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Looks like her services aren't essential.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/20 11:53 PM
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Roto rooter?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/18 03:15 PM
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There are stigmas for a reason. Often they exist for good reason, because there are risks to your wellbeing without them. A stigma is generalized advice for thise who don't think for themselves to benefit the larger society. In my city there was a pop up restaurant where all the cooks were HIV positive. They had pictures of one gross woman wearing an apron that said kiss the HIV positive chef. The ides was to break the stigma of Aids. Seriously. Even with safety checks in place, it's not a risk …
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 02:30 PM
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I'd imagine for a lot of people, as it was for myself, once you stop complaining you focus on doing which leads nicely into being productive. Quite literally the act of not complaining builds self-reliance.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/17 10:45 PM
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Solid post. You talk about women hating men on a macro level and men failing to see and pass these tests, which I agree with. The irony is that men miss the point and try to pass a test of masculinity by being nicer and more domestic, which causes women to distrust their masculinity even more. It's like a sale person being way too nice or a friend who says "everything will be fine." You know the former is selling something and you know the latter is just being kind. What yoi want to see is the s…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 02:11 PM
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I laughed so hard at this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/10/17 01:33 PM
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This is literally how it is. Once you deal with personal insecurity, envy and expectation go with it. You end up working your end of things and seeing what you bring to the table. Once you hit that point you automatically get rid of people who don't add value to your life. Seriously, its not complicated. Does someone make your life better or worse? That's it. No charts or diagrams, no theories or studies or social movements necessary. Do what you have to do to get what you want and fuck off if y…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 01:11 PM
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This is spot on. There's more top it as well. The women who has a man taking care of her knows her situation is good and seeks to give back behind the scenes, as in making lunches. Her role is making sure his role goes smoothly. Classic plutonic family setup. More over, when someome appreciated and respects someone else, they seek to please that person. In this case by doing something for him. This applies to any relationship of course, friends, family, coworkers, mentors, etc. You try to be goo…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 12:50 PM
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That's funny. One woman asks for help for some thing she wants to do for someone else, amd all these other women get stuck on what THEY want. I guess we can see where the mental development ended for them. I get it though. Not everyone picks up on sharing in kindergarten.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 12:43 PM
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I'm not big on lying. I'd either say don't be exclusive and be upfront about it, or should you chest, own it and either let the girl deal or end the relationship if she can't.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 03:23 PM
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Ugh, I'm tired of people whining about they're loser friends. We all have outdated friendships. Either update them, enjoy them for what they are or move on.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 11:58 AM
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Well regardless, whoever it was should have just looked at him sympathetically, put a hand on his shoulder and told him he was beautiful inside and his hair doesn't matter because everything will be okay.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 01:35 AM
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Okay, so then just tell him to go away next time and you won't look like a little bitch. Problem solved.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 01:27 AM
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He's saying just have a conversation with him. Stop looking at it like a competition or a challenge and jusy view it as if he were an aquaintace of yours. If he ends up getting the girl, who cares. Get another date. Usually though, Id assume being able to show social abilities to handle that situation would make your date like you more.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 06:29 PM
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If anyone actually tries to date this bitch they deserve the bullshit they'll deal with. My god, that profile is nothing but arrogance, misery and demands. I'm actually in awe at the negativity.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/17 06:16 PM
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I'd agree as long as you don't make it an issue. Others can, but you shouldn't. If you're going against the grain, do it in a way that shows you accept others opinions and expect them to respect yours. On a similar note, at a party once, I mentioned being against feminism and a girl there tried to get at me for it. She went in and on about how it's for men and women both and how it's equality. I finally jusy said no it isn't, it's called FEMinism. Another girl got it and laughed. Both of them tr…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 01:33 AM
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You're correct. Its nor your responsibility to make choices for anyone but yourself. I'm more thinking of the fact that knowingly having ones way with a naive girl (especially if its her first ir second) is bound to damage her. After shes had a couple guys the game is abundantly clear and there's no way to turn off thay knowledge. It really isn't anyone's call except her own in what she does however, so it's just food for thought.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 02:08 PM
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Agreed. This who actually care or appreciate you aren't going to be upset that you're happy. I lot of topics I see here dip way into the cynical rely and while maybe that is useful to some,I think it creates a while whack of bad mental issues. I'm over 30 and my main plate (currently only girl I'm with) is 19. None of my friends have outwardly shunned me, save for the wife of one friend who is disliked by almost everyone. And even she didn't shun me, she just tried to make it seem like I have is…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 07:35 PM
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Once you see the game tou can't fully return. I don't think it's fair to say we cause thus, but we certainly aren't doing anything even remotely useful to remedy it. We take advantage of it. In the end, innocence is likely lost do to actions like those spoken of here. Of course, this is life. It would happen anyway, but in a world where children aren't taught to be adults (and in fact are taught to be handicapped), this is the outcome. People are selfish and the world is at a cut-throat point. S…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 03:25 PM
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This happened with the ex that landed me here. Shed contact me occasionally for an emotional pick me up and when I didn't budge she'd bail. Last time was last valentine's day. I got back to her a week later. After it was clear she wasn't going to get my attention she stopped talking. Shortly after she was in a relationship. It was funny.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 03:21 PM
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Let yourself fail and learn to be happy for others. You think you are lacking somewhere, and probably are, but until you know how and why you need to look at the issue its causing you and do what you think is right. In this case, I'd suggest deliberately letting someone else have the win you think you deserve. Play the sidekick and get the hero what he needs. It'll do you wonders. Life is weird that way. We often dnot understand the answers to our questions until we figure them out ourselves.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 03:00 PM
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Scary. I live in Toronto and it's liberal central. This kind of stuff seems pretty prominent. Some friends are waking up, but most are either on the opposite side or simply don't want to see reality. Once I get more settled into the trades I'd like to move elsewhere, but I'm not sure where I'd go. Western society is all like this now. It just makes me sad. I used to want a family so badly. Now I can't imagine marrying, let alone having kids. It hurts man, I like kids and I like helping people gr…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 06:37 PM
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I agree with upholding your standards and being willing to walk out, but you let go of yours throughout the whole date, were seething at the alcohol comment (and she had a point with what information you gave her. If you never had a problem, then you should be able to moderate even if you choose not to) and then you let yourself build up frustration within yourself until you blew up, which could have happened even without the comment she made. She doesn't sound like bright bulb to me, but she wa…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 06:23 PM
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Owning everything you do is the be all end all. Doing that allows you to make mistakes and learn from them, to succeed and be proud of it, to either give up or fight and accept that. Everyone makes their own choice, but owning that choice is what you need to do.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 05:59 PM
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Whatever the fault is, if it can be exposed it can be dealt with. But you're right, self-respect aND dedication to ones own life woukd have the BPD woman evicted as soon as the issues arose. I know I certainly won't ever put up with that trash behaviour again.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 03:33 PM
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Please think this post through and focus on the point you want to say. I'd like to hear more about what you actually did as it sound useful, but this post is all over the place and as someone else said, doesnt match the title. There's something here worth reading but it's not what's been said.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 03:31 PM
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I would have had the same reaction in the past and the same one as you now. It's funny how actuslly seeing the world changes everything. I realized recently what it is. Upon reflection, after years of hard work and struggle, I stopped worrying about how I felt about things and starting thinking about what I was going to do about things. It's literally feels vs reals.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 03:13 PM
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Yep, dirty trick of nature. We do nice things because we understand as men what sacrificing our person wealth and time is worth. Women see it as us being gullible. Before we realize the differences in thought, our male brains are screaming for us to stick with her and continue giving I'm a sunken cost fallacy.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 03:07 PM
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This is a fantastic, comprehensive response that should be followed and adhered too.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 03:04 PM
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Let it go. You've written this post solely to heart confirmation that the decision to end it is the right thing to to. It is. Even assuming she's a great person, you two clearly aren't compatible. at this point. You'll feel shitty for a while. You've invested time and money it her. She made you happy as well, but you're realizing there's a clear lack of respect and that you're worth more. Let me share this. I was at a buddies this weekend. This man is a brother to me. He fiance is pregnant and t…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 03:00 PM
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Sadly part of it is the fact that we choose to stay with the women, so it becomes our fault. We essentially stay with someone who hurts us. That days a lot about us, and is a huge realization. Tbe growth from it, if you accept it, is unlike anything else, but it takes a long time to fully recover.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 08:48 PM
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Fantastic explanation of the inner working of BPD and why you can't win. It's entirely on them to build their own confidence and overcome their issues, but sadly they often can't because they're so rooted in their trauma that it becomes an automatic defense mechanism they aren't able to overcome. That said, stay away from them. They will bring you down and it will end badly. Unfortunately without having experienced it, it's tough for someone with unresolved issues of their own to know what's hap…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 03:42 PM
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There are so many reasons to shut up. People can't read you. You can ask question to get people talking and learn who they are and how they can benefit you, or not. That will make them like you and think of you as a stronger person. Not talking means less indulgence in pointless dribble or neurosis that you feel you have to get out, which actually helps remove focus from negative topics in your life. By extension that's more focus on productive things. The benefits are endless, really.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 03:05 PM
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Putting a timeline on this isn't a great idea. Ideally people woukd get angry and start working, lowering the time of actual anger whike they overcome the past, but you have to get it out. I'd say it's better to manage the anger, use it efetively and be angry at the right things.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 12:43 PM
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Hahahahaha! This is the most accurate thing I've ever read on TRP. Unfortunately I think that just life. I don't know any way around this
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 03:09 PM
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You do need to actually relax, which is especially true if you are disciplined. Nobody is on all the time. If it's more like a genuine period where you are feeling down, the best thing is to have a solid routine you do autonaturally to keep a healthy lifestyle. From your posy it sounds like youre jusy burnt out though. You may want to pay attention to when you're spent so that you can appreciate the downtime for what it is.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 03:01 PM
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Everyone thought my ex and I were a Disney fantasy. In reality we were a dysfunctional, toxic mess. Eventually that showed. There are relationships that look like Disney fantasies, but what you don't see is the quiet effort that it takes to maintain that and the issues that come up and must be dealt with behind closed doors. It's called a fantasy for a reason. Nothing is perfect. AWALT isn't a set line. It's a reminder of the biological nature of things. It's a saying used to remind you to hold …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 03:23 PM
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Good post, man. It's relevant to me and in general the idea of focus on a smaller set of things for better quality is important. It takes time to decide what those things are, so it makes sense that when starting you may be all over the place, but when you narrow it down you can zoom across with much greater proficiency.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 03:18 PM
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At the end its true you can only look at and learn from your actions, but there's a frustration in that you even have to learn this game. I hate having to be aware of all these interactions sometimes. If I'm tired, I just want to work without being aware of people's games. It's not a good excuse, it's just a fact. Luckily over time you can get good at interactions like this and learn to keep most people on your good side, levying sympathy when you're spent or getting people to igor you outright …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 03:23 PM
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Attractiveness is good for anything, but a corny sense of humor got me my first couple lays when I was over 225 lbs with a ponytail in my early 20's. Confidence trancends looks, and corny humour requires a specific knack or it comes off as lame. The key is delivery and awareness of the cheese factor. You also have to balance out other aspects. That's the thing you miss when you focus on any one thing. Here's a scenario to explain. During a conversation about cheesy jokes, you ask someome what a …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 12:58 AM
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Well with the way kids act today I'm glad spanking them has become an autonomous habit with you.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 08:57 PM
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Dude, sometimes it is what it is....
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 08:54 PM
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I'm rarely speechless but this is just... like, ,what? Well fuck, maybe after tons of abuse this system will lead to the segregation of men and women.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 03:22 PM
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I can feel pride just reading this and it's great. It's also nice to see a post with literal examples of how people act. Your humour is similar to mine and it works. Not just for women, but for life.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 03:17 PM
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I love Louis C.K. but either he's completely clueless or he's playing the fiddle for the beta crowd really well. I'm guessing the former. He has a bit where he talks about how his wife came in and sucked him and fucked him out of nowhere and then she was pregnant again. You can see visible frustration when he delivers it. It's actually pretty sad.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 01:10 AM
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That sounds like an incredibly fun night!
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 01:05 AM
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This. I'm so sick of hearing bullshit about people deserving to be panders too because of an issue most of them domt actually have.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 12:58 AM
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Cancer is a disease. Bipolar is a genetic disposition exacerbated by a lifetime of lack of disciplin and positive role modals that exists within a self-ansored mindset. Mental illness as it's claimed to be is 90% bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 12:28 AM
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Her personality is typical self-centred, woe is me attitude combined with a lack of understanding, or even observation of the world, apiced with a healthy dose of outward blame. What a waste.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/17 03:12 PM
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Maybe if he went in with a different attitude. I got the impression that his issue was more internal than anything. It's a moot point anyway. That girl sounds like a waste of time.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/17 11:30 AM
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The dude is rich, ripped and known around the world. Like him or not, he's a chick magnet.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 08:54 PM
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Yea fuck that. Even if it's a shit test, that's the attitude she has and the type of shit you'll be dealing with as long as you associate with her. Not even worth trying to fuck after that. It's outright disrespectful.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 03:43 PM
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You were too passive. You wanted to fuck her but convinced yourself you didn't and were likely wishy washy as a result, leading to her commenting on you being weird. The way you give your opinions on what happened here suggests to me that you have too much of an inward focus on yourself, but in a reactionary way. This post reads like you were trying to lead but every curveball she threw made you readjust, which means you were reacting. It's lile you want to be seen as the leader but weren't conf…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 03:41 PM
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It's a good pointentions often missed by the people here. So is the fact that when you ask for advice from strangers on the internet it's easy to not think about the fact that they may not actually know anything applicable to you. It's easy to wag your dick at others anonymously when you aren't in their shoes.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 03:21 PM
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This is a good point to illuse rate the kind of internal change you develop with a correct mindset and how it helps you improve
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 03:01 PM
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As someome who can say my experience mirrors yours, I'd agree that your solution is correct. The skills you learned are valuable and will be used forever. Lifting, socializing all that stuff is great. You just have to follow your gut on when and where to utilize it. They're not fake skills, you likely just weren't using them the way you wanted to.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 09:04 PM
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No. It doesn't work that way. I mentioned reading some of the stuff to a couple people initially but they never took it up, so I let it slide. It's not worth it. I do ive life realistically so when I say something that trp preaches I usually get a solid round of agreement from others.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 08:49 PM
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The biggest issue with this that I see is that in the end, she Shits on them for not seeing the good I equality. Then she lists the good as more opportunity for women in jobs and the like, which is quite concrete as women are funneled into the work force, but gives some vague, abstract qualities for men. What the fuck is "Being a father in the fullest sense?" Hahaha, fuck outta here.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 03:40 PM
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Yea, thus shit happens. I've never been seen on a date that I know of, but I'm always upfront about it not being exlusive. More than that, girls just end up telling you things in that situation. I had one plate who didn't contact me for a mo th or so, which was longer than usual. Eventually she did and admitted she was trying not to contact me because I don't contact her. She was a stubborn one.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 08:56 PM
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Sometimes. Generally I find either they get me to talk because they find it entertaining, or they constantly try to reroute the conversation to themselves. Very rarely are they interested in me unless they're flirting with me or I have something they want.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 12:44 PM
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I agree with your statement that encouraging the downfall of society is as much a play as feminism, but I think the majority of people, being oblivious to the fact that society is a false narrative in general, are still going to rage and leave, leading to riots and a destruction of society. I always find the best thing to do is live by your own morals and attract those like yourself, who will help you build a version of your vision which can be enjoyed by all who contribute.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 05:36 PM
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You're either boring yourself or come off that way (you mention you're an introvert) and/or you're dating attention whores. People who talk about themselves endlessly are self-absorbed. Often it's a cover for deep-rooted insecurity or unhappiness. Watch out for the people who, when you say something, immediately make it about themselves. Conversation is shared. There's a world of difference between someome sharing an applicable thought or experience and someone talking about themselves.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 12:10 PM
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This isn't a bad thing. I feel this way as well much of the time. This is, in my opinion, how it should be. The only issue is that it sounds as though you haven't defined your personal parameters for things you want. If no woman really gets you to connect, then define what kind of woman you'd want to keep around. Just basic things like if she shares your favourite hobbies and if she's put together and presentable. You should never fall head over heels for someone, rather you should grow "love" t…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 03:18 PM
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No. I'm done commenting here. Read the thread, there's tons of advice for you sitting right here.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 11:15 PM
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You stop making excuses and just pick something, since tons of people here have given you advice. Of course, that one guy said he offered you a lot of help and tou didn't take it. I'm starting to see his point.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 06:21 PM
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It's not up to me. You have to decide for yourself. This entire issue your having stems from you not taking control of your life. Whatever you do, you need to own it. We can all give you our opinions and advice but in the end, it's you who has to choose which actions to take. That alone is the big part.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 11:11 PM
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To clarify, nothing is literally the enemy. I'm speaking metaphorically there. If used correctly, with a goal in mind and an intent to get off them they are fine, though I still think they do more harm then good. You are taking a drug constantly to achieve a dopamine hit that could be developed naturally via things like exercise, good diet and pushing yourself a bit. Everyome I know who uses them amd has never gotten off is a mess, because they never dealt with their root issues. I'd never recom…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 09:02 PM
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Feeling crazy is what leads a lot of men (and women) to manufactured depression. We understand innately that the ideals were had shoved down our throats aren't reality, but without the skills, the knowledge or the experience to understand this, we listened to those we view as our mentors. Our parents, or friends, our teachers, and they are far more often just as clueless as us. We just don't know it. So we follow these so called "righteous virtues" and continue to fail again and again, while tho…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 03:29 PM
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This is one of the more powerful statements I've ever seen on here and is accurate to a tee.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 03:13 PM
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You know your depressed and your judging your life via thay mindset instead of realizing that your old mindset was the better lens. Of you're depressed you've stopped trying to help yourself, no doubt. Doctors, pills, isolation, self-loathing. Read those words again: DOCTORS, PILLS, ISOLATION, SELF-LOATHING. Those are your enemies in the battle of personal accountability and autonomy. Depression is merely thinking your incapable. You lost your "Awesome" status because your circumstances changed …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 03:08 PM
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I've seen numerous good friends going through this. I've seen a lot of female friends hitting the wall. I could have been in their situation, but I'm tired of it. My focus is on me and I've stopped trying to offer advice. When people dig their Graves, they never plan to sleep in them. They always figure it's for someome else.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 09:00 PM
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I hate that. It really is an issue with a lot of people though. I had a buddy try and debate that with me and I was getting tired of it so I looked at my other friend who was doing something else and said "Dude, he's saying weed isn't a drug, it's a plant." My friend laughed and said, "Oh, I got this. Is cocain a drug?" My buddy responds "Yea but-" and my friend cuts him off and goes "DEBATE OVER!" We had a good laugh. The point stands though, I see so many of my friends out partying or doing dr…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 01:15 AM
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If you notice that cycle it really is time to gtfo of it. If you want to drink, blaze, trip, jerk off, etc it really is fine if it doesn't impede in your life. But you know when something is impeding because you aren't happy in thay area. You could be smoking weed err'day and kicking ass at work, but your social life is suffering. You could be exercising like a boss but jerking off too much to get a date. You could be hitting the books and learning every day but playing so many video games after…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 01:08 AM
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It's like anything that aims to open you up to new concepts. Some people miss the bigger picture and get caught up in it like a cult. I remember taking a self-improvement course called Landmark which is subject to a good amount of criticism. I enjoyed the course but also knew where a lot of the concepts they used to teach come from, amd recognized that they rolled all the concepts into a nice package and sold it to people. It worked well, but most people lacked the drive to apply those teaching …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 12:30 PM
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This is a post I'm excited about. I can't wait to see the rest of them.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 02:29 PM
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Yep. Sexual strategy aside, the things talked about ere apply to both genders in many ways. The sooner you stop looking at it as a literal equation and start looking at the themes, you'll see the grey area. AWALT is a guideline to remind you to stay on track and be prepared. Alpha, beta are terms to define your actions. They aren't literal terms applied always to the same things. Nothing is that perfect. People fit different areas to different extents at different points. The world isn't so blac…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 02:15 PM
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That's a key point. The differentiation would be whether you are trying to get into her pants or gain something from it that you actually aren't getting. Being able to socialize is a different thing. With my female friends, it's established thay we aren't fucking. Even the ones that saw me as a friend and then have started switching since I've worked on myself are out of bounds. I chill with them for my own reasons and they pay their way, as I would expect from anyone. Thats jusy human interacti…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 02:09 PM
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I once saw a picture of a note stuck to the bottom of a toilet seat that said "Sorry dude, I didn't know she had a boyfriend. I'd consider doing that. Generally though, knowing people don't listen and do what they want, amd knowing that someone who's with a cheater likely misses all the obviius signs or is cucked, I wouldn't really bother with trying to tell. I doubt I'd see her again knowing it could get messy. I'm not really one for cheating anyway,so I never have. That I know of.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 03:14 PM
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I'd mostly agree, but not because they are therapists. You fuck with the mental illness industry and you're playing in a field owned by victim mentality. Most if them are just there to let you vent and then give you some generic advice. After my ex and I split and I realized a lot if my bullshit I told the therapist my gameplan: Get back to work to pay off debts, whike knocking out drug use indefinitely but still rewarding myself every couple weeks to consciously awknowledge my attempt to improv…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 03:03 PM
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It's amusing g to me to hear this from women. Even my mom talks about men this way. My dad, my sister's boyfriend, her friends husands... It never ceases to amaze how self-centred relationship dynamics are to women and how they don't seem to understand how much a man sacrifices in an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 06:15 PM
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You call it predatory, I'd consider it opportunistic. Some of those books may be quality. Some may be garbage. It's up to the buyer to be aware of their actions. If you make a poor choice, either you didn't know better (and can learn from the mistake) or you're an idiot who doesn't learn. I'd agree that the majority of people are suckers, and even the best of us are capable of being suckered under the right circumstances. That said, to say TRP propagates a state of victimhood seems more like you…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 04:00 PM
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This may apply to the quota of people who are here without actually doing anything to improve their lives, but for those that are I doubt this rings true. For myself, a lot of what is said here has been in alignment with my life only when I'm being honest with myself and my surroundings. I see how OP's argument could ring true for some, bit those people would be the ones missing the point. They'd be following the herd, not utilizing the methods that works for them.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 11:16 PM
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It's a great piece and applied well beyond the corporate world.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 03:19 PM
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Good to know. Note to self, don't move to Vancouver.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 03:19 PM
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This is the whole truth, hahaha!
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 12:32 AM
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You should read "The Gervais Principal" if you haven't. It sounds like it's along the lines you're thinking. Google that phrase and it's the first link that will pop up.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 12:30 AM
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Hahahaha! I usually get irked when I read SJW dribble, but this actually made me laugh. OP is right that at some point thus article will be printed in reverse. This is all the equivalent of a bossy child's temper tantrum. Its like I'm seeing a fat kid scream " I want cake! " and when she gets the cake she screams "I don't want it anymore I want chips!" and the parents just keep running around in circles trying to please their little chunker. With any luck maybe this realization will rip me towar…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 03:16 PM
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Toronto sucks in so many ways. I live here too. The social culture is absolutely terrible. Most people are either total assholes or hippies with no direction. At least it's colourful. Anyway I'm not surprised about the waitress. Given the social climate most men have their dick so far between their legs that they'd put up with the worst for hope of anything.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 06:19 PM
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I've noticed this too. It's true of pretty much all media. The easy target is princess syndrom from Disney movies, but action movies, video games, music, they all are 80%+ selling examples of the blue pill mindset. A lot of music I listened to as a kid was very female focused, although usually about the guy not getting the girl or the girl fucking up. I suppose I lucked out. One more recent band I love in particular is clearly a feminist band, and as much as I love the music, the content of lyri…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 06:08 PM
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This is just a great comment all around.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 05:53 PM
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This is a great observation. It also validates a few tenets of SMV, such as one side having to give up powe for the relationship to work, or why people date above/ below their SMV. I admit I can't seem to fall in love anymore. I care about people, but the idea of love that I was sold has been replaced with self respect. As a result, I now don't need it and would rather spend my time doing the things I want. This of course has made me more attractive to women, and now I get to judge who I allow i…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 12:18 PM
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I do need to do that. I continually forget to say the notes I playing when I practice scales. I need to build a habit of that because it would help immensely.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 12:41 PM
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Heres what you do. Get robot eyes.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 12:38 PM
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Saw this a whike back. They all reek of serious life issues and anyone do posts a picture has been gross. Funny stuff though.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 12:47 AM
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She was a lot of things. Most of them were problematic.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 12:40 AM
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I agree with you on this. The only thing I'd argue is the potential for things to be more hassle than they're worth is huge with a slut. In my case, I don't have any I'll will towards her, she's just not what I'd go for anymore. That's dye to my own improvements and realizations. We did have fun and I know she cared, my being a beta was just as much at fault as her shitty choices and reactions, but at the end if the day, it's irrelevant. There's no going back to who I was, and by extension, no i…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 03:20 PM
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Pretty good. They've been the biggest help to my playing since I started toying with a loop pedal. I only got good with the major pentatonic my focus shifted to school and work. I've been slacking off lately. My game plan is to pick the 3 most common scales and get solid with them for a month or two. Do you play? I could always use more pointers.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 03:16 PM
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I didn't exactly. I got lucky. Just as I was about to put my foot down she moved to Cali for rehab and ended the relationship saying she had to work on herself. I lucked out. I probably would have kept caving in, at least for a good while longer, had she not done that. I found out later she was trying to get me chasing her, but this time I was too fed up. I found TRP and inhaled the info as it fit perfectly. There's no going back. I've seen the bigger picture and I've seen who she is. I can't un…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 11:46 PM
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I don't get how people never figure this out. You really think any bad ass celeb is that perfect? Yea, I the tiny bit of their life you see as long as they're popular. Watch the tables turn if public opinion turns against them, or they get old and fade away. It's all for show.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 10:53 PM
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I dated a slut for a year. I had a beta mindset and put everyone before myself. In fact, I'd never given serious thought to what I wanted at the time. It was all childish daydreams. She became my one because she kind of sort of fit my childish idea of an ideal girl. She had also fucked over 30 guys in the span of maybe 4 years, had stories of gangbangs, getting so trashed at clubs she puked in public, she took a shit in a field early on in our relationship, she had a drug problem which took all …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 01:25 PM
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Despite the entire RP philosophy stemming from society and gender dynamics, you're right in that the root is about self improvement. The tie that binds every quality post here is that they're all about how to improve yourself. Maybe it's with women, of socialization, or work, or physical fitness, but it's always about you getting better than you curently are. That's why I'm here as well. That's why we all are, even if we're only focused on getting better with women, or one thing. But once you ge…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 01:25 PM
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Yknow, it wouldn't be an issue if it wasn't attached to anger and hatred and if actual skillsets and outlooks rooted in reality were taught. Then it would genuinely be helping people. Sadly that's the opposite if what happens and so it ends in more anger and hatred.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 03:22 PM
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Here's an easier way. Make eye contact and don't break it. When she looks down, keep looking. When she looks again, smile and say hi.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 06:11 PM
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It's very noticeable. Video games are catching up as well. For me it's not a bad thing. My parents were movies and games, so this just alienats me from them to an extent and allows me to focus on reality more without thinking about whether there are still cool games or whatever.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 06:00 PM
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Because men know it takes work to develop real strength. Like is identifiable to men that way. Han is assumed to have done lots of work to become who is is. Women don't like work. Most of them are vapid morons. They don't want to see the girl develop, they want to see her kick ass. How or why is irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 05:58 PM
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Social justice is inherently flawed. We all have different boundaries and things we find acceptable based on our lives and experiences. Things like feminism can't work for a million reasons, but trying to focus on the biggest victim makes them search indefinitely for the next bigger victim, then once the original victim isn't victimized enough, they shove it out to be stomped on my real life. It's basically how cockroaches work, only with more mental gymnastics.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 05:55 PM
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I think that first bit is key. It is made up to suit whatever moment it's needed in. A movement of any type without descriptive limits and boundaries is junk. Feminism has always been like that. Most movements are, or are quickly corrupted before they solidify. Individual aspect of it may work, but as a whole it becomes part of a hivemind.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 05:49 PM
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Oh good, I love your stuff. There's a modern awareness and simplicity in your writing that I find makes TRP paletable in a practical way to the current generation. Your blog is one of my favourited here. Glad to see another post.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 01:22 PM
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Most news is just distraction. A lot of it is hate and anger and whining. That's why I don't follow it. If it won't affect my life or present me with actual information, it's not really relavent to me. There are plenty of other ways to waste my time that don't make me angry. What I've noticed is that people who enjoy trash news like what you mentioned tend to have issues in they're lives that affect them more than they should, and these people are oblivious to them because they continue to read …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 04:01 PM
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Like most things it's where you focus your attention that dictates what you think and feel. I don't follow social media or news outside of things I need to know, but when I was going through a rough patch years ago and when I found TRP, this stuff really got to me. I still notice it but the difference is in knowing what to watch out for and avoiding people, groups and surroundings that will affect you poorly. This stuff is all a waste of time, and the people I know, even the ones who follow this…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 02:02 AM
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Yea, that's where I look at the individual. Celebrating a day is fine, but I'm not cool when you use that pride to bash others. There's too much of that these days.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 04:18 PM
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I think this way of anyone who is proud of something they don't contribute anything to or who take credit for the achievements of others. I wouldn't say it's so black and white as everything has a sliding scale of degree, but in the case of nationality there's nothing wrong with being prout of your background. I'd differentiate between someome who just spouts off that their proud to be whatever they are vs someone who actuslly follows the national traditions or carries their national morals. I b…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 04:17 PM
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Had a laugh at this when I red it but let's be real: People who celebrate the achievements of others in the same demographic as themselves as if those accomplishments were their own have nothing to be proud of, so why would they want to share anything? The worst people hoard what little they have because it's all they have.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 02:00 AM
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You're right, but women have taken on masculine traits due to society, so either she knows it's a fwb thing and she doesn't care abut him, or its a backwards attempt at dread gane that's ruining her chances because she's unaware of the laws of nature.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 05:49 PM
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The girl that screws with her man like that is worthless, but the guy even more so. I mean what? He was following her lead so I woukd assume either he thought it was innocent and was doing it in an attempt to be friendly or humorous, which is naive and frankly creepy, or he was being passive aggressive. Either way he's already lost.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 05:48 PM
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On a superficial level where they are literally seeing how you react, most of them. On a subconscious level to understand why they need to try and make you jealous, far less. But it's a moot point, just handle it.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 03:05 PM
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This is a good post. It's entirely true. Exes tend to contact old flames for a number of reasons. What they are is irrelevant, what important is how you handle it according to what you want. Like you said, if you want to be nice, or tease them, or ignore them, just follow through. Sometimes maybe you're lonely yourself or generally curious as to how their doing. That's fine. Maybe you set up a fuck session. It's all fine as long as you know what's up and don't delude yourself. As with a lot of T…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 01:25 PM
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Being alone is great, that's what kills me. You get to do whatever you want, whenever you want. The only thing that scares people is that they don't want to decide what they want.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 05:41 PM
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Minus the part where she admitted she cheated, this is exactly what happened to my friend recently. He threw away a friendship that's lasted over a decade because of it. His girl told him to mess around (she was literally there egging him on) and then she flipped when he went for it. They're getting married in a few months...
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 05:40 PM
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More or less the same story as a lot of my friends that are engaged. There's a lot of beta mentalities regarding family and loyalty on their ends which make them controllable by their women and their women love attention, drama, games and most likely mess around to some extent. I have no proof, but even if they hadn't cheated, my friends are still under their thumb. Also, if a girl says go bang someone else, then yea, either she's cheated, fooled around or isn't thinking of being loyal in some w…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 05:37 PM
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To get going in the other direction in life we often step too far into that direction whike we feel it out. It can be a good thing to cut certain people. I've found thay most of my friends have Faded with time as I go my own direction. Some I did keep, and of them most were what you might call dead ends. Ive found its good not to completely cut contact but to let things drift apart naturally. I still see certain friends, but it's few and far between and it's when I decided I need a fun time to b…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 05:09 PM
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Nobodies hoarding anything. When somebody wants a donut, they go to a bakery. When somebody is ready to see reality, they open their eyes. Say what you will about TRP, but the thing I love most about this stuff is thay it isn't forced on anybody. Shoving ideas and opinions down people's throats breeds resentment. Its that fact that idiotic give mind groups like BLM and Feminism and the like use and why they breed such resentment. RP isnt hidden. It's in plain sight, everytime you look around. To…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 02:10 AM
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This. This is the lesson to be learned here. It's plain as day but holy fuck learn it. You do not let people with bad ties into your life. You do not fix other people's problems. They are not your responsibility. You don't have to be a dick to these people, but their issues are NOT your problems and there is nothing wrong wit not wanting to deal with them.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 04:24 PM
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The point is good but more info on how to tell if people are being genuine would have been useful.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 12:13 AM
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This is a great job to learn to be social. I did it for a while. Got a few dates out of it too. Actually I met my ex doing this. You learn a lot about people and interacting. I often tell people to just randomly talk to people on the street if they want to get out of their shell. It works.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 09:55 PM
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I know many people dealing with issues. The best don't deny the issues. The worst are addicts. The key is not to deny something, it's to be realistic and honest. If you husband had left you due to your honesty about what you were dealing with, would you really have thought it a complete loss? TRP is for men, but many if these rules apply to both genders. Does the dude who works out hard, eats well and has a high paying job but rubs it in your face and makes you feel stupid for not being as "good…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 04:25 PM
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Rules are a good guideline but realitically you can't follow rules and succeed all the time. Generalizations and stereotypes have their place and can be useful foundations to see the world. I agree with you however in that it's more important to simply be aware of what's happening in front if you. Life works better thay way, and frankly, hard, fast rules are like religion. They exist for the people who want to succeed moderately while avoiding the most obvious risks and biggest successes because…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 04:14 PM
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It goes beyond human nature. It's a societal issue. Western society functioned via the plutonium family. It wasn't natural, but it's what kept people's urges in check and allowed us to maintain stability and progress to where we are. The problem people have with what's happening today isn't that isn't not natural, it's that it isn't beneficial to society because it screws people over. Specifically men, but really the only people to benefit are the current "biggest victims." We keep going down th…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 06:58 PM
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You likely wont get an answer to this unless it's low anyway. I know a lot of girls who seem to lose track at 30. It might be wise to point out that her actions in social settings and her ability to do feminine things related to family upbringing are good indicators of her n-count because of how they affect ones life. To elaborate literally, messy homes, purses, etc are red flags because they show a lack of ability to maintain ones life. Smoking, drugs and getting dolled up are red flags because…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 06:48 PM
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Because a lot of guys are inexperienced and aren't thinking of vetting. When they find the one they immediately want to marry, it doesn't occure to them to vet her because they see her as perfect. Then she picks up on this and realizes she has to hide her past because he's naive and she wants to keep her. This is how these things start. It should be pretty simple to get the information and then decide for yourself what you want, but most people have too much invested into one person to look at r…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 06:43 PM
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This is literally what people talk about when they say social media makes people miserable. That's another issue entirely but the point remains, don't worry about others, be the best version of yourself you can be.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 05:17 PM
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That's pretty much how the whole thing went. I was never able to fully give up control knowing things were wrong, and so she would pull some shit. I'd try to give her what she wanted but eventually she'd take it too far and I'd get pissed. Then she'd rebound and act like she was sorry, rinse and repeat. It was the typical toxic relationship pattern. Eventually she ended up in rehab and now blames drugs for her actions, much like the born again girls you read about here. Same deal. She still cont…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 03:07 PM
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Maybe not a bad idea. That relationship was the best and worst experience I could have ever had for learning about women, but I certainly learned what I needed to.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 11:56 PM
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My ex tried to pull this shit. I never ended up letting it happen because I was u comfortable with it innately. I told her I'd consider it if she was game for some FFM stuff first so I could warm into it and potentially help avoid jealousy. Needless to say everytime we came close to it, she backed off amd it never happened. It was a running theme I picked up on though.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 10:02 PM
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Video games were my escape as a kid as well, and became a go to as I got older. I notice I tend to become lethargic when I play them a lot in the same way as when I smoke too much weed. This applies to anything admittedly, because moderation is key. When one area of your life takes over others suffer, that's just a fact. We can't do everything. To do things well, you often have to do less things overall.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 07:17 PM
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She's not self-aware really. This is the same shit men have been spoofed for ages. Shes just repeating the lines. Maybe her beta was getting jealous and needed reassurance that he wasn't being used or something do she figured a Facebook post was a safe, simple way to reassure him while not actually putting any real effort in. He'll, it probably made her feel better about her shitty choices. It's funny that when you're a young man with no experience with women, the idea that women will "mature" a…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 03:15 PM
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Controlling eating and eating properly is a gane changer. It's something so underappreciated in life but once you get there it can change your whole outlook and functioning. I'd put it up there with any top tier advice. I was almost 300 as a teenager/early 20's. I lost a lot of weight quickly but never ditched skinny fat because less calories isn't the same as good calories. I finally started eating veggies every day, making amd sticking with quality food and ditching junk and the changes in my …
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 05:34 PM
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I'd say your wrong. He needs to block her. The guy is going to give in and message her, and she isn't offering anything for him. Him not fully removing her is going to give his subconscious hope. Hope that he'll bone her one day. He needs to go 180° in the opposite direction. Ghost her, start focusing on his actions and and not his feelings. His whole post is nothing but feelings. There's no lesson, not even a fake attempt at one or a repetition like most posts. It's literally TL, DR: I am sadd …
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 06:22 PM
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Good point. It's the mirror version of 4eaxhing young boys to be in touch with their emotions. People are just avoided teaching the sexes what is effective time for them, only to have them figure it out way later than they should, if they ever do.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 09:38 PM
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One of the most efficient ways to do this is to wrap your opinions up in theatrical mannerisms and body language. It allows you to speak your mind and say things against the grain, but the inherent theatrics with, say, exaggerated arm motions and sarcastic/arrogant tone of voice keeps them entertained. They often don't recall or care what my opinion was (save for that it steers them I'm that direction if I stand by it) but they remember they had fun hearing it. Again, the opinion is irrelevant t…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 04:38 PM
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A lot of girls I know love to act fun amd happy amd like everything is cool. That may be the case when they're young and hot and attention is flowing, but it's a forced routine as they get older, amd it leaves them dead inside.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 07:18 PM
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When you see a people trying to promote shit that's so obviously and legitimately unhealthy you really start to lose the ability to lie to yourself about the world. For some, it could be a good thing. For most, probably jusy another filter to live under and continue being deluded. On a related note, there was some fake news about some hamplanet who had fallen over in her wheelchair reaching for food at Walmart. She was mocked and ridiculed and of course this article talked about how this brave p…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 03:17 PM
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Not an issue. I have nothing but disdain for her and this isn't the first time she's tried this. We broke up almost 3 years ago and she's contacted me periodically since. The first couple times I spoke to her and just listened for RP info for practice. This time I just deleted the message.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 02:30 PM
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Bingo. Depression is lack of action. It also makes it clear why therapy is often bullshit. Too much talking, not enough doing.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 01:57 AM
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This is exactly how it works. We all know people like this too.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 01:56 AM
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The point is to continually be moving forward. The longer you stop to plan the less you're moving forward. Planning is important, but not at the expense of implementing the plan
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 01:54 AM
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It's a good feeling to know you've come so far. Maybe it's petty to feel good about this sort of thing, but it does. My ex contacted me today as well.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 12:16 AM
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You're not wrong because things can spiral, but you're not 100% on the money either. At any point, be it work, the gym or when you got home, you could have changed your tune. You didn't. Perhaps that first negativity set you on a path to not noticing a bad habit filled day, but it doesn't change the fact that you could have changed direction at any point. Personally this is why I give myself chest days, where I deliberately allow myself to slack off. Knowing I'm allowing myself to relax my stand…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 09:56 PM
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This is dead on. So are your observations. I have a friend who comes from an Indian background. She has a sister, her parents immigrated when she was young, she's basically the identical version of this story. The details if her life would make a prostitute blush. I see her now at the foot of the wall and still not wanting to change. I don't have much pity left for things like this admittedly and her and I have been drifting apart for years as I focus and she looks for replacement friends to con…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 07:10 PM
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She's not an immigrant, she was born in Canada. If there's a difference it's that her mother is basically a helicopter parent and her family is tight. Shes also 19 so shes just coming into herself that way. Shes also had numerous depression related issues, so while I sense confidence in her, she's also quite insecure and beyond that her father cheated on her mother and her mother ended things. It's far more than simply her culture, though that's part of it. Don't fall prey to TRP tendency to sim…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 01:58 PM
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It's neat to me. I have a plate who's Jamaican/ guyanese and she plays her role very well. She wants a relationship ship, I've told her I'm not about it, but I give her a more passionate time when I see her than I do others. I can see through her guise, amd she's admitted it's a "role" but I'm still more impressed with her attitude and her patience and determination than any other plate I've had thus far. White girls on the other hand have proven incredibly bad.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 07:19 PM
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Great perspective. I like how you point out although interpretation of something is essentially up to the individual, cause and effect is far less so. A slutty past doesn't necessarily mean she can't be loyal, faithful or caring to the right man, though it's highly unlikely that will happen and far better to be avoided, simply due to the inherent risk a past Iike that carries. On the other hand, a women who has been completely used by a single former partner still had the sense and loyalty to ch…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 08:45 PM
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I love how shaming and insulting people is supposed to male them cave. As soon as thay starts happening, smile. You've got the power.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 07:20 PM
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This is pretty much the only fact anyone needs to know about causes. Associate with those you have to or want to, but keep your own opinions. Outside of those groups, you'll attract like minded people. The caveat is that you have to stay true to your beliefs.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 02:03 AM
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Fats hamming us hilarious and effective. I was a fat kid. I was made fun of. Yea, I hated it, but I also didn't do anything about it. That shame was mine and it was my fault for being lazy. Now I'm fit. Fit enough that girls pick me up from time to time. You know what feels better than being fit? Knowing I made it happen. Fuck fatties. If you have a victim mentality you deserve to be picked on. Fat defenders are literally just telling you they're lazy. It's hilarious. Once you get over the menta…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 09:53 PM
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There's plenty of articles here about women adopting the mentalities and actions of the social circle best suited to them. The reality is the same always, they're adopting a frame that suits them best for what they want. An idependence woman isn't what you want to date. A women who follows a system isn't likely a safe bed. She should follow your system. Obviously there are human generalities like being a good person, not blaming others, not hurting, etc etc, but I'm the end you want someone who …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 09:47 PM
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Some things going to break at some point. I was reading a trash paper today and it was talking about women from the womens march wanting to strike. They were vague about the reasons of course, because there aren't any, but I think it was supposed to be about Trump again. They quote was that it was unclear whether women were just going to strike, or whether they were also not going to do dishes or take care of kids. All I could think about was "Well there goes any argument about equal pay right o…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 07:19 PM
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Hahaha, yea I saw that too.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 04:37 PM
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A good analogy I can give for why this is a bad idea is that I've gone back to a job or two I'd moved on from while I'm between other jobs. I quickly realize I left because I learned the skills I could, hit a ceiling in the company, didn't lIle the environment or simly didn't care for the work afyer trying it. It the same for an ex. Maybe for a brief moment there's a fondness, but it snostalgia of what was, not appreciation for what is. If you left, you had a reason. If she left, you're devaluin…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 01:57 AM
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He's right. Less than 10 words in and it's obvious why you were banned. You came in like a drill sargeant spouting tough love, recommended a subreddit thays widely hated, called 99% of the population shitty, and expected that anyone wanted your advice in the first place. No one wants your advice unless they ask directly. Reddit is full of shit that way.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 10:04 PM
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I agree. I've avoided speaking my mind on the subject for the most part because I find the responses frustrating when I do, but lately I'm realizing that I just don't give a fuck if people don't like me. I don't want to be around those people. It's literally just about vetting personalities like I would women. I also find not speaking my mind is just inhibiting to me. I'm going to start doing it consistently and see what happens. I can't imagine anything bad will happen really.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 04:36 PM
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Look at that. All these yards of feminism and empowerment and women have created a culture of princesses with nothing to offer and white knights with no dignity, yet over in India, where women use sand as tampons, a broke ass, uneducated man with a goal was abandoned by everyone around him, only to succeed by sheer will, and allow his wife, mother and everyone around him to prosper with the understanding that personal drive is what keeps progress going. Fuck man, Western society is screwed. At l…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 04:42 PM
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Basically she's as filled with guilt as she is with cum. She knows it, everyone knows it, and she's going to shove the guilt as deep inside her as she can get a cock because that's the only thing she seems to know how to do. She'll also project her shame out words and make others miserable, if she already isn't.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 05:20 PM
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Yep, don't waste your energy. I tried to explain this to a friend of mine who was debating with an old coworker. He tried to explain to her that her SJW streak is only going to cause people to dislike her (and he's right, people are cutter her off) but she stubbornly stood by it and argued him. He didnt realize she doesn't even care if she's right,, she just wants validation through the attention the debate itself gives her.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 10:03 PM
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It's more or less the same for men.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 04:32 PM
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Technically she is. It's also far easier to cry and demand when you aren't happy then to control your emotions and calmly request your needs. But that's why it's a learned habit, right? Anyway you're aware of it so you seem to be doing the right thing. Mind you I don't have kids so I'm probably not the best judge of raising them.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 04:58 PM
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So I heard you like Gorilla's.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 06:43 PM
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Good train of thought. There's a lot of talk about "fuck you money" here and insofar as being able to be financially stable it's accurate. Once you cross a final vial line you end up with a very different life, simply to keep up that stability. It seems to me the key is to find a number you're happy with and do what you want work wise to earn and maintain it. Starting a business for example has multiple paths. Do you start a small business, build it successfully and maintain it, or do you grow a…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 05:41 PM
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Then dont you think you should try and teach her an effective way to get what she wants, instead of crying, where better ways are availible? If you recognize it, you know when to teach. That's what worries me about my friends daughter. Knowing her parents she isn't going to get much guidance once she gets older.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 12:58 PM
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That seems the right way to go, though I'd add that punishment is necessary if it doesn't stop after an explanation. Children learn via their most effective tactics. A child who grows up crying or throwing temper tantrums and getting what they want is learning that tantrums work. That needs to be stomped out.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 12:51 PM
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Yourr right. It's human manipulation. Everyone learns via the most effective tactics for them. A good parent will stomp out bad habits asap. Of course, there cones a point where the child has to stop on their own. If the parents taught them effective ways to cope it should be normal. If they didn't.... well look around.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 12:46 PM
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Fair enough. I deliberately tried not to knock you with my response because I think when we start to swing the SMV pendulum from beta to alpha we tend to swing it hard and fast at first. It's partially due to not knowing what we want or can get and testing boundaries before we define what we actually want, and part fun until we realize it's not such a challenge with the right steps and mentality. Afyer we get past those things, many of us move on to challenges outside women, as we would anything…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 08:11 PM
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The link is full of cognitive dissonance from the women. I could quote the entire article but my faves are “Nobody ever explicitly said, ‘Oh you’re a survivor, we can’t date,’” she told me. “But they’d assume that I was just doing this for attention, or more frequently they didn’t want to deal with it. It was too much. They assumed I’d have a lot of needs.” Then there were those who were a little too eager to make it know that they would never, ever assault a woman. “Their first response is ‘I’m…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 06:00 PM
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Glad you're having fun, but your post is littered with poor decisions and rationalizations. Youre fucking a lot of women and girls but you're not watching or identifying where you get them. That could turn into a problem. Hiring a girl specifically because you want to fuck her isn't a smart idea. Fucking older women with kids isn't a bragging point. It does serve to show women are slutty and that you can get them, but I'd still say watch where tou pull them from. Drunk chicks in a bar may fuck y…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 05:47 PM
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Everything is a variation on degrees. You're right that this sub takes things too literally and too generally at times, but if you can see through that at pick the facts from the exaggerations the info is modern day gold, or olden day common sense.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 05:29 PM
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It's funny, my buddy has a two year old daughter and I see her cry over everything. She cries if she gets shocked or hurt obviously, but I see her do it when she wants attention, and him and his fiance both give it to her. "Oooh, whats wrong? What do you want? Do you want this toy?" etc. I asked him if she does that to get attention but my question was in one ear and out the other. He didn't even think about it. Even at that age the programming is there and she is learning to utilize it.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 05:15 PM
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Agreed. I see a lot of people assuming no reaction is the right reaction. That's only half true at best. No reaction is appropriate only insofar as letting someone realize they can't get to you. The follow up needs to be repurcussions of some sort indicating corrective action that must be followed.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 01:23 AM
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This. This is so important. You can't control others. My ex pulled shit like this all the time, to the point where I'd call her bluff. One time I grabbed a knife from her hand and put it over my wrist and told her to do it. She gave up. Another time she stormed our of the house and I went after her. She said she was going to kill herself and starting pathetically climbing over a bridge. I rolled my eyes and tugged her off. She literally was a drama queen and I'd gotton sick of it. If anyone trie…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 01:13 AM
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Yep, but once you see it it's a reality cheque. I still think it hurts them in the end, but they'll do it. Of course, so will beta men.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 04:56 PM
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Thanks, it's not a huge issue for me these days but that's because I spent years dealing with the issues. I just cat stand seeing idiots tell kids drugs are bad while they fuck their lives with doctor prescribed drugs. Drives me nuts.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 04:32 PM
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There's also a higher level of desensitization as a result. Whereas in the past someome uttering the lords name I'm vain would have been an issue, now we're boarding on murder being acceptable and inspirational. It's nuts.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 04:57 PM
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This whole thing is disgusting. What happened to her, what she did, that she's an "inspiration" to people. It's like a crackhead fairy tale. Her life was fucked, she fucked someone else's and now she's inspiring a generation of fucked up women. Anyway good job on not continuing a cycle with your LTR, who has some odd reasoning on something like this. Maybe it would have been an issue, maybe not, but it would have been hard for me to overlook as well.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 04:43 PM
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This is literally a huge part of the reason my childhood, and likely many others, was fucked. My mother listened to every doctor telling her my ADHD, ocd, whatever the fuck needed medication. She had me on ridalin at 7. I switched every few months until I was legal age to stop. If fucked me up hard. Imagine a child on street drugs. Same damn thing. She realizes she made a mistake because once I stopped taking them as an adult I changed my life and got a doctor on my side to shut her down. That's…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 10:03 PM
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This applies to everything, not just women. My old joke version of this advice was "How can you trust a fat doctor to tell you how to lose weight?" You just don't listen to people who don't have experience in the area they're talking about. Moreover, if you can't discern where these areas are and who knows what, you should focus on learn more about people and figuring out how to read them.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 05:48 PM
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Internet culture is a joke. You can't expect accountability online, where it's so easy to act a certain way and have everyone interpret your actions, based on words without emotion and nuance behind them. And of course, words are so much of what bother people. If you can't handle words, you shouldn't be online. It should be taught the same way you'd teach grammar to a child. If it's actual hacking, doxing or slander that can ruin someone's reputation, that's a problem, but mean words and angry d…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 05:56 PM
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Can you share some of the indicators of cheating you catch on to? You've said their behaviour changes and I agree, and I like concrete examples of these things because I can only imagine/experience so many on my own.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 05:52 PM
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What I took from this: 1- Shes not into you 2- You're very into her and denying it 3- You don't see the game being played 4- You drink too heavily 5- You can't be logical when you're drunk 6- You need to cut this girl off and find the root issues causing you to think about her at all 7- Read the sidebar stuff, specifically stuff about how women operate Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 05:45 PM
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You're addressing it outright isn't likely to work. This ties into women being more emotional than logical. It's likely to cause a process where she realizes people see what she's doing (and she knows, even if her awareness isn't there) and cause her to double down or act superior. You're best best is through actions. It can be difficult if you are still dependant on your parents, but you have to risk alienating her for her to get the picture. My advicr, less abstractly, would be when shes in th…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 05:37 PM
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What's better, speed or quality? The latter done with as much of the former as possible, without sacrificing the latter. In the age of instant gratification I'm not at all surprised that people concerned with speed while our quality of living decreases. Why do you need to speed read? If you're interested in the material and want to learn it, you should be dedicating time to it, like you would any other thing.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 03:12 PM
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This often happens. How much talk of solipsism is on here? It's not surprising that women, who tend to be both more fearful or pessimistic while also living in their heads more, would develop bitch resting face . Nor is it surprising that when someone breaks through that they are actually happy. To continue this, many people in my gym are so entrenched in their workouts or are so focused on getting rid of their (fat) insecurities that they are somewhat antisocial. There are a few people I talk t…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 04:28 PM
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Cognitive dissonance supernova. This dumb ass knows she isn't that great but refuses to let reality show her that so that she can adjust. Shed rather live in a fantasy bubble where she can't be hurt, knowing it's fake. I hate idiots like her.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 04:07 PM
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My issue isn't sluts. I'm not going to slutshame. I love sluts. They're easy to fuck and fun. They're great. I'd never try to wife one up though, so if someone tries to say that Im slut shaming they've probably sucked my cock and just aren't getting what they want. Tough shit. It's just life. One door entered is another closed. If tou want to fuck everything on two legs you aren't reliable for raising thise things because you don't know what restraint brings to the table and how important it is …
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 04:03 PM
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When I did sales we called this "The Silence Game" for Shits and giggles. We'd tell the person the price and then stfu. The first one to talk loses control. It's fun to do and it's totally applicable in any area of life. The amount if times I've seem a dynamic change because one person knows how to play the game is insane.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 03:54 PM
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This is basically why the Internet sucks too.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 03:52 PM
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I like the cut of your jib, non-ma'am.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 01:45 PM
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I used to think crazy was good for a fuck if I'm careful. I'm still careful enough that I might fuck lower level crazy and just cover my ass properly. ....or I used to think that. Now I'm just wondering why I'd consider it. Case in point, recently I was about to plate a girl who I knew was drama because it would have been easy and no doubt fun. Except within 2 dates of hanging out she dropped enough red flags to bomb a small city. At one drunken point even going on a tirade about how she wants a…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 01:43 PM
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I'm aware of that, but the humour comes from the associated connection to garbage.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 08:52 PM
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This is a train wreck waiting to happen. Everyone is warning you yet you're ignoring it. Low level drinking gets higher as you go bud. What starts as 1 beer turns to more as your tolerance increases. Two former addicts at the top comments literally told you this is how it starts. Good luck. It's not impossible to enjoy it I'm sure. Even I have managed to find a balance where I can do these things and gain enjoyment from them, but it doesn't work if I do them consistently. It works if I do them o…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 05:58 PM
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I try to explain this to people though they often don't understand, likely because they live their lives through incorrect memes. The key to acceptence is understanding that you aren't perfect and that's fine. You aren't special or unique. Assuming you are sets you up to try to be better than you are, which leads to perfectionism and constant fear of failure. It's ironic, because failure, and acceptence of it, is the key to success. I came to love myself completely after my I let my ex screw up …
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 04:42 PM
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I agree with you here. It's the only thing that works; dealing with it as soon as it's apparent. It takes time for people to build thay, especially when they aren't used to it or are going through a rough time. Unfortunately slipping up on this makes it harder down the line and people often just accept new shitty behaviour as normal rather than get back on top.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 03:22 PM
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This is more important than women. This is where your success with women comes from. I was reading a shit test post on here that talked about how everyone does it. It's true, and for many here, myself included, I'd wager that dealing with shit tests from men is more difficult than with women, since there's actual accountability involved. Anyway it's nice to see a post that actually talks about a real, life, business situation, since we should all be striving towards these things.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 01:50 PM
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I agree but I think it's better to do what you have to do whike you work towards what you want to do. The case in point, take any job until you get the job you want. I don't see what's wrong with that. Just don't get distracted from the bigger picture. But maybe I'm missing the forest for the trees with this comment.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 01:17 PM
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The most amusing thing is that if you don't know this is the typical M.O. You might actually feel stupid. Shit, I dropped a potential plate for recently due to her drama and attitude and she pulled the same thing. It's predictable to a tee.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 12:57 PM
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This is like my parents to a tee. I had issues with them but put them aside eventually. They mean well and they're good people. Not the most aware and they certainly have issues, but I'd be an idiot to act like that isn't true of everyone. You really just have to learn to set your own boundaries with them, or really, with anyone.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 04:54 AM
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I don't usually like to use these canned lines because it's better to learn to play the game even if I lose sometimes, but that money line about people's faces when you take their garbage.... holy shit, I'm dying. That's hilarious. I'm definitely going to use that if a girl ever asks me that.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 06:27 AM
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The point you make about the exceptions to the rules creating the rules is a key point. The best way to know how to skirt the rules is to know how they apply. The only way to know how they apply is to understand them and that is going to require experiencing them. Only once you understand the game can you find ways to make your own rules to it.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 08:58 PM
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Didn't even think of that, it was all so sudden. Great idea for next time. Thanks for the tip, I'll definitely use that at some point.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 12:41 AM
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Hahaha, theres validity to that and Im already working on that, but I'm not going to throw away a good friendship with someone I can trust because of alpha/ beta comments on they're character. Life isn't that black and white. Besides, neither him or I go to clubs very often. Reread my comments and actually think about it to see what I mean. I also think anything is okay to a degree. Everything in moderation, including moderation, my man.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 12:38 AM
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Thanks, I'm seriously trying to work on blunt, tactless analogies. They're so useful.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 12:32 AM
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It's not entirely your fault, even if you have to own the blame for not paying attention to reality. Guys are trained from birth to be vulnerable to women and give them control. It's in virtually every medium and since society is so media focused it's difficult to avoid, even if you have good guidance. Amusing enough, the reason I'm aware of this now is because I ran my life into the ground with an ex believing that if I rolled over and submitted she woukd realie I loved her as well. It's the sa…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 12:31 AM
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This. Welcome to reality. Nobody shares 100% of themselves except maybe children because they don't know better. I fact, for many people I'd say the lack of acceptence of that coupled with the fact that were told to be good is probably a huge contributer to the mental illness issues that are so prevelant today. In the past people knew this and had discipline. Nowadays people are becoming more and more childish and impulsive as time goes on, all the while told to "just be themselves" yet deeply k…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 08:20 PM
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Not surprising. While I imagine there are people who get enough from the thrill or the satisfaction, I imagine it's like drugs in that you sacrifice a connection with humanity (not people per sey, but your humanity) to get these pleasures. Learning what makes you tick is a great thing, but it costs you as well. If you pay for something, you should make sure that what you get isn't simply value, but something you personally will value.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 08:04 PM
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You get the patterns from your upbringing, as has been said here. My parents are the definition of what we talk about here. My mom is admits to having chosen my dad because she wanted to have a family in her early 30s when she was running out of time and he was safe. Shes an anxious, neurotic women who talks a lot of shit about others but never improves herself, even when forced to see the problems for herself. Shes even admitted her parents had a similar dysfunctional relationship with my grand…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 07:44 PM
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I've never atively thought about it in the context of these posts but you're right. This is really the underlying theme of virtually any terrible relationship. Lack of self-respect is such a terrible thing.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 07:17 PM
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I'm good at this naturally because I'm playful. I think when I meet girls I give off a good mix of vibes, fucked them good and then we can chill and cuddle. On the times when I literally just fucked and bailed they didn't last long. The shortest was about dates and the longest is between 6 months and a year. Everything you say fits my experiences. The short ones were looking for more but I wouldn't humour that conversation and kept things purely sexual with very little comfort (though enough tha…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 06:09 PM
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Seeing that does help give a good, flipped perspective to show you what it looks like from the other end. But it still has the same effect. Bottom line is nobody likes an insecure whiner, men or woman. In her case maybe she was just down and wanted reassurance, but now you know what it looks and feels like. If she gets her cofidence back maybe you'll even see what a slip up looks like and how it is when the other person gets back to normal. Now imagine if you were always treated like that and ev…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 05:56 PM
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You're realizations are spot on. I relate so much to this and really have to say good job. You've clearly put in work and are seeing huge rewards. Some of the things you point out I'm laughing at because I see the same in my life. You talk about just doing shit to face fears. That's huge. You talk about realizing others don't do a fraction of what you do. Thats legitimate perspective awareness. You talk about girls picking you up or buying you things, that's the reward for your hard work. It's a…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 01:29 PM
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High intellect that isn't used to better yourself and your life is like a big dick on a monk. I want to know how big the line is between autism and giftedness, because the people I meet who are intellectually difted are RETARDED when it comes to basic human interactions.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 05:56 PM
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I've tried to enlighten people. They don't want to hear it. I'm in the camp of keeping my mouth shut. Occasionally I come across people who think like me and I actually enjoy the conversations we have. I'd rather enjoy the brief convos with those people or if possible build a friendship than try to convince others to see what I do. I'll drop a line at most amd if someone bites, cool. If not, I know what's up and play my part while living how I want.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 05:48 PM
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Good job. Not much else to say. I wish some of my friends were as willing to listen to me as yours was.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 01:21 PM
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That can be fun. Usually I find that LMR is best dealt with by pulling back a bit and continuing to make out then trying again, which is what I usually do in those cases. If I'm busy, or not feeling it or something sometimes it's best to just bail. The other night I was with a girl was too drunk and was all over the place. She was all over me, then told me to leave, then called me to come back, then repeated, so I just left. Fuck that. Now she texting me and said she wants to take me out. Sheesh…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 01:09 AM
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They don't "think" it will end it sex. They aren't thinking at all. People this far into this mindset are literally just screaming at someone from within a collective so they can feel justified. It's literally the same mentality we talk about here with women and beta males. They're like kids craving stimulation amd attention.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 01:02 AM
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Yea sure. I was at a club for a birthday of a friend of a friend. Everyone in my group was being a loner in the corner of the club. I wasn't drinking or doing any drugs at the time and I was getting bored, so I grabbed the bday girl and we danced before anyone else. That basically got me in with her. As the place packed up I made friends with some younger guys in the crowd and subsequently got grabbed by another girl who danced and dragged me to her friends who dissaproved of me. That didn't pan…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 03:49 AM
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This is very accurate. And you're right about memes. A lot of these things are apparent red flags once youre able to read in between the lines.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 03:35 AM
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You'll get over it. Don't break your internet mic.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 03:33 AM
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You tried. That's what counts. People notice that. I remember a party I attended at a soca club with some friends and aqyaintences. Most of them wouldn't dance. I did. It was terrible, but a few girls joined in briefly. Apparently one of the people in my group said I was dancing like an idiot. My buddy told him that I was the only one of us with the balls to dance. Both were right. The next time it happened I had a few girls hit on me and would have taken the birthday girl home had tragedy not s…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 10:41 PM
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If you try nothing else, male it this. Good God the difference it makes. Porn/ masterbation is an excuse to lazily get off. Drugs are self-indulgent and give you a chemical "reward" for doing nothing and Computer/TV light gets in the way of sleeping. I'm definitely in the moderation camp and wouldn't say never so these things, but if I coukd get everyone to try this for a week or two I kow they'd see benefites.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 10:34 PM
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Right this post for sure. It'd be a good way to explain a lot of underlying symptoms and accumulated mindsets. Plus, I love those articles.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 04:10 PM
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Women are just a challenge to be overcome, like anything else. The more you fuck, the more it becomes just a normal part of life. Then it's on to the next thing, having gained the skills to fuck. That's just how guys are. TRP is focused so much in women, but the mental dynamic behind them and the power they have over you is the same as anything you haven't beaten yet.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 04:59 PM
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There is no goof or bad. The issue with anything is lack of moderation or using it wisely. You want a week on gorging chips and playing jrpgs? Do it. Just make sure you don't do it after a heart attack brought on by weight issues when you have a work project due. Then get your ass back to the gym afterwards.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 04:06 AM
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Not your business. That was stupid on your part.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 04:02 AM
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This is accurate. You're role in they're life as far as they are concerned, perhaps subconsciously, is to help them fulfil they're experience of the world. They way you describe the sex is apt, and coukd be applied to any area of their life. But that's the issue, they can't connect on a human level. They're afraid to risk it as it coukd tear apart they're carefully constructed view of reality. They need that to continue living as they do, making the choices they do. It's why change is so difficu…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 05:48 PM
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I think bpd stems from unhealthy self-absorbtion. BPDs are so focused on themselves and how they're perceived and how they think they should be thay I'd assume they are narcissistic by default. Perhaps not in the same self-aware, psychopathic style you might assume a narcissist to be, but I do believe they're similar.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 05:41 PM
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Everyone turns this into a right or wrong "it's her life, her body, butt out" issue. It's not. They're right in that it's her life and her choice. Just as it's her parents house and their rules apply. If you show up at your friends house with a bunch of people they don't kow and start fucking each other in their bedroom, logic would de it tour friend wouldn't be your friend much longer. Everyone these days is so damn self-absorbed because ether just don't consider anyone else or respect the boun…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 05:21 PM
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Most people aren't aware of they're drives or desires or the motivating behind them.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 05:12 PM
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A had a plate who would always joke about black dick. It was common enough that I started teasing her for it, but she tried to get me jealous a lot. At one point she called me after an extended period and admitted she didn't want to call me because I never called her, and she fucked it up. We had a good laugh, but she gave away her game.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 05:38 PM
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Yea, seriously. I met up with a girl for a karaoke date who told me she had a gangbang the night before. It should have been and easy lay, but she easnt dtf with me. She started flirting with another dude so I left. Why waste your time?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 05:36 PM
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Since anything can be abused to addiction like levels and we have a fat epidemic in modern society I would think this should be common knowledge, but it's not. I was a fat kid and when I look back at the periods in my life where I would gain weight, I was always doing comfort zone eating, which was salts and sugars to the max. I appreciate balance now, and enjoy it, but it scares me how many people don't even realize this. I have a chocolate bar when I'm stressed or burnt out sometimes. Or a muf…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 10:18 PM
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I dated a BP girl. I'd say I even had some patterns that resembled BPD myself if I'm honest. The reality is it was me who refused to change, and dating my ex, putting up with all that shit and ending up alone to clean up the mess was the last time I was able to look at my life as something out of my control, because I knew doing that was what got me into that mess in the first place. It was then that I decided to own my life and filter out the cancers that tried to invade it. Shortly after that …
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 02:32 AM
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This mindset is pretty common with older guys and immigrants. People who have been around long enough to see things change or people who come from more conservative cultures see it for what it is. Don't forget, nothing we talk about here is new. It's all old mindsets and understandings of the world from before we went too far down the feminist, pc rabbit hole.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 11:44 PM
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I agree with you here. I think it does start before they are self-aware. Sadly, the reason it's so hard to get over is exactly as you said; those behaviours are on auto-pilot and they repeat them without even being aware of them, so they end up in the same situations with the same problems again and again, and eventually they get old enough that they just don't want to change, or won't. While they may deserve compassion to an extent, I won't give it to them. Its just more investment than I want …
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 03:37 AM
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Yes I do. I heard I this cute little saying on facebook that told me I could and it feels good so now I'm a philosopher and you need to look up words and shit. I mean shit literally, as in take a shit, because I think you have a stick up your ass. Now good day sir.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 03:29 AM
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I was just being a shit, don't take it personally. If you got something good out of it that's cool.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 03:23 AM
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It is. I like your complaining. I think if you keep doing it eventually a little gnome will come grant you 3 wishes and that's clearly the only way to fix your shit. Don't brush him off by saying he can't help you because it's hopeless and impossible and he doesn't have a clue what it's like to be you. That'd be a waste.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 03:22 AM
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Not the guys business. Good call he kept our of it. There are likely a bunch of red flags the bf is missing or ignoring. On another note, there was a perfect kitchen add under the text which made me laugh.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 01:07 PM
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Then re-read it. Again and again until some of it clicks. Iternalize it. Go experience things. Talk to women, try being arrogant and try being awkward and gain applicable experiences necessary to comprehend it. You either lack the awareness to get what's being said, or aren't even trying to. The fact that you posted this implies the latter, but I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt. In future, if you don't understand something, break it down to smaller pieces and start there. Then once you are…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 08:43 PM
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Lol, you're such a stoner bro.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 08:33 PM
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There's too many details to this subject to convey a clear answer. There isn't even a clear answer. You grow it the way you do, experience and associate with the things you do, developed affinities to those things and eventually they simply become things you like to do. If it's junk food and video games, you get fat and lazy. If it's sports and music, you get fit and learn an instrument. These things can be positive or negative and they can affect your life in many ways. What's important is to u…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 08:27 PM
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I dont buy thay shit. They have the ability, it's just so unnecessary for them they don't develop it, assuming they even think about it existing. It's like if you could eat cake and it would supply you with the nutriants of vegetables, why would you ever even think to eat vegetables when the taste is nowhere near as delicious. They get what they want and need because society is a giant pussy, why would they ever even think to try and understand?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 08:12 PM
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It's become a self-parody but they're too invested to notice. I get a good chuckle out of it though.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 05:50 PM
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Been there, done that. It's so simple. Are you into her? Yes? Fuck her. Not getting fucked? Fuck off.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 05:30 PM
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It's the same issue many people with no confidence and a lack of self-respect have; He's trying to convince himself that he can be okay with anything instead of deciding on what he actually does and doesn't like. He feels he has to be perfect and that the way to be perfect is to be able to get along with anyone in any situation at the expense of himself. The actual idea is to understand that you aren't in control of everything and to do your best to succeed and live the life you want, not to let…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 06:34 PM
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This is true and generally the case with any group of people with a certain set if circumstances or beliefs. There's a cult-like aspect to it. It's not really the fault of anyone but the people following and the only way around it is if thr people are self ware enough to avoid it. Most people don't want to think, they want to be told. This is true everywhere. Take what you want from TRP but don't think everything is gospel.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 12:26 PM
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Nah, Amy Schumer is at best generic. I've dated bigger girls, I've fucked a fatty once, and Schumer is just unnatractive. She looks greasy all the time. Part of it is because she Shits out of her mouth, but also she's got way too much chunk and unnecessary amounts if average mixed with a Faded, tired look that says she knows she coukd be better, but fuck it.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 03:47 AM
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Negatory. Love is essentially a blind, intense emotion that removes logic from the person. So is hate. They're at the same end of the spectrum, they're just different expressions of extreme. Disinterest is the opposite end of the spectrum, avoiding the intensity of those emotions and not overwhelming you. At least that's where the saying comes from. But really you could suffocate someome you love with hugs and someone you haye with pillows so yea
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 08:32 PM
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I appreciate your stance and agree that it's best to let people figure out and decide they're own path, but why do you go to the gym with someome like this? If you know you want to do a personal workout, don't bother with him. Or does he just show up himself? Your post comes off as a rant. A lot of RP posts and rantminders, I get that, but what are you going to do about it, Yknow?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 07:40 PM
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It's not even simply a lack of awareness, it's often a lack of recognition. They just don't hear it because they're brain jumps immediately to defensive actions and try to diffuse the situation in whatever way possible so the immediate issue is done. Then they never change because the issue never registered. That's why they can gaslight so easily too, acting like you never said that or they never heard it. It's half true, they just protected their ego by ignoring you.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 06:42 PM
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I remember a girl I was so into trying to do that on new years. She literally called me and pretending to be all scared and helpless, stuck in the lobby of a building. I didn't have a clue but obviously declined. It was just ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 04:56 PM
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I've met a good number of women who say taking care of their men is important. Most of them liked to assume saying that was the same as doing that. It just doesn't work thay way. Taking care of a man means helping us with the things required to function so we can take care of them with the things required to live life. A smart women will understand cooking, cleaning, fucking and not being a bitch is enough for a guy to like her and pay her way. If they have kidd, she should be parenting. That's …
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 04:43 PM
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I can't read 2x anymore. I used to check it out to compare stories and help expand and solidify my ability to see the world through an RP lens but the examples are so basic it's useless. 2x isnt filled with manipulative, man eating women.... It's filled with reactive idiots. Nothing to learn but the most basic examples. But it is meant to be a feel-good space for women, and women who need that low-quality a level of support are often the most basic of bitches.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 03:30 PM
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Almost everything is in your head in life. You just interpret it a certain way and react according to that interpretation, even if it isn't accurate.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 12:54 PM
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This is fantastic. One of the best posts I've seen here in a while. It covers so many RP basics that it should be homework to read it and internalize as much of it as possible. It's good that you point out certain things that reverse the tables too. I think a lot of guys here probably don't give themselves as much credit as they should. That's a killer. Only you know your flaws as intensely as you do. A girl knows nothing about you. There's no reason to assume you're not good enough, it only hap…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 09:46 PM
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Yea, it's always funny when this happens. Actions speak louder than words and subconsciously we know that trash talkers are just that.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 12:23 PM
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I used to feel this way. I remember meeting a 17 year old who asked me my n count. I had maybe 4 or something at the time. She replied "Oh honey..." in a mocking tone and told me hers was almost 30. She wasn't even good looking. I remember feeling like a loser. Now I look back with the correct mindset and my situation improved and think... damn, she's a mess. I was looking at things the wrong way. It's true though, it's not the same game. And the gane itself isn't what it looks like. It's not ge…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 08:36 PM
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I'm on this side if the argument. If you do something for yourself, it's unlikely that you will be held back. You basically can't be. But you have to recognize it's all on you, for you. If something doesn't fit tour life, fix or remove it. It's up to you. Tbe reality is you could take that all the way to being a ripped hermit working a solitary IT job in a cabin you built yourself if you wanted to. Or you could simply eject people who are holding tou back, either entirely out of yor life or simp…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 01:01 PM
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I told my buddy years ago I was quitting smoking. He would offer jokingly, then pull it away and say "can't have it!" I expect it and I appreciated it. Whike it was my interpretation, it helped remind me not to take quitting smoking so seriously. He's a close friend though. I had another friend who offered me during this time and when he saw I stopped to think about it, pulled it away and said "yea, you don't want it, you were thinking about it too long." Truth is, if I couldn't endure these lit…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 01:30 AM
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I'm backing this up hard. I've had a lot of plates and some ONS over the last few years (after switching my mentality) and only one of them has shown me she'd be worth a relationship. Not enough for me to get into one, but most of these girls are just sneaky or trashy and give up when you don't give in. The ones that are interested will show it. They'll cool, clean, buy you things or generally show you they want you the way you would show a women you want them. But often they aren't worth it eit…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 06:03 PM
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I wish I could hear the things my ex said about me. I bet they'd be fantastic. But you're right, they totally downplay their shitry behaviour and vilify the other dude who probably wasn't all that bad, but more likely just kind of a wimp who got angry
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 05:55 PM
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Yours was a far worse situation than mine but I can understand it. Rather than being a bad person my mother really tried, but her fear and anxiety and need to present herself a certain way stop her of forming strong personal bonds. To this day she doesn't know much about me. For my father it's the same though. They really are mirror images of each other. I credit my dad with holding in his emotions about my mother for the most part while I was growing up, but he's not a strong man when I look at…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 06:11 PM
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Sometimes yes, you can get a sense of something this way, buy in life people are too variable and often not self aware enough for judgements like this to work. To use your first one as an example, liking a certain breed of dog doesn't mean you see it as an accessory it could well mean you know what you like and only want what you want in your life. Not to mention different breeds do have different characteristics. Anyway I'd stake a bet if you really look you'll find that not only are you genera…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 08:41 PM
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It seems that way, but certain people can't see it as a situation and still view it as a goal or ideal. Those people aren't really aware I'm that areas though. My dad tried to call me cynical about my disinterest in marriage during one of his patented "advice I didn't ask for sessions" and my mother didn't understand it dispute the fact they they divorced while I was young. Usually I ended thay quickly by pointing out I didn't know (and indirectly challenged them to name) anyone they knew who wa…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 08:25 PM
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This is like social media. Everyone posts the best parts of their life and you forget that most of it is the same existance as everyone else. The 'Greats' in life are only considered such because people are only focusing on the best parts of them. Why do you think celebs tend to crash and burn and their popularity wanes over time? No one is great forever in every way. 75% of our lives is spent eating, shitting, bathing and sleeping. What you do in between can only go so far for so long.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 05:05 PM
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Look at thay, you've already made up your mind. BP tendencies or not, you're not as insecure as you implied prior.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 06:17 PM
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This was good. If you took the fact that this was a male and female situation and just looked at it as two random people, you'd expect the same outcome. My ex tried to pull that once, telling me she didn't want me to see my friend. I told her that's not her choice and she later said she liked that I did that. She also threatened to break up and I pointed to the door and told her she couldn't leave. She literally 180d and in the same angry tone but with surprise yelled "NOOOOOOO! " I was complete…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 06:15 PM
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It's a good point. My interest in women in general has plummeted as I think about how much effort and focus it will take to gain the financial stability and comfort, hobbies and personal satisfaction. Women come and go along the way.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 03:14 AM
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This is something I've thought about, though I didn't follow the election. Just based on the sheer amount of Trump based conversations, he's succeed in becoming an icon of varying likability. People don't consider the saying "Any publicity is good publicity." Something Trump has pulled off incredibly is to get people attention. From what I've seen he's done it by screaming that he's the answer to our current PC culture, which alone is a smart move meant to alienate people who follow this hive mi…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 05:49 PM
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I disagree. Learning how something functions or something is built is not brainwashing. It's expansion of knowledge and logic. How is learning how to build a house a form of brainwashing? Thay doesn't make sense.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 10:06 PM
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Yea, I can't think of a girl I know who was into heavier drugs that hasn't either gone total slut or used sex to get them.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 05:31 PM
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That's exactly what it is. Shes been a plate for over 6 months and is looking for more but at this point I've thought about my suspicions with her and recognized the particulars. My gut feeling was enough for me to keep a distance initially, but now I've know what her issues are and I don't see any improvement from her, just small, one time attempts to look like she's im proving. To be fair though, she hasnt lost her shit ever, which does impress me. That will likely blow up later though.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 03:40 PM
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I don't know ice about either Trymp or Hillary, but everyone seems to shit on Trump for what he's saying while there seems to be a deep seated dislike for Hillary. What amuses me is people that tell me they wanted Hillary to win say she's the lesser of two evils (which doesn't seem accurate) but even if it were, the absence of bad doesn't make one good. But then everyone who seemed to want Hillary to win is either a man-child trying to act enlightened or a woman from what I see, so whatever. The…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 11:45 PM
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I'd love to talk about this with people but of course there's no debate, just people screaming and crying about how Trump will nuke us all. There's never been more proof that elections are just as much about social-feels though, so that's currently a good reminder of how society works.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 11:36 PM
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The up votes for your comment show you aren't alone in that. Sadly all one can do it improve and pick a partner that's either young or simple minded enough that a marriage will work, or play the field. I know what you mean though. Reality is totally bittersweet.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 10:21 PM
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Great article for men with a mind, a exorbantly long pile of drivel for women to waste their time with and get their feels from. Anyway, I had a few good laughs fron this. It should be in the sidebar as a "Spot thr RP truths" exercise for the new guys. I'd like to take a second to point out that despite the fact that this woman had realised all these things, she STILL won't settle. That's the bug takeaway for me here. She passively, if not actively, telling girls that the outdated mindset of mar…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 10:20 PM
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I get what you're saying but man that was a confusing paragraph to read.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 05:12 PM
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Sooner or later there will be such an outflow of overtly trashy women who preach the one-sided feminist values of female equality (superiority) and attack men with some belief that they really are better, and they will get served. At that point men will be persecuted and sooner or later enough people will catch on that it will be a serious issue, either socially or criminally. People that wake up to reality angry with no one to guide them often get lost. When women wake up, feminism tells them t…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 04:51 PM
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Oh look, a case proving feminism hurts everyone.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 04:47 PM
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It's really funny how obvious it is when you see it. I see so many female friends and aquentences of mine from my BP days either shifting into slowly being miserable or deciding they want a family and being insecure now that they can't use their t&a to attract a guy of substance. Too bad they haven't worked any substance other than drugs and jizz into their lives until now. I had one friend literally say it was time for her to start getting her shit together because she wants a family and she th…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 03:38 PM
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Snatch up them 18 year old cuties.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 03:27 PM
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Every dude who preaches passive aggressive "lessons" on the ills of our society has some good points in there, it seems. Doesn't matter. It's still passive aggressive and you only get one of two outcomes with that if it works: Someome does what he says or someone feels guilty. For anyone who sees what he's doing, he looks like a little bossy bitch. Who is he to say what's wrong with our society? If people want to preach that, they better act the part. This dude better be in a happy marriage with…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 12:42 PM
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That action is a covert contract. If she wants you to say it too she's actually using you, not loving you. It's a passive agressive way to get what she wants (validation) and you need to see it as such to know how to react accordingly. If you want to give her validation by saying it back, go for it. If you aren't sure then don't. If you're worried about not saying something back yourr simply worrying about her getting mad, which means you aren't your focus.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 12:36 PM
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I currently have a plate. Shes young and her games are pretty obvious. She has a tendency to be indifferent and will apologize and say I'll try for everything. It's her go to, automatic response. I decided to call her out on it and she tried to deny it. It ended up with her saying I was being mean and telling me she'd be mean to me later. After about 20 mins of me not responding, I got a top less pic. Shes well aware of her actions, like all women, but likes to deny them. I give her the benefit …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 05:18 PM
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Drugs are never just a drug problem. In my experience it's incredibly rare thay a person holds their morals while under the effects of a substance. If their morals were their priority, they wouldn't risk breaking them by doing something that affects their mentality. As a result, many people who do drugs cannot use them properly. This is the root cause if addiction. Not the drug, but the underlying issues. That said, addiction is like love in our society; it's a word thrown around with no grasp o…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 03:27 PM
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I wondered when this would show up here. I legitimately wondered if it was a troll. It's so perfect. It's literally everything we talk about on display.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 08:38 PM
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To relate, I spent many years trying to ignore the empty feeling inside. It never dawned in me that I had to fill it by learning and failing and doing. I figured that out after my ex used me, left me and I had nothing but debt and self-pity. I remember being in the verge if tears alone in my apartment, my automatic reaction was to shove the pain down and keep on trucking, but in that moment I stopped and told myself I actuslly WANTED to feel the full pain of my emotions. I had gotten myself into…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 08:32 PM
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On a technical and skill level he failed, though from the sounds of it he didn't have any interest in a taken women, even if the chance was there. I wouldn't say that ls failing, unless his goal was to get pussy at the cost of his personal morals. That's subjective though. I would likely have passed in the same situation because less tangled pussy is availible elsewhere. Or maybe I just didn't want to put in the effort for whatever reason. Either way you're dead on with her meaning. That jumped …
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 05:18 PM
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This is the deal. It's like the beginning of Swingers. They always come back after you've stopped caring. Same deal for me. My ex ended it and contacted me off and on for 2 years after. I humored her and used the conversations to help understand and solidify TRP side of things but never took it seriously because I know she's nuts. The last time we spoke she sent me a picture of an a prone she got. I didn't notice the apron so much as the fact that she looked like she was heading towards 300 lbs.…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 05:11 PM
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Y'know, just like TRP exists because men have lost their masculinity and want to get it back, I assume that many situations like this occure because women have lost their femininity and try to get it back. Just like many guys end up here while looking for answers of what went wrong in their lives, often having ignored their subconscious impulses, you could likely assume that women end up with stronger men because of similar reasons.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 04:53 PM
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A quote my dad used to say that I never realized was as true as it is was "If you show up on time for work, you're already doing better than most people." My dad is full of quotes and advice he doesn't follow, so I never really understood that it's actually that simple until I actively started to improve myself. He's right, the vast majority of people are so lazy they literally won't even get up on time. Realizing that the world is so full of people like this is, at first, very depressing. After…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 02:45 PM
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Put it in bars above urinals on top of those PSA's that say things like "He cat called. If tou don't tell him he's a problem, then so are you."
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 07:20 PM
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Lots of ways. There's no specific route. You'll know what people think only once YOU know what you think. That sounds like a cop out but you have to determine first who you are and how you choose to live, and accept it. Once you internalize your beliefs honestly and start applying them to your life and improving, you have a basis from which to judge the actions of others. That basis is your standards. That's when you know what others think of you. But even prior you'll get gut feelings. You can …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 01:57 PM
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This is basically my area of focus right now. I've removed my old mindset and see the world for what it is, so I'm learning the best way to present myself to people while being who I want to be. Old friends for example, still hold a ton of PC beliefs. I no longer care about or believe those mindsets. I initially felt an urge to argue them or defend myself, whereas now I'm finding it's just better to let them indulge in their mindsets and have them reinforce or challenge themselves by asking them…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 01:48 PM
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Chis rock has some legit stuff. His bit about platonic male friends to a woman being ducks in glass jars with a "break in case of emergency" sign on them is great. Anyway, your bit on the next guy in line being the guy she's focused on is spot on. Even if the attention is apparently negative, he's got her focus. My ex met a friend of mine who she said she didn't like. Immediately I knew what was up, as he was her type. She later tried to orchestrate a swap session on his birthday where him and a…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 03:42 AM
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I love the end of that article. Whoever is being quoted talking about being in favour of sugaring and getting paid for the emotional aspect needed for dating. That kills me. It's hilarious that these women think men don't deal with these aspects and that they should be paid for them, especially while embracing feminism and equality for women. It really makes me wonder how people can still be so delusional in regards to the mating game. That said, I've been sent past my anger and frustration at a…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/16 07:27 PM
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This is why it's most effective to simply repeat your point. "You broke my glass." "You made nervous and I dropped it." "So you broke my glass." "It's not my fault." " You still broke my glass." "I know but I was nervous and it slipped." "And now it's broken because you dropped it." Eventually either she'll give or she won't. What you want to do with that is your choice.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/16 02:07 PM
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I just gotta say the "I'm not black" comment made me laugh pretty hard
/r/TheRedPill29/10/16 11:49 AM
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The first video creeper me out because my ex did that exact kimd of stuff. She also had a bunch of pics, videos on her laptop of her doing that. She also was big on tattoos, had piercings and died hair. So basically that girl seemed like my ex. Anyway I have to go find the first article you did. I wanted to check that out.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 07:10 PM
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The first part is probably the reason people used to say TV would rot your brain. You spend so much time in fantasy world's that your morals become those fantasies. It seems now our culture is so consumptive on media that those tropes that were once exaggerated and endearing have become stereotyped then turned around on their heads and repeated. In fact, looking at the PC culture of victimhood, I think of how Eminem originally used racism as his come up because he was the "white rapper" in a bla…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 02:54 PM
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If she's done all that before she likely will do it again. Even if she doesn't, it's possibly you just lucked out. What concerns me is your family. They're reactions show they don't have your best interests at heart. Even if we were to assume your girl had wised up and would have been a great catch, it's your life and you are fully capable of doing what you want with it. The fact they they are giving you shit for ending a relationship (at 22 no less) is strange. As for whether something is right…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 08:50 PM
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That's what I figured but I wasn't sure how to add it up. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 04:32 PM
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When he got to the part where he was saying she was barely around, all I could think of was - Where is she when shes not around aND - Why doesn't she want to be around when she wants to prove her innocents? This guy is a sap and she knows it. He'll be burned pretty soon or used for the rest of their time together. This is unacceptable.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 04:04 PM
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I like the meta aspect. If you do it, follow up with a post. I'd like to see how it turned out. Bear in mind it likely won't go over well, so prepare like hell for this.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 03:56 PM
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Yea, it takes time. I'm doing it now whike I focus on my health, body and school. Being raised by a neurotic mother and having my childhood left me with a pretty neurotic outlook, but I'm lucky because I can tell those are learned habits and not anything more. By the way, I don't understand this talk of plates. What does lifting 5 played mean? I'd that hoe many weights are on the barbell? The mac I see is 45lb or something at my gym, so does it man 5 45lb weights? Or is it something else?
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 11:32 AM
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That's how it is. My relationship lasted only 9 months but it destroyed me. I lost my job, alienated friends and family, spent my saving and my confidence was shot. It took me a year to even get back to any semblance of normalcy. It's been 2 or so now and I'm finally on a good path and feeling much better. Bottom line is that you now need to focus on you. The upside to this destroying you is that it destroys your false sense of confidence. Seeing that allows you to build a real one, and that's o…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 11:28 AM
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This is a good reminder for me. I tend to expect to much of myself and whike it helps me strive farther, it can be exhausting. It's something I constantly remind myself of and try to relax a bit. I actually enjoyed your info, it was not only relieving but also interesting, I've never thought about what early the top 20% is in terms of statistics. That's totally achievable to me and more importantly, when I achieving it, I will work past it. I've already hit a number of those things anyway.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 11:44 PM
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Agreed. It's important to understand that the medical industry is making money off this garbage. Overly liberal, PC, "everyone is special," society is trying to convince you that everyone is worthy of your time and attention, and this is one of the ways they do it. By extension, this is how they also teach you not to focus on yourself and by extension lose your self-respet. A paychologist prescribes a shitry person wuth no self control and a ton of self-pity a pill, that that person pays for aga…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 09:36 PM
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To add on to this, if you find yourself attractived to someone like this,or seriously contemplating dating one, it's time to look at yourself. This women tend to latch onto guys who are superficially strong but mentally and emotionally weak. The saying "you get what you deserve" is apt here. I'd stake a bet that any guys who's been through this coukd back me up when I say they had some growing up to do, as an emotionally healthy person would likely see this women for what she is, except maybe in…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 09:20 PM
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Yea, same. There were a lot of comments and actions that led me to believe I was justified with the mndset I had. In retrospect I just wanted to think I was special without working to improve. That idiotic belief was what allowed myself to manipulated and miss all the obvious red flags. In retrospect my ex was completely generic in every way amd actually a pretty basic human, but my insecurity aND desperate need to not seem like a loser to myself made me deny the obvious.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 11:14 AM
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This is something every guy should know. Reading about this scenario was one of the things that spoke to me when I first found TRP because I'd been through it. I could literally line up things my ex said before the change and the actions after with complete accuracy. It was uncanny. I recall her saying things like "I didn't expect to like you, you're not the type I usually go for. Usually I go for bigger guys" tied in with comments like "It's so great to date someome who has their shit together.…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 11:21 PM
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I second this. I speak my mind and if people don't like it, they're welcome to speak theirs or piss off. If someone is just trying to be right and not open to debate, I'm fine saying "This is my opinion based on my research and experience and that's the end of this" and leaving it at that. If you're trying to bring up taboo subjects or get people on your side, you're wasting time. Be who you are and don't worry so much about what people think. Of they don't like you, boo hoo. Just don't be stupi…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 08:37 PM
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This place isn't the only place to get the information we share. Many people come to understand it without any help. If this place gets shot down there will still be other ways to get the information. TRP is just a matter of convenience, really. It'd suck if that happened, but it wouldn't be the end.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 09:44 PM
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There is no way to fix it. You do what you need to do to become who you want to be. Chase girls, money, status, be a hermit. A problem with TRP is while it has good information, people think it's a full answer. It's not. People here have stated many times that TRP is a toolbox. That's the truth. Take what you need from it and apply the the affected areas of your life until areas is healed. The area is for you to know and so is the progress and destination. Be a 40 year old chasing 18 year old if…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 07:52 PM
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When I was growing up I hated religion for the same reasons I hate this. It grabs naive, young, or stupid people and feeds them an idea until they are fat on it instead of allowing them to experience life and make their own decisions from their own experiences. When I think about it, that's it. Its an agenda that anyone without their own mind latches onto and claims as their own. On the upside, once you realize what it is, you can avoid the people you don't like and/or set up preventative measur…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 07:42 PM
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This is true but the more you try to contain an element the bigger the explosion when the container breaks. There have always been revolutionaries and people who fight the status quo. Many of them do make tangible changes. Not everyone cares about what happens when they are accused of being rapists or something because they can disarm that accusation with logic and assertiveness. For example, People who accuse me of any kind of discrimination and met with complete indifference and generally a jo…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 12:04 PM
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Come on man, we all know the chicken came first. Men had to hablve something to kill to satisfy their hungry selfish bitches who kept complaining about not being able to cook anything and being bored while their man was out killing bears.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 11:54 AM
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This is true, but how long can a group of people be ostracized until they start banding together? It's like racism, eventually people start fighting back.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 11:48 AM
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Bro, that logic is flawed. I mean a gun is at fault is someone uses it to kill someone and drugs are to blame when people abuse them. I mean shit, God is at fault if your life sucks and the Easter Bunny makes people fat so women are innocent and men are privileged. It's so simple.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 11:11 PM
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This is true, but there comes a point where a lot of guys who follow the "rules" get burned somehow. At that point, if they're strong, they wake up. I mean that's how many people end up here. Its a small number right now, but sooner or later as this propaganda explodes more and more guys will get burned and we'll see some of them embrace reality. It's like a trickle effect but I see it happening.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 11:08 PM
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This scares me too. Between the potential social and financial risks if things go wrong with the mother and the fact that the kids (especially the sons) are being forcibly spoon fed beliefs that are inaccurate and hurtful, I can't justify wanting to have kids. Maybe with any luck it'll get to the point where men just start banding together in various forms. Clubs or groups of friendships where they push each other forward positively.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 11:02 PM
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I noticed my problems with drugs were eerily similar to my problems with video games and food. They all function the same way. I stopped doing drugs and now find video games and to a lesser extent food filling that void. Since the latter has been willing I'm my life since childhood they'll be harder habits to break than drugs, but definitely worth it.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 02:00 PM
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I was being a little snarky, but yea. I think it's nice to hear different explanations of things. It helps the idea sink in, I find. I also agree with him. Stopping and paying attention to what I'm doing seriously increases my skill level with it as well as keeps me in a more relaxed mindset.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 05:23 AM
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Cognitive dissonance is having inconsistana thoughts, beliefs, etc, so grammatically he's correct. Or did you mean that they're aware of it all so it isn't a cognitive dissonance issue?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 06:59 PM
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You literally described meditation and concluded by saying you were better than others by not calling it meditation. The post is accurate though, so there's that.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 05:38 PM
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Glad you posted that. I doubt anyone would have been able to figure out my typo.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 09:00 PM
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A little over the top lol, but your comment reminds me of a picture a buddy of mine posted on facebook that said "1944: 8 year old men stormed the beach of Normandy to almost certain death. 2016: Men need a safe space I'm collage because their feelings get hurt." I laughed pretty damn hard when I read that.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 04:35 PM
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Yea but hating yourself for being a loser and improving isn't about haring yourself per sey, it's hating your circumstances and taking the initiative to change them of your own accord. That's actual strength driven and developed through hard work and personal motivation. This whole "men suck" club is promoting the opposite of that. It's there to say you're bad because you have a penis.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 04:28 PM
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This is the fruition of the sneaky mentalities that led me to depression when I was younger. Now they make me angry, knowing the purpose is retardation of the quality of life. That said, the anger has given me guide me to improve my life and as much as it'd be awesome to go back in time and unlearn my programming years ago, being able to see this now still reminds me to take it easy. In regards to this, all I have to say is any group that expects me to explore my "toxic nature" better be willing…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 04:25 PM
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Some women I've found are quite honest in a completely useless way. She told you she likes attention from men because of her low self-esteem. This is likely true. Many women are incredibly aware of the "why's" of what they do, they just don't seem to know or care what would actually help the issue and continue filling the void with bullshit, superficial fixes. Again, this is why I Copake a lot of this stuff to addiction. Same logic (or lack thereof) is applied. I seem to have a good number of la…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 05:15 PM
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Good point. I hadn't thought about that but your right. In this case though makimg a scene would be totally out of character for him and make him look even worse. Ending it in private might make people subconsciously start realizing Steve doesn't take shit.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 03:05 PM
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I don't know that that's entirely it. For me, I'd probably have said were done in a humorous way and then later, after everyone else is gone, told her we're done for real. Causing a scene would make others uncomfortable and pin you as a dramatic fool. Winning isn't always about looking like a winner, it's about getting the job done successfully. It seems to me that ignoring her and then ending it more privately after is the best option. What would you do?
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 03:03 PM
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It's a lost cause for Steve. If I were him I'd have probably played up the "you and Bob should be dating bit" because I'd be done at that point anyway. Her actions solidify the end of that relationship. It's a losing battle from that point on, although most likely it was over well before that point.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 02:56 PM
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It's gets even better when you meet them in person. Usually they're about 10 lbs fatter minimum. Looking online is literally an exercise in patience and filtering. Better to just go say hi to randoms on a walk.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 09:24 PM
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Yea, I don't think this girl is that crazy. Shes been a plate for over 6 months, I've met some of her friends and fron what I've seen she's about as legit as I've seen. But I still have my doubts. That's probably due to being burned before, but I'm doing my thing regardless. If there's negatives to find, I'll find them. Or if I don't, I can bail just as easily. My ex destroyed my naivety, so I doubt I'll ever get attached again mentally.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 04:25 PM
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If not for exclusivity there's no reason in my mind for an LTR. Most plates I get last 3-6 months at least. The only difference I see between plating and LTRing is whether or not I'm seeing more than one person. Beyond that I'm not sold on her due to red flags and my own attraction level, though the latter may be a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 12:37 PM
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I'm wary of that. I had a BPD ex that led me here and I still consistently look for red flags. Though what I see with her is good, my gut is wary. Her mom being crazy, her having no father as hers cheated on her mom and the smaller signs of potential crazy I see such as consistently dying her hair and her having a tattoo set off too many warning bells. The best way to explain is that I see her wanting a relationship more than a relationship with me. Now given everything known in TRP, that's an o…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 11:32 AM
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You're around my age and financially set. If I had a solid financial situation I'd be I'm a much better place, so zi envy you there as that's my current focus. You said you're in decent shape so improve that. Don't worry about the balding. I have that issue. It's not an issue. Get social. Start with random convoy in line and that sort of thing. If this all just happened, start doing more activities with a focus on yourself and redevelop your confidence. You'll be fine in time. Trust me.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 10:20 PM
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I have an 18 year old plate. Shes a mix black girl. Her mom is strict. Like, ridiculously strict. Helicopter parent strict. ....Her mom is pretty nuts. I've never dated anyone as submissive. Shes actually ridiculously obedient. There's more to it than just her age, but I can see the appeal. More than that, She's not drinking/party girl, which helps a lot. I've considered trying to LTR her, but I'm not really for that at the moment. If I was, I'd probably choose her.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 09:55 PM
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Yea, I get that. I track my calores with my fitness pal and fund it pretty useful. I'll probably do it until Im able to develop consistent, healthy eating patterns. Unfortunately diet plans aren't what I'm after. My interest is in udersyanding the nature of food nutrients to create my own system if eating. Healthy recipes may be of help though, since the more I cook with foods the more I learn between the lines.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 09:22 PM
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This is a big part of the lack of integrity we have nowadays. Personally though, I try to just ignore it. Nothing I do will change these groups. Better to just do what I want and be aware of them so I can avoid them.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 09:19 PM
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I fire having trouble with this chances are you're either not informed enough or taking on too much. Learning is a slow, deliberate process. Try picking one thing at a time and practicing it for a few days before moving onto the next thing. You don't write a whole book at once. You write one chapter at a time.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 04:58 PM
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I agree with this entirely. The content is fantastic but his writing style reminds me of listening to someome with ADHD fire of numerous statements way to fast. I didn't know about his reason for writing like that, but I don't see this as geared to a higher writing style, rather it just sounds like he's trying to sound smart. The content alone implies that he's intelligent. His actual writing leaves me frustrated. I would say a good writing style is one that gets the point across as quickly and …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 11:12 AM
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You think? I'm having a tough time figuring out exactly what I should be doing. I was trying 3400 until recently and it was good but I moved it down because eating healthy and getting that many calories was incredibly difficult given my circumstances at the moment. So far 3000 seems okay but I'll adjust if I start feeling too tired or weak. In the meantime I'm trying to learn about nutrients and eating properly while I maintain my weight and change some fat to muscle. Do you know of any books or…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 06:22 PM
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Sure but when people don't repent or regret and instead continue down a path of selfishness, unwilling to admit their mistaked, they destroy. It's like the saying misery loves company. It becomes a black hole, ducking the lifeeling out of those all around, akin to a drug addict. That negative spiral is just being played out on a fat bigger scale because people have become so self-centred and greedy they don't think ahead.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 09:26 PM
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Cool, so we do agree, you just worded it not accurately. I should have said it hinders our ability to achieve our biological drive to achieve sex with women.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 08:01 PM
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This is the best part. A shitty single mother will set the worst examples possible for unproductive humans whike simultaneously telling men to be good and do the right thing. A boy who try to comprehend those mixed messages is bound to have a fucked up mentality. Even the most well in tensioned single mother is going to cause problems simply because she doesn't understand the male experience and can't comprehend what it is to me masculin. That's fucked.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 11:11 AM
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Yea, I pretty much stick to water most of the time although I have lactose gree milk and coffee every day. I probably eat out too much due to time constraints though so that's one thing I'm working on. I can't seem to get rid of some flab I've got though. I'm sticking at 3000 calories per day and working out 3 days a week but I wanted to ask if anyone who's quite bulky is working out off a 2500 calorie diet? I'm not sure if 3000 is enough or too much for someome wgo works general labor and works…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 10:50 AM
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Sexual strategy would be an extension on biology in the way I'm speaking about it. I was using them interchangaby but I'm pretty sure this confusion is due to the semantics. As far as it goes with women, it does allow them full reign of their biological drives. Hypergamy and a society that allows it to prosper with no repercussions is very much in favor of their biology. But due to that, would not agree that the obligstory forcing of men to be reserved instead of allowing them to be more dominan…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 10:09 PM
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I'm pretty sure you need to give me you general tips on healthy eating. Mostly because I want to learn but also because while typing this I looked up and saw a scary fat lady taking up two seats on the bus and it made me quiver.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 09:54 PM
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Escape From New York this shit. I'm tired of slime being able to live of money forcibly taken from my paycheque for hours I've worked. I mean what the shit?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 09:31 PM
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This reads like a mess. Everything you've written here make this relationship sound like you guys were trashed the entire time. LTRing a slut. Lying the slut in such a short period. Trying to rope in more girls because you were bored. Letting her give you shit. Makimg threats you dont keep (at first anyway). Explaining yourself. What is it you expect out if this? you seem to have some self awareness via some insightful comments into the whole affair but you do things that are totally dysfunction…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 07:07 PM
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Nah you've got to be right. You can't spent years in the closet and not know a thing or two about fashion.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 11:19 AM
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I remember going to get a coffee some time ago and flirting with the cashier. We were both it it and I ended up asking for her number. She said she had a boyfriend. I mean to say "That's okay" and let it go bit I got tongue tied and said "That doesn't matter" instead. I remember her reaction as being surprised in a good way. I wasn't interested in pushing farther at the time so I didn't but I do recall fusing that reaction surprising. Not so much because I think women don't cheat, but more becau…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 08:31 PM
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That's exactly my point. I'm still confused on why you disagree. I said feminism is a rejection of biology towards men and for women it's complete accepted of their biological traits. In regards to shaming men, they are shamed for masculine attributes. For women this is beneficial, but for men it's not.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 08:13 PM
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That's it. One half of the specis is allowed to be themselves with perks. The other half is forced to inhibit itself aND be shamed regardless.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 05:14 PM
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Disagree with what? Nothing I said argues that point.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 05:11 PM
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I like this post because it's direct and literal. As much as I love the philosophy of doing things, the ted pill has a su stantial lack of literal examples. Vague ideas are good but it takes me than that to really figure things out.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 11:23 AM
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All feminism does is reject biology. That's the issue with it. In the past men and women were rewarded by society for marriage. Gender roles were accepted and expected. This isn't the case now. Society has dropped the ball but feminism and PC culture at large is pushing the old standard for men whIle allowing for female biological urges to roam free. It's not like it's one thing that's causing it, but if you pay attention you can see what's happening.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 10:53 AM
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Smartest thing you can do. Thie issue isn't really about winning the argument. That just going to feed your ego. Just know the truth and do what you need to do.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 07:06 PM
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Yea, this is generally why people should just stay silent on these matters. If you're asked directly, lie about it or something. You can get off easily by saying "That sucks, but what are you going to do?" Most people just leave it at that. I prefer to sidetrep these conversations whenever possible.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 07:05 PM
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This is interesting. It fits my ex entirely (no surprise as she was a monroe fan) and embodied that childlike innocence and the slut dynamic perfectly. That example with a man following a woman to relocate made me laugh because I recall my ex watching a movie once where that scenario happened and she said he shouldn't have done it. I didn't understand why at the time. More importantly I realized I went along with it all despite my better judgment for that same reasoning: To try and please with a…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 02:34 PM
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Seeing women that are a mess is always a bummer. Not that it concerns me but it is a bummer. On the subject of the wall, a female aquientence of mine that I used to work with turned 25 early this year. She said she's been depressed (she's always been fairly low) and that she's trying to get over it. Now this girl admits to being an alcoholic, has had more dick than she could count (she told me she tried to make a list but couldn't remember everyone), she's a general mean person in many ways to m…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 11:03 AM
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This is why I often compare human nature to addiction. Effectively the addict ends up replacing normal dopamime triggers with drugs and can no longer receive the pleasurea in life without their drug of choice. However since the brain is elastic, I do have to wonder if this isn't reversable. For example, an addict self aware enough can stop using drugs and eventually their brains will recover, though since the pathways have been formed the chance to relapse is always there. The same could be argu…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 08:26 PM
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What you are saying is absolutely correct. Psychologically you're referring to black and white thinking, which is the idea that a someone is either or with no grey area. So if you see someone do a nice thing, or be funny, or be an ass, you judge them as a whole based on that one interaction is year of realizing there are any number of things that could have caused that person to act that way in that moment. The cause is ignorance of yourself and your own mindset and motivations. When you underst…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 03:39 PM
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I think this is a good argument. Without seeing two sides of something you can't really appreciate or utilize the various aspects of that thing. Family living and party life are like that. If you want to be dedicated and focused like you should be with a family life (feel free to consider family life something like a career as well for this argument) it's helps to have seen what lack of focus feels like. Realistically I think there's a balance between the two. Going out and drinking or drugging …
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 10:46 PM
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Absolutely accurate. Saving people from t consequences of their actions is not helping, it is entirely enabling. It seems like rather than trying to teach relationship advice to people they should be taught how to deal with addicts. This stuff is straight addiction. Would you pay for your wife's heroic habit? Great! So why the fuck are you paying for her to ruin her financial reputation. .....Oh right, pussy. Idiot.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 10:25 PM
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I fucked this one up with an ex. She used to joke about it all the time and I'd act like nothing was wrong. One time she was drooling over some celeb in some music video an I said I'd fuck the female in the video and she called me out on player her game. She was right. I should have shut it down.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 02:40 PM
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I've been thinking about it from a nutritional standpoint to try and help myself learn. Think of chicken and imagine your body breaking up the nutrients and absorbing them. When I think about it on a microscopic level it makes more sense that I wouldn't need anywhere near what I thought I did. This is just a thought experiment really, but zi find it interesting.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 03:33 AM
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Yea, fat crabs already have a hard enough time lifting themselves up without other meaty crustations grabbing at their ankles from the couch.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 06:10 PM
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Most people really don't need to eat much. When I was fat and young and my mom cooked for me I wondered how the dietician could be serious about eating a piece of meat the size of your palm and that being enough. Now I don't understand the other end of it. How was it that I thought eating junk food, two big helpings of pasta with sausage and shit like KD was normal? It's scary to think that's what I ate growing up. I remember I started working at a kennel and I was outside running with digs and …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 06:08 PM
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My dad is overweight and has diabetes. He still buys a lot of candy and stuff telling me it's okay to have it in moderation. I agree with the statement, but I saw a fudge cake dissappear in about 3 or 4 days so I'm not sure what he means by moderation. He still makes comments about my "bland" food and exercise, but I get it now. He asked me the other day how much a gym membership costs. I doubt he'll sign up but I found out for him anyway. My point is, people will talk a lot of shit and mock you…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 05:58 PM
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It surprises me that people feel they have to pay for a girl on a date. Even while I had a blue pill mentality I realized that was just something you did to be nice, not a necessity. I never pay for the other person. That's silly.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 05:32 PM
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You're girl has issues, but we'll played. I don't understand your terminology but I like that you wrote what the techniques you were using were when you gave your responses. That's a good way to help explain a situation.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 05:26 PM
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On a side note of accepting responsibility for oneself; When you do this you realize that those who scream and shout and cry and merely blaming the world for their actions. One who owns themselves properly will accept the situation, fair or unfair, and work towards changing it for the better. That's why all these rights groups and people shouting for equality are idiots. You can't change others. At best you change public opinion which is just pointing the finger at someone else. When you do what…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 05:19 PM
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It's jealousy, insecurity and laziness. I was the same. I didn't want to put in effort so I resent people who had success without considering that they had to try and likely fail many times to succeed. Now that I try I love hearing stories because I realize I can learn from them. Now since I realize my old behaviour I realize what it looks like in others.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 05:10 PM
1

Most guys I know seem to dislike this stuff. They either find it taboo to talk about or are too white Knightish to habe the conversations.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 11:22 AM
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Hahaha, yea it's a cry fest. I don't cry often but I did after my relationship ended. I remember automatically trying not to cry then realizing I was hurt and I didn't want to hide it. I wanted to feel the full effects of what my choices had ended up in and it hurt. Really badly. But damn if that wasn't cathartic. I sure felt better after and eventually, as they say, time healed my wounds. Now I laugh about it all.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 11:19 AM
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The midlife crises was common enough to become a known phenomenon. Again, I don't think it's about whether or not someone wants marriage and kids but rather whether they are doing it because they want it or because they think it's just what happens. Going to college/Uni is often the same thing. People go because they're told to, rack up tons of depth and never follow through because they didn't actually care.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 11:15 AM
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I had this same problem. It's not that uncommon. Neoreacrionsafe's advice is dead on. That's exactly what I did. You want to meditate. Think about these lack of feelings. What causes the blocks, what prevents you from just acting how you want? Pick one area of issue and question it from every angle. When you feel a certain tension with it, you've hit the sweet spot. Examine the tension tied to the thought. This will NOT work of you aren't honest with yourself. You have to be willing to accept th…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 11:12 AM
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I'm not against LTRs but if it isn't what you want then it's a waste of time. I hate that mentality of "It's the next step in life." That's not a reason, it's a meme. The next step afyer what? Go to school? Go to college? Get a good job? So then what? It's get married and have kids, likely followed by being miserable or, optimistically, bored? If that's really how someone is, really what they want, then fine. But I think most people don't think about it.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 12:19 AM
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My crazy ex, just before and after breaking up with me (which was just a power play) often used the term "man up" to try and get me to do things she wanted. At that point it was irrelevant as I was free of her shit. On a more amusing note, she threw a fit and told me to throw out all her belongings during one outburst. So I did. I chucked all her clothes, shoes, makeup, laptop and all her shit into a sumpter behind our apartment. She wasn't to pleased.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 09:59 PM
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That bit on intuition is spot on. I has that problem until I could see how things worked, but it's like finding a lights witch when you're blind. This guy should get to the sidebar though. Sounds like he hasn't really started yet.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 09:35 PM
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Most men are useless nowadays. The best thing you can do is be your best self, uphold the morals you choose and live the way you want while learning to filter others for similar qualities. You do attractive t those who are like minded, but you will also attract shitry people. That's where holding onto your own morale comes into play. It's so you have a point of reference when decided who is worth your time.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 08:41 PM
1

Hahaha, keep crying about my comment, Mr. Assumptions.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 11:30 AM
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Seems that way. Anyone I know who claims to be poly has severe dysfunctions. Usually fat or generally unnatractive, but even if they aren't physically gross they are mentally.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 10:41 AM
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A reward given all the time loses its rewarding value. When you eat a bag of doritos once in a while, you actually enjoy them.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 12:35 AM
2

I agree with virtually all mental illness simple being a culmination of poor habits and lousy thought patterns. Pharmaceutical medication is another business profiting off people by selling them a lie; that they are somehow broken and can't fix themselves. Doughy stanhopen has a whole bit on addiction and AA as the opening of his special "After turning the gun on himself" which culminates with him stating that it's all bullshit and that while maybe it does take a few days to shake off the effect…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 12:34 AM
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I don't really care about your problems dude. Sorry. Good luck with that though. Hopefully whatever you want to happen, happens.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 10:05 PM
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It's funny to see the transition occure unnoticed by women. I was plating the roommate of a friend and the friend has gotten pretty chubby since we first met. At one point my friend was going out to the club and came into the room to ask the roomy if her dress looked good. It was just a black dress that didn't hide her chubby figure but let half her ass hang out. After some jokes she decided to change when the roomy said "she still thinks she's thin." I had a laugh but it made me kind of sad.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 09:28 PM
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Yea, typical insecure behaviour that comes from anyone unwilling to improve. I've had friends who do that to me. It sort of fizzled out as I stopped hanging out with them so much and started doing things with my life. That said, I as brought up with this behaviour. My family does it at times. I've learned to keep a distance. It left me feeling worthless as a kid, now it just shows me what insecurity looks like. You'll make better friends as you improve and likely won't need as many because you'l…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 09:19 PM
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I've noticed this as well. I was super inseure for years about it. Now I have that M in front and bald spot in back balding pattern and while it isn't the worst it Wil likely be, it doesn't stop me I'm any notcibae way. I'm sure there are women who wouldn't sleep with me because of it, but I've got some young playes so whatever.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 11:22 AM
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I do believe that, yes. Most mental illness is a product of unhealthy beliefs and lifestyle choices, often repeated unconsciously. Being around negative people spreads negativity, just as being around positive people spreads positivity. If you're around someone who is depressed and lives their life accordingly, eventually it'll rub off on you. Better to just leave in my opinion. I have yet to see evidence to the contrary.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 10:59 AM
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I have friends I've known since childhood who I couldn't convince to not get married. Something like that really only happens due to personal introspection. I tell them what I think because they know I do me, but whether they want to listen or not is up to them. For what it's worth, everyone here likes to give people shit for not just taking pussy because she'll give it out, but that's not the point. The point is you do what you think is right and if that's how you felt in that moment, then you …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 02:34 PM
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When I first got here I read the first 4 years of TRP and learned more than I coukd have asked for so I'll definitely read these. I just wish you weren't so wordy in all honesty. I feel like your articles could often be shortened and digested better that way, but none the less you've got great stuff. I'm especially glad that you seem to actually think about the topics from different perspectives and come to conclusions logically and via observation. A lot of stuff I see around here has an undert…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 10:24 PM
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My ex wasnt a boogyman I use for projection, she was a legitimately disturbed individual who had severe problems and left a trail of disaster behind her, as well as a wonderfully tragic learning experience. There is no jerk reaction in my comment. People should be aware of the damage that can be caused by individuals with mental issues. Your post shrinks legitimate issues down to nothing. You wrote that "for most people killing is something they wold do if they missed a few meals." That's incred…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 10:19 PM
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I'm going to second this with an actual example of what not to do: I had an ex that sent me a scathing, insulting text about how I was a piece of shit for not picking up weed for her broke ass one time while I was at work. I showed er the text later and she told me she didn't even remember sending it. For some stupid reason I assumed the poor girl must have some kind of mental issue and decided to cotinue as if nothing happened. These kimd of occurences continued on and on until I was in complet…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 09:55 PM
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I agree with the part about you being the only one who can make you angry. That's just saying you need self-control. You should use your self-control to leave this women if she's making you unhappy.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 09:41 PM
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Live and learn. If a post helps people learn stuff it's all good. I was just hoping for something else is all.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 09:38 PM
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You sound like my BP ex. She was a big advocate of the "mental issues aren't a big deal" club. She was also a walking, talking wrecking ball. People with severe mental issues aren't the devil and can be handled with ease if you have boundaries firmly set in place. Those who don't have boundaries or don't have experience with them need to be taught, because yes, they can do serious damage, regardless of their intent. Moreover, if you're willingly dealing with these types, you need to look at why …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 09:24 PM
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Not sure that your title correctly identifies the post. I was thinking this article would be more about how to decide when or where to act and what to do while you bide tour time. There was a bit if that there in the sense of being prepared and waiting until the right moment to strike, but the has little to do with actually deciding when to pick your battles.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 12:57 PM
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This is pretty much the jist of it. People who feel they HAVE to help, lole it's an obligation of some kind, simply miss the big picture. Nothing is wrong, things just are. You do what you want with it. Those people are projecting their own problems onto the world and so they see themselves as some kind of wannabe hero. My old example was to be the most patient and understanding person ever, because I never had those things growing up. That's how I ended up dating a BP drug addict and ruining my…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 11:22 AM
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A lot of this I learned doing sales but it wasn't explained as well. Thanks, cool post.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 11:11 AM
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The thing I've realized is that people simply don't want to see reality. Nothing you say or do can change their opinion, the best you can do is point them in the right direction and hope they follow. It's not my job to fix a world I didn't break. Hell, I don't even much care about doing the "right thing" anymore. I just find it sad to see people I care about living in ways that make them unhappy. But that's their choice. I'll do my thing and be an example of what I want. They can follow if they …
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 03:08 AM
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I often compare these growth spurts to addiction. They are in a sense, since addiction in a chemical bond to an abusive substance, so are our old habits and lifestyles creating a chemical bond to our outdated, detrimental ways of living. Only when we "quit" continuing the old habits lIke we would stop using a drug do we see the damage it was doing in retrospect and replace it with something productive. It's pretty much the same thing. Knowing that certainly take the magic out of life but it also…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 11:43 PM
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I was just making an general analogy, don't take it literally. A lot of parents are useless. Half the subscribers here are proof of that.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 08:37 PM
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Whenever I read this stuff I remember the tines in my life when I just wanted to make out and maybe touch a boob. I think about how unpopular and how much of a loser I was and how nobody gave a shit and how I just couldn't understand why, when I was such a legitimately interesting, hard working and cool guy nobody would give a shit about me enough to even be interested. Now, after trying and failing and not giving up, now when Ive improved to a point where I don't have a problem getting laid, wh…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 08:36 PM
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I've gone through times when I didn't follow thus and times when I did and the times I did I had far more success with everything. I tend to not do it when I'm feeling low, which is a bad call because nor doing it actually makes me feel better about things. People will also often realize their talking too much and then become more open and interested in you when you listen. If they don't you can easily figure out the type of person they are as well as get information on them. The benefites of sh…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 08:25 PM
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9: You never know how he'll react when your constant nagging, bitching, blaming, projecting and assuming will make him snap 10: You get bored because HE JUST WON'T GET MAD AT YOU FOR ACTING LIKE A TWAT WTF!?!? 11: You just keep watching him and never look at yourself and your actions so it's all his fault. Eventually he will turn into an asshole anyway so why wouldn't it be? 12: Shit, I probably shouldn't have put my pussy on a silver plate at a buffet of horny assholes and had all that sausage …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 07:42 PM
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Everyone gets selfish when they want something and indifferent when they don't. That's life. The women don't want to fuck this dude so it see it as silly. Like a child running around a candy store losing his mind. If it was someome else's kid they would laugh at how silly it is. If it was their child, they would scold him and tell him to act better.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 07:32 PM
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It sounds like due to her work she actually had to improve herself. That's ironic given the normal mindset of career women and her industry, but makes sense. She gets the dynamic and plays her part like a pro. I don't doubt the quality sex. I briefly dated a former model/burlesque dancer/ Hugh end escourt who was one of the fittest, best maintained women I've ever slept with. She came multiple times every session and knew how to have fun. It was literally a workout fucking her, but it actually f…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 06:53 PM
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It's fairly physical, though I'm not lugging heavy stuff all day There's a good amount of lifting and movement and I'm in my feet virtually all day. I still think I'm going to try 3000 calories and really watch what I'm eating on weekends because I know I need to watch that. I'm also joining a gym next week so I'll have access to more equipment for lifting than the dumbells I currently use. It seems salt, sugar and the amount of calories are what people are debating abiut most here so I'll start…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 06:38 PM
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I know. Everything has to be taken in context and most of it with a grain of salt. That said, whike I can see a guy being attractive and more successful around 30-40 I can't see it in the same way for a women. It's just due to out biological and social differences.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 06:31 PM
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So what the hell do I put in my body to avoid sugar? 25 grams is insane to me, I have no idea how to even get close to that.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 10:20 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 10:09 PM
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I have the rice for lunch at work and I do manual Labour. It's also probably only about half a cup, give or take. I don't know if eating it every day is bad though. It's also mixed with veggies and chicken. I prep it for work every week. The yogurt is plain Greek so it's about 6-8 grams of sugar per serving but have at least 15 grams of protien as well. You think I should try cutting it anyway? I'm definitely going to cut my calories next week because judging from what people are saying I'm cons…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 10:07 PM
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I would have assumed the beginning is 30 for men. But hey, that's fine by me. More time to prepare.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 09:59 PM
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Then maybe I'm just eating too much. I rarely eat bread, I don't eat a lot of pasts and not often, though I do eat bazmati white rice. My breakfast contains 2 cups of milk (non lactose now) and plain Greek yogurt and my dinners are usually chicken/tuna with something low key like rice. Occasionally I'll habe bread or pasta but it's a low amount, maybe a cup or 100 grams of bread. I do fuck around pretty heavily on weekends though so constancy on thise days isnt there.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 04:47 PM
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I agree but there's not much that can be done about it so it's best to just focus on what you can do now. Bare in mind most other people aren't all that much better in many ways and you only have to beat yourself in life. It's rare that someone had great, fully aware parents these days.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 11:01 AM
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If you're in someone else's turf, respect their rules. I don't understand why people wouldn't. You're visiting another culture, why wouldn't you respect that?
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 10:50 AM
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I'd say I noticed it to some degree in my early 20's, but I was too insecure and clueless to put the pieces together. It only began to make sense by my mid 20's and I'd say I only fully grasped the concept a couple years ago. I'm still in the early stages of improvement as is and I slip up from time to time, but I'm getting there. I wish that I knew what I know now when I was younger, but that can't be helped. I'll just go with the flow and direct it as best I can. I have some regrets for sure, …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 01:24 AM
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How do you eliminate carbs and eat healthy if vegetable have carbs? I don't get this.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 01:21 AM
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What can I replace milk with? I drink it because it's a lot of protien but I've switched to lactose free because it's less sugar and generally better (judging from the nutritional facts anyway). Also I use olive oil for cooking fairly regularily, though not much. Not sure what I could replace that with either.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 01:18 AM
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That's it? Mayne that's my problem then. I've been doing about 3400 calories to try and gain muscle for the last year or so but it's hard to eat that many, let alone eat that many healthily. chicken and veggies don't have that many calories after all. I'm going to cut down to 3000 for a bit then I'll have to experiment to see what works as I go lower.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 12:55 AM
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Can anyone recommend a solid book or two for learning about nutrition? I know the basics and they work to some degree, but I eat pretty solid and I still have more fat than I'd like. I'm pretty sure it's not loose skin but I can't get rid of it despite some fairly intense weightlifting and generally eating well. What I'm looking for is something that explains things like the different types of fats, protien and carbs. I'd have much better luck creating a solid meal plan if I knew what I was look…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 12:47 AM
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One of my plates mothers wanted to invite me to her 40th bday. The Lome on the card was "They say life begins at 40." I literally laughed out loud. I've NEVER heard anyone say that, but I guess it's becoming a thing for more people who've failed to secure themselves and have plenty of regrets.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 12:23 AM
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I've noticed this growing up. A lot of habits I had were straight out of my parents rulebook. Dating my ex showed me a lot of them. I see more as time goes on. It's because we learned from them as kids. Once you become aware of these patterns it's best to change them, but it can be difficult after doing them unconsciously for so long.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 05:03 PM
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That attitude mad eme feel worthless growing up. I recall sitting in a doctors office months after going off anti-depresses (I decided to stop when I legally wasn't under guardianship) and my mother blew up at the doctor telling him I got angry much faster and all kinds of shit like that. She was half right, I was experiencing feelings without medicated sedation and she always had a knack for pissing me off. That said, the doctor told her I seemed just fine and she immediately changed her tune. …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 05:02 PM
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That's a valid point I've noticed. In the world we live in stoicism tends to get you walked on and used. I like the idea but it's useless for achieving anything outside of personal satisfaction. That alone can go a long way but being happy with yourself isn't easy if you can't afford to take a day off work when you're sick because you're too broke. I think you nailed it with the idea of using stoicism to improve yourself physically and mentally, but machavalianism within groups is probably somet…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 10:30 PM
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I had the same problem. My impression of it was that it was another "cultivate a positive mindset" book in the same catagory as The Power Of Now or countless others. I only got through a couple of chapters before the similarities were enough for me to not care. Perhaps it gets better but I doubt it.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 10:22 PM
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That's a mouthful, but very accurate. If you have anything off the top of your head relating to schizophrenia that's worth reading let me know. I've been interested in reading more due to my belief that schizoid behaviour is far more akin to BPD+cognitive dissonance than a more or less genetic disposition. On another note, I have a plate who exhibits this insane lack of self. Shes incredibly submissive and never has an opinion other than what I want. I mean literally she always says she wants wh…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 10:07 PM
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In calling bullshit on the dad thing. I know a lot of girls that love their dad's but their dad's are pissed who spoil them. A friend of mine has a father who gets her weed and blazes with her and she's as useless as they come and only getting worse. I slept with a girl a few weeks ago within a few hours of meeting and she told me all about her travelling/partying and basically had ted flags on display for miles who loves her "progressive dad who just gets it." and even my sister was close to my…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 09:44 PM
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"She told me to do it" would at worst mean an idiot is in prison.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 09:36 PM
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I'd extend that logic. I have great success by outwardly stating red pill beliefs.... from the woman's perspective. Case in point, met a girl on the beach some weeks back. We ended up talking, I figured her out (not hard, she hit on me immediately, made a comment about wanting babies with "someone like me", she was drunk and smoked, had tats and piercings, loved to travel, etc etc, so whike throwing in some flirty comments and non-judgemental attitude, we inevitably got to the subject of men and…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 07:16 PM
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Any group that shows up to male noise when something they don't like happens in their backyard is part of the problem. These groups never seem to show up with a solution, they simple yell about how unfair the world is and how they demand somethinf until they get some attention. And people give it to them because no one seems to know how to ignore temper tantrums anymore. If we left them alone they'd either dissappear or start commuting real crimes in which we could arrest them for.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 07:05 PM
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Lower the burden of proof is far easier than increasing it in this day and age. Don't forget, everyone is a victim except white males.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 06:57 PM
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This was a good story and I'm glad it worked out. All that gies throygh my heaf is: My friend's got a girlfriend and he hates that bitch. He tells me every day. He says "man I really gotta lose my chick" in the worst kind of way.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 02:34 PM
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Her "Objective Men" part is basically how it is now. Look where that got us. But what do you expect from a piece written by a girl who fucked everything and got raped? She harbors anger, resentment, shame, and a healthy dose of self-pity and lack of ownership of her actions. Like virtually every slut I know, her writing reeks of a core of awareness covered with a blame for men. Fuck this shit.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 11:20 AM
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Wouldn't doubt it. I used to do it fairly frequently and I noticed a certain level of improvement in that area. It makes sense. If tou want to do it well you have to focus on a number of things at once; Language, pronunciation, tempo/pacing, you have to be quick and you have to think about increasing your vocabulary to improve your skills. It also helped when If give myself an image to freestyle about. For example I used to do it while I was making breakfast and just spit about what I as doing f…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 09:50 PM
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It's just bullshit spewed to male themselves feel better. They probably know what's up and are just deluding themselves so they feel better in keeping with the feels before reals mentality we talk about here. What bothers me is that they'll likely end up believing their own bullshit. This sort of reminds me of something else that happened recently. I was talking to my mother recently and she mentioned how her best friends daughter is dating a dentist and how she has to listen to all this talk ab…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 09:34 PM
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I've experienced this. I remember being at a bar for a friend's birthday and buying some shots when this ugly girl started giving me sass. I teased her and brushed her off but she tried to take one of my shots saying "I'm a girl, give me alcohol." I was disgusted. She was also from Somalia judging by her looks, so I was also weirded out that a girl from a developing country acted with such entitlement as that's not what I tend to expect from them. I gave her a deaths star and told her to put it …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 09:25 PM
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That's amazing in the worst way possible.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 04:52 PM
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That's a really good point I hadn't considered, but in my experience with people mental illnesses is that you can't do a thing about it. It's entirely up to them.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 04:44 PM
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Can you give me any info pertaining to the best paths to take in the trades? I'm taking a pre-apprentiship for plumbing starting next month and am looking for any info that could help out along the way. I'm specifically wondering about how to find apprenticeships and/or get into the union. I basically have no info right now so anything you can think of that's worth knowing would be appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 11:16 AM
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She's saying he barely spends time with the kid and stopped paying child support. She sounds like a moron but I don't know why youre praising the guy for his actions either. Frankly I'd say their both shit heads and that kid is fucked.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 10:42 AM
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My dad did this with my sister when I was a kid. Wed always fight so eventually I stopped wanting to see him. At that point he'd always go and do fun things with my sister and never invite me along. I remember being really hurt and insulted because a couple I tines they went to these comic festivals and as a kid I wanted to be a comic illustrator, so it was a total slap in the fave that I wasnt invited. Then of course my mother would talk shit about him and how fucked that was so that she could …
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 02:37 PM
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One good way to change is to look at the actions of others as if you were the one doing them, then ask yourself why you would do what they did. So if someome says something rude, ask yourself why you would do that if the roles were reversed. I've found doing this is immensely eye opening. For example, when I reflected on my relationship with my ex, I thought about why she would throw temper tantrums or scream or yell or do the things she did as if I was the one doing it and it hit me: She did it…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 02:33 PM
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That's interesting because my mother would always ask me what I wanted and never seemed to know anything about me. It was weird growing up because all I did was play video games so I figured it should be easy, but I later realized that because she never asked about my likes or dislikes or seemed to care about my interests, she literally never knew what I wanted. Then I realized that my birthdays, Christmas, all that stuff, it was never about giving or sharing or enjoying company to her; it was a…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 02:22 PM
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This is true. I keep low contact with my parents because their way of living is scripted. Growing up I was pretty spontaneous and outgoing but they constantly cautioned, criticised, shunned and controlled me until I was made me feel useless as a person and while I accept the past and understand it now, I'd be lying if I said I had respect for them as parents, or even in many ways as full people or adults. I see them as children. I know their intent was to protect me, but they have toxic, control…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 02:12 PM
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This I'd something I realized about my life too. Id bed a lot of people here gree up in this kind of environment, or variations of it. I realized at one point my ex was basically lole my mother and I ended up using that information to look inward and my issues, eventually ending up here. Its tough to realize the people who were supposed to raise you up and release tou into the world with confidance and drive end up leaving you restrained and weak, often because they were weak. Still, if you look…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 01:41 PM
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I can't speak for somewhere I haven't been, but this behaviour sounds like most people with entitlement issues. As for beautiful women, I find most Italians aren't all that attractive. something about their features just doesn't pop for me, though I certainly don't think they're ugly in general either. I do notice a lot of gaudy, tacky, wanna be rich dress styles with them though. That style and attitude has never been attractive to me though. It screams materialistic and shouts lack of personal…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 07:32 PM
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I see it goes beyond men and women now. It's everywhere. The victim mentality so many live off feeds into this notion of the world needing to change them, so they do what their niche in society tells them to do. I first noticed how good it felt to stand up and do what had to be done when I was in my teens and since then I've not been able to accept the victim mentality. Eventually it got to a point where no matter what happened, I viewed it as my fault simply so I could create a solution. That m…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 11:25 AM
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It prioritizes what's important. Are you really going to spend a year being mad at something someone did to you if you only have 2 years left to live? Yea, didn't think so. It's a great reminder to get over things. As my buddy said "If something isn't going to bother me in 6 months there's no point in worrying about it."
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 11:17 AM
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He may not deserve the situation he's in but my sympathy is limited because that was fucking stupid on his part. It would take someone pretty dense to try and deny that he put himself in this position. I mean, you're daughters friend, during a sleepover, and he's drunk? Really? What part of that seems like a good idea? Is this guy retarded?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 11:10 AM
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My dog was similar. My mom used to feed him and her and my sister both have him too much attention but when it came to listening and being loyal, he was my dog.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 10:47 AM
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Maybe your buddy is codependent. It doesn't make much sense to have a guest bed "just because." Does he want people mooching his apartment? I mean fuck, I had a friend crashing at my place for almost an entire summer because I lived close to the dt area of my city. She slept on the couch. She also cleaned the apartment a lot which was cool.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 10:24 PM
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Hahaha, no fucking way. Nobody will listen to reason if they're that brainwashed. I follow the advice I was given at a friends party where a drunk buddy footed the 500+ bill spontaneously due to alcohol" If the dude is drunk enough to foot the bill, let him do it and learn his lesson."
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 10:20 PM
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I knew a weird dying guy who was a friend someone who used to be my friend. He was talking about how he couldn't get women so he'd just fuck my gay friend. He caked it being bi-flexible. I call it beigagrasy drug addict whos getting fucked by a gay meth head. Some other dude was there at one point who was a male sugar bab to some doctor. He talked proudly about ducking some dudes dick for cash, but I detected a sense of insecurity about it. Oddly enough he was the most normal of the lot. Regardl…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 10:15 PM
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To pony off this, there was a TED talk I saw ages ago with a basic premis: Too many options leave us paralyzed to act. If you go to the store to buy mustard and there's 80 brands with 30 flavors each, what the hell do you do? If you don't have a foundation in which to act, you could be there for ahes trying to figure out which is best. Now take that to sexuality and gender. You know a dick makes you a dude and boons and a vagina make you a woman. Until you yell people that, oh, actually, youre s…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 10:07 PM
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This is the key. To learn and grow we need to imitate to a degree. We're all human and we learn through that imitation. The problem is as tou said. During our need to mass produce note and more ways to entertain the markets we repeat the same message and water it down again and again until the message is drivel. It was novel the first time someone threw out logic to sell something with a silky emotional message that lacked information, but it's so mainstream now that people think mocking and get…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 04:55 PM
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It's just worse now because everyone is connected via social media and things like TV have progressed to the point where there's virtually no reason you can't always have something to distract you. Before when people didn't have access to things like TV you had to make your own fun. There may have been a society of followers but there was still reality because fun necessitated doing more than sitting on your ass.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 04:39 PM
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Agreed. On a side note, it becomes very noticeable if you stop keeping up with general distractions. TV, movies, games, the news. Drop these things and focus on yourself. It becomes insanely hard to have a natural flowing conversation with a majority of people. They just don't seem to be able to talk about much of anything else.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 11:14 AM
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I'm Italian on my father's side. I've seen it. Your bfs situation is the same by the sounds of it. My boss likes to act like she has a clue and talk big (and condescending if you dare to say something she doesnt like) but she's useless. Granted, she's a party girl SO I don't expeect much. At least she shows up, but it's her management style, or lack thereof that kills me. The turnover rate is as bad as a street fundraising company I worked at some time ago. Tbe difference is that job required ma…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 10:28 PM
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Yea, willpower is a muscle. You get more by using it more. The more you see yourself succeed the more tlthay success becomes easier and you push yourself for more, continually improving. Never heard of loop habit tracker before. I use my fitness pal now though. I never new how bad I ate before. Seriously upped the chicken and veggies once I started using it. It's damn hard to keep under my fat goal I'd I eat other things. And processed food? Holy fuck one meal is easily half to a full days worth…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 10:14 PM
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This woman is a straight up ci descending cunt. Fuck her.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 02:24 PM
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Either way it goes without saying that single mothers are a problem. Not to mention they always, always talk shit about the father. My own mother did this my entire life and every single mother Ive known does it too.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 11:15 AM
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Their defending their ego based opinion fed to them through society. They haven't hadn't the balls or courage to try and fail and learn and yet because they scream the loudest, we listen. Maybe it's because the people who have learned are busy doing what they need to do for themselves, but I'd like to see a shift where people with real knowledge and experience start calling this shit out when it comes into view.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 11:12 AM
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Johnny Depp isn't exactly the sharpest tool in the shed. He was an oddball who happened to be odd enough and directed enough to land himself in a good position. He's hardly a multi faceted individual. I mean he's been playing the same role pretty much forever.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 11:09 AM
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Consider it harshness based on anger at society for shoving these beliefs down people throats their whole lives. There's a reason people go through the anger phase when they realize reality. They feel stupid for believing such obvious bullshit. Especially because they likely knew it was bullshit deep down. When they wise up, it's more like they finally accepted reality than actually learned a truth, so they shit on it everywhere they see it. I doubt it's meant to be arrogant much of the time, mo…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 11:08 AM
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I'm at this point as well. I slip up occasionally and smoke or drink and I tend to get lethargic when I do. I've realized I liked the clarity of being sober and I don't want drugs in my life unless I've hit a point I'm satisfied with. Maybe not eventirely then. What I do notice is that I'm sharper, more consistent, more sociable and all around better when I'm sober. I also notice I genuinely tend to enjoy my alone time sober as opposed to just feeling like I need to relax. My willpower also goes…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 10:58 AM
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It's funny, I exercise regularly and occasionally when I start to get lazy I may try and talk myself out of a workout but as soon as I lift a dumbell I get hit by a wave of excitement.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 10:55 AM
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I agree and it makes sense, however it's a simple Labour job I took to gain experience as I've never worked in this type of environment and I plan on getting into the trades. I wanted experience and I got it and the consistency helped me pay off some debts and get back on track. I plan on leaving next month, Im just waiting to be reimbursed for some benefites before I leave.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 09:31 PM
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What's wrong with me is that I had no experience in the Labour industry and that I'm going to be attending a school for the trades. A place with shit management but few repercussions because of it is a good enough place to learn and get by. It's a pain in the ass but it's been a year and I now have enough skills and knowledge to feel comfortable working in this environment. It was a deliberate choice, though not necessarily please. Anyway I'm leaving soon, I've more or less got what I need.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 07:13 PM
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It'll pass eventually. How long depends on various factors and your actions but it'll pass. In the meantime it's best to focus on yourself and what you want and start defining your boundaries.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 11:15 AM
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The company I work at is owned by an Italian Immigrant. He's a mean, shady dude but he knows his shit despite the fact that I wouldn't want to be under his cheap, arrogant ass. My area of the company is handled by his daughter, who is useless. Words can't describe it. Shes not only inept, she's a hypocrite, arrogant, cheap, demanding and downright cruel. She seems to think she works hard but the most I've ever seen her do is send an email and she cut paper into squares so we could write labels f…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 11:04 AM
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I was hoping you were Taylor Swift. Damn.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 07:02 PM
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We all start with different traits and grow up in unique ways. Our experiences are ours. We all learn things in different ways at different times. What's important is being open to new minarets, experiences and opportunities. It's what keeps life fresh. Your username made me laugh btw. Why do you have that? Please tell me there's a joke there.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 06:00 AM
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This is one of the most profound things tou can realize. Learning that you can change habits and lifestyles to adjust and tweak it is nuts, but it works. I found it accidently through drugs, then realized the same reactions came from almost every facet of life. It takes some willpower to break old, satisfying habits, but its so beneficial to do it in the right ways. The biggest issue with it to me is that our social is so overstimulated from everything and we don't seem to have a clue. A good vi…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 05:54 AM
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You're right in that you will have to direct efforts towards that end, but it's not entirely unrelated. If you work out consistently that helps by giving you easier openings. If you make bank it will allow you more freedoms when out on dates and the like. More knowledge, especially I'm the realm of social skills/ dynamics all male gaming easier. It true that you have to direct energy away from these things when dating, but considering how much easier it is to get numbers and dates when you're ou…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 05:43 AM
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It's not just sad that the code pendant defends/ enables the partner at their own risk, it's sad that they will likely end up partaking in the same behaviour as well. Double whammy in the making.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 07:43 PM
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Landmark had valid strategies and their advice works. It works because it's common sense mixed with an open mind and it gets you to examine YOUR actions instead of everyone else's then take action on the realizations, even when you're hesitant. It's not rocket science. The same information is availible in many other places without the Landmark gimmick-speak. I don't have anything against landmark personally. I got a lot of information out of it and I actually learned a bit about myself as well. …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 02:44 PM
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I disagree heavily with this one. Your terms are too vague and essentially say the same thing. Even an idiot stumbles across legitimate information from time to time and can pass it down. It's not as simple as being aware or not. We all come to awareness in a compartmentalized way. That is, you learn bit by bit in areas you study or experience. In certain deep rooted areas some people may never wise up, such as betas with women, but that doesn't mean a beta can't know enough about business and s…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 09:11 PM
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By your calculations I'm and 8-10 SMV. Cool. I mean it's not true, but cool.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 08:55 PM
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I went to a Landmark seminar and they sell the same shit. Then they try to get you to partake in a pyramid scheme/ network marketing" aspect of it to recruit people. It's simultaneously sketchy as fuck and very effective. The people eat it hook line and sinker and seem unable to distinguish where the business and self-help lines are drawn. It's cult-like. They even thank you for doing business with them and people don't see it.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 04:54 PM
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I was literally thinking about this a few hours ago. When you tell people how tough it is improving yourself they hear it as bitch ing and complaining. When you tell them how far you've gotten they hear it as gloating and bragging. Then when you're where you want to be they want to k ow your secret lile you weren't telling them the whole time. That's why I'm learning to stop sharing my personal stories and focus on the outer frame. It's told here often that that's what you should do and it's ver…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 04:51 PM
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A lot of self help stuff is just long, drawn out ways of saying suck it up, don't make excuses and look at your actions. They just invent bullshit terms like "pain body" or the "already always listening" and sell the obvious to you at mint prices. People eat it up because it convently sidesteps their ego while still getting them to do what they need to. It's no surprise that his work would be RP. He's highly regarded as motivational and his band is fairly well known. Once again, TRP is just plai…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 04:48 PM
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Im halfway with you. Strong men aren't born and with no role Modals they certainly won't exist the same way. This is true for feminine women as well and you're right about there being little no no payoff in modern times. What I disagree with you on is on the foundations of this. what I've found through my life is that when you act the part of the alpha (or essentially mature person) and you do it towards everyone, that's where you see the difference. You can be patient with a woman, a man, a chi…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 11:09 AM
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What he said was true. I took it to heart and over time Ive changed to a point where gay guys are interested but won't make a move and women do. It was an eye opener.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 11:15 AM
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Well considering it's you and your action that trigger IOI's this makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 10:56 AM
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I have mixed opinions on your topics at times but I agree with this. As soon as I read the first sentence it resonated. I was actually thinking about a lot of people I know recently and how they do a lot of drugs and party when I realized that my past drug use, and the occasions when I do them now, are from the want to experience that childlike sense of wonder and happiness without the weight of the world in the background. It's also the reason I rarely do drugs anymore. A break once in a while …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 09:29 PM
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Talk to a professional before you decide and make sure they know their shit. Any doc will likely give you med bit most are pretty useless with information. My personal experience on them is mixed. They did help me get through a rough patch but the positivity I got was also noticeably fake. It's like being high and okay with everything. I had a game plan before I went on them so I followed that and went off last year. I felt wonky for at least 6 months after though. The withdrawal was bad. Truth …
/r/askTRP17/08/16 05:15 PM
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It's entirely what you're giving off. I used to notice gay guys were very into me. I had an arrogance that was semi-alpha but also was somewhat flamboyant, aggreable and non-assertive. I asked a gay dude why gay guys were always into me. He told me it was because I was an asshole without being too much of an asshole. I then asked him why chicks weren't into me. He told me it was because I wasn't enough of an asshole. True story.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 11:26 AM
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That's probably the best way to give advice. It's like playing guitar. Every teacher will say just play it for 10 minutes a day and you'll learn. That's true of everything. People want change inmediatly and give up almost as fast when that doesn't happen. The only real trick is consistency.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 08:33 PM
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Game is just social dynamics at play. It's all how confidant you are and how much yourr willing to deal with bullshit. I've known that since I was a kid. In remember in grab 5 we used the term towards dudes and it hasn't changed, it's just become some kind of cult phenomenon. Even before any of this real change I still had enough pride in myself to get some pussy, and I didn't have a clue about anything. People who try really hard to game chicks are trying too hard. That's my opinion. It always …
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 08:31 PM
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I've seen this at play. It's true of men as well (betas rather) but it's predominant in women due to their more emotional basis. Insecure ones tend to exhibit this because they don't want to play the game. Black dudes often like big women so big women tend to develop more interest in them. Shy nerds women take attention whom whoever gives it, and nerds definitely give it. These are easy examples I've seen but there are many that run the gamut. That said, a lot of it is simply psychological and b…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 02:38 PM
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I agree with this. I do think there is an exception in how YOU yourself act so long as you are aware of the situation and don't disturb the mindsets of others. It's a fine line and one must tread carefully and walk the path with awareness or it will backfire.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 11:20 AM
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This hits home. Its rare that a person can take criticism. In guilty of this too in certain contexts. I imagine we all are. I've noticed a few things. -Pointing out the truth to others is often pointless. Even if they listen, they don't absorb. -If tou want to make them hear it, use yourself as an example. -Rather than explain something, give only actionable suggestions and only if they're asked of you. -If you agree with others to fit in, you often don't have to follow through on things tou say…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 11:15 AM
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It still throws me off sometimes. I grew up fat so that's what I notice, despite the obvious gains and that I've grown into my looks quite well. I didn't realize I'd come as far as I have until recently. I started to realize girls would touch my arms for seemingly no reason. They stare in the subway. They'd hover around me. Some would make small talk. A lot of my female friends act differently around me too and made me realize why men and women can't really be friends. Either way it's nice to be…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 01:30 AM
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My parents and specifically my dad are the same. They have such a specific way of seeing the world and how it should be. Their lives are objectively quit sad; my mom is barely getting by, living in govt housing and is perpetually miserable. My dad is doing better because he lives in my grandparents house and has for ages and had his own business that does alright when he puts effort in, though he claims to be broke constantly. He's also miserable however. They both live in their heads and can't …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 11:26 AM
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I dunno. My crazy ex was pretty hot and grew up fat, so she ended up with a sort of twisted l, false self-esteem. She knew her looks mattered and would use them, but she also had deep-seated insecurities from childhood that made her a mess. Of course, it's a variable that's different for everyone. Some people are generally more positive, more happy, more loyal, more caring. There's too many factors to count. Personally I'd just say he should be aware. From the sounds of it he's not entirely thou…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 10:59 PM
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This. I talk to people about this stuff all the time. The only difference is I do it with humour, self-awareness, confidence and change the terms at times. You just have to be non-judgemental and keep it light. The truth will come out.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 10:54 PM
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This. Also there's a bit of a connection in the sense that being physically attractive has certain elements that require self-awareness. Being ripped requires focus on training, dressing well requires attention to detail, having a good haircut and being well groomed requires time and effort. Since it tends to be the domain of women to focus on looks, it shouldn't be too surprising that gay men, who in a sense would have similarities to women in the way they look, would end up being caught in the…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 09:25 PM
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Trying to read, what is here, not sure I understood since, there's full sentences, with commas, and no reason for them, but something about the deliberate pacing, like you're trying to write as if in a teenage hipster collection of short stories, it's weird But the part about wanting to fuck some coworker, talking about how she loves that you cheated, doesn't sit well, kind of makes it seem like you're thinking about pointless wastes of time, for no reason, and dumping your brain thoughts here, …
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 07:07 PM
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I once had someone tell me they stopped using the words "I think" and changed them to "I feel" because then nobody coukd argue with her feelings.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 10:34 AM
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A true asshole is just as blind to the actions of others as a guy who's too nice. The only difference is one puts himself before everyone and the other puts everyone before himself. It's not shocking that the asshole looks like the better catch, but it's also not surprising that eventually you get tired of someone who doesn't give a fuck about you. A fully developed person is a balance of selfishness and selflessness. It's simply a matter of where, when and to whom they direct these actions. A f…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 01:43 AM
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One of the things that became very clear to me after being hung out to dry by an ex was that the pain I was feeling was coming because Id suffocated it for so long. At that point I decided to let it in and feel it. I actually cried a couple times, which is not something I do often. It really felt the negative emotions and understood the ramifications of my actions. During that time, while watching that pain and letting it in without excuses, I learned the actions that were hurting me and activel…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 01:39 AM
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This mindset was something I wanted to believe in when I was younger. I wish I'd never heard it. I have many things I love doing, but had a focused on a solid career 10 years ago I'd be able to invest in those interests now far easily, or at all. Better late than never though. At least I'm starting a game plan now.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 05:17 PM
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Bad jokes are fantastic for many reasons. Aside from the fact that they are often clever wordplay and generally funny, they tend to get an eye rolling reaction from people who misguided think they're better than that sense of humour. This allows for you to make an easy target of their holier the thou attitude whike having fun.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 11:11 AM
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Thinking about things and doing things are two opposing actions that work as two sides of the same coin. The key in life is to plan your next step, then act on it and do your best. When you finish, you reflect on the successes and failures and then go for your next objectI've, constantly learning and improving. While you act however, you just do you and don't worry about overanalyzing everything.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 12:08 AM
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A lot of what is spoken about here, the do's and dont's come from the biological basis of social dynamics. They don't take into account every aspect of how people are raised or how they think, how they feel, what they want and all that stuff that comes from living life. It's a solid groundwork for personal improvement and seeing the nature of things through a fog of advertisements and pc culture. It helps explain inconsistencies in ourselves that we may be unaware of. It's helps us grow by point…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 12:05 AM
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Well hopefully you were able to pinpoint the part of you that made you decide to stick around that kind of psychopath. I was raised to be a nice guy and had a sense of martyrdom that kept me punishing myself for her. I used to act like that when I was a kid so I sort of understood thr pain she was feeling. Apparently not once during that relationship did I consider the fact that I stopped acting that way when I was 16 and started having a much, much better life as a result. I guess I never kille…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 03:00 PM
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More like a slam and scram tbh
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 10:12 PM
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My old man's the same. Talking to him is mostly just saying things as he ignores me or interprets what I say into something he can go on a tangent about. His advice hasn't changed since I was 4 and he never asks for my reasoning, mostly because I don't think he rationally thinks his thoughts through.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 09:55 PM
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Sucks when I hear this. My mother wasn't as bad by any stretch but her lack of ability to see me as a full person made my life hell for many years. I remember sitting in the doctors office when I was 18 and decided to not be on medications she had me on since the age of 7 anymore. It had been 6 months of being off them and I was starting to adjust. The doctor asked me how I was and I said I was doing well. My mom burst into a fit about how I was angrier, more snappy and a bunch of other things. …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 07:00 PM
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Nice self-awareness of your improvement. I had a similar issue why my dad, who is similar to yours some time ago where I told him some truths and he got mad saying I was wrong and basically sitting on my opinion. He also gave me shit for not being thete for the family, which for a guy who I saw once every two weeks when I was a kid and barely ever after I turned 16 and who make do effort to reach out to me, I found that to be pretty ironic. We've since more or less made up but it's specifically …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 06:55 PM
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I see you've dated my ex. Seriously though, the threats of suicide, the constant "I'm better than you" comments, they get to you. My favourite one was how she'd constantly explode and then when she calmed down and I wasn't bothering with her she'd back handedly tell me she didn't want me to have to walk on eggshells around her. Like holy fuck. On the upside it helped me realize that the fact I'd put up with that shit was the bigger issue.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 05:09 PM
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This is it in a nutshell. Sadly many parents are useless. Many seem to think feeding your kid and having a home are all they need, if they even get that. They don't take into consideration the fact that their kids need to develop emotionally and mentally and they don't nurture them to do so. It's sad, but that's how it is. I suppose when you come out of someone, they tend to think of you ad their property and simply project what they want onto you.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 05:05 PM
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When I first got into a relationship with a bpd ex I thought it was sort of cute at first and let her get away with it. Eventually it became controlling and she would try to manipulate me with temper tantrums and suicide threats whenever I wanted to do something she didn't or without her. I actually thought I was being the bad guy and felt immense guilt due to what I was taught my role in the relationship was. Mind you, I still went, because fuck that. That slowly kicked off me finding this plac…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 05:02 PM
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This is true of anything you don't take a break from. Everything in moderation. I agree with you on the women posts. While the idea of AWALT may prove true, it's not like all women are pieces of shit. More importantly, how you are treated is representative of where you are in life. If you take everything here literally it's not good. You never know the situation of the person writing the post, you never know the situation of the women they talk about or the circumstances they describe. It's all …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 04:56 PM
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I get that and there may well be. In the end it doesn't change how she's lived her life though.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 11:06 AM
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Probably because when someome gives you a compliment that doesn't line up with their actions its pretty obvious that it's just talk.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 11:05 AM
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I remember at my first job my boss (who is still a party girl in her 40s+) once told me I'd make a great husband one day. At the time I was barely social, let alone versed in understanding these things and it still had a backhanded feel to it, though I didn't know why.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 10:23 PM
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This isn't a bad idea. I cut a lot of my friends who never made an effort and kept some who are good company, productive or have helped me in the past. Despite TRPs hatred of the idea of female friends (and I agree with that for the most part), I do have female friends who have gone out of their way to help me out. That said, I was realistic about it and did cut the lady friends who I initially wanted to fuck, so there's that. Still, not everything has to be as black and white as we make it. It …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 10:21 PM
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This may be true but it doesn't mean she has to be a bitch. I understand people get hurt and abused and it leads them to a miserable existence, but it's their choice to continue living like that, regardless of how they may see it. My mother meant well, but was a terrible person as far as male child goes. I don't resent her anymore, but I do view her miserable life as a consequence of her own actions. That's life.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 10:16 PM
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They're already depressed and at least some of it is directly tied to their actions. More of it is probably indirectly tied to their actions as well. I know from my own experience dealing with depression that it takes new actions and lifestyle changes to beat it. That can change you in the eyes of others, but who cares? You weren't happy, so change.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 09:55 PM
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You're points all hit home. I once told someome depression is a choice. That's a lousy way to say it. More appropriately it's the lack of choice. The easy path of repition you continue to choose. Realistically depression can only be beaten through proving to yourself you can beat it. Since it can't be faught directly, you have to feed the subconscious with confidence. The only way to build inner confidence is to beat struggle. This is why exercise works. It's why meditation works. It's why diet …
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 01:15 AM
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You explain these concepts well and I agree with you. There's a very subtle difference sometimes between narcissism and real confidence because our identities are tied into so many material aspects of life. Whittling those unhealthy attachments down is absolutely vital for happiness. The easy example for me to give is that I used to own a Ron of movies. They were good. I have good taste and wide appreciatiom in things like music and movies and the like. I sedan to display all this stuff so when …
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 07:21 PM
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I'm glad to see this. TRP is constantly used as a forum for getting women, and it certainly is about that, but the core is about what you see now. It's very liberating to see reality for what it is and understand what you need. Congrats on seeing the big picture. Hope you are able to tailor it to what you want out of life.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 07:10 PM
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They both have consequences. I will concede that despite ending up feeling like I was somehow broken or not good enough, it certainly taught me to work hard. The flips idea is when I did get compliments, they were always on things I never cared about but that pleased my parents. That contributed to being a people pleaser. Regardless, very few people I know with kids treat their kids fully as people. That's a necessary thing. Teach reality and teach character.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 08:33 PM
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I had a similar upbringing with an absent father who never had time for me and a caring but clueless and emotionally unavailable mother. The advice I got as a kid and the things I went through against my will (and frankly against common sense) still make me roll my eyes to this day. I genuinely believe my parents mean well, and they help in certain ways, but they aren't good for bringing out confidence. Only when I was sent off to a boot camp type thing did I start to come into my own. They had …
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 11:28 AM
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That's nuts. I've never had anything like that. Closest thig I can think of was a couple of lady friends years ago drunk on a bus. They got into with some dude who was in a bad mood. They were getting beligerent and had my buddy not told them to calm down by pointing out I might have to fight this guy if they kept it up, I would have a rally ended up in a fight because he was getting pissed. My body actually started getting adrenalin ready and I could feel it because one more bad move and it wou…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 05:19 PM
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I also learned this way. I thinks it's pretty simple. Through exposure you learn the generals rules of interacting so you know what to do, you fail some interactions so you get used to rejection as well as learn what to avoid, then you succeed which builds confidence. It's like anything. The more you do it the easier it gets as it moves from conscious thought into subconscious behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 05:20 PM
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People internalize that mindset because it's easier to give up on themselves and do what others say than to have to figure out what they actually want. Especially because what they want may well go against the norm, thus cause them a degree of ostrasization from their social circles. But I always wonder, why be around thise who would shame you for doing what you want? The best people are thise who understand you aren't them and appreciate your differences even if they don't agree with them. It's…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 03:41 PM
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Hahaha, it's always this. My ex's lazy, idiot brother came to stay with us when he was getting set up in our city. He was a demanding, rude, idiot with no respect or appreciation. Just before we broke up and I kicked his ass out my ex told me to just "man up" and deal with him. This of course came from her mother who's words she was repeating. The joke here is that her brother was living with her mom before us and I was essentially supposed to man up and clean up her mother's mess of a son as we…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 03:37 PM
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I'm not like other girls = "I have mental and social issues"
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 03:34 PM
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Everyone who spends their time specializing in something will be lacking somewhere else. It's the nature of things. It's no surprise they overcompensate from their strengths to hide their weaknesses. By extension, this logic makes it easy to see why Men and women need differing roles.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/16 02:06 PM
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Holy shit I just burst out laughing!
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 10:01 PM
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To add to this, every emotion is just chemicals in your brain releasing for various reasons. This is how we condition ourselves and develop addictions. Something like eating releases dopamine naturally. Drugs release it forcibly and in greater doses. Once you are aware of the connections and how they form you are free to change them as you will. It will be forced at first, but then it will stick. As an example, here we say lift. At first people hate it. As their body changes, their strength incr…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 06:26 PM
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I recall an obvious realization I had at one point when I was quite bitter about life. I understood a lot of RP concepts innately and psychological research, which I find fascinating but many people don't, had filled in many blanks.I remember being angry at people for making poor decisions because I knew how the brain worked from a psychological and biological aspect, and I always wondered why people would do things they knew would destroy their futures, reputations and happiness for what seemed…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 11:19 AM
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On the same note they say psychiatrists tend to gravitate towards that field because of their subconscious desire to fix themselves causes them to want to fix others, possibly to avoid fixing themselves.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 11:07 AM
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Never seen that show, but I've been with friends watching Big Bang Theory and it makes me want to pound a nail into my dick. Aside from the fact that it mocks nerds despite selling itself to them, it's poorly written, unfunny in general and disgusting in its role reversal.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 11:24 AM
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Thus happened to me when I stopped drinking/ drugs. People would try to mock me or make me feel silly for not doing it. Eventually you realize they're just insecure. If I want to do something, I will. If I don't, I won't. It's self control. No one else gets to decide for me. I started making jokes about them being pushers and hinted at their I security and it shut them up.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 11:20 AM
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It's funny how deep into our own bullshit we get. My ex pulled some ridiculous shit that I idiotically followed because I was never taught how women worked. I remember her throwing temper tantrums, embarrassing me, insulting and attacking me verbally and physically. I remember sleeping on my couch one night in the apartment I paid for (along with everything else including the he'd she slept on that night) because she didn't want to make a pie and I suggested she make it another night and juse ma…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 11:12 AM
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In today's world that's really important. With simple truths being ignored were note headed in a positive direction. There's so much confusion about what should be done and from my experience it tends to stem from the fact that we ignore our biological drives. As humans were a lucky species I'm that we can override our natural impulses with conscious thought and do amazing things. But that doesn't mean we should forget what we are. It's only causing problems.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 10:58 AM
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That's what I mean when I said your comments have a vague or abstract aspect to them. It's like youre trying to connect the dots in their mind to the thoughts in yours, but they aren't lining up.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 06:51 PM
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Yea, this is literally how it looks. My sympathy wears thin when I think about the fact that people make their own decisions in life. BPDs may be messed up people, but that's their problem. The way they treat others ensures the cycle continues and leaves a path of destruction in their wake. After my ex I wasn't able to enjoy those stories of their lives anymore. It's just not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 05:06 PM
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Yea, that's not unlike my situation. You win in the end because you learn how to handle it and you move on. I still get calls from my ex once in a while and now that I know what happened I just think it's sad.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 05:04 PM
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I gathered. She thought she'd get a reaction, likely an apology or something and when you didn't respond she wasn't sure how to take. She probably knows you're ignoring her but since the lack of response indicates you may not have actually read the email she can't really get an answer without you. Now she's just filling the void with her own wants and emotions. Eventually she'll get to the point where the truth cones out without games and then you do whatever you want with that information. It's…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 05:01 PM
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Getting punched in the face hurts as well, but knowing you couldn't defend yourself gives you drives to improve and ensure it doesn't happen again. That's life. You can't co trol everything, but you can work with what's in your control to control most things. Knowing is legitimately half the battle.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 04:51 PM
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If you're depressed for a long period of time there are circumstances in your life and mental state that you need to find and change. Depression doesn't just come out of nowhere.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 04:49 PM
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Exactly. While I dated a bpd girl I abandoned my belief that I have 90% control of what happens in my life. Little by little she chipped away at my self esteem and confidence until I ended up on anti-depressants and seeking therapy. None of that helped solve the problem. What solved it was me finally accepting I chose not to leave, facing the ill-formed logic of my decisions and getting my ass back on track. Building your own sense of pride is everything.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 02:34 PM
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The key isn't to just be happy, it's to understand the sadness is normal and not let it get to your core whike it runs it's course. Everyone gets tested during their lives. It's normal to go off track. That's why we have friends and family to help you during your times of need. When you live a life where you do nothing, you lack not only the essentials to keep you balanced, but the support to help get to back on track.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 02:32 PM
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Understanding that the me talk health industry thrives off the money of the insecure helps you understand they have a vested interest in your Xanax prescription. They aren't trying to help. We're all incomplete and we've been led to believe it's unnatural. Depression is normal. We aren't supposed to be happy all the time. You need both happy and sad to see reality for what it is and yet modern society tells you to run from sadness as if it's bad. Run from your problems, keep consuming. You'll be…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 02:29 PM
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Yea, it makes sense and again, that's what I was wondering if your intent was. I know it works. The beat way to get something to stick is through repitition.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 02:25 PM
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Yep, she's totally playing that card to get a reaction. As others have said it's most likely for validation, an upgrade or an attempt to get you to react so she can justify leaving on the grounds you're a jerk. I had a plate give me attitude for something. I didn't respond and two days lager she told me she was km her period. I was on guard and ready to drop her at that point. It happened again later, she sent me a big rant (she was looking for commitment) and I responded by asking her of she wa…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 11:27 AM
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I remember a blue pill belief I was raised with which was basically the saying "Behind every great man is a great women." For some reason I'd assumed that meant the wife would push her man to achieve his potential. Maybe this guy still thinks that way?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 10:53 AM
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I want to add to this. The revenge fantasy goes beyond women. Many of us carry various versions of it through childhood. Things we lacked or wanted growing up take root in ways that can be unhealthy. A good example for me is that I wanted to be the cool kid. I found drugs and hippy-types who were accepting and thought I finally had a cool group of friends, whike the truth is that many of them were just do nothing loses or simply using me for company. I also wanted to be a musician, but for the w…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 11:49 PM
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I was wondering what the thought process was. Someone else suggested you try to anchor RP messaging for people who don't check the side bar, which it seems is true. I can't speak for your flights of fancy, I don't personally find your posts entertaining, though osometimes insightful. What I do think is that the phrases you use are probably good for bringing points back to the fundamentals of TRP. Kind of like a driving instructor telling you hit your blinker at every turn. It gets old, but it al…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 11:34 PM
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I can understand that at first. Many people do end up here because of their experienced with women, but those experiences happened because of the way they think and the way they acted based on those thoughts. TRP is somewhat sexual strategy. More than that it explains the basis and need for that sexual strategy. Once you get past that part however, it's more of a realistic view on the world. That's what the takeaway needs to be. Use that no holds barred explanation of life to choose how best to …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 11:29 PM
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Hahaha! Funny analogy, that's my dad in a nutshell. I swear he's obsessed with saving money I'm a way that makes no sense at all and very secretive about how much he has to boot. I once saw him ripping a stamp off a letter and asked him what he was doing. He chuckled and said he was saving a buck. I was actually kind of grossed out. That's not normal. I mean fuck, he's almost 70. He should be enjoying his life, but he mostly just lives out the same pattern he always has. It seems sad to me. I'm …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 11:24 PM
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Interesting. What did you do to reduce sugar? What does your diet look like in general?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 07:11 PM
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I literally just posted about a guy who was telling me that he'd be okay with his girl sleeping around. His reasoning was the typical "Relationships are more than just sex because you connect on so many levels. His caveat was that he'd expect honesty. My caveat to him was that he was single and literally looked like he had a collection of movies on beta at home. I couldn't take him seriously at all. Talking like that opinion was his while looking like he was a 13 year old adult. Doughy little go…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 07:04 PM
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What are you eating to limit sugar to that low? I try and eat healthy but salt and sugar are loaded in almost everything so it's tough to avoid. That's a current goal for me. You got any tips?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 04:56 PM
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Years ago I remember working a job where I had to travel 2 hours to get to so I was up at 5:30 am every day to be ready. Eventually my body adjusted and I coukd barely sleep past 7 at the most. I found it fantastic because it felt like having a full day. The job I work now requires me to be up at 6 but maybe I should try earlier instead for lifting. I usually lift after work but it's a tight schedule with dinner and that being necessary.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 04:53 PM
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Holy crap that's a good idea. I'd never thought to do that. Free time is only worth having I'd you can enjoy it. You need to have something enjoyable to fill is with otherwise it's just dead time where you aren't doing anything. Productivity isn't always tied to making money, but if you aren't going to do something enjoyable you aren't giving value to your time either.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 04:49 PM
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The best way to start is to internalize the struggle your having. Quit drinking, smoking and doing drugs. Normally I'd say do them moderately but they are a crutch to you and until you can use them sparingly you need to stop. They will only cost you money you don't have and are holding your emotions in a flimsy basis. Quit them now while it's a choice before they get out of control and you lose money and forced to stop against your will. Once that is done, you will need ways to fill the void tha…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 02:33 PM
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This cuckold thing is catching on. I'm not sure how anyone could stomach it. My friend and I once laughed about cuckold porn saying we always figured we'd be the other guy. Yet I was talking to a guy at a wedding the other day about polyamoury. He kept stating that he felt sex was just one part of a relationship and you connect on so many levels that he wouldn't be upset at the idea of his girl sleeping around. I wasn't going to seriously debate him but I tried pointing out some aspects against …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 11:24 AM
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It's something that worries me. It's very easy to buy into a lot of stuff here because a lot of it works. I agree with a good chunk of what is said, especially the personal development parts. Things like lifting and being yourself and trying to meet new people are all good. There's a lot of good here. I think a lot of people tend to think it all applies to getting laid and that will cause them to miss the message. It's all about you and always needs to be. But there's a realization that a lot of…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 05:33 AM
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Do what you want but you come off lIke RP slogan machine. Every post I see from you starts off with one of your bolded slogans about women or the blue pill followed by a little blurb of explanation that tries to explain TRP concepts in rather obtuse terms. It wouldn't hurt you to try to tailor your comments a bit more to the subjects at hand. They may fit, but they come off like a broken record. I don't entirely disagree with what you say even if its far more extremist than I care for, but it's …
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 01:42 PM
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I think that article confused "awakened woman" with "clueless twat." An "awakened" person would realize they are simply another person and be aware of their reactions to social stimuli. They'd essentially be a wise monk. This article is about insecure women who think their hot shit because they, like, take yoga and meditate or y'know, whatever.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 02:32 AM
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I enjoy these posts from former drug addicts. I definitely used too many drugs in the past and learned a great deal as a result. Mostly they were a way to avoid negative feeling which I'm turn continued a cycle of learned dependence from when I was a child, as my parents were both emotionally unavailable. I did get some positive insights from them and they helped me to learn to be more social and less neurotic, but eventually they became more of a hinderance than a benefit. I've cut them down su…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 02:25 AM
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I've found d the same. Keeping my thoughts and feeling to myself and being productive with lifting and other endeavour has brought up my confidence in ways I couldn't imagine before. It made me realize how many excuses I made in the past and it makes me feel fantastic for not continuing them. My willpower and improvement has gotten so constant I don't feel too bad when I do fuck up because I'm back on track again in no time.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 02:24 AM
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Yep. This is it in a nutshell. You have to recognize that what you think is normal is your interpretation and not necessarily reality. A lot of people here I'd assume have, will or should go through similar realizations due to their views on women.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 01:42 AM
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Don't be stupid. She may contact you again but don't delude yourself and think it's because you were her best. You know the rules if you're on this forum. I have an ex who pulls this every 6 months or so. It starts with saying hi, asking how I'm doing, then some rant about how we were so good together and she misses me, then some hints at getting back together, then I make a comment she doesn't like, she gets mad and either tries to get me to say Im sorry and stops talking to me when I dont, or …
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 12:24 AM
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This is the simplest way to explain it. Humans need struggle. We need to overcome hardship. It's what give sis strength. We did that so well we built safe societies and now we villify each other as we lose sight of our own nature. That British law is fucked. How does something like 5hst go into effect? Who sits there and thinks that is at all okay? It would have surprised me prior to TRP, but all this I see now and it just scares me. Not for myself per sey, but for the people who will suffer for…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 11:49 PM
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The money itself isn't the issue, look at the circumstances. -Shes claims she doesn't need help from her ex -Shes only been dating him a few months. -She gave him shit for saying he didn't feel it was his responsibility. The subtext is what important. If I could spend that without a second thought I wild still say no just to see if she being entitled. If she got angry, she's out. If she accepted and went to work hard to get the money on her own because she loves her son, then I'd consider it. Re…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 04:57 PM
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This is one of the harshest truths to accept but its entirely accurate. I think many people get insulted for not handling things when they often haven't experienced that thing before, so they get defensive when accused and blame others. For example, you get robbed in an ally. Well, you walked alone through a secluded area unprepared of being assaulted and unable to defend yourself. Of course you are angry, it's messed up someone did that, bit if you're smart you'll now understand the risk of sec…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 11:30 AM
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This is true, it's less of an issue than many other drugs but the potential danger is still there. I also wonder about the psychological aspects of it long term, but overall I admit there are worse things in life.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 11:06 AM
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Two reasons. One is that the older you get the more you degrade physically and mentally. That can be helped somewhat by living a healthy life, but it's inevitable. I don't want to live a life where I can't use my body and mind well. The more personal reason is that I've recognized that life ismy important. There's no big meaning to it, no end goal aside from what you choose, and behind every new thing you learn, behind every skill you aquire, behind every endeavour you undertake, the laws of rea…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 10:53 AM
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It's not about being secure with your sexuality, it's about commitment. After a while every partner is more or less the same and it takes more and more to please you. That does take the magic out of it. The unknown is partially what keeps us interested. It's not the only factor, but it is a factor.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 07:13 PM
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Have you noticed how much you get shamed for here? People will give you shit for diagreeing with them. TTP ismt unlike any other group in that way. That's not important. What's important is to understand why the shaming is occurring. I'd people are giving you shit for not lifting because they say you won't get big and fuck bitches get money etc etc, then ask yourself if that's correct first off and if it's your goal second. I was getting pussy when I was 230+lbs with a back full of hair because …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 11:34 AM
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People seem to forget that you are inhaling smoke when you toke. It's not as bad as cigarettes but there are risk factors involved. I also think that while you're right, weed isn't as risk free as the world wants it to be. I think that if you're generally healthy then smoking a bit won't ruin you though.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 11:22 AM
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Maybe, but Im not going to avoid anything that could risk my health just to live longer.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 11:20 AM
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It sounds like neoreaction safe is talking about immaturity and you are talking about drive or having character. I'm not entirely sure. Neoreacrionsafe repeats his terms constantly and you haven't defined yours, but I think I get what you're saying and if so, I agree with it. I don't like the way people here talk about killing emotions. I don't think it's healthy. Emotions are natural and important. What one needs is an understand of what emotions actually are, how to tell when you aren't thinki…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 10:10 PM
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I don't really care if people smoke. Sometimes I still do. My issue is that there's a line between smoking habitually/ being addicted to smoking once and a while. Most people do not smoke once in a while. This applies to many drugs and to many people I know. It applied to me until I put it in check. Now if I smoke I find I enjoy it sometimes, but usually it feels lole a pointless endeavour since I could be doing something else. I really have to be I'm the mood and feel like relaxing or its not a…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 07:07 PM
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Agreed. As my old sales boss said when I was in a slump: "Dude, you've killed it before, you'll kill it again. I'm not going easy in you because I know you can do it. If you don't want to tell me and I'll move yout to one of those offices where they hug you and tell you it's okay when you fuck up. I know you don't want that shit. Now go sell some product." He was right. I wanted to argue given my shitty mindset but I knew he was right. So I did what he said and felt fucking good.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 02:35 PM
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Lifting is just a way to push yourself and get in shape. If you really can't lift, which is rarely the case, the run, play a sport, do anything physical.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 11:22 AM
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You're 100% on the mark. Im going to add that a good way to find the source of the issue is to think about the first time the action causing it occured. Case in point, I started smoking weed because I saw people who I thought were cool doing it. I ended up fitting I to that group and wasting years with the "party and be chill" hippy types. When my ex and I split and I started figuring it all out I realized that wanting to look cool to a girl and fit in was why I tried smoking in the first place.…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 11:17 AM
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Lifting really does help in many ways, it's more than just getting laid. I'd take it farther and say use the anger to push you in different directions. After all, the anger tends to be tied in to you being stagnant with your life, so start trying new things and making plans. The only way out of your current location is to start moving to a new one.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 11:11 AM
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I'm with the people on avoiding the petty revenge. I'm sure it would give you a short lived satisfaction, but the reality of it is it puts you in a riskier position. Besides, if you really hate the guy and he knew of you when she originally cheated, I'd say real revenge is letting them get married and suffering whatever comes from this chick. Whatever you do, be wary. She knows you and she used that knowledge to get back to fucking you. She may try to pull some shit and if you're not careful you…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 07:11 PM
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This is literally the reason. Men do the work for most of the interaction, but it's very likely that they have that interaction because the woman signaled it.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 05:10 PM
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It should be made that there's a distinction between minding their own business and offering advice or suggestions. The latter is useful but should only happen if you want the advice or if you're in a shitty position and they're genuinely trying to help you.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 05:02 PM
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I agree with this. If you are holding your own and happy, other people can fuck off. Nobody has to live a certain way, just don't be a drain on those around you or society in general and that's enough. Anything else if up to you.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 05:00 PM
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I watched this recently afyer some time learning about all this and it made me laugh. I remember some bullshit quote from the director saying he's not sure what made the characters tick or the way they are but that they were relatable. Well, watching it now it makes complete sense. Fantastic movie.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 04:55 PM
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I remember a situation that occure when I was at my first job. It went like this: A dude fared I girl said "Dude, how old are you?" Dude responded "Old enough to know that farts are funny." This is probably the most literal definition of passing a shit test I have.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 04:49 PM
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This used to make me neurotic as hell because I felt lile I was doing something wrong. Now when I hear it I laugh. I laugh because it always comes from people headed in that direction who want me to stay, people who are already there and stuck, or women. Yet the plates I have and the friends I have and anyone who actually know me love that I can be as free spirited as a kid (while still holding the knowledge and confidence of a man). What they really mean when they say "grow up" is "feel the way…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 04:45 PM
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Hahaha, I used to feel this way. I figured I would always be learning and doing new things, so if I lost friends or some hated me, I'd just meet new ones somewhere down the line. Same with jobs, hobbies, everything. It all has a time limit, so being afraid to let go is pointless anyway.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 02:32 PM
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It gives you time to focus on your words and actions fully and deliberately. Most people don't actually do this, but most people don't notice because they do it too. I learned this doing sales and it seriously improved my success rate. Fast actions give be a sense you're putting on an act. Watch magicians and con men at work. They're goal is to keep you in their momentum and not allow you to take the time to think or see what's happening.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 02:29 PM
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It's a good point. You're talking about mindfulness, and meditation is often preached here. It's good advice. Focusing on a task until you are done with it or its completed. I've had trouble taking a single step because my mind wants to take 20 and I can't even start. It caused me to be incredibly neurotic and have a fear of starting things which help me back exponentially in many things. There's a song that ends with the verse "I was laying in bed the other night just thinking and listening to …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 01:15 AM
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Solid advice. I see my plates once a week at most as usually it's once every 2 weeks. I dont undetstand how people even do more if they're not getting too close. Working a ft job is most of your day 5 days a week, Lifting 3 or 4 days a week clearls out a solid hour or two those days and you'd want a good nights rest for recovery. You're dumb if you don't have a hobby or outlet you can do for at least another couple hours on lifting days. That's leaves 2 full days and maybe a 3rd evening to see g…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 12:28 AM
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I don't know. You're view seems so extreme, but it was literally written about in A Brave New World. Use of drugs to avoid reality, brainwashing from birth, societies of superficial people simply filing their role and fucking. I like to hope some sense will resonate through the world eventually, but I coukd totally see it going the way you put it Reading stories here and seeing the kind of absurdity in the world really makes me wonder how long it'll take for these currently more extreme situatio…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 10:17 PM
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Yea, when I started reading this stuff it was an instant answer. Every situation I had been in, had witnessed, had known of, they all fit. I was angry but it was at myself for knowing better and choosing to continue believing the world and at people who misled me, but I know they mean well, they just aren't very aware of the bigger picture. I'm more content now than I ever was and luckily, despite my musgidedness in the past, I've always had a strong innate character, so I was more relieved to s…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 10:01 PM
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My ex tied this with me. I was incredibly uncomfortable because even though I didn't understand the dynamics, I knew what it meant subconsciously. I decided I would let her if she agreed to having a few threesoms with other girls with me first. She was willing to set some up but never followed through because she thought she didn't like the idea of me fucking other girls.... Yea. I thought that was pretty funny. Ironically one of the girls she propositions for sex with us was someone I used to k…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 04:59 PM
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I dated a girl like this. I can't even begin to count the issues my ex had. She was BP and all over the place. Her words and actions never lined up, which is why we watch the actions. I remember all the bullshit she spouted. Ridiculous. Either this guy is with a girl who is using him, or she genuinely believes she loves him because she's rocking the turbo hamster, aka she's an idiot. Either way thus guy is fucked if he sticks it out. ... .Run boi
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 04:54 PM
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This is an eerie prediction but I can definitely see things heading that way. What saddens me is that growing up, I wanted a family and kids, and now I realize that not only is the risk of that incredibly high, to the point where I don't really want it anymore, I ask myself what kind of world I'd be bringing a child into? It's likely that it'd be one where my daughter would end up being a miserable slut and my sone would end up in prison for looming at a woman wrong or speaking the truth. I've s…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 02:28 PM
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I've checked out self-help/improvement courses, read a lot of books on the subject, read up on human psychology,addiction, etc, and spent years learning about related subjects and searching my own nature. TRP is accurate and will be proven correct again and again. It may seem unthinkable to many here at first, but I recall seeing this mindset when I was too young to understand it. I recall these views being more normal and accepted, though I can also see that during my life they slowly became mo…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 11:25 AM
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That seems idealistic. These things usually get handed out to shut people up, which is why the victim status is such a hot ticket these days. I'd like to hear how it works where you are. You seem to have a mixed opinion because you've argued points for and against it. How has it affected where you're from? What were the ramifications? That kind of thing.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 11:11 AM
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This is exactly why I'm against increasing the minimum wage. It does nothing overall. We get an extra $1 per hour and somew here else we get shafted. It does nothing to fix the situation. It's just delaying the inevitable.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 11:18 PM
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It's funny to hear this. I started doing the same thing years ago and it works. It gives you confidence. You know you're going to do something you don't want to do because "fuck it" it has to be done. That brings some real confidence.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 10:59 PM
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It's a matter of how much connection you have ti that person. This guy was married 10 years and clearly has been letting things get worse for him, so hes not very assertive. He probably puts too much emphasis on his relationship and wife, so that excuse rings true. It's not a man, woman, or human problem, it's being gullible and not having self-respect or caring. If an gf ever tried to sell me that, I'd call bullshit and she'd be gone. I can say that wasn't always the case though.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 02:38 PM
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A lot of stuff in TRP is general self-improvement knowledge with the terms changes. Hamstering is literally just saying making excuses anyway. Reframing another. Most self-improvement stuff from any community follows the same guidelines. TRP gets credit for accurately tying self-improvement in with male/female social dynamics and explains our society and it's faults in a clear, decisive way, which is lacking elsewhere. Still, a lot of the stuff you learn here is the same stuff taught in PUA comm…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 02:34 PM
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Fantastic observation and we'll put. I had this issue growing up and my parents were both big on pushing good grades and buying things to buy my love and even better at not building a personal relationship. They are consumers. Having spent most of my childhood and a chunk of adulthood depressed, fat and lonely, I started looking at things that really made me happy, even if they kimd of sucked at Fort, and made goals towards achieving those things. Exercise for example, or being funny. Much of th…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 11:25 AM
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I agree with you. If the company is willing to fit the bill, go for it. They should be anyway. The reality of our world is such that many people choose to stay in low paying jobs instead of bettering themselves and they bitch about how they deserve more. These people will often have several kids and live beyond their means. If you have a low pay job, you should be living a life within your means, like it or not. Our society might function better if people did that, but we are a greedy, self-cent…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 10:59 AM
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I used that as a term because I hate amy Schumer, and I was referring to her quote on her ability to "still catch a dick" because I think it's a dumb thing to boast about.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 10:49 AM
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Nah, unless she's absolutely retarded fat and ugly she can still amy Schumer a dick. You really have to be in a bad position and a woman to have 0 options available. Even then, I know girls who still see the game for what it is and they adjust for extra rolls. I have a plate I see sometimes whose fairly big and she admitted when she met me she wondered why the hell I bothered with her. She asked me if I knew when we first met if she had no chance for a relationship, which is the case. I told her…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 10:56 PM
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There's a million different scenarios here, but I'd offer that you can do a lot with little more than a look that says "Really?" I used to do sales and I knew a dude who would have someone say they couldnt sign up for the product, and he would just raise his eyebrows and say nothing, letting them stew I their awkwardness and ramble off excuses until they agreed to buy. That's one example and it doesn't always work but sometimes the best thing to say is nothing. Don't let it phase you, don't get …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 10:48 PM
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I had a few dates with a MILF who was a burlesqe dancer. The trickle truth started early and got intense really quickly as did the crazy. She had been a heroine addict, fucked a really famous person who basically BDSM'd her to ruination while doing escorting. We fucked outdoors on the first date as well. She was admittedly one of the more driven and interesting women I'd met and that was probably the best sex I'd ever had, but it wasn't worth the crazy and I coukd see the quality of sex being a …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 07:15 PM
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I have an ex that contact me about every 6 months the or so. I used her while learning about TRP and I was able to spot the lies she strung me along with coming from her mouth when compared to her actions. The last time was my favourite as well as the last bit of truth I needed to see. When someone breaks up with you, let it go. They clearly didn't care enough and they aren't going to start now. Who breaks up with someone when they care about them?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 04:59 PM
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From an early age men start being interested in women but lack the personal prowess to get good ones, so when we see someome who is unattractive or who is with a girl way better than he is we are taught, somewhat through jealousy and somewhat through or our ignorance, to say things like "man, he lucked out" or whatever. This becomes reinforced early on and as a result many guys co tinge thinking that way, never seeing the trade off that happens with most relationships. They stick strictly to loo…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 04:49 PM
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I went to my first wedding post red pill last month and a lot of what you said rings true. The bride had a child from another relationship ship, the groom was a skinny white dude with no backbone who had taken the father role and was nervous as hell. His friends all seemed like generic people, some nice, some not so much. The brides friends and family all gravitated towards weird or slutty and although it was a lot of fun, they all looked like people straight out of TRP doctrine of characters. G…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 04:38 PM
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I've noticed this shift as well. I used to never really notice flaws on women for some reason. Now most woman aren't all the attractive to me. I tend to pull women around the age of 20, give or take, but most women I see are either not attractive, old, or oit of shape. I guess it's something that comes when you start to live life without your personal filters and just see things how they are. It's like knowing the tattood, pierced, hair dyed girl is more likely promiscuous. Knowing these things …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 11:23 AM
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This goes beyond weird. The guy claims he's straight, but isn't sure if he should leave his gf- whos looking to be a bf? It won't work. He's not just scared to upset her, he's so deep into his delusions of what love is he's totally removed himself from the relationship and is debating staying in the relationship for his ideal of what love should be. She on the other hand, is doing what she wants. You can see who wears the pants here. Maybe he should be the woman I'm the relationship ship.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 11:02 AM
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That's my problem. Everything is circular and money given to someone, somewhere is coming from somewhere else, or at some cost. If the companies were going to foot the bill, fine. But the companies aren't I retested in handing out more money to their slave-drivers. It's not in their best interest. So I'm supposed to do it, or what?
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 10:54 AM
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My issue is that other issues cone I to play when the minimum wage raises. How are those issues going to be handled? I don't have a problem with people being paid more. He'll, for the amount if work many jobs require the base pay should never be the current minimum, but the reality is that the better paying jobs require some kind of investment to review very the rewards. That's how you gain the knowledge and skills to do it well enough to warrant the money. If you go to school, if you put in the…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 04:54 PM
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Dudes potential wife wants to be a man. Why is he even asking this? He said he was straight, so I'm guessing he's a straight up dumb ass too.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 04:48 PM
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Always reading between the lines is the best way to learn to he independent mentally. While someone is hitching about how the minimum wage should be increased so everyone can live better, you can point out that small businesses, people who actually put in tons of effort and time to learn a real skill and so on would be fucked by that because the only way you get free money for everyone is Wal Mart agreeing to an extra 50 cents raise to expand. Or they do the mcdonalds and fire people to start im…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 10:55 PM
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I agree with a good amount of the stuff this sub says but everything has to be individualized to what you want. One thing a lot of users have a problem with is understanding the AWALT idea. I agree with you in that upbringing dictates a lot of what the woman will do and how they view the world. Another thing is that many users on this sub seem to be unable to read people. I imagine that's a given since they're here eating it all up. We all have to start somewhere so it's better they understand t…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 10:03 PM
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I had an ex that would lose her shit and go nuts. I didn't understand how to deal with it but I know a lot about psychology and human nature so eventually I'd find an opening where I'd point out wjat she was doing and win that way. An easy example would be calling her out one time when she was losing her shit and telling me it's over. I told her she was just trying to get me to give her attention because she actually wanted proof it wasn't over. After that she was fine u til the next blow up. Th…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 11:31 AM
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The issue with things like pride months or the like is that it's a cop out, government endorsed period of time to say "I'm speshul cuz someone said I am this month." If everyone who gave a shit about pride month or whatever just worked on themselves they'd eventually exit those groups because they'd get sick of everyone trying to take credit for something they know requires monumental effort; self improvement.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 11:08 AM
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Where do you work? Or what industry?
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 10:58 AM
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Probably that you download all your shit or have Netflix. Dude, I'd just find out your taste in things and judge them the same way I would if you had a physical copy of the same stuff. Or I would judge you based on your other things. I assume you have a bed, or a couch? Or you've set up your room in certain way? Perhaps a musical instrument or a ps4 or something? Clothes maybe? Pens? Anything? Realistically if I was at your place I'd probably already have made an opinion of you based on your per…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 09:57 PM
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Yea, it's very cool how removing a worldview seen through biased, rose coloured glasses allowed tou to get back on track so much quicker. I still get thrown off guard, but man do I catch myself quickly now.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 07:14 PM
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You can judge people on any media. Look at their DVDs, music, taste in art/imagery, etc. Ask them a few Questions about it. Done. It's not complicated to fish out people with no opinions.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 04:57 PM
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Yea. I watched it with a plate who was verifying things with me. I actually found Ali Wong funnier than most women but her material was bothersome because it was basically admitting to being a shitty person. Her little turn around at the end where she said it turns out her well off boyfriend that she locked down "trapped her" because he had mou rains of debt made me think "there's another woman who thinks hard work and sacrifice means spreading your legs." It was straight up legitimate talk thou…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 04:53 PM
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Yea, everyone you learn something new you have to take the prerequisite time to make it a permanent part of your life. Lie any change, we'll often fight it. My problem with weed was like that. I smoked too much so I'd quit then give in and smoke too much. Then I realized there's no need to quit something I enjoy as long as I moderate it sensibly. I started smoking once in a while and now the urge isn't there anywhere near as often as it was. Of course it helps that I started filling my life with…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 11:08 AM
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Crazy bitches are the worst. I dated one. I lost my savings, let myself get into drugs too much, lost my job, was housing her loser brother and got bailed on and left to deal with the outcome after being made to feel worthless. They just take and take and when you won't give they knock your prude down u til you feel guilty and start giving even more. It's brutal! I learned a lot though and it seems lole you did too so that good, but holy shit. Fuck those bitches. And only briefly.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 11:04 AM
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I agree with most of what youve said and I agree with your ending point on doing drugs far more infrequently. I've done my share of them and whike they have been useful much in the ways you stated, I realiz now that had I been willing to look honestly at myself, ego free, they wouldn't have been special in the growth sense. Regardless, they way they remove social filters is incredibly useful (and risky if you don't have strong character) and I do support the idea of treating mental issues with t…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 05:04 PM
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I do wish I'd had the sense to work harder when I was in my early 20's and with some direction. I never had guidence and was insecure so I got too caught up with partying. I'm lucky it never ruined me, I had some sense and still managed to gain confidence and experience in numerous ways, but a much better cash flow would have been good for me. I can vouche to an extent for people gaming in their 3ps being insecure. If they are really doing that. I attract women and I'll pick them up sometimes bu…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 11:28 AM
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The 27 club is a reference to famous celebs who died at the age of 27, often musicians due to drugs use like Hendrix or Kobain.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 11:05 AM
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Ive never liked them. I was on them as a kid until early adulthood and since I had no idea what they were doing to me I thought I was crazy on some innate level and was just incredibly depressed. About 2 years ago I went on some again for the first time in over a decade while dating a bpd girl. She actually convinced me I needed them. They admittedly helped me see some things but eventually I noticed I was okay with things I didn't want to be okay with. There was an unnatural numbness, so to spe…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 10:38 PM
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I've got a plate who's 18 and claims to have only had one previous partner and given one blowjob to abother guy. Shes very good in bed though it seems more natural as she still gets that excited anxiousness when we fuck. I always assume there's more guys than they say though so I'm curious about finding out. How can you be sure your girl is being honest with you?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 02:33 PM
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Yea that's a bit more specific. I meant details as in things she said or did but to be fair that can be pretty personal. I got the jist of it and that's all I wanted. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 12:08 AM
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Please elaborate with the actions she took to try and do this. I'm always interested in hearing details. It's the best way to learn.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 10:16 PM
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This is very true. I always found myself feeling like I had something wrong with me because I was more interested in thought engaging concepts and what happens behind the scenes such as how things work or why things are the way they are. It does get boring to most people very quickly. It was by fluke I ended up finding a fluke scenario where I was able to figure out how to become social and I got pretty good at it, but it always feels forced because I'd rather be planning, learning or working to…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 04:56 PM
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Just cut your calories by 250-500 and do cardio. If you can lift even 15-20 lbs that will add definition. Again, just be careful not to cut too many calories at once or tou may end up with excess skin or saggy fat do to underdeveloped muscle. That's what happened to me and it's taking a good while to correct it. Bear in mind, you can get pretty good definition just by lifting 30lb dumbells so with the right activities even lifting a less will still help. Just don't go crazy and pay attention to …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 04:47 PM
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This is something I realized and can't stress enough. Faking it until you make it is a way to learn and experience things, but you have to internalize those things and that takes knowledge and experience. Feel free to pretend in order to get the experience, bit be sure to reflect and gain the knowledge after.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 11:14 AM
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You're gullible and believe she's going to change. she isn't. You need to. This post reeks of victimization. I'm only responding because I've dated bpd chicks and it fucks with you hard. Here's my advice: Leave. I don't think you'll take it but I'll offer this advice one time. If you're dating a bpd it means YOU have issues. You aren't getting around this. You aren't going to fix her. She isn't going to change. You have to find the blind spot in your life that she's filing and fill it yourself. …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 11:10 AM
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I'll check out the video when I can. I've heard it said that the grateful dead had a conspiracy behind it. I can't speak for that but do you have any information or links on the subject? That'd be interesting to read about. No worries if not. I'd probably come across any relevant info when I get to that.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 12:04 AM
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If that's what you want to call it, then yes it was, though at the time I only vaguely understood why that kind of thing worked. It worked incredibly well though. That job really showed me how to look confidant with others.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 12:00 AM
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That's always funny. One of my favourite things to do whike I was doing fave to face sales was deliberate act annoying in a tongue in check way. It always broke them. Sometimes I was along beside them and say "Man, I hate it when people just walk beside me. Don't you?" Then agree and amplify anything they said is a silly way until they realize it's all a joke. My intention was to make people not take things seriously.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 05:08 PM
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People are often afraid of the rejection to an unhealthy degree. It's never that bad. I was at a wedding the other week where I knew no one but the girl who invited me. She was in the wedding party so during pictures I went to meet people The first group I said hi to was incredibly awkward. They said hi, exchanged pleasentries and then basically ignored me. Needles to say I excused myself and found another group who was way friendlier and was with them until Much later. I ended up at a table wit…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 05:05 PM
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This happened to me as well. I used to be such a gamer. It was my escape growing up. Now it's hard for me to find time and most games I see look pretty unappealing. I'd rather do something active or learn something tangible than beat up a hundred dudes with my chainsaw arms. The odd one catches my interest, but I guess it's turned into a normal activity as opposed to an escape or even really a hobby. Needless to say, I have no complaints about this.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 04:58 PM
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This. My own experiences aside, I've seen countless others who's parents try to run their lives and all of them end up in unhealthy relationships with few,if any, real hobbies and no apirstions. I know one case where the kid (who I knew when he was younger and was a shit but quite full of life) is now a total stoner with schizophrenia after doing hard drugs for too long, or so the verdict goes. I saw him last year and he was a fucking zombie. His mom is insane and controlling however, so it make…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 02:41 PM
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I'd bet they stay together because, aside from comfort, their disfunctions filled each others holes. If tour mothers dad was an alcoholic it also fits that she'd end up with one. We're very apt at picking up patterns as kids and we build comfort in the familiarity, even when it's unhealthy. I look at my parents now and cansee exactly what their problems are, but they refuse to take any advice from me or try to change. All they do is mouth off old phrases like "I guess that's how it is" or whatev…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 02:36 PM
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Yea, I suppose happy is more accurate. It's literally like people are brain dead zombies. It seems to me that this isn't a new phenomenon however. The difference is that both genders used to be appreciated for their own traits where as now everything is all mashed up and men are shit on, whike still expected to take care of the lousy parts of men's jobs of course.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 10:44 AM
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Okay, I was confused by your phrasing but yea I get what you're saying and I agree. It's unfortunate more people don't want to seek out alternative opinions. Doing so can lead to to incredible knowledge, even if some of them may be wrong. I always find it odd that people would rather be right than be aware.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 12:00 AM
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How would knowing that people can improve create an infinite hamster wheel in a woman's head? If they accepted that fact then they would be forced to stop the hamster wheel. Or do you mean that they'll make excuses so that they don't have to believe improvement is possible due to emotional thinking?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 04:45 PM
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I've started adopting a two strike plan gor basic shit. Basically you get one fuck up. After that, you fuck off. I'm fine with people needing a whike to learn complicated things but when it comes to basic decency, no dice. You get one slip. I'm not sure how it'll work out or how I'll tweak it yet, but I'm tired of dealing with stupidity and disrespect.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 02:35 PM
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Hahaha, it's surprising how much effort goes into making excuses.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 02:31 PM
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Yea, that's literally the problem. The drugs are only being used to temporarily relieve a myriad of underlying issues that aren't being addressed. I hate anti-depressents. They're accepted as a solution and while they may be useful short term when dealing with an overwhelming amount of shit you have going on in your life, they are not a solution. Anyway I agree. When I finally had some time apart after that relationship ended all I could see was how much of a victim mindset she had and how much …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 02:31 PM
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This kills me. I've done a good number of drugs in my life and admittedly dome some dumb things on them, but I recognized that thise actions were just natural urges sey free by a chemical change in my brain. When it seemed to unnatural and act for me, I wouldn't do it. I dated an ex who absurd drugs and was the typical party slut. I couldn't understand how she just blamed the drugs and couldn't see it was her choice to take them every single time she did. It just seemed to stupid to me. She went…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 06:36 PM
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Yep. This is why thise with power listen more than speak. The more you listen to people, the more they fill in and eventually contradict themselves letting you piece together the truth. The you have power over them, because you see their faults. Don't point it out though, just keep it for a possible future option.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 06:30 PM
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I never used to think I'd agree with survival of the fittest, but when you actually start putting effort into things you learn to appreciate them fully. It's work vs reward. When you see what something takes you don't just want to give it away to someone who hasn't earned it. So to the person who earned a lot of money, a ripped body, a knowledge base or skillet, they took the time to do it. Why would they give it away to a good who blames people for his problems wgile he does as much as possible…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 06:24 PM
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Agrees. I like you simplistic description of addiction, it's entirely accurate. I will be using that in the future for sure. That said, the world we live in today is entirely emotionally driven for the masses and we're pushed to keep it that way with drugs, television? video games, etc. Even the good things rhat coikd be beneficial are used as a means of slavery and monetization. Look at the amount of people waking around with their Goodlife Fitness bags for a membership they rarely use who couk…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 05:38 PM
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Agreed. Unfortunately there's a ton of "help" for people who want to continue living their delusions and not face reality yet almost none for the people who are willing to take the hit. No one led me here. I found it because little by little I identified patterns in my own life and behaviour that weren't getting me what I wanted and worked hard to change them. When shit hit the fan and I saw through the last hurdle, I noticed all the people around me giving me advice that would have led me down …
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 05:28 PM
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This one is funny but true. I had an ex threaten me all dramatically after an argument by saying "That's it, we're done. It's OVER!!" So I pointed behind me aND said "There's the door." I've never seen anyone 180 so quickly. It was insane to see at the time.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 07:07 PM
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I went crazy at one point with an ex and grabbed my guitar to leave and go be by myself for a while. She dropped her tantrums and tried to not make me go until I gave her a look that said I'm going. Then she 180'd, packed me snacks and wished me off. That was a weird one that makes sense in retrospect.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 05:06 PM
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This was the same as my ex. It fucks with you hard. When it ended I felt broken and kept an emotional wall up for a ling time. I eventually learned why it happened and traced the fault to my lack of boundaries and was able to figured oit where they came from, but man was that rough. I feel for you dude.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 05:03 PM
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A lot of TRP stuff can be boiled down to people's intelligence. I find struggle tends to lead to greater intelligence or at least awareness, so often women can afford to be ignorant while men can't. That said, it's better to assume they know, I find.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 04:45 PM
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People build meditation up into things it's not. You're post explains it well. It's just the mental equivalent of lifting. You want to develop your mental muscles to focus (lift heavy weight) and not get distracted with pointless thoughts and excuses (dropping the weight). The benefits are endless. Imagine what being able to be in the moment does for you and your appreciation of the world and the control it gives you. A literal example would be not losing focus in a fight and being able to pay a…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 11:21 AM
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Look man, I'm just going to say this as directly as I can. That wall isn't there. I've dealt with this. I spent my childhood on medication for depression and a metric fuck ton of other issues I was told I had. I comfort ate and weighed almost 200 lbs my the time I was 15. I had a ponytail, wore headbands, played video games and watched anime while thinking I was misunderstood and alone and building an ego that said I was better than others so I didn't have look at my decisions while I masterbate…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 10:40 PM
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Best feeling in the world. When the thing you cared far too much about at your own expense no longer owns you. It feels amazing. That's what doing things for your self does.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 07:03 PM
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We live in a constant state of neurosis. A lot of it comes from society telling us how we should be and how we should live and what we should want. But yea, when you can just stop and appreciate things life becomes that much better. Glad I saw this, I needed the reminder.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 07:02 PM
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Buddy, it tool me almost a year and a half to get past the anger. Dealing with the Ness mt ex left, learning about TRP, accepting my failures and picking myself up again. It all takes time. It'll happen when it happens. Use the anger and let yourself be angry. There's nothing wrong with that if tou use it effectively which it sounds like you are. When you get past it all you'll be fat better for it, but just let the process happen as tou internalize and grow from it all.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 06:59 PM
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The best lesson for this is extreme failure, whether that's at your job, your relationship or your personal goals. You end up failing and evaluating wjat happened and why. That's how you improve. Realistically it will happen I'm pretty much every area you can imagine, many many times. I think back to my "the one" ex now and all I see is a selfish twit who wasn't even all that hot. I think back to older jobs and wonder why I stayed so long. I look back on my hobbies and wonder why I even enjoyed …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 02:36 PM
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You're trying to do something that isn't you. You're trying to not seem jealous. You haven't accepted that you SHOULD be feeling that jealousy because you were disrespected and tou should act on it by not allowing yourself to be again, that is, by ending it. You should also spend some time analyzing why you want to look a certain way to her. Fuck what she thinks. You know you don't feel good here. You got conned. Own your mistake so that it doesn't happen again. I'm amazed sometimes when I read …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 10:27 PM
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They should just run an add of a fat cow in a bikini and leave in her sweat, stretch marks, leg bruises and add the slogan: Bitch shouldn't have bitched about Protien World.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 10:14 PM
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It's easier to learn than you think. If tou focus on yourself you'll learn what you want and need which allows you to set your boundaries. Do that first. Once those are set you just watch their actions. Watch how they act and avoid taking what is said too seriously. Their actions will always tell you who they are. The only way to gain the experience is by being with more women of course. This is where plating comes in, but you can learn a lot from girls you already know once you have the informa…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 10:10 PM
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My point was that none of these things are overly difficult to do and all benefits you greatly. Working out also combats depression, so there's another reason for it being healthy. I won't say you always have to eat a meal from scratch, but keeping yourself sustained with mostly foods that you male or are generally not boxed and full of crap is definitely the better option. You may not inmediatly notice a difference, but it does add up as you eat more crap. Not to mention mental and physical hea…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 09:59 PM
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There's no such thing as bad press. If she found him repulsive and they still hung out, that says something right there. Anyway sound like it ended well anyway.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 05:07 PM
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You can buy 10 lb dumbells for $10. You have Internet so I'm assuming you can afford that. You're alive so you must eat which means you can buy chicken and vegetables right? There you go.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 05:01 PM
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Lifting isn't narcissism. Being able to use your body is necessary in every area of life. You don't have to get ripped, but being physically able to lift heavy things is handy. Unless you never plan on moving or carrying anything ever, you're wrong. I'd you consider eating healthy and drinking lots of water hard work I don't even know what to say. Also it does matter, eating nothing but boxed and packaged food won't hit your macros and will leave you feeling lousy mentally and in lesser health p…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 04:59 PM
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Just to add to this, the original featured "dorky" characters as tou said. They were oddball in their society and we're actually out of their legit in regards to the enemy they faced. Watching the original it shows they won by calculated accident. This is what men do, it fits. It's an example of men paving a path by intense study and trail and error. Now that the original is a classic, the women show up and act lIke it's their idea by cookie cutting the scenario with them in place of the men who…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 11:33 AM
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I read the first article. Obviously I agree. I started reading the second, but had to stop after scrolling ahead and realizing there was going to be another 8 paragraphs of how butt hurt the author was in HER experiences and nothing about actual male and female genetics or really, anything outside of her own opinion.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 10:26 PM
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No, I was completely naive to the outcome. In retrospect I've always held inherent RP beliefs but they would waver when challenged because I had no self confidence. That time I was just exercising my opinion and it happened to work out in my favour.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 07:17 PM
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That's fine. Knowing why tou did what you did ia only half the battle. Changing it is the other half. Realistically you can do whatever you want. I just focused in the weight because I get up really fat and it crippled my self-esteem. When I lost a lot of weight I saw a real difference in how I was treated. Now that I'm putting on muscle I see the attention from women. It's a real phenomenon and more than that, it makes you feel capable. Anyway that's all I have to say on it. Keep on keep on.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 07:09 PM
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It's good you got to do all this. It's something everyone needs to do and we all start somewhere. Do yourself a favour and stop making excuses about your weight. You mention it a ton and clearly know it's an issue you're avoiding. Just deal with it. I say this not to bash you but to point out that with how good you feel after all these women, the next step is to focus on yourself and start building that feeling from within. That's the key to all this in the end. Anyway, glad you had a good time …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 05:10 PM
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I remember that I never used to consider my dates "dates" because I was just seeing what the person was about. That said, on tm first "date" with an ex of mine, we got food and she expected me to pay the bill. I explained that I don't do that because it's taken advantage of and she told me that "girls just like to be treated like princesses." I told her I'd food the dinner bill if she bought drinks. She agreed and spend way more than I did. It literally payed to not pay.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 07:09 PM
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Yea, it's pretty bleak in a lot of ways. I was angry about it for probably between a year or two. Not because of how it is, but because of how I was told it is. That's what hurts. I remember something a buddy of mine said. He was dealing with a lot at the time and was really bummed out and he just told me "It sucks to be smart." I was pretty naive at the time and my response was "It's only because you're smart that dumb people can afford to be dumb." He was half right. It does suck. But only at …
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 02:31 PM
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A succubus is any women with a beta boyfriend. They all have the potential to destroy a man if he let's them. Think. How many men crave shit filled pussy so much they'd sacrifice their own life just to keep it around? Succubus may as well be a metaphor for a woman whos man let's her disrespect him, as she will walk all over him.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 04:49 PM
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The journey of self-improvement only really begins when you realize it never ends.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 04:42 PM
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This frustrates me because youth is naivety. It's up to the generation before them to help guide them. Many women people pumped and dumped and claiming empowerment are people who may have avoided it if everyone wasn't doing it or if they knew the consequences. This is true of men as well. Those who knew how reality was might have spent tI'm in their youth planning a better future. It's not accurate to day it's not their fault for not knowing, but it certainly isn't accurate to totally blame them…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 02:31 PM
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If she was your boss and you weren't satisfied with your pay or job description and told her you were thinking of quitting, but she wanted to keep you because you're cheap labour and do what you're told, what do you think she would do? Probably be nice or goad you into staying. Just quit.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 11:00 AM
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I kind of laughed at this ad I agree. I was really angry when I found TRP as Id been burned by an ex and left to clean up a huge mess directly tied to her. Once that passed and I regained focus on myself and started implementing this stuff, I realized that I couldn't have loved a woman before. Now that it makes sense, I can say I can love them. More importantly is that I can say I love myself fully.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 09:57 PM
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Strip clubs are retarded unless you're looking to blow cash and enjoy the environment. The first time I went to one a friend of mine bought me a lap dance. The wrong girl came out, started grinding on me and kept whispering "$80 to go to back room baby." I kept saying we"ll see and obviously never went. Fuck that. I can jerk off for free thanks.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 02:29 PM
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This kind of thing happened to me. I started noticing girls as human more than something I desperately wanted, so I also started seeing their flaws. It's started with the physical, but the more I learned about women the more I was able to put the pieces together and make personality profiles. It helps that I've always been good at reading people, though I could never literally connect the dots. I just knew who to trust and not to innately because I couldn't bring my subconscious knowledge to my …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 08:26 PM
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His argument is about his version of how this sub views women. Switch the goal to personal improvement where is should be. That should fix the issue.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 04:47 PM
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This is one of the worst stories I've ever heard in here. It kills me because it seems you genuinely tried to do well and got ducked by her, her family and a every system designed to make the world move. I have no comparison that comes close, despite knowing that had my relationship with my crazy ex continued it may have ended in a similar way. I can only imagine how frustrated and upset you are. Still, starting to lift and take up hobbies and rekindle friendships makes it sound like you're alre…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 02:30 PM
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This video makes me angry. I was fat and then skinny fat for most of my life only really pushing myself withing the last year or two and have seen huge improvements. Never during that time would I have tried to deny I was fat. I knew I was and I was lazy. People would try and be nice about it but I knew and I was embarrassed. .....So when the hell did we switch the shame I had that drove me to get fit into bullshitting ourselves? This entire video is a bunch of pussies making excuses and denying…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 11:42 PM
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That's actually pretty funny.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 03:52 AM
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I was wondering that, but then I realize if a girl makes all the effort that it's just a pump and dump to us. Even if a guy isn't interested, if she's aggressively perusing she may hit a point where the guy caves "just because." Besides, she's pretty fugly, but she's not super fat so just hit it from behind.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 02:54 AM
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Interesting. I spent most of my life playing games. I had my reasons, I still think they were valid, but lately I've tried playing some games and the interest just isn't there. It's exactly as you describe here. Like a drug I'm too familiar with the effects of, I've realized what they were; a distraction in the form of a hobby. I played them like an addict. They were a distraction from reality. Luckily most of the games I see now are pretty lousy anyway, but even when I try it just doesn't so mu…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 02:27 AM
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I'm supporting this. This is what I wish someone had told me when this shit happened to me. Instead I spent a year looking for answers before I ended up here and had shit click. Trust this advice, it's solid. To be fair, tou can sit with the pain for a week or two if you want. It is important to feel it fully and awkno lodge it before it will pass, but any longer than that and you're doing it wrong.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 02:17 AM
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I saw this add in my city and I laughed. I mean, it was pretty in your face. I actually thought it was ballsy given the climate, but I knew someome was going to cry before long. I find it amusing as this is the type of add that used to be used for comic covers. Sensationalist to get attention. It works. It's been used for ages. Only now is it bad that it's a woman. Also fuck fuck Rose Mcgowan for usimg a childs question to push her own agennda. The correct response to that question should have b…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 04:28 PM
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Yea, it's true. The way I am is very caring, but stern. My sense of humor is varied but runs between crude and vicious to straight up self aware cheese and it gives me a lot to work with.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 03:05 PM
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It's the same for me. I only became aware of much of this gradually over the last 2 years or so, but the change has been dramatic. I think after my ex (the one that led me here) I started looking for answers as to why my beliefs didn't work for me despite giving them my all. That's when I found the harshness of reality. I embraced it because I realized I'd been avoiding it my whole life, and I've become a much better person all around. It really is very simple, but it's hard because it means adm…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 03:04 PM
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I read most of it. Sounds like she's a mess. Not like emotionally, probably BP or something. That whole thing was just emotional vomit. Cut the cord and don't bother with her, even when she tries to contact you. For what it's worth, when my ex left, her letter, that she never sent, was: It over. I need to change my life for the better and I need to do it for myself. Take care. After almost a year of struggling to deal with her issues and losing everything I had, that was my reward. On the plus s…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 03:00 PM
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This is one of the best posts I've ever seen on TRP. It helps explain why TRP puts such a focus in self improvement and personal recognition. The narrative thoughts you spoke about are a fantastic thing to be aware of so that you can find them in others and More importantly, in yourself. That's how you break free. As kids were fed our caregivers mentalities and we eat it up as we don't have the individual confidence or experiences to prove them wrong. The longer we follow them, the more rooted t…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/16 02:47 PM
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What's your response? I had a girl while like this so I touched her nose and said "Aww, button." Made her laugh and it was done.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 10:46 PM
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This is how I'd respond as well. It's the truth.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 10:44 PM
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This is key. You can't be fully on all the time, so make sure when you are able to be off you can afford to be. Eventually the process of working hard and rewarding yourself for that work will be natural and you'll end up feeling better about working hard. We are creatures of habit, surrounded by a culture that presents endless bad habits. Use your brain and start creating good ones. Routines that push you to the limit deserve to have a relaxing point afterwards, just don't get complacent.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 06:48 PM
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I have a rule. That rule is two strikes then you're out. You get one fuck up where I straighten you out and another chance to prove youve learned. If it keeps happening I move on unless you make the effort. It works out really well for the most part.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 04:29 PM
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Seconded. It doesn't last long but DAYUM
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 04:21 PM
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I think this is more a generalized statement of how far the man would go to be free. I'd assume it's not meant to be taken literally. I could be wrong as the post seems to have various parts that seem like they came from different places.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 04:18 PM
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I couldn't tell you. Everyone's body chemistry is different. Mindset goes a lot way too as does the type of life tou lead. There are too many factors. I still don't think it's unusual though.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 10:32 AM
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I love CL sales. I had one guy tell me the price I wanted for my wii u was a ripoff, as if he would find a cheaper one or as if I gave a shit. I had an angry dude tell me the price I wanted for an amplifier was too much but then tell me to keep his number in case I changed my mind. CL makes you the seller. If you have patience you can wait for the right buyer. People are coming to you because you have what they want. When you learn that feeling you can use it elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 07:10 PM
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Being drunk basically reduces your conscious minds ability to reason which by extension increases your animalistic sides presence. It's not at all surprising that it would make you horny or be crazier in bed. Many drugs have those effects. I don't know your age or how much tou drink but the older people get the more of a hinderance drugs tend to become, so watch that. Also don't forget, things that happen when drunk aren't always what you remember: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=oOs2RLC5qKE
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 07:03 PM
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Agreed. There's a lot of little things you can do to make the transition smoother but many people don't think ahead or aren't in the position. Both of those things should be an immediate focus if they aren't happening in your life right now.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 06:56 PM
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It varies on the circumstances and inteterest level. I had a second date with an ex on New Years once and she traveled over an hour by bus in the freezing cold to get back to my place where I lived with my mom. But she was nuts and into me. Sometimes things work out that way. Usually most girls that have traveled for me have been young, into me, crazy or all of the above.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 02:40 PM
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I remember an ex that talked constantly about her ex's. It's a clear sign they're not over it.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 12:56 PM
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Even before I learned all the stuff here I knew superman was the biggest pussy since the vagina.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 11:18 AM
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I do this whenvery I'm feeling stressed. It reminds me that I'm losing it and yo take some deep breath and regain composure.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 11:07 AM
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If the chick is that crazy, pack up and leave. If you want to keep her, stop putting her first. Understand that you can't take care of anyone if you aren't taken care of and that you are the only one who can take care of you. Exercise, eat well, work hard, play hard and take control. It's the only way. She will follow if she actually wants you or leave if she doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 11:05 AM
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Yea, best option. Especially if she was BP. You can expect a call every time she's bummed out, or roughly every 6 months by my experience. Shes just using you of course
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 11:02 AM
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I think it's more like you call allow yourself to feel love at times. You'll never be able to live in it like the woman, but think of it more like getting a fix of love. Once in a while in moderation. That said, this is why it's so important to constantly be evaluating your life and living logically.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 11:00 AM
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Alcohol is a drug. Even those that don't touch substances can have addictions as well. The CC is itself an addiction. It's all just dopamine release. What's important isn't the drug they do, but how they keep their priorities in order.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 10:20 PM
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Often it was the hamster, but her life was her hamster. Truth is her life was shit and she didn't even have a chance. She found the drug and sex culure and it kept her away from her demons as long as she kept it up. Then she found me and tried to use me like a drug, as they do. Despite all that, I don't believe her intents were bad, but she was pretty dumb. She would literally explain her sex drive and her want of family as two different things. At one point well after I went full beta she broke…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 10:17 PM
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I was just thinking this. I'm glad you said it. His post is pretty much just bullet points on what happened and how he handled it.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 09:54 PM
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Your point has merit, but its essentially making the choice (or not seeing a reason to) grow up. It is exactly knowing that you aren't special that allows you to become a full person who tries hard knowing that's what it takes to succeed. People that never come into contact with a need to struggle or improve are likely we'll enough off that they'll fuel themselves with destructive habits. People that do see a reason to improve will eventually realize all the areas in which they can improve and s…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 07:01 PM
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Not surprising. I know a guy who's girl will bring home other guys and girls when they go out drinking. Apparently he doesn't really partake though, so he loses out. I know another group of people trying it and every single girl is unsatisfied with they're men. The men in the group are all friends and seem to be sharing the women. Some are even married. What's the point? Just be a group of fuck buddies, no commitment and split rent in your orgy house. Why commit at all if you don't care to be co…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 06:29 PM
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I always wonder how these guys dissappear. It seems to me that if a woman got pregnant she would just try to take him for all he's worth and I'd assume she could. How is this a thing? Do they just leave town? Use fake info while they fuck her? Do they pick women who they know won't bother following through, or who will just take they're government sugar daddy paycheque and leave it at that? This is actually something I'm curious about. If anyone has inforation or knows people who have gotten som…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 06:22 PM
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Same with my beta-relationship. According to her, sex was just sex. Who cares if the guy cunt in her, it's all just skin. It doesn't matter. Threesome should be had when you're young and sexy. She actually said all these things, but when it came to me fucking her and another woman, or other women in general, man did the jealousy and insecuritis come out. In retrospect I totally get it, but at the time I only had my I tuitions and it was very confusing. That said, just don't date bi-polar drug ad…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 05:04 PM
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This is quite literally the reason for the saying "life is what you make it." It's up to you to decide where you want to focus your energies and go, or by extension, up to you if you don't make those choices and go nowhere.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 11:16 AM
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It's important to remember that feeling bad is an indicator of an area to improve in. You want to find the areas that make you feel had because they are hokes that need to be filled. The more you are aware if then the better you get at being productive and successful in yiur endeavors. If you just get high everyone you feel shitty all you do is delay the inevitable income of the next time you feel shitty because you change nothing. Instead do something rewarding. Exercise. Draw. Create a busines…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 04:58 PM
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Self-improvement is one area where you really see the world. You see your current limitations and your sttemgth/dedication. You see those who root for you and those who use you. Most importantly you see through the cracks. When people tell you "you're good enough" you can either hit stop, bask in that glory moment and eventually back pedal because you stopped improving, or you can keep pushing forward and realize that creating and overcoming continuous challenges is what keeps life interesting.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 11:18 AM
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Reading this just made me thing "Wow, I'm glad you broke up with that bitch." What kind of woman stalks someone, randomly gives them the finger and them pu chest them in the face? I'd hate to hear what the relationship was like. Anyway good job, it's sounds like you pulled that off to a tee. Now start doing that in every aspect of your life and you'll go really far.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 11:19 PM
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18-19 year olds aren't meant to know what they want. The system is designed to keep them going in a direction where they accumulate debt to pay off to the system, a job where they pay taxes and a family to keep the job so they keep paying. Very few people are self-aware enough at that point to know what they want. The best you can hope for most of the time is that they're smart enough to not jump into something stupid without a second thought.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 09:29 PM
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This is an interesting point. I've always valued my freedom, to the point where I look at everything as a set of equations. Not mathematical mind you, but more like action- consequence. So for example, a relationship is an action whereby I sacrifice my freedom for a woman, in return gaining companionship, sex and essentially someone to help in certain ways. Of course, that's not usually how it goes now, but essentially that means it's no longer worth my time to pursue one. This applies elsewhere…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 09:25 PM
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It's this. While I always assume the number is higher regardless, I can get them to tell me easily by acting as if it's irrelevant. When it comes up just playing off like it's nothing. Make a joke about it. Most women sleep around now anyway so if you aren't acting like you care chances are they'll give you a solid hint, though it's pretty much always higher.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 04:53 PM
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You sound like you got exactly what you had coming. That said, you are right in that when a woman is I retested she'll tell you things and completely forget she told you. This happens all the time to me and it makes for some fun moments.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 10:53 AM
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I'm not sure where you drew that conclusion from.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 01:29 AM
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Fat acceptance is one if those things that I'll straight up tell people their an idiot for and then never talk to them. I don't think I personally know anyone who would argue it's good, but if I find out I do, fuck them. There's ignorance, stupidity and then fat acceptance.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 09:18 PM
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That's a good way to put it. I like that.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 01:03 AM
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If they fit the role they portray themselves as and you can read them and act accordingly then yea, I imagine it would make them happy. The guy in the suit wants to have respect, for example. Show him that and his world is fine. This is more or less how I sold to men and assertive women. Younger women or insecure ones I'd flip the switch on and be playful while giving them sass. They ate it up and it usually got me a sale as a result. Again, it varies and some people really aren't what they seem…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 12:52 AM
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People who defy expectation tend to be the most interesting. Or crazy. Either way they do catch your attention.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 12:41 AM
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This is true, but I think retrospectively looking back on verified confirmations on your assumptions of people can lead to good insights you can share with others. For example, it's said a lot here that tattooed girls with short dyed hair and piercings are more likely to be promiscuous. In fact, it's highly likely. When you analyze the reasoning, it makes more sense as those traits tend to coincide with attention seeking behaviour, rebelliousness, masculinity and aggressiveness so you can likely…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 12:37 AM
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Yea, I guess I shouldn't have expected anything specific per sey. Nothing is 100%, I was just curious if you may have been able to hit anything that I wasn't aware of. What you say is true though. Doing face to face sales gave me the same skill to an extent, though I wasn't able to completely understand things until certain aspects of my life clicked. Now it's more amusing since I know what I'm looking for.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 12:23 AM
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I'm basically wondering what it is you see that gives people away. You know, clothing, posture, speech mannerisms, etc. Things to look for. There's not one in particular I'm interested in, I was just curious about anything standout I might find interesting.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 07:08 PM
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Not understanding this is where I faulted in my last relationship. I chose to hold her to the same expectations I would have a male friend. Being raised by a single mother made me think of women as strong. I was never able to see my mother as the insecure, neurotic, lonly self-absorbed woman she was because as a child all I saw was her working her ass off to provide for my sister and I. And to her credit, she did. She had real strength as far as it goes for a mother, but her issues caused a lot …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 04:59 PM
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Have you considered doing a post on signs that people fit into certain demographics? I did cold sales on the street for a while and started to subconsciously be able to place people, but I'm not where I want to be. Something like that from someone who can consciouslt identify these signs would be an awesome read. Or is that the statistic post you're alluding to?
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 02:40 PM
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Yea, you have to have a solid foundation to build a house. It's like how guitar teachers suggest 10 mi utes of practice a day. You burn yourself out too quickly otherwise. You also need to take time to give yourself positive feedback. What I mean by that is if you try to run 10 miles from nothing, you fail and it's over. You can't do it. If you run 5 minutes it's easy. Then once you know you CA do that you try to 10, then 15, etc etc. Each time not just doing it, but proving to yourself that you…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 07:24 PM
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I had a job where I took a $1/h raise and suddenly it's like everything was turned upside down. The responsibilities, the pressure, the constant checking in, all for a measly buck. Never again. Good money is great to make, but it has to be balanced with a good personal life ratio or there's no point.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 02:28 PM
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Nah, it was her decision. One of my exes threw me away because her family moved her to cali to go to rehab and rather than blame her action they let her blame the drugs. She still contacts me every 6 months saying she misses me and I was right and Yada Yada. Whatever, she's a big girl who made her choice. It's not my problem, just like your ex isn't yours.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 11:38 AM
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I'd agree with you on the lack of mother causing codependency based on my own upbringing and lack of parental involvement. It took a while to notice the patterns and motivations but much if what I did stemmed from a need to be good enough and a lot of my actions were based around pleasing others and making them feel good because I didn't have a strong sense of self-worth. When my last ex and I broke up I was able to see a lot of childish patterns that had manifested and traced them back to thing…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 11:20 AM
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This is amusing to me as I e always noticed friends and family reach out if I go awal too long. Some time ago I cut my social life down to a almost nothing and now I've started re-entering and noticed how much leverage it's given me. The distance created a rift between people and they're still not entirely sure how to interprete me sometimes. This gives me a lot of freedom I didn't have when I was pegged as my former self.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 09:18 PM
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That'd be the right approach. Being in an altered mindset can certainly allow you entertain perspectives you may not have though of initially. I think that can be useful. The danger comes when you don't reflect on it after its worn off. In this guy's case, he seemed to say he had a serious streak of physical extremes that would take serious mental dedication. He also said getting high was more recent for him, however judging by his physique and his attitude I don't think he was being honest. He …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 07:12 PM
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I often compare a lot of beta male issues with addicts. It's accurate. They both try to fill the void with something outside of themselves, lack direction and dont draw proper boundaries which leaves them feeling helpless and draws them towards negative activities. My own experiences with drugs ended up with me realizing I was simply trying to escape my fear of pushing myself and failing, and seeing them as a time waster. Everyone I know who loves drugs is lazy in almost every area of their life…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 04:48 PM
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If you work for it you understand and appreciate it, but I'm the tradoff is that it takes time to get it. Most people who don't have it naturally spend too much time trying to make up for wasted time. That essentially is the same as not moving on. It keeps you stagnant.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 02:29 PM
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Kinda have to disagree bud. I've been balding for years. It's noticeable. I've shortened my hair and shaved it before. I'm also I credibly hairy everywhere else. That hasn't dropped me from picking up women. Maybe at first some of them are hesitant, and sure some girls just don't dig it, but it's not something I can say has been an issue for me. It was when I felt it was one though.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 11:33 AM
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I was thinking the same thing. I'm still not entirely sure what happened, but I got the jist of it.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 02:33 PM
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It's true, though obviously to varying degrees. Women are attracted to a strong personality. It's the quivelent of a fit body to a man. Obviously the better shape you're in, the more money you make and all that stuff sweetens the pot, but the attitude is one of the biggest things tou can have. Then just play the numbers game. You'll find something eventually. Really, the reason to lift, work and improve is for you, not women. The women are a side effect that comes from the status and cofidence t…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 02:28 PM
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They do, just don't look for it directly. They're all aware of this. If they aren't consciously, they know it intuitively.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 02:00 AM
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I agree with your main point. Social anxiety is very much an issue with becoming overwhelmed by emotion, which is something that happens when you don't know how to handle a situation, stand up for yourself, assert yourself, or draw boundaries. I look at my life and see the same issues. They are beaten by improving your self worth, which generally comes from allowing yourself to fail. The mental health industry makes a huge profit off selling pills to people who simply don't want to accept realit…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 01:58 AM
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The whole thing just reads like a letter of regret. It says "I made a mistake and I don't want to admit it." She knows this. What kills me is that the first "real" love you have will likely 5ake more than a year to get over if you're really putting effort into changing your life. It's not simply about not missing that person, it's about creating a new lifestyle I'm which what you got from them is unecessary. For a man this works as we are expected to handle the issues regardless. For a woman, th…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 01:50 AM
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In a sense they're right. If he's looking to protect his investment he likely is, at least unconsciously, aware that things could go badly. That said, that advice reeks of jealousy.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 01:39 AM
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It does if she changes her mind afterwards.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 10:45 PM
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This is awesome. I'm going to pretend you drew that and made the article just to explain this.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 03:48 PM
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Single mothers are great for a slam and scram. They put out easily, have little to no LMR and by extension ASD and they go all out with sex on the first few dates. All you need to do is understand the bigger picture and be safe. I think the best thing about them is that given their desperate state and personal issues, they often provide some of the best proof of TRP truths you can find. Within 2 or 3 dates (if not the first) you can spot lies and inconsistencies galore and learn to spot the subl…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 03:46 PM
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This might be accurate if laws didn't side with woman out of the gate. When you look at how things actually are you see that yes, women admit to being sluts. Social media and the Internet has brought this all to our attention and made it transparent. What had that changed? Nothing. All its done is put more onus on men because even though a woman may admit to being a triple cocky gurgling tramp, well, that 3rd cocky in her mouth? That one was rape. She consented to the other two. And Mr. 3rd is n…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 03:26 PM
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I remember one date I had years ago. Herr and I went out, got along well, ended up back at her place making out. I went to take her shirt off and she backtracked. I backed off and we sat there as she showed me the vagina monologs and told how she was into feminism and all this jazz. Far from the only red flag she displayed, admittedly, but by far the biggest. I went to leave and she grabbed me to make out before I left. The next time we met up she said we should just be friends. I accepted at fi…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 03:05 PM
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This is the issue. Too many men getting fucked by things that aren't pussy. Divorce rape, lack of jobs, lack of finances, lack of self-esteem. Who wants to help a society that breeds thesee issues? Slowly but surely people are checking our and when there's no one left who cares. You can't make a building out of brick and then decide to replace all the cement pillars with wood. It won't hold. We're going to be crushed in the collapse.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 02:34 PM
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It's funny because to the inexperienced it looks like they want you so badly they can't control themselves. Turns out this behaviour means theyre low value and probably insane.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 07:03 PM
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Since positive feelings come from a dopamine rush and since you can alter your mind to adjust to new triggers, yea, cheating will become the norm. It's just like a fatty gets release from cake. Even if you're aware of it, once you criss that line, you can't go back. How many smokers will tell you that? Probably all of them.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 06:59 PM
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I've been thinking about this as I've always had music on me when I'm out. I think it's less about stopping you from achieving something and instead more akin to keep f your attention focused away from what's dire tly happening. That is, instead if paying attention to situations in front of you, you pay attention to the music. Cade in point, I'm far less likely to chat to strangers while wearing headphones. That said, if I'm doing something like exercising I find it can be useful to help me main…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 04:53 PM
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Jesus, you lucked out. My mom had me on pharmaceuticals from the age of 7. It fucked with me almost my whole life. I went off when I was 18 and legally able, and it took me another decade just to realize what had happened. My escape wasn't even productive, I just ate junk food and played video games and drew comics. Regardless, on the way out of it all social skills were something I got really good at. Just realize that everyone is insecure and you being weird may get looks, but there's no such …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 05:01 PM
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No way man. Sometimes a raindrop lands on your head and you get married and it's perfect forever and ever. That raindrop is the exception. Yea.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 04:52 PM
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What the fuck. Seriously. This is retarded. Eventually will we be allowed to carry bombs strapped to our bodies because we haven't blown anyone up before?
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 04:48 PM
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Even the higher ups are human. I see many posts from them I disagree with, but agreeing with someone is different from respecting the fact that they have their own opinions. To 3ach their own.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 07:07 PM
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This is true. And I feel bad for anyone who has to go through it. For me it was my ex, a bi-polar drug addict. I had no idea what was happening. Every time I tried to sort out an issue it would end up leading to two more. Eventually my life became centred around simply avoiding her issues. I had no idea how it happened at the time. She was good at it too. To anyone unaware of the situation she seemed normal, or perhaps as a good person with a lot of issues. She knew what she was doing however. I…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 07:06 PM
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My ex convinced me to let her brother stay with us while he set up in our city. I allowed it and that's when everything hit the fan. That idiot would preach about what was right and wrong, make absurd demands, wore my clothes, at one point said he "expected dinner to be made when he got home from his job." He even stole a cigar from a little case in my room that a friend of mine left with me for us to have on another occasion, lit it, outed it and put it back ruining the whole thing. Not to ment…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 05:03 PM
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A good tactic for this is to create a conscious guard against anyone who seems to be flattering you undeservedly. I've avoided lots of issues by noticing that pattern of behaviour, from men and women.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 04:45 PM
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Yea well, everyone has a different opinion on things. Besides, it's wise not to forget that just because you're on TRP doesn't mean everyone is less reactive than any other sub. Some of the comments I see here are just as bad as 13 year old Halo kids screaming obsenaties at everyone. You always have to take 5he bad with the good. I've found a lot of these posts to be incredibly helpful in understanding the way people play mind games and I hope they don't end.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 04:39 PM
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It's true. This ties in with their want for attention. My ex still calls me about every 6 months not understanding why I won't welcome her back into my life. She assumes I'm holding a grudge. She doesn't seem to understand that it's simply a bad investment because I know the same patterns will repeat. But really she's just after the attention anyway so whatever.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 02:37 PM
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These posts are useful because they are literal examples and explanations of what we try to explain to people here. It's one thing to say it's good to do something. It's far more important to explain why.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 09:23 PM
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Doesn't matter to me. Personally I think it's best not to concern myself with idiocy. To me, an entitled bitch is an idiot. I focus my attention on people at the individual level and so I keep my focus on me and those I choose to associate with. I've got a lot of things in my life that need my attention. That's my priority, not payback. My payback will be my happiness.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 09:18 PM
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Because they come from privilege.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 06:59 PM
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She's an idiot. Like most SJW's so blinded by her own twisted sense of wannabe justice that she'd walk over 5 starving men just to ask a woman if she wants some lunch. ...Then if the woman said yes she'd rally the government to pay for it.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 05:05 PM
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Not just alcohol, most drugs in general. Weed is the biggest up and comer as the legalization process proceeds, but virtually everyone I know has a drug of choice which they abuse. I imagine the more things get out of control, the more drugs will be pushed for legalization. While I'm not against drug use and actually believe that it can be useful in some forms, the reality is most people aren't smart about it.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 02:45 PM
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The fact that you had the ability to stop and collect yourself if the most important part of this. This is exactly what more men need to do. Stop, take control of a situation, and not worry about the outcome. This specific thing is one of the biggest issues I see in men of today.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 02:31 PM
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It's too late to admit they were wrong. entire generations of kids have been raised with this mindset. It would take generations to reverse and most people are too blind to even see the issue. Hopefully opinions like hers will eventually show people how fucked up this all is. How long can men sit here and be ridiculed, ignored and abused so openly? Eventually something have to give.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 02:27 PM
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I've been wondering this as well as the more women I sleep with, the less I find myself able to attach. From my understanding and own perspective, I think it's somewhat more complex than just hypergamy, though a lot of people will simply cite that for their own reasons. On the one hand, I think as men were expected to bear the brunt of struggle and protect women. We're raised that way. Anyone BP lives in that filter where they believe they should protect women, although the world has changed dra…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 09:50 PM
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Agreed. Many women do thus and while certainly there are an infinite number of scenarios where things aren't your fault, there are just as many where they are. It's important to take it slow, learn about the person while she's a plate and decide if tou guys fit, assuming you even want an LTR. If you get into one, you really can autopilot it or it'll change and that's that. While you should be about yourself all the time, you still have to be aware of your surroundings. If you pay attentio and ni…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 05:04 PM
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I was thinking of ABNW with this as well. Its bad enough that kids had to deal with the issues caused by inept parenting. Now we can also add physiological issues before the kids are even born because people think it's okay to drink with an undeveloped fetus in you. I mean what the fuck? Everyone know that drugs mess with your body and mind. This is common sense whether you choose to do them or not. When you're carrying someone else, you're action directly affect them. You're fully embracing han…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 02:35 PM
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I've been thinking about doing this soon but I haven't decided which yet. I like the idea of BJJ or MMA, though boxing sounds good too. I have to decide.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 11:30 AM
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This is a good idea for the reason you intend. The other side perk is that you'd be surprised just how many of them contact you before too long. Shit, my main plate gives me shit everyone I see her for never calling, but she calls me on average every week or two depending on how good the last fucking was. The only time they seem to leave is if they're trying to lock you down and aren't getting anywhere.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 11:26 AM
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This used to bug me before I realized it was a shaming tactic. I could never understand why someone would think I was cynical for not just trusting anyone and everyone, or for pointing out that dome things in life suck. I knew a person who would try to make me feel bad by calling me a hipster for not liking the Lord of the Rings movies. These things used to really get to me, when I expected logic and reason from people.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 02:29 PM
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Pretty much every women I know, even if she's mostly good, is guilty of at least several of these. Many of them are guilty of all of them.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 05:12 PM
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What you're talking about is the basis for Buddhist mentality. We aren't what we think we are but rather an Outlook of the way we perceive our experiences. The moment we understand this is the moment we become free, but it takes time to recognize it because, as you point out, there are various mentalities we have attached to our ego die to things like the media and our upbringing.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 07:24 PM
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I read an article once that was talking about drug addicts and one of the key points was that AA and the like is moronic because it follows a structure where former addicts tell you ant it wrong, when instead one should look to the actions of those who can use a substance responsibly. This is also true in many other areas as well. There may be trendsetters for various things, but many of then just found it by accident and never thought about why it works. It takes people to think about it and un…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 04:53 PM
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Not quite. You sounds like I used to before I saw the bigger picture. You're right in that many people use their ego to shield themselves from pain. Case in point is fear of rejection. You put off talking to a pretty girl and defend yourself by saying it wasn't an ideal scenario. What you didn't get across here is that it's okay to fail. The key isn't to pretend the negatives don't exist. That mentality is how people end up following cults. The key is to regocnize the shitty parts of life, of yo…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 04:46 PM
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This kind of stuff is why I enjoy TRP. I do this naturally. Being witty came to me through building confidance and I constantly act like this with women, though I've never actually thought about the connection. I just knew it worked.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 06:54 PM
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No, I disagree. There real cognitive dissonance in a lot of guys. I've mentioned to friends various things to help them with their current issues but they refuse to see it. I've been drip feeding one friend little life tidbits and pointing out actions vs words about his SO only because it's so blatantly obvious to me, but I tried to he more overt with him and that didn't sink on despite him even agreeing. Even myself when I was with my ex ignored everything and anyone that got in the way. It's v…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 05:00 PM
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Yep, it's weird when that happens. I used to find that exact issue with my old circle. Everytime I'd see them we'd just end up getting high and chilling. I don't see them much anymore. I started contacting some old friends from before I took a leave of absence from socializing for my own improvement and found they haven't changed at all either. In the end they have to inspire themselves. Even if you get them excited for change, it ends up being on you to keep them excited, which is a waste of ef…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 02:31 AM
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Growing up was similar for me. A lot of my friends ended up living a life of playing Cod zombies, drinking/getting g high and ordering pizza because they could never agree on anything else. That shit is cute at first, but after a while you need more than a different flavor of booze to be satisfied with your situation. The more people you meet the more you see just how far you can go. That's what gives you clarity on where you want to go. Building life is about taking steps away from your comfort…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 02:33 PM
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This. Make a comment on something to someone then go from there. It's only weird if you're desperate and act like it. Make a conversation about anything and gauge the reaction. If she's happy, feel free to ask for a number at the end. The goal isn't the girl, it's the interaction. Maybe you'll think she's a bitch and not even want her number. If you guys are getting along, you'll know it and won't be afraid to ask because why wouldn't you want to see someone who clicked with again?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 01:57 AM
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That's why it bugs me now that I see it. I understand we've all been indoctrinated into this mindset and are completely oblivious to it all. At first I didn't really buy into the globalism aspect, but the more I look the harder it is to see the connections. And the biggest issue is that most people are so satiated by things like movies,video games, drugs, media, social justice or whatever that they can easily be moved around like sheep chased by a sheepdog to those who see it. I always wondered …
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 09:27 PM
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Men being emasculated is the change I'm referring to. My entire life I knew about this stuff because it was right in front of me, but I was constantly shit down when I tried to accept it. There was almost no one for me to rely on to teach me what being a man was about. That part isn't always how it was, but it is now.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 11:22 AM
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I'm already there. After understanding TRP I realized I'd been there a good number of times and had the opportunity for more, I just was too insecure to recognize it. Now with the focus on myself I've developed, when I see the opportunities with women and I take them, I go as far as I can and the cognitive dissonance in the women I meet is astounding. It was always there, I was just on the other end of the spectrum to the women I generally hung out with because I didn't act like a man with them.…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 11:02 PM
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Define your missions in life and the rest flows from there. Like the rest of it, you plan what you can and change it as needed. I have friends who didn't supply anything who I've left behind. I have friends who I'd happily give my time for knowing they'd do the same. I have aquintences who I either loke and only see once in a while or who don't bother with me much but whom I keep up with simply for those times when I want company just because. How much of your time you give to and to whom is up …
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 09:11 PM
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This is the important part. I realized when I was a kid that throwing a temper tantrum would get me what I wanted, so it became an automatic reaction until I learned better and changed it to garner respect. Crying and throwing temper tantrums is the same for women. Don't give into that shit.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 07:06 PM
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I had a female friend who would do this when I didn't agree with her stances of female objectification. She always made sure to hang up the phone first too. Seems to have changed now that she's a little older and more miserable.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 06:54 PM
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This is one of the most amusing RP things I've seen in action. I recently caught up with a girl I know who's big into the female empowerment stuff due to her own insecurities and who actively used to betatize me. We were having a conversation on how I shouldn't objective women when I flipped the script on her. First I pointed out the hypocrisy of her statement given that she does sales, then later I pointed out that she talks about not wanting to be objectified but loves being tied up during sex…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 05:01 PM
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I'm in agreement. I can usually start to see red flags immediately. People aren't very good at hiding them. This is especially true now since most people are self-absorbed and try to explain and justify shitty behaviour. I also find that acting indifferent and jovial in conversation while keeping g my preferences to myself allows me to easily get information that wouldn't be offered up otherwise. Just last week I met a girl for a date and she didn't put out. I got her to admit she's done it befo…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 02:34 PM
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It goes either way. I like saying hi to people and exchanging a fee pleasentries than moving on if they aren't inmediatly receptive because it implies you'll chat with everyone and those that click will either find a reason to talk later or be more open when I talk to them again.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 10:47 AM
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This is correct information. Think about anytime you've been fed up, inspired, or in some way determined to do what you wanted regardless of anything else. It feels good to do you. The most success tou will ever have comes from not worrying about others opinions and doing what you want to because even if you fail, those lessons are tours for your future benefit. Personally I haye this alpha/beta obsession on TRP. I think it's another way to explain things taken to literally and becomes a persona…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 03:30 PM
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That's just a close friend. I had a hell of a time when my ex and I split and I was growing up from it. I thought I really was the problem at first, the reason she left. I blamed myself for everything. My drug addict, bi polar ex messed with me so hard I questioned who I was. On Halloween night I was partying at my place with my boy and a few other friends and I got overwhelmed with sadness that my ex wasn't there. I went for a walk to grab some smokes and sat down and cried, then went back into…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 05:01 PM
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I think it literally stems from the Freudian theory if wanting to fuck your parent. The issue is that, that kind of parent-child love being sought in the opposite sex is literally the result of a man and woman not reaching maturity, with more onus on the man given reality. Ever since I learned all this, I've been able to understand and see it in others. For example, a girl once pointed out that a mutual guy friend "loves the boss ladies." She was right, and I couldn't see it until I learned this…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 02:38 PM
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I wanted to say that it's good you realists this as you wrote it. This is why writing things down is suggested. You have your answers as well. Setting boundaries and telling people when to step off is important. Do whatever it takes if they push and are rude, which it sounds like these guys are. As for your LTR, you know it should be dropped. Neorea tons ages advice is solid and will allow you to experience what happens when you stand up for yourself and put your needs first. Regardless of what …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 07:05 PM
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I'm backing this up. CBT is hugely beneficial because it points out how absurd your limiting beliefs can be and helps you create a game plan to counter that inaction. Ecstacy can help but I'm hesitant to suggest using drugs to deal with problems to anyone without knowing them. That said, if you're smart about it, go for it.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 04:59 PM
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You answered your own question when you said it depends on your state of mind. There's no right or wrong answer, it simply depends what tou want. To me, a woman who has sold her body has uses it as a business transaction knowingly to male money for herself. If I wanted an LTR for a family or connection, I'd want a woman who uses her body as a business transaction for my loyalty. If I just wanted a booty call, it makes no difference to me. Itd even be a boon as she'd be great in bed and probably …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 02:33 PM
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Their end goal is silencing opposition, not achieving equality, or some sage space. Look at their actions and you can see the agenda at play. Whoever is the most "minority" decide what is offensive. It's inevitable that the more "acceptence" they "achieve" the less minorities there are. As a result they have to exclude the lesser minorities. Gay men are far more accepted now. They'll start getting hate soon. Eventually it'll be white women because despite being women, they aren't minorities or h…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 12:39 PM
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Because having sex just means you're (somewhat) attracted to the person. Being paid for sex means you are literally selling your body. If you're willing to sell your body, the only thing you have until you die, what WOULDN'T you sell? This is why sluts aren't respected too. They just give themselves away. It shows a clear lack of forethought in actions vs consequences. If anyone can have it, it's not special.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 11:14 AM
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Anyone who thinks commenting someone is beta or is an idiot. It's too try hard. People feel great when complimented. It's just our nature. Just be real about it and don't compliment people for no reason. It should be real.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 09:27 PM
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A society that allows it to happen is a joke. Maybe women were always like this, but it was the society that determined the results of their actions.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 07:01 PM
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I think it's kind of like they'd want to lean towards monogamy until they start having sex/ obtaining pussy power. Then it becomes a different game. The young, idealistic part of them may want to believe in true love but all that does it blind them to the reality of their actions. Moreover, less attractive women may not realization they have this power, especially if they grew up with a stern father figure, but once they realize it they want to use it. It's like giving a child a car and not teac…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 02:37 PM
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Just to add on to this, the bhuddist state of nirvana is essentially complete detachment from the world. This is what experience coupled with an IDGAF attitude in any area of your life will bring. Once you reach that you are able to consciously decide what you want for yourself. The danger is as you said, not giving g any fucks. You need to decide what YOU stand for and care about that, otherwise there's no point.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 01:43 PM
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It's great. If you find a girl who isn't in an LTR yet you can milk it too. I bumped into a plate on the way home yesterday and she invited me over. I told her I didn't have my lunch for work the next day and she gave me one. Then I ended up at her place with her and her friends and got beer and food. Shes amusing because she's trying to get me closer in her life, but she coughs up information about seeing other guys. Her friend asked her if I was "that guy" and she sushed her, which again made …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 01:11 PM
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I saw articles like that too and thought the same thing. It just doesn't make sense. It's like showing you the green grass and telling you to believe it's blue. It did subtly tip me off to the fact that ideally you want a mix of af/BB, but that it wasn't one or the other. But really common sense dictates that anyway, you just have to mold it to what you want.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 01:03 PM
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It varies from person to person. There's no one reason. I don't think most of them actually care, it's more of a debate thing where they want to prove my way wrong so they can be right and justified in their relationships, most of which don't seem very good to me. In the end I don't care. I've got my own thing going on and I'm happy with it. If that changes, I'll change my circumstances at that point in time.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 07:08 PM
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Because they think it will make them happy. I've seen almost everyone I know get this look of realization where I mention that nobody I know who's married or dating is happy, which I do whenever someone tries to argue my stance on being single.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 02:40 PM
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She was BP. She also had drug issues and a whack of other things. Part of the reason we split was her going to rehab. I'm glad she was able to get some kind of help. Hopefully it works out. I doubt it will since she still contacts me every 6 months or so. As for me, I'm getting more fit every day, I decided on a career path, I curbed a lot of bad habits, got 2 younger plates and generally just got happier, so I can't complain.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 02:34 PM
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I'm glad you said this. As with any movement, if you want to call TRP such a thing, there are extremists who take it o literally. Much like religious zealots who preach gospel and shit on anyone who doesn't agree. Any extremists is still missing the bigger picture. TRP has good advice, good information, good ideas, but you have to use it appropriately.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 02:30 PM
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That was essentially the entire relationship. She'd voice some expectation or neee, I'd deliver and it would be wrong. It never made sense until I learned all this RP theory. She had a mess of problems and I shouldnt have been with her anyway, but now I see what happened. When it was over I found myself just slowly returning to my usual happy self on my own. That's when I realized the extent of the influence she'd had over me. I'm never giving anyone that much of myself again. It's been about a …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 09:51 PM
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I knew a girl who pulled thus shit. She was a control freak and would always give me shit for not initiating sex but was never interested when I did. Eventually that killed my sexuality attraction for her.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 04:45 PM
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Its a little of both but mostly the latter I think. It's also irrelevant. Shes upfront with me about stuff as much as I'd expect her to be and she's told me she's dating others so I know it won't last, nor do I want it to. I'm not looking for an LTR. But I like the honesty and she enjoys my time so it's working out well for me. When she misses a week or two I usually end up getting a call from my other plate or I spend time with my friends or do my own thing.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 09:16 PM
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No, she's in her early 20's and actually quite solid. Shes been a plate since early thus year and has been quite good to me overall. She ended up contacting me the evening I wrote that which was funny but she has been asking questions alluding to us dating, though she frames them as the opposite and acts like she doesn't care. Shes also gone out on other dates and tried to use that to make me jealous. Regardless I'm not in a place for an LTR so it isn't going to happen. I did have a single mothe…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 05:53 PM
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Yea, I'm not wither of those right now. This is my first Labour job and I took it solely to get some experience because I'm going to school for a pre-apprenticeship program. I've basically decided I'm going to let as much of it slide as possible and jeep my positivity up while I'm here as it shouldnt be too much longer. I do find that at times it goes too far and I have to give them shit, but it's only two of them really.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 05:06 PM
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This is literally why my last relationship fell apart. It started this way and I fell I to the trap of bacKing down. She then resented me for it and it got fucked up. The reality is she was a co trolling freak and I was raised by a single mother, so I learned to stand down when people pushed. Unfortunately that's not how it works. Still, this realization should be instilled in our mentalities as deep as possible. It clears all irrational self-doubt and boosts confidence insanely.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 04:53 PM
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This is new to me. I have a plate who has been asking questions about my opinions on her (or generalized questions pertaining to her scenario) and at one point flat out asked me if I felt she had a chance on our first date. As a guy who fell into the beta catagory before, I'm realizing I may have not given enough fucks to keep the investment. I haven't heard from her for a few weeks, which is slightly unusual.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 07:02 PM
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Randomly pick something about someone walking by and get their attention. For example "Hi, miss pink hat! Yea, you! Talk to me for a minute." Say it with a smile and it works. I met my ex by yelling "Hey orange hair!" while at a traffic light.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 11:17 AM
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These are all good, but I think I mispoke. My issue is with men that act tough but aren't justified. The particular issue im referring to is the place I'm working at right now. It's in the Labour industry so the older guys try to make me their errend boy to do the shit they don't want to as well as lash out at me when things get screwed up, most of which has nothing to do with me. I started here being a yes man because I had no experience and I needed a steady job as I'd just been screwed over b…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 04:48 PM
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This is an issue I'm dealing with now. Trying to figure out how to live my life by my rules without alienating BP masses, as they are a necessity. I'm done trying to enlighten people as there's clearly no point, but now Im trying to figure out how to not just agree with others when their wrong but not cause an argument either. This is an interesting battle for me. Fun to learn, but I'm still not sure what the best course of action is.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 02:38 PM
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Piggybacking on the agreement train here. My parents advice, both single mom and BP dad, left me emotionally vacant, physically out of shape and with no idea how to interact. It took various youth outreach programs, hard work and blind faith in myself to figure out why I thought I was such a mess. Truth is, I wouldn't have been had I had better role Modals. It's funny, I always did very well when I wasn't around them.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 02:32 PM
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It's funny to me now that there was a point in time I thought like this. Dude, return the gift and make the choice to let this one go. Do it of your own accord.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 02:25 PM
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If someone mentions something, even in the negative, they are entertaining the thought. The end.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 11:24 AM
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My ex and several women I know do this too. It's never "my bad" or "whoops, sorry" or even "I didn't know" it's always "it was just a joke."
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 07:05 PM
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100% agree. The more RP I swing the more aggressive I get in bed and women love it. One if my current plates told me sex with me is animalistic recently, which was good to hear as I definitely make sure to rough her up. I think my favourite was a former burlesque dancer who, when I picked her up from layint on the bed and fucked her moaned, "this is the hottest thing everrrr~" That's not something I ever even though about hearing years ago.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 05:02 PM
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I had a friend who would get sappy. Definitely watch it, one time her and I was slapping each other in a bar and my buddy said "Dude, stop." I tms topped laughing, looked around and EVER guy there was staring me down hard. That was back in my more BP days and I didn't grasp the lack of equality.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 04:59 PM
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Once you hit a certain point in prosperity there ceases to be a real struggle. Being creatures of conflict and determination we as a species invest our own struggles. In the past we needed to secure food and shelter. Other times we had to defend our homes, lives and countries. Now though. Now we're defending us from ourselves. We have no struggle and those that don't understand the reward of hard work and sacrifice become superficial and spoiled. That's the decline.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 02:34 PM
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Yes. The girl that opened my eyes to TRP had no real friends and quickly latched on to all of mine, especially my slutty female friend whos been my party partner for years. If I knew then what I know now, right? More than that though, many of my old friends and their friends are examples of this. My old crew was all about drinking and chilling and getting high. Many of their friends have no motivation whatsoever. The ones that have gf/ bfs seem to have partners that are either drama or useless. …
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 02:30 PM
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Yes, good point. I can't speak to your situation but in many cases it's more than just black and white. What I said was a general rule and it helped me look at my life more objectively. Essentially it's realizing "you are the common denominator." When I talk about judging a person by their friendships, I'm talking about seeing who they are. Do they keep negative people around? Why? To make themselves seem more positive, or to partake in negativity? Do they keep skilled around? Why? To seem more …
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 01:33 AM
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I've noticed this about friends. This is admittedly applicable to everyone. I look at the company people keep and I can gather a lot about them. Women who are miserable always have angry, bitch friends. Men who are loses always have dull, uninteresting friends. I cut off a lot of people I used to know because they were superficial. I can't say I wasn't either, but when you want to change you have to do what's necessary.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 11:52 PM
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The problem is when you learn something or see the impact it has on your life, you want to share it. This is especially true when it's new and you're still learning (which is why you should keep your trap shut). Let yourself learn something fully before you share it, so you can share it I'm the correct way, through example, not by being preachy or self-righteous.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 05:09 PM
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Yea, same thing happened to me. I started exercising, started acting more self-assured and just doing what I felt like and former lady friends started poking their heads out and commenting. I found it more satisfying to not reciprocate. I suppose in a way it was pettiness from not being considered hot by them before, because I wouldn't have minded the lay, but it sure was an ego boost to ignore it.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 08:32 PM
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Agreed. There was creativity to it in spades when it was new so it caught on and became a sensation, but the writing really was never that great, with minor exceptions. Star Wars is so ingrained as a classic though that even friends of mine in the would be writer demographic, people who are well read, intelligent and understand how to write a good story, will just overlook it because it's Star Wars. That's why these movies are so easy to fill with cap messages though.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 05:08 PM
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It's weird. I realized after reading a lot of TRP that I wasn't fully aware of herd mentality and how far BP programming had gone, but I've never been so low I'd have been upset at myself for liking to look at boobs. I mean who doesn't like looking at boobs? Even women like looking at boobs. Dafuq?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 02:31 PM
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I was jokingly letting her know her comment wasn't getting her a response. It can be difficult to tell when it's written due to lack of emphasis. Often when someone tries to give me sass with with something like that I go straight into a completely ridiculous mindset and just sass them back.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 02:29 PM
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I won't lie but I don't bring it up. 1 of my plates asks if I was seeing anyone else. I said yes. I know she sees other people as well and I don't care. Since then however I have noticed her doing more nice things more often. The other one hasn't asked though we're both aware of the fact that we aren't LTR. Shes tried to get me riled up my mentioning people she makes out with, but I don't give away info unless asked directly. Moreover when she brags about other people wanting her, I tease her he…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 06:07 PM
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I had to stop reading after the hooters guy. Jesus man, every single person writing g or commenting here makes me sick to my stomach. I was literally disturbed reading that stuff. I feel so bad for these people. How messed up they must be to think like that.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 09:08 PM
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So you meant it literally you love it when people downvote you? I assumed that part was sarcasm. If so my mistake.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 08:58 PM
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Agreed. I think it's probably too far gone now. Only a war or something massive that literally removed much of our population and infrastructure and forced people to work together could potentially redirect this. That said, I stand by my point. If you want change, you have to embody it. It has to be your frame and it has to catch on.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 08:56 PM
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Im not concern trolling. I think youve misunderstood mt point and/or taken my comment personally. I don't care what he does and as I stated, it's his choice and makes little difference in the grand scheme of things. What I'm saying is many in TRP like to talk about manning up for the betterment of our society. If people want things in society to be more just, things like respecting other people and their boundaries is a decent thing to do. You have to lead by example and unless enough people are…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 04:51 PM
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He can do whatever he wants, but the reality is if TRP is going to talk about men not acting like men and women having no accountability, it's a two way street. We as men are supposed to be the responsible ones. We are the ones supposedly to be held up to standards and beliefs that we are to enforce. In this world of today those standards may not exist in the same fashion and may be incredibly rare, but realistically if we're going to preach about being a man, then accountability to respect the …
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 12:51 PM
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That's all well and good but I still don't understand why the downvotes matter to you.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 09:51 PM
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You can replace it with attitude and body language if you'd like. Frame is simply a way to state that someone sees something a certain way and acts accordingly. Think frame of mind.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 07:03 PM
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Blew, good timing on this. I've found myself reading f TRP lately in the same way I used to use Facebook. At first that was fine because it helped drill these ideas into my head from many different angles. Now that that's done though I should probably take it easy. I find myself getting f either upset at sensationalism or just reading the same stuff over and over again.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 07:01 PM
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One of my current plates does that frame testing. She follows my lead, males me breakfast when I stay over, basically does what I want. Yet she's said a couple of times that she has a date, that she doesn't see us dating, or things like that. It's amusing tI me because she beings it up without me mentioning it, so it's clearly in her mind. Moreover, she asked me if I was seeing anyone else and I told her I was and she didn't mind. Shes even jokey suggested inviting her over for a threesom. It's …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 05:08 PM
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There's nothing wrong with fucking up. People don't get that. If you got wasted, fine, but don't neglect t what you have to do. When you are able to actually accept a fuck up and see how much more difficult it made your responsibilities, that's when you can asses whether you still want that thing in your life. If you act like it didn't happen, you end up in a downward spiral.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 02:29 PM
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You are correct but your comments ignore the fact that many people in this sub are only just beginning to learn this stuff. For many if them they are still learning and deciding where they want to draw the line. Your comments here are blunt and direct, which may cause people to overreact, hence the downvotes. Why do you even care though? It's just a downvote.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 11:34 AM
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It's interesting to note that after I began developing my confidence I started to not care what others thought do to my own security with my opinions. When that started happening, all the BP mentalities and morals I was raised with and believes until the end crumbled the Jenga blocks. The realization I got was that whenever I felt shitty it was because I deliberately looked awsy from the truth, afraid to fail, be wrong, or be alone. Ironically, by ignoring those fears I've started to become resp…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 05:06 PM
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I found that when I had a self-destruct though, challenging it to the end was a good way to get over it. For example, if I'm afraid to say something, I ask what the worst thing that can happen is.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 04:59 PM
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I believe I posted this before here, but I recall being about 4 or 5 and jumping off a playground set I to the sand with my hand in the shape of a sword whole pretending to be a ninja turtle. A woman, either a parent volunteer or teachers assistant rand up and told me to stop pretending I was using a sword and being violent. Little care was given to the actual risk of jumping off the player however. I ended up on medication most of my first 2 decades of life because of thing like this and it's o…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 09:12 PM
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She's an extreme case, seeing an issue firsthand and just deciding that's how it is. But I see a lot of people have similar experiences in that they either start partying non-stop, get addicted or decide to act like hot shit because they sell drugs, taking on a pseudo-shaman identity where they act enlightened. Very rarely do I meet people who actually seem to understand the benefites of drugs, how they can use them or what they can do. It may be because in order to fully appreciate a drug yiu h…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 08:42 PM
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Depends on the person. Most people I know who do drugs simply continue using them as distraction and never gain anything of value from them. Most of them are betas and women. I knew a girl who said she told acid and realists she was an alcoholic. Her revelation was that she just needed to accept it and not change. That's the mindset of a typical drug user. They look for answers to questions they aren't even asking.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 11:41 AM
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Depends on the woman. You're applying TRP logic to every woman in the same capacity. Some are more self aware than others, although generally they aren't aware of it. I'd say many can understand what they're doing in regards to how they feel, but often don't know why they feel that way. I have known some women who have used people knowingly and admitted to it in a calculating way. I've known many more woman who just ho "La dee da dee da" and are completely unaware or what they do or why. One ex …
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 03:50 PM
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No idea. It could go a few ways. I imagine some people will wise up, but only those willing to put in effort and understand that life ain't perfect. I'd like to believe that people are interested din improving because so many are unhappy and in therapy, but also knowing that the mental health industry is just anot her part of the health industry Remo ds me that therapy is merely another way for people to line their pockets and most therapists are probably just as useless at treating the root iss…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 03:39 PM
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It's a good book. To be honest I'd say A Brave New World is the more accurate one, though it's possible we'd have to go through that to get to 1984. ABNW has Soma, the drug that distracts people, currently drug acceptance and usage is far more mainstream than ever and Marijuana legalization is already well under way. It also talks about woman sleeping with everyone they want as they are shared, which with our current sexuality climate is quite telling, though women are far more manipulative and …
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 01:19 AM
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I think you're right. If shes made an effort to actually be a good wife and, as he says, he's happy and has bettered himself, I don't see what bringing this up could achieve. On the flipsidea, if he were to catch wind of something happening, I'd be a bit more wary.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 07:16 PM
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You're life, your choice. At the moment I stand more or less in the same place as you. Maybe one day that will change, but that would depend on the woman meeting my standards.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 05:00 PM
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Great post. A few points Ive found are to understand that all of life us work and even though you enjoy some things, it all requires effort, so put effort in everywhere. Another is that feat of failure makes things daunting. Better to just consider that startup youve been pondering as a learning experience instead of a fix all.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 02:34 PM
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I support this as well. It's worth noting that having a loyal woman is often part of the fantasy, maybe the biggest part, and when betas do everything they know to continue that fantasy and she leaves anyway it throws everything g else they know about gender norms put of the equation. That's how I got here and I know I'm not alone in that. I also like what you said about a filter. I noticed that growing up. The urge to tell someone they were wrong or to do something a better way when I knew I wa…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 02:31 PM
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Good point. This is one of those things I generally do well with because I'm naturally sarcastic and kind of cocky. A good example is the other night a plate I'm seeing asked me what time I was coming over after work. I told her I didn't know, but probably around the usual time. She then said her friendson wanted to come over and she wanted to know if she should let them because she really just wanted to have sex. I told her her to just tell them they could come but give them a set time to leave…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 01:04 PM
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Whatever floats your boat. Most girls nowadays are spoiled and self-centred and I can't deny this. I believe the potential to be a loyal woman exists in every woman, but very few will ever realize it because it takes a lot of exteral circumstances and even more internal work to maintain that loyalty. Of course I could say the say for alpha men, really. Our society doesn't lend itself to either of these scenarios and unfortunately seeing how things are has put me in a position where I can't take …
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 11:36 AM
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She isn't interested = Fuck it I have shit to do This is the equation you want.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 11:18 AM
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I'm not as partial to the absolutist stance as others on here. That is, while I agree with AWALT I view it as a scale. Some women are more capable than others at recognizing their motivations. Still, I agree that the vast majority are not worth any real investment and the ones that are aren't worth the risk of marriage. I'd enjoy an LTR for the simplicity, but at this point I haven't found anyone who I'd consider stable enough to have one with, so plating it is. That said, the more indifferent I…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 02:23 AM
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Kind of a lousy situation to be in. After learning how this all works I haven't been able to see women the same way. I'll play with them, but it's hard to take them seriously anymore.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 02:12 AM
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It's pretty likely yeah, but sadly that's the catch 22.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 01:51 AM
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The reason doesn't change the fact that their actions continue to draw them the same results. It is what it is.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 01:29 AM
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There was a chart someone made to explain the actions trashy girls take that pointed out how they were the common denominator in their relationships with the men that were "all like that." It was really funny and accurate, but I can't remember where I saw it. The point remains regardless. Superficiality can be pointed out to someone by telling them the definition of insanity is doing the same thing repeatedly and expecting different results. If you keep fucking people who just want to fuck you, …
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 08:38 PM
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A friend of mine had a birthday some time ago. At the party there was this girl who was trashed and hitting on me hardcover in the most sloppy ways. This girl was maybe a 4 at best and was talking about how she grew up as the loser at school and a few things stood out. The first was that she said she finds intelligence sexy, then admitted she just had a fling with a guy she liked too much but "He was so hot so you cant blame me!" The second was that she said she's only recently begun to understa…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 07:08 PM
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My ex pulled a lot of this. Some really good ones are the fact that she would claim to be a nudist, be naked around many of my friends and then tell me I was jealous when I objected. She also had videos of her fucking her ex on her laptop that she refused to delete, telling me she wouldn't do it because she doesn't want to be bossed around and saying she's never watched them. There's a lot of little things too, like guilt tripping. For example she never did dishes or cleaned despite me working a…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 05:09 PM
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I like the idea of being able to talk in a male space. It's an important one, especially for people who grew up with single mothers and had their masculine traits snuffed out whenever they appeared. I don't necessarily agree with trying to show reality to people who aren't interested, but if they want to cone, that's cool. One step at a time. I'd like to see more if this as I've noticed many if my friends in relationships have become pussy whipped to the point of becoming anxious and unhappy. I …
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 02:33 PM
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Ah, I don't really understand investing. It's something I need to look into. Either way, it's good for you that you're in the position you are.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 11:13 AM
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A good add on point is that hoarding really only limits you to what you have. You become afraid to lose it and eventually develope a mentality that you can never get it back if you do lose it. The opposite is true as well. If you have something and offer it, you essentially take its unique ess away from you, but in return you expand your inventory by developing other things. Teaching and sharing them at the same time build you allies and a solid foundation to grow on. Or in simpler terms "You ha…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 04:59 PM
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This some fact fucks with so many people it's making the world a painful place to live. The irony is that ego is a defense mechanism for weak minded individuals who won't leave their comfort zone. It's not surprising western society has turned into a spoiled child.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 01:47 PM
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Even reading that was painful. They more or less just jammed puzzle pieces together to make a picture, except the pieces were from a bunch of different puzzled and most were the wrong size. That's areticle is the written version of Frankenstein. It's also stupid as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 01:36 PM
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I don't feel that bad about it. I figure if I couldn't see what was right in front of me all my life, I wasn't ready to.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 07:11 PM
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I have maybe one or two friends who I could count on. One of them is less accountable now as his gf has him around her finger. I hadn't a tuslly given it much thought, but this is quite true when I think about it. That's pretty sad, but I'm not surprised. I don't really make a habit of doing favors for people anyway. On a side note, I noticed that when I started changing my mindset to me first, a lot of nice things I did or felt guilty about, I no longer cares for. For example, giving change to …
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 02:35 PM
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The whole thing read like an advertisement for being sneaky. You don't need sales for a number. Just ask for the number. You don't need a reason. If you think you do, you night as well just tell her you want to lick her pussy. Just be real.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 07:00 PM
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To be fair, if he dealt with it as he did, he didn't love himself either and by extension didn't love her. That said, he needs to just let his insecurities out. Look at them for what they are and start bettering himself. It's the only way out of his current mindset. Pick up your sticks, bro.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 04:58 PM
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It's true what you say about trying to fill the void with a relationship. Once my last one was over I realized I'd stuck it out with someone who showed me no respect and essentially used me. I quickly realized I'd been raised with and held on to a martyr complex. Once I got rid of that, I realized that I really was just trying to use someone to fill the void because I didn't want to think about what to do with my life. That's also the reason why I never continued my education, got into drugs and…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 04:55 PM
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"Are you gay?" "Are you interested?"
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 04:48 PM
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This needs to be understood. I've seen far to many cases of people who choose to believe something happened when it didn't. And it is a choice, don't forget that either. We may not realize we can control our emotions, but we can and if we aren't going to learn that than we are among the lowest of the low, as life appears as something that just happens. I've had an ex that loved me, then hated me, then left and hated me for well over a year. Now she's contacting me telling me how gentle and lovin…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 02:34 PM
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They are useful as a crutch if you are taking the necessary steps to get things back on track, such as higher ing yiur education, working on having more internal pride, being positive and any number of things that make you happy. The problem is people are led to believe they should just stay on them forever and not change their situation. That's the big issue. Also there's the fact that you have have some pretty rough withdrawals from them when you stop. What kills me is that you can essentially…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 11:41 PM
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All those things are common for saving money, but you said you could retire in yiur 30s. That sounds insane to me. You'd have to be insanely well off to be able to not work from the age of 30. What I meant is what job do/did you do that brought you that much income? I'd assume a personal business, but damn.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 11:33 PM
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Kid, you got the goods. This is a taboo issue even here, but having dealt with many times in my life I agree with you. Sadly, the pharmaceutical industry profits heavily off "fixing" depression and people are too ignorant or weak to do anything about it.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 02:18 AM
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Admittedly I understand where the guy is at as I've been there myself, but at the end of the day he does have to get up and deal with his shit. I don't really blame the woman in this case. If her end is true, she's working and having a hard time and that gets exhausting on either end, especially when the other person isn't trying. I don't like is how all the pressure is put on the guy and the perspective flip when it's the other way around, but at this point I expect it.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 02:06 AM
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What do you do that's got you financially stable at 31? I'm in a shit position at 30 and I want to turn it around. Any advice is useful to me here.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 09:40 PM
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I like your point on TRP advice. Sometimes is so over the top it's ridiculous. That's important to remember as people come here for advice, but often what is given is perspective. Anyway, as I always used to say, Why would I take dieting advice from a fat doctor? I wouldn't. You lead by example.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 09:35 PM
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My issue is the lying. It sounds like the claim was made then everyone jumped on it trying to get theirs. I'm sure Gomeshi did do some shit, but more than what he did I think the onus is on those women for lying. I also do believe it's at least partially regret-rape and not full on rape. I think Gomeshi is a rough guy and got rough, and maybe he did do some shit they weren't conformable with in the moment, but instead if stopping him or not seeing him again, they continued to do so because they …
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 09:32 PM
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I agree with your comment as I found drugs (specifically mushrooms and mdma) helped me start accepting some issues I was afraid to even think about sober. But I stress the responsible part. Drugs arent the solution people make them out to be and I've seen far more people hold themselves back from using drugs than boost themselves forward. They are only effective when used to deal with issues in the way truthyego suggested and frankly, meditation does the same thing without the risk of abuse.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 03:56 PM
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Moat of that article is bullshit. The so called victims that return to their rapist aren't trying to get control, they want it taken from them. They want to he dominated. The issue became that they wanted to continue to be with someone and they couldn't, so then felt guilty because they were rejected and they know subconsciously that the next guy will likely not take them seriously for LTR because they slutted it up. If you are truly traumatized you don't seek out more situations like that. The …
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 12:59 PM
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This was one of the things that woke me up too. I spend years self-conditioning myself to repress my anger because I wanted to be the guy who didn't care. Then after an ex fucked my shit up I realized I'd been spreading my emotions since childhood and that I'd confused superssion with control when I was anything but. Realizing I could get angry at people blew my mind. It was like I'd cut off a part of myself and forgotten it was there. Letting it in made me whole. I also became able to understan…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 11:31 PM
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If the exec had said that to me I would have looked him in the eye and told him the truth with no remorse, as well as told him he's making poor decisions that will cost him effort if not money in the long run. I'd also have dropped in a line about how people are avoiding her because the whole team knows what she's saying is false and they're afraid of her disliking them and lying, as it's become apparent that they could lose their job. I'd also be far more choosy with my words to ensure my team …
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 02:37 PM
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Yea, it is a super effective flirting tool. I tend to start lighter and exaggerate more at first, but by the time I'm sleeping with her it's escalated to full on insulting and she happily plays back as it becomes a goofy game. In fact, I find it works best when we're goofing around. I told someone the other day who was giving me sass to "stop making noise with her face cunt" and we both burst out laughing.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 10:50 PM
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On reddit it's extreme. It can be difficult to know how someone meant something when it's just words with no emphasis. Most people don't understand how to use written language to their advantage. When it comes to real life, it's even worse. I'm very sarcastic and I can inmediatly pick out insecure people because they argue or defend themselves with an obvious sarcastic comment. If I'm being deadpan when I'm sarcastic it often completely goes over people heads. I've always found that weird becaus…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 05:04 PM
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Yea, it's a package deal and half of the package someone else should be taking care of. In my experience single mothersource all have issues beyond what people should have to deal with.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 11:22 AM
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I like how two people mentioned the collarbone. It makes sense but I've never thought to look for it in pics.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 07:00 PM
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Don't trust the over the head angle. Don't trust a lack of body shots. These girls are overweight and they don't like it because they KNOW the results of it but they are too lazy to change. They are liars, essentially.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 04:56 PM
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How long you been playing out of curiosity?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 04:43 PM
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Agreed. If you are comfortable all the time you aren't living life, you are having it lived for you. Pain breeds character. How you handle it says a lot about you. Thanks for the tips.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 04:42 PM
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I agree, but it's such a shame. They go so far to please you for the first few dates, until they realize it isn't going anywhere. Not to mention that of you don't, someone else will.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 02:34 PM
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I agree. But they also knew when to withdraw their love. Your post comes off as if you need to have love for everything, which isn't true. Some things you don't need to love. Some things you hate just avoid. Love is not endless. Or rather, those who love endlessly will be used if they aren't careful. Love all you want, just font give that love to the wrong things.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 01:43 PM
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Ive been through it so i get it. That said, fewer people are willing to look these days. Little boys are diognosed with mental illness simply for being little boys, then come the doctors and pills and the destruction of their self-esteem It's not right. We're now at a point where parents have already gone through that system and think it's correct, so they put their kids through it, continuing the cycle automatically. It's a problem and it takes self-aware people, not doctors, to fix.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 12:19 PM
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Agreed. I like how you put that. The difference between depression and simply being depressed is that the former means you've given up for whatever reason and let your emotions control you. The latter means you are sad and understand that it will pass, so you do what you have to do anyway and let it fade, understanding it's a natural part of life. It's a shame more people don't accept this and instead hide behind the mental illness label as if there's nothing they can do. The very nature of depr…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 11:38 PM
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I agree with you there. You don't have to fight it or join it. Learn it, understand it, and use it to your advantage. I think having a good amount of time you dedicate to yourself and your interests and your development is integral. You have to learn where you stand to do this however, and that's my issue with society. From birth, kids are molded into BP. Then it's so much more work to unlearn and catch up in the areas you were BP in. I also think this is a big instigator of depression in people…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 07:17 PM
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I agree with you on this and I'd add that because almost every aspect of life has a culture around it. It's virtually impossible to avoid involving yourself in the BP world in every way because society is sustained by BP people. Some are more aware than others, but BP people need BP outlets and BP goals Even if one is RP in most ways, they likely are BP in some others. But if you find yourself in a "culture" you need to be aware of the potential loss of individualism and real world values and co…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 03:15 PM
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This is one of most frustrating realizations. Growing up, all my anger and frustration and depression cane from this. Wanting to be a male, not having any male role models, being raised by a single mother I had to depend on to live and assuming she was an adult and must know more than I did just because of that, even though I knew better in many situations. Looking back, there are so many times listening to her mad emy life worse. When I finally understood how this all works, I was mostly mad at…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 12:02 PM
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It's hard to argue against that. I think the alcoholic minds is apt, but my issue with it is that is you are able to handle a drink once and a while and continue living life as you want, then you aren't an alcoholic and it's purely a choice, whether it's one you yourself would make or not. I also think people who are raised RP or come to a point of erasing BP mentalities can handle that drink without returning to their old ways. It takes a complete shift in mindset and requires a conscious to su…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 11:20 AM
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I think this is a problem only if it's pushed on kids like a religion, as they adopt these believes and actions without thought. For someone who understands how things work, it's just a time killer. Personally I don't have an issue if someone wants to spent a few hours watching TV or whatever. I find from your comments that you seem to stress a complete pull from the system. I think that could be necessary at first, but once you internalize the concepts here and start living the way you want, al…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 08:50 PM
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Honestly, that's a good point. It's not necessarily a lie, but it's never good, optimistic news. Honest.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 03:52 PM
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I'm better at it now. Ironically to get better at it I had to learn to be more selfish and self-centred.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 02:57 PM
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I wouldn't apply what 8 said strictly to TV, but to use your example and elaborate, you have to think outside the box. In this case, the benefit doesn't come in a direct way It would come from seeing the show and knowing that many people enjoy this, so you can have something to build rapport with should you need it, as well as seeing the mentality that many people enjoy and learning to pinpoint aspects of people's mentality based on these shows. To be more clear, you could say someone with an op…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 02:26 PM
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My sister today couldn't see the irony in this. She then told sarcastically said she couldn't believe a brother if hers would rather Trump Win than Hillary, despite agreeing with the points I told her about logically. My favourite part was when she told me he said that to win against terrorists you have to go after their families and asked me if I thought that was fair. My response was to ask her if she thought a terrorist would worry about the same thing. She didn't really have a response to th…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 12:09 AM
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Also, don't be fooled by appearances I'm definitely different than what my photos may suggest>> Whenever I see this I'm reminded of this time I went out looking for an easy lay with this girl who was all about being slurry. She was tired when we showed up and told me she had a threesoms the night before. She said she was bipolar. Shes been on naked news and has naked insta gram picks and is generally all about slurring it up. We hit up a bar for karaoke and she picks a song with lyrics about "lo…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 11:32 PM
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AS Dave Chappele pointed out "Just because I am dressed this way, does not make me a slut." Okay sure, but you are wearing a sluts uniform.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 11:26 PM
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I always found that funny. It's like when someone says "honestly" before a sentence. I immediately get hesitant.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 09:03 PM
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This. TRP didn't take your innocence. It's more like you were ready to accept reality due to your own experiences and TRP was here to help you understand what happened. It doesn't go back to the way it was, but like any severe change in mindset you likely do have a defense mechanism in place to make you hesitant while you change your mindset and life to align to your new knowledge. While it won't go back to the way it was, it won always feel isolating or lonely. You'll just orient your life to a…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 02:09 PM
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If I could go back 10 years and learn all this then I'd do it in a heartbeat. I would have rather spent 5 years focused for the payoff then party and make no progress. I'm still lucky that I learned it when I did, but no one is going to take that away. I don't care if idiots like those or my own family. No one worthwhile tells you how to be. Also good job mocking them. That'll grind their gears for a bit, hahaha.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 02:05 PM
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This post succinctly explains a lot of what I internalized when I decided to distence myself from the world to fix some issues and get my life on track. I think the issue is that we know these things innately, but the world gives us so many options to distract ourselves (TV, Video games, partying,etc) that we choose the path of least resisted center even though we're capable of more, so we end up hating ourselves. This is depression, essentially. We get ourselves into that hole. On a side note, …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 01:55 PM
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It was a metaphor. I'm saying be aware of the positives and the negatives and know what the negatives are so you can limit them. Also, I don't believe there is anything wrong with partaking in unhealthy habits from time to time. Again, the key is moderation. It takes being realistic and honest to with yourself to moderate things, but if you do so, you really can enjoy almost anything. Whether you want to or not is another story completely.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 01:32 PM
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I can't say for sure. This isn't an area I have much experience in. I've heard polyamours relationships can also be a great way to get over jealousy. I suppose if everyone contributed equally and there was proper connection/etiquette in may be possible, I just don't see that being the case in my experience.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 11:10 PM
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A little poison can build an immunity.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 11:08 PM
1

Sometimes if someone is trying to be a shithead, I call out what they're doing and make up reasons why in a fake, confused way, or kind of suss out theyre intentions. For example, I had a cast and somwomw made a hone about my broken leg and I laughed and call ed them out on pickimg easy tages, implying they wrent sharp enought to mock me more effectively. This works for me because I come off sarcastic though. I'm good with intonation and giving words the right amount of punch to get my message a…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 11:07 PM
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Ah, there we go. I kept trying to find this in the article but it wasn't articulated well. If that's what he meant I agree. My problem with is that while I can say I'll love someone unconditionally, keeping them around is conditional. Eventually, if someone does nothing but take, it becomes impossible to stand by them regardless of how much you care. To that end, the unconditional love part would be telling them you can't handle them anymore and they need to give back. It's like if someone has a…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 08:26 PM
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My sales boss used to say "you know how to tell if they're still interested? They're still standing there." If people are really fed up or not having it, they leave. There are exceptions for people with very low boundaries but generally they're the exception. Moreover, I remember one girl I was signing up for the product. The entire time she said "no, no, I don't see any reason why not, but I can't, no" until fo ally I said "Listen, we've been doing this for 20 minutes. You don't have any reason…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 03:13 PM
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This is the thing to me. If they are just fucking and there's no rap relationship transaction, why call it a relationship at all, poly or not? If he's more into her or providing, then he's allowing his resources to be used. Even if he's okay with it, objectively he could use that time/money/ whatever for himself, so he's losing something for her gain. If she's more into him, he's just plating her. When I look at it from a facts only perspective and not how they feel, I can't see how a poly relat…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 12:54 PM
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I feel ya, you got burned. BTW, that other girl wasn't as great as you think. No one worthwhile tries to be a home wrecker. In absence of other facts, she probably has emotional issues if she's chasing g after someone emotionally unavailable
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 12:43 PM
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Jesus this is terrifying. All it would take is 3 highscool girls with too much spare time to pick some guy and all make report ls on the app to ruin his life. Fuck these selfish idiots.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 12:18 PM
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The idea you're getting at is that they'll essentially berate you and use strawman arguments and red herrings and whatever other distractions they can to get the man's head spinning to the point where he wants to logically argue each point but has to untangle all the pieces first as he can't do that correctly until the mess of inaccuracies has been sorted, so that it makes logical sense. If the man stammers or gets defensive or tries to justify things instead of simply controlling the situation,…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 11:16 PM
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This is an interesting point. I remember a girl I dated who would constantly become emotional would always calm down when I explained what I thought was going on. Certain things like how she was angry and giving me shit because she wanted attention and felt like I was insulting her when I wasn't (she was insanely insecure and took most things personally). It was weird. At the time I felt as if I was just putting out fires, though in retrospect I was controlling the situation by being calm and lo…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 10:53 PM
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It's too bad. In my opinion, after having done a lot of self-work and found a lot of my own personal problems, I see a lot of internal issues other people have leading them down these negative paths. Them, due to not knowing how to solve the issues themselves, they listen to BP answers which are more likely to screw them up. I think if people really took more time to grow themselves instead of filling their spare time with junk-activities they'd see reality so much easier. It's just sad that soc…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 09:55 PM
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I pointed out to a friend the kind of negatives that could occur, pointing to the financial risk. It didn't do anything, nor did I think it would, but that was fine with me. I'm not alive to think for others. It just doesn't make sense though. Even as a kid it didn't make sense. I suppose I came from a family with trust issues and divorced parents though, so that affected my input as well.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 05:02 PM
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I agree here. Even as a kid I remember finding commercials to be dumb as hell. I never thought of it as pushing an agenda or anything back then, but it's only gotten worse. Still, you should never be blind, and that means seeing the negative things in life as well. Just make sure to moderate everything you can, as things sneak it subconsciously most often.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 04:55 PM
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Honestly man, I get that it hurts I've been there in many ways, but revenge isn't the answer. What's more important is not getting him back for the past, but making sure he doesn't walk all over you in the present and future. You said you've improved. That was you. He couldn't hold you back, so why are you letting the past memories of him do that now? If you want to fight him it will only brew more conflict. Bullies aren't worth the time. I find calling them out for their actions in a confidant …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 04:46 PM
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I should clarify, I make exceptions for certain media that appeals to me. Being an absolutist on anything isn't good, after all and sometimes the odd show can be useful for a stress relief or break, as can anything else. Plus it gives you something to talk about with people. Nothing wrong with that. The only issue in my eyes is when TV is your hobby. That's a waste. Everything in moderation, including moderation, after all. Still, my point is that even by removing a chuck of TV (or whatever repl…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 11:39 AM
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When I was about 15 I stopped watching TV. That alone pulls you out of the same tell as many others. Nowadays I avoid major news outlets, TV and rarely see movies. My vice I'd video games, but even they have lost a lot of appeal over the years. What's left is up to your creativity, but really that's the point. Pick up hobbies you enjoy and think for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 12:17 AM
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Ah, more lies. Dig that hole baby. Dig until they all come spiraling down. It kills me that people can't just own their shit.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 08:33 PM
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This is a solid post. I'm going to add that while he has every right to be pissed (and it seems he's pissed about the right things) the only way to get past the anger is to improve himself and let time and accept encephalitis do the healing as he improves. I've been here for over a year and I'm only now fully accepting things and becoming happy again. You have to remember you're letting your old way of being die. It's akin to going through the 5 stages of grief. It takes time and you have to go …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 11:22 AM
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That's so great, I'm sure it would have worked. What an alpha you are. Your dick must be so huge bro. Anyway take your arrogance and piss off. I'm not interested in dealing with your attitude.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 02:29 AM
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It's more akin to being a stubborn, angry, child than clever. When you are told that you've screwed up your chances at a good relationship/ safety net by being slutty but are able to blame anyone but yourself (say the entirety of the opposite gender), why would you assume you were in the wrong? Women were able to get away with this for ages. Now it's becoming obvious due to feminism and societies mommy-obsession and daddy issues and the internet bringing information to us. Men are angry. They've…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 11:53 PM
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I had an ex who did the same thing. She'd make comments about a friend of mine using her body and being slutty to get attention, but how she would never do that (despite wanting to be naked around friends and have 3somes and all that good stuff.) She would always be hyper-aware of how people didn't really care about her and throw fits because people were ignoring her, as if social interactions where a game and a popularity contest (that was telling). She would big herself up and tear others down…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 10:34 PM
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I'm really wondering where everyone get's this idea that I blamed him.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 09:58 PM
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I don't blame her for being angry. That wasn't an issue. At first I regretted it, since she was clearly upset. I didn't think it would be a big deal and we'd just get her another tea or whatever. It's when she berated everyone and started insulting people and wouldn't leave the kid alone that I stopped caring. It went into overkill, and that specifically was my problem.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 09:58 PM
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I did tell her. Maybe you shouldn't assume I was able to fill in every detail that happened over the course of 6+ hours in a reddit post. And while you're at it, get over your need to stereotype every situation to "BP" or "Alpha" based on a short description of larger events from someone you've never met. That said, feel free to share how YOU would have handled the situation, since you must have a better idea based on your overly-insulting comment.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 09:55 PM
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My buddy told me he read this post and I thought it was TRP in a nutshell. The poster posts here. He know TRP, by the way. But this is highly accurate.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 05:06 PM
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I like these inspiring posts. They ring true. Everyone I've dealt with "depression" it's simply been me shedding an old mentality and dealing with the loss of the old me. It's a shift in mindset, and it's scary and uncertain. Every time I've had to struggle it's ended up pushing me to become a better person. Every time I've felt alone I've filled my loneliness with something personally fulfilling. Life isn't about being comfortable. Some fort breeds boredom. If you had all the money in the world…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 05:01 PM
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The simple fact is most people don't even question society. Far less people see reality than become BB or follow a script. That's the point. Usually, at least in my experience, it takes a certain kind of person or circumstance to wake someone up. After all, if you're fine with the way things are then what reason is there to change?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 04:46 PM
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Lol, same. I thought it was a good thing at the time. Oh well, the more you know.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 02:30 PM
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This. The other day I was seeing my buddy. We went out for dinner with his g/f and her 12 year old nephew (who has single mom and ia clearly being affected by it emotionally) and when my buddy and his girl went to the bathroom we poured salt into her tea. Admittedly it was dumb, but a little practical joke never hurt anyone. Except she ended up throwing a temper tantrum. She gave the kid shit, threw one of those "I'm playing on my phone temper tantrums" and told everyone to shutup of they told h…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 02:07 PM
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Agreed. That's where self-improvement and introspection come into play. I was head over heels with my last LTR, but I've changed since then. Now I wouldnt be attracted to her for anything more than a plate, if even that. It has nothing to do with her though, it's because I decided to change things in my life and as a result would want someone who more closely resembles my wants and needs.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 08:45 PM
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The thing here is that regardless of whether she's interested or not (which she almost certainly isn't) she's made it clear that she's flake, a bad planner, or doesn't care about your end of the equation. Essentially, at least in my eyes, it's no longer about whether there's a mutual interest but what she'd bring to my life if the meeting came to fruition. My assumption of her is now no longer positive and as such I would likely not bother to try again. If she reaches out then I'd be willing to …
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 08:40 PM
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I half agree. There's a ton of information availible to anyone with Internet access. Most people just use it for porn, but it's still availible to those who want it. That said, I think we live in a world with far too much happening and we become distracted, then we do t take action, and then we stagnate. I think the correct solution is to be open to anything, but keep focused primarily on what you want as far as goals and interests go For example, I enjoy the idea of starting a business. It's no…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 07:01 PM
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I noticed the same thing. There's good info here and it takes a while to digest it all, so constant reading is repetition to help memorize stuff, but there's a lot of negativity here and it can become overwhelming too. It's understandable given the subject matter to see a lot of anger and pessimism, but you are what you surround yourself with, so be careful.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 04:55 PM
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This reminded me of my situation with the ex that woke me up. I did some pretty pathetic stuff. She always turned it around on me. I realized after the fact that I should have ended it but my desperate fear of being alone disguised itself as White Knight Syndrome and I convinced myself I could and should help this poor, suffering girl. We're all able to delude ourselves. Most of us do. Hopefully those two realize they need to deal with they're own shit before they invite anyone else into their l…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 12:37 AM
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I like that bit on "your type of girl." I see it constantly in people around me and with myself in who they're attracted to, as if that was "just how it is." No, you were raised a specific way. If you improve yourself the way you want to improve successfully and grow as a person, you change internally. This means that what you want and need from a woman will change as well, hence "you're type" is different. It really is all about you in the end. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 11:58 PM
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I like this analogy. There's a lot of hate for hypergamy and that's understandable given the structure of society and the expectations of men but it IS natural and not meant to be vindictive. The vindictive part is due to society letting them get away with it. The reality is everyone wants what's best for them. We don't always know what that is and sometimes even the best of us can get into hot water with the best of intentions. The best way to deal with it is to take care of yourself first. If …
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 11:38 PM
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Good post. This is something that changed my outlook on life in regards to dealing with depression. I used to have a lot of beliefs that I was brought up with but knew better than. I would follow those beliefs because everyone told me to instead of what I genuinely thought I should do and I ended up feeling like I wasn't being true to myself, which lead to depression. I still notice things like this at time. I probably will always find things like this. What's important though is that you own it…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 09:56 PM
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This is your world. Do what you want with what you have. You can never have everything, or most things. All you can do is decide what gives you the most satisfaction and put your time and attention there. Maybe it's women, maybe it's money, maybe it's art, maybe it's something else. You do what you want and you enjoy it. Don't focus on the anger, it's a waste of time and energy in the long run. Use it as a launch pad and then move through it towards a better goal. The fact is you could replace w…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 08:23 PM
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A lot of the methods I see spoken about here are essentially a result of being proud of yourself for legitimate reasons. The reason it doesn't seem that way to some people is because we explain the logic behind them. Emulating that is similar to the PUA method. It can be a subtle difference. I'd equate it to my sales job. When I started I just emulated. I had results but they were shaky and uneven because despite acting the part, I'd didn't know why it worked and wasn't secure in my skills as a …
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 04:41 AM
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The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference. Even negative emotions are investment. It probably why they say there is no such thing as bad publicity.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 05:55 PM
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I'm always complimented on being a great kisser. I never used to know exactly why until I understood the subtle communication involved. It's very much communicating you're sexuality compatibility, not to mention genetics and the like via saliva and hormones.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 05:12 PM
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I find you're post incredibly difficult to follow. It's written like ADHD on paper. Maybe it's just me.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 05:55 PM
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I'd ask yourself why it is you want an LTR. With my ex, I thought we had it made. Looking back, it was a joke. After enough time went by she bailed and fucked somebody else. Shes contacted me since, basically run the entire TRP gamut. I realized I had wanted a relationship because it looked like an end game. It was someone I could stop on my journey of life and say "this is far enough, I'm happy here" instead of continually having to keep going. I think as men, so much is expected of us that we …
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 07:13 PM
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I laughed at the hight bit. I remember an ex of mine trying to set up threesoms online when I was mega BP. She put my hight as 6"1. I told her I was 5"11 and she said "Not on here you aren't." It's funny in retrospect, now that I understand.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 05:38 PM
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It's a twisted thing to swallow at first, but once you detach it makes perfect sense. I recall many times an ex of mine would tell me she "wanted to see me fight for her." I didn't realize at the time why that was the case. I also didn't understand why she caused to much drama for me. She didn't either, I assume. She's wasn't the most aware person you'd ever meet. In retrospect however, I can see what the issue was and how I should have handled it. Now it's funny, after seeing my success with wo…
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 11:11 PM
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Good point. Feminism is just one facet of of an overarching strategy. Reading this article reminds me of things like AA, or various "personal development" seminars I've attended. All of these are simple systems to direct change in one part of your life (potentially the most destructive) and get you on a somewhat more "productive" path without actually pulling you out of the matrix, while illiciting time and money from you for their own continued existence. That is to say, they are a business and…
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 10:09 PM
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First off, the ones to are actually oppressed don't get to pull off things like this. That's not what oppression is. Go back to a time when blacks weren't allowed in stores. That's a form of oppression. Not being able to pick up your child because assholes are blocking a highway? Yea, that's basically being above the law, literally, since the cops couldn't do anything. Imagine you're kid was in the hospital and you couldn't get through that demonstration? Yea, now what.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 08:36 PM
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Good explanation. Many games are only effective because you've been socially conditioned to see them as reality. Growing up is experiencing, failing and succeeding and learning to better yourself from those experiences.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 10:52 PM
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Agreed. I realized most of my friends had little to no respect for me. Many others were just shitty people. I spend much more time alone these days, bit I'd be lying if I said I wasn't happier. Some of my old friends reach out from time to time and if they treat me respectful then I reciprocate with my time. Still, most of them don't change at all.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 06:04 PM
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I was thinking this as well. I think it's more subjective than that. Often this is interpreted as black or white. I think in many cases there are certain aspects or areas of a person's life where they are narcissistic, but often it's not an entire persona. I think if my ex and when it came to being criticized on aspects of her beauty, she lost it. She used to be fat, so it's not surprising. After all that though, I realized I could only understand d these things because I embodied them as well. …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 05:56 PM
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It seems in general that this is a tactic that is necessary to win. Trump may be over the top, but it's the shame schtick everyone else tries to pull. People want to get caught up in the sway of things and to that end he's certainly grabbing attention in a beneficial way. I doubt it'll make a huge difference in the end whether he gets elected or not but I'm just really hoping Hillary doesn't win. I just find her cunty and frankly, I have no respect for her feminist-extremism. Some of the things …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 01:07 AM
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Isn't that essentially what Obama did? I mean he ran with the whole "first black president" thing and yelled yes we can, so Trump is essentially doing the exact same thing from a different angle. But then, much of these things require that "cult of personality" strategy you speak of, so I don't really see how this is any different.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 05:49 PM
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