read more than most. But it’s almost demoralizing to read your stuff, because you are so far ahead. You once told me that there are no literary prodigies. I think you’re wrong. It is the singular area in which I have made a targeted effort to improve and have not seen significant progress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/19 02:33 AM |
| 16 | I think I'm the side guy of one of my plates. Should I hard next?Who cares about any of that? She’s not your wife, or even your girlfriend. She’s a person you text to come over when you feel like having Chinese or whatever race she is. I feel like ghosting would indicate butthurt It doesn’t matter what ghosting indicates, because ghosting implies you never plan on talking to her again. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 06:58 AM |
| 5 | Is it worth becoming religious to find a traditional Woman?No because they worship Jesus more than they worship me. I can’t compete with a guy who can turn grass into weed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/19 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Wouldn't you just end up with dead-beadrooms, if you force women into relationships with unattractive menYeah, the problem is more that women are sexually attracted to an unreasonably small subset of all men. There literally aren’t enough “good” men to go around. Of course, that’s not really a problem at all on an individual level... for men. It’s straight forward to elevate yourself into that small subset. For women, well, it kinda sucks that the shortage exists but the heart wants what it wants. It’s really only society on a macro level that loses, which is what “forced” marriages fix at the cost… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/19 06:46 AM |
| 6 | Is there a subset of young women ALSO struggling with dating?That’s the biggest problem women have. It never occurs to them that the hot guy they are salivating over has his pick from dozens of other women who just like (if not better than) her in every way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/19 06:38 AM |
| 1 | It’s so fucking hard to cold approach a girl these days because all of them go to bars/clubs to get hit on and act disgusted if you try to approach them during the day. Does anyone else agree?Getting a number isn't hard (you just ask her for it after all), it's being attractive and interesting enough in a short period of time to warrant getting the number in the first place that is hard. Do you really think I was saying that the ten-second act of asking for her number is what’s hard when I wrote “getting a number is hard” in the context of cold approaching a stranger? | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 06:26 AM |
| 8 | Got a bj for the first timeDid you guide her to do what you like? Girls are usually terrible at giving blowjobs till you tell them what gets you off. They tend to learn fast, it’s just that no guy ever told them how and they learned their “technique” from Cosmo. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Is it normal to be shaky while trying to quit porn and jerking off?Give yourself some leeway in other areas since your brain’s reward center is running on fumes. Quitting porn when you’re really addicted is hard as hell. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 05:26 AM |
| 6 | any early risers out there?I play video games for a half hour every morning before work while drinking a cup of coffee. It’s more effective and enjoyable to give yourself a little reward to motivate yourself rather than relying on Herculean willpower. I also love my job which helps. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 05:20 AM |
| 4 | It’s so fucking hard to cold approach a girl these days because all of them go to bars/clubs to get hit on and act disgusted if you try to approach them during the day. Does anyone else agree?Talking to women during the day nearly always elicits a positive response, neutral at worst. I’m not even super good looking — maybe slightly above average. I clearly work out but I’m not jacked, 6 foot-ish, jeans and a solid tee most days. Getting a number is hard (and requires some luck). Getting her to actually follow up and meet you again is even harder. But talking to her and having a fun conversation? Easy peasy. These were her exact words. I hope you blew her the fuck out of the water. Wh… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 05:15 AM |
| 7 | Kissed girl, apparently slut, now regretting and losing confidenceAlways assume that the girls you are fucking are also being fucked by other guys. I get that it’s something you don’t want to see or think about, so dump this one if it bothers you that much. But prepare to be repeatedly disappointed if you insist on having such high expectations of women. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 07:42 PM |
| 1 | What should you do after you invite a girl over to hangout?Don't try to be "smooth". | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 06:25 PM |
| 1 | How important is intimacy on the path to red pill?What is "the path to red pill"? And what happens when you get there? | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | I am having a HUGE problemStop saying “females” for one. That tells me you spend a non trivial amount of time reading incel crap rather than just doing the recommended reading and going out to try stuff. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 08:24 PM |
| 5 | I need more TRP Materialhttps://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8pz9m3/go_out_and_test_it/ | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Whats with this 'warrior' thing?What's changed is where that status derives from. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/19 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Whats with this 'warrior' thing?Philosophers who replace empiricism with pure logic (often from faulty premises), and intellectuals who replace both with rhetoric and postmodern discourse are undermining the very things that made the west such a great, powerful, and wealthy civilization that they could actually chose to sit around coming up with abstract ideas all day and still get fed by others. I don't disagree, but I suggest that the situation is even worse than you describe. Centuries ago the United States was established … | /r/askTRP | 25/09/19 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Whats with this 'warrior' thing?One could argue that giving yourself any sort of subjective title is stupid. Sure, calling yourself a "Doctor of Medicine" might make sense because there is a well-defined criterion that you must satisfy to earn that title, but it is simply shorthand for "satisfied XYZ requirement"; no more, no less. But when you use subjective names like "warrior", "expert" and -- dare I say it -- "engineer", because there is no universal agreement on what these titles indicate in a modern context, you aren't c… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/19 05:02 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of Jordan Peterson's response to the question "why do I find small talk boring?" posted on Quora?Then why did you ever need TRP Because I didn't know how to get laid. post in TRP I wanted to share what I had learned with the rest of the class. and have become a senior endorsed contributor No idea. Ask the mods. Apparently someone there thought I had something to say worth listening to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 10:23 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of Jordan Peterson's response to the question "why do I find small talk boring?" posted on Quora?Noted, thanks for giving me a chance to fix it. I was trying to drive at a larger point, which I think I've made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Why is This Topic Controversial?The only real debate imo would be is if women had to choose, what traits would they prefer. We don't need to debate this at all. Just look at the data. What are they choosing? I think generally speaking that's a pretty subjective thing that is very context-dependent. It's not subjective at all. Look at the data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 08:08 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of Jordan Peterson's response to the question "why do I find small talk boring?" posted on Quora?I am a male, senior endorsed contributor in the TRP subreddit. Black flair and everything. Is my opposing viewpoint nearly as interesting as it was a moment ago? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 08:05 PM |
| 3 | What do you think of Jordan Peterson's response to the question "why do I find small talk boring?" posted on Quora?I think he's wrong. I hate small talk despite being excellent at it and engaging in it almost constantly. It's how I got to where I am today. You can be virtually certain, as well, that if you find initial small talk boring then the people who are boring you find you, in turn, awkward, charmless, equally boring and perhaps even a bit narcissistic." In my experience 99% of people are boring, stupid, or some combination of both, yet most of them find me charming because I know what to say to them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 07:43 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?Personally that is the kind of thing that makes my heart race, commitment... It stops being commitment and becomes clinginess and emotional dependence, I don’t want someone that can’t live without me. Notice that by definition the type of commitment you are attracted to comes from from a man unlikely to give it. The problem with this conversation is that you don't actually know what you are attracted to, because sexual attraction isn't a rational cognitive process. You say you don't drink or par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 03:09 AM |
| 8 | Q4W: You know how some guys are like, “When I wasn’t as good looking and financially successful,” these women wouldn’t give me the time of day ... besides looks and sex, what has that equivalent thing been for you as a woman?the real unicorns are the guys in our generation that want actually want this. They’re too focused on fooling and fucking around. They want a girl that’s 100% for them but they don’t have to be for the girl. We can talk about how guys don't want to commit to any particular woman because she's probably had lots of casual sex, or about how guys innately want to sleep with as many women as possible independent of their feelings towards a relationship. Both of these statements are true, but I'd rath… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/19 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Upgraded fuckbuddy and got flakedNow you know better for next time. Experience only comes right after you need it. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 02:40 AM |
| -18 | What do you do as soon as you wake up?I'm sick of seeing this stupid joke in every single thread. If you're going to try to be funny then at least be clever about it. /u/TheRedPike /u/CrazyHorseInvincible | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 02:38 AM |
| 6 | Energy VampiresThe greatest source of grief and aggravation in my life isn't women. Or hygiene. That's because you already have women (and hygiene). A "beta-male" who can't get laid or even make friends probably isn't torn up about his minimum wage McJob as much as the crushing loneliness that constantly reminds him what a loser he is. You only had that realization because you got a handle on the more fundamental shit. I'm sure as hell not going to lecture you, though. I just want you to keep talking. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/19 12:02 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with this casually racist bloke at work?I’ve decided to just ignore him. I don’t want to complain because it’s really no big deal, What's the issue, then? Eventually he'll open his mouth in front of the wrong person and your "problem" will solve itself. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Isn’t talking to a woman that isn’t initially attracted to you and being persistent just creepy? If so isn’t Redpill/PUA dating coaches scam artistsI can't control what other people do, nor do I care to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Isn’t talking to a woman that isn’t initially attracted to you and being persistent just creepy? If so isn’t Redpill/PUA dating coaches scam artistsPUA is largely orthogonal to TRP. I don't have anything to do with PUA so I can't offer an opinion. I know you aren't the target audience, but this article is worth your time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Isn’t talking to a woman that isn’t initially attracted to you and being persistent just creepy? If so isn’t Redpill/PUA dating coaches scam artistswhy is the redpilled convinced The Red Pill says no such thing. The opposite actually -- if she's not interested then move on and find a girl who is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 02:53 AM |
| 1 | You Cold Approach a Woman What do you think she's thinking?She's probably not thinking anything. She's enjoying the moment. Most women have the luxury (and misfortune) of going through life passively experiencing things -- they don't need to strategize or make things happen to lead an interesting life. They just attach to a guy who does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Isn’t talking to a woman that isn’t initially attracted to you and being persistent just creepy? If so isn’t Redpill/PUA dating coaches scam artiststhat a girl isn’t initially attracted to you and you keep trying to talk to her, she will disregard your confidence and view you as a creep . So? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 02:45 AM |
| 3 | What do I say if I invite a girl to my place and she says "What do you want to do?"Over text? Don't say anything. She'll come around... or she won't. If it's the latter then there was nothing you could have texted her that would have led to a different outcome. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 02:37 AM |
| 11 | When you’re at a party, do you stay in frame and be calm, or get into a “party” mood? My natural inclination is to be calm, talk to some people, and not really do too much. Does that come off as being timid?You sound boring. Party game is all about injecting energy into whatever social group you're butting in on. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Get way more attention IRL instead of dating apps, social media, etc?Yup. That's why I talk to everyone everywhere I go and only occasionally swipe Tinder while I'm on bored the toilet. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Struggling to maintain my composure in my professional relationships + career adviceAre you taking care of the physical? When I am even slightly dehydrated or have low blood sugar my ability to communicate takes a nosedive. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Dont get along with peopleI tend to challenge them and see who I like and who I dislike depending on how they act (that's how I see it). You sound like an unpleasant person to be around. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 12:07 AM |
| 18 | I feel like TRP is not like it used toYou’re missing the point. Maybe the man himself can get through to you. /u/HumanSockPuppet | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 02:17 AM |
| 1 | About to join my first gym. Any tips?Ask the biggest guys in the room for help. Gym rats are often the nicest, most encouraging people around. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 02:11 AM |
| 47 | I feel like TRP is not like it used toDon’t take anything anyone says as gospel. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Is my body trying to tell me something?Everything was normal including testosterone levels. Is this something your doctor told you, or did you review the bloodwork yourself? I’m only 24, I shouldn’t be experiencing this at such a young age. But you are. Doesn't matter what could be, or should be, or would be. You need to address the issue as it it. Should I get some fucking Viagra or something? Viagra is good if you have a psychological hangup -- sometimes the plumbing all works, you just need the boost of confidence that comes from … | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Why do some people hate Jordan B. Peterson?People hate JBP because he speaks the truth, and some TRPs just desperately crave pussy instead of becoming a good man. What makes someone "a good man"? | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Why do some people hate Jordan B. Peterson?I don't think much about him at all. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 03:38 PM |
| 5 | When I am mysterious, I don't talk much and be boring, when I just talk, I lose frame.This strategy of being "mysterious" is a meme propagated by all the newbs too socially retarded to make normal conversation. All "be mysterious" means is that you shouldn't be so quick to offer information about yourself. Let her blather on about whatever inane thought pops into her head, steering the conversation towards her to deflect whenever she asks something personal about you. You absolutely can to be high energy if that works with your personality. Ask /u/itiswr1tten how that works for h… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Millennial loneliness poll: 22 percent say they have “no friends”Pretend. You don't have to actually be interested in someone to make them feel special. People are so generic that you can have a response locked and loaded for nearly anything they say in the first five minutes of conversation. It's less fun that way, but the fact that it works is telling. | /r/becomeaman | 08/08/19 02:42 AM |
| 4 | Millennial loneliness poll: 22 percent say they have “no friends”Another is putting the electronics down This is huge. I am extremely extroverted, and will talk to you even if you're dicking around on your cell phone or whatever. But you've gotta meet me halfway. Once we've engaged, I'm going to interpret you pulling out your phone as "leave me alone". People who lack social skills and don't even make an attempt to be social are annoying. I don't care that you're nervous, or that you don't know what to say. I can talk enough for both of us. I'll even invite y… | /r/becomeaman | 08/08/19 02:40 AM |
| 2 | My frame is weakened by mild aspergersJust do whatever works for you, dude. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 02:36 AM |
| 1 | speaking womenTry both and report back. Todd says Who the fuck is Todd? coach red pill ??? | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 02:25 AM |
| 17 | What can I do if my IQ is 150?Jerk off onto your Mensa certificate. Being in the top intelligence percentile ain't all that. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 02:24 AM |
| 4 | Who created our red pill?https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/592d70/trp_a_history/ | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Oneitus remains after gather better plates, lifting, new job, etc.I am a firm believer in intellectual honesty and facing your problems head on... I think you will always be stronger for enduring rather than finding a way to escape the pain of failure. However, while some pain can be beneficial, too much stress is harmful. You cannot recover from that which breaks you. If you feel you aren't strong enough, there are some ways you can hack your brain to get past this. The simplest is to use what I alluded to above: rewrite your memories. When you think about he… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Oneitus remains after gather better plates, lifting, new job, etc.You are literally a junky, every time you think of her you get a chemical high. It doesn't help that the act of accessing the memory of your relationship rewrites what actually took place, leading to a feedback loop that amplifies your feelings till a girl becomes a legend in your mind. Stop thinking about her (it's hard). Stop looking her up on facebook. Stop seeking validation from her (I thought you cut her off?). Erase her from your life. Brainstems are stupid; it is just as "easy" to get in… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 03:29 PM |
| 6 | Is a girl that fucked a dude in the bathroom of a club when she was younger a red flag?I feel like that's a red flag and she'll remain a plate as I want a more traditionnal woman as LTR. There's your answer. Who cares what we think? | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 03:19 PM |
| 5 | How to move in for a kiss without making it awkward and how to maintain frame when stops you or move away?Stop trying to be smooth. It's overrated and it doesn't matter once she already digs you. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Religion and The Red PillTRP is about optimizing sexual strategy Not exactly. The metaphor of "The Red Pill" is to recognize reality for what it is, regardless of how uncomfortable it makes you feel. A major application of that is sexual strategy, but it doesn't end there. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Looks maxing subreddit?How much can you deadlift? | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 02:15 AM |
| 12 | The Foundations of Natural GameYou have interpreted my response as an attempt to put you down. That was not my intention. I have been doing this for many years and have a lot of experience helping other dudes. One of the things I had to learn, like you, is that all advice must be have a call to action. There must be some piece of actionable content that a reader can walk away with and immediately implement. Every person with an internet connection has seen many feel-good statements like "love yourself" and "eagles soar alone"… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/19 03:09 PM |
| 2 | The Foundations of Natural GameThis is unhelpful and stands in stark contrast to the OP who provides practical, actionable advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/19 09:45 PM |
| 1 | How do we know that trp is legit?We don’t. I do, because I tried it out. But don’t just take my word for it. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Woman wants to open marriage to "explore her sexuality", then gets mad if husband gets laid.How do you come up with good nicknames for your girls? More specifically, what goes into the decision? I imagine it should be something specifically to do with the relationship rather than something personal about her: FunSize in contrast with your large frame, FanGirl who chased you down, etc. Is there anything else that goes into it? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/19 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Beta femdom fetish. I want girls to choke me?Try going porn-free for a few weeks. Then reassess. If you think you need a more aggressive approach, take a break from masturbating as well. I think you'll be surprised both by how difficult and how helpful it will be to just cut the porn for now. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 10:28 PM |
| 9 | Beta femdom fetish. I want girls to choke me?That wasn't a lucky guess. Sexual dysfunction, both physical and psychological, is often the result of consuming too much pornographic media. Try winding it back a little and see if that helps. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 06:31 PM |
| 12 | If you next a girl and she asks why can you be straight with her?If you nexted her then the dialogue is over. Why is there still an open line of communication? | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Beta femdom fetish. I want girls to choke me?Do you watch a lot of porn? | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 06:24 PM |
| 11 | How much does lifting improve SMV?What's an even worse mentality is "I understand the reason behind X but I'm a special snowflake so it doesn't apply to me", which is more common than you might think. So a better attitude is to just do it, even blindly, and then look back and ask why it worked, or why it didn't. Otherwise you get stuck in a paralyzing cycle of not doing anything at all. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 06:22 PM |
| 3 | UPDATE: Girl i've been in class with for 3 years - I acted on what i saidWhat you've discovered is that sexual attraction isn't rational. According to women, most men, and society, you played this perfectly. Hell, if you asked her, she would likely tell you that you were playing it perfectly. Communication, check. Honesty, check. Nice guy, check. But good luck trying to get an answer out of her now. If pressed she would probably say something like "the spark just wasn't there". You cannot use traditional advice, or even rational advice, to attract women. You simply h… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Where is everyone getting girlfriends?I’d be lying if I weren’t irked by the sheer amount of beta bux and soyboys who, against the statistical average, are in committed LTR’s. What are you jealous of? Do you want to be in a monogamous relationship with a woman who doesn't respect you? What you see isn't against the statistical average, because most guys settle for one woman who isn't very attractive and/or respectful. And you have no idea how much great sex they are(n't) having. Statistically, someone will eventually come along that… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Feminist Teaches Husband About Consent. Now She Has to Beg Him For Sex.the choice that left him with the most self respect He chose to get married ("play shitty games"), now the best he can hope for is a consolation prize. The better move is not to play at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/19 01:33 PM |
| 6 | Feminist Teaches Husband About Consent. Now She Has to Beg Him For Sex.This is hardly a win. Play shitty games, win shitty prizes, I suppose. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/19 04:46 AM |
| 1 | What do y'all like to read after you've exhausted all the RP literature?I liked Dune. Thinking Fast and Slow I got about a third of the way in and had to put it down. Maybe I’m just stupid but I couldn’t get past his high-falutin, academic writing. It’s too bad, because the subject matter is pretty interesting. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Am I supposed to find 18 year olds attractive? (i'm 22)You aren't supposed to do anything. You do what you want to do. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't you date a former slut if you yourself were a player?Because I don't want to. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 01:38 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with Racial Slurs without using A & A?Not a lot can get under my skin, but one thing for sure is when someone makes asian jokes at me at a personal level. Why? | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 01:52 AM |
| 2 | How do you manage to work 5 days a weekI love my job, have coworkers who are really smart and sociable, and make enough money to buy back the time I would otherwise spend doing mundane chores after work. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 01:22 AM |
| 3 | LTR has a ton of guy friendsOf course I want my LTR to have other things going on in her life. But those things all need to be secondary to my wants. It's kind of why I prefer not to date religious girls, despite them ticking every green checkbox in the book -- loyal, modest, feminine, educated -- but their fucking religion always ends up coming before me. Which is their right, but I'm not interested in being second to Jesus. Would you want to be in an LTR with the woman going for a PhD, who spends all her time in the lab?… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever ok to be directThis has worked for me a few times but more times than not it doesn’t. There's your answer. And if she's saying yes to you, then chances are she's saying yes to lots and lots and lots of other guys; you aren't the only socially awkward weirdo who doesn't have game. No thank you. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 05:26 AM |
| 2 | My game sucks with less attractive girls.Where did this idea of overtly asking for sex suddenly come from? And who is upvoting this shit? | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 05:21 AM |
| 3 | My game sucks with less attractive girls.It's easier to objectify women who are hot. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 05:19 AM |
| 10 | Is it ever ok to be directYou win the prize for writing the most autistic thing I've read all day. Congratulations. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 05:13 AM |
| 2 | "Social media" phobiaI use Facebook because messenger/event planning is super convenient, plus I can look people up before I go to a party or something I use LinkedIn so I can circle jerk with everyone else on there. I always get off just as I click on my own profile. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 05:11 AM |
| 2 | How to go about planning a cooking dateI like choosing the dish the first time we cook dinner in my apartment because it's more streamlined. I've done it so many times that I can anticipate exactly how it'll play out. It's my go to second date, once we've done the obligatory screen-for-crazy meetup. Pizza is a personal favorite. Easy to make, lots of time in the oven, and, of course, delicious. But if you're bored then let her make you something exotic. Having fun is also important. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 04:52 AM |
| 13 | Research article studies Dating Inequality. Majority of women are rating men unfairlyThere is one big factor here that we most certainly CAN blame women for, and that is their duplicitous dishonesty. Yeah. Men aren't great at reading the signs when they don't know how, but they are really good at responding to feedback. A lot of men are willing to work hard to get better with women, and some of them do work hard -- their effort is just applied in the wrong areas. Of course, that women aren't so straightforward with their wants is what allows guys like us to get ahead. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/19 01:56 PM |
| 1 | LTR has a ton of guy friendsThe alternative is to not LTR a girl who doesn't view you as the most important part of her life. Most women won't, and most women don't get the privilege of being in an LTR with a Red Pill man. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 05:45 AM |
| 4 | is boxing somewhat "as good" as lifting?You are severely underweight. Boxing is not nearly as important as getting bigger right now. In fact, boxing (and any sort of martial art) will make it more difficult for you to gain weight and build muscle. Put on 15-20 pounds. Train until you can squat 1.5x your bodyweight for reps. Then decide if you want to add boxing into your weight training routine. For what it's worth, my confidence went way up when I put on a few pounds. Many men report a similar experience. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 05:33 AM |
| 2 | How to lead getting specifically blowjobs from dates?while her hand roams over my pants Guide her hands to where you want them. My big issue is that I dont want to come across as rapey She's into it. You're into it. There's no problem with being a little dominant. What am I supposed to be doing here? Escalating as far as she'll let you go. She's not going to suck your dick unless you push her (figuratively and literally) in that direction, or she's a hood rat who you don't want near your dick anyway. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Strategy for beating dopamine addicitonI'm not trying to convey a question about the chemistry behind neuroscience. Im directly curious about the relationship between improving your habits and internal "chemical" changes. mixed_signals.jpg I noticed that, as I've cut down on pleasure seeking activity, I derive more enjoyment than I used to That's pretty much the extent of it, and it works on a chemical level like you're imagining. But I'm telling you as someone who went down the neuroscience rabbit hole that you aren't going to get a… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Strategy for beating dopamine addicitonStudying the neuroscience of it all is a dead end beyond intellectual curiosity. Cortisol, dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin... the way all the neurotransmitters and hormones are intertwined is so complex that there is no (known) way to isolate the effect of any particular one. The exception is if you're taking psychoactive drugs, in which case you should already understand that you are doing something unhealthy to your brain towards a very specific end, but I don't get the impression that is what y… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Younger brother joined FacebookHumor is the best way to change someone's mind. Never argue. Allow him to realize how silly the whole idea of social media is, subtly edging him in that direction. Then he will decide he has no need for social media, rather than you trying to convince him directly. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Younger brother joined FacebookYou can't fix other people. Even family. You can only be there for them when they reach out and ask for help. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 03:16 PM |
| 14 | Would I appear butthurt if I ignored her now?Who cares? A hard next isn't some backhanded way of getting into a girl's pants. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 03:37 AM |
| 28 | Really mean females (rant)Someone's been reading too much "black pill" content. Excessive use of the word "females" is a dead giveaway. Listen to yourself. Have some self awareness. You are poisoning your mind with that crap. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 03:36 AM |
| 1 | How to proceedOn the other hand I could just hide the fact that I know and treat her as a plate, be her "first one" and giving her false hope of "more". Do this, unless you can't stand the sight of her (which is certainly reasonable). If that's the case do the other thing. You don't owe her anything, including closure. The situation is special because she is 18 and is still a virgin. She is totally into me and the thought of being the first one and molding a girl is trilling me. Say it with me, boys: | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 11:07 PM |
| 3 | can men and women seriously be friends?I don't want you to trust me. I'm just some guy on the internet. Go out and bang a bunch of women yourself, and then tell me if you still want to be friends with this girl. Start with her. Make a move. Don't try to be smooth, don't try to be romantic. Say something that sounds stupid (e.g. I really want to kiss you right now), brace yourself for the rejection that's probably going to come, delete her number, and then go practice on other women. Maintain the status quo and I promise that you will… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 06:05 PM |
| 4 | can men and women seriously be friends?Why would you want to be friends with a woman? If we did become platonic friends is it also likely they she would magically start being interested in me? No. More likely she'll hook up with someone like me, and then you'll get to hear about it when I casually discard her because she's boring and/or annoying. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 05:53 PM |
| 4 | Embarassing boner problemIt turns women on when a man they are attracted to gets physically aroused. I don't want people to see I'm erect in public. In any case it's bush league to get hot and heavy in public. Get a room, or at least somewhere private. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Essential starting material?I know to read the sidebar and I've read 2 of Rollo's books. You know everything you need to know. Go out and practice. Just do it. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 01:38 AM |
| 1 | How does flirting Work?The best way to learn how to flirt is to hang out with people who know how to flirt. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 01:30 AM |
| 52 | Asking a girl for sex.The jury is out on if this is a troll or not. Never underestimate the power of autism. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 03:18 AM |
| 3 | EVERYTHING you need to know about finding a woman for an LTRI'm a guy and this post sounds misogynistic even to me. And? You should keep your "morals" like this to yourself. You're the only one moralizing here, offering your opinions on what the perfect relationship looks like. It's great that you've thought about these things. It's an important bit of self reflection that every guy should do at some point. But there are lots of guys here who want lots of different things, it's not your place to say what aspects of a relationship other people should prio… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/19 05:13 AM |
| 8 | What now?You know, when I finished school, I had, on paper, a fabulous resume. I had no shortage of people telling me that it looked amazing. Brand name internships. A solid major. Excellent extra-curricular activities. Except I couldn't find a job, because no one pays you for being smart. The only thing people value you for... is for the value you can provide. So I sat down, learned how to do shit that I wasn't super interested in but pays the big bucks, and suddenly I started receiving great offers. Th… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 06:46 PM |
| 7 | What now?i dont want to approach women and give them attention because it never worked. It never worked because you never tried. You claim to be "enlightened" but refuse to capitalize on that information -- that makes you an idiot no matter how you spin it. What kind of person ignores information that can directly improve his life with a basic amount of effort? il rather remain sexless then to admit thats my "league". That's on you, dude. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 03:20 PM |
| 6 | Dating InfjThat should always be the answer when women take these stupid tests. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 03:16 PM |
| 1 | What should I tell my mother?https://youtu.be/2xxugNQUtpE?t=313 | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Is it posibble to break frame by answering sarcastically?Say what you want to say or don't mention it at all. Don't be passive aggressive. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Got called a psycho last nightI am not in the habit of picking up men. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 03:02 PM |
| 14 | Got called a psycho last nightbut also hate from men. You're doing it wrong, then, if you're talking about men that you would want to get close to. The biggest sign of social dysfunction is a guy who can't get along with other men. You don't want to apply these strategies to other men, always trying to AMOG everyone and treat everything as a shit test. Compartmentalize. Don't treat women the same way you would treat men. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 06:03 PM |
| 7 | How do you guys respond when a woman sends you a nude?Maybe I'm just not attractive enough, but I have never received a nude photo from a woman who wouldn't sleep with me if we were together at that moment, regardless of whether we have had sex yet. We aren't talking about sexy, non-nude pics. We aren't talking about how to solicit nude pics from women (don't). The OP asked how to respond to an unsolicited, graphic, nude photograph. Frankly, your response reeks of philosophizing about scenarios that don't actually happen. What to do if she sends a … | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 05:53 PM |
| 4 | Below average size=death sentence? (4,5 inches and low girth )Nah. More often we see the guy who can't get laid spending lots of time on the internet instead of making an active effort to fix his shit. Bonus points if he offers advice to other guys who can't get laid, either. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Shit testsAs long as she continuously engages she is still potentially interested. You become annoying when she is clearly averting your gaze, giving short responses, and/or trying to get back to whatever she was doing. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 04:33 PM |
| 57 | Got called a psycho last nightIt does sound pretty psycho when I write it out. Yeah, a lot of the strategies we discuss are sociopathic. That's what women want, so we give it to them. The moment women start preferring to sleep with skinny, nerdy men is when we teach guys how to be the skinniest nerd on the block. In the meantime we are going to continue manufacturing as many beefy bros as possible and teach them how to act like assholes, because that's what gets them laid. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 04:29 PM |
| 25 | How do you guys respond when a woman sends you a nude?You get the behavior you incentivize. If you ignore/insult her when she sends nudes, as many guys here are fond of suggesting (for reasons that are beyond me), then you can fully expect to not get any more from her. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 03:44 PM |
| 2 | GF bit my dickOuch. Where do you guys even meet these skanks? She’s been ignoring me Why are you trying to reach her? | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 11:27 PM |
| 1 | I need some clarity for my own sakeI should definitely go for a kiss Yes. and convey the idea of us being in LTR? What? No. Someone hasn't done the required reading. Also any tips on kissing a LTR girl material for a first time? A.W.A.L.T -- All Women Are Like That. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 11:25 PM |
| 2 | "You should get your ears pinned back"If he acts up in this sub then flag his posts and the mods will escort him out. What he does elsewhere isn't our concern. a racist as well So? | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 04:38 PM |
| 5 | An Actual Living NightmareHoly wall of text. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 03:48 PM |
| 2 | I need some clarity for my own sakeI'm new to TRP and I'm gonna admit, it's the best thing ever Really? When I was new I thought finding TRP was the worst thing that ever happened to me. What I did next was to just reply to her questions and chat normally as if nothing ever happened and didn't even ask her a single thing about her. Almost right. Chat normally as if nothing ever happened, but a better strategy in general is to minimize texting in favor of a meetup. And once you get the meetup be very unambiguous about your intenti… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Dating girl who said she's cheated in both her pervious serious relationships (at the end)Why are you going to rock the boat? You have a good thing going now. As a Red Pill man, you understand she isn't going to sleep with anyone else anyway, as long as you keep your game tight. And formally declaring yourselves to be in a relationship isn't going to protect you from the alternative. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Low teatosterone - what should I do next?[citation needed] | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Low teatosterone - what should I do next?[citation needed] | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Girl in a wheelchair (paraplegic) wants to fuck - yea or nay?I don't need to fuck a paraplegic if I want boring, unenthusiastic sex. I can just fuck my wife. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 03:05 AM |
| 10 | For shits and giggles, let’s compile a sexual innuendo / euphemism resource. What’s your best or worst most successful double entendre?This morning I was visiting my sister and she was telling me about how her roommate is seeing a guy who accidentally became the local coke dealer in her social circle. I joked that she should hook me up. When I saw her roommate a few minutes later I told her "Hey, I hear you're a great hookup". Giggling ensued. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 09:03 PM |
| 25 | Agree and amplify is dead in 2019, Ironic Acknowledgement is for Millennial GirlsA&A no longer shows that your disinterested in the conversation This has nothing to do with what I wrote. More generally, I have no idea what you are trying to say in your response here. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/19 09:00 PM |
| 117 | Agree and amplify is dead in 2019, Ironic Acknowledgement is for Millennial GirlsThe reason why A&A works is deeper than just using humor as a clever way to deflect. Women operate according to whatever their emotional state happens to be in the moment. Any time a woman says something, you can stick the words "Right now I feel that...." in front of it. That's why women repeatedly hook up with sleezeball despite him treating her like shit again and again. He excites her in the moment. A woman is literally a slave to her emotions. So if you pretend something isn't a big deal, t… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/19 08:31 PM |
| 7 | Should I?A lot of guys have more of the right stuff than they give themselves credit for, in my experience. They just need to have more faith in the process, realize that this shit works, provided they're bold enough to try. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/19 02:23 PM |
| 20 | Bundy: Ted And His Women (an analysis of why women love killers)The incels have taken to calling him "Chad Bundy". Leave it to them to find a reason to hate the man for something other than the fact that he murdered dozens of people and fucked their corpses. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/19 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Relationship material?Lucy with the football. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Uncertain how to continue with girlYou're better off asking her out on another date and getting rejected than being a socially awkward weirdo and not following up when she's expecting it. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/19 01:36 AM |
| 4 | How to man the fuck up and do that first approach?There is nothing anyone can say to you that will magically make you not a bitch. You've just gotta take the plunge. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 09:45 PM |
| 19 | 35 year old virginIt has nothing to do with bad luck. You are 5'10 and weigh 130 pounds, are you even trying? I guess I was looking for some kind of reassurance that it was not that bad and with some perseverance it could be achieved in a year or two. Yes, if you work hard you can be in a position to get laid regularly in a year or two. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 09:43 PM |
| 1 | What type of girls do "Chad" like to keep around?That you managed to alienate even /r/RedPillWomen tells me that you aren't asking for advice in good faith. If they can't help you then I certainly can't. If you really want help then I suggest you crawl back there and try again. Message the modteam before you do so you don't fuck it up again, you can tell them I sent you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 05:06 AM |
| 1 | What are some social skills that can help bond with people and create comfort with them?Learn how to make small talk. Is that not a social skill? More generally, do you often have trouble in social situations, misunderstanding people's intensions and motivations? | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 04:47 AM |
| 3 | What type of girls do "Chad" like to keep around?It's because you're boring and/or annoying. No one is going to tell you that, because girls don't want to hurt your feelings and guys want to sleep with you. Good thing we're on the internet where I'm not trying to sleep with you, otherwise I wouldn't be honest with you either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Living independently an impossibility?It seems more and more that the current society is set up to really require both you and your wife/girlfriend to be working in order to afford your own house. Yeah, if you live in some liberal shithole of a city. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 04:37 AM |
| 2 | What are some social skills that can help bond with people and create comfort with them?You asked what social skills will make people comfortable with you. I'm telling you that time trumps any particular mannerism, as long as you're pleasant to be around. Learn how to make small talk. I assumed you weren't talking about getting laid by way you phrased your question; you don't want to bond or (necessarily) create comfort with women you just met. That's a different sort of game. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 04:33 AM |
| 2 | How to respond when girls send pics of themselves?"That's my girl." | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 04:25 AM |
| 4 | What are some social skills that can help bond with people and create comfort with them?Small talk. People get comfortable over time, not shared experiences. That's why you can be good friends with a buddy you frequently play Xbox with and barely keep in touch with a friend who traveled abroad with you for a week. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 04:23 AM |
| 2 | When to check your woman vs when to laugh off a shit testWhen I get tired of it. I love to flirt, and I love to banter, so she has to be a huge bitch to get to that point. But once she has I shut that shit down real quick. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 04:19 AM |
| 10 | Uncertain how to continue with girlActions speak louder than words. Set up another date and kiss her as soon as you meet her. You've already made it clear that you want to get physical, so if she agrees to go out again then she is implicitly giving you a green light. In general, one rejected kiss doesn't mean it's game over, although you have to be a bit more careful when alcohol is involved. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 04:15 AM |
| 2 | If men and women are equally sexual creatures, why are places DirtySnapchat, Dirtyr4r, and VirginityExchange so out of proportion?Outside. A woman can go to a bar (or a coffee shop, Blockbuster, etc.), make eyes at a few guys, and one of them will start making moves. It's that easy. She just has to not be mentally ill to the extent that it's obvious, grossly obese, or have some physical deformity. Now, the thing to realize is that women aren't revved up for sex like men are.... their capacity to have sex is just as high as men's, but female sexual desire is responsive. So it is less likely that a woman will go out actively… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/19 04:09 AM |
| 3 | If men and women are equally sexual creatures, why are places DirtySnapchat, Dirtyr4r, and VirginityExchange so out of proportion?Are you sexually active? This isn't meant to be some kind of dig at you; it would explain why you aren't understanding. It's not like a guy and a gal meet at a bar and then overtly decide whether they are going to sleep together or just be sext buddies. It keeps escalating more and more, from flirting to sexting to hooking up to sex, until one of them throws the brakes on it. That such verbal arrangements exist on reddit that short circuit the process is the exception, not the norm, and is a dir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 09:24 PM |
| 2 | If men and women are equally sexual creatures, why are places DirtySnapchat, Dirtyr4r, and VirginityExchange so out of proportion?Do you really think that someone who constantly gets offers to have sex is going to have problem finding someone to sext on Snapchat? I know thinking is hard, but you're going to have to meet me half way, here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 08:25 PM |
| 1 | How will sexlessness/singleness impact economy?You're also neglecting that young, sexually frustrated men are more susceptible to suggestion, particularly when they are promised the sexual companions they desire if are willing to allahu akbar themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 07:50 PM |
| 3 | Best friend (24M) has proposed to single mother (42F) he’s known for 5 monthsI was a groomsman at my friend's wedding a few months ago. You aren't going to change his mind, so celebrate his happiness with him while it lasts. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 07:43 PM |
| 2 | If men and women are equally sexual creatures, why are places DirtySnapchat, Dirtyr4r, and VirginityExchange so out of proportion?Non sequitur. Some women have lots of sex with lots of men. Some women have lots of sex with one man. Some women are religious and have no sex at all. Every woman is offered sex constantly and doesn't need to resort to posting an ad on reddit to find a partner unless she is grossly unattractive or has some other problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 07:39 PM |
| 3 | If men and women are equally sexual creatures, why are places DirtySnapchat, Dirtyr4r, and VirginityExchange so out of proportion?Unless women are doing their seeking elsewhere? Yeah. It's called "real life", or "afk" if you're a reddit keyboard jockey. Watch this if you need a more specific explanation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 07:13 PM |
| 8 | Why doesn’t the manosphere ever talk about the father who abandoned the single mother?The issue is that she can unilaterally make a decision to have a child, and then force financial responsibility on the father for that decision. No one who has a brain in their head (and with just that we exclude 50% of MRAs) is going to tell you that women are somehow making a profit by getting pregnant on purpose. MRAs are always up in arms about women taking personal advantage of chid support, as if paying a couple thousand bucks a month offsets the incredibly expensive cost of raising a kid.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 07:07 PM |
| 1 | The men who hate women, hate them because women can get away with a life style some men cannot. If they could have the same "advantanges" as women they would be doing the exact things they complain about.Which makes every hookup feel important, while to the girls you're hooking up with who've been doing this for years, it's just going home with some guy. When I first started having casual sex in my early 20s I was extremely nervous about disappointing the occasional score. Here was some woman who had tons of sexual experience, and I was a thirsty loser in my 20s who couldn't even get it up when I actually did get lucky. But if you think about it like getting fast food, something you just do when… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/19 06:49 PM |
| 8 | How long has your improvement stage been?I’ve started to improve alot, stopped drinking, lost 13kgs and looking good, started reading and stopped smoking weed. I feel that now i’ve done these things to improve so where dat pussy at?! Have you tried talking to women? That's kind of important if you want to get laid. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 07:03 PM |
| 5 | Faced with an ultimatumpotentially LTR material. However, she hit me with an ultimatum. These two clauses are mutually exclusive. She proceeded to talk to hers on a day-to-day basis whereas I kept my interactions strictly platonic. I discovered this because I saw their text notifications. Called her out on this and she apologized Women are a lot of things; stupid isn't one of them. LTR worthy girls don't extensively text other guys in a social context, especially when they have a history together. a soft plate Unrelat… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 07:34 PM |
| 1 | CH: Women Would Rather Be Miserable Than Bored | “I am finally dating someone who is kind, and smart, and likeable and attractive, and great, and the sex is awesome.” But…. “He’s emotionally available…and actually likes me.”Let's take this to its logical conclusion. Suppose you're right. Suppose CH is a racist, what he wrote here is racist, and he is more generally completely unambiguous about his racist feelings towards minorities. You have successfully classified his opinion here as "racist". Now what? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/19 06:35 PM |
| 3 | CH: Women Would Rather Be Miserable Than Bored | “I am finally dating someone who is kind, and smart, and likeable and attractive, and great, and the sex is awesome.” But…. “He’s emotionally available…and actually likes me.”That's not merely wanting strong immigration laws, that's fucking racist. So? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/19 03:20 AM |
| 3 | Hypergamy at its finestWho the fuck is Ayesha Curry? And why are you listening to what women say? | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Overwhelmed by Tinder matchesAdding to this, don't forget that she is screening you as much as you her. If she agrees to go out with you again after your quick coffee date then you can assume she's down. I've had way more success by not even trying to close on the first date and scheduling the second at my place than meeting up somewhere on the first date and trying to smooth talk her back home. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 02:53 AM |
| 1 | What is the single thing you experienced/read that made you realise you needed to take action over your life?My coming of age tale. The key takeaway is that there is no one experience or any particular phrase anyone can say to you that will magically make you not a bitch. what made you realise I was generally unhappy with my life, but it wasn't anything specific that suddenly prompted me to action. I just spontaneously unsperged myself one day. Now, as a leader in this community, seeing that occasionally happen to others makes this whole Red Pill thing a worthwhile venture. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 09:19 PM |
| 2 | I feel I can never ever share true affection and love with women now because TRP and experience taught me it only drives them away. What to do?You know, there was a time when you never would have given this advice. Not because it isn't true, but because it isn't relevant for most guys in asktrp (==newbs), and is easily misunderstood. The problem most guys have is that they give away the store too quickly. They tell a girl how much they luuurve her right out of the gate, thinking it will bring her closer, when it actually has the opposite effect. LTR stuff, while important, is only relevant for guys who can spin plates, not because I cl… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 07:23 PM |
| 7 | False PositivesI’m talking about the twisted concept that he is taking advantage of people by putting on a conference. I don't give a shit that he's putting on a conference. I do think the guy is a con man, charging exorbitant fees for no product, but I have advised men to do worse things for personal gain and hold no ill will towards him for trying to squeeze every loose penny out of Mr. and Mrs. Average Knucklehead. No, the problem here is that he is taking advantage of my platform by posting drive-by ads fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/19 04:39 AM |
| 3 | Not getting Iron JohnI know it's so highly recommended in the TRP community I am a Red Pill Senior Endorsed Grand Poobah and I have never even heard of Iron John. that I'm sure the problem is me. Chances are it's not. TRP has a big "anyone can give advice" problem. For example, I have yet to hear one good reason to read Meditations, yet I see it recommended here at least once a week. It's amazing how quickly people shut up when you ask them what specifically they liked about a book they recommend. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 05:12 PM |
| 3 | I finally fucked my first 9That you, an endorsed contributor, do not acknowledge the fact that genetics and looks are important factors and must not be ignored, is weird to me. Did you even read past the first sentence? Let's try again, I'll make it easy for you: CLICK ME in fact I am 6ft myself And how's that working out for you? I'm sure you must be absolutely slaying, what with your "superior genetics" and all. It's basic logic and facts. Funny, I've heard this exact wording before... usually it's accompanied by excess… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/19 01:57 AM |
| 6 | I finally fucked my first 9I am so tired of this incel garbage. Every time someone posts about how they worked hard to fix their shit some blackpill touting doofus comes out of the woodwork screaming "muh genetics!" What you're saying isn't true. Get it through your head. Blackpill content is poison for your brain. Stop reading it. You guys are like the anorexic girls who congregate on Tumblr to complain that you just aren't skinny enough. You're so far gone that you don't even realize how crazy you sound. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/19 02:53 PM |
| 11 | I finally fucked my first 9So? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/19 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Did any of you found the "unicorn" yet? Question about wifing my ltrWe tend to think in this sub about modern marriages, where woman tend to fail their side of the contract and we have to pay for it. We don't even have to go so far as to assume that most women are going to screw over their men the first chance they get. It's simply that there is a risk of that happening, however small, with zero benefit. Calling it a gamble implies some sort of payout if things go your way. I don't know the answer to "but I want to have kids", fortunately it isn't something I ha… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 06:05 PM |
| 8 | Toxic family, moving out, and inheritanceI know a guy who stayed in contact with his abusive family so he wouldn't get written out of the will. His dad lived till 98 and the son didn't see any money until he was in his 70s. Go live your life, dude. There are lots of reasons to justify tolerating an abusive family; collecting the will is not one of them. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 04:56 PM |
| 8 | Did any of you found the "unicorn" yet? Question about wifing my ltrIve read alot of you are suggesting never to get married. When you recite your vows is the precise moment you willingly surrender all power in the relationship. You are simply trusting her to keep behaving, and if you ever decide you want out she is entitled by law to half of your shit (and your kids). Furthermore, while I have not observed it personally, there is no shortage of men reporting their wives to be less attracted to them without the build in "dread" of potentially being dumped, leadi… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 04:49 PM |
| 2 | MentorYou'll be fine long as there is a well-defined takeaway for the reader. would be more career/finance That's what the "building power" flair is for. Looking forward to it. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 04:22 AM |
| 2 | MentorI stand corrected, then. I've never experienced any luck using it, managing to network with domain experts in other ways. Maybe you can write a top level post about your approach in the main sub. Flair it as "building power". | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 03:20 AM |
| 1 | MentorLet me know how that works out for you. I have yet to see a single person with the goods active on LinkedIn. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 01:00 AM |
| 2 | MentorIf only we had a platform where experts in certain fields advertised their experience and location. Even better if we could send direct messages. If you don't already have the means to get in touch with someone at the top of their field then they probably don't want to hear from you. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Got a girlfriend. How do I tell her I want an open relationship?You blew your load, dude. You can't put the genie back in the bottle (you can try, but expect her to protest). What I'm wondering is how this promotion to "girlfriend status" was good for you. What do you have now that you didn't have before, other than an obligation to not sleep with other people? | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 04:45 PM |
| 10 | Got a girlfriend. How do I tell her I want an open relationship?You have it backward. The default state is non-exclusive until otherwise specified. Made it official today. What does this mean? | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 03:46 AM |
| 27 | In horrible painHow do you deal with pain You just deal with it. Whenever you get news you don't like, actively refuse to let it bother you. There is no alternative. As a man, you don't have the luxury of wallowing. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 05:01 AM |
| 4 | What's up with all that hate on video games?Because people are sheep and dropping video games is part of the generic self-improvement narrative. They are the same people who will tell you your time is better spent reading crap like The Prince. (Hint: it's not.) | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 05:44 AM |
| 3 | How to lose this “blackpill” mindset?Stop reading about it. When you find yourself wallowing, take a shower and get out of the house. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Useful language apps?my red pill journey to becoming a better Man. the essential problem of becoming an autodidact: it's difficult learning on your own It's a lot easier when you're learning things you're genuinely interested in rather than things that make you a "better man". I'm not conversational. How can I expedite the process? Visit the country and immerse yourself in the culture. I don't know why you'd spend time learning to become conversational in a foreign language unless that's your end game anyway. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 06:28 AM |
| 1 | At what point do you become too muscular for most girls?Obviously you can be "too big", anyone who says otherwise is an idiot. You're hurting my feelings. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Vacationing for the first time. Any suggestions?Wingsuit bombing down the Eiger. Are you allowed to do this without some sort of certification? I love all kinds of flight, but every avenue seems to have a super high barrier to entry. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Is "The Red Pill" just for noobs chasing mere pussy or is it more than that?https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/94y4is/trp_focuses_too_much_on_women/ | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 06:23 AM |
| 1 | What shoes should I wear?Go to DSW, find a well-dressed black man who works there, and ask him this exact question. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 04:08 AM |
| 35 | Girl stares at me shamelessly for two months, we meet organically, mentions her boyfriendshe mentions her boyfriend casually in conversation She's letting you know that she wants you to be discreet. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 04:06 AM |
| 10 | What would you recommend for an emergency 'pick me up'?Willingly seeking out a source of dopamine is pretty weak pimp. Willingly seeking out a source of dopamine is an excellent tool for energy management, provided you are mindful of how you are doing it. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 05:40 PM |
| 5 | Meeting girls in Italy is annoyingMeeting girls anywhere is annoying. Your problems aren't special or unique. You can move anywhere you want and it'll still be the same shit. I never tried cold approach (with the intention to date her) because you are viewed as a creep over time, and will ruin your social image, because word travels fast. Another guy who refuses to follow the standard advice and then complains that things aren't working for him. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 04:33 PM |
| 23 | Are guys actually afraid to approach 9s and 10s?No. Hot women get hit on all day, all the time. But you're welcome to pretend otherwise if it'll help you make the approach. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 04:22 PM |
| 1 | You Are What You WearAnd change of behavior comes from the change of values, which are generated internally. Incorrect. (I quote another post not because it offers any more validity to my claim; rather, it is a clear and succinct summary of the point I am trying to convey.) Thanks for trying, though. Snarky. Do you talk this way offline? It's rather unpleasant. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/19 03:52 PM |
| 3 | What's with all the out of touch old women that think Porn/video games are the root cause of the rise in sexlessness?I got my above average N count already, I'm satisfied What happened to living to enjoy the present? Is it only about keeping score, to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/19 03:41 PM |
| 1 | You Are What You WearYou're just the shell. Hey, look, someone figured it out. No one knows (can know) who you "really" are, or what your intentions are, Dorian. They only perceive your actions and your external appearance. Internalizing this is a bit freeing, because it means you can transform yourself into whatever you want by simply changing your behavior. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/19 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Should I cuck this guy?Ambiguous in the sense that it cannot be quantified. If you are going to shit test me you should have the courtesy of putting on a pair of heels and a dress. treats others they way deserve No one deserves to get treated like anything. You get what you get. It's more productive to consider how you can incentivize others to behave in a way you want rather than to demand it as a right. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Should I cuck this guy?Calling someone "insecure" is code for "my gut feeling is to disagree but I can't think of a rational argument". We establish laws to keep people civilized in a context where individuals are incentivized to behave in a way contrary to the good of society as a whole. Whether I choose to bang someone's girl has nothing to do with that. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Should I cuck this guy?Don't take part consciously in something that will hurt another person if you don't need to. Why not? I'm not even going to justify it, claiming to be doing the guy a favor by "redpilling him" or whatever. I want to have sex with her. So it hurts another guy, why exactly is that my problem? There's a thing that gets tabooed in this community: the understanding that the ultimate alpha state is one of morality. Pure hedonism is not the pursue of true, virtuous men. "Taboo" isn't the right word; no… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 04:25 AM |
| 4 | The Intellectual Yet IdiotIf you liked this you'd also like Tom Wolfe's Commencement Address to the Boston University Class of 2000 (Start from about half way down from the paragraph "Now, we must be careful to make a distinction....") | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | There Is More Than One Blue PillRight. Impressive, kind of like a someone with cerebral palsy deadlifting 200 pounds is impressive. But would you say that Maxwell wasn't as good a mathematician as Archimedes, despite working out the most mathematically complete physical theory to date, because Maxwell had the advantage of Newton's methods of calculus? Would you say that Hafthor Bjornsson is less athletic than the guy in that video, despite lifting more weight than any other man in the world, because he has the advantage of bei… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/19 04:05 PM |
| 13 | Glassdoor Average Base Pay for Webcam Models: $47,499/yearWhores deliver a product and charge a price. That's why the feminists are the most outspoken about preventing pussy from hitting the free market. It follows the same model as rent control, except here the increase in price is a feature, not a bug. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/19 11:22 PM |
| 5 | Reminder to not assume that being alpha is not showing any signs of interestGirls can come up to you and start the conversation themselves I would still classify that as an IOI. Opening a friendly conversation is very low risk, and it's still on you to escalate so the interaction doesn't end with "it was nice to meet you, see you around". The word "approach" (in my mind) connotes creating a sexual undertone that both parties are aware of, even if not overtly acknowledged. Using the word in this sense, women almost never approach men, unless there is a large SMV disparit… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/19 04:02 PM |
| 65 | Glassdoor Average Base Pay for Webcam Models: $47,499/yearAlso consider that many of these women prostitute themselves, which can be a couple hundred bucks, cash, multiple times a week. I have no problem with that. Use every tool at your disposal to get ahead. Just don't turn around after the fact, as you slam into the wall at Mach 2, and claim you were exploited. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/19 03:31 PM |
| 4 | Reminder to not assume that being alpha is not showing any signs of interestA woman sending an IOI your way is her way of approaching. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/19 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Reminder: There is a required format for top level postsI just think there should be more discretion. If you have a better suggestion then drop the mods a line in modmail. In my experience they are pretty receptive to feedback as long as it's done in private and phrased in a non-confrontational way. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/19 03:22 PM |
| 1 | There Is More Than One Blue PillYou write an article about many bluepills but simultaneously fall into another one - thinking our ancestors were ignoramusus because Science!. That someone accomplished a feat in an obtuse way doesn't make them better, smarter, or more talented. I'm not impressed by someone drawing the Eiffel Tower on an Etch-A-Sketch, nor do I care to watch the special olympics. Which mythilogical tradition will develop better men? The ancient one of course. Why? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/19 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Reminder: There is a required format for top level postsI hear. But you'd have to imagine that the mods don't have time to read every single post, and need a way to quickly determine if something should be left up in front of an audience of more than 300,000 people. Good writing isn't going to be compromised by a thesis statement at the top of the post, even if it is a redundancy. And it's a trivial request if your writing really is solid. I've gotten close with some of the mods, apparently the amount of shit they have to remove every day is absurd. … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/19 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Reminder: There is a required format for top level postsYeah, the mods made that pretty clear in the guidelines. (?) | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/19 09:37 PM |
| 4 | Reminder: There is a required format for top level postsNot every post needs to be a thesis. Correct. Not every post needs to be a thesis. But every post does need to have a thesis. Otherwise it is just aimless rambling, by definition. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/19 12:01 AM |
| 8 | Those who have found a plate doing day game how did your friends react?reactions family and friends give you when you do end up seeing someone from day game? You don't meet girls doing "day game". You meet girls at Starbucks, or at Barnes & Noble, or at Whole Foods. Get it? | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 10:16 PM |
| 1 | She's a VirginI've fingered her ass, but not her pussy (I think she's trying to protect her hymen). https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=22i3ocN5Rqs She's a sweet girl I'll say. She met you on Tinder and immediately started blowing you on the reg. Yeah, that's a real classy gal you've got yourself. I get she's trying to tie me down, which is generally a good problem to have-meaning she likes me a lot. No, it doesn't mean that. It means you are fundamentally incompatible, if being monogamous is a deal breaker for y… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 08:12 PM |
| 6 | Thinking of quitting college at last semester. Advice needed!If you're failing multiple classes then you probably don't have the discipline to teach yourself to write software. It's hard to actually FAIL a class, even in STEM, short of gross negligence or some kind of legitimate crisis. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 07:49 PM |
| 63 | There Is More Than One Blue PillA mistake a lot of newbs make is thinking this is a green light to act however they want and say whatever they want. Don't make that mistake. Note the emphasis: Open your eyes, examine everything, test your guesses, decide what works. What works is objective. You are entitled to decide that you like gook toons so much that you don't care if people judge you for wearing your favorite anime tee in public; the tricky bit is that discovering you can do something often doesn't offer any information a… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/19 03:54 AM |
| 1 | suicidal teenager with fucked up childhood, need advice!!!Instead of all at once starting martial arts, picking up an instrument, reading when you aren't in the habit, going on a caloric deficit, and refusing yourself the pleasure of a wank at the end of a long day, pick one thing that you'll take seriously, and take it seriously. This will slowly lead to other good habits, and even sticking with one thing is harder than you think when you have no discipline. For example, decide you're going to start training MMA. After two weeks of being low energy Je… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Have you tried running a premium snap?On the front page right now. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 11:35 PM |
| 1 | How do i respond?Chalk this one up to a learning experience. You know what you did wrong, so next time will be better. Experience only comes right after you need it. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 04:16 AM |
| 1 | How do i respond?"It's all good" and then soft next. If she's interested you'll hear from her, otherwise be polite if you run into her (don't ignore), but there's no need to be her friend. Not much more you can do. Go game other girls. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 01:47 AM |
| 4 | How do i respond?Initially my goal was to make her a plate but now i think the situation is too fucked. Alternatively, look at it this way: she understood your message to be overtly sexual, even it was a misunderstanding on her part, and she is still messaging you unprovoked. "who told you I hate you lmao" Nah, that opens the door for drama and a long back and forth over text. Go with something like "I don't hate you come by at 9". | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Any book recommendations?TRP isn't a philosophy. Nor does it try to define masculinity. It's a bunch of observations subject to constant scrutiny (and change), so it's hard to pin down what exactly it is. But if I had to choose one of the key themes I'd say it's learning to keep your mind open to the acceptance of ideas that might not be completely compatible with your world view. That is largely orthogonal to any particular philosophical view of life. Of course, we can arbitrarily extend the definition of "philosophy" … | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 03:20 PM |
| 3 | what do you think of elliot hulses take on this? Is order the main reason?I can't read this because you formatted your post like an illiterate. Go back to LinkedIn. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Is it just me or do girls go out of their way to leave guys on read just to feel superior to you and get an ego boost?I’m too busy to meet up, how else would I keep her interest or build rapport? Make time to meet up. There is no way to keep her interest without meeting in person, because you are directly competing with guys who are meeting her in person. In any case, what exactly is your goal here if you aren't planning to meet with her as soon as possible? I think I'm starting to understand why girls leave you on "read". Specifically But just recently I replied to this girl after a day, sent a detailed reply … | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 08:12 PM |
| 6 | How to internalize what you read?You read enough on the topic until you get a broad sense of what's going on. The precise details that you can quickly reference if need be aren't important to remember, even at the mastery level. It'll come even faster if you can implement it somehow -- practice talking to people for social psychology, do problems for physics/math, write software for CS -- but sometimes that isn't an option, as with history and economics. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 04:53 AM |
| 4 | Is it just me or do girls go out of their way to leave guys on read just to feel superior to you and get an ego boost?No your job is to excite her. Make her feel something. Any emotion is better than none, get her so worked up that she can't resist dropping whatever she's doing when she sees your name pop up on her caller ID. As an aside, you generally shouldn't be trying to do this through text. Entertain yourself if you want, but that's orthogonal to building attraction. Recently I've been using bitmoji, it's hilarious to send them back in response to "serious" texts. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 02:53 AM |
| 4 | Is it just me or do girls go out of their way to leave guys on read just to feel superior to you and get an ego boost?No you just don't excite her. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 11:21 PM |
| 1 | How to game shy girlsSlowly extend your hand with some baby carrots while making eye contact, you're going to want to do about 70% of the approach, let her close the rest of the distance. Alternatively you can treat her just like any other girl because All Women Are Like That. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 11:14 PM |
| 4 | getting new glasses finally, any tips?For style? Find the gayest looking salesman and ask him for help choosing a pair of frames. Seriously. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 11:10 PM |
| 4 | Telling how many other girls I am seeing?let her use her imagination +1 A girl's imagination is the strongest weapon in your arsenal, both for applying dread and getting her sexually excited. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 05:21 AM |
| 0 | Can I get my ex girlfriend back?You shouldn't have answered the phone when she called. I tried to act as if it didn't bother me and that I was happy for her You don't have to pretend to be happy with your new status of "just friends". It's not like you're getting laid anyway, so if not pussy at least you still have your pride. Be an asshole. Let her not like you. Not your problem. I thought she loved me but she goes and finds a guy in less than a week. Yeah. Not sure why you'd want to be with someone who looks at you as replac… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 07:32 PM |
| 3 | what RP stuff do you read which DOES NOT revolve around women?Meditations by Marcus Aurelius Which part(s) did you like? I keep seeing this suggestion but get crickets when I ask what was so insightful about it. I didn't like it at all, personally. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 07:24 PM |
| 3 | what RP stuff do you read which DOES NOT revolve around women?Biographies of people I want to emulate. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Politically Illiteratewhy is it natural for one to turn more conservative after educating themselves? Capitalism has a PR problem. Socialism has a "this doesn't work" problem. Without a basic understanding of economics, capitalism looks monstrous in contrast with socialism, because it seems as though capitalists won't help others despite an ability to do so. It appears as if there is a class of greedy fat cats with top hats and big cigars who collectively decide that they will keep the lower class down. Learn some ec… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Has there been a line or bio you guys use that skips the meetup and hang out a bit bs and goes straight to sex?No one taught you the secret handshake? | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 05:02 PM |
| 1 | How much is mental masturbation.This is good reading for learning how to learn. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Any book recommendations?Books about philosophy,psychology Yuck. You'd be better off reading a history book or a biography. I feel like Meditations by Marcus Aurelis would get recommended; I read it and its fantastic Really? I read it and thought it was a waste of time. What did you like about it? | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Major flaw with TRPBut why are we assuming that a womans mentality has not changed We don't assume anything. We try stuff out, and the stuff that works gets showcased on the front page. You said it yourself: We know the theory works because we can see the results, we can all relate to the awalt tendencies. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 04:44 AM |
| 19 | What would you tell your 21 year old self?The only thing people care about is what value you can provide. Titles and status themselves are meaningless if they cannot be extended to include others. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 04:17 AM |
| 3 | Is ADHD real?Drugs like Adderall and Vyvanse are absolutely addictive. There's no question about it. That's doesn't mean you shouldn't use them, it just means you have to be smart about it. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Is ADHD real?Who cares? | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | My LTR has a fuckload of beta orbiters.LTR-worthy girls don't have male friends. You mean that you think telling her that keeping in contact with these guys is not acceptable behavior is a good idea? No, telling her that will just cause an argument ending with her calling you an abusive, controlling asshole. And then she'll probably continue to do it anyway. The answer is to not LTR up a girl who doesn't intuitively understand the problem with this behavior. It happens to be that such a standard excludes most women, which is why we t… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 08:45 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: Do you want children? What is the best way to have children?RPS, can you describe what you feel in regards to having kids? As you know, I'm a bit younger than most of the ECs, so perhaps I lack some perspective. Unlike you in your 20s I don't abhor the idea of having children -- I'm just not interested. Kind of like I'm not interested in getting a dog. I like dogs. They're cute, fun, and as they get older you can develop a bond with them. But it's a hell of a commitment, and I have other things I'd rather spend my time doing. To me, kids are like that, w… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/19 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: Do you want children? What is the best way to have children?Too bad. I can't say I'm not amused by the idea of you sending your kid to preschool after downloading your manifesto to his pristine little hard-drive. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/19 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you absolutely have to go for the kiss on the first date? I usually like to wait until the second date for a kiss-close.A lot of guys will ruin their chances with girls by going too strong too fast. By waiting to get intimate on the second date, you increase your chances of being successful because girls don't like getting intimate with strangers that fast. Sounds like you already have all the answers. Why are you bothering to ask us when you already know what you want to conclude? | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 06:27 PM |
| 7 | Feeling DisgustedPost-nut clarity after fucking a bar slut doesn't feel much better, it has to do with the conditioning you experienced as a child. Did you come from a particularly conservative/traditional background? You'll get used to it in any case. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Inheriting My Uncles' $100M Company, Should I Make My Gold-digging Fiance Sign a Pre-Nup?At the same time, the girl I was dating basically forced me into proposing to her (felt like I had a gun to my head). ??? | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 10:50 PM |
| 1 | People Respond Differently To Me After TRPThis is hard to read. Fix your formatting. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 10:48 PM |
| 2 | RP guys NOT from the WESTERN part of the world. Are you here?I'd say US girls are way more easy than girl from east raised under conservative/religous points of view. Every newb thinks he has some particular circumstance that makes the game more difficult for him than anyone else. Women are women, regardless of skin-tone and eye-shape. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 05:38 PM |
| 1 | LTR Giving me the ultimatumSo she is telling you that being married is more important to her than being WITH YOU. +1 Think about what incentivizes people and their behavior will be more predictable. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Girl with LDR Kissed Me At Party - Dread, Escalate, or Next?Even if she is, it isn't your problem. Escalate as usual. Don't disqualify yourself for her. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 05:16 AM |
| 2 | Virgin girl?STARTED DATING A VIRGIN? BUT SHE DIDN'T BLEED. Better take her out to the town square and stone her. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 04:51 AM |
| 2 | 32 year old virgin...Bang?Even if she is, it isn't your problem. Escalate as usual. Don't disqualify yourself for her. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 04:48 AM |
| 6 | First plate adviceNow I’m thinking that I should just continue easy sex. Sure. It's not like she's an LTR. Keep inviting her over as long as she's into it, or until you get bored. The moment you feel like she's being too disrespectful or the sex is just not worth the amount of mental effort, stop answering her. It doesn't have to be formulaic. Just do whatever you feel like doing. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Help losing virginityNever asked a girl out because I'm afraid she'll say yes and I'll have no idea what to do. Newbs are always afraid of rapid progress. Sack up. You'll figure it out. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 12:57 AM |
| 2 | She said i have the smallest dick she has ever fuckedShe then said i have the smallest dick she has fucked and she has been with 30-40 guys. Yeah, she sure showed you. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 07:50 PM |
| 2 | No means yes?No doesn't mean yes. It doesn't mean anything. Neither do any of the examples in your post. You have to navigate based on her actions, not what she says. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 03:23 AM |
| 4 | Why women always bring (tall) when it comes to tease guys ?Because most guys respond. If you don't take the bait then she'll move onto something else. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 03:49 PM |
| 4 | Why do plugged in alphas go for sluts in ltrs?Sluts offer a return on minimal effort. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | [FIELD REPORT] 1st time "shotgun" cold approaching at huge outlet mall. 2 #'s out of 20+ approaches and lots of revelations.Going over to a girl and asking for her number right off the bat is autistic as hell. I mean, good on you for approaching at all, but you can do better. If you don't think she would agree to sit down with you in a cafe for 20 minutes then and there if she had time, then getting her number at all is useless. In other words, you'll have to do a little more than ask where you can get a slice of pizza nearby and then blurt out that she's pretty and you want to call her later. Instead of making the e… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Went back to school, 28 fresh out of college, enter new career and discover it's basically a dead end. Broke, stuck, and looking for opinionsA person makes money by providing a service that people care about. You are trained to provide a service that people don't want to pay you for, which means they don't particularly care about it, and that fact makes you unhappy. Regardless of how deep in the hole you are now, or how unfair it might be, or whose fault it is for giving you bad advice, this is where you are at, today. What do you plan to do about it? | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 03:17 PM |
| 1 | sites/books/youtube channels on looking good/attractive?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vmNPOjaGrVE | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 03:01 PM |
| 86 | My first ever post-TRP conversation with a girl, am I doing it right?The problem is that you left the ball in her court, and after that line there's no way you can follow up without looking like a thirsty loser. In general, you have to assume women aren't going to initiate plans unprompted, even when they are interested. Try to avoid creating a situation where you're waiting for her to randomly hit you up. e.g. this Let me know when you're ready. is bad. You could have left that part out totally, and then ignored her when she asked how you know she'll make time f… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 07:50 PM |
| 4 | LTR to study abroad in Europe this summer. Advice?No red flags, all green. A girl who is LTR material wouldn't want to leave you for an extended period of time. That she does, even for her own personal development, is itself a red flag. Keep frame or dump her? The way you phrased this question indicates a fundamental misunderstanding of what "frame" is. "Keeping frame" doesn't mean you stay stoic while she does whatever the hell she wants. For example, you can still maintain frame while permanently downgrading her to plate. They key is to do it… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 02:37 AM |
| 3 | What are you reading this week?Non-fiction is Battle Cry of Freedom: The Civil War Era by McPherson. His presentation is a little too left-leaning for my tastes, but I've previously read on the subject and like to hear all possible historical interpretations. Today I was reading about how Andrew Jackson was anti-capitalist and anti-bank which makes it kind of funny and ironic that he's the face on the 20 dollar bill. Fiction is The Things They Carried by Tim O'Brien, a fabulous read so far. I highly recommend it. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 07:00 AM |
| 2 | THE LIONS DEN - OFFICIAL NO-BAN FREE-FOR-ALL MODS-ASLEEP AMA-TRP DAYI wish I was as articulate as some of the top dogs here. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/19 10:41 PM |
| 2 | THE LIONS DEN - OFFICIAL NO-BAN FREE-FOR-ALL MODS-ASLEEP AMA-TRP DAYI love to cook, so I'm probably not the best person to ask. The important thing when you start is to make sure you are eating enough... plan your meals around some kind of protein, supplement carbs when you need energy, and work in some veggies here and there. Eventually you will learn what your body needs. I feel like eating the junk I do at university is a part of why I might not have much motivation Could be. Try working out while eating more university food. Not the healthiest option for the… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/19 10:36 PM |
| 9 | THE LIONS DEN - OFFICIAL NO-BAN FREE-FOR-ALL MODS-ASLEEP AMA-TRP DAYHow do you feel about girls knowing/learning/reading TRP? We made an entire subreddit for women on the internet (/r/RedPillWomen). The women in my life learn to understand TRP, even if not by name. how can I, as a girl who is aware of TRP and just wants to enjoy and fuck without drama, make it easier for ya'll This tells me that while you may be aware of TRP, you don't actually get it, because just going out and fucking and having a good time is contrary to your long-term happiness. It is litera… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/19 10:25 PM |
| 13 | THE LIONS DEN - OFFICIAL NO-BAN FREE-FOR-ALL MODS-ASLEEP AMA-TRP DAYI don't hate them. I feel sorry for them. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/19 10:18 PM |
| 2 | THE LIONS DEN - OFFICIAL NO-BAN FREE-FOR-ALL MODS-ASLEEP AMA-TRP DAYI have absolutely shit amount of self-motivation to start other than to not get diabetes and to get laid. That's as good a motivation as any. No one likes lifting when they start, and everyone has some stupid reason they stick with it. Usually it's women. But after just a couple of weeks you'll see a change in the mirror and that itself will motivate you to keep going. For me it was seeing my traps grow after I learned to deadlift. It took just two weeks. if the literal personification of Chad t… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/19 10:17 PM |
| 3 | THE LIONS DEN - OFFICIAL NO-BAN FREE-FOR-ALL MODS-ASLEEP AMA-TRP DAYAre you willing to cheat if you are in a relationship? Any "relationship" I have ever been in was with the understanding, sometimes explicit, that I could sleep with whoever else I want. You have bigger problems than your relationship if you have to "cheat" behind your woman's back. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/19 10:02 PM |
| 2 | THE LIONS DEN - OFFICIAL NO-BAN FREE-FOR-ALL MODS-ASLEEP AMA-TRP DAYRead good fiction. Read non-fiction. There are also some good TV shows out there. Video games aren't my thing, but they can be useful to blow off steam. Or else enjoy mainstream entertainment and ignore the parts you don't like. I'm a sucker for Marvel movies even with all the rah-rah, you-go-girl bullshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/19 09:57 PM |
| 7 | THE LIONS DEN - OFFICIAL NO-BAN FREE-FOR-ALL MODS-ASLEEP AMA-TRP DAYWhat do you say to someone who's main fear of actually trying to get laid is becoming a victim of #metoo? This is a valid question that comes up quite often. The answer is to realize that despite the amount of casual sex they are having, most girls aren't falsely accusing guys of sexual assault. It's not nearly as common as the internet would have you think. Women aren't interested in reporting you to the police, they're interested in "good vibes". Girls just want to have fun. And, for what it's… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/19 09:47 PM |
| 50 | The more “alpha” I’ve become the quieter I am?It gets worse before it gets better. Right now you've stopped seeking external validation via volunteering information about yourself to others. Letting others talk about themselves, you will quickly discover that most other people aren't particularly interesting.... so there isn't much to say at all. Socializing becomes boring; it's not that you're afraid to talk to people, you just don't want to. [you are here] Soon you'll realize that not talking to people is even more boring than talking to … | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Girl takes Zoloft. Stay away ?Nah. Just don't promote her to LTR. Most people today are medicated. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Book Recommendations???I liked the Foundation trilogy by Isaac Asimov. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 03:56 AM |
| 1 | How to cope with high cortisol?Lifting is way less physically tiring You're doing it wrong, then. Now the bigger issue is that WEIGHT LIFTING RAISES MY CORTISOL LEVELS FURTHER! I can't cite any sources because it's been a while, but I read up on this some time ago and found literature showing that the small boost in cortisol is way offset by the positive benefits as a result of lifting heavy weights. It's good to try to keep your cortisol down, but there are better ways than avoiding the weightroom. I never tried "meditating"… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 03:44 AM |
| 3 | How long will it take to get over my oneitis?5-6 girls. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 03:28 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The concept of female attraction is the hardest pill to swallowNailed it. I remember, even if you don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 05:15 AM |
| 2 | How can women be the cherry on top of the cake if the driving force of every man is sexual desire?I mean you can do whatever you want. But I don't understand why, if you really, really want to get laid (like every man does), your conclusion is going be "as sentiment beings we can abstain from our biological desires", when a perfectly good alternative is to just satisfy those biological desires. So you can go your own way, thanks. I'll keep getting laid even if I don't get to have the same feelings of moral superiority as you. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 06:29 PM |
| 18 | How can women be the cherry on top of the cake if the driving force of every man is sexual desire?It seems you missed the point. Let's try it again. Having women in your life is really important. Anyone who tells you otherwise doesn't belong here, they can go jerk off with the rest of the "men going their own way". It's an annoying fact that until you get a handle on the sex thing you will not be able to truly succeed in any other endeavor. It's kind of like not having access to healthy meals will put you in a permanent state of brain-fog. The issue is that for some fucked up reason women li… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Is it weird to ask a girl to show me where her clit is?People keep asking "When will I become confident, and not have to fake it?" Answer is, never. Not if you know what's good for you. Greatness is driven by the fear of mediocrity. The moment you think you are good enough, you will never be any better. Source | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 11:39 PM |
| 4 | Do girls like obliques? Or is it all abs all day?I recommend ignoring ab work all together. I did that and fucked up my back when my core couldn't keep up with my legs. Don't be dumb. Train your core like every other muscle group. It's easy to forget that weight training is more than just aesthetics. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What's your sexual history and how does that relate to your pill identity?The red pill works like a charm and thats a bloody tragedy Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/19 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do women deserve to be treated badly after making ‘mistakes’?It doesn't matter what people "deserve". They get what they get, specifically, what they inspire other people to give them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Women have more power than men -- socially, politically, economically, etc[The offense is] how much and how often the target audience dips enthusiastically into pointed and purposeful misogyny. I get the whole "toolbox" analogy and understand a lot of men use rp principles in that way. You misunderstood what I said. Let me try again. The misogynistic presentation is a tool that we, the TRP leadership, use to reach men. RPW is a sub built on core Red Pill ideas without the misogyny that men require to get the same message. It's true that men and women have different go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 11:13 PM |
| 6 | Women have more power than men -- socially, politically, economically, etcConsider that the reason you find TRP's content revolting is because you are not its intended audience... the presentation you find revolting is a tool we use to reach men. You might find an alternative presentation of the same content to be more palatable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/19 09:27 PM |
| 4 | 6”2 roided chad called me nigger behind my back don’t think he would have a problem doing it again either. What to do in future if it happens again?The problem with approaching racism this way is that you might be left with some uncomfortable truths.... kind of like applying basic probability theory to economics leaves us with the realization that true equality is impossible. So most people would rather just not think about it at all. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 12:38 AM |
| 2 | 5th date...no sex. “Traditional” girl who says she only has sex in a relationshipThe fact you don't recognize rule zero copypastaed verbatim is concerning to me. I did. And I responded: We want you to think for yourself, not mindlessly parrot back what you read. I didn't argue with rule zero. I argued with its application here. Doing what you want IS the core value. I'm not sure how this is counter to anything I said. I didn't endorse family values and societal norms, I simply stated that not doing something specifically because is is a social norm is as bad as blindly follo… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 03:50 AM |
| 1 | 5th date...no sex. “Traditional” girl who says she only has sex in a relationshipWho is "we"? I have no idea who you are, and I'm on the short list of guys who get a say about what goes on here. nothing bluepill about desiring to have an LTR, getting married and having children. Correct. As men we are biologically hardwired to care about women and innately want children. The Red Pill is here to tell men that hey, we know you want to do that shit, but it's probably not going to work out the way you're planning. Choosing to have kids anyway might be really, really stupid, but … | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 02:36 AM |
| 8 | 5th date...no sex. “Traditional” girl who says she only has sex in a relationshipChill. He's right. You're getting excited over nothing. Redpill doesn't care about bettering the greater community. Somewhat, although we do care about being civil on our subreddit. Otherwise we can't have productive dialogue. /u/marcus8crassus, you are correct that TRP is not about prescribing a specific set of goals towards the end of reaching some theoretical masculine ideal. We are not here to tell you what to do. We just want you to be informed when making important decisions. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 11:44 PM |
| 2 | You guys got any good cookbooks/websites?Serious Eats is a good reference for meats, but you'll learn by practicing. You're not going to ruin a good piece of meat if you use normal spices and don't burn it. Worst case your food will be a little bland, which isn't the biggest deal if you're using good (fresh) ingredients. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 10:05 PM |
| 8 | "Let's hang out some more first", is it time to next?That wasn't his question. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Are all male groups so hierarchical?My friends don't seem to genuinely care for each other's success. Find better friends. You don't need more than two or three, contrary to what facebook will have you believe. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 09:26 PM |
| 9 | How do I stop giving a shit about what others think?You act as if you don't give a shit. Pretend. You'll quickly discover that other people don't think about you at all, because they're too busy giving a shit about what other people think of them. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | I feel as like I am wasting my lifeYour problems are well defined, so the solution, while not easy, is straightforward. You don't need a custom plan. You need to do the work. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Is this a shit testAnd I would like to know what is the best response to hold frame. Exaggerate to the point of absurdity. You can go either way, tell her you're a virgin holding out for someone special, or tell her you're the town pogo stick and just last night you slept with someone for a pair of Reeboks. Have fun with it. Shit tests that are overtly about sex are the most fun. The first girl I slept with, I told her I was a virgin and I was a virgin. She didn't seem to believe me, or care in any case. When the … | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 04:47 PM |
| 23 | "i dont like this revolving door of women thing you're doing , pick a girl and just stay with her" ~ motherUterus worship is only a couple of inches past pussy worship. She's your mother, not your local orthodox rabbi. She'll get over it, or she won't. That's on her. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 12:36 AM |
| -1 | I Archived The Entire Subreddit And Coded A Simple Website To Read It (Part Two)You're missing the point. It's not about who's responsible for what, or to blame. People don't act rationally, but they often do act predictably. We can anticipate what Heathcliff's reaction might be when he sees what you are doing, and there's a good chance that scenario will play out in a way that we all lose. But even if he stops posting and deletes his account, at least he would be taking responsibility for what he posts online, right? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/19 02:19 PM |
| 1 | I Archived The Entire Subreddit And Coded A Simple Website To Read It (Part Two)Irrelevant. You are actively facilitating the spread of content that he doesn't want to disseminate. Do you want him to stop posting? Because that's what your actions are encouraging. And anyone else you choose to dig up on. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/19 01:04 PM |
| 1 | So love is fake?I have lined up a psychologist with academic credentials If you're going for book sales then that's even more important than having something to say. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 01:00 PM |
| 2 | I Archived The Entire Subreddit And Coded A Simple Website To Read It (Part Two)I couldn't take no for an answer, so I did my best to recover most of his posts. Have you considered that maybe there's a reason he deleted those posts? Considering how much content he still has publicly available, I think you owe him the courtesy of not digging up all the stuff he consciously chose to delete. I know your intentions are good, but consider that you are creating the incentive for guys like him to post less overall. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/19 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else think they are addicted to Youtube?Not YouTube specifically, but new content in general, yes. Fill your time with other things. I found that my addiction to the internet was only a result of easy access. I get sucked into a textbook just as easily as Netflix, but it's harder to get off the couch and get a book set up on my desk than it is to open my phone and start mindlessly browsing. Understand that today's media is quite literally engineered to short-circuit your brain. It's not the point of the book, but there's a good bit on… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 02:05 PM |
| 4 | Is it weird to ask a girl thru instagram?It's not "weird", because the entire human mating ritual is weird. But it probably won't work and will actively erode the sort of mindset you want to be in. I pussy out when I try it in real life Sack up. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 01:57 PM |
| 2 | How much does bad teeth effect your SMV?The first things people (not just women) notice about you when making snap judgements about your character are your haircut, teeth, glasses, and shoes. Investing in those areas is always worthwhile. Getting them taken care of soon I suppose it doesn't really matter then, because you are actively addressing the problem. In the meantime keep approaching "on hard-mode" so that once you get it taken care of and feel like a million bucks the game will be that much easier for you. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 01:55 PM |
| 8 | gentlemen, is there a way to screen for slutty women?Every woman is a slut for the right guy. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Is it ever OK to go back to an EX?No, if you do the relationship police will knock down your door in the middle of the night and the government will seize all your assets. Guys like you aren't armed either, so there's no concern on their end of a firefight. Quick and easy, in and out. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 01:08 AM |
| 1 | What does a top 20% lifestyle look like?Whatever you want it to look like, in contrast with what other people want your life to look like. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 04:09 PM |
| 3 | What do I do if I want to go out but have no one to go with?Go out yourself. It's more fun and the stakes are lower. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Did I just miss a threesome?Doesn't stop guys from running downstream and losing their trunks as they dive in to try and catch one particular fish. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 01:17 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys do?Whatever I want. I've sampled dozens of hobbies over the years, became excellent at some and quit others. I workout (calisthenics) Try lifting heavy weights, and then learn to cook when you will inevitably need to start eating more. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Does soy really kill testosterone levelsWho cares? It's hilarious and steak tastes better anyway. it can protect against breast cancer [citation needed] | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 12:30 AM |
| 0 | Jeff Bezos to divorce wife of 25 years, leading to the costliest divorce settlement ever...TRP is misogynistic, dummy. You can quote me on that as an official senior endorsed Grand Poobah of TRP. That's the definition of a feature: an attribute that is deliberately introduced to play a specific role, in contrast with a bug which is an unwanted, unintended side effect. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/19 06:07 AM |
| 8 | Jeff Bezos to divorce wife of 25 years, leading to the costliest divorce settlement ever...You're missing the point. This conversation has nothing to do with what "RedPill is about at its core". To answer that (unrelated) question, I will direct you to the sidebar: The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/19 06:03 PM |
| 0 | Jeff Bezos to divorce wife of 25 years, leading to the costliest divorce settlement ever...You haven't earned a say in what we do here because you don't even understand why we do it Like I said puss and improvement Be more specific. Why would the TRP leadership deliberately cultivate a misogynistic culture? How does "women hating" translate to "puss and self-improvement"? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/19 05:57 PM |
| 7 | Jeff Bezos to divorce wife of 25 years, leading to the costliest divorce settlement ever...I don't really care what you're here for. You haven't earned a say in what we do here because you don't even understand why we do it... for instance, you think that we shit talk women just because they're women. Hang around long enough and maybe you'll figure it out. I'll give you a clue: realize that the guys who started this place are a hell of a lot smarter than you think and they had a precise reason for setting the tone as they did. Also realize that "puss" (and by extension, self improveme… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/19 12:57 PM |
| 3 | Jeff Bezos to divorce wife of 25 years, leading to the costliest divorce settlement ever...Misogyny is a feature of The Red Pill, not a bug. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/19 12:29 AM |
| 12 | How long would it take to build a decent physique (something that would make you look better than like 60-70 percent of guys out there)As long as it takes. Are you not going to do it because it might take too long? Assuming your diet is in check you will notice a change within 2-3 weeks. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Texts that make her hamster spinWhat is your goal here? To get laid? Or to inflate your ego? I've seen multiple questions from you about what you can text a girl to get her to text you back, so you can then ignore her. It may feel good, for a moment, but it won't get you any closer to the end-zone. Don't lose sight of the goalposts. If you don't get your ego in check you aren't going to score. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Have Aspergers, need help with my approach gameimagine she says something like, "um, ok?" In that case you'd eject. How you do it doesn't matter because you're never going to see her again. But more often than you'd think you'll get a positive, or at least neutral, response, and it only gets better as you do it more and more. Try using that line next time you buy a cup of coffee. Smile with your eyes and tell the girl "yeah, I don't really want anything, I just wanted to speak to you", she'll laugh (or roll her eyes), give her your actual or… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 09:16 PM |
| 15 | Have Aspergers, need help with my approach gameI know what you say is not important its how you say it. But the thing is what do I even say to begin with? "To be honest I don't really have anything to tell you, I just wanted to say hello." | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 12:34 AM |
| 22 | The Unknowability of Beta TurdCongratulations? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Why can’t we be friends?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i8kpYm-6nuE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Are socially adept men really “dominant,” or are they just “playful,” “fun,” and "good communicators"?The best (and only) indicator of social acuity is multiple demonstrations of social skills under a variety of conditions. It doesn't matter how many books you've read, seminars you've attended, or quizzes you've aced. I'm not pointing fingers -- the feedback loop you described for social improvement does exist -- but it's disengenuous to claim that an introvert can compete with an extrovert, due to experience alone. Imagine saying that a fresh CS grad from Berkeley who graduated with honors can … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Are socially adept men really “dominant,” or are they just “playful,” “fun,” and "good communicators"?Sure. But by definition what makes you socially adept is the ability to consistently perform in any circumstance, even when the situation isn't optimal or at all convenient. If you can operate a bus in poor conditions (ice, fog) then you are a better driver than the guy who got a perfect score on his road exam but can only drive on a wide street under sunny skies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 01:16 AM |
| 5 | Are socially adept men really “dominant,” or are they just “playful,” “fun,” and "good communicators"?So its not that these guys are bad at reading the situation. They are usually better than the outgoing guy. It's just that they are usually the victims of bullying and bad social experiences. You know what indicates social aptitude? Actually being able to talk to people. Not scoring well on some online facial recognition quiz. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/18 12:55 AM |
| 7 | Escalation tips when you bring her home?Once she comes back to your place you can assume she will respond positively to physical escalation. Just say "come here" and kiss her. You don't have to be in your room to start getting hot and heavy. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 09:16 PM |
| 2 | How the fuck do you do all this shit?One crisis at a time. You can't fix everything all at once. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 04:51 AM |
| 1 | can someone please help me?Long term medication is not an acceptable solution. Because this is reddit, where the veracity of an argument depends on who is making it instead of its content, I will mention that I have ADHD. I went entire semesters in college without following a single lecture, despite regular attendance. Everyone has problems. Having ADHD doesn't make the world any more or less harsh, it just means that you have to deal with your shit in a particular way. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 04:47 AM |
| 121 | Theres mermaids now 🧜♂️🧜♀️This tangentially reinforces what we always say -- the specific words that come out of your mouth don't matter, only that you talk to her at all and fondle her mind. Usually we only apply that to opening a girl though, you've taken it to the next level by injecting it into the middle of a conversation when the interaction isn't going in a good direction. Well done. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/18 05:13 AM |
| 27 | Im busy with college but I need help.fuck i already failed with one girl i was attracted to Relax. It's one girl. You're in college, you can spit with your eyes closed and chances are you'll hit some thot in yoga pants. You are in the perfect environment to practice talking to women. Not read about talking to women. Practice. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Those of you who have your own business or are finically independent how did you get there?I am simply throwing out examples as to the kind of poor financial planning that happens that is significantly different from people who have money. See, but that's the point. The fact that you listed "having kids" as an example of spending money on "DUMB THINGS" indicates that in your mind they both fall under the same umbrella of "poor financial planning". Which they don't. Having kids can make a long term difference either way. Swiping your Debit card for some popcorn at the movies won't, and… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 04:37 PM |
| 7 | Just dumped my LDR. But I need an objective opinion.It doesn't even make sense to say you "broke up" from an LDR. The reason why LDRs don't work is because you're just sticking an arbitrary label on celibacy. Might as well say "violated your purity pledge". | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 02:12 AM |
| 12 | Those of you who have your own business or are finically independent how did you get there?Most people are rich and do well primarily because they SAVE and don't spend money on DUMB THINGS {Having kids} Having kids isn't the same as spending money on dumb shit. It's disingenuous to equate the two. That said, the difference between living well and penny pinching is like 3k a year. The act of buying coffee and garbage on Amazon isn't going affect whether you become rich one way or another. I'd rather spend money on "DUMB THINGS" than be a frugal weirdo who sports a shitty haircut and do… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: What do women have to gain by lying about what turns us on?Ideally he would "just know" (which is obviously a silly expectation, but sexual desire can't be negotiated). So where does that leave us? In other words, how would your husband know how to turn you on and get you off? Well, the same way most guys are able to get into relationships even though they have no "game". Things tend to work out in life. But it's more of an accident. It's kind of similar to how one person (usually the girl) is "settling" in a relationship, because she doesn't know how t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 06:19 PM |
| 4 | Over thinking a first date kissit went well however for some reason I struggled to see if she wanted to kiss me or not There usually isn't a great way to tell on the first date if you haven't already gone back to her place or yours. Just gotta take the plunge. I said something along the lines of ‘I guess I’ll just shoot my shot, too forward to lean in for a kiss?’ That's fine. Next time try phrasing it as a statement instead of a question (e.g. "this is the part of the date where I kiss you"). A verbal acknowledgement definit… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: What do women have to gain by lying about what turns us on?Women don't know what turns them on. It's not just that women are stupid. By definition they can't know because what turns them on is when he knows what he's doing and things just seem to come together. I'm sure you have some conception of what you want a guy to say or do in bed. But you're missing out if you've never been with a guy who left you feeling like "wow, that was amazing, what just happened?". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/18 12:37 PM |
| 5 | Apparently, men with higher levels of Autism Spectrum traits are better at analyzing people according to their behaviors rather than by how they look!No, no, you're ruining the circle-jerk that autism is a super power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 05:51 PM |
| 2 | What are some of your strategies on getting yourself into peak pick up form...Yeah. A lot of people don't realize that a big part of being social is getting in "state", getting some social momentum going. One bad interaction in the beginning can kill a whole evening, while that same interaction an hour later won't even register. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 05:48 PM |
| 1 | What are some of your strategies on getting yourself into peak pick up form...I'll call my dad or one of my close friends for a quick social warm-up. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 05:37 PM |
| 5 | Why do we automatically assume lying or truth in cases of sexual assualt?The burden of proof is generally on the accuser. Why would sexual assault be any different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/18 06:33 PM |
| 8 | Why don't women like telling people their age?Because deep down they know they've only got one thing, and it's a depreciating asset. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 03:00 AM |
| 19 | Apart from lifting and meditation what other habits gave you a good return on investment?Engaging strangers in conversation. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Generic playful ping textsI wanna dangle something in front of her and then go radio silent. Why? | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 12:37 AM |
| 24 | What to do if you go to a party without any friends?Make a beeline for the prettiest girl, say some opener to the group she'll inevitably be standing with. Doesn't matter what you actually say, only that you add more energy to whatever conversation you're jumping in on. Social momentum is a thing, the longer you wait to talk to people the harder it becomes. But if you start strong, it's generally easier to keep it going. People want to meet others at a party, they're out to have a good time, actively looking for good vibes. It's not like cold app… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Why is NAWALT considered a bad response?Why is NAWALT considered a bad response? Because it isn't helpful. The person who will argue till they're blue in the face that not ALL women are like that is the same person who will drop a stupid line like "actually, it's Frankenstein's monster". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 07:18 PM |
| 1 | What score did you get in this social intelligence test?"Your social intelligence score is: 0, because you spend your time taking online social intelligence quizzes." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/18 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Should You reveal moments of melancholy and misery to her ever?? I was confirming that the implication of my comment (which you didn't like) is precisely what I intended to say. Therapists are a waste of time and money. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Should You reveal moments of melancholy and misery to her ever?Well fuck me dead, I guess therapists are outta job. I am pleased to see you understood the implications of my comment. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/18 12:35 AM |
| 1 | ectomorph lifting 3 hours a day. I am wrong?Spend time at an all-you-can-eat buffet instead. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Should You reveal moments of melancholy and misery to her ever?You shouldn't reveal moments of melancholy and misery to anyone. No one enjoys getting dumped on, despite what they might tell you. Unhappy? Fix the problem. Talking about it does nothing. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Quit Coffee Cold Turkey ....Seemed To Have Lost "Some" Of My Social EdgeConsider cycling to get the social benefits as needed without developing a physical addiction. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 07:55 PM |
| 48 | Not kissing a woman on the first date?You know, she'll think you're even MORE alpha if you don't have sex with her at all! Yeah, that'll get her hamster running. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 03:21 AM |
| 1 | I fear from losing what I really want by having casual sex. Can you convince me to have sex? (Religious background)The Red Pill is fundamentally incompatible with religion because you are replacing what you want with the desires of a bunch of religious leaders that have been dead for thousands of years. Required reading for all. One of them is you get what you deserve. Like Iyov? | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys read non fiction only or some fiction as well?Or is it some kind of blue pilled act of reading about dragons and elves ? Read Shusterman next, I loved his Skinjacker trilogy. The first one is called Everlost. The difference between a sperg and someone with social acuity is the topics they bring up in casual conversation, not what they do in their free time. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 07:59 PM |
| 1 | AudiobooksCheck out The Great Courses, they were meant to be listened to as lectures and are easier to follow than books read aloud. Available for an Audible credit if that's what you're going for. In particular I thought the Civil War one was excellent. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Book suggestionsI am Charlotte Simmons by Tom Wolfe. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 05:18 PM |
| 16 | Texting a girl whether she wants to be a plateYes. Communicating overtly with women is autistic. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 05:13 PM |
| 3 | How do you become good enough for eloquent and successful women around 22 to 25?The same way as any other woman. To answer your follow up question, I invite you to check out the numerous resources we have compiled for you both here and on the main sub. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 05:10 PM |
| 5 | How to converse and be "fun" when you have no life experience and you're mid 20's?Do you know how goddamn exhausting it is to fucking pretend 24/7 or around people/friends. Yes. More than you could know. I thought TRP was about being the best version of yourself. If his hobbies and interest don't coincide with the majority why should he change himself instead he should find people who have his interest and hobbies instead of faking who he is. All we do here is tell you how the world works. You're welcome to do whatever you want with that information. I like classical music, a… | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 08:43 PM |
| 1 | How to converse and be "fun" when you have no life experience and you're mid 20's?The standard TRP response is to stay away from drugs and thanks for telling it to us. Wrong. Read what I wrote again. Based on your comments Im going to go out on a limb and say you've never tried a psychedelic. No comment. They do not mask issues, they slap your face in them for the length of the trip. Drugs are a tool. That doesn't mean you should flush them all down the toilet (although some people probably should). But I can't imagine that anyone advocating long term weed/alcohol/LSD usage h… | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 08:26 PM |
| 2 | How to converse and be "fun" when you have no life experience and you're mid 20's?Psychological drugs are a crutch, masking the symptoms of a fundamental issue that needs to be addressed; useful, but not a permanent solution. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 03:51 PM |
| 24 | How to converse and be "fun" when you have no life experience and you're mid 20's?it's been depressing since it's an entirely different persona and I'm well aware that anyone who likes that persona doesn't genuinely like me. The assumption you are making is that there's some "self", some fundamental "you" that becomes visible if you strip away all the "masks". But the truth is that physically you are meat. The information that is consciousness is somehow encoded in your brain, and your brain is made out of meat. And you -- the fundamental/spiritual/philosophical "you" -- are … | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 03:48 PM |
| 6 | Reminder that you will die and probably not be rememberedI'd like to see some more literature about having children in the context of TRP. Regardless of your feelings towards marriage, there's no doubt that children are better off when raised in a nuclear family, even if it's a shit deal for dad. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/18 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't I pay a call girl to come on to me heavily while I reject herIt's not about being exposed. It's about taking "shortcuts" that delude you into thinking you're moving forward while remaining stagnant. The goal here isn't to fool women, to somehow trick them into sleeping with you. The goal is to become a man that women want to sleep with. especially the ending with the remote. What are you talking about? | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Why is calisthenics perceived as inferior compared to lifting weights?Are you properly retracting your scapula when you get under the bar? Doing so will create a "shelf" for the bar to sit on. This is what it should look like before you lift the bar out of the rack. Less muscular. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Why is calisthenics perceived as inferior compared to lifting weights?don't worry about what others think. This conversation isn't about being judged by other people. It's about what works, bottom line. Using a barbell is objectively more effective than calisthenics towards the ends of getting bigger, stronger, and building a more aesthetic physique. There is no ambiguity. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Why is calisthenics perceived as inferior compared to lifting weights?Paradoxically, doing calisthenics as a beginner is potentially more dangerous because you can accidentally leverage yourself into a position that you aren't strong enough to support. Learn anatomy and you'll stay injury free. Lifting weights with proper form is like moving your muscles along a track with precise control over the amount of weight being moved. Apart from that, why is doing weighted dips worse than bench pressing? It's not. The issue is that eventually you won't be able to lift mor… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't I pay a call girl to come on to me heavily while I reject herhttps://www.dailymotion.com/video/x60orio | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 04:24 AM |
| 5 | lifting rounded shouldersDo this when you wake up and before you go to bed. You'll feel your posture correct itself immediately the first time you do it. Also face pulls (which the DYEL guy in that video probably doesn't do). Ensure you are properly externally rotating your shoulders. You might not have the mobility at first but that wall exercise will help. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Getting Bullied At Work? What Should I Do?Put on 25 pounds. People don't bully the guy who looks like he can tear their legs off. Or sit on them. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 02:32 AM |
| 1 | My BF's parents are transferring all their assets to him to commit fraud for benefitsIn your first line you change the assumptions by moving to commercial rather than residential. I suppose that's what I get for finding this thread through Whisper's profile rather than organically browsing RPW. Appreciate your following up in any case. This happens in government where people are not responsible for the money that is being spent. There are no risks for the government. Of course. My intention wasn't to argue that a government-run economy is more efficient. Prices convey informatio… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/11/18 05:33 PM |
| 17 | Last night I got into my first real dispute with a total stranger; did I hold frame or act like a cuck?"Hey, would you recommend this?" and, rather than just answer the question, he goes, "What is 'this'?" As though he couldn't tell which one I was pointing to. I would have just said never mind and walked out. It's his loss. I always tip very well for good service. Guys who can't get over their egos in the service business never get ahead. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 03:31 AM |
| 1 | My BF's parents are transferring all their assets to him to commit fraud for benefitsMaking those high-risk loans wasn't "predatory" (an evil plan to not get paid back, and lose money), it was mandatory. I don't think this is the case. I'm sure you are familiar with the financial process, but I'll write to a larger audience here, and maybe you can correct me where you think I'm getting this wrong. Suppose you are a developer and you want to finance a new shopping mall. So you pick up the phone and call a broker, who, for a fee, will connect you with a bank like NCB. (The reason … | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/11/18 02:21 AM |
| 9 | What are you good at?When I was a kid I was the best at everything. Stellar grades. Music. Lots of community service. Sports (competitive swimming -- can't throw a baseball for shit). A little socially off, but generally well-liked. I was the guy every girl's parents hope their daughter brings home. Even in college I had okay-ish grades, but the best internships and research experience. Became more athletic in general as I started lifting hard and heavy. Still played music. Learned to cook. Honed my social skills an… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/18 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Girl wants to see my phone lollol | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Not interested in chasing, or playing the typical game.Great, more women for me. This is how tinder seems to work for most people, and honestly I just can’t bring myself to attempt to “entertain” any of the women I match with, even though this seems like the only way to get anywhere. I suspect you aren't "getting anywhere" anyway. And "getting anywhere" means "getting laid", any other metric is imprecise. Becoming a MGTOW isn't going to fix your problems. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/18 04:28 PM |
| 3 | No kiss on first date, could she still like me?Make a move, see what happens. Used to shock me every time. You can push things a hell of a lot farther than you think; in fact, doing so will often cause a girl to become more attracted to you than she would have been otherwise. With this one, next time you see her you can tell her that you forgot to kiss her goodbye last time. Women love that cheesy crap. And then you can kiss her immediately, or you can hold off to build the sexual tension. Have fun with it, dude. Don't be nervous. Be excited… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/18 07:07 AM |
| 4 | No kiss on first date, could she still like me?I didn't really escalate to be fair In that case there is nothing anyone here can tell you that you don't already know. Women will follow your lead. Failure to escalate is on you and offers zero information about her attraction to you or lack thereof. The only thing I can tell you is that while the first date isn't a big deal either way, not escalating will eventually kill whatever attraction to you she might have. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/18 06:53 AM |
| 3 | Why are women always showing me like a shitty attitude? I don’t hit on themWomen despise weak men. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Fuck help real quickquick There's no rush to respond. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 11:42 PM |
| 4 | Getting a job, TRP out look on the interview process?Trying to get a job isn't a power-play. There's no ambiguity about who the boss is, and you're not going to get far by trying to AMOG your interviewer. The only thing a potential employer cares about is how you can help him make more money. In the case of a minimum wage job this translates to hiring a guy who doesn't waste time and follows instructions, since the commodity you are selling him is time. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Where are you supposed to meet all these women to "spin plates"?+1 /u/Halitenina | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 03:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you develop a personality?Social acuity is like a muscle: it will grow when you use it, atrophy when you don't, and will perform optimally when your physiological needs are taken care of (sleep, hydration, food, sex). While I know I could never be like that Why not? Go practice somewhere else if you're scared. The way I did it was to sign up for a comedy open mic a few times at a bar I don't frequent. It isn't easy but nothing worthwhile ever is. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 10:15 PM |
| 5 | HeightConsider it like men and boobs/ass. Comparing what men and women are sexually attracted to is apples and oranges. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/18 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: If a woman keeps talking to you and flirting with you, at what point do you ask her out? More inside.Make your intentions known early with women. That's what normal guys do. No, this is what guys who are successful with women do. Women think this is what normal men do. The idea that you have to get to know a woman over a long period of time before going out on your first date is silly. Trying to go that route will signal to her that you're not romantically or sexually interested. Then, she'll be unpleasantly surprised when you finally get around to asking her out. It is silly, but this doesn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/18 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Gaming just heartbroken girlthe girl is heartbroken and don't want to hurt her again by adding her as a plate. Not your problem. Escalate as usual. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/18 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Made some controversial comments on a date .Your mistake is listening to the shit women say. More enlightening are her actions: I KNOW that she had fun on the date. It was obvious. She was giving me lots of IOI's and the kiss at the end was great. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/18 04:42 PM |
| 7 | Why is it essential to gym? Noob questionIsn't the red pill more about inner game and saying "Hey I don't give a fuck whether I have bigger muscles than the next guy, I'm confident in how I already look"? No, the red pill is about recognizing what objectively works without regard to what's intuitive, moral, or fair. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/18 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Made some controversial comments on a date .She's now worried I'm a bit racist.. which I'm not. I have a massive confederate flag hanging on my wall. I believe in what the flag represents (states' rights), in contrast with what the media paints it to be a symbol for (slavery). It's funny watching SJW types short circuit when a guy they are attracted to should be a huge racist according to how their programming tells them to respond to particular cues. Presumably my course of action here is to just ignore all this and move forward? As I'm … | /r/askTRP | 05/11/18 03:04 PM |
| 23 | Girl using dread on me all the time.Girls can't use dread-game on men. Trying to just pisses men off. The point of dread-game is that it's game -- the idea is to make the other party more attracted to you. The biggest lie that feminism ever sold society is that men enjoy the chase and are attracted to women who act aloof. Any guy who believes that never had a girl totally and unambiguously infatuated with him. She got abit quiet and responded "you're right" and cancelled it. Did I handle it right? It sounds like this girl is compl… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys know any Sigmas?Everyone give me flack, idgaf but I am a self proclaimed Sigma. "There was only one catch and that was Catch-22, which specified that a concern for one's safety in the face of dangers that were real and immediate was the process of a rational mind. Orr was crazy and could be grounded. All he had to do was ask; and as soon as he did, he would no longer be crazy and would have to fly more missions. Orr would be crazy to fly more missions and sane if he didn't, but if he were sane he had to fly the… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Best place to live in NYC as a bachelor?It's not like there is any shortage of girls in the midwest. But yes, I can appreciate what you're saying: NYC is known to have the most attractive, sophisticated, and interesting women, along with logistics mostly worked out already. However, unless you're making six figures and don't mind spending money as fast as you make it, none of that is relevant. It's your right to live wherever you want. Maybe you'll like NYC. But I know what I'd choose. Just recognize that ultimately you're going to de… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 02:40 PM |
| 4 | Best place to live in NYC as a bachelor?Also any other tips living in nyc? In your 20s? Have rich parents. The cost of living in any major, liberal city (LA, SF, NY, Chicago) isn't just rent. You have to assume you'll be spending at least 40 bucks a person every time you go out. Drinks with a potential hook up? Forget about it. I prefer luxury. Expensive != Luxurious. Luxurious would be to move to a city in the midwest and buy a big house with a pool and a tennis court for the price of a one bedroom shithole on Broadway. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 12:47 PM |
| 1 | I think my dad is going to kick me out of his house soonThis is a good place to start. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 02:40 AM |
| 3 | told girl shes a bad kissershes witholding kissing and sex now. says it will take her time. Hard next. Have some self respect, dude. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 02:34 AM |
| 2 | What is a non needy way to get a girl to give me head for the first time?Put her hand on your dick next time you're making out. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Hold up.. IDK if the redpill let me down.A sample size of n = 1 isn't statistically significant. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Do you guys know any Sigmas?https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4vikqe/alpha_beta_sigma_and_the_colors_of_the_rainbow/ | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 02:20 AM |
| 9 | Do you guys know any Sigmas?What the fuck is a sigma? | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Depressed guy, feeling beyond self-disciplined help. Feeling like I don't matter at all and will never have a path forward.Depression is fundamentally a physical problem, not a mental or emotional one. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/18 03:23 AM |
| 2 | how do I get over the fact that im extremely behind guys my age in pretty much all aspects of life (sex especially)Who cares? Are you going to call it quits when you pass some arbitrary threshold? | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 08:10 PM |
| 5 | how do I get over the fact that im extremely behind guys my age in pretty much all aspects of life (sex especially)It isn't not as hard as you think to catch up. The standard "better than most guys" isn't particularly high. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 04:46 PM |
| 1 | any tips on how to stop focusing on sex (nofap, noporn, monk mode) etcGet laid. You are programmed to focus on sex at the biological level. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 09:47 PM |
| 21 | How do you respond to nudes?"That's my girl". You'll want to reward good behavior, not punish it by withdrawing attention. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Status of the Appeal 10/11The basic unit of "fucks given" is the dollar. Can't be. According to the results of my GoFundMe, this would mean that no one gives a fuck about my sex transition, even though it's obviously something that is super important by every objective measure and should be on everyone's mind at all times. And we all know that the financiers with big salaries don't provide any real value to society, that money should I want that money to go to important causes like subsidized rent and free healthcare. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/18 08:01 PM |
| 1 | How can people still believe in religgion?Extreme cognitive dissonance and immense social pressure. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Girl asking for money after realizing I am fucking other girls.This is what I mean by "she has already set her price". Her price was lunch + .... something. I suspected that "something" was "fucking" with an assumption of exclusivity. When this assumption was violated, she covertly presented an ultimatum. Fuck ultimatums. I still say walk. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Girl asking for money after realizing I am fucking other girls.You and I both know that bargaining is a bad strategy for women, but they all try it anyway. All a man can do when confronted with that is walk. Because the woman in this story has something OP really wants, "walking" would mean paying for services rendered and leaving the table. That's not losing frame. That's the biggest "fuck you" he could give her, assuming both parties are smart enough to understand the subtext of the interaction, while still getting what he wants (the design). You are prop… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 11:39 AM |
| 6 | Girl asking for money after realizing I am fucking other girls.Would this be your response if she was a male friend, who, for whatever reason, later changed his mind? | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 02:42 AM |
| 32 | Girl asking for money after realizing I am fucking other girls.Later on she finds out I am seeing other girls and asks for money instead. I dont want to pay anything, but still want the design. She's providing a service, and you don't want to pay. Conundrum. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 11:59 PM |
| 3 | What do you do when logistics are against you, ie. both your house and her house are occupied almost all the time?Sure. Everyone has problems. It's a question of priorities, though -- what's important to you? When I was 22 I preferred to cook my own meals, do my own laundry, and pay rent, in addition to all the other convenient things parents do for their children, rather than live at home Maybe you feel differently, as is your right. But the only answer to "what do I do when the logistics are against me?" is to fix the logistics. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 04:19 PM |
| 2 | How can I be confident in interacting with people if my track record for inclusion and respect by my peers in the past has been abysmal?Unless you are an A-List celebrity you are always starting from zero, for better or worse. For any new interaction you can say whatever you want and be whoever you want, because the person you are talking to knows nothing about you except for the snap conclusions they will draw given your appearance. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 03:55 PM |
| 3 | What do you do when logistics are against you, ie. both your house and her house are occupied almost all the time?Fix the logistics. You're 22. It's time for your mother to stop making your bed. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Social circle consisting mostly of girls?Girls sometimes make great company but always make lousy friends. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Can you be red pilled without being cocky?Try out both and report back. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Advice needed on high school girls...Be dominant. Most guys are so scared to take charge, a phenomenon that is exaggerated in high school (which works in your favor). If you unapologetically escalate when you have the opportunity you will immediately set yourself apart from hoards of horny highschoolers. Plus girls in high school LOVE beta guys and oppose anyone who steps out that box. Girls are girls. There's going to be some other reason why you should be "beta" when you got to college. Nothing changes. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 03:06 PM |
| 25 | How do I turn conversations "flirty"?Guys like when girls fondle their balls. Girls like when guys fondle their minds. You could have walked over and said something about how she's been looking at you all day, as if you weren't looking back. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 02:52 PM |
| 2 | I'm at ground zero. What would you recommend ?Go back to school and finish your degree. Having a diploma that says "bachelors of engineering" on it is super useful in regards to marketing yourself, even if you aren't going to learn much in one more year of school. A college degree is a quick way for an employer to assess the minimum they can expect from an applicant. Most won't even consider you without one. I am very ambitious, curious, and my entrepreneurship experience gave me methods to go from analyzing needs to building solutions to t… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/18 02:41 PM |
| 7 | Am i totally screwed...? (Fitness?I suggest you speak to a doctor instead of getting advice online where anyone can offer an opinion. Mainstream healthcare is terrible at helping people improve themselves above basic function, but gets an A+ at restoring people with bad health to a functional place. Im terrified of having loose skin You can't really avoid that if you're too fat, because the skin is stretched out. What you can do is build muscle to fill out the loose skin. You can get a lot farther than you think without taking s… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 09:20 PM |
| 15 | How to remain in the present/being grounded?Put down the bong. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 09:08 PM |
| 1 | I don't think muscles are a requirementWhat was your intention in making this thread, if not to hear ideas you potentially won't like? If someone only listens to people he agrees with, he will never grow and he’ll never succeed beyond his little circle of yes-men. On the other hand, a person who listens to different ideas at the risk of offense, and who at least considers that he might be wrong, cannot but gain from it. People have largely ceased to challenge each other in what they believe, accepting instead the idea that whatever y… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | I don't think muscles are a requirementHowever, I feel that TRP preaches that you must have muscles to enjoy success with girls No it doesn't. Tingles can come from anywhere. ... including, and most often, a muscular physique. All that time spent in the gym could be better used raising smv in other ways. Yeah? Like what? To a point, there is nothing better you can spend your time doing to rapidly raise your SMV than lifting heavy weights. Yeah you could use steroids which speed up the process but your health is your wealth really and… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Stretching routine for lifting, where to find one?A whole section of the book is dedicated to giving stretching "prescriptions" based on your particular goals or problem areas. I have extremely tight hips/hamstrings so I spend a lot of time sitting on a lacrosse ball, but there are better things that you can spend your time doing. Get the book, it wasn't too expensive IIRC. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Stretching routine for lifting, where to find one?Becoming a Supple Leopard is an excellent textbook on stretching. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 07:25 PM |
| 4 | How do I succeed in life alone?How do I succeed in life alone? You don't. There is no one capable of succeeding in this world without some kind of support, through family or a close circle of friends. How do I start to think for myself? You consider the incentives behind what people are telling you. Why would someone want you to believe what they are saying? How do I learn to make my own decisions? You grow a pair of balls and make judgement calls when you need to. Better the wrong decision than no decision (or a decision tha… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/18 07:22 PM |
| 9 | Text game+1 Texting can only ruin whatever attraction is already there. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/18 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Initial Kino in classLight kino is fine. Heavy escalation in public is bush league. Have some self control. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | I'm a giant pussy and I am way too scared to go for the kiss.She says this is her stop and I stand around awkwardly with some terribly anxiety Say "this is the part of the date where I kiss you" and then she'll blush or whatever and you know you're in. It doesn't matter what you actually do or say, only that you do it confidently and without apology. Don't even try to be smooth with some perfect line, it's overrated. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/18 05:47 PM |
| 5 | Help an omega in his mid 20s here. How do I develop social skills as an adult?Practice talking to strangers. It'll feel weird and wrong but after doing it 1,000 times the 1,001th time won't be as bad. And then it'll start to come naturally. Everyone does their time, usually when they are kids, but if you didn't for whatever reason then you'll have to do it now. Just recognize that no one hits a home run every time. Everyone has occasional social interactions that can be perceived as awkward. struggled because of my ugly buck teeth that made me socially anxious. Get them f… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/18 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Do you actually have 8 hours of sleep?You need to sleep. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/18 01:38 AM |
| 5 | Studying adviceI did answer your question: you just do it. Do you want me to make your schedule for you? Put on your big boy pants. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 01:13 PM |
| 5 | Studying advicethe work load is extremely heavy and managing it is quiet hard Nut up. Winning at life is hard. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 12:43 PM |
| 3 | Addicted to hookers. I need advice (21M)Should i stop? I know i'm good looking enough for girls irl but it's not worth the effort to me. Do whatever you want. It's only a problem if you can't stop. Anyone who tells you there's something wrong with getting pussy at face value is either trying to control you or sell you something. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Belly fatBelly fat is one of the indicators of insulin resistance. Citation? I'd love to read more about this. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Sexual jokes and teasing butterface friendsGiven that they find it fun and play along, is it advisable to continue or would that just get their feelings messed up? What's your intention? To have fun? In that case their feelings are not your problem if they choose to play along. Context is social game and how it might affect the social circles these friends are in I flirt with all the women in my life. No one gets offended because I'm not actually trying to bang the girls I'm close to. Flirting is only as weird as you make it. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 12:32 PM |
| 3 | Have Read the Sidebar but...for me who have zero approaches and experience with womans. So my question - what have you gone through to understand it Are you serious? I'm not going to hold your hand here, be a big boy and think long and hard about this one. Hint: everything you need is in the text I quoted back to you. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 12:29 PM |
| 8 | In case you hadn't noticed....It's like a zoo-keeper stepping in the wolves' enclosure to teach them how zoo-keepers are the enemy and have a particularly tasty flesh Literally. This nightmarish SJW caricature is his accuser. He kinda had it coming. Not that I'm victim blaming or anything. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/18 12:17 PM |
| 8 | How Many Women?Back in the good ol' days, the only men who came home at the end of a day fighting the barbarians were the "alpha males". So polygyny not only made sense, but was required to populate a new generation of men capable of tearing the limbs off members of the enemy hoard. As society became more civilized, monogamy became the necessary default because the "beta" men weren't being killed anymore and needed some kind of (sexual) outlet since women would rather share an "alpha" male than get exclusivity… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/18 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Conflicting opinions on TRP (Same post got me banned from RPW)So we can talk about how all the incentives are out of whack, which is why psychology research is such a shitshow. But I'm kind of tired of having that conversation, and it'd be disingenuous to claim that the state of research in physics is any better. I do research in a physics lab, but it's not like I'm working on some far-reaching, super interesting problem that I particularly care about; my goal is to publish a first name paper in QFT before I get out of school (because publication looks gre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/18 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Conflicting opinions on TRP (Same post got me banned from RPW)Spoken like a disciple of Feynman. I suspect you also don't love a lot of the popular studies they teach all the Psych 101 freshmen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/18 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Conflicting opinions on TRP (Same post got me banned from RPW)And once it performs well with C, D, E, and so on, your confidence that the story you have told matches reality starts to increase. To add, this means you can never really prove something to be true through hypothesis testing... all you can do is prove it false by attempting to find a violation. To resolve this issue of not being able to prove anything, scientists use a tricky little thing called a "P-Value", defined to be some arbitrary threshold beyond which we say "yeah, you have enough data … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/18 08:22 PM |
| 13 | 300,000 Subscribers. The Reddit Administration Tacitly Endorses Male Abuse and Denies its Victimsso I can watch Engage more, please. I've wanted to see you in action ever since I came across this post. What makes guys like you and Whisper and Archwinger next level is how articulate you are. Really a pleasure to read your stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/18 07:07 PM |
| 1 | MMF threesome fantasy substitute?Does this mean that we are talking about a hypothetical scenario? | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 11:32 AM |
| 1 | MMF threesome fantasy substitute?A three holed fleshlight Why stop at 3? With a little work you can become known as the ear, nose, and throat man. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 11:15 AM |
| 1 | MMF threesome fantasy substitute?You don't get it. This: Chicks fantasise for MMFs at least how we, men, do for MFFs is wrong. Women don't fantasize about having more men in the room if they are with one they are strongly attracted to. Without neglecting attraction, (again) of course. Respect is there, but too much tension kills seduction. Wrong again. Sexual tension is the key to attraction, even more important than comfort in the initial stages of seduction. In regards to same desires, do a research on some forums. There are … | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 11:13 AM |
| 3 | MMF threesome fantasy substitute?My girls don't have MMF fantasies. Or, if they do, they have enough respect for me to keep it to themselves. I don't even understand how this comes up. Like, you're all sweaty in the sheets, finished doing the deed, she smiles at you and goes "hey, you know what would make this better? Another dick." Chicks fantasise for MMFs at least how we, men, do for MFFs No they don't. Women don't have the same desires as men. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Don't know how to further raise SMVYou may just need time. Self improvement isn't simply a change in mindset. I legit don't know what to do anymore or how these women have such a high ego of themselves either. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jZ6nF6JKtRc | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Messaging girls after monthsI can get the contact from my buddy If you have to do this then you aren't close enough to send a cold text message for a meetup. "Happening" to run into them somewhere and escalating as usual is your best bet. I don't want to look like a guy that waits months to message girl You are that guy, dude. You're literally asking how you can message some girls you met once at a party, girls who probably doesn't even remember you. If that doesn't broadcast "no options" I don't know what does. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Boss is giving me an ultimatum...How do I take control of the situation?Fuck ultimatums. Resolve this how you want, but I'd start looking for another job ASAP. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 02:14 AM |
| 1 | RP men are attracted to the wrong womenIs like hunting for hay in needlestacks Not to mention that conservative girls are attracted to the same traits as high n-count women. They just do a better job masking it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/18 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Update: Is she interested or not?Invite her over to your place and cook her dinner. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 10:57 PM |
| 1 | What are books that every man should read?“Most of us” so because 90% of people won’t understand It im not going to educate the 10% who does? I'm trying to understand -- why is it your responsibility to educate anyone, then? If I don't have "the Spirit" then I'll never get it, and if I do, well, then the Bible will show me the way. Bruh you sound ignorant. But I understand why you are the way you are thanks to the wisdom of the Bible Tell me more. What is this wisdom do you speak of? | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 10:33 PM |
| 1 | What are books that every man should read?I want the next words you type here to be an answer to the following question: why should every man spend his valuable time reading Psalms, poetry that David wrote about God? Psalms has nothing to do with goals, a mission, or a purpose; it is about a very specific topic. If your mission is to get close to God, then yes, reading Psalms is a very good use of your time. If not, then you might as well spend your time reading Frost, which is definitely not on the required reading list (although very … | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 10:29 PM |
| 2 | What are books that every man should read?Great. Still not answering my question. Let me make it very clear: why is Psalms on the list of required reading for every man? | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 07:00 PM |
| 1 | I only see women as sex objectsIs this mindset of mine a big problem? Nope. It's a mindset we encourage guys to cultivate. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | What are books that every man should read?You didn't answer my question. I believe you got something out of Proverbs, because at least that was written to offer advice. Personally I don't like it, but maybe it did something for you. What's with Psalms, though? It's just poetry to the end of praising God. The person without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God but considers them foolishness, and cannot understand them because they are discerned only through the Spirit Ah. In that case most of us won't ge… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Is she interestedOnly one way to find out. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 06:07 PM |
| 3 | "What's your job?""I train aquatic mammals for the US government. Why is the US government interested in training aquatic mammals? I'm sorry, that's classified information." | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 06:05 PM |
| 1 | What are books that every man should read?(Proverbs, Psalms) Psalms is boring as shit. I had to read it as a kid so many times, in its original language, that I know most of it by heart. Proverbs is just... generic. Maybe it did something for you, but I didn't get anything out of it just like I didn't get anything out of Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, despite the large number of people who jerk themselves off to how amazing it supposedly is. The Bible has some interesting stories, and it's worth reading parts of it to be culturally wel… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 05:58 PM |
| 3 | What are books that every man should read?Basic Economics by Thomas Sowell | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 05:52 PM |
| 1 | What are golden rules for sucessful LTR?How, precisely, do you define a relationship? Is it "The Talk"? A Facebook status? Exchanging relationship coins? Some kind of ritual? | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 04:38 PM |
| 6 | What are golden rules for sucessful LTR?Don't get into one. That's the golden rule. If you find yourself in one (i.e. you spend a significant amount of time with a particular girl) because she inspires that behavior then keep doing what you're doing till you don't want to anymore. Then go bang someone else. Keeping the relationship going is her problem, not yours. Your problem is keeping her attracted to you, which is measured exclusively by how often she is willing to have sex with you. This question is like asking a woman "what are … | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 04:06 PM |
| 1 | First Approach - Hit it off with girl on bus but too pussy to closePractice. You'll develop an intuition for it. There is nothing I can tell you that will help you get better at this, you have to do the work. People have real issues in this world and mine ain't worth worrying about Social anxiety isn't rational. That's why you have to desensitize yourself to it through action. No amount of thinking or theorizing is going to make it go away. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Vagina EnvyThe fact that you can do something in an obtuse way doesn't automatically imply it is an efficient way to operate. You can remain celibate because you're religious or in an attempt to somehow prove that you are "above biology" or some other stupid reason. But don't preach about how you are a higher tier of man because you've "evolved" past physical desire. Do whatever the fuck you want, dude. I like sex, and most guys like sex, so I'm going to keep teaching them how to get it. What are you even … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/18 09:22 PM |
| 4 | How should I act when a lot of guys are hitting on the same girl?It only gets worse. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 11:27 PM |
| 4 | First Approach - Hit it off with girl on bus but too pussy to closeNice. Even when you don't get the number, being socially on feels good, doesn't it? Keep practicing and this experience can be a regular thing. If you see her again, give her a big smile and say something like "yeah, I totally goofed last time and forgot to get your info". People remember how you make them feel, not what you say. She probably won't even remember how you left it, if she remembers you at all. How can I get myself to ask for a girls number without pussing out? You just do it. That'… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Vagina EnvyYou're missing the point. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/18 03:58 PM |
| 4 | How to hit up old plate without displaying scarcity?Can't hurt. You aren't talking regularly anyway, so it's not like you'll be any worse off. In my experience, people are happy to reconnect with friends from the past if things were good once, even if the circumstances in which you separated weren't ideal. People remember how you make them feel, not what you say. Unless you did something particularly awful, attempting to reconnect with her will trigger an association with all the good vibes you shared, even if you fought about some bullshit back … | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 03:22 PM |
| 1 | ADVICE REQUEST: I am stuck between two different mates, a long term relationship vs a new loverWhy not both? | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Need bigger PecsWhat is your height/weight and how much do you bench? | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 04:08 AM |
| 1 | How to need less sleep?You need to sleep. No way around it. For example, on Sunday night, I slept only 4 hours work, improve, and sleep. And deep relaxation time certainly wouldn’t hurt, either. Why are all of these mutually exclusive? What were you so busy with Sunday that led you to only sleep four hours? | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 04:00 AM |
| 1 | I want to come out of my shellPractice. There's no secret we aren't letting you in on. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Men exaggerate the risk and prevalence of false rape accusationsMore troubling is that false accusations are allowed to happen, particularly when the problem is often a communication issue. Simply because its hard to prove anything in this case beyond a reasonable doubt. An accusation of sexual assault is enough to ruin a man's life, regardless of whether he is ultimately convicted or if the charges are formally filed at all. I'm not arguing that rape cases should not be subject to reasonable doubt, although thats a conversation worth having imo. Why hold ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/18 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Men aim too high which gives them a false feeling of rejectionIf a man is consistently getting rejected he is by definition aiming too high. Success and failure via action is the only metric to objectively evaluate how attractive someone is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/18 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Linus Torvalds apologizes for twenty years of being insensitiveWhen someone is in a unique, or near-unique, position of expertise, the most useful thing they can do is knowledge transfer. This applies to Linus with the Linux kernel, and to me with the Red Pill.... When you know something useful that very few people know, the best use of your time is spreading that knowledge. Why? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/18 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Surprising Statistics About Hot People Versus Ugly PeopleWholesomeness is a turn off. Yeah, if you aren't getting any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/18 03:42 PM |
| 8 | A high-SMV guy gets married. What is more likely to happen over the long term?Who cares? Why would you put yourself in a situation where the odds are undoubtably stacked against you? There is nothing to gain and everything to lose by getting married. This is intellectual masturbation. Hey guys, what is most likely to happen if a really strong guy squats 4 plates in a bouncy house? | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Should I take steroids to be more attractive?Could you use steroids and get bigger and more defined in a shorter time? That wasn't the OP's question. He asked: "should I use steroids to make myself more attractive?" And even if we assume that this is fundamentally what he is asking (because, admittedly, he asked the wrong question), you say Absolutely yet never explicitly acknowledged this in your previous response. I walked away from your post convinced that you believe anabolic steroids won't net superior results to natural training. but… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 08:35 PM |
| 3 | After giving me her number, she says she's in a LDR, but she wants to go out. Next or date?When a woman tells you she is in a committed relationship, there are four possibilities: 1) She is in a committed relationship and isn't open to your advances. She gave you the number because women are conflict averse and it was easier than saying no. 2) She isn't in a committed relationship and told you she is because she's not interested and wants you to go away. She gave you the number because women are conflict averse and it was easier than saying no. 3) She is in a relationship and is open … | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Should I take steroids to be more attractive?How do you think your ancestors from 2-3000 years ago got ripped? They worked hard. Whether through training, hunting, or strenuous labor. Not a steroid in sight. Sure. And today's bodybuilders, who work hard and use drugs, look better than any of your ancestors ever did. Anabolic steroids don't short circuit the bodybuilding process. They enable you to work harder by promoting faster recovery. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 03:45 PM |
| 3 | Should I shave body hair?Do whatever makes you comfortable in your skin. I'm super hairy, to the extent that I used to get funny looks on the beach before I started cleaning up. Back, shoulders, up high on my cheekbones... yech. I started making it neater because I would literally shed all over my bed and girls were justifiably not impressed. I'll take that over being a hairless ginger, though. I can grow a sick beard. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Why did I get banned from another subreddit ? Was it for recommending this sub ?There were even some users on that thread that were like "women don't care if you are a virgin!" Hahahahaha, I was laughing at the falsehood. Women don't care if you're a virgin, at least based on my experience of telling that to women whenever they ask how many girls I've been with. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 04:49 AM |
| 7 | Is it a bad idea to try to escalate on your therapist?Unless you are explicitly paying for sex, it's a bad idea to escalate with any professional who is paid to spend time with you. This includes cashiers and baristas while they are on the clock. (Note that "escalating" is not the same as "flirting".) | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 04:46 AM |
| 3 | How to not pay for stuff on dates?Sure. But I always make sure she buys the first. That's usually my response to the random girls who ask me to buy them a drink. Only one ever took me up on it. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Met a chick, got her number texted her and she sends me a pic of a ufc fighter telling me thats her cousin lolNext time just ignore her. The best response to a shit test over text is no response. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 04:34 AM |
| 3 | Meeting with girl who friendzoned me in high schoolDon't tell her anything. Let your actions speak towards your intentions. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 04:30 AM |
| 4 | Should I bangHow about you try to fuck this girl and see how far you actually get | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 12:16 AM |
| 2 | On reacting to dopamine and addiction craving... What is your go to right before you feel like you’re going to give in?Be more mindful. My issue was porn, the result of a sexually abstinent childhood. I'd be sitting in my room studying, and suddenly I couldn't focus at all till I rubbed one out. What worked for me was acknowledging when this took place -- literally getting it together long enough to think "I am doing X Y and Z right now, thinking about A B and C, which clearly acts as a trigger". If that doesn't kill the momentary urge (sometimes it will), eventually you will be able to anticipate a few moments … | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Why are unattractive / older women so rude and off-putting?Why are (for the most part) unattractive or older women so rude and off-putting? Because you're ugly and/or have no game. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 07:03 PM |
| 1 | First date went well with K-close, who texts first?You, whenever you get the logistics sorted out. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 06:59 PM |
| 1 | How to get my CFO to mentor me?When trying to get a person to help you, consider what their incentives are. Why should they help you? In this case, you can get the guy to help you by showing him that it somehow benefits him, maybe by making you a valuable employee that can make him money. Alternatively, you can inspire people to help you, get them rooting for your success. This takes more finesse, but is absolutely achievable. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so depressed all of the time?Because they know they've only got one thing, and it's a depreciating asset. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 06:22 PM |
| 6 | Im 17 and I cant stop eating unhealthy/junk food. Please help me on how can i start eating healthyHave you tried trying? | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 03:35 PM |
| 9 | How to get girls in college?This response would be relevant if you were the 30+ year old male you refer to, and you were talking to another 30+ year old guy asking how to fuck college chicks. But all I see here is the OP asking a very specific, very reasonable question, and you telling him to just give up without trying. Not to mention that you're wrong - do you think guys in college don't get laid? More generally, why are you offering advice when you clearly aren't qualified to do so? | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 06:17 AM |
| 2 | Instant GratificationI'd like to consider this for a bit before responding; I just want to acknowledge that I read and appreciate the advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Instant GratificationI don't work in rocket science anymore, if you were being literal (pretty sure you are familiar with my background). But maybe I'm just being a sperg here and missing the point. No one gives a shit about your low 1RM numbers, they are too busy worrying about their own low 1RM numbers. Right but the point isn't that I'm concerned with what other guys think. Your analogy doesn't work because when it comes to weightlifting I know the precise, well-defined steps to increase my deadlift. I know with … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 03:38 PM |
| 0 | Instant GratificationYour attempt to psychologically profile me isn't appreciated, nor is it particularly helpful. In particular: I have good news: you don't have impostor syndrome! I don't know why this is good or bad news. I've presented a problem in the context of the OP, and I am looking for a solution. Unless psychology (as a field) has a fix to a specific issue -- which it usually doesn't -- attempting to give the issue a title isn't useful or even necessarily accurate. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Instant GratificationImpostors attribute their success to luck/deception because they have no self-generated standards for intelligence, fortitude, etc. Hence why they are terrified about being exposed as "frauds"; it's other people's opinions that are paramount. Maybe my terminology isn't consistent with what we'd find in a psych textbook, but I understand imposter syndrome to mean an unjustified fear of failure (in contrast with a fear of letting others down). If we can get real for a sec I'll tell you that I work… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 03:53 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] what are some activities you enjoy doing that are absolutely against redpill teachings?You're missing the point. There is no activity that goes against TRP. The point is to do whatever you want, regardless of what anyone tells you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/18 02:06 AM |
| 21 | Instant GratificationNo, his problem is that he doesn't believe in his ability to succeed at difficult tasks eventually. How do you reconcile this with Imposter Syndrome? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/18 11:26 PM |
| 1 | More Blue Pill Advice?The idea is that interesting books are written by (or about) interesting people. Generally such a person isn't writing for sales as much as to share his ideas or story with the world. For self improvement, I've found the most worthwhile books to read are biographies. They aren't as prescriptive -- to get y, do x -- but they offer a lot of insight into the way successful people think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 09:40 PM |
| 1 | What are the different social classes and what are clues to help identify someone of that social class?Their skin. People with privilege come color coded for your convenience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 04:14 PM |
| 1 | (Noob Question) how many pill colors are there?It depends how autistic you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 03:43 PM |
| 11 | More Blue Pill Advice?Why read anything, then? I agree with your thesis: most people, even those who write books and lecture at the university level, are either incapable of teaching or don't have anything to say. But you're throwing out the baby with the bathwater if you refuse to read something just because it's in the self-help section at Barnes and Nobles. There are a lot of successful people who have either written a book about their experiences or had someone else write a book about them. Such people don't make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/18 03:39 PM |
| 5 | Field Report - All that matters is what she is feeling NOWCould be. I do happen to believe that women aren't as socially stupid as a lot of guys here think. But the OP's conclusion is just as plausible -- women will quite literally act on how they feel in the moment, a slave to their feelings. This can be either a good or a bad thing, depending on the context. For our purposes, it means that if you fucked up a date, you can still salvage the situation the next time you meet. She may know what's going on (high social acuity) but will still go along give… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/18 03:28 PM |
| 4 | Q4All: Flirting.I flirt constantly. I can't help myself. Q4: Do you think people who flirt should have an obligation not to lead someone on? No. Your lack of social acuity is not my problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/18 04:23 AM |
| 3 | I keep getting disappointed and it’s depressinghttps://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1x0gln/the_five_stages_of_red_pill_and_how_to_read_rtrp/ | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | How to transition from the friendly, likable "jokster" to the charming, seductive "suave"?Yeah. Part of what makes it feel weird is that it doesn't come naturally. You're a funny guy so you know how to connect with people -- even though I could sit with a video camera and analyze what makes you a good story teller (certain expressions, dramatic pauses, level of detail, etc.), these quantifiable things aren't consciously on your radar when you're speaking. Now, if you were new to story telling, and didn't already "get it", you might feel a little awkward including these elements in yo… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 06:06 PM |
| 7 | I am in college and I have no interest in gaming girlsIf you don't want to game girls, then don't. Just realize that you won't get laid, and you, alone, are responsible for that. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 03:57 PM |
| 3 | My gf told me she masturbated and came really hard to a co-worker.I'm really confident she won't do something stupid She already did do something stupid. If this girl really respected you she would make sure not to do anything to jeopardize your relationship. Now you know where you stand. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 03:55 PM |
| 10 | Do you ever worry about your ability to pairbond considering how easy it is to get laid on dating apps?I'm worried that some day I'll get married Getting married isn't something that happens by accident. Is married life better overall? Hey, can I interest you in buying this house? The only thing is, if you ever decide to move out you'll have to leave half your furniture, your kids, and any pets behind. Oh, and you'll also have to keep paying off the mortgage even after someone else moves in. I'll just need you to sign this line here, never mind that you can't see the contract it's attached to. An… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approached For The First TimePractice talking to people without trying to get a number. You'll be a lot more at ease when there isn't some kind of planned endgame. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 04:25 AM |
| 15 | Found gf of colleague on tinder, do I tell him?No, don't get involved in other people's business. I think he deserves to know He might not want to know. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 04:23 AM |
| 14 | What to do when you reject a girl and she talks shit about you to some white knights who come to confront/fight you?You're missing the point. You don't lift so you can rip some guy's limbs off in a bar fight. You get jacked to avoid physical altercation. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 04:13 PM |
| 3 | No fucking game or experienceExperience only comes right after you need it. Next time will be better. And even better after that. Why am I so pathetic Stop talking like that. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 12:56 AM |
| 8 | My ex liked two of my instagram posts randomly at 1am. why?Why do you care? | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 12:39 AM |
| 3 | Has "texting for logistics only" ever backfired?But been wondering recently if texting for logistics applies to all situations/relationships? Yes. Even calling her on the phone is better than texting. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 10:45 PM |
| 44 | How to transition from the friendly, likable "jokster" to the charming, seductive "suave"?Physical escalation. Touch her (hand, arm, shoulder, knee) when you make her laugh. It'll feel autistic as hell when you first start. Do it anyway. It gets easier. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 10:14 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck is the red pill woman’s sub? Can we learn anything from going in there?If am understanding you, we seem to be in agreement when marriage is off the table, so all we seem to be arguing about is whether "marriage" (as in the institutional kind) is a major goal of RPW, which certainly would be in direct conflict with TRP. So this isn't a conversation about RP theory as much as the practical question of what RPW is about. Let's find out. /u/CrazyHorseInvincible, what is RPW's stance on marriage? There's no question that it would be advantageous for a woman to get marri… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Fucked OneitisYou can say these are indeed assumptions, however anyone with a brain will connect the dots - not everything needs to be broken down and analysed to the core. What dots? I don't see anything in the OP that leads to your conclusion. He doesn't even talk about her SMV. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Fucked OneitisTIL a senior endorsed member doesn't know what hypergamy is. Hypergamy: the idea that a woman will select the best mate available to her, generally punching above her weight class. That has nothing to do with this conversation, considering there are only two people involved: her and OP. Not to mention that they happen to be fucking each other. She's only doing this to test to see if she can still have power over him. By letting him fuck her in the first place she's wondering if she hasn't lost a… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 12:41 AM |
| 3 | How badly did I fuck up this possible F-close?I was dumbfounded by this and did not expect such a contradictory statement. This is where you fucked up. Listen to her actions, not her words. You can still salvage this, because your game was so strong till that point. Escalate next time you go over. But one more episode like this and it's probably a lost cause, so don't miss the boat again. Remember: Actions, not words. She's not stupid, she knows why you're there. And she invited you back anyway. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 10:45 PM |
| 14 | Why the fuck does every other person have some form of mental illness?Because mental illness is an excuse for why they aren't winning at life, when the real reason is that they need to take responsibility for their successes and failures. I though they were uncommon, that’s why they’re classified as illnesses ( which by their definition is not normal). It's almost as if "depression" is a normal part of the human condition that can be dealt with without pills and therapy. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 10:38 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck is the red pill woman’s sub? Can we learn anything from going in there?Would you agree if I said that the ultimate reason why we all log onto reddit every day, reading about how to become more powerful and how to get laid, is to learn what changes we can make to our lives to the end of being happy? I'm not interested So don't be. You don't have to be the guy RPW is trying to attract. But I would argue that you aren't the typical Red Pill guy, because you are absolutely certain that there is no way you will ever be interested in an LTR, regardless of how happy she m… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 10:33 PM |
| 8 | Fucked OneitisThey "banged like rabbits" in person, over a three day period, and now that he's out of sight she's constantly trying to keep his attention via text and pictures. So what exactly gave you the impression that she doesn't like him? Specifically, if she was interested in him, in some hypothetical universe, what more could she do to express it? I'm going to message the mods to kick you the fuck out if you don't get back to me on this. I'm sick of people offering opinions because they like the sound … | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 05:54 PM |
| 7 | What the fuck is the red pill woman’s sub? Can we learn anything from going in there?The fact that you don't understand the ends of RPW doesn't make it any less valid. A lot of people think that RPW must conflict with TRP by definition: women want commitment, men want to avoid commitment. What you don't understand is that RPW is about how to inspire a man's commitment, in spite of his "being RP" and having options with other women. TRP and RPW compliment each other. But you don't have to concern yourself with any of this; you aren't RPW's target audience. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 04:27 PM |
| 18 | If desire cannot be negotiated why do we have to learn Game?Write a top level post about this in the main sub. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers, Whats your take on weed?Drugs affect people in different ways. Weed makes me lethargic while Adderall helps me get shit done. In contrast, my roommate finds weed helps him focus and Adderall makes him jittery. There's no cookie-cutter system to using drugs that will always net positive results. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 04:07 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to the "Whats your No. 1 insecurity" shit test?Wouldn't waiting a few hours before replying with that shit remove the "on demand" Yup. And not replying at all removes the "clown" part. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 08:46 PM |
| 5 | How to respond to the "Whats your No. 1 insecurity" shit test?Right but the point is that you shouldn't be a clown available on demand whenever she gets bored. There is no right answer when texting; it can be a necessary evil for coordinating with her, but you can only lose whatever attraction is there, not build. Had this question been posed in person, post-sex, I'd advise a different approach. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 07:36 PM |
| 2 | What to respond when you get sent nudes?"I'm going to need a better look." Keep your eye on the endgame. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 04:08 PM |
| 3 | How to respond to the "Whats your No. 1 insecurity" shit test?Ignore inane texts. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Gain respectInspire respect instead of demanding it. i talk loud, but i get ignored No one wants to listen to an air horn. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Probably a dumbass question, but: is it inherently wrong to enjoy/want sex because it gives you validation as a person?It's not wrong to want anything. Nor is it wrong to take action based on what you want. Anyone who tells you something is "wrong" is either trying to control you or sell you something. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 11:18 PM |
| 2 | JailbaitI was once out with a girl and mid-date found out she was 17. I don't get unhinged often but that totally threw me for a loop. It worked out in the end: about a month later I invited her over and cooked her a pizza for her 18th birthday and we "ended up" having sex. We haven't been in recent contact but her 19th birthday is coming up; maybe I'll invite her over again. I don't know if it's worth it though, I was the butt of a lot of jokes amongst my friends for a long while after. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 11:09 PM |
| 7 | I don’t notice any progress with women at all. Is this part of the process?It's almost as if height isn't the be all and end all of seduction. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 01:23 PM |
| 24 | I don’t notice any progress with women at all. Is this part of the process?Yes. You're putting in all this effort, objectively making yourself better, and these basic bitches who have nothing going for them won't even give you the time of day. Does that make you feel angry? Frustrated? These girls are boring as shit, not really in shape, and have huge egos because of all the guys in their lives telling them how great they are. And the women really believe it. They walk around thinking they are better than you. And the worst part is, they'll never even get what's coming… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Difficulty Choosing a first date.Invite her to your place for a home cooked dinner. The fact that you're already physical means you can skip the "first date". My only thought is the country side where I live. (It's sort of my go to place to clear my head This is also good. But consider whether you want to bring her to your sanctum. Some things should be sacred. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Do you think you're typical, an outlier, or in between?You're mixing up TRP and PUA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/18 02:51 AM |
| 0 | How to respond to girls numbers you deleted?Actually saying “who is this?” Yes. Punctuation optional. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Do you think you're typical, an outlier, or in between?Oh, make no mistake: TRP's userbase is a a self-selecting population. It takes a certain disposition to spend any significant amount of time in a subreddit that is popularly considered to be a "hate group". And having such a personality simply says a person is willing to change, that he is open to receiving advice. In contrast, a person who is set in their ways can read all the self-help literature in the world, but he's not going to improve until he seriously considers that maybe his perception… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/18 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Do you think you're typical, an outlier, or in between?Do you consider yourself a "typical" guy/girl, controlling for your age and nationality? Are you a strong outlier? Are you somewhere in the middle--off-center? What's the difference? I work with whatever I have. many-to-most blues and purples will admit to being unusual people in one or many ways (whether it's in how they experience attraction, the kind of lifestyle or social circle they have, the experiences they've had, etc.) Blue Pill people (most people) love the idea that they are somehow s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/18 04:10 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: Do you think the men of today are stronger or weaker than the men of the past?If women were attracted to nerds with taped up glasses and pocket protectors and slide rules, men would start wearing glasses and carrying slide rules and working in STEM. That's the irony of The Red Pill. The women here and across reddit complain that we tell guys to treat women like shit, but all we really care about is getting laid. When women start sleeping with skinny, friendly, nerdy guys is when TRP will become a subreddit about how to become the skinniest, friendliest nerd on the block. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/18 03:59 AM |
| 7 | Instead of asking women to settle for you as a “normal” guy, why not just work to become the man you believe will attract women you want?Apparently you are supposed to take the red pill without taking the red pill. That's the whole point. From an evolutionary perspective, women obviously want guys who "just get it" because that indicates better genes. The thought that men can learn to be "alpha".... that thought terrifies women. But even if we ignore this pseudo-scientific, evolutionary psycho-babble, no one likes to see how the sausage is made. The most attractive guy is the one who is "naturally" muscular and confident. That's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/18 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Rich, no time to chase girls, is this a bad idea?I assume that someone who is in a position where he earns that much money, is also making decisions on a daily basis - critical decisions. That people don't realize this is why the socialists on reddit think it's "not fair" that the wealthy have fat wallets. The money you make is what people are willing to pay for a service, whether because they don't want to or are incapable of doing it themselves. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Tinder match wants to meet, but not now. Not sure what to reply, help?When she's interested communication suddenly becomes a non-issue. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 08:25 PM |
| 5 | Getting the Bulk onShould I switch to mass gainer Just throw some oats and peanut butter into your shake if you want to go down that route. Getting bigger is just a function of getting more calories down wherever you can. Personally, I hate drinking my calories and would rather eat an extra piece of fish, but whatever works for you. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Is not having a girlfriend/plate/kiss at 18 bad?Stop reading that incel garbage. It's poison for your brain. Let's say you're 21 and never kissed a girl. Now what? You just give up? Because some loser on the internet who can't get laid himself told you to? You'd do well by taking advice from people who are where you want to be, rather than self-labeled "experts". | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 09:45 PM |
| 6 | What is the best way to approach in a coffee shop?I'm tired of seeing people post shit that looks good on paper but doesn't work in practice. Does going over to random women in Starbucks and telling them your name work for you? Because it doesn't work for me. I've actually tried it. Have you? P.s. lol @ you asking about her bag, we all (her included) know you don't give a shit about her bag. Yeah, you know it, and she knows it, but you use a situational opener anyway so you don't look like an autistic weirdo. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Tinder match wants to meet, but not now. Not sure what to reply, help?I count four times in this dialogue that she expressed she isn't interested. "But FieldLine, she said she wants to meet up in two weeks. Clearly that means she's interested?" That's why we say to watch her actions, not her words. Why the fuck is she on Tinder (action) if she can't meet anyone for two weeks (words)? Two options: She's too busy for you. You can put money on encountering another excuse in two weeks. She really is too busy to go out and just wants emotional validation, in which case… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 09:21 PM |
| 14 | SMV TOO HIGHIf women aren't responding then your SMV isn't as high as you think it is, by definition. It's like the philosophy major telling everyone how employable he is despite the fact that he can't find a job (i.e. not employable). I’ve had multiple girls tell me after getting to know them It doesn't matter what women say. What are they doing? Sometimes I think that girls might be overly intimidated by me possibly because of the way I carry myself and my high SMV. "Men don't approach me because they are… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 02:13 AM |
| 2 | lifts to add into StrongLifts 5x5Your numbers are balanced, just not particularly high (yet). Soon your deadlift will overtake your squat, and your OHP will repeatedly stall. That's okay. Stick with the program as long as your squats and deadlifts are going up. You should be able to run the program till your squat is pushing 275, maybe a little less. I’ve hit plateaus in my lifts I do three sessions a week with one or two HIIT workouts on off days in the pool or running. If your lifts are plateauing at such low numbers you almo… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Just lift... (Venting)Measure out the water and boil it in a pot with some butter, salt and a tiny bit of vinegar. Once it starts to boil, pour it over the rice into a pan, cover it, and bake at 325 F for 20-25 minutes (till the water all gets absorbed). Delicious and super easy to make in bulk. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 12:54 AM |
| 2 | lifts to add into StrongLifts 5x5StrongLifts is not taking it out of me like it used to. That's weird. It's supposed to get more and more difficult. That's how the program was designed -- eventually the workouts become impossible when the weight is high enough. What are your numbers right now? Are you really doing the program, squatting three times a week, increasing the weight 5 pounds per workout? | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Just how young/old is 27?Dying in your thirties or forties? “Tragic.” Fifties? “Such a shame.” Sixties? “Too soon.” Seventies? “A good run.” Eighties? “A life well lived.” Nineties? “Hell of a ride.” | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 09:46 PM |
| 1 | "TRP focuses too much on women"considering that you might have something called free will? Sure. I was abstinent till I was 20 because I bought into The God Delusion. But just because you are capable of something doesn't mean you should do it. Companies pay lots of money to specialists whose sole job is to determine the most efficient way to go about something once the engineers have worked out that it can be done. As I said in the OP: "...it's counterproductive to attempt to somehow shut off or mitigate those desires through… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/18 05:53 PM |
| 1 | "TRP focuses too much on women"So I would politely disagree with you on the whole cheating biology thing. You are not cheating biology, but you don't know enough about biology to say what's right and what's wrong. If you were taking a math test and had to shit, you'd have trouble doing basic math. This is independent of the fact that we don't know how the brain works. Sex is just like that. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/18 01:55 AM |
| 1 | "TRP focuses too much on women"Spotted the guy who doesn't lift weights for strength. Didnt like the analogy. Stop looking at the finger. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/18 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Why is the Red pill so despised on reddit and in the wider internet community?There is no point in arguing about what reality really is unless we have some way to directly observe it through experimentation. Whenever we are in this situation, which happens more often than you'd think, science uses whatever assumption continues to provide consistent results, regardless of whether or not it is "true". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/18 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: How does this scenario make you feel ?He didn't know how to man up when the occasion called for it. Of course my behavior at the time didn't help when I tried to force him to dress better or like the same fancy restaurants I liked. I disqualified him as husband material and became increasingly disinterested in sex. Then why didn't you just dump him? I have no problem admitting that I will keep a woman around for sex even when I don't particularly like her as a person. Would you admit something similar? That you liked his company and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/18 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Are there any woman that enjoy sexually dominating men?In my experience, there aren't a significant number of people in mainstream society who are really mentally ill (depression doesn't count). Especially not enough to say that they outnumber the normal people. But maybe your circles are different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/18 01:47 PM |
| 1 | How could anyone believe the Blue Pill?The Blue Pill doesn't actually say anything. They just point and laugh at the Red Pill because it hurts their feelings, as if mindless mockery minimizes TRP's validity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/18 12:58 AM |
| 12 | Ladies, when you reject a man, you reject his existence as well.Still, my main point still stands. No it doesn't, precisely for the reasons you listed. When a guy approaches a girl, there's a 50% chance that she's emotionally unavailable or on the rag. That means that for every ten approaches, he is disqualified five times before he can even open his mouth to say something stupid and probably get rejected anyway. Rejection is nothing personal. I reject women all the time for all sorts of stupid reasons. Men who can't deal with rejection need to grow the fuck… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/18 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Are there any woman that enjoy sexually dominating men?Don't believe this terpy drivel about all women wanting sexually dominant men. TRP doesn't pretend to come up with a schema that will accommodate every single person. It simply deals with sweeping generalizations that are relevant 99.9% of the time. For example, real mental illness is beyond the scope of The Red Pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/18 11:46 PM |
| 5 | What do you think about older members of the opposite pill?I can't tell if you're being intentionally obtuse. But let me spell it out for you: you're right, men aren't always the breadwinner, just like a couple doesn't always have kids. But these events happen frequently enough to justify why a guy might stay married to a woman he actively dislikes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/18 11:42 PM |
| 4 | What do you think about older members of the opposite pill?if they’re that bad then what are you doing with them? Men don't want to lose half their money or their kids. Or both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/18 11:26 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about older members of the opposite pill?Why do you think they hold their views? Most people are afraid to honestly and objectively assess reality. To do so, especially when older, would force them to grapple with the idea that they have made all kinds of worthless sacrifices throughout their lives. That they were wrong. It's kind of similar to how religious people don't want to hear any arguments against their "objective truths" despite overwhelming evidence to the contrary. I'm not being dramatic when I say I cannot understand how so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/18 11:25 PM |
| 1 | "TRP focuses too much on women"Like Lego. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/18 03:53 PM |
| 2 | "TRP focuses too much on women"Sure. But that doesn't change the thesis of the post. Regardless of what your goals are -- they can start and end with pussy, or extend beyond -- sexual strategy is the place to start. So to address /u/MattyAnon's point: "why do we focus so much on sexual strategy?" The simple answer, for those unclear on this, is because we are a sexual strategy group. How do I know? I know this because it's right fucking there at the top of the sidebar. Duh, the reason the focus is on sexual strategy.... is be… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/18 03:49 PM |
| 4 | Being not socially skilled, unattractive, bad with girls, and overall beta, how do I deal with family members who are the complete opposite?Learn from them. They're familia. Consider yourself lucky. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 12:46 AM |
| 4 | What do you say when a girl brings up age?She doesn't actually care that you're older. She's testing you to make sure you aren't socially retarded and won't embarrass her. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 12:45 AM |
| 2 | What do you say when a girl brings up age?Nah. Have fun with it. You don't have to go nuclear on every shit test. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 12:44 AM |
| 3 | I'm struggling and I don't know how much longer I can go on forI am convinced I suffer from depression I know this is precisely what you don't want to hear, but depression is a way to shift the blame from whatever it is in your life that makes you unhappy (usually a lack of control) to something external. That way you can blame "depression" instead of taking responsibility. I tell you this as someone who used to be extremely depressed while on top of the world by every objective metric: take responsibility, even if it doesn't seem helpful or intuitive from … | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 07:45 PM |
| 6 | She wants to feel smallThis is a common argument that pops up from detractors of The Red Pill: Maybe it's the women in your life who respond to physical presence, unabashed confidence, and aggressive behavior. But not ALL women are like that. And if this was a blog written by one person, or the chronicles of a frat at Dupont University, I would agree with you. But when almost 300,000 men from totally different ethnic and socioeconomic backgrounds report positive results from just a few minor changes in the way they in… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/18 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Why people don't want omega males near them?can't make friends because he's an omega Can you explain what this means? More generally, what makes you anything? e.g. At what point are you "alpha", "beta" or "omega"? After how many weeks of Mass are you "religious"? How many people a day do you have to talk to for you to be an "extrovert"? (There's a point here, I'm not just being an obnoxious pedant.) | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Why people don't want omega males near them?Wrong. He should go out and practice, painful as it is. Go somewhere you don't know anyone, if you want. There is nothing you can read that will directly improve your social skills. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 02:37 PM |
| 7 | Bad things will always happen to you. Use adversity as motivation to succeed, not an excuse to self destructYour mind is no different. Stop feeding it garbage. The effects are not something you can pick and choose. Neural pathways are formed and reinforced without your consent. The subconscious mind will fuck you indefinitely. You may be fully aware of what you should be doing but can't stop. The ramifications of this statement are incredibly important. You obviously don't want to pour sludge into the gas tank of your car. But if you've been fueling your car with sludge for quite some time, and you su… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/18 02:28 PM |
| 2 | One of the popular girls in my college dorms is openly defending me from bullying. While I'm thankful, it's not doing me any favours for my SMV...How tall are you and how much do you weigh? | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Why people don't want omega males near them?Guys who don't get it are annoying. That itself doesn't bother me as much as guys who actively refuse to get it. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 04:03 PM |
| -3 | Vetting for LTR - which qualities should I look for?Autism. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 12:44 AM |
| 6 | Vetting for LTR - which qualities should I look for?Sometimes they feel like they are, but they’re really not. I don't understand this statement. If you're getting lots of sex from lots of attractive women, but, for whatever intangible reason, you find yourself wanting to spend time with a specific woman, do so. And if that feeling ever wanes, walk away. Keeping you invested is her problem, not yours. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to re-attract my ex?Have some self respect. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 08:18 PM |
| 12 | Vetting for LTR - which qualities should I look for?Don't look for any specific qualities. Wait till a woman inspires you to stay, despite you having other options. (Doesn't count if she's your only source of sex.) | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 08:14 PM |
| 4 | Whats some meditation tips and techniques that benefitted you? I want to start but never done beforeTrust the process. Sit for the allotted time even if it doesn't feel like you're accomplishing anything. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Have You Been Publicly Harassed Because of Your Gender?Its worse whenever I visit a 3rd world shit hole (its like men have less shame when they don't have running water?), but it was highly concentrated when I was a young woman that frequented night life scene or visited the seedy side of town for parties/drugs. We'd better keep lecturing upper-middle class males on college campuses, then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/18 02:44 PM |
| 17 | She wants to feel smallYou can be a loser and give up, or you can work with the cards you were dealt. Your choice. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/18 12:35 AM |
| 7 | The truth about circumcisionEveryone should take note: how an individual chooses to phrase something often offers more insight into his thought process than the actual message he intended to convey. Most of us suffer from a degree of cognitive bias, artifacts from information fed to us as children. It is essential that you recognize and purge these biases. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/18 12:29 AM |
| 5 | Condom broke. She said she's been on birth control for 5 years and there's nothing to worry about. Am I just being paranoid?Why? Why is it cold? Why is it any worse than ignoring the millions of people who get diagnosed with cancer every year? Is it because I happened to meet her at a party shortly before her diagnosis? This girl had no part in my life. I don't even remember her last name. She was just a random slut. I'm not celebrating that she has cancer. I'm celebrating that I'm not a dad. The fact that she has cancer is unfortunate, but honestly I don't really give a shit, kind of like I don't give a shit about a… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 01:53 PM |
| 6 | Has anyone used BJJ or other martial arts to desensitize one self from rejection?I got rejected lots of times to desensitize myself from rejection. I used martial arts to desensitize myself from the fear of getting punched in the face. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 03:28 AM |
| 1 | So anyone ever pretended to be a foreigner at a club? Cause it worked for me and maybe too wellIt somehow allowed me to be a little bit more cheeky and outgoing and to approach girls. I always had a strawman to present, like I was new in the city and looking for fun. My game is never more on point then when I am that guy, traveling overseas. Never tried it in a local club, maybe I should. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 03:25 AM |
| 5 | Condom broke. She said she's been on birth control for 5 years and there's nothing to worry about. Am I just being paranoid?Nothing you can do now. I remember that happened to me once, the girl came from a Christian family and didn't exactly want to get knocked up. She called me up crying about a month later, my stomach dropped as I waited to hear the news that she was preggers. In that moment I thought for sure my life was over. She was calling to tell me she has cervical cancer. I hung up the phone, deleted her number, and got drunk to celebrate. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Read something on TRP, not sure if legitHow about you go out and see for yourself? TRP posts aren't Gospel. I've seen a ton of guys who are definitely below a 7 get some baddies before There's your answer, then. The Scientific Method cannot prove something to be true, because it is impossible to draw a positive conclusion from any individual trial (and so, by extension, any finite number of trials). However, we can prove a hypothesis to be false by finding just one exception, and it seems you have successfully done so here. (It can be… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Is there any hope for a meaningful LTR?It's hard to take you seriously when you keep referring to yourself as "demisexual". I encourage you to remove that word from your vocabulary, regardless of how much you identify with all the weirdos on tumblr. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 02:54 PM |
| 14 | What percentage of your hookups are coming from Tinder?And it's a numbers game. By definition this means you don't have a 98% success rate. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Do you like a plate’s Instagram posts?Why are you looking at Instagram? She’s gets on me for not texting enough and shit. ...yet she still continues to sleep with you, while ignoring every other schmuck who likes her photos. There's no reason to change anything, keep doing exactly what you're doing. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 02:56 AM |
| 3 | What percentage of your hookups are coming from Tinder?You have a 98% success rate? | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 02:54 AM |
| 0 | Need some help/ adviceI asked her today to be my girlfriend What does it mean for her to be your girlfriend? How, precisely, has your relationship changed as a result of this? she tells me she is loyal and that im the best thing in her life. It doesn't matter what women say. I'd tell you to watch what she does instead, but you're on the other side of the globe. The only thing holding me back is that i dont have many plates You have no plates, dude. I can tell just by this post. What kind of guy with options listens t… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 02:49 AM |
| 1 | I don't want to spend time with girls, but I want to get laidSperg-like typing detected. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 02:31 AM |
| 1 | [ADVICE] Teen that feels he’s falling into TRPDo whatever gives you results, don't align with anything on faith. Try it out for yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/18 01:15 AM |
| 8 | [Q4ALL] Would you let your son wear dresses?When a young male child asks his parents if he can wear a princess outfit, he's not asking so that he can explore his gender and sexuality. He's asking because the dress is sparkly. He's asking out of ignorance because he doesn't know that boys wearing dresses isn't normal. Children don't know shit. They're children. That's why they need parents to make sure they don't starve to death or walk off a cliff. They have no idea what sex is or what sexuality is or the differences between boys and girl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/18 06:27 PM |
| 3 | lifting after heavy cardio session ?You can if you're eating and sleeping enough. You'll know if you aren't. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 02:27 PM |
| 1 | What books do you suggest?If you aren't already in the habit of reading then look at stuff you'll enjoy reading, not things you want to have already read. Otherwise you'll fill your shelf with all the "self improvement classics" and not end up reading a single one. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 01:42 PM |
| 3 | How do I respond to this text?Women aren't socially stupid like a lot of men are. All those times she didn't seem to get that you were asking her out was her way of rejecting you, not that she was "missing your signals". | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 09:57 PM |
| 1 | I have my first date ever tonight. Can I PM anyone?I need help with details and shit to help calm myself down There is nothing I can say to you that will calm you down. That will only come with experience and pushing your comfort zone. (I can only push myself so far outside of my comfort zone). You keep saying you have "psychological limitations". Why? What happens if you push farther? | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 03:56 PM |
| 8 | Tips on dating a retardbut every time we talked about something normal I wanted to blow my fucking brains out. But hey, that's lots of girls nowadays You beat me to it. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Can cleverness and witness be taught?So work on it. You get hung up on details, so this shouldn't be too difficult: Watch how other people tell stories to learn comedic timing, and observe what sort of details they opt to include and how their audience reacts. For instance, I'll almost never include a real name, because who cares about that shit and it's hard for my audience to keep track of who's who. So my Russian lab partner becomes "Igor" and the mechanic in a story becomes "Vince" or "Tony". Likewise, any fast food place becom… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Can cleverness and witness be taught?I might ramble on with unimportant details. This is the MOST important thing about telling a good story. The details don't matter. If you can't quite remember an insignificant detail as you are telling the story, make something up on the fly. Don't be this guy. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Is mewing BS?Mooooooo | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 02:33 PM |
| 9 | I know it's the dumbest post you'll ever see but I don't know how to speak properlyAre you dehydrated? Over caffeinated? Low blood sugar (do you frequently skip breakfast or lunch)? | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with sexual confusion as a porn-addicted virginThe problem is that nobody knows that I have these issues and it's a huge mental burden for me. No one should know. Don't tell anyone, ever, because you will get past this and feel like an idiot for sharing. Everyone has secret issues they deal with, and it takes a certain discipline not to broadcast them to the world like most people do today on social media. I'm not informing you of anything you don't know by telling you that the solution is to stop watching porn. I had a similar problem, comi… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Hates textingSo hit her up when she gets back and go bang other chicks in the mean time. She's probably seeing other dudes. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Help me change my personality and thinkingIt's been three years.... how much do you deadlift? That is a precise metric of how much effort you put in and how seriously you take your self improvement. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 02:04 PM |
| 2 | A Simple Path To Success For Those Starting OutMessage the mods when you post, they can sticky it. You can feel free to drop my name when you do, I have some clout around here. Anything that challenges some deeply rooted wrong ways of thinking gets downvoted to oblivion. Downvotes don't matter, but you'd do well to include some reference material so it doesn't look like you are making wild claims without any kind of source. We're all about the Scientific Method here at team Red Pill, even if it challenges deeply rooted ways of thinking. No o… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/18 09:47 PM |
| 6 | A Simple Path To Success For Those Starting OutIf your overall diet is good, there's no reason why you shouldn't treat yourself That has nothing to do with how objectively bad sugar is for you. I have a Bachelor's diploma in Nutrition There are many, many better and healthier ways to attain whatever it is you want. Feel free to write a top level post then. Seriously. Every nutrition post that shows up here is either broscience or pushing an agenda. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/18 09:33 PM |
| 1 | What interesting stuff and items to keep in your apartment / bedroom to intrigue female guests?Scrunchie. The first time I had a girl back at my place I would have killed for one of those. She had long black hair that looked great but kept getting in the way. Contact solution? You mean for the eyes? Yes, in case she wears contacts. You want the logistics sorted for her. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 08:14 PM |
| 2 | She flaked I cut all forms contactlmao | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 06:14 PM |
| 2 | What interesting stuff and items to keep in your apartment / bedroom to intrigue female guests?Extra toothbrushes, contact solution, a clean towel -- anything you might throw in a bag for a night at someone else's place. All should have plausible deniability (I bought a ten pack at Costco, friends forgot their stuff, etc.) so it isn't weird. Like, don't have a box of tampons under your sink unless you have a female roommate for some fucked up reason. Also scrunchies. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 06:13 PM |
| 1 | She flaked I cut all forms contactIgnore her. Cutting a girl off in the hopes that she'll notice and come back is not a hard next. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 06:05 PM |
| 1 | [Q4BP]Do you realize that you often slut shame?This isn't the first time I've heard this idea of sex being contextual. While men will usually consider sex to be sex, regardless of circumstance, women will often explain that some sex, often the porn-star variety with a fling, "didn't mean anything", while the vanilla, starfish sex she has with her boyfriend is what's really important What always struck me as odd is that women will repeat again and again how casual sex "doesn't mean anything", while also claiming that her partner count is none… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/18 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Do female workers get treated better than male workers? Do they get special treatment? Can they use their sexual charm? Can they also "sleep their way to the top?"There's no problem with women "sleeping their way to the top". Use every tool at your disposal to get ahead, including your network, owed favors, and charm, both physical and emotional. Just don't use your sexuality to get to the top, only to then turn around and complain that you are objectified, raped, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/18 05:03 PM |
| 5 | [Q4W] What personality traits make a man more attractive/sexy/arousing?it's that personality affects the way men look to women. Quite literally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/18 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Girl with very few posts on Instagram,no Facebook and occasional snapchat,is this redpill ltr material ?Relax, bro. I'm not looking to AMOG you for asking very legitimate questions about the relationships you want to have with the women in your life. Have you read HumanSockPuppet's Guide to Managing Your Bitches? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Girl with very few posts on Instagram,no Facebook and occasional snapchat,is this redpill ltr material ?To most people, "LTR" means "committment" (= not sleeping with other people). What does it mean to you? Facebook official? Move in together? Speak on the phone every two hours? It sounds like you're more interested in telling a girl you are in an LTR than actually committing, because you think it's the fastest way into her pants. Is that an accurate assessment? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 02:47 PM |
| 6 | Girl with very few posts on Instagram,no Facebook and occasional snapchat,is this redpill ltr material ?If you ever ask me "is this particular girl LTR material" then the answer will be "no", 100% of the time. This is regardless of factors including, but not limited to, how frequently she posts on social media, how sexually conservative she is, and how totally into you she seems. Commitment means "I am going to stay loyal for XYZ reason". So when you do commit to a particular girl it's because you are inspired to; you want to be with her, specifically, for whatever reason, regardless of all the ot… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 07:14 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] What does TRP get wrong about women that could hurt their chances with women?What you're suggesting is directly in conflict with some of the character traits that have been prized as feminine for generations and across cultures. It's not ideal. But women can't have it both ways. Women are naturally submissive to men, as men are naturally protective towards women. When these two instincts are allowed to be manifest in tandem, we get a winning scenario for both sides instead of the zero-sum shitshow modern dating has become. In this "Red Pill" relationship, women are allow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/18 08:18 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] What does TRP get wrong about women that could hurt their chances with women?On the contrary, simply because the results can be so severe, I think it's very serious. I see. So it's not that I need to take LMR seriously because the women mean anything by it -- chances are what I'm seeing is just the "mating ritual" in action. Rather, I need to take it seriously because the lawful consequences are so severe on the off chance I get it wrong. Maybe then the solution to preventing sexual assault isn't only to teach men not to rape. It's also to teach women to only say "no" wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/18 04:49 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] What does TRP get wrong about women that could hurt their chances with women?In that case, given that this isn't an irregular occurrence, would I be wrong in safely assuming LMR isn't usually anything to be taken seriously? That she does want to go to Poundtown, but, for whatever fucked up reason that is beyond the scope of this discussion, we have to do this little dance (the one where she says stop, I back off, she raises her eyebrows in surprise) before we get to it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/18 06:05 AM |
| 0 | Red Pill Contradictions?Aren't we playing a role in creating this world that we don't like but that we have grown to accept? Yes. It is advised to spin plates and to promote a woman to LTR status when she proves herself over time. Wrong. It's never advised to promote a woman to LTR status. We hate on women who have sex too easily and we hate on women who withhold sex (which makes sense because we are trading our attention for no sex and this isn't a fair deal for us). What's the best mindset to have then? Hate women in… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 05:56 AM |
| 0 | [Q4W] What does TRP get wrong about women that could hurt their chances with women?You're also missing the point. The idea is that she said she wanted me to stop when she didn't actually want me to. That was unambiguously clear. A misogynistic shitlord who subscribes to The Red Pill would tell you that she said it with the expectation that I would continue. Almost as if she was looking for a way to both have sex and not look like a slut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/18 05:29 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The "NiceGuy" trope, is nothing more than women takin out their frustration on shy/socially awkward men.On her side, what's going on, is that she probably felt that enough time had passed for you to "cool off" on wanting to fuck her and that you could be friends now. I was literally rejected by a girl yesterday, and this morning she was all friendly when she saw me. More friendly than she had been previously, in fact. The truth is, I don't particularly care that she wasn't interested. I reject girls all the time for all sorts of stupid reasons. What bothers me is the disrespect, as if she is entit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/18 05:22 AM |
| 3 | [Q4W] What does TRP get wrong about women that could hurt their chances with women?You're missing the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/18 05:08 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men should not have sex with women they are not prepared to marry and have children with.The word "should" just means "I want". Case in point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/18 04:35 AM |
| 3 | [Q4W] What does TRP get wrong about women that could hurt their chances with women?The way I get around LMR is by saying, word for word, "we won't do anything you aren't comfortable with. Say stop... and I will stop". Some do, and I obviously back off. When that happens they often get surprised, almost as if they wanted me to continue and weren't expecting me to actually stop just because they said so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/18 04:33 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The "NiceGuy" trope, is nothing more than women takin out their frustration on shy/socially awkward men.I'm wondering where in your schema we can fit the situation where the roles are reversed. I ask a girl out, she says she just wants to be friends, and I politely express that I'm not interested in being "just friends". We run into each other somewhere, or she texts me, and she pushes to hang out, do something together, whatever. How is that any less manipulative? I made it clear I'm not interested in being "just friends" but now I'm in a position where I look like an asshole if I refuse. Kind of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/18 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Masculine bedroom designPut stuff on your walls that makes it yours, not stuff that guys on the internet tell you to hang up. I put a giant confederate flag on my wall because I like the challenge of convincing people that what they perceive to be a hate symbol actually represents the values the US was built on. I'm batting over .900 Plus, it's funny to watch the feminists short circuit when they realize what a racist piece of shit I theoretically should be for hanging the flag but still want to sleep with me. Feelz be… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Realizing I've been eating keto for 4 days, starting to notice the "flu" symptoms which I hear eventually pass. Is it worth to keep going?...that says precisely the opposite of the point you are trying to make. Contrary to the supposed detrimental effect of protein, the majority of epidemiological studies have shown that long-term high-protein intake increases bone mineral density and reduces bone fracture incidence. and (emphasis mine) On the basis of recent findings, consuming protein (including that from meat) higher than current Recommended Dietary Allowance for protein is beneficial to calcium utilization and bone health Try … | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Realizing I've been eating keto for 4 days, starting to notice the "flu" symptoms which I hear eventually pass. Is it worth to keep going?[citation needed] Maybe I'm just retarded, but I can't seem to find anything. And I like to think my google-fu is pretty strong. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Realizing I've been eating keto for 4 days, starting to notice the "flu" symptoms which I hear eventually pass. Is it worth to keep going?[citation needed] | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 05:37 PM |
| 3 | What is MarriedRedPill, what is askMRP?The assumption being, of course, that you are an explosives expert. The basis of your claimed expertise is that you were unlucky enough to get married before finding The Red Pill. That's it. That doesn't automatically make you smarter, wiser, or more qualified to offer advice. I don't have a problem with MRP as an institution. What I resent is your condescending attitude. Whether someone can offer good advice is independent of whether they frequent MRP instead of TRP. So no, /u/88Will88, I don't… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/18 03:52 PM |
| 10 | How do I lose fat/weight as a teenager?Have you tried trying? | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Realizing I've been eating keto for 4 days, starting to notice the "flu" symptoms which I hear eventually pass. Is it worth to keep going?[citation needed] | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 01:01 AM |
| 3 | “Are you having sex with other people?”"Does the pope shit in his hat?" | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 12:55 AM |
| 3 | How can I create more time when im always busy.Should I sacrifice one of my days to further my education so I can get a stupid piece of paper that gives a facade of value. Diamond has negligible inherent value but has a fat price tag. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 12:54 AM |
| 1 | New to online dating. Am I boring in this conversation or am I boring?From the side bar. Actually do it, don't just read it. I have some hilarious screenshots I'll try to dig up if I have time. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Learning how to get casual sex easily is a worthwhile investment that more men should take onNo shit it's biological, that's why they have to try hard to tame it. Why tame it, constantly working to suppress what is natural, when you can satisfy it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/18 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Learning how to get casual sex easily is a worthwhile investment that more men should take onAnd I think renting prostitutes is less sad than keeping a woman happy and attracted to you in the confines of a relationship [solely for getting some sex] There's nothing wrong in either case. All parties involved are satisfied; the only one who takes issue is you, looking in from the outside. And who are you to butt in and say what's sad or inappropriate? What I think men should try hardest is to rely on women for validation as little as possible. It's not rational. It's biological. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/18 05:09 PM |
| 10 | Lessons from an Entrepreneur #2 - Stop wasting timeThey get lucky. We like to think that hard work == financial success, but ultimately every self-made millionaire (under the age of 60) got a break down the line. There is nothing particularly special or unique about Zuckerburg. He's probably a smart guy, and he works hard, but more than that he was in the right place at the right time to capitalize on his roommate's idea. Gates is a smart guy, but he also had the luxury of playing with with a personal computer as a child. (The equivalent would b… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/18 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Lessons from an Entrepreneur #2 - Stop wasting timeIt's been a while since I have been on Reddit but after having a quick skim through the sub I've noticed that the focus is aimed too heavily on women. That's because, biologically, men are hardwired to lust after women. The goal is not to somehow shut off or mitigate those desires through meditation and long term abstinence. Rather, the goal is to satisfy those desires as quickly and efficiently as possible. It would be like saying a subreddit about weightlifting focuses too much on nutrition. Y… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/18 03:36 PM |
| 1 | How to stop finding myself in subservient positions in life?Fear of what? | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | How to stop finding myself in subservient positions in life?I always seem to find myself in the lower rank. "Rank", as in titles and status, doesn't necessarily mean power and control. The most powerful people fly below the radar. Always second, never first. Always under someone else's thumb, never the one leading/in control. Be more specific. What, today, is stopping you from doing what you want to do? Social pressure? Finances? | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 04:26 PM |
| 1 | My God... It's Full Of... Kittens.https://vimeo.com/49553745 | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/18 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Lift before all else?I'm starting to accept it and want to move on. Nothing i could have done about it then, and no use crying about it now. You'll do well here, because you are willing to take responsibility. Most guys refuse, blaming everything and everyone for their lack of success. Sidebar stuff is great and all, but is useless for me. Abundance mentality? Yeah not happening. It's about getting into the right mindset, even if it doesn't seem immediately practical. Do the required reading, even if it takes you a … | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 03:42 AM |
| 2 | What to study?Yeah, because finance and accounting are really where it's at for interesting material. And, all things equal, "engineer" will get you more interviews than "finance major" any day of the week, even in finance, provided you don't have the personality of a fermented turnip. Finance people do tend to have more developed social skills, though. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Is it just me or are most girls on Tinder practically un-datable?It's just you. Most women everywhere are practically undatable. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Tips on making the first move"This is the part of the date where I kiss you." She'll laugh/blush or whatever, and then you know you're in. Worked wonders for me back when I first started. Is there a smooth way of doing this? Stop trying to be smooth. It doesn't work like you see in the movies. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 09:09 PM |
| 36 | Blue pill virgin - Am I being played by this girl? (Its been a year)It's been a year virgin Yes, you are wasting your time. she told me she loves me also, but doesn't want a relationship or sex. It makes zero sense to me. Watch what women do, not what they say. talking to this girl for a whole year speak every day expensive gifts professed love You don't love this girl. You're just a horndog hoping to say the right thing to friendship your way into some sad, "I shouldn't have done that" pussy. You want advice? Real, actionable advice, that you probably won't lis… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 08:53 PM |
| 2 | On the Use of Hearing Protection in Loud EnvironmentsLike I say, you're the guy I'm going to find after a cataclysmic event. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Older brother needs helpDon't offer unsolicited advice to people who don't want to be helped. They won't listen anyway and it will breed resentment. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 05:22 PM |
| 16 | I am struggling to live. Wondering if and when I should take anti depressants?I'm burnt out from living and just want an escape. So.... do something else. Escape. When I was in college I got so burnt out that one day I just quit my "awesome" internship, dropped my classes for the semester, and moved across the country for a few months and worked a chill job, making just enough to cover my expenses. I spent time away from all the people trying to steer me towards what they thought I should be doing with my life. The experience was pivotal for my development. Do what you wa… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Is introversion considered a bad trait?Honestly I don't have problems talking with people, I just don't want to. How about you do what works instead of jerking yourself off to how special and unique you are. You can't have it both ways. We know what works, and you probably do too. You just don't want to do what you need to because it's hard. So you don't enjoy talking to others. Do it anyway. Or don't get laid. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 03:57 PM |
| 3 | A Beginners Guide To Using Steroids SafelyYou shouldn't accept everything people tell you just because they claim to be an authority. Instead, listen to people who are at the place you want to be. Get fitness advice from the guy who has the body you want. Get career advice from the guy who has the job you want. Don't go asking gurus or an academics. There's a reason they are teaching and not doing. When you are hearing something from a secondary source you are being presented with information in the context of a larger agenda. Of course… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/18 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Doc told me I most likely have depression. But I don't want to take meds and can't figure out if I am just full of shit or not..Okay. Psychiatrists aren't incentivized to cure you. This is independent of whatever philosophy any particular shrink has when treating his patients. The incentive is to keep you coming for as long as possible, thinking you're slowly getting better, without actually getting better. Because the moment his patient is cured is the moment a doctor stops making money. Full stop. And, unlike physical illness, there is enough ambiguity about depression that a doctor can convince you (and himself) you'r… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Book orderIt's been over 24 hours since you posted this. Have you started any of them yet? | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 02:30 AM |
| 11 | What you do if you develope oneitis and lose an interest to continue spinning your other plates?It isn't one-itis if you're coming from a place of abundance and genuinely want to spend more time with a particular woman because she brings more to the table than a set of holes. It is one-itis if you're a thirsty loser who has no other options, which is the case 99% of the time a guy catches feels for a particular girl. Just don't get complacent. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 02:28 AM |
| 34 | Feel like an autist around new people/groupsHow do I get better at this? Practice. You do it 1,000 times and by the 1,001th time you don't give a shit at all because you realize it literally doesn't matter what strangers think of you. Do the work. There are no shortcuts, no secret methods. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 02:24 AM |
| 3 | Doc told me I most likely have depression. But I don't want to take meds and can't figure out if I am just full of shit or not..Always remember that psychologists aren't incentivized to "cure" you. The rest of the year I am good though. Move somewhere with more stable weather, then. That's the solution. Not pills or therapy sessions. I know I function at a much higher capacity in warmer weather. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 02:22 AM |
| 26 | No bjs unless I go down on her too?Sounds fair to me. I personally wouldn’t go down on a girl if she refused to go down on me. I don't understand why people offer advice they aren't qualified to give. Nothing about this indicates you understand the first thing about Red Pill dynamics in the bedroom. Explicitly: you never negotiate in the bedroom. If she isn't doing something you want her to do, don't make much of an effort to bring her around again. She'll get the message. Where guys often mess up is presenting an ultimatum like … | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 12:36 AM |
| 7 | Good response to this Snapchat story?You're a busy guy, with a lot of shit going on. Do you really have time to open some ho's snap story, to see her boring, narcissistic selfies? Are you interested in seeing that? Have some self respect, dude. In need of somebody to lay with me at night to keep my anxiety at bay... applications being taken "Dance, monkey, dance for me!" I wouldn't respond to that shit even if a girl sent that message directly to my inbox. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 04:55 PM |
| 5 | Girl coming over for dinner.Have her help you in the kitchen. Bitches love being ordered around, and both of you standing in a small kitchen helps with the kino. You should constantly be coming into contact with her, even if you're just reaching for something. When there's a lull because you're waiting for something to pan-fry or whatever say "hey, come here", pull her in and kiss her. If she's coming over for dinner it means she's already down and you just have to not fuck it up. Also consider having a bottle of wine arou… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 04:36 PM |
| 10 | Good response to this Snapchat story?You've already lost if you open her snapchat story. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 04:29 PM |
| 12 | Is there something as "too much muscle" ?I've heard it mainly from women who say WHOOPS! Looks like you're listening to the shit women say instead of watching what they do! Your goal should be to become the biggest, widest, veiniest mofo around. You basically want to resemble a giant cock. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/18 04:28 PM |
| 1 | How do you flirt?Watch guys who are good at flirting. Sit in public and observe the guys who are successful and consider what they say, and, more importantly, how they carry themselves and the tone they use. (You can also do this to learn comedic timing, a more general skill.) Also practice, particularly on random people you interact with, however briefly. It's easy to flirt for thirty seconds while paying for your overpriced latte at Starbucks when you know the interaction is going to end very quickly one way o… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/18 09:28 PM |
| 1 | How do you fucking reach your daily protein intake with no supplementsLet's say I eat one meat today, that's about 20 grams of protein A steak dinner should get you at least 70 grams of protein, plus whatever sides you're having with it. I eat 3 whole eggs, that's almost another 20 grams, 1 can of sardine (another 20 grams), 4 glasses of milk (25 grams) = 85 grams... not nearly enough... So eat 4-5 eggs instead. Add in a smear of peanut butter on toast to get your calorie count up. Guac is also good, but is a little more expensive. Milk looks good on paper for the… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/18 09:15 PM |
| 51 | Ariana Grande: Another example of AWALT, Female Rationalization, and Victim Card.I'm honestly tired of hearing about how every girl in existence is in an abusive relationship. Every fucking time there is a break up or drama the word abuse gets thrown around like a baseball. They do that because they are incentivized to do so. There is no potential for negative fallout by screaming abuse or rape, and it absolves women of all responsibility. It would be stupid for women not to play the get-out-of-jail-free card society gives them. They have dwindled their own worth down to the… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/18 10:32 PM |
| 3 | MasksThe assumption the article makes is that there's some "self", some fundamental "you" that becomes visible if you strip away all the "masks". But the truth is that physically you are meat. The information that is consciousness is somehow encoded in your brain, and your brain is made out of meat. And you -- the fundamental/spiritual/philosophical "you" -- are just your actions. (Which, incidentally, is why we tell guys to start working out and cold approaching, and the proper mindset will follow. … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/18 03:04 PM |
| 16 | MasksA more viable solution would be to actually change who you are. You don't need to put on a mask of "I'm a cool guy", you actually are a cool guy. You don't need to put on a mask and lie if you have actually made something of yourself. That's true. But how does that help me if I'm an unconfident loser who doesn't know how to talk to people? "Putting on a mask" not only tells you what to do in a social situation, it also allows for a degree of separation. It's not you that's getting rejected. It's… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Given TRP why would any guy fake a vulnerability?Related reading. It's something I've been thinking about anyway, and I've been meaning to write it up. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 01:36 AM |
| 9 | Thoughts on Steriods?It doesn't matter what you did to succeed if you're the one standing in the end-zone with the football. The idea that "cheaters" get what's coming to them is a meme. Just make sure to do the thing properly. Get your bloodwork done and know your shit before sticking needles in your tushie. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 10:11 PM |
| 4 | Second date pre- sex monog ultimatum?You're terrible | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 07:32 PM |
| 1 | I'm at a low point. I need adviceIs there a martial arts gym nearby? A climbing wall? Find a hobby that's both productive and social. You make friends with people via proximity (being around them), not by always saying the right things. That's why it's easier to make friends in highschool and college, you're around the same people every day. I'm just awkward in groups and I have trouble closing ("So, you have a snapchat?" is about all I have). Stop trying to be smooth. "So when will I see you again" works fine. Or, "how about y… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 07:09 PM |
| 1 | I'm at a low point. I need adviceSkipped a few grad parties and now I'm regretting it. Dude, there is always, always, always another party. Seriously. Remove any idea of FOMO from your consciousness. Because even if you went to the party, there would still be a better one happening somewhere else. I'm just suffering from some mild aspies(diagnosed) and general anxiety and it's fucking killing my game. Put on a mask. You can be whoever you want when meeting someone new. Doesn't pan out? Walk away. I'm working on a post about the… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Dehorn this unicorn for me please. Roast her, help me see the light againNah. I'll take a girl with low self esteem over a chick with an ego any day. As long as she isn't medicated or cutting herself or some other stupid shit. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Dehorn this unicorn for me please. Roast her, help me see the light againbut I'm just ignoring their requests for sex and stuff just for this one girl If you are coming from a place of abundance, where lots of beautiful women want to fuck you, and one specific girl inspires you to come back to her, well, that's the paradigm RP relationship. The entire RPW sub exists to teach women how to run "girl game", exactly as your girl is doing. There's nothing wrong with being monogamous. If you have options but choose to stay with one woman for whatever reason, well, that's w… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 06:26 PM |
| 6 | Like eye contact, what are some other straight forward methods of building tension?For girls I know socially, I'll sometimes tug on their hair as I walk by. Generally the reaction is they get startled, quickly turn around, and smile when they see me. I learned that from a guy I met in the gym who did it to his girlfriend as she walked by. A hair bun or pony tail makes it even easier, I'll just reach up and grab it. I can't help myself, and I tell them so. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 04:06 PM |
| 4 | Date Ideas for plate under 20How about I fuck you and take your friend to the movies? | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 01:18 PM |
| 5 | I have a problem, I like women but I feel nothing for them nowYou know, that euphoria after being with a new girl, that childlike bliss and excitement? Nope. Disney romance doesn't exist for men. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 06:06 AM |
| 1 | How many days a week should I lift?If you're new to the game and lifting properly you won't physically be able to do more than three days a week. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/18 06:04 AM |
| 1 | I was called apatheticThis is going to be a bit explicit, but it's important to learn. try to take her shirt off and she stopped me. That's when you drop the "we aren't going to do anything you don't want to" line. Keep making out, and let your leg rub against her crotch, hands moving around her body, especially her ass and between her legs from behind. All the while, both of you are still dressed. Eventually you'll want to put your hand down the front of her pants, keep doing everything else, but now your hands are … | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 08:01 PM |
| 1 | You're not unlucky, You're just LazyYou're missing the point. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/18 06:17 PM |
| 4 | Balding is driving me to the edge. Really need some helpShave your head. Don't be that guy sporting a toilet bowl haircut. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 02:47 PM |
| 1 | I was called apatheticWhat you need to do is go meet other girls. It is always easier to meet someone new than to "fix" what you already have. The key is to change your attitude to one that says "you don't want to put out? No problem. I have plenty of girls in my phone who will. There's the door." But if she doesn't have a lot of experience then she could be nervous. A line I always use (which also tells me she is on board with what's happening) is "we don't have to do anything we aren't comfortable with. Tell me to … | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 02:45 PM |
| 2 | I was called apatheticI was in bed and the girl I'm seeing told me In bed with her, I assume? In that case, who cares what she's saying; actions speak louder than words. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 03:45 AM |
| 4 | What's the sweet spot between being an asshole and an outright prick?It's almost as if guys should stop asking others what to do and start trying shit out themselves. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 02:23 PM |
| 1 | No female friendsWhat's the problem? | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 02:39 AM |
| 4 | Blushing"Oh, see that, you're making me blush!" Own it. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Do bland girls exist?Most girls are bland. They aren't incentivized to learn how to talk to people by leaving their comfort zone. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 02:22 AM |
| 2 | How to lift properly?I've been trying to lift people up who's always depressed and down. It's not your responsibility to fix other people. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 02:20 AM |
| 7 | Why Women Shouldn't VoteYou're wrong. Misogyny is the part of TRP that is critical to its success. I say that as an Endorsed Contributor of The Red Pill, and you can absolutely quote me on it. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/18 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Hunting the UnicornWe are official in dating. Ah. Right. I know I'm never supposed to really let them in, don't show the kink in the armor, but I feel like I've found someone who gets it, gets me. I feel like I can share everything with her. Imagine you were dating some really hot chick, and then when you decided to marry her she stopped putting herself together for you. Suddenly, this super hot babe is just... average. Nothing special, certainly not worth committing to. You'd feel like you were sold a false bill … | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Hunting the UnicornI feel like I'm currently at a crossroads. If you don't want to sleep with other women, even though they are throwing themselves at you, then don't sleep with other women. You're wondering if you should give her your "we are in a relationship" coin? Maybe even make it facebook official? What exactly is the issue here? The problem is that I want my turn with her to last as long as I can make it. Oh shit. I know I'm never supposed to really let them in, don't show the kink in the armor, but I feel… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 04:03 AM |
| 3 | Best way to get over a oneitis?things went south between me and this one chick Why are you keeping her around, then? Besides getting with other girls, you should remove this particular one from your life, on all platforms, including facebook and snapchat. Get rid of anything that brings her to mind. If you run into her and she calls you on unfriending her, play dumb and deflect with something like "oh, it must have been an accident, idk what you're talking about." Be polite if you bump into each other, but don't try to start … | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 03:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you build social circle without the use of social media?Sack up and talk to people. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/18 02:49 PM |
| 4 | I have four months to go from a Beta Bitch to an Alpha. How do I change?Part of the process is passing the GayLubeOil sandwich test to show the Committee of Certified Kinsmen that you deserve the title "Alpha Male". To schedule your meeting you have to fill out a one page form that takes 8-12 weeks to process. ... I'm fucking with you. The point is that you have to lose this idea of being an "alpha male", as if it is some intrinsic property people posess. There are alpha behaviors which you should try to emulate, but you should never, ever, ever categorize yourself … | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 05:29 PM |
| 6 | "You never talk to me" problem"I am literally talking to you right now." Then I tell her the story about my 90-year-old Aunt Petunia who used to give me shit about not visiting her when I went to visit her. Then, next time it comes up, I'll say something (to her) like "Aunt Petunia, I am literally visiting you right now, sitting in your living room", refusing to actually acknowledge the issue she is trying to address. I was thinking of saying this: "I keep a few close friends. You're just not one of them. Nothing personal." … | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 12:14 PM |
| 3 | Problem F-closingtouch her inner thigh and it's smooth sailing from there. I couldn't believe how well this works for quickly escalating to sex the first time I tried it. It's like a fucking magic trick, rub the hat and a secret compartment opens. Ta-da! | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 12:02 PM |
| 8 | I have four months to go from a Beta Bitch to an Alpha. How do I change?Whatever you end up doing, make sure to get the paperwork in early for your Certified Alpha certificate, it can sometimes take a while for them to get back to you. I have mine hanging on the wall at home next to my Conquest Board (used condoms stapled to a bulletin board to show pre-selection) and it's a panty dropper for sure. Girls can't resist once they see real, concrete proof that I am truly an alpha male. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 12:00 PM |
| 3 | 23M, Kissless virgin, how to go in for the kiss?You can literally say "this is the part of the date where I kiss you", she'll laugh/blush or whatever, and then you move in. That's what I used to do when I started out. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/18 02:38 AM |
| 3 | What’s wrong with cohabitation?What’s wrong with cohabitation? Nothing. Why not have her move in, what could go wrong? This is a totally different question. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Learning to cook?Practice. If you use good ingredients, your food won't ever be bad. It just might not be great till you figure out what works. To start, look up recipes, and avoid very strong spices that can nuke a whole dish. You can't ruin your food if all you're using is a good piece of meat, onion, garlic, etc. Worst case is it's a little bland. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 12:34 AM |
| 2 | How to push through inexperience?Just bullshit, figure stuff out on the fly. Don't lie if someone calls you out, but you don't have to volunteer information. That's how the whole world works. I know it will be very awkward and cringy for the first time and I can't get through this phase. Stop trying to be "smooth". Seduction doesn't work the way it is portrayed in the movies. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Advice on how to handle the class systemI guess I'll get there if I keep working hard. It's inevitable. You will get big if you eat, sleep, and train properly. You just need the discipline to stick with it. If you're lucky enough that the guy sitting next to you engages you in conversation instead of telling you to shut up so he can listen to the lecturer, somebody sitting nearby will. Class was an example. You can talk to people in the library or in line at Starbucks, too. Have you got any more specific advice on how to deal with cla… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 10:35 PM |
| 9 | Would you fuck a prostitute? Why (not)?Yeah, you bet. Except you were so busy trying to be clever that you missed the point. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Advice on how to handle the class systemin decent shape Get into great shape. Priority numero uno. Putting aside the fact that it'll make you feel good, people will be drawn to you. Building muscle gives you the best ROI out of anything you could possibly spend your time doing. How do I deal with friends who have pretty much given up on social activities Meet new people. You're in college, dude. Literally just turn to the guy next to you in class and go "hey, have we met yet"? Most people are weird, and the majority of interactions wo… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 12:59 PM |
| 12 | Would you fuck a prostitute? Why (not)?Fuck a prostitute, as in pay her? Assuming it was regulated so I wouldn't catch something? Sure. But I wouldn't be paying her for sex. I'd be paying for her to go away once we're done. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 12:45 PM |
| 2 | What is crab in a bucket?Let me google that for you. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 03:47 AM |
| 105 | Got taken advantage of by a fat chick while I was drunkIf the tables were flipped around and I was a girl getting taken advantage of by a guy, everyone would be quick to say it was rape or something along those lines. But because I'm a male, I feel like my gf and the friends she told about it are not understanding. You're smart enough to see reality for what it is, be smart enough to control your liquor. You aren't a woman. You don't get a get-out-of-jail-free card. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Why do they hate us ?Why do they hate us ? Because we remind them of how weak-willed and sheep-like and unspecial they are. How gleeful they are, deep down, to be ordinary. They don't want to be around special people, because if there are special people, and they aren't one of them -- well, who wants that? Who wants a constant reminder that they aren't even trying to be special? People don't want to be extraordinary, I do believe that. People want to be told what to do and how to live and they want men like me to te… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 03:36 AM |
| 3 | First kiss gave me herpes! (M20)What the fuck is wrong with you? There is nothing attractive about having an STD. If a girl would be willing to sleep with you even after you brag like a retard about how you have herpes, she'll probably give you something worse. Have some standards, holy shit. I really, really hope I just got trolled. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Three years implementing TRP but I still need helpno friends/social circle Game: nonexistent, during these three years I approached maybe 2 girls, got 1 number. i.e. you aren't implementing TRP. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and do what you need to. It's hard, but you know exactly what you need to be doing. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Do sluts feel proud of their high n-counts?They don't think about it, it would cause too much cognitive dissonance. If you asked them about any specific time they'd tell you how "it just happened but it's definitely not a regular thing". | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 01:55 PM |
| 1 | not seeing any increase in muscle mass. need some advice.not seeing any increase in muscle mass eating under my tdee but am still not dropping body fat Choose one. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Should men initiate a relationshipim curious If i should let her ask "what are we" shit like that. Why? What possible good can come from that? Grow up, dude. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:32 AM |
| 6 | Is it possible to "hurt" a GF?Her new lover texted me, saying that I "hurt her" What a fucking loser. I'd bet grandmas jewels that he wanted to to anything but send that text to you. Sounds like she did you a favor. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:29 AM |
| 2 | How should I (17M) handle my fuckin parentshttps://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3zxncl/ask_whisper_parents/ | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 04:21 AM |
| 1 | I often read that "game is just applied economics". Suggested readings/books about those economic laws?A few months ago, I read Thomas Sowell's Basic Economics. He writes in his intro that the book is intended to be a non-mathematical primer to economic theory not bogged down in technical jargon. The thesis is that more important than your intentions are what you motivate people to do. He then applies that idea to economic theory, about how policies that sound good on paper may never pan out in practice, because people often aren't motivated to act despite good intentions. Give it a little though… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Do girls enjoy u checking them out if your SMV is high enough?Why do you give them the satisfaction though? If I'm not going to approach, because I'm doing work or something, I won't even look at the fine piece of ass that just walked into the library. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here use resistance bands instead of weights?Anyone here have any thoughts on resistance bands? Yes, I use them to stretch before I squat with a barbell. without having to keep pulling off/putting on weights for OHP. It takes literally 30 seconds to swap out the weights, especially if you're at home and don't have to walk around the gym hunting for the plates you need. 2.5s are the bane of my existence. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 03:19 PM |
| 2 | For muslim trpers what have you done in regards to marriage?Up to you, really. This is the takeaway, OP. Ultimately there is no right or wrong answer. There's the answer that will net you more success according most people's definition of the word, but that isn't necessarily in line with your definition of success. If you feel more fulfilled living life married to one woman with a sword hanging over your head, well, go ahead. There's nothing objectively wrong with that decision, and even if there was, morals aren't relevant to this subreddit. But the rea… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Compromising on lifting weights?Not if you're eating enough. Without drugs, even if you are sleeping and eating enough, the issue is recovery. You can't distance run and then squat heavy for reps multiple times a week. This is mitigated by steroids, which enable an athlete to spend more time training and less time in recovery. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 09:33 PM |
| 0 | Compromising on lifting weights?You cannot be a competitive distance runner and build significant muscle mass at the same time. Of course you can. As long as you aren't afraid of needles, that is. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Unsure of continuing relationship due to differences in moralityIs she immoral enough to put out, even though you aren't married? Beyond that, who cares? If you want companionship or loyalty, get a dog. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 02:35 AM |
| 1 | "I saw you on dating app""I saw you on the app and immediately swiped left(don't like)" "You're hurting my feelings" But there's really no wrong way to play it because you're not actually trying to pick her up. Right? | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 02:19 AM |
| 9 | Ex thinks she's the shit nowI just got a call from my ex to come over Ruh-roh, Raggy I head over Zoinks! | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Why Behavioral Addiction Will Destroy YouIt's called "how many fucking beeps and whistles can we fit up in this bitch before people's brains melt". In particular, how can we apply the Shannon Limit to psychology, what is the maximum amount of noise the human brain can handle before critical failure? It's a fascinating conversation, even if its conclusions leave us with some uncomfortable truths. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/18 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Are women really this stupid?Women don't perceive the world the same way you do. Do they seriously realize not realize that they start most of it? Your mistake is approaching this rationally. Women navigate and respond using emotion, not reason. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 04:07 AM |
| 10 | Can't beat a porn addictionBe more mindful of what you're doing. Imagine what it would look like for someone to walk in and see you, dick in hand, jerking off to whatever shit gets you going. Is that really the guy you want to be? There's no secret. You just have to decide that you're not the kind of guy who watches porn. Don't even frame it as "quitting". | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Past LTR preventing buddy from hooking up with new womenWhat do yall think should be the move going forward? Why does there have to be a move? I don't see what any of this has to do with you. Did he even ask for your help? | /r/askTRP | 29/04/18 03:58 AM |
| 3 | Do girls just not uphold future commitments?When considering why people behave a certain way, you have to consider what they are incentivized to do. Right now, today, she is incentivized to say yes when you make any plans for two weeks out -- maybe you'll show her a good time, saying no closes that door -- but if something better comes along, there's no social backlash for flaking on you. So it's a no brainer for her. Say yes now, which really doesn't mean anything, and go out with you when the time comes if she feels like it. And if Brad… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 06:13 PM |
| 4 | Have you ever met a red piller in the real world? If so what is the protocol?Don't forget to tip your fedora. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/18 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Avoiding LTR relapseBlock her on social media. Delete her number. It's not hard to remove her from your life if you really want to. The problem is that you dogs always insist on going back to your vomit. Have some self respect. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/18 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Is the incel theory of juggernaut law true?; aka unattractive women still having plenty of options because of men thinking they have a better chance with them?Who cares? | /r/askTRP | 22/04/18 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Someone please talk to me.I find that the biggest problem guys have is that they don't know what they want. They just feel that something is missing. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/18 02:49 PM |
| 3 | I get that there is no arguing with a female hamster, but how do i make a point to my sister about something?You can't help people unless they want your help. If she's not asking for advice then don't offer it. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 11:57 PM |
| 8 | FR: The Baby Steps of LiftingI'll repeat: You get out of lifting exactly what you put in. If you take the time to learn the lifts properly it's unlikely you'll suffer from any kind of permanent injury. Look at it this way -- staying in shape past age 30 is like a giant IQ test. Be smart enough not to fuck your shit up and you'll be fine. An injury as a result of terrible form has nothing to do with bad luck. Luck doesn't become relevant at all unless you are lifting at an elite level which is beyond the scope of this discus… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/18 07:52 PM |
| 15 | FR: The Baby Steps of LiftingIt gets better once you see progress. Lifting is one of the few areas in life that you get out of it exactly what you put in. There's no luck involved and there is nothing left to chance. Total control. The fact that you can lift 315 pounds off the ground speaks for itself in regards to the effort you put in and the sacrifices you doubtlessly had to make. mind numbing monotony When you lift hard and heavy, it stops being boring, and you start getting a little afraid before every set. Also, I abs… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/18 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Just Fucking LiftThere are no good excuses. There are excuses and there are results. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Most common failures on dates?Failure to escalate. But it sounds like you're not even getting the in-person meet up. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 09:32 PM |
| 6 | How can I stop admiring steroid users at the gym?If there weren't guys in your gym who make you feel inferior then I'd tell you to find a new gym. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Are 3 minutes good for me?The more you put in, the more you get out of it. There is no gold star or A+ waiting for you. This is about making your life better; how badly do you want it? | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Just made a tinder!i get a few matches a day doing that Do you really? Last I checked, Tinder's algorithm penalizes that sort of behavior and pushes you to the bottom of the stack. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Autists vs BorderlinesWomen are killing men in school There is no more affirmative action for women, now there is affirmative action for men. Have you ever even set foot into a STEM program? There are literally on campus events and scholarships that are for women only. This isn't even to do with all the recruiting emails that have "we encourage women and minorities to apply" on the bottom. And it would do you some good to actually read the studies you cite. https://www.forbes.com/sites/ccap/2012/02/16/the-male-female… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/18 06:25 PM |
| 2 | "I don't go to a date with guys who have girlfriends""Okay." There are enough hot women out there that you don't have to put up with any particular one's bullshit. Paradoxically, having this mindset and acting on it will get bitches like these to slam on the brakes as soon as they realize you're actually going to walk away. Women can't stand the idea that they might be missing out on something. Also, get better friends. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Feel like I'm never good enoughGreatness is driven by the fear of mediocrity. The moment you think you are good enough, you will never be any better. There is no light at the end of the tunnel. There is no magical nirvana that you will break through into, where nothing will ever be hard again. There are only standards, and effort, and improvement, or complacency, weakness, and self-delusion. Source | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 05:47 PM |
| 3 | What is the "ideal* woman according to TRP standards?You're missing the point. There's no woman that's special or unique to the extent that you can't find a thousand just like her. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Autists vs BorderlinesCitation? I can't think of many fields where women beat out men without receiving special treatment, the exceptions being early childhood education and nursing. And men are slowly catching up in the latter. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/18 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Go to Every Event You're Invited toLiterally do what the above guy said: introduce two people that haven't met before, then you become the degree of connection. This works even if you just met both of them separately minutes earlier. On an unrelated note, while I haven't experienced it, my dad tells me that as you get older people start talking to you. The key is to just stand in one place -- if you pay attention you'll see people walking around and around in circles looking for people to talk to. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/18 08:11 PM |
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