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I had a crazy ex back in the day. She called me over to pick up some jacket I left there. I broke up with her months before, we both moved on or so I thought. She gets in my car, hands me the jacket, and while wearing her new boyfriends jacket starts trying to make out with me. I cut it short and left. The reason we broke up was because she cheated. She wasn't even drunk or high. She's just crazy for attention (likely stemming from her emotional baggage, but thats a whole other story). I told he…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 07:05 PM
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Nope, I don't feel bad so nobody else should either. This was for OP to stay within bounds of what his family is cool with.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 09:45 PM
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My dad visited me a couple months ago. We hung out outside. Told him to wear a mask. He didn't. He looked fine, but he coughed all over me while lying about having developed a dog allergy that week... after having a pet dog for 15 years. So me, my wife, and my 3 children caught COVID... Nobody died, but it was a miserable two weeks... followed by a miserable next couple months of feeling completely exhausted and having headaches. Later my douchebag dad casually mentioned he did catch COVID and i…
/r/askTRP30/01/21 10:32 AM
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You: An unwarranted touch to a stranger's elbow with your pinky finger Me: Assault;Battery;Beating ... I think I understand the average American's perspective. So I take it any form of corporal punishment for misbehaving children is looked down on as well? Can someone please explain the US double-standard hierarchy of who deserves to be immune to violence (while also allowed to be violent to those under them)? Police > Women > Children > Pets > Gays > Non-whites >>> White Straight Male
/r/TheRedPill16/04/19 08:42 PM
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the boys and girls better develop a venue to find actual MATES (neither of whom are short/black/brown) Even though it comes across racist (screw that), The article probably racist - it gets more viewer after all, right? But let's not forget the fact that black women have an obesity epidemic worse than white women. I'm always the last person to call 'racist!', because I would rather consider those points constructive criticism than let it distract from the main point they are trying to communicat…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 06:13 PM
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Many years ago I introduced a major beta loser to my girlfriend. He was blowing his money like a fool on her (dude only made 12$/hr) and he had a lisp. She liked it and ended up leaving me for him. Took me a little while to realize her leaving was a miracle I should be grateful for. After that my life became tremendously better. Now over a decade later I honestly wish I could hug her out of pity. After that guy moved in with her parents while she was at college, they got married. Had 2 kids and …
/r/askTRP28/03/19 04:22 AM
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I'm not worried in the slightest that she will cheat Being confident is a good thing. However, the best mindset is that you're happy regardless of the outcome. If she will cheat, you will be happy because you are thankful for her filtering herself out of your life. Although, I'm sure she's hasn't cheated on you yet (and high chance it stays that way in your very specific case - I'm not trying to make you paranoid) - but, the future is less clear. Anything can happen 10-20 years from now. It's ea…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 07:13 PM
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"The number of losers are growing exponentially, while the number of men who are players are getting smaller" - somewhere on TRP (forgot the exact quote) The world is for the player's taking. You can't blame a guy for being a being a player when there's so many losers in the world. Similarly, you can't blame women for following a path that the losers enable. There's no reason (or even a way) to fix the world. A single guy should observe and enjoy the life they have, which hopefully includes enjo…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 11:41 PM
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You need a social circle, because right now it sounds like you're in solitary confinement (prison) - with your ideas bouncing off in your own echo chamber - and it's unhealthy. It's not enough to have friends/family with you 'in spirit'. You need a group of friends that are physically near you. Without any socializing, your brain would melt trying to get just the tiniest amount of validation that growing men need to survive. Once you're older, bolder, stronger, you could probably live in a legit…
/r/askTRP08/02/19 07:00 PM
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Not to say that this disregards AWALT. This is not the place to be politically correct. But let me explain as best I can. AWALT applies to what women are capable of. However, at least with n-count, certain women who were raised old-fashioned or have a solid family foundation would resist putting themselves in a situation where AWALT would take over. They could still have a high n-count, it's just less likely based on the expected resistance. However, if you know a woman was in such a situation, …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/19 07:44 AM
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Father here. I've seen enough to know that a girls relationship with her father (and the father himself) will have a noticeable impact on a girl's n-count. Is her father squishy or to be feared? Does she have a good relationship with her father? Is that a good relationship in the form of the dad bending over backwards to please his daughter (enabling hamsters) or give her real-world advice that might hurt sometimes? Based on the above answers, you'll know if it's an N-count <5 or... closer to 25…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/19 01:45 AM
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Happy King, Happy Kingdom. - Someone on TRP
/r/askTRP04/02/19 08:53 PM
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Beach/pool - square cut trunks Not gay. Workout/running - prefer short Umbro Not gay. Underwear - with skinnyjeans, fitted clothing, etc. I go commando or wear a man's thong Ok. If you enjoy wearing colorful underwear that rides up your crack, go right ahead. It's just not something for the average joe. Those clothing choices are only 'gay' if your wife is a 2000's black&blonde-hair bro-ho. I get what you're saying though. A few years ago I got several long-johns (basically men's tights). Your w…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/19 07:55 PM
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How is it possible that blowing up on girls and calling them out on their bs makes them more attracted? There's a difference between words on a screen and actually losing your cool in person. TRP says that keeping frame is the most important thing, how can losing frame in such a way work in his favor? He refused to play inside the girl's frame, and brought them into his. Does age have anything to do with this? Is this just younger girls being attracted to “assholes”? Would older girls be less re…
/r/askTRP31/01/19 06:33 PM
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Knew some gay guys who liked looking at and touching boobs. Women were more than comfortable helping them out. How would you feel about that?
/r/askTRP16/01/19 07:49 PM
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I had one 3 weeks ago. A month without sex should be expected; waiting two months means they don't care about you anymore (with exceptions like Tier 4 tears or C-section). With our first I only waited a couple weeks, and let me tell you it's a bad idea. BJs should be an option but their abs are non-existent after giving birth. every woman in my life suddenly expects me to be a full-blown feminized, care-taking mush. Doesn't matter what other woman expect, unless they have a negative influence on…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/19 06:52 PM
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me forbidding her for hanging out with her orbiters one on one Think many years in the future and beyond that. You go to work to support a family. Your wife is home alone with your kids. Forbidding a girl from hanging out with guys one-on-one is a horrible idea. If you can't trust them to do things when you know about it, what makes you think you won't go insane knowing your wife could be cheating on you behind your back? Go full RP. No mate-guarding. If they want to cheat, let them. You were ne…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 10:38 PM
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I had a girl ghost me after telling her I only think of her as a friend. I convinced her to join me last minute on a snowboarding trip, we got a cabin and I turned her down after she said it's ok if I want to share a bed with her because she might get cold. After our trip I told her I thought of her as a friend, and I never heard from her again. Women know when they want a specific guy, and when they can't have them they cut them out of their lives. (Unless it's a beta woman who doesn't mind orb…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 12:37 AM
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In my younger years I did this except the times and places were different but all convenient for me, also all on the same day. At that point you start hoping they flake, and that abundance mentality really shows. When I went to a 9am breakfast date, I could care less what the girl thought of me, because I had just dropped a hotter girl off at her house at 5am, and hung out with another date at 7am. I got lucky, because that was not an average day for me. OP needs to do just that.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 08:06 PM
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How do I not let myseld go like that, how do I keep my SO happy in the rlationship without giving up on my own professional life? Wrong question. How do you keep yourself happy? Like truly happy. Do what you want to do. If you don't want to work, it's because your beta, and that's ok. But you can change it by building a strong foundation of habits, you just need to have the drive to do it. Thoughts turn into actions turn into habits if you follow through with them. Lastly, you need to drop a gir…
/r/askTRP03/01/19 07:28 PM
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You already got so many answers but I've noticed the women who pick the guy are more likely to cheat. I had a handful of ex's cheat, each one made the first move on me. It finally sunk in that I have a high SMV so I started doing the approaching and cut contact at the first red flag. Break hearts or get yours broken, that's just how it goes. I believe there was a study citing 80% of women have cheated. However with the generational shift in millennials I think it's higher...
/r/askTRP31/12/18 08:59 AM
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Sorry, I was just being bitter. Read another post about unrealistic expectations. You're right. OP also cleared things up for me saying that he didn't make a big deal out of the threat and the threat never turned into action. So OP handled the situation well.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 09:53 PM
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Okay she SAID that. But if she continues... Sorry, I forgot to mention that part. That's how your supposed to handle it, and you did great. Women live in the moment and if in that moment she feels like telling you something, it might not be a red flag unless turned into an action (i.e. "next time we won't have sex"). As long as she's giving you what you want (physically), you can give her what she wants (emotionally - listening/agreeing). There will be an endless number of interactions where a w…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 09:51 PM
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If this was an LTR, that's a red flag that instantly ends the relationship, because you screwed up somewhere along the way. Probably screwed up when you tried to get away with just hooking up while not coming from a wealthy family/high-paying job, not being tall enough or muscular enough, etc. If you're considering marrying eventually (which you should NOT consider), then any woman who uses sex as a weapon before you get married should make you instantly NEXT her.
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:08 PM
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Medically speaking, it takes 3 months of taking birth control before it's fully effective. Also plan B is said to destroyer a woman's chance of conceiving of taken more than 3 times. Meaning future miscarriages. Lastly just pull out. It's only easy for a girl to get pregnant during the 3 days following the two week mark after she starts her period. I have two of my own kids btw.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 06:02 AM
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Wow, I've actually experienced both ends. Both my parents divorced each other and remarried other people. My actual mother was a smart, hard worker already making 6-figures in the 90's, and luckily she married an alpha multi-millionaire who helped shaped me who I am today (in particular by never giving me a penny). My mother also turned in a red-pill woman in the sense that she didn't put up with unintelligent, low-quality effort on anyone's part and she did whatever her husband requested of her…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 09:44 PM
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I'd strongly recommend buying a copy of The Rational Male. Honestly though 17 y/o is too young because you aren't the least bit in control of your life. You can workout, but you can't exactly be alpha when you have no job, no money, and live with your parents.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 06:03 PM
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We acknowledged human nature and decided to embrace it rather than delude ourselves Sorry you never knew...human nature states that as a female increases her partner counter her ability to love decreases. Human nature also states that when a man hooks up with a different woman, that man's wife loses respect for him (at the very least subconsciously). We get married. Still swinging, still passionate as ever. Sex really screws with a person's mind. Women fall in love with their lovers, men do too.…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/18 11:44 PM
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Pretty much the only way to have a chance at a platonic relationship with a hot female is if she's you're roommate. Same principles apply though. She's your friend - you are not her friend. You always act less friendly towards her than she does towards you. Probably still end up hooking up though. I seriously tried doing what you're suggesting for several years in college. I passed them off to go on dates with my friends (but they didn't even k-close). Next thing I know I'm hooking up with them.…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:53 AM
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This is pretty normal in a healthy relationship between two attractive individuals who have separate lives. It should go both ways. We would just laugh it off regardless of which person in the relationship was being hit on.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 12:29 AM
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Girls are not stupid, they know their male friends want to sex with them, even while dating a guy, they will continue to hang out with other guy 'friends'. A woman's mind is a labyrinth. Not even they know what they know.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 09:14 PM
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party... only boy That's not a party, it's a girl's night out. And just by YOU being at HER party, you are in her frame. I am almost positive you'll ignore my advice (best lessons are self-learned), but you should ABSOLUTELY NOT attend this party unless you can bring a handful of your male friends along. I'll stay over to sleep there Don't. Seriously. Go home. Gf said that we won't do anything Women love planning, but rarely follow it in the moment. It's typical ASD, no need to fight it until it…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 11:50 PM
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I know nothing, but I did find this: The “normal” or healthy level of testosterone in the bloodstream varies widely, depending on thyroid function, protein status, and other factors. For men ages 19 and up, normal testosterone levels range from 240 to 950 nanograms per deciliter (ng/dL). For women ages 19 and up, normal testosterone levels range from 8 to 60 ng/dL. Testosterone levels reach their peak around age 18 or 19 before declining throughout the remainder of adulthood. Source Based on tha…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 11:14 PM
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Sorry, yeah, my interpretation of "can't let go of each" was wrong. You use such gentle words, why not just say you can't stop being sexual around each other? In that case, it's great. That's one thing you'll learn about 1st timers versus girls with a little more experience versus girls with a lot more experience. You control how slutty they act around you, and you're doing a great job.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 10:14 PM
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high risk, high rewards ;)
/r/askTRP16/11/18 09:41 PM
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*edit: N/A
/r/askTRP16/11/18 09:25 PM
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Are you unattractive? Then she cringed at what you said. Are you attractive? Then she got a laugh out of what you said. have been texting non stop... haven’t been able to meet up That's when any shot at a relationship ended. Texting is 110% for coordinating a time and place to meet. How hard is that to understand? You know you can call people if you wanted to actually talk about random crap?
/r/askTRP16/11/18 06:53 PM
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So question is, have any of you had an experience like this? All the time, Beta at home can be alphas at work. It's just too many men give up their leadership to their wives... who eventually leave them and take half of everything (past, present, and future). My current boss was 100% beta at home, true alpha at work. Always boggled my mind. After his divorce and hearing his struggles with women, I gave him a copy of The Rational Male. Now we're joking about how he's hooking up 3 different women.…
/r/askTRP15/11/18 07:15 PM
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I've got younger ones. I feel like even after they turn 18, the lessons they need to learn will melt their brain.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 06:52 PM
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Enjoyed most of your review. thought it was well written, but you seem angry since you picked such an easy target. For future reference, real-life (like not on a computer) experiences are preferred. I see so many guys on TRPW act like TRP women are unicorns that "get it". Yeah they get it alright, but the fact you are expecting respectful and equal relationships in terms of commitment and attraction is what is doing you in. That is not what TRPW is about: it is just a cynical, smart take on what…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/18 08:43 PM
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Honestly, you'd probably have better luck on Tinder.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 06:48 PM
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fear intimacy You and everyone else. Anyone who doesn't is either stupid or suppressing their biology. The way you deal with it is by being comfortable with the idea that any girl you're with can leave you at any time, even after you've gotten married. Anxiety is gone, because you accepted that fact before you even started the relationship (accepting that fact is probably easier than bottling it up and getting burnt in the end). I meet girls who I screen out and my ego gets boost cause abundance…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 06:24 PM
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I'm on mobile but if you want a more thorough answer ask specifics and I'll answer tomorrow. Screening is a lot of things: Before dating you should be friends (because you friend zoned her) Low n count. Small waist size. Comfortable being single Not crazy about marriage or babies (whatever the guy wants) likes to cook and clean Never argues Doesn't check her phone often, prefers phone calls over text. (Text is only for coordinating a time and place) Then you start dating: zero drama before marri…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 07:09 AM
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I am curious, what made you come to that analysis. I've lived long enough and seen enough human interactions and their outcomes to recognize that sometimes people lie not because they know what they did was wrong, but because they don't want to be judged for potentially having done wrong. Part of TRP is learning not to give a fuck, because honestly nobody cares, and you shouldn't hang out with the people who do. Lastly, maybe she just drank alcohol around guys who she would consider upgrades but…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 01:14 AM
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What kind of life should a women have acording to TRP? Like one of the bros, but they know their place is right at your shoulder. They are comfortable laughing about betas who cat-call them or women that check out their man. The list goes on. I've talking about the red pill with my mother. She agrees with some of it... It's a fact that women cheat on men way more than men cheat on women. TRP is the truth, disagreeing with any of it is like disagreeing that we need to eat and sleep. A man leaving…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 01:06 AM
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Summarized your post 1st meetup - Got coffee with a girl that had a boyfriend. 2nd meetup - Got coffee again with the same girl but she dumped her boyfriend. 3rd meetup - Hooked up 3 days later, I am feeling oneitis, and she told me she got back with her boyfriend. I am still a beta SJW and told her "I am not comfortable talking with a girl who has a boyfriend after all we did" Should I wait for her like a knight in shining armor? Poor OP. Most of us used to think like you. There's absolutely no…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 12:54 AM
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Am i too valuable ? No. im fucking dumbfounded You have a loooooong way to go. Probably need to start back at TRP basics 101 and learn everything over. I've had a chick leave me for some loser (physically/mentally), guy had a lisp, living at home with his parents, driving a beat up truck, making 12$/hour. What he did have that I didn't: He loved burning his cash on her, buying her 300$ worth of stuffed animals, and just submitting to her every whim. I was upset at first, but a week later I was e…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 12:38 AM
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I was wanting to go to this girl’s house and bring her a flower and ring the door bell and then just smooch her and then leave. No, the way relationships work is that you give her your attention in exchange for sex, so if you hook up it should be fine. Any attention given outside of those bounds is a bad idea, unless she's tagging along on one of your adventures, in which case why not reward her with a little attention. Also, why not have her stop by your house and bring you flowers? You are the…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 12:04 AM
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As of now, she is refusing to accept the breakup. She brought a bunch of treats to my house yesterday... Wow, that's makes things even more suspicious. Maybe she did something like cocaine, LSD, ecstacy, or shrooms (with a potential new guy) - and she thinks you will think less of her because of that. Regardless, she still hasn't told you why she had to lie to you about it.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 06:11 PM
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She breaks down, cries and swears she "just forgot" to tell me and that her phone was left at her place the entire night or she would have texted. She swears that it was her roommate and other girl friends who dragged her out to the party when she was already in bed. Trickle truth. The more you use dread game like you did, the more truth comes out. I also contacted a man I deem trustworthy who was at the party and he told me she wasn't being unfaithful or disrespectful, for what it is worth. I b…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 05:35 PM
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Do you agree? Happiness is subjective (and temporary) as opposed to internal peace or joy, and women are experts at living in the moment. So naturally - yeah, I guess women are less happy than men, but they are also more happy than men. Why do you think this is? Less happiness isn't the issue, it's just a correlation to deeper problems. You can generally tell who has a happy marriage after spending a handful of hours with the couple and seeing their interactions. It's pretty clear that married w…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 06:39 PM
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I have social anxiety as well as mood swings Congratulations, you are a living human instead of a someone that's dead inside. Start some new social hobbies, work out by lifting weights, and go to bed early. Take care of yourself. If you were like the other TRP guys in here - who feel 100% comfortable being single as opposed to feeling empty when they're not in a relationship - then you would have dropped your girlfriend a long time ago.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 06:43 PM
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Glad you can see through their hamstering. Get out of there. Report them as well. Their logic goes against the 'equal opportunity' (EO) (race, sex, disability, etc.). If you can't hire the candidate you think is best, then someone is breaking the EO law. In any (demanding) role, you can't pre-select a candidate. Her telling you they must be black is against the EO law as much as her demanding a skinny, christian, white, European, straight, non-disabled, non-veteran, childless, single, 25-year-ol…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 05:16 AM
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The Op doubles down on his naivety by claiming that she is from a small village\country as well. She wasn't a virgin and he isn't the first foreigner that she is trying to rope in..... He is a prime candidate for a girl who has been around...she quickly spotted his cracks and is feeding them. I am betting he will be seriously considering wife-ing her up in the 18 months. That's pretty solid evidence. I have had a girl 'say' they were a virgin, because it's what they thought I wanted to hear, but…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 05:22 PM
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Amen to that. Some people don't understand that being super hot is not the end-all and be-all when evaluating girls. I think most guys here above 30 understand this. It's either crazy+hot 20-somethings or mature women that hit a softer wall+you can actually hold a conversation with them.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 08:45 PM
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Also, a virgin but fucks on second date? What about that is hard to believe? Knowing TRP, this should come as no surprise. It's only happened once in my life, but I've taken a 21-y.o. girl's virginity on the first date, first time I met her too. I felt pretty bad about it when I dumped her two weeks later. But that's all the more reason why OP's girlfriend will act alpha-widowed.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 08:38 PM
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Women like to snoop, it's in their nature. My wife will occasionally read over my shoulder, but she's able to comprehend why TRP work. Tell the girl you're seeing to read 'the rational male' and her brain will melt from all the truth.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 05:29 PM
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I screened them first in a social setting by way of mutual friends. But I would imagine leaving in the middle of the date is the same as leaving in the middle of a relationship, to which I would promptly decide that this isn't the direction I want be going in, and let them off easy with: "I think of you more like a sister or a friend" (and I never saw or talked to them again). Poor girls were bold with their "You can't leave me". As it turns out, when you're a great catch, girls will do anything…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 08:37 PM
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Both? There's 3 different ones...
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:06 PM
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Too long. FTFY Broke up with my one-itis. Girl had a bad case of LMR and ASD, so we never went all the way. She said that if all she was to me was sex she’d end it right then, and we unofficially broke up for about 10 minutes before I caved and said I’d be fine as long as she made an effort. On my bday she broke up with me over the phone, because she was quite probably cheating on me already. I feel bad for wanting sex. I go to the gym every day, as well as going on multi-mile runs. Breaking up …
/r/askTRP09/10/18 10:37 PM
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Make plans for yourself. Go on a motorcycle ride, backpacking trip, or bar hopping with your bros. The girls are welcome to join you as your accessory. Girls like a man that takes the lead.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 04:03 AM
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quarantined. You probably have an issue viewing it on mobile, but on PC it just shows a warning.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 03:53 AM
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Why am I like this... You feel the need to validate yourself to them, so naturally they took the role of being a judge. If you (justly) felt that the girls needed to validate themselves to you, then you would be stoic and judgmental towards them. The big part of being high status is not only displaying your success and pre-selection but also to subconsciously communicate to the people that how easy and natural it has always been for you to get things, as if you are not even trying. If women get …
/r/askTRP05/10/18 09:40 PM
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Back in my college days I had a party with my then-current girlfriend and two ex-girlfriends (they never got over me?). Everyone was drinking. One ex was laying on my bed invitingly... The whole night was like a competition, where I was the prize. Felt good. So my advice. If you're worried about inviting multiple girls to an event, you either want to LTR one of these girls or you don't have a lot of (attractive) girls in your social circle. I'd recommend friendzoning these girls, get them to inv…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 09:30 PM
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Hitch (2005) If she sits on your bed, she's basically telling you it's on. Although honestly, you need to experience that a handful of times before it becomes fluid. So be confident.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 11:36 PM
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It took me a while to find it, but I saved it on an old blog that I haven't touched in like 8 years. You must've truly loved her. and now I have to kill you. haha... but on a serious note, I did consider potentially offering my 'services' if she could give me something worth my while - nope, she was broke too.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 07:03 AM
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Only did it so OP knows not to take things too far. Sometimes a being friendly is literally just that - not an IOI.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 07:01 AM
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*A Love Letter from a 50 year old woman to me (21) * They say that confession is good for the soul. I hope they are right. The first time I fell in love I was 18. I would have one anything for him - anything to be with him - I cut classes and even stole cigarettes for him. He could have had my body and soul but all he did was break my heart. When he told me he had gotten married over the weekend but he still wanted to be freinds there was a pain in my chest that actually felt like my heart shatt…
/r/askTRP17/09/18 08:55 PM
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I wish you still had the letter to share with us. Hopefully she gave the letter to you when you or her left? I can't imagine how awkward it would be seeing and conversing with her after you read that letter. First thing first. She gave it to me while we were both planning to worth there for quite a while longer. It was extremely awkward... Even AFTER I left, because I didn't tell her I left and my class mate who shared a cube with me would regularly see her creepily staring into our cube. I actu…
/r/askTRP17/09/18 08:55 PM
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I only had to read the title, she's not interested. Then I read the rest, which confirmed it. Here's a few points: Don't mix up 'being nice/polite' as an IOI. If she starts asking to see you on the weekends, that would be an IOI. Work Spouse is extremely common in the US. I've seen it happen all the time, it's a completely platonic relationship. This is much more likely the direction you are headed, just accept it and hope she introduces you to one of her hot friends. This seems all too familiar…
/r/askTRP17/09/18 05:48 PM
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I'm not a fan of 'concern trolling', but I guess I come up because I've been helping people. I've been on here for years but only a couple posts show. I guess they've only been abusing the reddit API TOS for only a short while.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 09:53 PM
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I have been on a handful of cruises with friend and had two girls that worked there keep telling me that "they can't"..."It's against cruise ship policy". I only asked once. But sure enough they gave up their contact info. Nothing happened because they were from another country and there were plenty of attractive girls from my country on ship as guests. So basically, you won't get 'fined' for hooking up with guests and you'll probably see it happening pretty regularly. You know... even most crui…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 07:05 PM
12

play n64 with my bros You could be playing kick the rock with your bros in the 1500's. You've got your priorities straight. I finally understand why my friend chickened out on a hot blonde (6th grade). The only reason little boys hook up with little girls is so they can brag about it to their friends, otherwise they're complete fine hanging out with their guy friends and waiting til late highschool/early college for hookups.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 10:55 PM
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Just curious... Did you at any point during your contact with her (text/phone-call/date) compliment her or anything she did (i.e. cooking, art, etc)? If you did, that's like putting yourself in a friendzone jail cell, locking the door, and throwing away the key. my texting game wasn't tight enough, i didn't stick to purely logistics, Ouch, never break that rule, even after you get a girlfriend. But then again, it could just be ASD (anti-slut defense).
/r/askTRP06/09/18 06:18 PM
8

That's awesome to hear. I used to do something similar when I was younger. Go out bar hopping downtown in groups of 3 with about a dozen guys in total. The guy who opened got to pick the girl he wanted, which gave incentive for the newbies to give it a shot. I always laugh at the new guys when I'm watching their brain melt seeing RP interactions and later they tell me: "How did you get that girl to ask for YOUR number?" To which I respond: "A number means nothing". Or "That girl you were making …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/18 08:40 PM
37

Should I even work towards a girlfriend as an 18 year old or just career and lift? You should never 'work' towards a girlfriend. A girlfriend should work towards you. Likewise, you should always focus on improving yourself, and the sweet fruits of your hard work will eventually be ready for you to consume.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:00 PM
1

Read through the comments. Work more hours for sure. You might think 16-hour days are bad, but they're doable. I was juggling a full-time job and a master's degree. One of my friend's in the master's program just straight up quit his 250k job at 30 to go back to school full-time. I still had plenty of time to party and hook up. Be a yes man. However, make sure to live a 90k lifestyle, so that you'll eventually be able to enjoy all the time you spent working double-time. In other words, you won't…
/r/askTRP29/08/18 08:41 PM
1

One thing worth following through with would be to 'friendzone' girls, they could even be cute ones, but it will grant you access to their hot friends (and parties, and bros, etc). That's how I met my wife. Our mututal friends kept secretly reminding her I was a player, which always seems to work in your favor. Girls want what other girls want.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 04:37 PM
1

She's trying to lock you down. The point is you need to be less interested in her than she is in you.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 12:21 AM
2

I wasn’t left feeling validated. I was left feeling empty. As someone that's in the top 20% # of partners and now married, you crave both one-off/exciting/hot-and-steamy sex as well as intimate/comfortable/regular sex with different women. Basically, if you want a specific girl, you should go for her or you'll always ask yourself "what if?". Your first time should be with someone who is also having their first time. Frankly as an alpha, you should be the first guy for your first several partners…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 10:10 PM
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“I’m assuming this it’s ok to invite other people to these things” That's a major shit test and you failed royally. Not just a shit test, but definitely LMR as well. Her friend, who was pumped we were going to go out texted me and said she couldn’t understand her actions. Obviously her friends are going to 'judge' if they know you are meeting up, so make it a game with this girl where you're her dirty little secret. The less judgement she has to suffer, the more open to sexy time she'll be. As a…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 05:39 PM
8

You made the right choice. Understand why from our experience. I dated this girl many years ago, let's call her Double-Ds. She was hanging out with a group of girls and this one gay guy who was a manly-man (tall/buff), and she thought it was appropriate to bust out her tits in front of him because he wanted to see them and he's gay anyways. She proceeded to cheat on me eventually with some other dude as expected. But the truth about girls with gay guys is the validation when they 'convert' a guy…
/r/askTRP27/08/18 06:14 PM
1

Nootropics are not like the movie 'Limitless'. I've been using them on occasion for a while, not because I had a void that needed filling, but because it is a helpful addition to my life. If you want something powerful, try unifiram. It's only recommended for testing on animals, but it's not technically illegal for a human to use it, and a lot of humans do use it. Definitely seek out help, but maybe try to find a job that is ok with you being you. A fish that tries to fly will always think it's …
/r/askTRP22/08/18 12:27 AM
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About 7 years ago I setup a profile on a random dating site. Randomly logged in after a month of being idle, and this hot tiny chinese girl left me her number. Figured out shortly after she was on the other side of the country. Long story short, I added her on FB where I stupidly left my address visible to friends, and that weekend she showed up on my doorstep unexpectly to stay the entire weekend with me. 600$ round-trip flight minimum + taxi. We never even had a video chat, just sent one or tw…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 11:59 PM
1

Lived with a super fat guy in college (300lbs), hooked up with a bunch of different women all the time. Turns out ugly chicks need to get laid too. And you know that 80/20 rule? Yeah, the 80% of women you don't want to hook up with, your fat friend does want to hook up with. Also, it's fine if your friend is fat as long as he's not obese. Women like their men tall with broad shoulders.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 09:03 PM
1

Ask how close she is to your neighbor, but it's still probably a hard next. Where's your abundance mentality? It's the same as trying to date a girl you work with. You have so many other options.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 01:16 AM
3

Welcome to Ancient Greece. I can't find any article that mentions this, but I know I've read about how women used to be the ones that chased men in ancient greece. Generally, women were the pursuers, and the 'men' acted grossed out about cat-calling women and proceeded to hook up with other guys.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 09:30 PM
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Women are always looking to upgrade, you know that. My response to the 'i have a boyfriend' line is: I didn't ask if you had a boyfriend, I asked if you wanted to do X. It catches them off guard because they don't have a go-to answer to make you leave, and assuming they do have a boyfriend they can justify it meeting you because they tried (after all, they did say they had a boyfriend)
/r/askTRP10/08/18 05:29 PM
1

You can pick other women or your mother, and do either one of those really well. Or you can pick both and do both poorly. A grown man needs to live independently from his parents and in his own home, so if your mother won't live in a nursing home, you need to move out and get her on a paid home care program. If money is too tight to afford that option, those problems will surely add up to you losing interest from the majority of women you meet. Would you want to date a broke girl no more attract…
/r/askTRP09/08/18 08:42 PM
2

A senior friend of mine and retired harley rider told me how 30-40 years ago, only the most badass people got tattoos. If you got a girly tattoo, you either got harassed or your ass beat. Tattoos back then were hardcore, like a skull or cross, not a bunch of roses and cute birds. Now-a-days, everyone is getting tattoos (sometimes with their mom). American's turned tattoos into a fetish, which young girls want to get in on for that added validation/compliments. The same way gay guys have a specif…
/r/askTRP06/08/18 07:39 PM
1

You have a strong libido, it's a blessing and a curse. My parents always covered my eyes when a couple was kissing on TV until I started high school. I'm guessing that's why I'm not desensitized like a lot of other guys these days. I would assume your in shape as well. I can tell you from experience that women love it, because it's something they can turn on (not off) attached to someone they can't control. They even like it when they are dancing but honestly some women are just oblivious.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 05:09 AM
1

One of my psycho exs found me passed out drunk at a party and hooked up with me. Later that girl claimed to get pregnant from me. Too bad I'm too smart to believe it. She even dared to guilt trip me by saying she had a miscarriage a month latet. I broke up because she cheated on me. When we hooked up for the first time in a couple months she was on her period. Sorry sweetheart, but you can't get pregnant during your period... Girls are crazy.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 05:40 PM
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I wish I could give you some helpful advice. Your relationship ended the moment you proposed to her in beta form. First impressions are HUGE for every girl you meet. It sets the expectations going forward - what is allowed or not. One of the most important lessons I learned after many broken hearts on both sides was that you only get one chance. One shot at a good first impression. One shot at changing yourself for the better. No one flip flops back and forth a dozen times between beta and not, …
/r/askTRP09/06/18 08:42 AM
2

Whenever you think you're too ugly for a smoking hot girl, remember the massive amount of ugly celebrities (guys and girls) that have a smoking hot partner.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 05:49 AM
5

Let me trim this down to the relevant things... I’m 20, bad with women, had 1 girlfriend, never had sex. I am trying to fix this. I’m on week 7 of lifting. Been reading lots of books. I meditate 10-15 minutes daily. Gave up the porn over a year ago. Don’t fap as much. Hooked up with a loose, fat girl. Bad idea. Seems like I have to settle for 6's and below. How can I do better? Stop calling yourself ugly. When you're making 6 figure's, have a 6-pack, and are 6-feet tall (can't control that last …
/r/askTRP23/04/18 04:14 AM
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When I read the title I wanted to down vote, but you basically described someone I know. I would be overjoyed at that fact that he opened his eyes and is willing to finally turn his life around. Lift everyday or at least every other day. One day focus on muscles that push, next day focus on muscles that pull. Since you need to lose weight too, run for 20 minutes before lifting. Absolutely refuse to drink anything besides water and similarly refuse to eat any sweets, especially 2 hours before bed…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 05:46 AM
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It blows my mind how boring the vast majority of people live's are. Just a simple question like 'what do you like doing for fun?' can tell you a lot about a person, and whether they are worth your time or not. she always replies with something like "decent i guess"... I had two or three girls like this. Whenever they said something like that, I always got the vibe they wanted to meet up and do fun stuff with me, and when I invited them over they were eager to drive the distance regardless of col…
/r/askTRP04/04/18 07:04 PM
1

I am thankful for my mom. I was 'diagnosed' with ADHD. My mom had the option to get me a lifetime drug prescription but she declined. It worked out for the best and now I'm really successful. Dump your mom though. One time my mom called me lazy while I was in college doing more than any college kid should, I turned down her allowance, got a job making more than her, become financially independent, putting myself through college, and ghosted her for 3 months until she apologized.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 01:00 AM
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she asked if she should pay for us, I said "Go for it." This is one of those things that has an obvious solution, kind of like when a girl says "I'm thirsty" and she actually wants you to get her a drink. That's where you failed. She's looking for a balanced relationship. You could have gotten laid, but you let the lady pay for both ice cream and beer? Even someone who is broke would at least barter, like "Yeah, go ahead and pay for the ice cream too. I'll pay you back with a nice dinner and des…
/r/askTRP14/02/18 12:46 AM
1

If you just met this girl, she might be on her period. I learned a long time ago that if she's wearing white pants, it's a green light. If she's wearing red pajamas, it's going to be an uphill battle. Doesn't matter to me, but some girls are old fashioned.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 12:33 AM
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If your little sister said she hates you, would you believe her? Just play it off. "Sure, we can try that." Leave the minute she breaks - don't break your frame, and don't argue. Escalate and see where things go. But in all honestly, you failed a completely optional shit test. Unless you're married to this girl, there's no reason to ever talk to a girl who makes a statement about withdrawing sex. Where's your abundance mentality?
/r/askTRP14/02/18 12:05 AM
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TRP doesn't care about your concerns because those chicks are everywhere. Don't worry about a girl really ruining your life unless you marry her. Keep an abundance mentality. Now if you're looking for a girl you be comfortable around, that's a totally different story. Women will hate you the moment you show a sign of weakness, even if it's a valid one. Pretty much any woman (FWB, GF, Wife) will throw you to the wolves the moment you show a sign of weakness. Do you want your girl to take the lead…
/r/askTRP13/02/18 06:56 AM
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I didn't message her or anything, then she messages asking me if I got home safe You should have invited her over at that point. Sure you messed up by not getting her back to your place, but it's better to correct a mistake than pretend it didn't happen (and at the same time cock-blocking yourself). is she just rejecting me and doesn't know how to say no? Most girls don't know how to say no, but that manifests itself in the form of ignoring you and hoping you 'take the hint'. You'd have to be bl…
/r/askTRP23/01/18 10:23 PM
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I guess it comes down to a double standard. If you're unattractive it's insecure. If you're attractive it's amused mastery.
/r/askTRP20/01/18 12:12 AM
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I always try to guide conversations about ex-boyfriends as a way to make fun of the ex and laugh about them. But then again, I am not insecure, and I expect my partner to be the same.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 10:13 PM
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you say "if you're lucky, only looking at other guys"???? Yes, in describing "Any girl you're seeing that gets drunk while not in your presence". It's obvious what happened with the girl in the post, but I'm talking in general.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 09:10 PM
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she asked me why I was so quiet and I said nothing but in reality i was utterly disgusted Everyone knows your supposed to hold your frame, but you're still too new to TRP. What you were doing there was passive aggressive. Be angry or be indifferent - don't act like something is wrong and then say 'nothing' is wrong. Don't exercise TRP knowledge until after you really understand it. For now just say what's on your mind, being honest to yourself, and observe her actions. Am I getting onenitis and …
/r/askTRP18/01/18 07:19 PM
1

Just prefer she fade away rather than me have to pull a bandaid off and make this bigger than it is/needs to be. That's how a grudge or unhealthy obsession happens. Best to just call her and friendzone her or if that's not how you feel then just tell her the truth. Worst case can't be that bad. Best case, she invites you to a party where you end up hooking up with one of her hot friends. I had a one-night-stand with this girl who loved me (she swallowed). She invited me to her birthday a year la…
/r/askTRP15/01/18 08:00 PM
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"Are you a personal trainer?" question - How to escalate? You: Not officially, but I could lead you at the gym and then you could join me for a drink (alcohol/smoothie/whatever) afterwards. Then a "quick stop" at your place after that. Don't ask them, tell them that you're taking a shower and they're welcome to join you. And just like that you're in. It helps that you both got sweaty too. How comfortable are you leading and using lines straight up front that clearly lead to sex? Because you shou…
/r/askTRP15/01/18 07:50 PM
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There's nothing wrong with being honest to yourself and telling someone what's on your mind - Even though a politically correct society might tell you otherwise. Just want her to take the hint... Why? Seriously, why do you want her to just take the hint? Are you afraid of confrontation? Afraid of telling someone else no? Afraid of the awkward, uncomfortable silence? Or something else? Take this as an opportunity to let the world know what you want as well as making it easier to communicate diffi…
/r/askTRP15/01/18 07:35 PM
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That relationship already has drama, and it hasn't even started. You need to be the one to stand up for yourself and say, fuck off, I have no interest in someone I haven't met. Or if you really think that relationship is salvageable, which it isn't, you could say something like: I'm going out to this place at this time, you're welcome to join me. And then ghost her. Maybe she shows up, maybe she doesn't, but you do you.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 10:17 PM
2

Why are women such broken nasty whores these days? Double-standards. They aren't like that with beta billy.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 09:44 PM
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I've been with enough women to be comfortable settling down (don't get married). And I can tell you right now that if you have even the slightest doubt about settling down, your relationship is already over. Every guy deserves a girl that he knows is satisfied (or else she might hook up with chad next door or whatever else). One trend I noticed in every girl that either couldn't have an orgasm or could control herself in a way to postpone them, those girls all had emotional baggage and psycholog…
/r/askTRP09/01/18 09:42 PM
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"I don't take offense at all, but I can't possibly stress enough the fact that not only is that an overly broad blanket statement, but the underlying implication is that if a guy is over 40 and hasn't been married, it's because he is a bad person and has done something or something's wrong in life. I'm just going to flat out say it, that is BS in its purest form." That's way too many words. Here's a couple responses: OK Then move on to the next girl, because a woman who already has a negative fi…
/r/askTRP08/01/18 08:25 PM
1

P90X yoga is a good start. Keep on lifting weights though.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 09:48 PM
3

Clubbing is where you go to hook up with people. It's nothing like going to the movies, getting dinner, or something you do with your girlfriend (unless you're both trying to setup a 3-some). Go and experience it without your girlfriend. Or better yet, ignore your girlfriend the whole night and have fun at the club down the street without her. That's what I would do, but I've done a lot of clubbing with groups of wanna-be TRPers and trained them on how pick up women.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 09:05 PM
2

How is that a women thing. I'm a man and when my feelings for someone are gone, they're gone. I'm not stickng with someone i don't love. You make your decisions based on logic. Women aren't loyal because when they stop having feelings for you, it's over. When I say "feelings", I mean things like 'hungry' or 'cold' or 'scared' - all of which are temporary. Guys are loyal up until they decide (logically) it's not worth it. You are no longer physically attracted to them? Next. Too crazy? Next. Guys…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/17 10:37 PM
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Would a successful, attractive guy with an abundance mentality pick the 1 girl that is guaranteed to add drama to his life? You're both getting each other off knowing that this is a taboo situation. When it's no longer taboo, her interest will probably decline and the guy will hate you when he finds out about it. Just tell the guy. Beating around the bush and hiding from the truth is the beta-way. Don't do that. Who cares what he thinks? You're the man. Good luck!
/r/askTRP11/12/17 10:26 PM
1

Sorry, I mean that I cleaned out the fluff-words so people could help you easier/faster. Some examples of fluff: the girl of my dreams or so I thought when she was all done she just kind of stomped on my heart one last time and we have not spoken since. <an entire paragraph about you> <an entire paragraph about her> The reason it's fluff is because a lot of these problems have all been seen before, so it's best to be brief with the details. Good luck finding someone better, not that you need it.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 09:33 PM
1

It was painful reading your fluff-words. A girl lied and cheated and we have not spoken since. I look like "your classic Alpha Red pill". I think I am "very Alpha", I don't smoke or drink at all. I want to get over this girl. The girl. 22 year old college drop-out, bartender, alcoholic. I think I dodged a bullet, but I can't get over her. You are clearly not in your right mind with the way you dragged everything on. But we're here to help. Expect it to take 1/2 as along as you were together to g…
/r/askTRP01/12/17 07:21 PM
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You are smarter than someone my old ex was dating. We'd meet up because she wanted to marry me, but I had very little interest in her because of her high n-count and she was crazy. She desperately wanted to see me, so I stopped by for a few minutes. She started making out with me while she was wearing his jacket. I felt really bad for the guy and told him a few snippets about the baggage and the cheating, but the poor guy thought I was lying 100%, and you can be sure that girl was spewing lies t…
/r/askTRP30/11/17 07:32 PM
1

I may want to turn her into a plate at some point if possible. Nope. She will hijack your feelings. Never plate an ex. Keep an abundance mentality. When does it start getting easier? Based on experience: Roughly after 1/2 of the amount of time you were together with her has passed. So if you were together 3 years, you could still fall victim to her manipulating your emotions. any other advice than to keep self improving? Get some fun hobbies like motorcycle riding or backpacking or whatever you …
/r/askTRP22/11/17 10:22 PM
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i - 25 you - 8 we - 6 Sounds pretty similar to this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/7erd7v/revised_ex_wife_reaching_out_awalt/ Here's a great comment from there: This text is a study in narcissism. It starts, logically enough, with the reason for her change of heart: she's back on the dating market and realizes how good she had it before. It continues with a reflection on all the advantages you provided her while married. It concludes with a brief apology, preceeded by cheerfu…
/r/askTRP22/11/17 09:42 PM
1

Around older women, your SMV is high. Do you not get that? The older you get, the more you realize that youth (under 30) is one of the biggest factors in being attractive in general.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 06:26 PM
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That's definitely one of the subs I post in. subreddit post comment technology 3938 393 hearthstone 445 1890 TheRedPill 107 1272 funny 1046 317 asktrp 1 895 motorcycles 246 493 conspiracy 396 232 videos 16 561 WTF 476 6 pcmasterrace 161 315
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 06:07 PM
1

I had a great time in college. I just did whatever I wanted to do, a lot of which involved postponing gratification so I could build myself up to get an awesome job when I graduated. I only dated girls I wanted to date, and as soon as I didn't want to date them anymore (regardless of the reason), I ended it... And sometimes had a date setup with another girl either before or after that. I don't have my shit together at all. Have you heard the rick and morty saying: “Nobody exists on purpose, nob…
/r/askTRP20/11/17 09:00 PM
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Women aren't loyal like men. When her feelings are gone, they are gone. If the roles were reversed then it might have worked out. The only glimmer of hope you have of getting her back will only appear when you don't want her anymore because you've improved yourself to be out of her league. But that probably won't happen because you're only improving yourself so you can get her back when you need to be improving yourself for you. Sorry for your loss, but if your wife has to make it blatantly obvi…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/17 08:45 PM
1

Don't worry man. She's just seeking pity from her beta orbiters. Don't talk to her at all. If a girl really thought she was raped, she wouldn't go telling everyone except the police. The real question is if you are telling the truth.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 05:47 AM
1

Yes and no, because first impressions make a huge difference on the outcome. Once you've established that the girl will put in the effort to see you, then sure you can answer their questions when they ask about your day. But beginner or veteran, the initial week of texts should be limited to logistics. It's perfectly fine to pick up the phone and call them, but texting is too bland and lacking emotion to establish any type of human connection initially.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 12:19 AM
1

Probably true that she's seeing someone, but girls are always looking to upgrade. After you ask 'Can I get your number?' and they respond 'I have a boyfriend', the best response is 'I didn't ask if you had a boyfriend, I asked for your number' Just spend time with her 1-on-1, and then act surprised when you both lean in for a kiss that leads to her staying over for the night.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:35 PM
1

You really need some guidance. Summary of your post + comments: I matched on Tinder with a HB9 (boy, this chick was GORGEOUS), did number close on only a few messages and it was on! No, no it wasn't. Congratulations on getting her number, but anything short of an F-close means absolutely nothing. She started sending me pics, we started texting and I asked her out for lunch out of the blue Wednesday for the next day which she said yes. Thursday comes around, I text: "11:30 at X cafe, sounds like …
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:30 PM
1

I could elaborate for you. Texting is only for logistics. Example: You: I am going to this place at this time. You're welcome to join me. Her: Can't make it, but I can do next week. If she doesn't take the initiative of contacting you after she declined your invitation to plan something, then she's either not interested in you - Or if she is interested in you, then she expects to be treated like daddy's helpless little princess, which is a big red flag.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:04 PM
1

She's definitely interested in the free validation you are giving her, but as far as her being interested in a relationship - no way. She's riding the CC. Ghost her, and always keep an abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 07:59 PM
1

You handled this great. If you know you make way more than her, you could have her buy dessert after or buy the ingredients to bake something at your house like a traditional girl should.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 11:27 PM
1

Could we get a TRP-Endorsed comment in this thread? This thread seems to not be addressing the real problem: OP is insecure. Damn, you sound worse than some of my past crazy girlfriends. Don't be the crazy boyfriend who won't let his girlfriend hug other guys without bitching about it. Both of those girls had a bad relationship with their fathers. As a guy, I go on one-on-one lunch dates with girls all the time, sometimes it's coworkers, others times it's friends - sometimes I tell my wife, some…
/r/askTRP08/11/17 09:24 PM
1

But since she doesn't want me to be her boyfriend or to be a 'serious' relationship What? You should be the one to decide this. If she's the one that doesn't want commitment, whatever relationship you had was over before it started. I brought few different girls home at different times who I told my family that they were just friends each time (my choice, not theirs) even though we were hooking up. I did that because I like to socialize and it also opens up the possibility to show red flags or e…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 11:37 PM
1

Don't complain about it. Actually do something. Get new friends and work out every day of the week. People are more mature in college, but your old friends will try to hang out with you, just ditch them. Back in high school, I was a white boy who hung out with a gang of Mexicans. I had weights class as part of gym every school day, and I could bench more than most of the bigger guys. My friends invited me to a gang vs gang fight, only for us to be shot at. I'm a software engineer now, and no one…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 09:52 PM
1

Women will always have some level of attachment to their first. It's biological. They will never for their first, ever. I did something similar to you a long time ago (but I never had a dry spell). As I'm going in, she tells me she's a virgin. I ended it after 2 weeks because she wasn't my time. I ended it in a public place less than an hour after meeting up with another girl. I didn't feel bad because she wasn't my type. As long as she's an adult, she is capable of making her own decisions and …
/r/askTRP25/10/17 12:14 AM
2

After you've read all of the material on the sidebar, you will realize that no man would ever happily choose to be in a relationship without sex. fucking is nice Wrong. It's mandatory. Women are creatures of emotion... Yes, but more specifically, women are predictable. If you care too much about just 1 girl, then it's best to end it until you can be completely comfortable with being single.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 06:50 PM
1

I've personally read a handful of articles about husbands killing their wife's lover (and sometimes their wife too). If you need to read them to convince yourself to get out of that relationship, then just do a quick google search.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 05:06 PM
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How old are you? I would guess under 30, which is still pretty young. I do want to hook up with women the rest of my life At 3 years old, some kids want to be a dinosaur for the rest of their life. Or emo teenagers: "It's not a phase mom, this is who I really am". So how can you be sure that's what you want for the rest of your life? kids.. Sounds blue Those who are against siring a family are only having this opinion because they themselves are damaged goods from broken homes and dysfunctional …
/r/askTRP29/09/17 11:13 PM
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The goal of red pill is to get a fulfilling sexual life right? Wrong. The goal is self-improvement in all aspects of life - friends, relationships/hookups, work, and much more. Everything that isn't internal is just the sweet fruit grown by your self-improvement. Is it going to affect my self-esteem too much knowing that I'm possibly her "Plan B" even if I've got plates of my own? Don't think about it this way. Think about it in terms of you being young. You're not going to want to only hook up …
/r/askTRP29/09/17 10:45 PM
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You probably need more experience with different people. Not to get her off, but so you can understand how the world works. Some girls just can't reach their climax, others will reach their climax in 30 seconds while rubbing lightly on their jeans, true story.
/r/askTRP29/09/17 10:27 PM
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A woman who weaponizes sex is not one you want to be in an LTR with. Never upgrade her from being a FWB, and if you are actually in search of an LTR, then move on. Just so you know what kind of stuff happens over Tinder, the first time I met up with a girl through Tinder, I took her virginity that same night. I feel bad for doing it, but I was probably the most alpha guy she will ever have hooked up with. So if I can do that, you should be able to get laid on the first date by a girl who has hoo…
/r/askTRP01/09/17 09:48 PM
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Sorry to hear. Whatever happens, life is always worth living. On a side note, I actually sent a FB message to my ex's new boyfriend, because my ex started making with me while she was wearing her boyfriend's sweater. I told the guy a couple facts that my ex lied about, and he chose not to believe them. At least you are willing to accept the truth. Some guys aren't even willing to do that. Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 09:28 PM
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Because alphas have an abundance mentality. You're not giving up anything, you would be moving on to something better. Alphas have options. Do you? She's broken laws She hurt your feelings. You don't care about enforcing laws except for the fact that it could get her in trouble. Think about it. Let's say you get to the end of this legal battle in 3 to 6 months. Maybe she just get's a slap on the wrist, and now you just sound like a whiny little girl. You both go to work every week day and look e…
/r/askTRP01/09/17 08:00 PM
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This is why you never date coworkers. I'd like to see a stickied post about: # of posts about someone who dated a coworker (including links). # of posts about someone who wants to date a coworker. I’m just lost as to how I should proceed with any of this. Leave. Forget it ever happened. Find a better job somewhere else.
/r/askTRP01/09/17 07:35 PM
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That's expected. If you haven't gotten to the point in your life where you realize a girl with boyfriend (example: you) means nothing, then you need some more life experience. I've had girls tell me they want to get back together in front of their beta boyfriends, and those guys can't do anything about it because of their one-itis.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 06:33 PM
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I dated someone who sent pictures just like that to my friend. Needless to say, I wasn't friendly with either of them after I found out. This isn't one of those "anything is possible" answers. This is one of those "She 100% sent those to someone else". In case this isn't clear, your LTR was over a while ago. She's just stringing you along, using you. Also, it's guaranteed she wants you back when you dump her, she needs a beta provider to take care of the kids while she's out hooking up with alph…
/r/askTRP28/08/17 06:20 PM
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Except that TRP paints quite a bleak society. Yeah, in 2017 things are bleak. But everyone worked hard in the early 1900's, it's only recently that everyone got fat, ugly, and lazy. If you create an aura of positivity around you, you might attract those who are similarly positive. (Except online, people will eat you alive) Society exists only for the top few percent of men and women to enjoy. True. Everyone else is just robots in my opinion. I get a lot of looks from older couples because I'm li…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 06:20 PM
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TRP was created by someone that wanted to show the world the truth. People can believe whatever they want. My personal opinion is that there is no point to life if everything you want to do will be alone AND for yourself. Playing video games and watching porn and not interacting physically with another human might as well be the definition of death. Self improvement, socializing, and contributing back to society should be everyone's goal. Working somewhere that you do something you are good at a…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 06:22 AM
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Thanks for sharing. Also worth mentioning is that he said this cycle started in 2010. So even if someone was willing to help him its 7 years too late. Some important signs my relative showed for severe depression is staying up late, major lack of sleep, regularly running late to work (fired after multiple warnings), being anti social especially with friends and family, and most importantly if they feel like they have nothing to offer to the world, no ambitions, no plans for 5 years from now.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 05:58 PM
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A relative of mine took his own life two weeks ago. He was around 30 years old. Just stating the facts, his father was an abusive gambler that left when they were kids, so his only family was mother and sister. In his final note he mentioned how he wished he could confide in someone and he also didn't want any fancy funeral. He simply wanted to not exist. Although he wasn't ripped like the guys on here, he wasn't fat either, so he could have found someone if he had any amount of motivation, whic…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 08:08 PM
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Abundance mentality is your friend. I ride a motorcycle to work and before I got married there were hot women approaching me, sparking up a random conversation each day that I didn't even notice worked there. But I would never make a move on them. This one married older female coworker lost her mind (just because I was being friendly) and wrote me love letters, which made my boss laugh, but it was still clearly sexual harassment and I quickly left the place. However, birds of a feather flock tog…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 08:25 PM
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The only way to extend this answer is: No sex = No commitment.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 09:04 PM
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No worries. We got your back. You've got nothing to fear this time around. Hope you do something fun while your girl is gone.
/r/askTRP01/08/17 10:29 PM
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Summary of OP's post 1 year LTR She is practically a unicorn, cooks, cleans, puts out, has self-control. Of her own accord, she told her orbiters that it wasn't appropriate for them to talk or hang out anymore. LTR is staying with friends for a weekend. I'm worried she will cheat. Am I insecure? I feel like I need to take a strong action (next her, establish boundaries, etc). What do I do? Honestly, she's too good for a guy that's insecure about himself. You want to take an action? Tell her it's…
/r/askTRP01/08/17 09:42 PM
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Don't get married. A lot of foreign women have been known to only stay with the man for the minimum amount of time the collect alimony. I'm sure Thailand is slightly better than the US and UK, but don't assume any women is worthy. Judge them by their actions, not their words.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 04:44 PM
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Every marriage goes through this regularly. You're doing it right if your wife says she doesn't like you. You have to be the enforcer. You know what's right and wrong, no need to be manipulative. Tell her what needs to change. Sometimes they know what they are doing is wrong, but they want someone to notice and call them out on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/17 07:03 PM
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Girls are not only similar to their friends but strongly influenced by them. Who's to say it would only be a 1 time thing. On top of that the only reason is because she has a boyfriend. Not because she likes you more or has future plans with you. You are her accessory, like a purse or underwear. FYI, top post in science right now is about incurable ghonnorea. Think about it.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 11:49 PM
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The top posts all seem to have the right idea. But why? Imagine 10 years down the road and you had your first kid together. Shes a stay at home mom. Her only acquaintance nearby is someone she used to hook up with and she's meeting up with him bringing your baby while you are at work and can't possibly supervise the interaction. Do you want situations like this in the future?
/r/askTRP07/07/17 11:42 PM
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You're subconscious is telling you that you need more variety in your life or your going to regret it when you're older. Hooking up less often is normal the older you get. You lose a little of the drive for sex, but your other interests grow (like motorcycle rides, cooking/eating, working out).
/r/askTRP29/06/17 05:46 PM
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But my question is AWALT? Here's a few key points for AWALT: All women want more validation. All women want to have a back-up plan or beta bucks (submissive guy with money). Ex's always want a good guy back after they have had their fun. Only a guy that has no respect for himself would take them back. However, it is less likely for a woman to be like that if she comes from an Asian background and a religious background. (Still completely possible, just merely less likely.) Just had to note: It d…
/r/askTRP23/06/17 08:07 PM
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<40g is good. 40g isn't just good, it's the maximum amount of added sugar you should eat in a day. For women, it is 2/3 that amount (about 25g) Just to be clear, we are talking about added/refined sugar. Eating fruits is good for you. Drinking too much juice, even if it's 100% fruit juice, is not good for you.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 09:18 PM
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everything will get stolen from me. Who is doing the stealing? Because it's not the guy that your future wife is hooking up with. Don't blame other people for your problems. As long as you are more attractive than the next guy, you're wife might not cheat on you. But then again, if she wants to cheat, then she could pick from a range of thirsty guys. How can I overcome this fear? Face your fear. Imagine what you would do if you found out she was cheating on you. So what if you got married? You w…
/r/askTRP22/05/17 06:05 PM
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You could always get a vasectomy without telling her, then pretend you changed your mind and want a baby. Women have a strong desire to follow their biological imperatives.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 05:33 PM
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Get a vasectomy. A couple of the girls I dated in the past would regularly skip pills on random days (two days on, one day off, kind of thing). They got pissed when I became their pill alarm clock and started reminding them: It's time to take your pill right now. They were about as pissed off when I did that as when I broke up with them. I don't think they were expecting to be with someone who has a backbone and stands by his opinions on how things should work. Good luck!
/r/askTRP19/05/17 05:17 PM
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Probably 8 years ago now I used to live with a (crazy) girl that I had dated for 3 years and was planning to marry. I wasn't the confident leader that I am now. We lived together for the last year. Then I found out she cheated among other things. It left me destroyed for a good year and a half. But then once I was free from that relationship, my life took off at the speed of light. Making big bucks, going on epic trips (I recommend backpacking in the woods), meeting a ton of great women, and eve…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 05:35 PM
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It sucks. Expect it to take about half the time you were together to get over her. You did the right thing. Even if you're angry at her, it just means you still have feelings for her. Best advice is keep lifting and read everything on the sidebar while looking for girls to use as rebounds. That will help the healing process. The biggest thing that will screw with your head is not getting laid on the regular with the same person, so try solving that issue as well. Then, once you're in a good plac…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 05:19 PM
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She still would have left him. She wanted exact numbers.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 07:36 PM
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Top 2% income for my age. Dated many women. Happily married now (don't ever get married). OP is correct. The only exception is when your significant other has a baby or is about to. Women get scary emotional when they are pregnant or just had a baby. Happy to clear up any grey area. Ask questions if you have them. I'm on mobile. PS. My dad was an asshole about money. Hiding it in secret bank accounts from my mom and it wasn't even a lot. They got divorced and everyone is happier for it.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 07:35 PM
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We all go through it. When I was young like you, one of my ex's left me for a friend who was working right after highschool for an amazing 12$/hr, while I was at university. I was crushed for a month, but then I realized she was a gold digger and was happier about it. Too bad for her I'm making more than she could ever dream of.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 06:03 PM
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Summary of TRP-relevant points to understand OP: TRP doesn't apply to my unicorn relationship. (said multiple times) Only girlfriend of 5 years left me She went from a loving person to showing the nastiest colors. She also told me I could visit her anytime or talk to her. She said ... I won't make enough money. Said I'm a loser for still living with my mother, even though she knows I cannot afford the rent of an own apartment. My father abandoned me when I was a child. Her father was an abusive …
/r/askTRP11/04/17 05:28 PM
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I've seen a handful of cases recently in my personal life like yours. Everyone at some point will think their significant other is cheating on them. You get past it by realizing it doesn't matter, and living in the moment. If your mind starts wandering into the past or future, forget it. I think what you need right now is assurance that life doesn't need to be seen through the lens of abuse and mental illness. If you get the time, try watching this: Life After Life Recently, my friend's wife pas…
/r/askTRP10/04/17 11:29 PM
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Did she cheat? You have the worst scarcity mentality I've ever read on here. How did you even find this sub? Married for 28 years If she cheats on you after being together for 28 years, it's really not that bad. It's not like she's going to get pregnant with someone else's kid. And it isn't cheating if you leaves you for being a blackhole that sucks the happiness from everyone's life. Stop focusing on the negatives that didn't even happen. Just remember the good times and live life day by day. Y…
/r/askTRP10/04/17 09:47 PM
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Honestly, no one is going to think about you and your girlfriend both in suits. They are going to be thinking about how sorry they feel for the groom that he had to stoop so low as to have a woman as part of his groomsmen. I went to a wedding where the best man was a woman (best woman?). In reality this shoots up a ton of red flags, but in the groom's fantasy world, it's perfectly acceptable. Back to reality, the groom isn't capable of forming strong bonds with other males because he's simply no…
/r/askTRP05/04/17 09:08 PM
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I have this friend who I known for many years and I was hoping to be the best man at his wedding. He recently had a very basic civil ceremony, no actual wedding. His wife was my friend too. She recently gave birth to a baby boy that's now 3 months old. His wife passed away last week. Your post reminded me that I should probably inform my ex about the event, but I don't have any way to reach her. We spent a year or two hanging out around once a week with all 4 of us. We went on camping trips, had…
/r/askTRP15/03/17 08:19 PM
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I also tend to casually mention trashy girls I've met... Is there a small part of you that is trying to validate yourself to these women? Because you don't have to. Am I shooting myself in the foot with all this sex talk? Yes. A couple of my guy friends seem to genuinely appreciate the stories since they are in relationships but pulled this kind of stuff in their past and like to live vicariously through me. I was that same guy that people lived vicariously through. I also talked way too much in…
/r/askTRP10/03/17 08:41 PM
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I look young too. Never had a problem with girls though (probably because I live in Asian central in the US. Sure if I dated someone my same age that wasn't Asian, they probably looked older. But then I started dating Asian girls that were not only younger, but looked 10 years younger than they really were. It was fun, I enjoyed it, but eventually I wanted something real. I get your point about younger women being dumb and immature. There is a huge difference between our generation and the gener…
/r/askTRP09/03/17 11:34 PM
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I had this happen to me before. It's a total dick move, but boys will be boys. They have an itch and they scratch it. If it turns into something serious you should dump the both of them, but if there's no commitment then decide which one is better: your friend or your plate (not much of a decision here). It's always better to just brush it off like the alpha you are. You can get other plates, no big deal. And burning bridges with your old friends won't get you anywhere. Think about how you would…
/r/askTRP07/03/17 06:12 PM
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Poor OP. You were nothing more than a rebound to that girl. She's not the type to be comfortable being single, so she's just stringing you along until she's ready to change animals on the carousel. FYI, don't be in a serious relationship with a girl unless she's over her last relationship. Normally it takes half the time of the relationship to recover. So if the girl who is using you was in a past relationship for 2 years, it will take a full year of being single (or rebounding) before she's rea…
/r/askTRP27/02/17 06:31 PM
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She thinks she can do better, so she will keep hooking up with you until she finds someone else. It's best to turn her down. She's only doing it because she needs that validation to feel wanted. On top of that, it's good for you because hooking up with your ex will really mess you up unless you are completely over her.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 12:49 AM
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Did I handle this right? Could've been better? You handled this perfectly. Not suggesting getting married ever, but if you want kids eventually, then that is bad mother material. I wish I followed your path on more than one occasion in my younger years. However, life is great now. Tell her that when we get home in two days I'm moving out (yeah I fucked up by getting on a lease with her prior redpill) The majority of guys have been there. For future reference, moving in together is practically th…
/r/askTRP10/02/17 12:21 AM
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Make it your motto to only say what needs to be said. Part of me wished I could brag about my three-ways with my other guy friends. You realize later in life to avoid pushing validation of yourself. You don't need to AMOG when your friends can tell simply by observation.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 10:44 PM
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Sorry to hear, but it gets better. I was broke in college, but I had a gift of intelligence and a strong drive. Even though I worked 2 jobs nearly full-time while doing a double-major in engineering and computer science, I was also a very active member (president/vice president) in multiple clubs [No frats] and doing research with professors. It was a hell of an experience, and even though I'd ride my bike full-tilt over 50 miles a week and I didn't eat all day until I got home at 8pm and microw…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 10:40 PM
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You already know that anything you tell him, he will tell anyone else. Definitely sounds like your friend is closer to acting like a woman than a man. Don't tell him anything that wouldn't tell the world.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 09:46 PM
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Don't freak out. The older you get the more your realize no one ages mentally past their 20's. Meet this guy and then evaluate him. Following TRP, you should understand how people work. There's two paths your interaction with him can take: He is A-type. He AMOG's you. He's ripped. He rides his motorcycle 200km through the twisties to visit your girl. (All of that is highly unlikely) He's 40, single, and desperate for human interaction. Society stops caring about anyone after they graduate colleg…
/r/askTRP25/01/17 07:11 PM
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First, stop having one-itis. Second, become comfortable being single and not hooking up (as well as working out regularly) Third, just talk to her. Friendzone her if you have to. Then realize that all the women you friendzone want to hook up with you, but you're too busy being successful and doing whatever you want. Good luck!
/r/askTRP23/01/17 09:59 PM
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What you did reflects that you're the leader. You're not avoiding anything, you made the concious decision to leave drama out of the relationship. If the other person is clearly not in an emotionally stable state, then there's no reason to keep the conversation going. Wait until they've cooled down, then talk to like normal people. Lastly, women most definitely need drama in their lives, so expect the occasional emotional outburst like this, rinse and repeat. Let them have their drama, but you d…
/r/askTRP20/01/17 09:34 PM
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Anger is just a phase. You'll realize that the majority of women cheat. Seems like the other people here got it right about ghosting her. Most well-rounded guys have had a girl cheat on them. My solution was to end it and tell her we could get back together later, so she stuck hoping (with each of the dozen different ex's) Then I went on to improve myself, and they are stuck stalking me. For years those ex's would reach out to me, but it's not worth my time. I'm doing better than anyone my ex's …
/r/askTRP10/01/17 08:12 PM
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Serious question. Why don't you try to find a girl that is closer to you? 3 hours seems a bit crazy.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 12:44 AM
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Perfect example of equality backfiring on women. The final result will be grim for women if we discard gender categories at the Olympics yet all of the winners are men. I'm interested to see how this plays out until that point.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 06:42 PM
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I think you did the right thing contacting her right away. You want to make a move while things are still hot. Unless she has her own family to take care, that long of a wait is a red flag. But the fact is that she currently means nothing to you, and you have nothing to prove, so you might as well wait a day and coordinate a time and place to meet. Just remember that you might not be the only guy she's talking to...
/r/askTRP05/01/17 06:40 PM
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If you want to follow the path of TRP, you will not get back with your ex. That's giving her too much validation. There's too many fish in the sea to return to a girl that has probably hooked up with one or more different guys after you. On top of that, first impressions make a huge difference.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 11:03 PM
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Summary: Pakistani girls are all special unicorns where the rules of TRP don't apply My life has hit rock bottom Does anyone have any experience with Paki girls is it different than what is being taught here on TRP or is it the same? You're a loser. TRP still applies. No girls want to date a loser. Why were you kicked out of schools? You sound extremely narrow minded. Read all of the material on the side-bar.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 10:36 PM
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It's best for you if you end the relationship. Stop living the life where you need a back-up plan/girl before you jump ship, just jump off the damn ship. is this bad for ltr? Wrong question. It's bad for you to game women that way. If you really want to game women, do it out in the real-world. About 5 years ago, I was where you are now, and the best thing I did was end it. Learn to be comfortable without being in a relationship. Even if you want to keep seeing her, still end it. Just be friends,…
/r/askTRP22/12/16 10:24 PM
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Congratulations on being better than her boyfriend (it's not an achievement by the way). Girls cheat, and we all know having a boyfriend means nothing. Even though being a boyfriend means nothing, it's still sad that she isn't dedicated to you. I mean that in terms of her being a plate, and you still being able to see other girls. We have the most intense sex, and last month she said she wants to break up with her boyfriend. It feels to me like you haven't hooked up with more than 20 different g…
/r/askTRP01/12/16 10:10 PM
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True. I've looked it up too. But keep in mind men and women only have so much emotional energy to spend each day. A 1 year old wrecking your sleep schedule destroys your T levels...
/r/askTRP06/11/16 11:15 AM
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What are your thoughts... If we're talking about American culture, this is easy. Pass the shit tests and you're golden. Fail and you'll be cuck'd. Someone is getting laid in the relationship regularly, and if it's not the guy, then... you know. If you're in a different country, then it depends on your culture. In Korean culture, sex is extremely rare for the vast majority of people - married or not. As far as no sex during marriage, let me give you an anecdote. When someone RP hooks up with girl…
/r/askTRP03/11/16 05:53 PM
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Great post. I'm Christian, but the world is full of 'false prophets' who don't even know they are being deceitful. I made a popular post here a couple years ago on Mother's Day. I went to church with my parents (I have my own kids by the way), and the entire "sermon" was about how mother's and women are the best thing ever. 45 minutes goes by without reading from the Bible, but no one else seemed to have a problem, and most of the people were happy about it. I should have pulled a Jesus, and sta…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 09:41 PM
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Wrong sub. And bombshell or not: the general public will never hear about the leaks H will never be convicted It doesn't matter, don't think about it.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 10:44 PM
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Wow, I imagine a woman with all those qualities is extremely rare, but my wife is all those highlights too. Have you asked your LTR if she is currently married by chance? Catholic Phew. My wife isn't Catholic.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 11:48 PM
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A lot of guys think they've won the lottery when they get a phone number or a kiss. That's what is praised in the seduction subreddit. Here in TRP it's f-close or nothing. Don't even waste a thought on this girl until you've met in person.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 04:41 AM
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Hey, I wish the best for you in your new found mentality. I know the chances are slim you read this, but there's a potentially great sub for you to get back on your feet with a new set of friends: the sub BostonSeddit I can't guarantee they know TRP like some of our veterans here, and I can't guarantee anyone would see your post there after 8 months of inactivity, but there's always hope you can rejuvenate that sub. I know about that sub because I've used the sub OrangeCountySeddit around 4 year…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 07:19 PM
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You could even mix it up and party really hard when you're young then just tone it down when you're older. But the best life is a balanced one, should never be 100% work.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 05:04 AM
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When I was younger, I would be dating girls while I was meeting new potential girls. I never had the scarcity mentality that made me feel like I need to sleep with them instantly because I was satisfied before I met up them. I made it clear that I wasn't their boyfriend and they weren't my girlfriend, but we still did that I enjoyed and the girl would tag along. I'm just saying, it makes it easier if you hung out with them in a group setting and they find out you are down to earth and not a desp…
/r/askTRP19/09/16 05:43 PM
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If you are literally just meeting them for the first time, don't be surprised if they actually need to spend some amount of time around you before they sleep with you. You could always friend zone the girls, go out to a party with them and meet more women. You have to think big. How can you spend the least amount of time and money with the most amount of women? Do it all in parallel.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 05:24 PM
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I've experienced the same thing many years ago, and I learned from it. You were probably her rebound, which sucks, but it happens. Next time do everything you just did... without any alcohol involved. With attractive women it takes true skill and the women will be way more turned on. Might also be worth investing your time to read SGM.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 12:24 AM
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You make a lot of assumptions. Not sure why you're being offensive. We're not arguing. This is an open discussion. If you have any questions, I'd be happy to answer them.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/16 10:19 PM
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Those are good points. I didn't consider those. I know I'm one in 100 but I grew up under a multimillionaire CEO stepfather, so RP came naturally. He also never game me a dime of his money. I thought he was a major dick, but now it all makes sense so we're on the same page.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/16 09:22 PM
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Overall, I agree with you. But the fact is that some guys aren't capable of picking a spouse without problems because they don't have an abundance mentality. One or both spouses have unresolved childhood baggage .... DON'T BE CAPTAIN SAVE-A-HO. RP knowledge not needed for this one, just some self respect. My condolences to men from damaged childhoods here. Rest of the CSAH are just pitiful. Agreed, but asktrp is full of guys seeing if a red-flagged woman can be salvaged. Understanding what "marr…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/16 09:00 PM
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That's how I feel. Marriage is supposed to be easy, it can be, and it is for me. It blows my mind that I've never lost my temper at my wife. She loses her temper every now and then, and I even lose my temper at our kids on rare occasions, but I feel like our marriage is easy.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/16 07:57 PM
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Probably because sexual attraction is one of the few things most people get right when choosing a spouse. The list is just the most common mistakes people make.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/16 07:55 PM
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I read on here all the time about guys asking to fix their marriage, but their current wife displayed many red flags during the dating phase. If those guys were more RP when they had started dating, then they could have filtered them out and ended up in a happier marriage with someone else. I've seen the posts about getting a divorce too, and it's often the best option for guys that joined RP too late in their marriage and their wife is showing many red flags. About my comment: Other than that, …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/16 06:14 PM
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what's the protocol to proceed with this? I was in a similar social circle problem (but she definitely wasn't an ex of anyone I knew). So similar to you, if I dated the girl and things went bad, it might make things awkward with that group of friends. But I had the abundance mentality and played it by ear. I made it very clear we were officially just friends even though we were dating and also made sure neither of us showed signs of being clingy. We didn't even say those 3 magic words until 6 mo…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 12:01 AM
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This sub isn't for helping with 1 specific girl, unless of course you follow our advice to stop caring about 1 specific girl. And there's no such thing as a unicorn, once she feels the pressure of the wall, she's going to act like every other woman.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 09:45 PM
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It sounds like you let the foundation of your relationship slip. There's no way to build it back to what it once was. The relationship was over when she disrespected you, whether or not you went no contact. If you consider the thought of eventually marrying the person you are dating, you could filter through girlfriends really fast. However, I do not recommend getting married - no benefit to the guy.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 08:50 PM
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All women think like that (logical or not, it makes sense in their mind). But remember, everything is the guy's fault. If you seriously want an LTR, then build the appropriate foundation. Laugh about other women approaching you, laugh about other guys approaching your significant other. Recognize when a girl likes you and wants to hang out one-on-one. Don't hang out with her like you need validation. Recognize when a guy likes your significant other and plan accordingly. If you just want to play…
/r/askTRP13/09/16 08:35 PM
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Even better than reading the sidebar, surround yourself with men that exude the TRP mindset.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 08:19 PM
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Cleaned up your post: How do you initiate? my wife avoid intimacy do I challenge her to make time for us sexless marriage that is a way to hold your frame not appear needy or weak and initiate ? You should signal your intent rather than asking for permission. That probably doesn't make sense, because you've probably never been with more than a handful of women. Holding your frame will get you no where because "your frame" is completely broken. You need to reinvent your frame by reading the sideb…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 07:02 PM
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If you ever want to have a respectable LTR, then you'll both learn to laugh at other people showing off their bodies and make fun of people who try to flirt, like it's an inside joke that they can't be a part of.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 06:49 PM
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I read your comments about how you put your foot down and said no or the relationship is over, as if that's even a bargaining chip for you. She brought up hooking up with another guy because he's kinkier than you, and you just told her you won't ever be that kinky. It's likely she's cheating on you, but if you did want to save what little you have left, you'd get out. But, since you don't sound like the guy to do that, start lifting weights, start focusing on improving yourself. Start dominating…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 05:36 PM
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how do I figure out if we Fucked because my SMV is high or if she was just feeing slutty and I happened to be available? Haha, stop right there. Your SMV is high enough for her to put out. It doesn't matter how she is feeling, because that will change like the ocean tide. And TRP doesn't stop when you get into an LTR. You need a high SMV every day. You have the power to turn any hook up into an LTR... as well as the power to do the opposite - turning any LTR into a hook-up only relationship. Unl…
/r/askTRP06/09/16 06:21 PM
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I'd wager that if a guy hasn't been with more partners than about 80% of the population, he is likely going to have lots of problems in his relationships. Because reaching those numbers is a sign of all the hard work invested in yourself as well as a solid understanding of social dynamics. Here's the quickest breakdown I could find of hookups by age: http://imgur.com/LszBOua (not by gender) I'm married now, but every time a woman comes onto me, I just remember what it was like hooking with a gir…
/r/askTRP01/09/16 01:30 AM
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Excellent question and answers in this thread. Someone should seriously consider analyzing this post in the main TRP subreddit. The viewpoints of OP compared to our TRP endorsed members is a great way to gauge where TRP members are at in terms of calculating their own attractiveness. I'm on mobile right now but if it's not on TRP by tomorrow I'll post a thread.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 06:25 PM
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Relax. I don't know about your situation, but my SMV is so high that my go-to response is always something playful like: "That's great, I bet he wanted to hook up with you." It helps having a significant other that's equally secure and can say the same things back. Besides, if she does cheat, she just made your life easier by filtering herself out of it. We need to keep an abundance mentality. Good luck!
/r/askTRP25/08/16 10:49 PM
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Here's the number 1 guide on cologne: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2iiwxb/what_cologne_should_i_buy/cl2ms6f
/r/askTRP25/08/16 06:49 PM
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Haha, many years ago I made similar mistakes as you. I always cringe when I remember it. Girl was slightly buzzed, so I figured I shouldn't make a move. You know, being a nice [dishonest with myself] type of guy. In retrospect, she handed herself to me multiple times, but I always felt the situation wasn't perfect. The girl was a hot, modest cheerleader too. In reality, that 'perfect' opportunity to make a move is exactly when you man up and make a move. You need a strong abundance mentality and…
/r/askTRP25/08/16 05:04 PM
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LTR kissed her ex I have been fucking 5 other girls since I started dating her Congratulations. Neither of the two people in your relationship are exclusive. If she knows you two are not exclusive, then it's highly likely she's going to be hooking up with other guys. I hope you're getting checked for STDs regularly...
/r/askTRP12/08/16 05:36 PM
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Block the number. Remember there are a million women out there that are better than her.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 05:03 PM
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At least a couple times. Now that I think about it one of the times was an April fool's joke. Her friend walked in right when they started and took a picture. Like wtf?
/r/askTRP24/07/16 12:52 AM
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I know a girl that cheated on her boyfriend. The other guy was friends with the boyfriend so he kept telling the girl he had a small dick which was true. But she said she wanted it anyways. It doesn't matter. Rock what you got.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 08:42 PM
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Holy Crap... That's why my parents were helping me in that fashion? Because it was the law...? Makes sense. As soon as I lost all respect for them and stopped accepting any money, they weren't too concerned about me struggling on my own.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 11:33 PM
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A boyfriend like that is the same type of guy that will blame you for "stealing" her. He would never blame his girlfriend. Let the girlfriend keep dragging him along for a long while until he connects the dots that she's the problem. So there's no need to tell him. Similarly, everyone's going to die, but you don't look a stranger in the eye and tell them that.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 08:10 PM
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Started making 150K at 25. I'm the smartest, most motivated, hardest working person I know. I don't mean book smart, I mean I figure out problems on-the-fly. 18 - [10$/hr] Insane Federal Student Aid for college (I graduated with 0 debt) Working 2 jobs, each pays roughly 10$ per hour. 19 [16$/hr] - Internship at a Fortune 100 company. I was only a sophomore in college, but I was working alongside students pursuing their master's degree. (Note: Already making more than all my parents-that-both-rem…
/r/askTRP05/07/16 09:01 PM
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But why? Does your work suck that much? My work is awesome. I love my job, but I just love spending time with my family more. The other thing I would love more than working for someone else is working for myself. I have a lot of android apps I try to develop in my spare time (which is practically zero). Although I can't live off that unpredictable or non-existent income, I could focus on that if I were retired. It just seems a bit odd to me, that people would rather spend their 20's and 30' on a…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 07:12 PM
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Here's a point I haven't seen yet: Early Retirement Great post. The title made it seem possible you'd be a cheap scarcity mindset beta, but I was glad to see a bullet proof frame covering all the bases. My method to retiring early as a cheap cunt Technically if you're not spending your money, it's accumulating somewhere. Sure, you could invest your money, but most big mutual funds haven't actually seen any growth in the past 3 years. The point is that you are saving. Let everyone else live their…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 06:30 PM
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Look at it this way. The only reason for an LTR is to eventually get married (otherwise she would just be one of many plates for you). If a girl brings up any red flags like that, then the LTR is over, because you'd be destroyed if that ever happened when you were married. By the way don't get married. Besides, what benefit does being in an LTR give YOU?
/r/askTRP01/07/16 11:33 PM
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Animal instinct takes over I actually found this very beneficial when I was gaming day or night. You see the results (field reports?) on the nofap sub all the time, they literally stop caring and go caveman on their pick up strategies, and it works.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 09:09 PM
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Troll points hidden in the text: I have never been in a relationship before. So OP was a virgin? out of nowhere she admits she was a former prostitute for a year Women trickle truth. AWALT. They wouldn't make slutty facts known. (she completely moved in and out 5 times in a year) Does she live out of a suitcase? (In 3 years she hooked up with ~150 guys through craigslist and tinder) So taking rough averages the 1 year you were together, she hooked up with 50 guys while living with you roughly 9 …
/r/askTRP29/06/16 12:19 AM
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If being scarred like that saves you from future pain, then it's probably a good thing to be scarred. Right? If you're lucky, you will eventually find a balance.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 10:23 PM
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It's not insecure, and you're not being prejudice. You are secure in the fact that she likely has impure motives, and you not pre-judging before the facts, you are straight judging based on well known TRP truths. Plenty of guys including me can tell you when we get someone else's girlfriend alone, even if we aren't interested, things happen that the boyfriend would definitely not approve of.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 10:19 PM
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You caveman a woman who is being difficult, unless she says no and pushes you away. You get up and leave if a starfish shows up, unless that certain person has a medical condition, but you don't have to put up with any of that.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:17 PM
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The only thing I would disagree with is the 'yoga studio' for iphone. Sure it's cheaper than an actual yoga studio, but you could be meeting other like-minded similarly-fit women.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 05:51 PM
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It's part of growing up. You're probably around your peak age to hook up frequently, like 23 to 28. Being a slave to your desires goes away naturally as you get older. But then again if you can control it now and postpone gratification, women go that much more crazy on you when they get the chance. Saw your other comments too. NoFap is an easy way to AMOG while the white knights spin their hamster wheels. Girls can see right through those charades.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 10:26 PM
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But if you ask sluts, they are ALL out there just trying to find husbands. Depends on who you ask. Successful guy here. Girl I was hooking up with told me she never wanted to get married. A month goes by and I end the relationship because I eventually wanted to get married (pro tip: don't get married). Needless to say, she flipped her script and said she would be okay with marrying me. They are ALL out there just trying to find husbands baby batter and wallets.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 08:41 PM
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Let me put it this way. It will work, but you don't want it to. I've dated many women who were clearly addicted to drama (and many of them had daddy issues). If I didn't incite drama at regular intervals, then their desire for it would build up and start overflowing into our normal activities, like hanging out with friends rather than in a personal setting, which I will not allow. There are women out that require lower, less-frequent doses of drama, but you will not find a girl that likes riding…
/r/askTRP16/06/16 06:30 PM
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Based on his writing and a conversation full of long pauses, OP does not have a high SMV at least socially. A long pause greater than 10 seconds? Hang up. The conversation is over. It's funny how you mention all the benefits she gives you, but Briffault's Law is a law - not a theory: ...Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place. If you're not giving her tingles from a high SMV, whether or not you're providing those beta bucks, her biol…
/r/askTRP14/06/16 05:13 PM
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Agreed. Unfortunately for the father, when they bring another life into the world, there are going to be many compromises. The father could just dump the baby in another room and leave them crying while they go to town on mom, but that's sick to think about. Definitely give the new mother at the absolute minimum 1 month. Take care of your own damn self for that month. Yeah, she could give you a blowie if her abs weren't completely destroyed from being slowly stretched out for 9 months. She could…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/16 11:41 PM
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You can use the life lessons from Millionaire Next Door and First Break All Rules: What The Worlds Greatest Managers Do Differently and apply them to TRP. Here's somewhat of a rant from me: Keep your money to yourself, your neighbors never need to know. I'm a relatively young guy paying off my house in 15 years, it's filled a few nice items but it's a minimalist life style. My walls are not full of random decorations and framed paintings, my furniture is sourced from relatives but it's still nic…
/r/askTRP13/06/16 11:05 PM
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The 1st rule of TRP is don't talk about it.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 01:20 AM
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Whenever people as for a number that shouldn't affect their life in any way, you should not answer seriously. My go-to answer is: Enough. Things women like to ask: How much do you make? How old are you? How many women have you been with? Anything you tell a girl will be repeated to her friends and family an endless number of times. You shouldn't get married, but short of marriage, you should not answer those questions seriously. For example, I only told my wife some things. She goes and tells he…
/r/askTRP02/06/16 12:51 AM
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Abundance mentality. TRP is a way of life, it's not just about getting laid. There's a lot more women in the world than just your ex's sister. For your own good, you should start meeting a lot more women. Personally I have a slight dislike for anyone related to or friends with an ex, and that slight dislike is enough for me to lose interest in sleeping with them. You need to think big picture. 20-30 years down the line when you have a talk with your son, he'll might ask who you have been with. W…
/r/askTRP01/06/16 12:37 AM
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Do I want to touch or hug her after that? No way in hell. Seriously? Most girls you've ever hugged have probably had more guys inside of them than you've been with women.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 11:12 PM
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Similar to what /u/quicklogaccount mentioned. You are reacting emotionally. Leaving after a short while is definitely the right thing to do, because she will never look at you the same way and you can never look at her the same way. However, leaving immediately is the shittiest thing you can do. Social Proof = 0. I'll up the severity to make things clearer. If you were an adult with a teenage daughter that was raped, you can't walk out just because her whole future might change for the worse. Yo…
/r/askTRP31/05/16 11:09 PM
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Based on a scientific study, a man's happiness is proportional to his wife's waist size. Do you want to be happy?
/r/askTRP27/05/16 06:39 PM
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Talk to the homeless guy that hooks up with a bunch of different women regularly. If you're really that desperate for a bed, go for the big women.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 01:23 AM
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The keyword "50%" was actually toned down from the truth to make women not look so bad. The numbers are much closer to a one-third/two-third split rather than a 50/50 split. 38.7 Male | 61.3 Female Source
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 10:17 PM
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Summarized: My girlfriend moved in with me Bought a "promise" ring to stop the "why aren't you getting married" questions. Dating for about 15 months and was asked where our relationship is going by my family. I have a child from a previous marriage I physically withdraw from her and it feels like second nature to not want to engage her sexually when she cries Here's my comments: its like I'm actively repulsed by her tear Chemical cues in their tears signal that they are not interested in romant…
/r/askTRP26/05/16 01:15 AM
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Perfectly normal. Happens all the time. Her dislike of you will manifest itself as comments to her friend (your gf) such as "You should leave him", which will produce results similar to a parent's dislike of a boyfriend. Your bond will grow stronger. Whatever you do, don't put yourself in a situation that gives them the power, such as allowing your gf or her friend to be the driver. Meet up with them in your own car and leave whenever you like.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 10:28 PM
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As the gap widens between the rich and the poor so to will the gap widens between the losers and the winners.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 04:44 AM
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To avoid getting dox'd by the crazy blue pillers
/r/askTRP21/05/16 05:02 AM
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Stop wasting your time. Seriously. If it's that bad only 4 months in, and the purpose of having an LTR is to continue having an LTR (or marriage, which I don't recommend!), then your relationship was over the minute you were not the one in control. If she picked you, like she made the first move and kissed you, that's when your relationship ended, even it hadn't even started yet. Another thing. Never feel bad about judging someone for who they are. Political correctness used to be about not bein…
/r/askTRP20/05/16 08:08 PM
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This is everything you need to know. GayLubeOil's Gift Giving Guide Read the whole thing.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 07:51 PM
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First date with an older woman. Oh, ok. So like a year or two years older than you? Regardless it's a bad idea. 50 years old. Leave this sub and don't come back.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 09:16 PM
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If she forgot to take the pill even 1 day or she even took it several hours apart from when she normally takes it, there's like a 10% chance of pregnancy. However, you have to come into that 72-hour window which starts roughly 2 weeks after the period ends. If you did that, then yeah, she probably is. If she just finished her period or it's the week before her period starts, then she's probably not pregnant.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 05:53 PM
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At 17 years old, if you think this is a difficult problem, then wait until you're in your mid 20's. Eventually, you will learn the right answer is to not 'pick' any of the girls. Unofficially or officially, don't let them tie you down with the 'girlfriend' and 'boyfriend' labels. However, also be mature enough to know that when you are not exclusive that your plate might be hooking up with other guys.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 06:20 PM
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TL;DR - 26 year old college student. Decent shape. I don't game. Going semi-monk mode right now. Been a long time lurker of TRP and have implemented a lot of the material here into my life and seen great success with it.. (Aside from "sexual strategy".. the logistics just haven't been there for dating. Well I got into my #1 choice school, with a generous scholarship and great financial aid package. Anyway, I came to the red pill after a really bad break up. she no longer loved me. I had been bet…
/r/askTRP07/05/16 01:02 AM
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Statistics of the day: Chance of OP's LTR: Turning down 'this weird dude': 50% Hooking up with 'this weird dude': 25% Trickle Truth Trickling: 100% Owning OP because he's a beta in this relationship: 100%
/r/askTRP06/05/16 08:23 PM
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When a situation like this has come up before (a girl giving me her number without me asking via social media) my LTR absolutely lost her mind. Hung up on me, accused me of cheating, basically had to talk her down from the proverbial ledge of our relationship. Read no more. End of story. If the future course of action is not clear, simply read the other comments. If we must continue analyzing: We've been on very rocky terms lately and had broken up a week ago but she came back begging for a seco…
/r/askTRP06/05/16 08:19 PM
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This brings back memories. I never thought of myself as a strong leader, but everyone else just seemed so stupid and lazy so I was happy to take control of the situation. From your perspective, I was the guy that forced a 'yes man' mentality on a handful of my strange group of friends. 10PM on a school night and just got in bed, but your friends invite you clubbing. Are you going? You think a question to yourself: Should I approach that hot girl? I broke them free from their BP chains. Before me…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 09:37 PM
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I've been a part of TRP since its inception. I also got married last year, and I would still not recommend to anyone to get married EVER. I'm happily married, but it wasn't a decision I made lightly. I had to go through a lot of women to get to where I am. There's many kids here that want to rush into becoming alpha, like it's purely a state of mind and completely internal. At what point in coming to the TRP subreddit did they become so disconnected from our reality? Maybe the point is to be dis…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 07:16 PM
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Glad to hear. When I was 18 I had 3 women desperate to hook up with me because they saw I had a bright future. I now realize the correct decision was to pick none of them, but it would have been nice to hook up with all 3 rather than just 1. The other thing that would have been really helpful is being aware when a girl liked me. I downplayed every girl's hints about wanting to hook up to the point that they unleashed their beast and made the first move on me. However, the sluts that make the fir…
/r/askTRP03/05/16 10:10 PM
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How do I stop this? Let's take a step back and look at what "this" really is. "This" is what's going to happen in the future. "This" is a problem you can prevent from happening again. Next time be proactive about what you want to happen.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 08:50 PM
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This is the answer you are looking for EDIT: This has become quite popular, so I feel I should clarify a few things. I wrote this all off the top of my head. Of course there are cologne options that I missed. This is just a general idea to get you started. There are literally thousands of colognes that are worthy, but I don't have time to list more than a few. Different guys are going to like different smells. You aren't wrong just because you like something that other people don't. However, kee…
/r/askTRP29/03/16 05:46 PM
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I'm in the same boat. Even with all that money, buying a home in an expensive area (with 20% down) and paying it off in 15 years doesn't get you that great of a home. But it's a stepping stone once you rent it out. Grow your empire by investing in appreciating assets. Don't buy a car that costs 60K$
/r/askTRP21/03/16 05:31 PM
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But regardless, it was either going to be me or someone else. So I agree with you.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 06:31 PM
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Don't you think there's a contradiction here? If a girl immediately jumps on you, she has probably done so before. What if she's never done so before? There's been several girls that were extremely innocent, but during the first date they jumped on me. One of them was a virgin, which I actually feel bad about in retrospect. A women who is pursuing a long-term strategy should make every guy wait a little while. I will agree with you on a technicality. They "should" play hard to get, but even stro…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 12:15 AM
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First, thanks for your insightful comment. I had a similar experience as you when I was younger, started off small, forcing myself to do things I wouldn't let any of my own children ever do (full-time double major + full-time work), then when I graduated started working 60 hours a week. I was able to buy a small, extremely expensive house at the age of 25, even though it cost me triple of what my parents paid for their first house and yet my house is smaller. To think that most kids'll be hoveri…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 11:05 PM
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The worst part of this whole story is that a lot of girls won't even look at my two friends because they are 'working class.' Based on distribution of household income, your friends are in the top 70%, and they'll likely earn more as time goes on. Unfortunate for the women, women are depreciating assets. Based your friend's income alone, they should be swimming in women in just a handful of years.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 02:10 AM
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I'm really sorry to hear that. It sounds like you're really close to the acceptance phase, where you can really start growing after that. If you're mom isn't keeping you too busy with chores, then try to pick up a programming language and go from there. I recommend following the tutorials on W3Schools. You can learn anything from app development to managing a website to managing a backend database server. And save all your work so you have something to show a future employer.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 01:52 AM
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Why is it so difficult to accept the cards we were dealt? I've been through tough times but I came out on top. Have you ever experienced the pain of skipping meals all day because you had full-time work and a double-major, riding a bike back and forth (100 miles a week) only to come home at 8pm and eat a hot pocket before doing it all again the next day? (hint: I have) One of our beta mods might ban you someday. Please don't go there.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 01:16 AM
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I know it sounds snobby when we're getting money from the State for studying Doesn't sound snobby at all. I'm amazed someone can live off that. Hang out with people you are intellectually compatible with, just choose to skip the drinks. People respect someone that is sober and watching what they put in their body.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 12:23 AM
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What are you doing to change that? You don't blame the older generation who had it so easy?
/r/askTRP07/03/16 11:57 PM
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Finally a reasonable response. Don't assume this subreddit encompasses TRP as a whole. I've seen the quality get worse here, but now TRPer's are claiming themselves as victims. For example, one cited: Productivity vs Pay from the 1950's to present doesn't scale together. No shit. Neither does the cost vs performance of computers from X years ago to present. It's like the gender pay gap myth. Except now we call it the "generational pay gap". How do I get into the sub where all the successful guys…
/r/askTRP07/03/16 11:42 PM
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Is it really that easy to learn and earn? It's not easy, but some people will have an easier time than others. Also, like a beautiful piece of art, it takes time. It's easier to earn when you have a portfolio of sample projects, which you should have if you are trying to learn how to program. I keep hearing that it's time to get away from coding because it's being saturated and changes so much? There are some fields that are better than others, but as time goes on you work your way up the ladder…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 11:24 PM
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The article was titled: Revealed: the 30-year economic betrayal dragging down Generation Y’s income Exclusive new data shows how debt, unemployment and property prices have combined to stop millennials taking their share of western wealth Blaming everyone else for their problems. Fits perfectly in worldnews.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 11:20 PM
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Exactly. It's like the media is giving matches to children surrounded by dry Christmas trees and told them Santa isn't real. Whether or not one generation is better off than the next doesn't change the situation we are in now. If society found out the generation after millennials was even worse off, do you think the millennials would give out a lending hand? Hell no, because they are a bunch of selfish hypocrites. Everything is everyone else's fault. The reason I made this post was because I did…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 11:00 PM
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There's many paths to success, and most require stepping stones. I don't want to sound like an old man, as I'm only an older millenial, but kids have to put in their time before they can make the big bucks. Often old people get paid more for doing less, but if they do that are your company, then just leave rather than complain about it. Actions speak louder than words. If you want to make big bucks, then choose a path that will get you there rather than following the path given to you. I remembe…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 10:56 PM
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If you mean "paying attention in school" and "studying hard", sure. Honestly, during my college days I paid attention in every class because I was working nearly full-time, while the other kids were sleeping or online. I literally had no time to study, so my model was I would only study in classes I did poorly in. Turns out by not studying at all I was able to get the top scores in the class. I realize I'm gifted, and I'm extremely thankful for that. The point is that pounding into children's he…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 09:16 PM
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I am well aware. But what if we spent our time improving ourselves rather than make excuses? I'll be honest, the only way to make more money is if someone else is making less money. Which end do you want to be on?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 09:09 PM
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I agree that a lot of them are going to into bad degrees. However, I have try to stay grounded in what I know. I have a handful of friends who were open to reality. Although they got their degrees in engineer, they moved to significantly less populated areas where housing is cheaper and jobs are abundant. They have no problem affording a home, a nice car, and a family. It's the people who live in San Francisco, San Jose, and similar areas that want to make a 'living wage' and blame society for h…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 08:13 PM
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Don't believe the startup hype. I couldn't agree with you more. I wish you spent the time expanding on reasonable startups, but it would likely not give someone the motivation to start a successful company. Play it safe If I can expand on taking risks, it's that you play it safe by taking a calculated and educated risk. Hypothetical scenario 1: Startup A wants to hire you while paying you peanuts for your hard work. Should you take their job in exchange for the possibility that someone acquires …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 05:19 AM
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She goes to her home country for a week, comes back, tells me that she has broken up. ... She tells me that she doesn't want to commit or do anything with me for some time as she is recovering. Sounds to me like she hooked up with her ex. I find it funny that you are pursuing an LTR with a girl that became interested in you while she was currently in an LTR. You don't think she'll do the same thing to you? Please read the sidebar material at TRP.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 08:03 PM
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In the workplace, for sure. You get more respect the older you look and act. Around women it's more of a grey line depending on their preferences. The hamster can justify someone being much older just by them "looking" younger. Similarly, they can justify a baby faced rich guy because hey he's rich.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 10:34 PM
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Naturally these last 10 years have been shit on my dad. But serves him right for cheating, or whatever I guess. Careful what you say. We can be fairly certain the woman in this relationship was not meeting her man's needs. A BP man doesn't cheat on a woman unless he's at his absolute lowest point like a starved dog. Now you tell me. Is it wrong for a hungry man to steal a loaf a bread? Is it wrong for a man to seek happiness? Answer: That's the wrong question! It's the system that's fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 09:45 PM
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should I move on? Yes, move on. Where is your abundance mentality? If she's the only woman you're able to pull, then I suppose your only option is to forget her past until she repeats it.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 12:22 AM
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I would also like to mention: |Hillary Clinton|Bernie Sanders :--|:--|:-- Superdelegates|449|19 Source So regardless of the states she wins during the primaries, she starts out with these numbers. It's also worth mentioning that for some odd reason only her delegates count ROUNDS UP. She won 51% to Bernie's 49%, that's 23 delegates to Bernie's 21. She lost with a 20% vote? Let's give her 30% of the delegates for that state.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 09:44 PM
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Been following TRP since the beginning. I also have a brother who has been in a gay relationship for a while. So let me answer these questions as thoroughly as possible. Does [TRP] apply to homosexual relationships? Short answer: Yes. Does embracing masculinity apply when dealing with homosexuals? Sometimes the answers are simple and the questions are difficult. Gay men or women that want to lead the relationship will generally be more masculine. Lesbians Earn Significantly More Than Straight Wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/16 07:17 PM
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Story 1: While I was working at certain company, an old fat Jabba-the-Hutt looking woman became obsessed with me just because I would actually say hi to her and smile. Turns out this lady and her entire life was screwed up. She had twins, a boy and a girl. But they BOTH turned out gay... and unattractive - fat daughter, twig beta-looking son. Also, when that lady told me she was desperate to hook up with me, I threw up and immediately quit after reporting to her to HR. I think PC parenting is a …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/16 01:20 AM
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Understood. Thanks for the comments.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 05:50 AM
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OP likes Girl. Girl keeps telling OP to hook up with many girls. OP Fails shit-test "I can, but I just don't feel like it." Why don't you respond with "OK! Let's start with you." If Yes -> Start with her. (As a start, then move on to other girls) If No -> Hard next. She's not a crazy GF, so no need to soft-next. On a side note, I used to be a happily single guy. I would try to match up girls with my friends, but because I showed no interest or clingy-ness with those women, they were naturally at…
/r/askTRP16/02/16 11:43 PM
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Would he still be a dick if he loved her more than her current abusive boyfriend? The answer is: Don't think about it. The girl got exactly what she wanted.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 10:22 PM
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I can't even comprehend how difficult that is. I had a friend who lost his dad his first year in college. I had an ex who never met her father because her mother hooked up with so many different guys. Throughout college they kept going downhill with no one to call them out for it. Everyone sympathizes with them for having lost their father, but that just enabled their victim mindset. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but the only way for there to be a small possibility to overcome it is by accepting t…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 09:30 PM
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Precisely. I'm married now, but I grew up with an RP father. Blue pillers kept stating how difficult it was to understand women. I kept saying how they are pretty predictable.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 06:32 PM
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That's my feeling about every top post in TRP. Just cementing the facts that we already know.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 06:21 PM
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Make her go a month without any release, then see if she still has that problem. But like the top comment says, stop caring so much if she has one.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 07:35 PM
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tagged as 'Trigger Warning' The Trigger is that you want help (validate their status as victim)
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 11:27 PM
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I hate fucking kids too. Until you have one. Trust no woman. TRP explains AWALT. You can obviously read a girls body language. Definitely don't trust a woman's word. But you can trust their nature. You can trust them to act exactly how you enable them to act. Nothing to be bitter or angry about. We actually had a lot in common and she never betrayed me to the best of my knowledge.. Human's strive for companionship. Life is so uncertain that people often find themselves behind a leader (you), eve…
/r/askTRP09/02/16 12:52 AM
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Not a prank, but also emotional. There's a scam going around right now where people call a random number and say they kidnapped someone's brother and will blow their head off (with a gun) unless they get 2000$ wired to them. My first is reaction is... only 2 grand? Nice prank call, goodbye. But I imagine that most people who don't make a lot will consider it a real ransom.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 11:02 PM
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The hamsters know no logic. The same thing happened to me. If people knew why they thought someone was gay, like because they: have nice things like being clean take good care of your body have excellent social skills Then I think a lot more people would prefer to be labelled gay. You're the first or the last. Do a quick search on trp and asktrp. How does this effect my smv with women? Wrong question. This gay label doesn't define you. You define you. I was labelled gay just like you, but I'm th…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 12:47 AM
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What do you think the success rate is with MRP (and are the failures because the guy doesn't have the discipline to implement it or because the wife doesn't respond even after the guy has cleaned up his act, become ripped, passes shit tests, etc.)? This is the wrong question. are the failures because the guy doesn't have the discipline ... because the wife doesn't respond ... The failures are the result of the guy. Take responsibility for what you have done. It takes 2 people to have a fight, ri…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 09:02 PM
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First, I respect all religions, but I know a handful of female Buddhists (surprisingly no guys), and they all follow AWALT. Talking about how it's the best thing when they have poor social skills and subtle mental problems (anxiety, paranoia, 'I am always the victim'). So although I do believe the morals behind Buddhism are valuable, at least the women I have met should be avoided. What stops me from 'swallowing' the pill completely is the maybe darker and more cynical things about TRP such as: …
/r/askTRP15/01/16 07:55 PM
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I came here to say this. Your current frame to get over her should be feeling sorry for each future man she will be with. I've been in a similar situation, except the gold digger left me for a poor loser friend that just spent his money like an idiot. It hurts at first, but soon you will look back and be extremely thankful. You will start wishing that relationship had ended sooner, if you haven't started thinking that already.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 07:02 PM
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I would respond to her slower than she responded to me. She ignored you for a week? Ignore her for over a week, and ask "Who is this?" Ideally your life should be too busy to seriously care about online dating and next every girl that doesn't show immediate interest. Because online dating is supposed to supplement your dating life, not be 100% of it.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 07:30 PM
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This is the best answer. Thanks for addressing each point. And merry Christmas! The newcomers could all learn a valuable lesson from this.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 05:36 PM
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I'll restate what /u/rasalom72 said: She's not yours. Also, it's funny that OP mentions: considering that my girlfriend is quite cute this is probably a strong case of one-i-tis on her friend's part I'm not saying OP has oneitis, but he's getting there if he's worried about losing her. Women should be a pleasant addition to your life, not someone who fills a void. as a result I'm in a relationship where I feel I hold the power Do you hold the power or do you think you hold the power? I'm sure yo…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 10:22 PM
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The initial talks of moving to a centralized location were based upon the worry of being censored, etc...and there have been some half assed measures, but nothing of true note. Are you being serious? http://puerarchy.com/ Many months ago they offered everyone the chance to reserve their username and sign up for a mailing list to be notified if/when TRP gets censored on Reddit. They also archived all of the top posts (if not all of the posts). There is also an active TRP community on voat.co
/r/askTRP19/12/15 12:52 AM
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If knowing they got your message is that important, just call them. Texting is meant for logistics, like when and where to meet, not: 8AM: "Hi, I've been thinking about you. How are you?" 1PM: "Did you get my last message?" 10PM: "Hello?"
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 09:50 PM
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I could now hunt so much better than I could back in the BluePill days. You are like an adult that didn't have a childhood. The only way to get over this hurdle is to experience the equivalent of a real childhood, otherwise your subconscious will keep nagging you. I never realized how lucky I was when I kept cycling through women until I saw my friend married the first girl he dated (for the girl, he was the first guy she dated). Several years down the road and they both have an open relationshi…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/15 10:57 PM
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Do whatever feels natural. Like just say aww... When my wife and I started dating neither of us said it on purpose until after a year of dating and we got married. I swear she said it in her sleep first but she swears I said it in my sleep first. It's something we only say when we mean it rather than just saying it at the end of a phone conversation. Otherwise we never bring it up. Compare this to a girl I dated for a week before she said it and I broke up with her. Honestly if you're not gettin…
/r/askTRP10/12/15 07:00 AM
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I have lots of experience with this. Women who have a weak or no father are not LTR material. You can go on dates and hook up but don't make the mistake of making them your girlfriend.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 11:15 PM
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Older with lots of experience. Forget about the girlfriend or no girlfriend issue. You should be focusing on your career, doing your best to get that engineering degree in college while also enjoying the social fun times in college. If your girlfriend adds to your happiness, rather than being the one who controls whether you are happy or not, then you're in a good position. If she takes away from your studies, career, or networking events, then she has to go. Regardless, you both need to realize…
/r/askTRP05/11/15 07:43 AM
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Not everyone can handle the pressure of being in charge. It makes life easier having another guy to go down on your girl so you don't have to. Not everyone enjoys being the alpha male. It's part of the bargaining phase where you try to figure out if you can bargain for being partially alpha. You can't. Go alpha or go watch your girl get it on with someone else.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 09:03 PM
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You're right, it's not a problem. I am just letting the mods know that a summary from a veteran can not only educate OP on which details are important and which are not, but also make it a quicker read for other veterans who might be turned off by a long post. It might be something worth recommending since there is not a big overlap between the people who read the posts and the people who respond.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 05:19 PM
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Oh, then I'm sorry for the misunderstanding. When it comes to divorce, asians have a much lower divorce rate. I understand where you're coming from now. If you go bankrupt, the wife is probably going to leave you and it's something that can't be avoided. That's a really tough question. There might be insurance for alimony and/or child support, but that's probably really expensive. The only route I see is if you marry a rich woman, then she would have to support you haha.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 10:44 PM
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Stop setting impossible goals for yourself. Turn your life around today. Go to bed at a reasonable hour that allows you to feel well rested by 8am. You need 12 hours of sleep? Go to bed at 8pm. I can almost guarantee you won't be able to sleep past 8am.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 10:23 PM
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It's worth noting when it comes to empathy that betas love to second guess themselves. Males have a stronger sense of empathy than females (i.e. we understand what they are feeling). It doesn't mean we know what to do with those feelings, but clearly with a little bit of confidence you could diffuse any tension.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 10:19 PM
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You should check out /r/marriedredpill. What should I do if I ever part with my SO and want to take care of the kids but without having the burden of taking care of mother? Adopt a kid and don't get married. Live a happy life, just you and the kid... until you get sick of their BS too. If you can't manage the "burden" of your wife (your child's mother), then what makes you think you won't consider children a burden and abandon them financially? It's one thing to have kids when you're not married…
/r/askTRP15/10/15 09:39 PM
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Same. OP should be trying to figure out if the girl is good enough for him. It also helps if you DON'T use Tinder and actually go out into the real world with your pick up game.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 06:40 PM
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The fact that the numbers are so small no one has seen it (I haven't heard of anyone besides myself) - it shows how the landscape is changing. I am in the middle of two generations. I remember when I was younger, dating younger women and now those women are older but their mindsets around privilege and entitlement were drastically different than children a few years younger than them. What I'm basically saying is any women born after '85 are almost guaranteed to feel entitled to everything. Befo…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 12:48 AM
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That's why you go do something you want to do. Doesn't matter whether she shows up or not.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 06:51 AM
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I am about to call the 'other' man and threaten his life You need to internalize TRP. Be thankful this didn't happen after you got married and had kids, because even though she cheated she would still be taking half your assets and half your income for the next 10 years at least.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 10:44 PM
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So if I could ask: Why does she like you? Why do you like her? I also found the ultimate hobby (and dread tool): Latin Dancing. Ultimate hobby? Probably not. It sounds like you still put women on a pedestal. I sincerely hope you are doing your hobby because you like it and not because you get validation from other women. If a girl had to pick between a latin dancer and motorcycle rider, I wonder which she would pick. I personally ride because it's MGTOW and forces any passenger (wives) to learn …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/15 12:06 AM
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What are things that you had to (or currently) remind yourself of that keeps you sharp? After marriage, I had to remind myself that it's difficult for my wife to have my abundance mentality. Making 6x more than her, she is very frugal compared to me with my 2 motorcycles and luxury car all bought in cash. The solution was to somewhat split what we make, obviously not 50/50, but I give her a strict budget (500$ per month) to spend on herself for whatever she wants. She never goes over, but it's i…
/r/askTRP21/08/15 06:10 PM
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How? I met my wife at a snowboarding trip with a large group of friends. She was a friend of a ugly female friend (so don't burn your ugly-female-friend bridges). TRP taught me to either hook up or friendzone the women to gain access to more women. She was cute but I had a plate already. So we actually got to know each other and we not only shared a lot of the same interests, but our actual thought process was similar. So I figured out she was able to make decisions on my behalf and they always …
/r/askTRP21/08/15 05:52 PM
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Discovered TRP when it started 3 years ago. 27 now. Was raised to be mostly alpha. TRP doubled my quality of life that was already good. Salary doubled. I work when I want. Partner count doubled. Bought a house in an expensive area, got married, have a son. The woman i married was redpill too, which would have intimidated me before. Still get bjs. Do you have more specific questions?
/r/askTRP20/08/15 10:42 PM
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Just like in every LTR, there are times where either side regrets it. Either because lack of freedom or temporary contempt for the other person. But when there are significantly more good times than bad times, you have a good marriage. And with TRP those few bad times don't last long enough to break your frame.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 05:49 PM
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I never had any problem with this. I thought my wife was hot when she was pregnant. It's normal for a guy to freak out a little when he feels the baby move in the middle of sex but keep in mind you only feel a fraction of the movement your wife does and she doesn't care. Good luck!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/15 05:38 PM
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You feel bad because it's who you are. You take responsibility for things. On a similar note, one girl I was dating found a bra strap in my room and she freaked out for an entire week until she found out it was her friends which accidentally fell off. She ended up cheating and the point is: people don't remember what happened, they remember how you made them feel.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 05:35 PM
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Correction: $1,600 per institution plus $350 per person Source This full-day, interactive, train-the-trainer workshop There's no way it's $58,500 for 90 minutes worth of work. By the new calculations with a class of 30, that's $12,100. And I still don't think that cost is justified, but it lasts all day, includes breakfast, lunch, and snacks, AND it's training the trainer, not students. So that's $12,100 per institution, which is peanuts for them. Things would be very different if it cost $58K f…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 07:02 PM
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I didn't know that. I've made a few posts in TRP (since deleted) about Christianity and how it's more about making women feel better and less about God. They got decent traction (100+ upvotes/50+ downvotes), and the occasional hateful PM. I was surprised at how accepting they were. TRP has helped me step back and take a look at the bigger picture when it comes to Christianity as well as help me spot the false prophets who preach from "experience" rather than from words in the Bible.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 09:58 PM
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Exactly. And the only person who would write this type of twisted article is a white knight thinking it is their time to shine.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 09:49 PM
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Most of these can be flipped towards beta of alpha characteristics. In my opinion some of these are alpha traits, which is a lie that they are traits held by the average (overweight) nerd. The article was written in such vague detail that women will fill in the blanks with their ideal man that doesn't exist: Someone who is ripped, tall, makes a lot of money, AND willing to commit. Nerdy = passionate. Show me an alpha that doesn't have passion, or has no hobbies, or has no love for his lifestyle.…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 09:38 PM
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I recommend honesty in the sense of the bigger picture. "I've been with a lot of women, but each time I try to find love, it didn't work out with them."
/r/askTRP11/08/15 09:17 PM
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The problem is that this isn't an option for the average person (non-millionaire) because it's so expensive. For the average joe who's ex-wife takes half his money for 10 years, there's no way he could afford insurance to cover that amount (60K income / 2 * 10 years = 300K -> almost $4000 per month in insurance costs). If the millionaire wanted to be cheap though, he could have waited after the first year before he bought insurance, because it's easier to annul a marriage. But once that first ch…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 11:47 PM
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It is sold in “units of protection.” Each unit costs $15.99 per month and provides $1,250 in coverage. So, if you bought 10 units, your initial coverage would be $12,500 and you’d be paying $15.99 per month for each of those units. In addition, every year, the company adds $250 in coverage for each unit. Source $250k on this insurance. What? The cost is 15.99 per month for $1,250 coverage. If you want to cover your million dollars, then it's $12,792 per month. Each year they add 250$ in coverage…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 11:29 PM
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They enjoy the validation from white knights and other feminists. People there refuse to think for themselves, so if OP labels themselves a victim regardless of the facts they list, the community will label them a victim as well and offer their support. Example: Title: I was raped Body: I like the guy and I don't want anything bad to him. Sometimes I think it was just a mistake because last night I wanted it, but then this morning I regretted it. Here's the facts though: I didn't explicitly say …
/r/askTRP10/08/15 06:02 PM
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as someone who should have done this last week - i'll keep this in mind from here on out. that being said, a lot of companies have online applications in which its mandatory to list your former pay history That's a common problem, but you should still Never, Ever Disclose Your Salary to an Employer This is a classic shit test that you can pass by taking a path not explicitly provided to you. Apply over the phone or through emailing the recruiter of the company. An individual’s salary is consider…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 11:34 PM
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I have a meeting on the 14th of this month with managers about salary. If they aren't paying you what you're worth now, it is extremely likely they never will. Expect to get the old 'run-around' with delays in salary increases or bonuses because they are actually looking for someone to replace you.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 08:38 PM
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I searched for a new job and found one paying nearly double my current salary Congrats. I did the same thing. Found a job that doubled my salary, but before I received the job offer the hiring company kept trying to get me to tell them how much I made at my last job. I wouldn't tell the new company what I was previously making so they actually had to pay me what I was worth.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 08:36 PM
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It's not spinning plates if it's only one. That's just a FWB. Married women are easy. You don't have to be the hottest guy, just hotter than her husband who sits at home farting in his underwear. Chad would hook up with married women, but he wouldn't do it knowingly. His abundance mentality is so high that he would never allow being the "other man". That's why most posts involving Chad conclude with the girl hooking up or getting pregnant by Chad and then settling down with Billy Beta. At no poi…
/r/askTRP05/08/15 07:12 PM
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OP is lucky to get a direct response from /u/Archwinger. Another life lesson for OP: Effective Communication. Write actual sentences and paragraphs with proper formatting and proper thought put into it, not a blob of text. Or better yet, seek out the answer yourself rather than asking for help. Regardless, we are here for you OP.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 07:01 PM
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I went home for about a week to visit my parents and go on a small vacation. Hey kid, how much of your own money did you spend during these events? If you're so alpha, why don't you host them at your own house and kick them out whenever you feel like it. And staying in your shared bedroom at the dorms doesn't count. Your actions don't reflect who you are. And even worse, who you think you are doesn't reflect who you really are. Have your parents and siblings shown you a lot of disrespect? Why ar…
/r/askTRP03/08/15 10:33 PM
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Betas are thirsty. If he picked her up at an 18+ club, things could have turned out very differently. An absolute risk. When I was younger, I wouldn't even talk to people that were comfortable hanging out with jail bait. So yeah, it was stupid of him.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 08:58 PM
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The only way I can tell the difference in age is their demeanor, style, and/or after I talk to them for a bit. But what about the guys who are socially inept? They will keep getting screwed because 'innocent' girls will lie about their age just like society has lied to them about what women want. See /u/neptronix's comment below: The average age for sexual maturity of girls is now 9.7 years old. http://www.livescience.com/40910-girls-reaching-puberty-earlier.html Boys do not mature this quickly,…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 06:19 PM
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Just made a quick edit to the post because I came across new info. Zach plead guilty but only because we were told he would be a candidate for Holmes Youthful Trainee Act status. The HYTA allows first-time offenders older than 17 but not yet 21 to avoid harsher penalties like the state-mandated 25-year listing on the sex offender registry.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 06:08 PM
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Not that I'd ever use the stuff myself. Most TRP veterans are all in the same boat here. Probably because it decreases endurance, and people use it to reward themselves for doing nothing. Unless you are a beast like Michael Phelps, who admitted to regular marijuana use.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 06:02 PM
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I remember reading about a sex offender man who was sent to prison for 6 months because he failed to "check-in" with the police for a few months. This was for a similar situation as the original article, but this guy was already married with kids. I believe it's the same person that /u/SexistFlyingPig is talking about below. Here's another article about a 10-year-old being labelled as a sex offender for rubbing underwear with an 8-year-old girl. Completely stupid use of the legal system. And com…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 05:56 PM
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Wow. I am in shock. Thanks for providing the facts. I just remembered something disturbing. Being the cool guy, kids try to impress me and this 10 year old boy a few years ago that told me he enjoyed fapping but nothing came out. I have my own son and I hope he is able to grow up a normal life...
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 05:47 PM
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Just made a quick edit to the post because I came across new info. Zach plead guilty but only because we were told he would be a candidate for Holmes Youthful Trainee Act status. The HYTA allows first-time offenders older than 17 but not yet 21 to avoid harsher penalties like the state-mandated 25-year listing on the sex offender registry.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 05:42 PM
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Can a judge even hand out those punishments? Yes and no. The judge can hand out the default sex offender punishment or nothing at all. It's the balance of powers (executive, legislative, and judicial) failing. If you broke the law, even if you were tricked into it, you still get punished the same because there isn't a grey area for punishment at least these cases.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 05:40 PM
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but at the end of the day I think people who do it are just dissatisfied with their lives and are looking to fit in or escape that. Like everything in life, that thing should be an addition to your life, not a void that needs filling.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 05:35 PM
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The only time marijuana hurts somebody is when police are involved.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 01:09 AM
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That is basically requiring every dumb guy to have a high sense of empathy to detect when a girl is "acting" below the legal age. We want to arrest the guys that seek out children. We don't want to arrest the guys that check their facts, even if they are betas. Assuming alphas have the smarts to detect something as subtle as age differences based on looks/behaviors, alphas wouldn't get caught hooking up with children. I remember meeting this attractive mature (big boobs) girl when I was 18. It w…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 01:08 AM
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I dated a girl that did something like this. One day I randomly decided to change the password on my facebook account. The next day she asks me why I changed my password. How did she know? It's pretty obvious. She was logging into my account. I asked her for her password, which she gives to me no problem, but I couldn't care less. It's not always cheating, although it is highly likely. In my case this girl had major trust issues stemming from her dad beating her. She was smoking hot and we did i…
/r/askTRP29/07/15 06:52 PM
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is it possible for them to work out or should i try and warn my buddy? Is your buddy asking you for advice? If he's not, then don't give him advice. Anyone who would would LTR that kind of girl has bigger problems. All of the blue flags you mentioned reflect this. He has low SMV, so why should he be with someone with high SMV? It sounds to me like they are evenly matched. It also sounds like you need to stop caring about how other people live their lives and focus on yours. A dark traid mindset …
/r/askTRP28/07/15 10:09 PM
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I used to regularly use this tactic (lying about being sooo small) to make women less interested, and it backfired every time. I had a friend who was being honest about how small theirs was, and the girl said she didn't care. Obviously there's a difference if the guy has a rare case of a micropenis. There was an AMA for the micropenis guy and he got more action than most SJW redditors. Would you care if a supermodel felt loose? Would you not do the deed because she wasn't tight?
/r/askTRP17/07/15 07:26 PM
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Yes. What is it that you want out of this exchange?
/r/askTRP15/07/15 11:37 PM
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Biologically, it is instilling redpill in your future children. For me though, the end game for me is retiring early to get out of the rat-race of working. Travelling the world and enjoying life with the ones you love.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 10:56 PM
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She did something horrible, no doubt there. AWALT. I'm going to assume you posted this in /r/marriedredpill and give you the best advice I can. Your "status" is separated. Don't jump to divorce yet, because you should never make an emotional decision. Don't deny yourself the separation. Be angry. Schedule a meetup with guys on TRP. (in the OC? check out /r/orangecountyseddit. There's a similar and even larger group for SF). Verbalize in actual spoken words your anger to people who understand and…
/r/askTRP13/07/15 11:45 PM
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How did you like X? ... I also realise the feelings you have are not real, and that it is only temporary because your brain sort of 'loans' the serotonin from the future. Kind of similar. I said and did things like my emotional self on steroids. I only did it once and that was enough for me. It did lead a three-way (and not the devil's kind). The first time and only time was at a friend's house party where everyone was doing it. I actually said no when I sober, but said yes in a drunken state. I…
/r/askTRP10/07/15 11:19 PM
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Right now she thinks she doesn't care about you because you ignored her. Keep ignoring her and there's the possibility she will try to chase you again.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 09:02 PM
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So truck drivers are going to be SJW's who are jelly about the automated trucks? Ideally every person would be happy about their jobs being automated (Think: once everyone's job is automated no one needs to work). But there was a truck driver protest recently at the port of long beach and port of los angeles because they want to extend their contracts another 10 years. So yeah, SJWs are jelly towards progress, but really it's just a shitty situation to be in.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 10:27 PM
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It's about to get a lot worse in 10 years when America's number one job of Truck Driver gets completely automated and they are all out of work. Some truck drivers make decent money. In Canada hundreds of construction truck drivers making 200k are just sitting observing the automated trucks now. The government will eventually step in with basic income but it's going to be a painful process until we get there. Check out r/basicincome
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 05:44 PM
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My mistake. My friend just told me she makes 40K as a nurse. It almost ticks me off, but then I remember the dark traid and someone has to make less so someone else can make more (e.g. the boss).
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 05:12 PM
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Yes and Yes. That's not how they think about it though. SJWs think we have an unfair advantage, probably because we do. We gave ourselves that unfair advantage by socializing (breaking the approach anxiety), exercising (becoming attractive), and not giving a fuck (relaxed mind with political correctness turned off)
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 05:02 PM
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following their ideology to its logical conclusion will lead to the destruction of western culture and power. I read a comment earlier about how being overweight like having a drinking problem or doing drugs. When it becomes severe enough, someone needs to tell that person to fix their life. No one bats an eye when someone with a drinking problem is told to stop, but if someone with an eating problem (i.e. overweight) is told to stop then all SJWs unite. "It's their life" (they can fuck it up as…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 11:15 PM
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Good job missing the bigger picture. Sorry you didn't like the wording. Teachers don't have a relaxed job dealing with asshole kids, but that doesn't seem to bother you. Regardless, they are not paid well.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 11:06 PM
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The words SJW and Logic do not go hand in hand, at least in the male sense of the word. As a developer, Logic in my field means simply following a set of rules. When you send the "thin woman in a bikini" through a land whale's logic, the word "thin privilege" pops out. However, in general you are correct: Logic means valid reasoning of which SJWs are lacking. They could not give you a valid reason. Their reasons are driven by emotion.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 08:44 PM
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Were you picked by your girlfriend? (very likely) If not, did you pick her with 'LTR material' in mind (unlikely)?
/r/askTRP08/07/15 05:47 PM
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You are in high school. This is normal. Pursue a higher education. While you're visiting home after working on a degree in Engineering, you'll stop by the grocery store and laugh at those losers that made of you who are now bagging your groceries. Postpone gratification. Hold your frame.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 05:46 PM
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One of my good friends He is a good friend. You are being the bad friend by not encouraging him to do whatever he wants to do. Lose the scarcity mentality.
/r/askTRP06/07/15 05:38 PM
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There's a difference between unknowingly and knowingly sleeping with a woman in a relationship. It's normal to feel guilty because you are too good to be the other man when you could be spinning 4 plates that are only dating you. You're being a total dick when TRP is about being an asshole.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 07:43 PM
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Casual hookups shows how desirable a man or woman is... in very different ways. A low partner count for women is good. A high partner count for men is good. For more details, check out this deep dive post on Relationship Market Value: How Tinder facilitates SMV/RMV price discovery, or Why "No Hookups" is the funniest, most common phrase on Tinder and Welcome to Party World
/r/askTRP29/06/15 06:12 PM
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I am reading the book of pook (free PUA ebook) TRP is not PUA. Did you try reading the other books in the side bar? (no more mr nice guy, models, SGM) Despite being on and off in the PUA community for five years, I still have pretty bad AA TRP is a lifestyle. It's not something you turn on and off. I think your problem is that you lack discipline. People starting out in our group often are better than me after only a few weeks. I think is related to the fact that I do not feel like a sexual bein…
/r/askTRP29/06/15 05:57 PM
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Escalated AND stop caring about seeing them again. Girls are screwed up because they are in love with the thought of love/LTRs/marriage/whatever. Don't be like them. The best approach to an LTR is to stay cool, calm, and collected. Your interest should always be less than the woman's. If things naturally work out in the long run (at least 3 months), like you stick to your TRP core and she doesn't have a melt down, then you can consider being exclusive.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 05:00 PM
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Going to try to answer this on mobile. How old are you now? I don't want to be doxxed. So ill say I'm under 30. and what is the income threshold to be 'the one percent' in the united states? The 98th percentile requires around 160k usd. It's on some wikipedia site like this: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Personal_income_in_the_United_States Sounds like you've done well for yourself. What parts of RP do you follow, has marriage made a difference and do you recommend it? Raised by redpill parent…
/r/askTRP28/06/15 05:14 AM
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Great translation. I would say that is spot on. I have seen something like this first hand. Was there any redpill woman giving advice? Like for example: get in shape and Improve your hamster personality. I would love to see the replies to that comment.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 06:53 PM
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Who here isn't chad?
/r/askTRP26/06/15 09:40 PM
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By you saying you will fill the void by giving your cat more attention, it's like spitting in the face of TRP. Everyone starts somewhere, but if you can be dissuaded by any man or woman into being content with a boring life, then TRP is no place for you. I am improving my life, unless you are against me becoming an engineer. What is up with this passive aggressive nonsense? Of course I'm for engineering, which is one of the few real degrees out there that leads to a successful career. Even so, i…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 06:47 PM
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The main point of my question is how betas or "provider" experience this? Do they get less enthusiastic sex? No arousal, dry pussy or "I have a headache"? Or are women still aroused with them? I wish you would have just asked this at the start. Yes, they get less enthusiastic sex. Most of the time it's duty sex, where they just lay there until their man is done with his business. It sucks the life out of the relationship and is a major turn off for most guys. Your original question makes a lot m…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 05:49 PM
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How many women have you been with? Each one has their own level of wetness. It's pretty balanced if you warm them up with foreplay rather than jumping straight in. All women are just animals waiting to be released out of their cage. I mean it all. Plus if you have any sense of empathy (ability to understand the feelings of others), then you will just know that she had a big O or multiple. On a side-note, did you read the post "Dirty Sheets" on the front page of TRP? That girlfriend got so much a…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 05:17 PM
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Here's my shortened version of the important points from OP, along with my analysis: Regarding girls I've only started dating last year. I've been way to selective about finding interesting girls and haven't been past my handful of first dates. To describe them; Pink haired anime girl who was a slacker but was an intelligent SJW. Pre-med student studying for the MCAT who has written 3 undergrad thesis. Geeky girl who studied urban design at a good university and is going for a masters. So basica…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 04:56 PM
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No. The function of wetness has too many variables. For example, birth control decreases wetness. However, the Big O is reserved for alphas. The same is true for men who are with really hot women. They aren't harder, but it does feel better.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 04:36 PM
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Stop trying to be politically correct. Look at the bigger picture: AWALT. what does our knowledge tell us has motivated that choice? AWALT. She's doing it because the man she is committed to actually has a greater importance to her (rather than her cheating and pretending her man is more important).
/r/askTRP24/06/15 06:46 PM
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A little luck and a lot of working smart got me to where I am. I studied engineering in college while working nearly full-time. I wouldn't advise anyone to work as hard as me, because the truth is if I can tell someone it's ok to be lazy, then they never stood much of a chance at working hard anyways. I'm the 1% (at least in terms of income I make more than 98% of single Americans), but I didn't get here by being lazy. I lived a very simple life EXCEPT for the things I cared about. Even now I do…
/r/askTRP24/06/15 05:23 PM
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This is the Dark Triad mindset. You can either do what it takes to win, or you can lose. Even Jesus lost his temper and trashed a temple because of corrupt priests selling tickets to heaven or forgiveness or whatever. Men can turn their cheek the other way and keep getting slapped, or they can become the one that does the slapping on other people who just keep turning their cheeks.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 11:05 PM
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Live in the moment. If you want to marry her because she will inherit a bunch of money, which is a good idea, but you should go ahead and next her. Don't place expectations on a woman to provide for you. Could you imagine the kind of life you would be living if she had all the money? You will no more say in the relationship. No more being able to go out with the boys on a trip spending "your" money, because you're a stay-at-home dad. Hook up with that girl, even try to coordinate days to hang ou…
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:24 PM
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I messaged a girl from college ... Her: Haha hey! How are you? That is when you call her. Yeah, calling is a lot more confrontational, but it's also a lot better at establishing a physical connection. If she doesn't pick up, then you go on with your day and don't respond further to any BS small-talk texts. Texting should only be for logistics like a time and place to meet.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:16 PM
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What are you looking to get out of this? Nothing really, I was just wondering. Thanks for your reply. Don't waste your time even reading their messages. Your time is valuable, and their time means (what are you looking to get out of this?) nothing.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 05:11 PM
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Not sure if you're trolling, but to give you an honest answer: Some people sleep better when they hold onto things. Ever heard of body pillows? It's an adult's stuffed animal.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 09:28 PM
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None of what I say here is absolute truth or inescapable, nor does it describe all women. This sub is trying harder and harder to be politically correct. This is a man's forum where we use man-speak. We make generalizations and overstatements, but the fact is that as men we are able to see the bigger picture.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 05:26 PM
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I'm glad you were able to get that off your chest. Most men aren't comfortable sharing their past BP experiences. You nailed all the major BP pain points, but that just means you know exactly what not to do from now on. What would my old self do? Then don't do that. Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 05:17 PM
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So you only work 1 weekend a month? If so I'm jealous. Even if your lifestyle is simple. I want to save up so I can buy a house off the grid and just enjoy nature. I knew before TRP that I needed to get out of this rat race mindset.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 05:59 PM
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Good job saving, but there seems to be a flaw in your description. If we run the math on that: Percent to Contribute: 7 Years: 10 Assume 0% salary increase Assume 401k started at 0$ 10 years ago. Assume Annual Return Rate of 7%. You are making less than 10,000$ per year?? (Side note: If you got 0% annual return, then your income must still be less than 14K per year = 7$ per hour working full-time) Source -- I saved up 40k in my retirement account in my first 3 years out of college by contributin…
/r/askTRP18/06/15 09:45 PM
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I overdreaded her to the point where she thinks I was cheating on her. That's how you know what you are doing is right. The relationship was very unstable at that point, and I was getting the sex Unstable? Maybe for her. You are getting what you want.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 09:01 PM
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I've lived with 1 male and 2 female roommates for 3 years, and I never worried about it. As for moving in with a girlfriend: dont. Unless you are planning to marry this girl, then dont move in together. Although I joined trp before I got married, I still recommend that no one gets married.
/r/askTRP26/05/15 07:28 PM
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Haven't seen this idea proposed yet. She could be a virgin, like her vagina has not seen a dick because it was in her ass. Or she could be lying like the girl in wedding crashers because she thinks guys like virgins. Either way, watch out for crazy. I hope she's not newly pregnant trying to make you her BB [you took her Virginity, you must be the father] Do you think Chad T. Would care if the girl was a virgin? Shes asking for sex so give it to her and stop pussing out like a beta. If you wanted…
/r/askTRP22/05/15 05:41 PM
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You're probably right. If OP only had 1 gf (and only had sex with 1 person) before he got into college, then he's screwed. I regretted having a long-distance relationship my freshman year because of the girls that would hang out in my room in their skimpy pajamas asking to cuddle... and telling me how if I didn't have a gf they would make out with me. OP should tell her that they could only be friends, and if they really do care about each other, then they will wait for each other. In other word…
/r/askTRP19/05/15 11:38 PM
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If she thinks you're too much of a dictator, then maybe your SMV isn't high enough. Are you the 666 (6 ft tall, 6 figures income, 6 pack abs)? Only like .01% of men are in that category, so it's likely you aren't in there, but you should try to get close to it. It's like how men are more submissive and slave-like to a pretty girl. Girls will be submissive and slave-like to a high SMV guy.
/r/askTRP19/05/15 11:24 PM
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You know why you're worried about the future? Because you lack confidence in yourself in the present. I believe that some men are born alpha, while everyone else is beta struggling for greatness. I say that because I have no way of describing how a man can recognize when a woman crosses (or will eventually cross) certain social boundaries. My current problem is that this ruleset seems unfair to her, because I'm basically demanding desire from her, which is non negotiable and cannot be "produced"…
/r/askTRP19/05/15 10:03 PM
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There was a time when you couldn't link to the WashingtonPost. After reading other comments, I'm glad I didn't follow the link to generate their ad revenue.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 11:07 PM
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Whats wrong with a girl that approaches you? The girl is seeking what she wants. Men are supposed to do the approaching because they know what to look for. The girl approaching you just sets the stage for her being in charge for the rest of the relationship, even if that's not what was intended.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 05:46 PM
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Yeah man, date lots of women. Once you figure out exactly what you want, you cut out anyone that doesn't meet your standards.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 05:38 PM
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Ouch. You're probably an attractive guy with a good job (or good future), which is why she wants you. She's probably not cheating on you (equality to all frat boys, as much as they want to pound her), but she is definitely manipulating them into orbit. But why do you want her? What does she have to offer? My guess is that she's cute, smart, and has a 'bright' future, but I guarantee when you deviate from being her BB and try to do anything she opposes, she'll expload if she hasn't already. And w…
/r/askTRP12/05/15 12:38 AM
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OP, how many girlfriends have you had? This list makes a lot more sense the more women that a man has been with, because each one can be placed on a quality scale. She approached you. (or she made the first move) You're not TRP material (or at least you weren't at first) My first handful of girlfriends were like this and it sucked (most of them cheated). I didn't meet an amazing girl until I was the only one who did approaching. She is more social than you. She is seeking validation. Sorry it's …
/r/askTRP12/05/15 12:14 AM
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TL;DR - It's about self-respect. Whether it's anyone in this world (guy or girl), it's natural to feel attachment after a while, because of the mutual respect that is established. And in some cases, women and some betas are attracted to the lack of someone not respecting them. However, being clingy is never an attractive quality. being strong enough to walk away from something you care very much about but can see that in the long run it may hurt you. Well, by the time you realize that it may hur…
/r/askTRP08/05/15 01:14 AM
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Congrats! Break those defenses down. Another thing that makes other people trust you is if you tell them first, "I'm glad I can trust you".
/r/askTRP21/03/15 12:20 AM
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I don't know that this is demographics of people on the dating website. I must have skimmed over that part of the link too quickly. So it sounds like you're right about the online dating not only applying to match.com.
/r/askTRP21/03/15 12:11 AM
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Glad I could help. The anger phase is the most well known. The other phases are more subtle. The important thing is that you don't rush your acceptance of TRP. Feel out each phase so you have solid ground to stand on if any doubts come up in the future. Good luck!
/r/askTRP21/03/15 12:10 AM
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Is it really all my fault? Yes, it's all your fault. The good news is that you are on the path that leads to acceptance. Try to recognize what stage you are in so you can make progress: Denial and Isolation Anger Bargaining Depression Acceptance Or does my wife have responsibility too? Sounds like the bargaining stage. In a perfect world, your wife would do whatever you want without you having to do anything. But this is the real world and women respond to alphas. It's your job to be an alpha, l…
/r/askTRP20/03/15 06:43 PM
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Match.com's blog shows nothing about how much the woman respects the man. Think about the demographics of those on a serious dating website, it is men and women who aren't attractive or outgoing enough to meet someone in real life, so they have to meet online. What percentage of guys doing online dating are A-types? What percentage of women doing online dating are 8's or higher? I'd say both of those %'s are pretty low. So considering a low percentage of hot women and alpha guys, it makes sense …
/r/askTRP20/03/15 06:36 PM
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Match.com's blog shows nothing about how much the woman respects the man. Think about the demographics of those on a serious dating website, it is men and women who aren't attractive or outgoing enough to meet someone in real life, so they have to meet online. What percentage of guys doing online dating are A-types? What percentage of women doing online dating are 8's or higher? I'd say both of those %'s are pretty low. So considering a low percentage of hot women and alpha guys, it makes sense …
/r/askTRP20/03/15 06:36 PM
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OP, listen to this guy. Here's a few additional comments. likely not a life partner Probably a bad life partner for some other BB down the road, but don't let this be you! Many years ago I was in a relationship like this. When you two get in a fight (and every relationship has their fights), she's going to ride the CC a couple times before you can even blink. Then she'll lie about it because it's not a big deal to her. Yeah it will be fun in the short term, but be careful...
/r/askTRP18/03/15 04:38 AM
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To add to the discussion: You can't claim a girl. Even if OP knew about the 'fiance' AND turned her down, she was just going to sleep with the next guy. Another note, the fiance probably didn't know about the actual hook up because of trickle truth. She probably tried to play the victim and say 'he just wanted some kisses'.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 04:31 AM
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Don't respond through text. Call or meet her when you get a chance
/r/askTRP18/03/15 03:17 AM
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Never respond to emotions through a text message. They make up their mind that they will pissed off at whatever text you send. Call them or meet up in person if you think they need to talk about something beyond logistics. This isn't a shit test, it's a comfort test... and she's probably on her period right now.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 01:14 AM
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I've been in this situation. In my case, the guy unscrewed my car antenna and put it in front of the house. He also turned in the side view mirrors. No damage. He didn't want the police called on him. He was just a passive aggressive d-bag. No wonder the girl didn't respect him.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 11:49 PM
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Sounds like oneitis. You aren't stuck in the friendzone, are you? Could you provide some more details? On a side note, my thought process is totally different. Am I having a good time? Yes. End of story. I am relatively sure that random girl wants to sleep with me. I'm going to keep her in the friendzone until I'm sure she doesn't have baby-rabies. (Women hate being friendzone'd more than guys)
/r/askTRP16/03/15 11:29 PM
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Not all women are [like that] Take a step back and think about the bigger picture. When we make a generalizations (i.e. politically incorrect statements), women feel like generalizations need to be proven wrong, but at the end of the day AWALT still applies.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/15 11:08 PM
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For future reference: She's not a plate if you only have one. That's a FWB. Spinning plates requires there to be more than one. You went into this with a scarcity mentality (not enough women after you?) and you are still in that scarcity mentality. Get out of it. If it goes another month, then you'll end it? Why put it off til then when it can be done today? Also, be very afraid of women with baby-rabies.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 08:02 PM
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How should I proceed? Improve your SMV. It's ok to believe women are interested in you. It's not ok for you to point out that they are. In other words, your SMV should speak for itself. Piece of advice: You don't want an LTR with a girl who you can hook up with on the first night.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 04:16 AM
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If the people on here contemplated marriage like I did, they will realize a couple things: Pre-nups do not always hold up in court Pre-nups are very costly (wouldn't it be nice if we didn't need one?) If a man has any hint of a doubt whatsoever that his marriage could fail so badly that the woman is willing to go nuclear on the marriage, then there is one word: "next". Even if you don't have a doubt with the person but instead you doubt the marriage system, then simply don't get married. You can…
/r/askTRP13/03/15 01:23 AM
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If a person can be convinced out of it, then deep down they didn't want it bad enough. I'm married and I still tell all my friends not to get married. Not to mention... I tell them to take all precautions when it comes to potentially having a kid. I met a friend's girlfriend who has baby-rabies and got pregnant by him. The father's life is ruined while she's as happy as can be. To make matters worse, she's very overweight to begin with. I could go on about how most guys today spend too much time…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 12:59 AM
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Of course it doesn't sit well with TRP. I'm married. But she often cooks, cleans, goes to the gym, and gives BJs and intimate every day on top of the other stuff she has going on in her life. We're both happy and stress free, so I've done something right. And TRP has definitely helped me get there, no doubt about it.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 06:50 PM
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Women will be sexually attracted to a particular type of guy, but that particular type of guy isn’t usually the kind of guy who’s quick to be emotionally available, quick to commit, generous with his time and resources, and eager to provide for a woman. This could potentially lead to a controversial discussion on TRP. So are you implying that a guy be all those things (emotionally available, commit, etc.) as long as it isn't too soon and still be attractive to the woman? I believe a man can be a…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 06:07 PM
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Been there. There's no way around it, because every roommate in whatever house will eventually hear you two. That woman is just a stuck up cunt who isn't getting laid as much as she wants to (even if she currently has a boyfriend). You know she doesn't like it, so tell her to move out if she doesn't want you to make your girl happy. She could find roommates who don't care, even if it wakes them up at 5am.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 05:21 PM
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he's rather chubby, minority and behaves very beta ... he does emotional mind games/manipulation to extract what he wants, is very red pill TRP is about being true to yourself. If you don't like something about yourself or your life, then you change it. If a woman is disrespectful, then you respond as a man to a disrespectful woman-child. It's not manipulation if you are a man. It is manipulation if society sees you as unattractive. Has anyone tried this strategy of 'pretending to be beta' to ho…
/r/askTRP09/03/15 05:32 PM
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What is going through her head is "he will love me always as long as I am a woman". Then OP is surprised when she dyes her hair blue. You could argue either way about if the response was serious. You can't argue about how the response was received by his girlfriend. If she was asking the question, 'do you love me?' desperately/seriously, then I would walk away and/or end the relationship. I believe in actions, not in words, so if she can't see that, then I'll find someone else who can. If she sa…
/r/askTRP06/03/15 07:17 PM
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Basically be a man, that's all a dad wants to see. You are close, but from my experience Dads appreciate it most when they keep seeing their future son-in-law around, like someone they can depend on. 1st time I met my wife's father, he grunted and walked right past me without a handshake (normally shows 0 emotion). The second time he was much friendlier.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 06:57 PM
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Maybe your SMV is really high and she is trying to win you over. I still think it's important that you lead the relationship, but there's no reason to go against the flow if it's working for you.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 12:16 AM
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I attended a StrengthsFinder Seminar where they used factual results to show that men are actually the ones with a stronger sense of empathy than women. They went on to say that women have a better idea about what to do with the feelings they perceive. Men are able to perceive better than women, but they don't know what to do with those feelings (unless you are part of TRP, then you are the ultimate weapon). There are all sorts of studies claiming women are better at feeling other people's emoti…
/r/askTRP05/03/15 11:24 PM
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I feel like I am doing something wrong and am not in control of this situation. Let's see... She stops by my work she said lets have some drinks after work she took off around 8 she asked me to come to after work drinks with her friends. she is going to surf school She said I'll pick you up after work At what point in your interactions with her have you actually led the relationship? Besides squeaking out "Let's go do something sometime", which is the worst vague unmotivated thing you can say. O…
/r/askTRP05/03/15 11:12 PM
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Grew up with an RP father. Heard my mother say every once in a blue moon "Why do I have to do this? Why can't you do this?" or something to the affect of doing certain trivial tasks. He wasn't great with words, but he had a strong frame. "That's just the way it is" with a smile on his face as he walks away to work on things that are important. A man might not cook and clean but he grants the woman the ability to cook and clean by keeping the fridge full and paying to have a roof over his familie…
/r/askTRP05/03/15 11:03 PM
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She gave away a few hints during the day: "You'll love me no matter what right?!?" I responded: "As long as you never get a sex change.". You already failed by following her frame. Don't answer her questions even remotely seriously. She's not going to love you when you lose your job and become lazy and fat, so you shouldn't even pretend like the only thing keeping you from leaving is that she has a hole. If you don't like what she is doing, end the relationship. Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 10:48 PM
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When people get married, it's just another day except now the money-maker (generally the man) is legally binded to another person. Search google: askreddit wait til marriage. There's dozens, but here's one link from September 2014. In summary, it's a complete shot in the dark, with more bad stories than good, and the con's of the bad stories far outweigh the pro's of the good ones. What guidance would you give her? Her or him? ...likely have serious pych problems and possible physical problems a…
/r/askTRP05/03/15 10:39 PM
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Wow, all sorts of screwed up things going on here. Take a step back and look at the bigger picture, dump the girl, and start focusing on yourself. blackout drunk You lack self-control. Getting drunk enough to make out some random girl. She kissed him when we were in the first month of our relationship You lack self-respect. Accepting your girlfriend kissing her ex while she was dating you. I think she did it as a revenge... Haha, obviously. Any woman that uses being intimate as a weapon is one y…
/r/askTRP05/03/15 01:53 AM
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Compile a list of relevant TRP posts (FR, TRP Theory, Blue Pill Example, etc.). The only thing that will change his mind is outside evidence You may also want to buy him The Rational Male. Good luck!
/r/askTRP04/03/15 12:52 AM
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What the hell are you doing? You aren't doing anything besides operating inside of her frame. works in my building. Don't do it. Seriously. Friendzone this woman ASAP. You can hook up with her friends, but don't hook up with someone who you see regularly at your workplace (whether she's a co-worker or a cleaning lady). She says, "okay hang up", I say, "okay bye" and we hang up. She says "Follow my lead", you say "OK". Stop that. Be a man and go your own way. If you are a leader, they will follow…
/r/askTRP04/03/15 12:42 AM
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Oh yeah. I went to a mostly asian college. I knew many women (less than 10%) that graduated and still had their V-card. The majority were not attractive, but there was a decent amount of attractive virgins (1% or less). As for your original question, if the girl was in a handful of committed relationship, then she's probably fine for an LTR. If she's ever had a short hook up, even once like a one-night-stand, then she's not LTR material. Trust me, never go for an LTR with a girl with ONS. She'll…
/r/askTRP04/03/15 12:14 AM
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I've recently taken the pill It's a way of life. It's not something you swallow and now all of a sudden you see social differences. You have to apply TRP to your life and never let your frame down. Also I won't be going straight to uni, I'm considering saving money to go travel / backpacking. So you think you took the pill, and now you are going for instant gratification? Postponing gratification is one of the key points in TRP. It's the men with the scarcity mentality like "I want to hook up to…
/r/askTRP03/03/15 11:57 PM
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Even if you weren't tech-savvy, you would have realized she found out about other women you are talking to. She will bring it up with you. Or, as women love to pretend, try to get you to bring it up by asking pointed questions. I've had this happen several times. Hold frame. As long as you know you did nothing wrong, then they can't be offended if you didn't break any rules.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 11:50 PM
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Being in an LTR at age 30 is alright. But it's important to enjoy your younger years, otherwise if you ever end up having kids, you will look lustfully after those hotter younger women. Rather than looking at them and going: Ah yes, I remember hooking up with a girl like her.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 09:29 PM
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I didn't want to get technical, but you're mostly right. Two employees in separate departments can generally date. Two employees in the same department, it depends on the company if they can date or not without being fired. Two employees where one is the boss (or boss's boss) of that employee is almost always not allowed (i.e. conflict of interest).
/r/askTRP03/03/15 06:33 PM
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This makes me nostalgic about my undergrad days. I've experienced every variation of this. (1) Date/spin before class ends, then both are happy up til and after class ends. (2) Date/spin before class ends, then ends badly and suffer up til class ends. (3) Date/spin after class ends, then it really doesn't matter. (1) is unlikely to happen, because that's just how life is. (2) is likely to happen, but you're in college. You should approach with caution and ultimately not care about how it turns o…
/r/askTRP03/03/15 01:15 AM
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Exactly. I'm not sure if OP means in general if he really believes that about all women.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 08:54 PM
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I hope you understand TRP uses 'man-talk', so even though we might say absolutes like... American women are not worth it, they're too fat, spoiled and whorish on the whole ...It doesn't mean that every last American woman is that way. There are women in America who are not fat, spoiled, and whores. Even though the majority might be corrupted, the minority is definitely greater than 1%. If your life situation has brought you to be surrounded by unattractive women (whether that's fat, spoiled, or …
/r/askTRP21/02/15 07:15 PM
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She sounds almost like a concerned mother or an untrained dog in the sense that she is trying to own your situation without regard to how you can handle it. It's a shit-test because she doesn't trust how you handled yourself. She doesn't think you did a good job. If it were your mother then she would chew the other person out for being a dick to her little boy (you). If it were an untrained dog, then he would literally chew the other guy up for being a dick, because the dog hasn't learned to tru…
/r/askTRP20/02/15 10:20 PM
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That's not clingy. At least not a stage 5 clinger. She's at the beginning of the clingy process, and you can stop it. She's trying to tie you down. She doesn't have other options (or any other activities), so all she wants is to spend time with you. You two are at the turning point where she either needs to respect you when you ask for space or you have to end it. If you did end up seriously dating and you wanted a night out with the guys or had to travel somewhere without her, she would flip. G…
/r/askTRP20/02/15 08:25 PM
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It depends on the kind of women you settled for. Did you hook up with a lot of low-value women? (in other words, were the women in that group of higher value than the ones you hooked up with?) Did you maintain a high-value attitude during the relationship? (no breaking frame?) I've had guys and girls talk about me plenty of times behind my back because I'm all over the map. I've been told those conversations end with "he can't help if the ladies are attracted to him because he's successful" and …
/r/askTRP17/02/15 08:28 PM
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New people introduce you because they are trying to be AMOG. They take control as if you cannot introduce yourself. You be the AMOG. Reintroduce yourself. "I'm X, ignore everything that guy just said. I'm actually..." Good luck!
/r/askTRP17/02/15 08:23 PM
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You should crosspost to /r/marriedredpill. Met this bitch in High School Wow. Looks like someone lost their high-value frame. This is where shit gets bad. She's researching stock photography, and her pathetic little 11-on-the-ACT-math brain (compared to my 35) You definitely haven't heard of /r/marriedredpill. You might be the commander, but she's your first captain. If you look down on her like she's retarded and illogical, then that's exactly how she's going to act. Suddenly she says I'm talki…
/r/askTRP17/02/15 08:19 PM
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Careful with your words. that's not really what I'm looking for That's definitely not what I'm looking for. Woman want a man that knows what he wants. Beating around the bush is very upsetting to them.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:25 PM
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Oh, that's right, it was a joke. Thanks for clarifying.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 08:13 PM
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Guys have been doxxed here before and it's nothing to be afraid of. I believe one was /u/redpillschool. I'll double check on a PC later and link the post. Look at what you did. You saved a girls life and were objective about stating the facts of the situation. There's plenty worse FRs to get SJWs blood boiling.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 08:48 PM
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Normally we answer for high-value men, but it seems like your roommate is treating you like a charity case. Victim scale: men < women < gays < fucking brain cancer OP could do whatever he wants. That girl is taking advantage of you. If something bad ever goes down, everyone will blame her for taking advantage of you.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 10:25 PM
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If you think the only thing holding you back is your name, then there's a lot more you need to change. I have a kick ass rare/well-known name and my friend "Anderson" is considered to have a similarly unique and interesting name. I've burned through a dozen women before he hooked up with one. You tell me what's important. If you met a really attractive, fit, considerate girl with the ugly grandma name "Gertrude" or "Helga", are you telling me that you wouldn't show her off to your friends/family…
/r/askTRP13/02/15 10:20 PM
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Lead and see who follows.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 01:55 AM
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I've had this happen to a girl I was dating. You can't change a person's will, and it only backfires if you try. However, I didn't know TRP when I was going through a similar experience. So in retrospect I would do what it took to help them find peace without having to verbally say "relax". Anxiety and depression are different symptoms yet related. Depression comes up because you are trying to fight a losing battle. Anxiety comes up because you are uneasy because of an event with an uncertain ou…
/r/askTRP12/02/15 01:53 AM
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She's not telling you the deepest thoughts in her mind. Just to give you another perspective, maybe she had a really emotional dream that is affecting her (I know I have, but mine was in a positive way). Normally someone asking for space is like saying 'let's take a break' and she wants to hook up with other guys, but that doesn't sound like the case. Also, she's a woman and it sounds like she's been denying herself (i.e. postponing gratification) for her natural desires by not seeing her family…
/r/askTRP12/02/15 12:58 AM
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I recommend joining /r/redpillwomen Good luck!
/r/askTRP11/02/15 11:04 PM
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Ah, I see. In that case wear light make up and conservative nice fresh clothing, then you're good. If you're attractive then most guys are going to try to talk to you. Good luck!
/r/askTRP11/02/15 08:50 PM
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Ah, I see. In that case wear light make up and conservative nice fresh clothing, then you're good. If you're attractive then most guys are going to try to talk to you. Good luck!
/r/askTRP11/02/15 08:50 PM
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I'm not asking you to care about what they do. I'm asking you to notice how they hold their frame. You think the majority of people on here have done that many cold approaches, even if it was to talk about something stupid?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 06:02 PM
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Correct. The same metrics as the main sub is too strong. As I said in another comment: A better proposition would be to give a warning to the creators of low-quality or zero-effort posts. If they keep it up a handful of times, then ban. Many of the low-quality questions on here are from people with 1-month old [trp-specific] accounts (let me know if you would like me to cite sources) I haven't seen that happening yet. We have to start somewhere.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 03:26 AM
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That may be extreme, but it's closer to where I would like our community to be than where it is now. A better proposition would be to give a warning to the creators of low-quality or zero-effort posts. If they keep it up a handful of times, then ban. Many of the low-quality questions on here are from people with 1-month old [trp-specific] accounts (let me know if you would like me to cite sources)
/r/askTRP11/02/15 03:24 AM
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When I see a wall of text, I end up summarizing OP's post with a TRP filter. At least that way they see that they could have cut out 90% of the text. I doubt most people that post to askTRP are going to read the posts on askTRP, which unfortunately includes this one.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 03:21 AM
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There was a recent post about a guy breaking up on a specific date and getting coffee at starbucks and on and on... Leave out those details that nobody needs to know. They are writing an autobiography just to ask the question "should I get back with my ex who cheated on me?"
/r/askTRP11/02/15 03:19 AM
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I think there's a big gap between the people who post on /r/asktrp and the people who read those posts. This post might not even reach any of them.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 12:31 AM
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Awesome. TRP can be a hard pill to swallow, but it sounds like you're on the right track.
/r/askTRP11/02/15 12:30 AM
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Any comment on how you are going to apply the input moving forward?
/r/askTRP10/02/15 11:50 PM
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OP's summary through a TRP lense (my comments in parentheses): we discovered we both had feelings for each other and things went from there. (White knight settles for whatever he can get) We broke up ... I felt extremely betrayed... So I made hurting her my absolute goal. (Never picked up on the slightest hint of AWALT) Fast forward 2 years and she messages me asking if I want to meet for coffee or something. I figured, what the hell, why not. (Scarcity mentality, no other options) -- she sent m…
/r/askTRP10/02/15 11:30 PM
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Tests are given to determine who is in control of a relationship. Women try to be serious much more often than men, which leads to drama. Men are much more easy going. RPW (red pill woman) talks about dealing with guy's shit tests, but ultimately want the man to lead the relationship. Does TRP give women shit tests? Does a king ask his kingdom who is in control? You just lead and see who follows.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 11:12 PM
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♂ This guy gets it. Lead the relationship rather than focus on the past. Keep your SMV high. And if you are alright with the idea of an LTR, don't go for the first girl that's willing to accept. Find a high SMV (RMV) girl. If something bad did end up happening, trying to prevent it will only make things worse. And at the end of the day, if she cheats, you leave. Yeah, it hurts but you do the right thing. I tell the girl I'm with now about how my ex's contact me and she does the same and we laugh…
/r/askTRP10/02/15 09:41 PM
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Best approach. If you are actually attached to those images, delete them ASAP. If you aren't emotionally attached to those pictures or miss the girl in them, then enjoy them for a short while, but don't lose sight of the next girls you want to be with.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 07:31 PM
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I've been on both sides of this (before and after I joined TRP). I realized that the best way to ensure your girl has no interested in the (white knight/BB) "ex" is to not care. The mindset about how you do not care is important though. When she mentions or you find out about the ex, just laugh it off. "He's so desperate to get back with you" "What a loser, it sounds like he has no other options" "That's pathetic". Unless she's a gold digger or slut, then you're golden. If she is a validation wh…
/r/askTRP10/02/15 07:25 PM
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I kept my composure, played team, and made him look silly and childish in subtle ways. ♂ That's one solution of many, which OP will have to choose from. The point is that you did what you wanted and didn't let the other side manipulate your actions.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 07:09 PM
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TRP is a way of life. It doesn't revolve around any one thing (i.e. women). Use it to get to where you want in life without feeling ashamed (or being shamed by others) for what you want :)
/r/askTRP10/02/15 07:05 PM
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The most confusing part of TRP is that you can logically understand women, but you cannot comprehend a woman's logic. (You can however apprehend the woman's logic, which means knowing how they think. By comprehend I mean that it doesn't flow with a man's thought process.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 07:04 PM
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I am not easily replaceable That is exactly what I thought. But as the saying goes 'you don't know what you go til it's gone', meaning your company will realize their mistake and potentially reward you if you tell them you have another (better) job offer. My real issue was dealing with the cycle of reconciliation and appeasement that has unfortunately taken place. Have you seen Office Space? The only way to 'appease' management is if you do things like sell your soul, work overtime without loggi…
/r/askTRP10/02/15 06:01 AM
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Video recording of her. Report to HR.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 02:30 AM
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She then made it clear that she would expect the father to take care of her child every other week. If you think being mentally weak (to the point that you could get a girl pregnant) is acceptable, then that's the first place you screwed up. A 28 y.o. man dating a 39 y.o. has a serious stench of scarcity mentality. No offense, but you came here for the truth. The way you talk with her and about her, she isn't a "plate". She's your girlfriend. Whether or not you told her that you are exclusive, i…
/r/askTRP10/02/15 02:28 AM
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Leave the company. Find a new job that pays more. Keep in touch with them. They will have immense respect assuming you were not easily replaceable. It sounds like you are asking your boss to praise you when you are beneath them. Those overachievers are more dedicated to their work and probably have less of a social life outside of work. The drama you are experiencing is all in your head. So stop "competing" and do what you would normally do. If you don't come out on top, who cares? You're gettin…
/r/askTRP10/02/15 02:18 AM
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It was norway then. Some northern european country that still has a less corrupted culture. Thanks for pointing that out. [I'll probably forget which country in a week or two.]
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 08:20 PM
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Not surprised. I'd like to move to Japan or Sweden but it's too late for me.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 05:58 AM
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Men, of course, react by becoming those types of men to be rewarded. Social stability takes a nosedive and, well, welcome to the death-throes of western civilization. Enjoy the decline. Where is the future headed? If the girls (sluts) become such low-value, will men that will not tolerate that begin to move to countries where the women are tolerable? Will laws be put in place to restrict men from pursuing their desires because it is sexist? Or will laws be put in place to maintain a healthy leve…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 02:08 AM
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Hmm. You gave me an interesting theory. It seems probable that when the men are the one's choosing to hire a man, they are more critical of that man (friend material?). And when a woman hires another woman, they are more critical of that woman (friend material?). For me, I've gotten all my jobs because of connections. I never went into a job interview without knowing someone at the company (either a friend or a friend of a friend).
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 02:07 AM
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I think you misunderstood. It's one thing if they ask and you rarely show emotion (that's understandable), but it's another if they desperately need it all the time (that's crazy). Saying those 3 words is fine. But I have several beta friends whose girlfriends say "Why don't you say 'I love you' more?" or "You didn't say 'I love you' 5 times today, is something wrong?" That's what I meant by "desperately needs verbal validation"
/r/askTRP05/02/15 02:03 AM
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There are definitely wrong times to say those words. But there are also right times. In my relationship (1 year now), we just don't say it. We show it by our actions. Occasionally it'll slip from either one of us when the other does something deserving of a reward. Definitely don't jump the gun on saying it though. The actions of each person will communicate their feelings. And if one person desperately needs that verbal validation, then figure out why they are so insecure.
/r/askTRP04/02/15 09:34 PM
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/u/TankVet gets it. Many of us are awesome guys here, but we have to stop "proving" ourselves to women if we ever want to be seen as the prize. You think you're in the top 10%? What is your savings/debt like? Do you own a house yet? Western girls want a BB with money, which you probably don't have too much in the grand scheme of things. Can you explain what you mean by "demonstrating" my value? Should I really be trying to "impress" people or just go after what I want? I try to limit how much I …
/r/askTRP03/02/15 01:54 AM
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Check out /u/GayLubeOil 's post on valentines day gifts. He is doing the same thing as you :] If you don't know he's the most TRP person on here. Haha Link: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2o6wgf/gaylubeoils_gift_giving_guide/
/r/askTRP30/01/15 05:37 AM
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Go to the dinner. It will be nice. Make sure YOU enjoy it too. Don't make a trend out of it like so many do though.
/r/askTRP30/01/15 05:36 AM
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I recommend making your LTRs understand: underpromise -> underdeliver. This puts strain on her ability to trust you, but if you do it right then she won't freak out when she doesn't hear from you for some time. She also won't expect you to take her out to a fancy, expensive restaurant when you say "Come to dinner with me." The end result is a happier relationship where each person is down to earth. Let BB promise great things and fail to deliver, and spend 100$ on a dinner for two at restaurant …
/r/askTRP30/01/15 02:54 AM
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It's ok to be the little spoon as long as it's not so often that it looks like you really enjoy it (or to the point that you ask for it). As long as you are getting what you want, keep doing what you're doing.
/r/askTRP29/01/15 07:38 PM
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Could we get RMV added to the Glossary of Terms and Acronyms? Defined as Relationship Market Value. A man's RMV correlates to the objective number of women potentially interested in him (e.g. Tinder matches). This is different from SMV where a woman may have many men interested in her, but SMV is subjective because they may only want to sleep with her (e.g. HYT single mothers). More details: Men with options will always resist the pressure of monogamy. Or if they do capitulate to a woman's monog…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 10:11 PM
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You have to recognize that the only way a person swallows the red pill is by choice (i.e. by their own will). Some people's brains are so hard-wired that their world would be absolutely crushed and chaos would ensue if you forced it upon them. Accept TRP and be happy with yourself. Lead by example and only offer advice when asked. You think a Dark Triad would go out of his way to "teach" betas how to improve their lives?
/r/askTRP27/01/15 10:00 PM
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FTFY - Summarized with the training of Effective Business Writing. You only need to read the last 3 sentences. Important: "Ive always been respectful to women and even the stuff I learn on TRP I do not always apply a 100% because some of their views are extreme, but never the less can be extremely helpful." "Ive tried very hard to stay away from the PUA stuff because God forbid any of that stuff worked for me, I would absolutely lose my respect for women." "And at this point Im hoping to God I f…
/r/askTRP27/01/15 09:47 PM
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You sound like the troll. Feminists and white knights are the only ones who care about being 'politically correct'. They also like to complain about the specific details rather than looking at the bigger picture and understanding the abstract message.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/15 06:40 PM
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Don't worry young one. You aren't even supposed to know about TRP at that young of an age. So take everything lightly for the next 5 years or so. Also, the "top 20%" TRP post is meant to be taken with a grain of salt. Nothing is black and white. The top 1% probably get more women than the 19% below them. It's a range and the amount of women interested in you increases exponentially the closer you are to the top. You'll be amazed where a little bit of daily effort in the right direction will take…
/r/askTRP23/01/15 02:03 AM
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Not sure if you are trolling, but if you aren't: You seriously need to come back to the real world. What she said means absolutely nothing, just a nice gesture, probably seeking validation from you. She could kiss you and it could mean nothing. Unless she is being explicit with her body language and words, you could be pretty sure she is not interested in being a "plate". With that said, whether or not she wants to hook up with you, you should not want to hook up with her. It's your ex. How many…
/r/askTRP22/01/15 10:38 PM
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I'm in a similar boat as OP. Got a job offer that would (almost) double my salary. Current company didn't care about making me happy. I told them what it would take, they "said" they would give me a "substantial" raise. Company slacked off and postponed my "substantial" 9% raise by 3 months. As soon as I found out what they considered "substantial" AND they were postponing the raise by 3 months, I left that company for a different job offer that (almost) doubled my salary.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 07:45 PM
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Thoughts on specific guidelines for what comments should be permitted, what should be deleted, who should be banned, and when? Should be permitted: Sensitivity around TRP strategies Example: Dread is probably not going to be effective in your situation. I recommend talking to her. Should be deleted/banned (when? now): Blatant disregard for TRP strategies Example: If you use dread, you are going to be signing divorce papers in the near future. All you have to do is explain your emotions and buy h…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 06:38 PM
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Can a girl be too hot to LTR? No. If you are even able to come up with that question, it means that you are not the one in charge. The more you want the relationship (i.e. the less you are willing to leave), the more power the girl has. So as long as you keep your cool, then no she is not too hot for an LTR. The moment you try to lock her into LTR, then yes she is too hot for an LTR. Stop caring so much about "titles" (like girlfriend) or having a crystal clear understanding of your relationship…
/r/askTRP22/01/15 06:19 PM
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Might be worth cross-posting to /r/marriedredpill.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 01:03 AM
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When you're young and all the other dudes are trying to 'upsell' themselves, it's easy to get caught up. I'm was in the same boat as you. Young and successful. Bought a new car and girls started treating me differently. I avoid every girl that treated me differently, because screw women that are AWALT. The few others that didn't care about the kind of car I had were the in-shape, low partner count asians. But trying to explain anything that makes you seem like a good person is try-hard. If they …
/r/askTRP22/01/15 12:50 AM
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Right now it's mainly psychological. Society is at a time where too many things are accepted. The Fat movement, Feminism, you name it. The average isn't 20 in Eastern cultures (i.e. Asia). It's Western women that are easy (i.e. America). If anytime you got the urge, you noticed every girl was desperate to get with you, then I'm sure you would have a much higher partner count too.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 11:51 PM
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Hopefully she will dump him before they get married. It's all about the Bux.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 11:46 PM
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I hope you're able to fix your marriage, I really do. MRP isn't about being as harsh as TRP (i.e. walking away is a last resort). When your wife walks by specifically to talk to you or insult you (most likely call you an asshole), that is your queue. You could still be happy on the inside and sleep like a baby. Once she comes to you for a quick word (and then most likely walks away in anger), that's when you could get up and follow her and talk her out of her madness. This is you leading the rel…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/15 11:08 PM
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Do you guys think she's interested in me? What part of TRP don't you understand? You are the prize. She IS interested in you. But you shouldn't be interested in her because that is YOUR gym. Don't shit where you eat. If things go sour, you're probably going to run into her a lot. One thing I would recommend to you is that you friendzone her. (You're not looking for a relationship, as far as you're concerned, you're celibate). Then hook up with her friends or her friend's friends that don't work …
/r/askTRP21/01/15 10:59 PM
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You met them on Tinder. They are seeking an overdose of validation... and getting from too many guys. Including you. Numbers don't mean anything. Build the tension. Don't ask for their number. Just tell them what the date is and the conversation is over. They will work for you if they are interested. When you ask them out for drinks/dinner, I hope you're not paying for them. I also hope that they are following you. Like I would plan on meeting with friends after a date and then invite her to com…
/r/askTRP21/01/15 10:54 PM
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Feminists do not believe they are lying or deceiving other people, they actually believe themselves (based on unreliable sources - not on facts). So you can stop the prejudice. The sooner you realize that the world and the people in it just act the way they do because that is who they are on the inside, the sooner you will find the need to rise above them and set higher standards. It's easy to be angry at the owner (society) of an untrained dog (individuals). But you must accept that the owner l…
/r/askTRP21/01/15 10:02 PM
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Ha. Step outside of your box for a few seconds and try to understand this. You have the scarcity mindset. You work at a grocery store, which is probably not where you want to be. You should be focusing all your energy into gaining value (education, climbing the corporate ladder, starting your own company). It's called postponing gratification. Once you raise your SMV by having a good job/life and not wanting to be the "other" man, then it will be raining women. You are too good to be the "other"…
/r/askTRP21/01/15 07:47 PM
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♂ Building off of that... Newcomers: Saying she likes you means NOTHING Her phone number means NOTHING A kiss/makeout means NOTHING Says "I love you" ...sorry new guy, you guessed it! means NOTHING. If she does any or all of these yet will not sleep with you, you have no relationship with her.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 10:43 PM
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I've experienced the same thing working with software development teams in India. It's a cultural thing. Many women never grow up. But then again some men also never grow up. Those types of people would rather see their company or product burn to the ground than apologize for the small mistake they made.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 08:49 PM
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I wouldn't recommend rationalizing yourself to her. Instead, have her rationalize herself to you. Here's some questions/statements for her: Why do you not want me to go? Why is that an issue? Do you see the flaw in your logic? [dread game] I am going and if you can't be supportive of my personal growth, then I will find someone who will.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/15 01:48 AM
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Can confirm. Being called an asshole is also excellent. Expect to be laid shortly after. Look at it from the flip-side. What if girls started saying how nice you are, and how you are such a good friend? And then again when she flips out and you submit to her insanity? She will have no respect for you, and likewise no attraction toward you. ♂
/r/askTRP20/01/15 01:27 AM
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Here is your answer from /r/bestof - /r/AskMen "What cologne should I buy?" https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/2iiwxb/what_cologne_should_i_buy/cl2ms6f
/r/askTRP20/01/15 01:22 AM
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Short answer: Yes. Long answer: It depends... You can't plan out every part of your life and "wait" for the perfect girl to come into your life. You need to enjoy life. Be single and NOT looking. I'm not saying don't hook up, because you should. I'm saying don't get tied down in a relationship where either you OR her are begging to be in an LTR together. You both should be comfortable with yourselves, and as time goes on you figure out when the relationship works out, it works out.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 01:15 AM
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I'm constantly analyzing, crunching, comparing. Did I do this right? Did I say this right? It is a constant anxiety that lifting/exercise does not cure. ^ Insecurity. You are one of those grammar nazi's that can't handle "man-talk". Stop pretending you care about being "politically correct". Look at the bigger picture. When I'm working, all I can think about is girls. Intimacy, sex, having fun, all that. ^ Insecurity & Scarcity mindset (your needs are not being met, and yet you are trying to mee…
/r/askTRP19/01/15 10:15 PM
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Hypothetical As in it's what the guy or girl wants? It's a lot easier for women to hook up with 10 different guys before a man is able to hook up with 1 woman. In RP terms, if the man wanted to be with someone else, then he would be with someone else. A woman on the other hand might be happy with the idea of cuckolding.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 12:14 AM
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I'm quite interested in LTR and I've held my frame well thus far but I work with her That's not holding frame. That's scarcity mentality.
/r/askTRP15/01/15 12:05 AM
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I encourage my beta friends to date ex's or even girls that are currently interested in me. Although they were short relationships (like 1 to 2 months). She's probably trying to get closer to you. For women, love is a temporary thing and the people they are worth are always temporary. You see it as offensive, she sees it as fair game before her next switch. Then there's bro-code. If you ended it with her, your friends are only off-limits from her for a week. If she ended it with you, your friend…
/r/askTRP14/01/15 11:45 PM
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That's good to hear. It happened to my S.O. before and you can just buy a kit at the store. That same S.O. complained about a paper-cut type of pain inside when we used a certain lube. Turns out anything that has sugar in it acts like little razor blades to women.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/15 11:44 PM
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I remember you /u/spexer. I hope your wife was able to take care of that issue. She honestly wasn't shit testing you about her crotch being itchy. I appreciate the devil's advocate, but sometimes you just have to believe the other person. We are only recently married and we haven't passed the honeymoon phase yet, so we're both still happy with each other.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/15 07:37 PM
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It's a possibility she was being secretive. Just like she could be reporting into the NSA while I'm at work. She's not technology-savvy, but I am. The 3 to 4 messages to/from her ex were on facebook from 8 hours before I confronted her (meaning she wasn't doing it right then). The current apps that were open on her phone at the time of confrontation were just email. When she left for a while, she had a receipt to prove it in a town that's a bit of a drive at a store that I have been to. She does…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/15 07:32 PM
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That's a great explanation. Thanks so much.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/15 06:24 PM
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I know. Every now and then I see it. Before I got married I was ready to drop her if she made any mistake I didn't like. But she scored pretty well on the redpill scale. The reason I'm saying she is less likely to cheat is because I keep her drained. We are like a couple of rabbits.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/15 06:21 PM
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Haha, technically... in the end it did. Thankfully she knows when she's taking it too far.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/15 06:15 PM
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She comes from a conservative Asian family and is less likely to cheat on me than a western girl. ^(Fixed That For Me) Thanks man. So I just have to suck it up that I lost frame and she won this battle with her dread game. Today is a new day.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/15 01:45 AM
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Thanks for the response. You're right. I know I didn't do anything wrong, but I was thinking I did something wrong by tip-toeing around the subject rather than being dismissive. I honestly don't like the strip club. A bunch of sleezy guys and girls there.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/15 01:09 AM
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she’s only had sex with 2-5 guys before. That’s not really a lie, of course. Probably just a typo. True story. 25. No joke. She was crying when I asked and then tried to 'trickle-truth' the number, starting low and then slowly going up measuring my reaction. Glad I got out of that one. Gave you gold. There's not many posts now-a-days that even remotely support marriage. I've gone through a couple dozen women, and then I met this one girl who i ended up marrying recently, I'm still happy with my …
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 02:31 AM
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The majority of women I know that get panic attacks like that where they completely break frame (like they break their mind and freak out)... It stems from a poor relationship with their father. Another reason why they are more desperate to please mentally/physically strong men than the average girl.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 07:22 PM
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I suppose. Remember text should only be used to coordinate when and where. A phone call would be best suited to find out if she eager and excited about meeting up. And of course you have to initiate that, unless you are playing dread game.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 07:02 PM
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Dated a girl like this. She thinks she understands everything and will attempt to dominate you and use insane hamster logic whenever you doubt her. Like some other guy said: End it. Zero contact. She will want you back because she is crazy. Say no.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 06:45 PM
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Suicide hotline is on the sidebar of /r/theredpill You cannot regain your inner peace from something external. But you could flip your one statement around: once I am dead it will be like it never happened at all If you have a child eventually, and your child eventually has a child of their own and so on, then you've definitely changed history. Check out /r/GetMotivated to help get out of spots of depression. TRP can be dark sometimes but you have to see the light in every situation. Logical men…
/r/askTRP09/01/15 06:40 PM
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Relax, you sound like you are entering a scarcity mentality. You are over-analyzing this too much. Would a confident, successful man be thinking the same thing? No, because he has an abundance mentality. You don't care if she cheats on you, but watch for signs of insecurity from her, which might reflect her hooking up with someone else. If that's the case then it's a simple "Next!"
/r/askTRP09/01/15 06:34 PM
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You screwed up. It seems like you really want to put a ton of effort into pointless things for the rest of your life. She did something simple and you weren't happy with it. So you are basically teaching her that you will achieve and overachieve and she should never be happy about something simple. When you are 10 years older, this will make a lot more sense. You want someone who likes you not because of ridiculous effort you put into being like a made-up disney character.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 07:40 AM
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Wow, thanks for the research. I'm sold. Still wouldn't use the stuff personally, but apparently it's proven to do more than just bulk up the appearance of one's muscles.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 06:05 AM
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^ This guy gets it. I'd also add, your endurance is going to suffer if it only happens once a week. Try 3 times in 1 day and focus on yourself and she'll really enjoy herself.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 02:43 AM
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Could you make a TL;DR section? Apparently no one has responded in 4 hours. Based solely on your title: What does it take to get the truth and how can TRP show it? TRP does show the truth. Read the sidebar so you can understand a woman's extremely predictable strategy for covering up (this includes trickle truth, validation, and manipulation among other things). You also need to have a strong sense of empathy. (Not sympathy) You need to be able to feel the emotions she is feeling. Surprisingly m…
/r/askTRP09/01/15 02:41 AM
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Whether you are in an LTR or not, guys normally have to work harder. That's why we have TRP so that women come to us. Don't think of LTR as an investment. The moment I'm not happy about an LTR, it's over. Little fights about silly issues I can deal with, but I won't put up with crazy. Sunk cost does not exist in relationships, so you need to be ready to pull out at a moments notice and she needs to understand that if you are going to be the man in the relationship. You are the prize.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 02:35 AM
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You can't have a Dark Triad Mindset without being a dark triad. Meaning you are successful and attractive. If you are unsuccessful and unattractive and you have that mindset, then you are just a jerk/loser and no one will respect you. But if you are attractive, successful, and dark triad, then your rewards improve by an order of magnitude. Source: I am a light dark triad. I can crush people that try to brag in their little "dick measuring" contests with the amount of success I've had, but I norm…
/r/askTRP09/01/15 02:23 AM
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Women say and do completely different things. Did read the sidebar of TRP? They could say, "OK, but I have a boyfriend" and the night could still be a success. It all depends on how high value of a man you are. If a girl said that first one to me, I would respond with, "Wow, dirty girl! I only asked if you wanted to get dinner. I see what you are thinking about." And for the second one, "Yeah as friends, I'm not interested but I'll teach you how to use seduction on guys" Good luck!
/r/askTRP09/01/15 02:17 AM
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Your writing could use a little better flow. Right now it looks like 1 big blob of text. As for advice: considering the pregnancy and theres a need for some beta behavior at that time You don't have to be beta when your wife is pregnant. But you should always be a leader. Their hormones might be going crazy and they will be more emotional than usual, and their back is normally in pain, and of course you want their stress levels to be low so you have a healthy (normal) baby. Show them you are str…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/15 02:09 AM
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My situation couldn't be better! The girl feels confident in her own skin and is living in the moment just like me. She's afraid to be hurt so we're taking it slow in terms of labeling ourselves boyfriend/girlfriend, which is perfectly ok because we have the rest of our lives to be an old boring couple. We've gone on plenty of dates and meet up 2 or 3 times a week. I occasionally send messages like "Are you going to be able to survive without me for a week?" and am just overall not serious durin…
/r/askTRP04/09/13 12:02 AM
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No one should have one-itis for a girl that has not yet committed to them (and vice versa). Make your true feelings known and if she reciprocates then great! If not, then no harm done and you cut it off before you get too emotionally involved. Who knows, maybe she will come chasing after you when she realized that the relationship was on the edge of falling apart. I'm in the same position right now. I have the same mindset that I can get other girls but something about this girl is different. I …
/r/askTRP03/09/13 05:53 PM
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I suppose having only 1 TRP post with ~50 karma isn't enough. Thanks, I'll keep contributing
/r/askTRP30/08/13 04:42 PM
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Thanks. I'll send him a message and see if I can get in...
/r/askTRP30/08/13 04:41 PM
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The best thing about this group is that they meet up before they begin their hunt and actually come up with a personalized gameplan for each person. Over a drink or two, each person will discuss their goals and what they are going to do to achieve them. Tired of being another AFC in the OC? Then do something about it.
/r/seduction16/07/13 08:44 PM
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"But real gangsta-ass niggas don't flex nuts, 'cause real gangsta-ass niggas know they got em" - Geto Boys - Damn It Feels Good To Be A Gangsta
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I agree. But do you recommend a transition out of one-itits or a cold turkey approach? Some people are just born betas and I think my advice is his limit. OP doesn't sound like one to spin plates.
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*Edit: better solution - don't trust a cheating whore. I know I wouldn't. And it's not even spinning plates if you only have 1. So it sounds like you have one-itits, which doesn't seem to have a cure. You're young, probably around college age. You're supposed to date a lot of women. The best solution would be to remove any labels, especially "girlfriend". That girl is your friend. The male version is 'friendzoned'; the female version is 'fuckzoned'. Actually get to know her as a person before yo…
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Successful guy here. One who has also dropped X. I do see alot of hate for it on astrp though TRP's stance has always been to ditch any crutches. It made me more social and greatly reduced my approach anxiety. You're using that drug as an excuse. You were more social and had less anxiety because you had a crutch that you could blame for being inappropriate. Even though what you were doing (being confident) was the right thing. If you need drugs or even alcohol to have a good time, then only thos…
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Search "day game" and "day game FRs" on TRP. You'll find plenty of good posts. For me my issue isn't the opener, but more the transition to asking for a phone number. I just don't ask for the phone number, unless there was at least a kiss involved. You have to be the rock. Let the woman get flustered when you don't ask for her number until the very last second (or not at all... and she reminds you). I remember going out with a friend and girls were asking for my number. My friends were freaking …
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It sounds like you are desperate for validation. Are you afraid of rejection? If not, then I suggest actually going out and practicing day game and night game without caring about the outcome. As far as I'm aware, OKC is full of ego-inflated whales. Same with Tinder, because every girl gets an overload of validation from thirsty guys. Online dating is supposed to supplement your dating life, not be 100% of it.
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Meet more women. It's funny. Your desire to hook up with coworkers dramatically decreases after you get a BJ before going into work.
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Legal Issues When an Unmarried Couple Breaks Up Each unmarried partner is presumed to own his or her own property and debts unless you’ve deliberately combined your assets--for example, by opening a joint account or putting both names on a deed to your home. If you are jointly raising children and you are both legal parents, you normally have the opportunity to work out a joint agreement without court intervention. But if you end up in court, the issues of custody, visitation, and child support …
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I haven't seen a single guy over there who was formally RP before was married Here's one. I'm well off. We are happily married with a 3 month old son. Found TRP during the first year it was created (3 years ago this October). Was raised RP (RP father - CEO of a big company but absolutely refused to help me financially with anything). Been with plenty of women. Lost interest in chasing or being chased (very few TRP posts discuss STDs). Crossed paths with a great woman, but even women in the top 1…
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To make it worse I could lose my job that I worked my ass off to get because I badly assaulted someone. You're worried about losing your job? You should be going to prison.
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It gets easier if you have a handful of close friends to rely on and talk to about your deepest thoughts. But most people are distant now-a-days. You still have your parents to talk to, right?
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Move somewhere else. Start life new. With a true abundance mentality, you never run out of options. You never run out of things to talk about, and you never run out of activities to do. 1st thing 1st. Postpone that instant gratification. You don't deserve shit, not even a shitty girlfriend. 2nd: Build a foundation. How's your education? You don't need to go to an expensive private university, but if you want the best bang for your buck go to any 4-year university and get a degree in engineering.…
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Good for you for getting out and improving yourself. But none of that tells me you're an introvert. Don't let others or even yourself label you as an introvert. I used to think I was an introvert, until I realized I have hundreds of friends and I never liked having 2 or 3 really close knit friends that I always hung out with. I liked hanging out with different large groups of people every so often and by myself working out or at home watching a move or playing games every so often.
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You're close. Call her, but don't fall into her frame. Tell her you are going to be you at the party. And then explain that you will do your own thing at the party. You're not friends with her friends. it feels like she's gonna be hyper critical. What girl on her period is not hyper sensitive? (answer: AWALT) Just try to remember that at the end of the day, she never liked you because you were a super excited happy person. She likes you because you're stoic and don't show your feelings so easily…
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So trying to seduce a boss into giving you a raise? Or trying to become a CEO?
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Depends on the woman and depends what you mean by "better" (sexier? more professional? what?) If a creepy guy tries to dress nice, then he is trying too hard even if he doesn't change his actions. Similarly, if an unnattractive girl dresses up to be a lot more sexy, then suddenly she looks like a potential one-night stand.
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I'm saying your mentally weak for trying to get a girl pregnant when you 100% don't want that girl to be pregnant. It's a level above saying No to going to the gym because you would rather play video games. I'm not trying to hurt your feelings and if I'm misinterpreting your situation, please let me know. FWB My mistake. FWB, but still not a plate. offended Yes. I have a kid on the way, which I am very happy about. But it's hard for me to accept that people allow kids to come into this world und…
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I really want to know what I did wrong. You are in the 1st phase of TRP - Denial and Isolation. Just go out and have fun with your friends and forget about her. Get angry at her for ignoring you. Get depressed because you don't understand why you lost the "game" with her. And then accept that AWALT, and begin with the next girl.
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Before you start dating/spinning a flirty cashier girl, make sure you understand that you are the prize. She needs to work hard for a high value man. Being successful and well-dressed, my friends and I occasionally come across flirtatious cashiers. They are desperate to get out of their situation, so it's an easy target. I never went for one because I had plenty of other higher-value options, like girls pursuing a college education and working in an internship program. If you still want to try a…
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Oh, you mean literally while you are at work? So you are having dates while on the clock? Weird. what to do When you take a break at work, take a solid block of time and label that your break. Have a custom voicemail and auto-reply email set if you have to. Work is not a rabbit that will run away when you drop it. It will still be there when you get back.
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You are the beta bux to your business. TRP teaches a balanced life. Working at most 40 hours a week. Ideally starting your own company and working 20 hours a week. There was a post a while back about some chump lawyer working 60 hours weeks to struggle to afford a nice place... while his neighbor is a contactor working 20 hours a week and relaxing and enjoying life. Don't be your company's bitch.
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You don't. Postpone Gratification. You should be focusing on building the foundation of your SMV by studying and deciding which college to go to. Too many high school kids think it's cool to be "lazy".
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Agree and amplify. You guys are friends so absolutely do not fold by buying her drinks like a nice guy. Push it further and make her buy the first round of drinks. You buy the 2nd round. Then you have a party ;)
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Honestly, it's about giving and receiving. There's always going to be an ebb and flow (like the ocean's tide). As long as you are getting what you want, you can be a little nicer than normal. It's when the flood of craziness comes that you need to stand your ground, hold frame, and possibly use dread game.
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Congratulations on your find. When I was single around your age I stuck with 21+ (or as close to 21 as possible), so going out drinking with friends wasn't a problem. The other reason was that any younger and they just aren't there mentally yet, and I enjoy someone that's intellectually compatible as well as not likely to murder me in my sleep (definitely had one close call with a crazy/hot girl). So if you found someone you can tolerate (in other words, on the good side of the crazy/hot line), …
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I had an ex that I broke up with. She pulled the same stuff. She even rode her bike around my house and camped out for the day (without me knowing). She did that more than once. She lied to everyone... She also took advantage of me when I got wasted at a friends house. After I woke up from that disaster I ghosted her. She did a lot of really bad things after we broke up, trying to get me to see her again. But on the bright side, she cleaned up her act, got a job, got a car, cleaned her room, etc…
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Seriously consider getting SGM (sex god method). Like 1 simple tip is not letting your girl orgasm until you grant her permission. When you do that, its normally the first time a girl squirts. It goes into much better detail than I could on mobile. Good luck!
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It's about time. However, whether or not their post is properly formatted, most newcomers do not understand what is and is not important discussion material. So every now and then I will rewrite the entire text post in my own comment using a quarter of the words to save everyone else time, then I proceed to answer their question.
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