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The strongest attraction triggers are social alliances and preselection. Think about why that is. Sorry but your assertions are wrong. Why don't you read some posts by u/vengefully_yours He is living proof that all you need to generate attraction is to be able to look like you can punch through a wall, hold frame like a sociopath, and take a girl for a ride in a car that looks like hell but will make you swallow your teeth when you hit the accelerator. Also you're forgetting that women have a DU…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 11:45 PM
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In the end, it doesn't matter if it's bullshit or not. What matters is what women respond to. Story of O. 50 Shades of Grey. Both of those stories were written by WOMEN. Most of the writers who wrote Don Draper's character were WOMEN. Women DESIRE to be used as OBJECTS by a dominant, unapologetic man (or men).
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 11:34 PM
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Here's the thing. You no longer have a choice to LTR her. She issued an unspoken ultimatum. She in essence said "LTR me, or it's over." If you LTR her, you've fallen into her frame and that makes you a beta pushover. Your ONLY option is to respond with the frame of: I only LTR on my terms, so if that means you are out the door, so be it. If you want to stick around and see if you are worthy enough to be my LTR, then that's cool too. You will know how best to put it in to your words. But the bott…
/r/askTRP10/11/17 11:27 PM
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Your exception does not invalidate my statements. I'm speaking about feminine desire, averaged over the entire global female population. Edit: From your description, it sounds like you've chosen a nice pet.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 09:35 AM
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Counterpoint: First, respect is earned. Why should I "respect" a woman, just because she's a woman? Second, why is bitcoin or gold so valuable? Because of the effort it takes to produce them. "Requirements" (from a woman's perspective) for a man to get laid: * Be physically fit/muscular * Be charismatic * Be funny * Have a good haircut * Have a good job/money * Have a good fashion sense * Have a good sense of humor * Drive a nice car * Have a strong social circle/status * Be amenable towards her…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 08:51 AM
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Exactly. You have to screen the women first. If when you first see her, and you maintain eye contact, and she looks down, or she looks away to the side, looks back at you, then looks down again. She's submissive. Those are the ones you have a chance of going full patriarch on successfully.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 01:19 PM
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Thanks for the clarification. To be absolutely clear for the newbies here, this is the frustration men feel in the Anger phase. We've all been lied to. When we reach the Acceptance phase, this is yet another example of women exhibiting their true nature. It's like saying, "I was holding this scorpion in my hand and it stung me!". Of course it did. The scorpion was acting like all scorpions do. Also as an exercise left to the reader, try to see how u/throwitdownman was the comfort and not the coc…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 01:01 PM
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Love a man while sleeping with another. Sorry but no. Love is not part of this equation. Extracting value is. Here, let me fix that for you: Women can use one man for comfort and use a different man for cock, and be able to reconcile their behavior by spinning that hamster wheel. Women use men for cock, comfort or cash. And in today's world, they rarely come from the same man. Edit: Now what will really fuck with your head, is were you the cock or the comfort?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 12:15 PM
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Yes and No. There's way more to it than that. It goes all the way back to evolutionary biology.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 02:04 PM
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Frame is who's reality is primary. It's either the man's reality or the woman's reality. In other words, who makes the rules? The man or the woman? Successful relationships are founded on the Man's reality being primary. Frame
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 01:52 PM
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Why do people eat at fancy restaurants instead of McDonalds? Why do people train dogs and horses? Because with repeated interaction, you can explore the depths of a woman's sexuality, and get inside her heart and mind as well. And if you go full-on patriarch mode, the good ones will submit to your frame and melt in your arms. However, in order to be able to put up with her bullshit long enough to accomplish that, a man needs to mould a woman to be more pleasant to be around. And that means holdi…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 01:31 PM
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Really? Here, let me fix that for you: When you can deadlift 300 lbs,celebrate your victory, then compare yourself to the people who deadlift 400, and focus on them until you feel like shit. When you can do 400, celebrate your victory, then compare yourself to the people who lift 500, until you feel like shit again. When you hit 850, celebrate your victory, then compare yourself to Eddie fucking Hall.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 01:09 AM
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You know who inspired me? Colonel Fucking Sanders. Ever heard of Kentucky Fried Chicken? He didn't get his shit together until in his 70s. If he can do it, you can do it too.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 04:33 AM
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Yes, archive But please see my edit2 in my post, so that you can clearly understand the issue I was intending to discuss.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 11:08 PM
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I'm doing this to engage with men that are interested in learning. If you aren't, then that's fine with me. I'm persistent because people keep misinterpreting the point I'm making.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 09:17 PM
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Oh my god. It's not about the result. Or how I acted or reacted. You're still not getting my point. Listen to this Patrice O'Neal' From 1h:24m:0s to 1h:25m:30s. One minute and 30 seconds. That is what I'm trying to explain. Do you see how Patrice explains the underlying motivation for his girl asking the question about the dry cleaning? She tried to manipulate him into being a man.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 09:14 PM
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I think you're missing my point. I'm not trying to explain how to drive a car. Or how to respond to a skid. I'm trying to illustrate how cars work.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 08:45 PM
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I respect your position but I disagree. And we are talking at cross-purposes. You are speaking in very practical terms about how one should react to this specific woman's question. I'm trying to get guys to think about why women act the way the do and how they argue. Again, the point was how the dynamic played out. Not the question itself. And again, I'm using this as a tool to try to get men to ask a simple question. "Why is my girl asking this question?" This is particularly important in LTRs,…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 07:52 PM
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Look, I knew when I made this post that I would get a lot of flack and that most guys wouldn't get it. And that's okay. And yes, I agree with you that there were good points made by the red pill subscribers. That's not the point. And even you, assume that she was asking the question to simply learn. This post was intended to demonstrate how women argue. How they try to manipulate men indirectly and covertly. How they become evasive when you try to hold their feet to the fire. This was a real liv…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 07:32 PM
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I'm sorry that this is all you got out of that. The purpose of TRP is to educate men about the nature of women. And I was trying to point out how women use words to manipulate men to get what they want out of them. The point I was trying to make is that the people in AskTRP, who are allegedly aware of feminine wiles, were looking at her words instead of looking at the underlying intent and motivation of her question. My point was was that she played her part masterfully, and got what she wanted …
/r/askTRP22/06/17 06:33 PM
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Yes, I've experienced similar symptoms, though not to the extent that you do. Funny enough, for me it was tied up in early-life emotional trauma. Kind of a fear-of-abandonment or fear-of-loss-of-love thing. That coupled with narcissistic family members who no matter what I did, would never acknowledge my point of view as valid. So I would recommend two things: 1. Analyze your past to see if there is a similar trauma-based anxiety, and then seek help for that. 2. Engage in some form of martial ar…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 05:41 PM
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Respectfully I disagree. I think she has an underlying question about HER life. But she's using the open-ended question as a smokescreen of plausible deniability because she doesn't want to be rejected or hurt by stating what her real issue is. I'm interested to see if she responds to my call for her to get real with me.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 04:02 PM
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Sigh. You missed the point completely.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:56 PM
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I addressed this question in a reply above. The only reason to ask this kind of a question is if it is used to change something in YOUR life. Period. Otherwise it is arguing about how many angels can dance on the head of a pin, and therefore meaningless.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:53 PM
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The only reason to ask this kind of a question is if it is used to change something in YOUR life. Period. Otherwise it is arguing about how many angels can dance on the head of a pin, and therefore meaningless. So I guarantee you that you have an unstated question about something in YOUR life. You are wanting to know how to proceed with something and you're looking for input. But you don't want to come out and say that because of fear of being rejected. So do you want to get real with me and tel…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:43 PM
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Yes I do actually, and I'll tell you why. Why do women shit-test men? Because they want to find out if he actually has a spine. If she can break him, then how can she feel secure in his presence? I do the same thing here. I'm trying to determine if this girl is worthy of my time. (HA!). I've been in AskTRP for quite a while and I've found that challenging someone is a really good way to determine if they are ready to listen, or just spouting nonsense, or just looking for confirmation bias. And w…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:37 PM
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Gentlemen: Do you SEE this NONSENSE? Do you see how she can't accept the responsibility for her own actions? Do you see how she's trying to get me angry and deflected off of the issue that her reasoning is flawed and she's wasting all of our time? She can't step up to the plate by stating concisely what her question is, and as soon as I call her out on her bullshit, what does she do? She tries to put me in the beta box, twice. By first telling me to chill, then again by acting like she's in the …
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:28 PM
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Listen princess. You do not come in to a men's forum telling men to chill when they point out that your reasoning is flawed. And you cannot empathize with men. You have no idea about how many dudes are angry at women for coming in here and spouting nonsense like this. Because they have a hidden agenda, and when they don't hear what they want, they ignore all the data. Plus you haven't even stated the premise for a thought experiment. It is completely open-ended. It is not constrained in any way,…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:11 PM
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This is a nonsense question. Men and women are different. They have different drives, goals, and biological necessities. So you're asking men to think like a woman, which is impossible. Plus, I bet dollars to donuts that this is a bullshit girl question. Because girls ALWAYS have an agenda when they ask questions because of solipsism. So why don't you ask what you REALLY want to know, cupcake?
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:44 PM
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Well the thing is, are you going to add to the body of knowledge with this post? Is it going to have some in-depth analysis and make some new conclusions that haven't been seen? If not, then you'll probably get lukewarm response.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 04:19 AM
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From Illimitable Men: "Yeah but not from you, I've got standards." (asshole game - neg) "Isn't that what women were designed for?" (witty asshole game) "Captain Obvious took her vitamin C this morning" (witty asshole game) "You're so cute when you act like you're upset" (amused mastery) "Yeah, but I'm not sure if you fit the bill" (pressure flip, now qualify to me bitch) "Well done, you know men like sex" (indifferent aloof game)
/r/askTRP22/06/17 04:15 AM
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"Okay babe, that's cool. See you around." Next.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:37 AM
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Here's the thing. There is no problem with girls talking to other guys. If she's flirting that's another issue entirely. Possible scenarios: She may just want to use these other guys as one-night orbiters and then fuck you. She's may be unconsciously used to beta orbiters following her around and she's acting without thinking. It may be a blatant compliance test to see if you will follow her. The tears may be fake. But remember, it's her job to follow you around the place, not the other way arou…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:34 AM
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"Sorry babe, busy. Still on for hiking Saturday. Meet me at X time at Y place." Then don't text her any more. If she texts you, try to ignore as much as possible. Send only 1 or 2 texts for every 3 she sends. You want to give the impression that you are high-value and not always available.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:13 AM
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Good, so if she's initiating she's interested. Remember, girls are different from us. Women communicate through actions and body language. You're going hiking right? Find excuses to touch her. Make sure you guide her periodically by placing your hand at the small of her back. Examine her earrings if they are remarkable and actually hold her ear with your fingers. Help her across streams by holding her hand or even better, give her a piggy-back ride. Then horse around a little bit before letting …
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:05 AM
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What LMR? LMR is when she's in your bedroom and you have your hand in her pants and she shuts you down. Personally I think you're being too timid. You should be running kino and physically escalating on the first date. That way she will know your intentions and that you want sex. When you say you have 2 other girls you can "see too", does that mean date or fuck?
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:49 AM
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First off, we've all been there. So don't sweat it. But at the end of the day, the only way to get over approach anxiety is to approach. Period. Start with approaching without the intent to seduce. Just talk. About the weather, about sports, about their choice in close or fingernail polish.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:38 AM
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It's worth a shot to try. Go out for beers and run game on her. Make sure to do kino and escalate physically. If she shuts down your kino and escalation, then she may just want to use you as an orbiter. Next.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:28 AM
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I hate to say this, but you've already stated the solution. You stop comparing yourself to others by simply stopping comparing yourself to others. Focus on making your life great. Period.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 12:58 AM
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Well I'm not going to read all that nonsense because I can tell by how many words on the page that you aren't leading your bitch correctly. Do not ague with women. They are emotional terrorists who absolutely do not listen to reason. And they do not care about you or your viewpoint. They only care about getting what they want. It's really simple. Tell her the rules. Tell her what behavior you expect from her, and discipline her when she doesn't obey. If one of my plates starts drama, I tell her …
/r/askTRP22/06/17 12:56 AM
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Yes, but what you want is not what everyone else wants.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 12:46 AM
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I appreciate your idealism. But you can't solve all the worlds problems. Furthermore, just because something makes sense to you, doesn't mean that it makes sense to others. Just try arguing that feminism has destroyed families to an SJW. Jordan Peterson - How to change the world properly Edit: Plus, who's to say that your vision of cohesive control is the correct one? Only a Sith deals in absolutes.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 10:58 PM
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Next her. Spin other plates. Get on with your life. Be on the lookout for this dude making trouble.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 10:15 PM
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If you were spinning 2 or 3 other plates, you wouldn't be wringing your hands over this girl. Plus you came across as too needy.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 10:10 PM
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Dude, stop it. You are stalling because you are afraid of something or you have anxiety. Trust the process and get started. If after 6 months, if you haven't made any progress, then come back and I will help. But I'm not going to waste my time by helping you to engage in mental masturbation. Courage is knowing there is something more important than fear.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 10:05 PM
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"Dear Ask TRP. I haven't done any of the work that 200,000+ men say will bring me more confidence. How can I get more confidence?" -- ap426
/r/askTRP21/06/17 09:53 PM
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How many times a week are you going to the gym? Are you doing compound lifts? How many girls a week are you approaching? edit: What's your body fat %?
/r/askTRP21/06/17 09:48 PM
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So what's your question?
/r/askTRP21/06/17 09:44 PM
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Okay so you don't have abundance mentality and you are willing to compromise your standards because you are thirsty. I recommend banging 2 or 3 other girls before you make the decision on this girl.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 09:42 PM
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It depends on a zillion factors. It all comes down to risk vs reward. I can tell you that I had the opportunity to bang a cop's wife who was really hot, and I turned it down. Too much risk. He could be a beta bitch and come after me with a gun, or he could get his buddies and make my life a living hell. Are you spinning other plates?
/r/askTRP21/06/17 09:38 PM
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TRP Theory is Amoral. Don't ask for moral guidance here. You're a man, make up your own mind.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 09:28 PM
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It's your responsibility to guide YOUR bitches. Let others guide their own bitches.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 09:17 PM
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How many plates are you spinning?
/r/askTRP21/06/17 09:15 PM
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After you've banged her.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 09:12 PM
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That's an okay, but not ideal plan. I fear you are focused on the wrong thing. You are focused on the girl and the potential reward, instead of focusing on your gut and yourself. This can only lead to ruin. You are ignoring your gut. Notice in your plan, that you still can't let go. You're going to soft-next, and move the deadline out instead of trusting your gut and doing it now. Today. These are symptoms of oneitis and lack of abundance. This is why I'm challenging you to do it now. The issue …
/r/askTRP21/06/17 04:25 AM
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Here's the thing to understand. Your resistance to nexting comes from from a lack of abundance mentality. You fear not being able to get what you MIGHT be able to get with that girl. Also, if your gut tells you that you are being played, trust your gut. So if I were you, I would next her for two reasons: One, because you should trust your gut. Every time I've second-guessed my gut, I've regretted the decision. Two, to confront your fear of loss due to a lack of abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 04:04 AM
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Ahhh, you were being a comedian and you ran out of material. And when you did that the energy changed. You weren't being authentic. Dial it down a few notches. Try a more laid back approach. Tease, then open-ended question. Then find something funny in what she said and joke again. Then just start telling her a story about something. Make statements. Generate a burst of attraction to get her attention then settle into a chill vibe groove. Edit: Watch some of krauserpua.com's videos on daygame.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 04:50 AM
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Bro, step up to the plate and be a man. If the app doesn't work, go find a computer. And no, the obstacle isn't the dumb chick. It's you. Specifically your mind. Stop deflecting and delaying. You have enough information to get started.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 04:31 AM
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Again vomiting your feelings. I don't care about how you feel. You're hurt. Let's go call the whaaaaambulance. Maybe he doesn't respect you for the same reason I don't. Because you're a typical emotional girl and you aren't asking how to serve your captain better, or even what you did wrong. You just want daddy to make the pain go away. You've had three tries to come to the point and you've failed. Next.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 04:26 AM
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Jesus. Really? What do I do about what? The price of cheese? The fact that you are typical girl vomiting her emotions onto the page without a concise question? Clearly state the problem please. "I broke frame and cried." is not a problem. It's a bullshit girl question trying to get sympathy.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 04:19 AM
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Well first of all you haven't even asked a real question. You've come in here like a typical girl, looking for comfort, and you're not going to get any. You're heartbroken. So what? What's the problem?
/r/askTRP20/06/17 04:12 AM
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Respectfully, you realize you are in a men's forum, right? I recommend you post in r/RedPillWomen as you aren't going to get a lot of sympathy here. There are a lot of angry dudes in here and if they start to get brutal with you, NO ONE is going to come to your rescue.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 04:04 AM
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Again more deflection. Jesus, you are a piece of work. Repeat after me: Yes, -druckpa-kunley-, I realize now that I was acting like a cunt and deserved every ounce of hostility directed at me. I promise to never ask another question without listing all the work I have done up to that point along with my analysis of what I think went wrong. Edit: But that's the past Holy shit, I missed this the first read through. I was right! Narcissist. Edit 2: Jordan Peterson on Narcissistic Psycopaths
/r/askTRP20/06/17 02:38 AM
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You are your own worst enemy. Stop telling yourself nonsense. Dude, you got to put in the work. And read the goddamn sidebar! It takes YEARS to become the man you want to be. The Reward
/r/askTRP20/06/17 02:30 AM
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You know what? I'm willing to bet the Ugliest Man in Uganda who has been married twice, and who just fathered his 8th child, would call bullshit on your lame ass excuses about "game" being fake.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 02:28 AM
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More deflection. More failure to accept responsibility for your own actions. The only one you're bullshitting is yourself. Yours was a low-effort post. You didn't even put in the work to approach the girl. And now everyone is supposed to respect you even though you don't respect yourself enough to try before asking for help? If you're acting like a cunt, then you deserve to be called a cunt. And who are you to say what alpha males do? You are too scared to even approach a girl. I could just as e…
/r/askTRP20/06/17 02:22 AM
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always thought I needed a girlfriend to be happy and seeking validation from them. Work on fixing this issue. Until you fix this, you will make the same mistake over and over and over.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 02:03 AM
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"Dear AskTRP. I came into this forum and didn't read any of the sidebar, and haven't worked on myself, and I asked a nonsense question to try to get over my fear of approaching without even approaching the girl first. And the senior members reacted with hostility because I want everyone to help me before I have even tried to help myself. And I attacked an endorsed contributor who called me out on my bullshit. And now I am making another post blaming others instead of taking responsibility for my…
/r/askTRP20/06/17 02:00 AM
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Dude, you already blew it. If you haven't approached already and you approach now she is going to see you for the big pussy you are. Because if you think she hasn't noticed you looking at her but haven't approached her, you're wrong. And the fact that you are awkward approaching a girl means you haven't read the sidebar, you haven't done any work on yourself, and you're coming in here looking to fix overnight something that takes years to fix. Also there's this one girl...
/r/askTRP20/06/17 01:51 AM
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Everyone's different. And some men are more emotionally resilient than others. Bottom line, your brain doesn't know the difference between a real girlfriend and an online one. Dopamine is dopamine, wherever it comes from. It took me a year to get over my oneitis, because I was overly-invested in her too. So it could take you the same time. It is a process but eventually it will be in your past. Especially if you go find another girl. An actual real girl this time. Because if you come back into T…
/r/askTRP20/06/17 01:45 AM
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The sidebar is that way ---> There's this one girl...
/r/askTRP20/06/17 01:20 AM
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"Dear AskTRP, I broke up with my GF less than 6 months ago, and because I was over-invested in the relationship and had no self-respect, I was suicidal. I've been lifting since then but my life and my emotions haven't magically turned around because I want the results that take YEARS to achieve to happen within 4 months."
/r/askTRP20/06/17 12:33 AM
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If she was always busy when you tried to arrange something before, and if she actually used the word "maybe", that is a no. Next.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 10:51 PM
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Hate to say this but she wants a free pass to fuck who she wants when she's away. She may have even found him already. Like someone going on the trip with her. It is also possible that when she gets back and it didn't work out with the other dude(s), she might even come back to you and tell you "It was all a mistake. I want you back." so that she can have her cake and eat it too.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 10:45 PM
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Thanks for the compliment. And to use this as a teaching moment, you want your plates to feel about you the same way that you felt about my post. If you exhibit firm yet fair leadership, with no bullshit, they will gladly accept direction from you and will actually be happy submitting to you when you exhibit the characteristics of a superior male.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 09:55 PM
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Tight game means being calibrated to her responses, reading her IOIs, escalating, running kino early, dealing with last-minute-resistance. It means being an experienced player.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 09:11 PM
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Dude, I know you need help, but you are a MAN. Don't ask me to do your work for you. Do your own research. You know what you need, go find it. edit: If you get stuck, come back with what you've done and read, and then I'll be happy to help.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 09:03 PM
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Come back when you've approached and got shot down. Then I'll help.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 09:00 PM
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It sounds like your game isn't tight enough, as evidenced by all the newbie mistakes you made. It is extremely difficult to come back from that far behind. It would be one thing if you had tight-game and just needed to tweak it. Plus, she might have met another dude who's game is way tighter than yours and who is rocking her world in bed even better than you. Dude, cut your losses and find another girl.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 08:59 PM
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Provide the explanation of the girl you approached, the IOI's you received and how she rejected you.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 08:51 PM
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From your description you didn't run tight game and you were being incongruous. You were being "friendly", didn't run Kino, didn't escalate until the end. She didn't know your intentions until the end.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 08:46 PM
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As specified in the sidebar: There's this one girl... Why can't you NEXT her? What's so special about her?
/r/askTRP19/06/17 08:40 PM
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Give it a try. You might be surprised. This is a trick that you are using as a tool to find out what's REALLY in your heart. Not what's in your head.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 08:04 PM
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I respect your opinion, but I still disagree. You do your style and I'll do mine. However, in my opinion, sometimes calling them names or smacking them upside the head DOES help. Why don't you take a look at the dynamic I used in the "RP theory: Arnold vs Tommy Lee... which do most women really prefer?" post? Why do you think the military forces run bootcamp the way they do? They need to break down those dudes who come in with a chip on their shoulder who aren't ready to learn, then build them u…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 08:02 PM
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As Patrice O'Neal says, you may just be having your 'period', which means you're not getting any side-pussy. But here's the thing it's really a simple fix. Be a good Captain and put the issue squarely in her court. Tell her that you aren't ready to commit, and that you are unsatisfied with the relationship, but that you don't want to hurt her or string her along. You could also try telling her that you'd be more willing to stay in the relationship if you could periodically get side-pussy. But if…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 06:51 PM
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Hahahahahaha, every dude has dug in the trash at least once in his life.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 06:34 PM
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I disagree. It depends on their attitude. I let the newcomer's attitude guide my response on an individual basis whether or not I classify them as a retard. And if someone that comes in here and asks questions that are clearly in the published information, and they clearly haven't done any work on themselves and they are clearly looking for a quick fix, then they have earned the rank of 'retard'. Sometimes a kick in the ass is a step forward.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 06:32 PM
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Hahahahahaha yes, that too. You know who behaves like this? Women. So in summary, they want to continue to behave like women, instead of men.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 05:37 PM
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"I was in a relationship but you know, stuff happens" With that one sentence you have told the girl: A. That you aren't in a relationship now. B. The fact that you aren't in one now means that other women don't find you desirable. C. That you couldn't keep that other relationship going. Most likely the chick left you. D. That you are dwelling on the past like a whiny bitch instead of living an awesome life that you are excited to share stories about. Is it clear to you why she is uninterested no…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 05:28 PM
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Again. It doesn't matter. Let's say you looked and acted like Tom Hanks. Now Tom Hanks could get tons of pussy. But to tell him to act like a bad boy is going to fail miserably. Because he's being something he's not. He wouldn't be playing to his strengths. The girls will pick up on this and shoot him down as a try-hard. You could be the next Patrice O'Neal, or Marylin Manson, or Mohammed Ali or Bruce Lee. All those men excel in their field, but all are VERY different men. So telling Patrice O'N…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 05:03 PM
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On validation: First of all, never tell a woman what she wants to hear. How do I look? -> Meh. I wish I was pretty. -> I wish you were pretty too. I'm fat. -> Well, I wouldn't call it fat. You're closer to obese than just fat. "You're shoes look fake." -> Thank you. "You're shoes look fake." -> Right. Much like your tits in that push-up bra. "You're going to hate that car" -> Yeah I know. I hate it already. I always have to keep wiping the pussy juice off of the passenger seat. TL;DR: Agree and …
/r/askTRP19/06/17 04:56 PM
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Because I'm trying to help you because you are your own worst enemy. The fact that you took the time out of your day to post such a ridiculous question means you aren't focused on the correct things. It means you don't understand what TRP is all about. The answer to this question is subjective. And at the end of the day, having an answer will get you no closer to living the life you want to live. Nor will it help you be the best version of yourself that you can be. And it certainly wont help you…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 04:16 PM
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I daygame exclusively. Whole Foods, Starbucks, Target, TJ Maxx, Marshalls. For "higher quality" (bitchy demanding princesses that look good) I go to country clubs, or upscale beachside hangouts.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 03:17 PM
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OMG who cares? Both of them are banging more bitches than you because their SMV is way higher than yours. Get your head out of the clouds and start lifting and approaching.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 03:16 PM
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It doesn't matter. The retards that write 5000 word essays don't even bother to read the sidebar. They just want an instant fix to their problems without having to put in any effort.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 02:42 PM
2

You are making women your goal, and that is the source of your problems. Your life should be your goal and women should be an addition to your awesome life. I recommend going monk mode for a while and getting your life on track and your head straight. Then get back into the game with the idea that you are screening these women to only find the ones that will add to your life.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 02:40 PM
1

Okay but you can pretend at crying. You can snuffle and whine and scrunch up your face. But you need to do this in person. Not over text. She needs to SEE and EXPERIENCE your beta body language and supplicating behavior. She may try to help you fix it. But no matter what she says, just be inconsolable. Shoot down every idea that she says by saying that won't work. *edit. Don't even ask her what gift you should buy. That is a possible solution. You want to come to her with problems only. No solut…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 02:32 PM
1

Yes. Go full beta on her. Manufacture some emotional problem, go to her, explain your problem and cry your eyes out. Put your head in her lap and with teary eyes, beg her to help you sort out your emotions. Tell her that you NEED her emotional support. That you're lost without her guidance. If she gets up to get some space, crawl on the floor and with both hands hold her ankle as she tries to pull away from you and keep begging.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 02:18 PM
2

The answer to your question is in this video: The Reward
/r/askTRP19/06/17 12:27 PM
1

Not only a captain, but a good captain. The problem with girls is that they can't discern a good captain from a bad captain. The just look at the behavioral markers that signal 'captain'. Which is why Asshole Game works as well it does. It projects the behavioral markers of 'captain'.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 12:20 PM
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First, realize that this will be a long journey. Second, realize that fear is an opportunity for growth. Use thought experiments to probe your psyche and try to determine what you are most afraid of. Then confront that. Pushing through that fear is where growth happens. If your childhood was particularly traumatic, consider some kind of therapy or bodywork such as massage. Often the trauma is stored in the mind or the body and it will hold you back until it is released. You will unconsciously av…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 03:02 AM
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As far as the major pieces go, yes. Open her Try to spike her attraction Look for IOIs Vibe + Kino Go for the # close Look for the ones that are kind of wandering around with a dreamy look in their eye. Most likely they are at or near ovulation and horny. But what about logistics? If she's married, you'd better be ready to spring for a hotel, or take her back to your place, unless you want to bang her at her house and risk getting caught. And if you want to keep her, your fuck game better be on-…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 02:13 AM
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Don't confuse friendly with IOI. Milf's are everywhere. Go to Whole Foods and start spitting game.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 01:57 AM
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There are so many unspoken assumptions in your post it's hard to even unpack it. Fantasy is hardly ever the same as reality. "Once I get with one" is a loaded phrase - you need to expand. Unless you are hard-core good looking, muscular, abs, etc. then you're going to have to have some sort of game. And because MILFs are experienced women, they will knock you on your ass if you don't have game and try to talk yourself into their pants.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 01:46 AM
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This is very common. The 5s do this to try to artificially raise their SMV and make themselves feel better about themselves. The feeling of rejecting a guy makes them "even with" or "better than" the 7.5 even though they know in their heart they are a 5, and fear they are even lower than that. Also, if you are good enough to get a 7.5, then they KNOW you are just digging in the trash with them and that would be too much of a blow to their dignity. Because they know the pump-n-dump is coming.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 01:30 AM
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Maybe they just have better game or social status than you. Patrice O'Neal's girl Von was a dime, and he was a fat motherfucker.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 01:14 AM
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You're asking two questions. How should you initiate and how do men initiate? How should you initiate? Just do what u/LordThunderbolt says. How do men like to initiate? Well I for one, unzip my pants and stick my dick in her mouth.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 01:10 AM
3

Get her a bag of skittles
/r/askTRP19/06/17 01:02 AM
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Actually you are the one that needs to chill. This is a men's forum, and we do not accept shaming language from anyone here. Men or women. We pull no punches, and we don't coddle women. Just because you have a vagina doesn't mean anything here. If you're offended by a user's comments then don't engage them. Otherwise, go to /r/RedPillWomen
/r/askTRP19/06/17 12:56 AM
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Use escorts. The best part is when they leave after you're done.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 10:26 PM
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Who knows what is inside a girl's head? She may have been trying to make you jealous. She may be a psychopath and wanted a dude to control, or to inflict pain on you to see how you react. For me it wouldn't matter. That behavior is inexcusable, no matter the motivation. Hard next.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 10:25 PM
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No. Wrong. Even if they actually like you, they will still game you. Even if you are in a committed monogamous relationship with an HB10, a woman will still try to break you because she wants a man that can't be broken. Women are incapable of loving a man the way he wants to be loved. 70% of divorces in U.S.A are initiated by women.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 10:21 PM
2

Black Phillip Show on youtube. Patrice O'Neal on O&A shows on youtube.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 10:19 PM
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Dude, girls are born with "girl game". That is how they get by in the world. Through agreeableness, deceit and manipulation. It's not something they turn on, it is their default mode of operation. Men evolved to manipulate the environment. Women evolved to manipulate men. So, to answer your question, you are ALWAYS being gamed by women.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 12:36 AM
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• malaphor • Pronunciation: mæl-ê-fêr Part of Speech: Noun Meaning: Catachresis, a mixed metaphor.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 09:41 PM
2

It's okay to break up with girls. Just be kind. They're still human beings. The only reason you should feel guilty is if you weren't kind.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 09:19 PM
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Good luck dude. And seriously, don't be afraid to shut her down when she's yapping about stuff you don't want to hear. I used to be considerate and listen but now I do it ALL THE TIME, with all of my plates. I'll stop them mid-sentence and tell them I don't want to hear it. And I've NEVER had a bad reaction from a girl.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 08:57 PM
1

Dude, grow some balls. "I don't kiss and tell. Period."
/r/askTRP17/06/17 08:52 PM
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Dude, you create your own experience. This isn't rocket surgery. Get off your ass, go out and meet new people and make new friends.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 08:50 PM
2

Bottom line, if she wants to bang every dude in that country, there's nothing you can do about it. Acting hurt or controlling will just give her an excuse to cheat. I would have done the pressure-flip. "Yeah, actually that's cool because there's this girl here who's boyfriend is overseas and she asked me to hang out." Then I would crank up the dread game by actually going out and start hanging out with other girls. Then posting innocent fun pictures of me and those other girls in my social media…
/r/askTRP17/06/17 08:48 PM
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Observe, but don't overreact. Don't mate guard, or it's over. It may be nothing and it may be something. She may just be doing dumb girl shit. So first start by keeping your mouth shut and gathering data. Start looking at the larger patterns and see if her behavior has recently changed. Is she dressing differently? Losing weight? Girls night out? Working late? Secretive about her phone or computer? If all those things are okay, then it's a simple fix: "Babe, I don't want to talk about your work.…
/r/askTRP17/06/17 08:39 PM
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So what? He doesn't sound like that great of a catch to me. Edit: Serious question, no disrespect intended. Do you have low self-esteem? There's a piece of the story that you haven't told me, because your reactions don't match with his behavior. Edit 2: Can you tell me why this dude is better than all of the other 3.5 billion dudes on the planet?
/r/askTRP17/06/17 05:47 PM
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The problem is, this is all long distance, and I've never seen it work. So unless he's flying to Paris monthly, there really isn't any "investing" going on. I could tell you how to manage it if you were both in the same city, but there's no point. If I had to guess right now, this guy has narcissist tendencies, and he's probably manipulative. Just by the facts of the shitty deal he's offering and by the fact that you're considering not ending the relationship. If this is actually true, then what…
/r/askTRP17/06/17 02:29 PM
1

Okay, most of those statements aren't true, because they are incomplete caricatures of TRP philosophy. So there is no way to answer your question.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 01:53 PM
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So first of all, LDRs never work. There's no shared experience to keep it alive. The second thing is, you are correct in that the deal he is proposing is a shitty deal. It is possible for a man to love more than one woman at once, and men are biologically programmed to spread their seed. However, he isn't proposing to keep his relationship with you AND have a relationship with the other girl. He wants to bang this other chick and keep you on the hook, but not invest any time in to you. You're ri…
/r/askTRP17/06/17 01:50 PM
2

Flip a coin, heads you go, tails you don't go. When the coin comes down, don't even look at it. Keep it covered. Because you'll already know what is in your heart by your reaction to what side MIGHT be up.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 02:29 AM
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I'd say don't even start with "I want to bang", because that sets up expectations and additional anxiety. We're all humans! Humans are gregarious and enjoy connecting with other humans. Be observant and comment on something about their person or what is happening right now. Comment on something funny Make jokes Tease. Ask how their day is going. "You look happy!" "Rough day, huh?" "Nice nails!" "Where did you get those shoes! They're awesome. And so girly." For example, I saw a girl in the check…
/r/askTRP17/06/17 02:15 AM
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No, that wasn't White Knighting, that was just relating to another human being. Google White Knighting for examples.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 01:56 AM
1

Just to be clear, it wasn't about the wingman. It was about the hardship they went through to get to the X. That was a mirror there, and they saw themselves. The reward was the men they've become.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 01:51 AM
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Okay so this issue has been simmering for a while, and it wasn't just about money, otherwise her reaction wouldn't be what it was. So you will have to take a look at yourself and if you're being a man that she can respect or not.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 01:49 AM
2

Gay escort.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 01:22 AM
1

So what changed?
/r/askTRP17/06/17 01:06 AM
1

Dude, this isn't about managing your finances or money It's about making the transition from a boy to a man.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 01:00 AM
1

Frame comes from within. So you can learn about it, but until it comes from within, you won't embody it. This is frame This is frame This is frame
/r/askTRP17/06/17 12:58 AM
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The phrase is "Deep seated". The answer is simple. Make the journey towards self-improvement, one step at a time. This animated short will tell you everything you need to know. The Reward
/r/askTRP17/06/17 12:45 AM
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Rule number 1: If you aren't going to get married, don't live together. Period. Second, she's resenting the fact that you are relying on her. That's not the way this works. She wants to rely on you. Bottom line, YOU fucked up. Get your shit together and get your life under control. The fact that you are asking her for help means you don't understand male-female power dynamics at all.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 12:41 AM
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You need to address two things: your body, and your mind. All those things you listed were of the mind. But I suggest dealing with your body first. Start a health program. Eat clean, exercise regularly and lift. And then, this may sound wacky, but I suggest finding a good female mother-type massage therapist. Someone who is kind and patient and caring. And then get a couple of massages from her. This will help your body teach your mind that there is still some good in the world and good things d…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 02:44 PM
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Dude, really? This is a proper question: I've been lifting for 6 months and I'm down to 15% bodyfat. I've been approaching 5 women a week for the last 3 months, and I'm having a problem with logistics on how close to get her back to my place. How do I go from IOIs to closing the deal? Come back when you have shown that you are serious about TRP.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 06:20 AM
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So what? This is a false binary choice. There are plenty of dudes who you can roommate with. You are falling in love with the idea of pussy on tap. Until she decides that she's no longer attracted to you and starts dating other dudes, but you're still stuck on the lease with her. And then she's played you into exactly the position she want you.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 06:15 AM
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Are you dating two girls at the same time? If not, then come back when you ARE dating two girls at the same time and ask the question again. By the way, I AM dating two girls at the same time, and no I don't feel like a scumbag.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 06:10 AM
1

Still, why do you care what a red-piller would do? Each situation is different and each man is different. You are trying to get the answer to an issue without stating your feelings or what the problem is. Are you a girl?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 06:07 AM
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You're confusing career with a willingness to submit to a superior male. It's not the career that's the problem. It's the unwillingness of most women to submit to their Captain that is the problem. You can have a career and earn a living, and still be with a red-pill man. You just have to choose your Captain wisely. A true Captain won't care about your career. He will only care about how good of a Co-Pilot you are.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 06:03 AM
1

Neither would affect your career until she complains to the HR department about sexual harassment. Then you're out. What part of "Don't shit where you eat." didn't you understand?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 05:54 AM
1

Dude, it's your life. Be proactive, not reactive. How many angels can stand on the head of a pin? What if a Martian landed on your head? You could be hit by a bus tomorrow. These are nonsense questions. Just lift, live your life, and have fun. The women that want to be around you will find a reason to be around you. The others won't.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 05:52 AM
0

Why do you care? What difference does this make?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 05:47 AM
3

Why do you care what her plan is? Either escalate and fuck her or ignore her. What's the problem?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 05:46 AM
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Women decided. That's who. Next question?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 05:44 AM
3

Stop bringing race into a gender issue. TRP isn't about race, it's about gender. All Women Are Like That. Indian women are no different than American women on a genetic level. Only the social constructs are different.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 05:44 AM
2

This is a loaded question that masks your underlying feelings. You are asking a question but really there is something inside you that wants to come out. You are either hurt or angry. What are you feeling?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 05:41 AM
1

Dude, it's easy. You go out, and game other girls and generate attraction in them. Just don't go for the close.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 11:21 PM
1

Where are you going to bang her?
/r/askTRP13/06/17 10:44 PM
1

Again, YOU'RE 16! SMV Chart Most girls your age want to bang dudes at least 2 to 5 years older than you. Plus at your age, the only things that girls are interested in are good looks and ripped abs. It could be the simple fact that your SMV is still too low for the girls you are going after. Why should they go after you, when they can go after an 18 or 20 year old dude with big muscles, ripped abs, a car, his own place, and a larger social circle than you. How many of the girls you've opened hav…
/r/askTRP13/06/17 10:25 PM
1

How are you judging success?
/r/askTRP13/06/17 10:13 PM
1

Okay so what's the problem then? Why are you asking this question?
/r/askTRP13/06/17 10:12 PM
4

The premise behind your entire question is so flawed, I don't even know how to begin to even answer this.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 10:09 PM
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Dude, you're 16. Your SMV isn't high enough yet to make serious daygame progress. Start out with a goal of talking to 5 new women a week. Not seduce, talk. Talk to girls, milfs, grandmas whatever. When you've talked to 5 women a week for 2 months, then come back and we can talk about how you did and what the next steps are.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 10:01 PM
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I applaud the mods and ECs for their example of setting boundaries and guiding the community in a positive, masculine way. For the learning impaired, this video that concisely explains what just went down here in TRP: San Diego Zoo
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 07:24 PM
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Taking care of your health is supremely important, so good luck with that. However, there's one thing I can guarantee: One day, no matter how you dress up, it won't generate any increased male attention. So make sure that is really what you want. A beautiful woman dies twice.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/17 02:53 AM
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There is a lot going on in your post. Why do you conflate femininity and appearing vulnerable? There is a biological reason why long hair and 70% waist-to-hip ratio is universally attractive to men. There is nothing 'vulnerable' about those statistics. Also, there is a difference between "feminine" and "slutty". Feminine and classy will never go out of style. It sounds like there is a 'should' in your thought patterns somewhere. The health issues you are experiencing most likely are due to stres…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 11:39 PM
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Exactly. These aren't statements that are made by a captain who is leading his troops for the benefit of all. He isn't guiding his co-pilot to be the best version of herself. If this guy were in combat, he would be fragged by his own troops. The thing to understand about NPD is they suffer from crippling low self-esteem. When you view his alleged statements in this context, it screams NPD.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 08:35 PM
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It's okay to be distraught. But you gotta realize that, and don't seek mothering in a men's forum. Talk to your best buds, get your head straight, start reading all the sidebar and then come back with some real questions about specific roadblocks you are having trouble overcoming. You need to provide evidence that you are trying before men will be willing to help. Example: "I've read the sidebar, I've been lifting for X months, I've been approaching 5 women a week for Y months, and I'm having Z …
/r/askTRP12/06/17 07:04 PM
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Everyone that has replied in this thread has got it wrong. Those alleged statements by him scream narcissism. OP, please read up on narcissism and see if the behavioral descriptions match his personality.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 06:54 PM
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Dude, your questions don't even merit a response. The information is there in the sidebar, and the success stories are all over the place. The fact that TRP has 200k+ subscribers must tell you something. Come back when you are ready to have a real dialog with real questions.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 06:43 PM
3

Exactly. He's acting like someone on the spectrum, instead of reading the social cues and playing the game.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 06:35 PM
2

Bullshit. But if that's the story you want to tell yourself, best of luck with that. In other words, what you're saying is that you have less opportunity, and less will to succeed than the ugliest man in uganda who just fathered his 8th child.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 06:31 PM
3

Cool. If you get your actual question figured out, PM me and I'll try to help.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 06:10 PM
7

Dude, if she's asking for her stuff, and she doesn't want to come over and get it, she's done with you. Get over it.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 06:08 PM
3

That's fine, if that's your deal. You just need to understand what you're buying. But why not work up to improving your game and improving yourself to the point where women desire you? A woman's desire is the sweetest fruit of all.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 06:06 PM
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There is no way I'm going to read through all that. I respect the fact that that you are in emotional turmoil, but you need to get yourself sorted out to the point where you can ask a concise question.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 05:59 PM
3

Here's the thing. You can certainly buy pussy. But don't expect a girlfriend experience. You can't buy desire. You can only buy simulated desire. And simulated desire is short-lived at best. At the end of the day, a woman can't deny her base desires. She can only fake it for so long. So she'll start trying to talk you out of sex, yet still getting the benefit of your money.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 05:56 PM
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No worries. We've all been there, brother. The bluepill programming takes years to unwind, and years longer to rebuild your life into something you want. A man cannot remake himself without suffering, for he is both the marble, and the sculptor.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 05:47 PM
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Option 1: Tell your buddy, that you only want to hang out with him when she's not around, because you don't get along with her. Tell him that you respect him enough to tell him this because you don't want to cause drama when she is there, but you have your standards as well. Option 2: Stop being so high-and-mighty. So she's a basic bitch. So what? When she asks you stuff, be vague, evasive, and disinterested. Then have good times with your bud and just tolerate her behavior. I guarantee you ther…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 05:24 PM
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She may have some hangups that are preventing her from connecting with her body: * She was molested in some way * She feels guilt or shame about enjoying sex or her body * She has body-image issues * She's young and inexperienced You can try different things to try to help her, but ultimately healing those issues is up to her. And she may never get over it. It really depends on if her body trusts you or not. If her body trusts you, then you can do things to help her through this. If her body doe…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 05:15 PM
1

You are either in the "Denial" or "Bargaining" phase. You need to understand how women love. Men are the true romantics. Women just aren't built that way. Once you internalize that, you will get to the "Acceptance" phase. You can still love women, and have companionship in an LTR, but the love will manifest itself in a different way than what you wish or dream of. Women are not loyal, and have no sense of honor. They are ruthless, cunning, and manipulative. Because they HAVE to be to ensure thei…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 04:52 PM
1

I find that there are two kinds of spiritual crises. Physical-spiritual, and Mental-spiritual. I suggest trying the physical-spiritual route first. Men's bodies periodically need adventure and adrenaline to feel alive. Try some sort of challenging and scary physical activity. White-water rafting, rappelling, sky-diving, mixed-martial arts. Something like that. Take rappelling, for example. I guarantee that when you hang off the edge of a vertical rock face, with nothing holding you but a rope, y…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 04:25 PM
1

Okay first off, what you are feeling is normal. Your whole worldview has changed, and you're kind of at a loss. This is going to be a process and it will take some time, most likely years, to find your way in the world. However, in the end, only you can answer this question of what your priorities are. There are 3 big pieces to this: * Where you live * What you do to earn money * What you do when you aren't working I suggest dealing with the first one first. Are you living in a place where you e…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 03:34 PM
1

You want the hot girls, but you don't want to change to be something the hot girls want. You have to choose one or the other. Period. There is one possibility though: If you have the talent to become some type of celebrity, then even the hot girls will find your weirdness acceptable.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 03:16 PM
5

How would you train a dog not to piss on your floor? Train her the same way. First, you have to deal with it in the moment. When she gets bitchy, you need to call her out on it right then, but in a calm, but solid frame way. And you have to be ready to walk out on her, if she doesn't eventually comply. Tom Cruise Squirted Watch how Tom calls this guy out. That is how you want to be. I would say something like this: "I don't know what is going on in your life that makes you this way, but when you…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 03:09 PM
1

There is really no question in your question. Which means that you don't fully understand what the problem is, only that you aren't happy. I suggest thinking more about what your question really is.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 02:42 PM
1

Give her a week or two after she arrives to get settled. Then hit her up. "I'm going to be doing X at Y time. Meet me there if you want to catch up."
/r/askTRP12/06/17 02:31 PM
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Knowing that is half the battle. Now that you know that, you can watch yourself, and when you start behaving this way you can put a stop to it. I also recommend digging deeper. Try to figure out why you don't feel like an awesome person all on your own. The goal is to get rid of all that emotional garbage so you can become internally validated. That means you don't need the approval of other people in order to feel good about yourself. tl;dr: If you don't even love yourself, how can you expect a…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 02:29 PM
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Dude, why are you even asking this? Things that you want to do for fun is something that should come from inside you. Only you can say how you should enjoy life. Edit: The question you should be asking yourself is, why is being alone such a chore, and why do you feel you need to ask advice about what you should think is fun?
/r/askTRP10/06/17 10:47 PM
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My point is, if you had another girl, this wouldn't be an issue for you. You wouldn't be asking this question. You'd bang the other girl more, and then when the first one dropped off, you'd go get another one. Have at least 2 on hand at any time. I currently have 2 plates, and I see them alternating weekends. I have two relationships with two different girls, and by the time I'm tired of one at the end of the weekend, I'm ready to see the other one. Keeps things fresh.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 10:32 PM
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At 19, why aren't you spinning multiple plates?
/r/askTRP10/06/17 10:26 PM
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You're putting the cart before the horse. Why don't you worry about this AFTER she's actually moved down and you are banging her regularly. Women's buying temperature can change within hours. To keep that going for a month, you've got to be something she can't get elsewhere and your game must be spot on.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 10:25 PM
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You're making yourself crazy. Do whatever the hell you want. If you want quality guys in your life, you have to go out and meet them and make friends.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 10:21 PM
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Maybe you're gay. Maybe you are using getting girls for external validation instead of internal validation. Maybe you've had emotional trauma in your younger years and you are trying to find salvation at the bottom of a pussy.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 10:14 PM
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Notice how you found excuses for why Patrice has Von. Notice how you didn't mention anything about the fact that the ugliest man in Uganda has been married twice and has 6 kids. I can guarantee you that you are more attractive than him. I'm 5' 6" and I've had no shortage of pussy in my life. I'm spinning 2 plates right now, because I don't have time for a 3rd. If you find excuses why something won't work, then your predictions will always come true. You are your own worst enemy. Edit: Damn, maki…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 08:29 PM
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First of all, don't think about "This situation". You need to approach this from a wider view. She should be a guest in your life. And if you're out doing awesome and fun things and have an engaging social life, she will be happy. When she does something you don't like, you discipline her. Don't yell, or get angry, just tell her the way it is, and if she doesn't like it, she can leave. Be the man. Pure and simple. This will take a while to learn, and you will fuck up at first. Look at this: Stre…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 08:18 PM
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Ok. That's important. While I get my weight sorted out I can do that. In fact, since I'm often at the gym I can start then when it comes to talking. NO! That is a BS excuse. Approach now! Look at Patrice O'Neal he was a fat motherfucker and his woman was an 8 or 9. Patrice and Von THIS MAN IS MARRIED. He's been married twice and has 6 kids. Stop with the excuses. Yes, I have to be less awkward socially and have to fit in. Cutting the video games would be really helpful if I want to get anywhere …
/r/askTRP10/06/17 08:07 PM
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Dude, only one person can run the relationship. And that HAS to be you. Look at the power dynamic in your relationship. From what little I know, you are afraid of hurting/offending/confronting her. She's got you wrapped around her little finger. It is SHE who should be scared that you can go out and find another girl. Women behave best when they know their man can pull another girl the same night. She's pulling you into her frame. And as soon as she does, she's going to leave you for someone tha…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 07:58 PM
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Did you even read what you wrote? So what you're saying is that her opinion of you is more important than your opinion of yourself. And that you don't want to change and grow as a man because you can't deal with her challenging you.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 07:50 PM
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That would be very unnatural for me. Like not necessarily women, but talking to people randomly, lol. Obviously them being female would be worse. But I see where you're going and I think I should follow it. This will be your stumbling block and you MUST get over it. I guarantee that you will come off as creepy and weird approaching girls when you have this kind of fear. Now that you've said that, I recommend approaching both guys and girls and just talk to them about whatever. You've got to lear…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 07:44 PM
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Hahahahahah, see! Let her be mad. Or better yet, jokingly deflect. She's trying to drive the relationship and you can't let her. That was a deliberate wheel-grab. Some answers when she says "I Love You": Awww, thanks cutie pie. I know. Mmmmmmmmm. I love me too. You should. I'm an awesome dude. Edit: If she directly confronts you, like getting in your face mad saying "You never say you love me!" Then reply: Why should I love you, just because you love me because I'm awesome?
/r/askTRP10/06/17 07:33 PM
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Who is running this relationship, you or her? Look at this from the perspective as a battle for setting the frame of the relationship. The answer will jump out at you.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 07:26 PM
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You are making the quintessential rookie mistake. The unspoken fear in your question is that you fear failure and want to be successful in your approach. Get over it. Approach 5 women a week. Not to seduce, but to just talk. Talk to grandmas, milfs, girls your age, it doesn't matter. Talk about the weather, the local sports team, other people in the checkout line, etc. Get comfortable talking to women. Better still if you can joke with them and get them to laugh. Because I can guarantee you this…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 07:22 PM
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It's so funny you should mention this. For I too have recently reached the "adorable little liars" phase. Albeit, it is much easier to celebrate that behavior when the girls are cute and feminine. I think it is a combination of how I see my own value in relation to the value of women, coupled with abundance mentality, and topped off with no expectations about honorable behavior. It's almost as if I'm their father figure or something. I can love them for what they are without expecting anything i…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 02:12 PM
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I don't think Nash's equilibrium applies to dating. Attraction is not a choice. Attraction is not fungible. People don't make mating choices by what is on the market. They swipe right or left based on the attractiveness of the photo. Period. Do the thought experiment using food instead of dating. 5 people are looking at plates of food. Steak Seafood Excrement Live grubs Roadkill Most people in an non-starvation setting would not choose the plates of excrement, live grubs or roadkill.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 10:45 PM
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Taking a look at the current situation you should be looking for degrees that are necessary, fairly low-tech, and haven't been crushed by the insurance industry. Maybe Dentistry, Veterinarian, Endocrinologist, Ophthalmologist. As far as the emergency funds go. You have to look no further than Hurricane Katrina, Hurricane Sandy, Venezuela, Cypress. Yes, cash value drops with inflation. But it is insurance, not an investment. If the systems are down or a banking holiday is declared, you need acces…
/r/askTRP01/06/17 10:09 PM
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There is no such thing as a sure thing. You have to do what every other living thing does on the planet. Play the hand you were dealt to the best of your abilities. The rest is out of your control. Security is mostly a superstition. It does not exist in nature, nor do the children of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing. -- Helen Keller
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/17 10:01 PM
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Possible motivations: She wanted a temporary breakup to bang another dude. She broke up with you to see if you'd beg to have her back. One of her girlfriends talked her into it. Her other girlfriends were doing it and she wanted to be like them. She was PMSing and lashing out. She's got commitment issues. There are a million reasons. Bottom line, go no contact and move on. If you were doing as TRP suggests and are spinning multiple plates, then you wouldn't even be asking this question. It would…
/r/askTRP01/06/17 09:54 PM
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Understand that global economic growth is over. The global economy will be contracting for the foreseeable future. Get out of debt, and stay out of debt. Do not buy something unless you can afford to pay for it with cash. If you have credit cards, pay them off every month. Set up an emergency fund of at least 3 to 6 months of living expenses, in cash, outside of the banking system (not in a bank, mutual fund, CDs, or a safe deposit box). Most college degrees aren't worth the money. Consider lear…
/r/askTRP19/05/17 11:42 PM
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Men's love is sacrificial. We exchange our resources and protection for a woman's chastity, industry and devotion. It is an exchange. If you want the support and protection of a man, you must be worthy of his sacrifice. And when I say worthy, I mean worthy in the eyes of the man. Every man gets to name his own price for his resources and protection. It's up to you to accept or reject his terms. tl;dr - If you want a support system, you must have something of value to exchange for that support. F…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 05:00 AM
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We train other people how to treat us. If you want to continue a relationship with him, but need him to stop the zingers, you can either train him covertly as u/seattleron suggests, or overtly as I suggest. I prefer the overt method with men. Watch how Tom Cruise holds superior frame in this video. Tom Cruise Squirted He doesn't get angry, he just calls out the other guy on his bullshit. So saying something like: "Dad I really don't like the zingers. So if you want to hang out, that's great. But…
/r/askTRP15/05/17 07:22 PM
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I'm proposing a refinement/addition to the "Right now I feel like" prefix. When a woman is speaking about her emotions, we all know to mentally prefix all of her statements with "Right now I feel like..." Example: Right now I feel like I will love you forever That works for emotions. However when dealing with alleged facts, we need to use a different prefix. So whenever a woman is speaking about facts, you should mentally prepend a different prefix" "I want you to believe that" Examples: I want …
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 08:23 PM
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The ugliest man in Uganda agrees with u/redpillschool Ugliest man in Uganda fathers baby girl The man has money and frame. I told her that I didn’t choose to look the way I do and that if she feels I am a burden, she is free to live me
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 04:51 PM
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Periodically I try to get mildly irate at something she wants to do. Like have me go to a social event or something. "NO. I'm not going to that stupid event! And that's final!" It gives her something to push against. Or she'll be talking to me on the phone and try to start a girl conversation or try to influence me about something. Then I'll go "This conversation, is over." And hang up the phone on her. Basically, if she pushes on me for something she wants, instead of being stoic all the time a…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 07:23 PM
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I cannot over-stress the importance of an emergency fund. I got laid off in the dot-com bust, and fortunately I had enough funds to live for over a year. And it turns out, I needed every penny. There is a difference between getting fired and getting laid-off. Layoffs happen in a contracting economy, which makes the job-search that much more difficult as you are competing with all the other people without jobs. And for the love of all that is holy, get out of debt. Debt is slavery. You will reall…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 07:04 PM
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I'm choosing not to answer because I don't advocate using people.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 02:39 AM
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It will be a good test. If you offer to get her an uber, and she still declines, then you know she isn't serious.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 02:35 AM
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I would wait until the end of next week. Then I would send her a text: "Hey, I'm going to be at X place at Y time. Come on by." Then if she doesn't invest in trying to make something happen, I would next her. By investing I mean either agreeing to that time/place, or making firm plans for another time in the next 3 days.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 02:28 AM
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Let's be clear here. It's not unpredictability per se, it is the emotion that women get with unpredictable men. What women want is a range of emotion. They want to be all over the map. They need drama. A woman would rather be beat to death, than bored to death. So periodically you have to manufacture some drama. There are a zillion ways to do this.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 02:06 AM
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Dominance is about frame. Yes, it is a contest. And they are testing you to see if you can hold frame. Just like a shit-test. Now you can hold frame in many different ways. You don't have to get into a chest-pounding shouting match. But you can still exert a dominant frame. Pure example of dominant frame, without violence Tom Cruise dominant frame without violence
/r/askTRP04/02/17 01:52 AM
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Realize that fear is just an opportunity for growth. The only way to push through fear is to push through it. If you constantly fail to follow through, you might have to engineer situations to overcome that. For example, if you are going out and approaching girls, consider getting a wingman who will force you to do it when you bail at the last minute. Same thing with the gym. Go with a guy who is serious and will get in your face if you bail. You will ALWAYS feel fear or anxiety when pushing pas…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 01:37 AM
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You don't reply. To any communications. Ever.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:36 AM
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Really, it's just a cold sore. Nothing more. The problem is the social stigma associated with it. It's not the 'most likely' though Chlamydia is far more prevalent. STI Trends
/r/askTRP02/02/17 03:38 PM
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Yep. Or, she may have it and not even know it. Other than abstinence, there is no 100% way to be safe. Welcome to life.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 03:17 PM
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This is correct. Herpes is transmitted by skin-to-skin contact at the site of the outbreak. If the outbreak is in an area that is not isolated by the condom, say in the pubic area, then infection can occur. Also oral-to-genital and vice-versa is also possible. Example: If you get a bareback bj from someone with a cold sore.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 03:15 PM
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In theory, 'No means No' is a valid premise. The problems with it are twofold: In the real world, women say no when they mean yes as a shit-test and because they want to be taken by a superior male. Women can twist it in to regret-rape and the world will believe them. If you get a 'no', and you're not perceptive enough to know which kind of 'no' it is, then probably the safest course of action is to do a pressure-flip. Stop everything right there, leave the room, and go watch tv or do something …
/r/askTRP02/02/17 03:01 PM
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Most likely. The issue is that some people have asymptomatic viral shedding. Which means the virus is active, but there are no symptoms. So just because they don't have symptoms doesn't mean you're 100% safe. Ever seen someone with a 'cold sore'? That is herpes. Honestly, the worst thing about herpes is the social stigma attached to it. It's just a skin condition.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 02:53 PM
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Exactly my point. (4chan meme reference) Your post was hard to understand. Can you state your question in one sentence?
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:25 AM
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See sidebar. "There's this one girl..."
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:23 AM
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Congratulations. You have achieved abundance. And it took three years. I think you are confusing what you see in posts, vs what TRP philosophy is. TRP has always espoused the notion, that abundant pussy is the result of a life well-lived, not the goal. However, the only way to get abundance is to have abundance. So the focus for all the newbies up front is on smashing it. Eventually they will get to where you are now.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:23 AM
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Has anyone really been far as decided to use even go want to do look more like?
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:12 AM
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Are you sure it's a shit-test and not a comfort-test? Regardless if you want to soft-next, then go no-contact for a couple of days. At least 2, maybe 3. When you want to re-establish contact, act like nothing happened. "Hey sexy come over tonight at 8:00". Be prepared to deflect some more shit-tests.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:10 AM
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My statistics were off slightly. 16% not 20% There could be a million reasons why she is asking you to get tested. She might be projecting, where she's sleeping around and fears you are doing the same. Bottom line, now is the time to have some realtalk with her about her motivations for asking you. If she is asking you to get tested, then it is only fair that she gets tested as well. Both do it together. If she is unwilling, then that is a huge red flag. I have dated girls with herpes and never …
/r/askTRP02/02/17 05:50 AM
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At least 20%, possibly more of the population in the U.S. has some form of herpes. Ever see 10 girls together in a group? At least 2 of them have herpes.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 05:35 AM
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No way to know. But double-checking if you are "still on" does not demonstrate abundance mentality. And remember, the medium is the message. Since she hasn't responded, there's a high percentage chance she will flake on you. There is always the chance of miscommunication, so assuming she hasn't lost her phone, or got hit by a bus, or her service got shut off because she hasn't paid, or a million other things, the non-confirmation is communicating with her actions is that you aren't that importan…
/r/askTRP02/02/17 05:30 AM
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It's really easy. In your mind, just add "Right now, I feel like ..." before anything a woman ever says. Then everything a woman says will make sense and will be believable within that context.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 05:20 AM
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Okay they are probably picking up on that fear. Also they are probably reading your body language and you aren't sending signals that you are comfortable with the situation. That's what you have to work on. Getting comfortable with physical contact. Try this for starters: "Hey, nice nails! Let me see." and then reach out your hand to indicate she should put her hand in yours so you can admire her nails more closely.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 04:02 AM
2

Are you escalating physically? Touching her hands, forearms, shoulders?
/r/askTRP02/02/17 03:29 AM
2

Day game is good. Slower paced gives you more time to practice. Sound's like you aren't correctly reading her buying temperature. What kind of IOIs are you getting?
/r/askTRP02/02/17 02:59 AM
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God no. Meet her in person somewhere. Start spitting game and doing kino. Expect shit-tests and deal with them. Keep escalating. If she is receptive, bounce back to your place and nail her.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 02:48 AM
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Okay, either your SMV is too low or your game is off. Also, one month's time is nothing. Chances are you are expecting too much. How do you go for the close?
/r/askTRP02/02/17 02:44 AM
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'never gotten any interest' meaning "they don't stop me on the street and want to give me a bj"? Or 'never gotten any interest' meaning "I'm approaching at least 5 girls a week and I can't close"?
/r/askTRP02/02/17 01:45 AM
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The only way to tell for sure is to escalate. Then you will know.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 01:40 AM
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It depends on lots of variables. How many times you've banged her, if you're considering making into an LTR, if this is the first time she's asked it, etc. If it's a brand new plate, and the first time she asked, try cocky-funny: "I'm looking for a girl that's into anal. And folding my laundry. Actually, I'm looking for a girl who will fold my laundry while doing anal." If she keeps pressing you for an answer and you want to keep her around: "I'm looking for someone I can connect with, and see w…
/r/askTRP02/02/17 01:34 AM
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The real issue isn't the girl or the plates. The real issue is you don't know what you want and don't have a clear direction.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 07:56 PM
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Well, your response comes across as cop-out. It comes across that you don't want to make the hard choices. That you're afraid of something. How did you get from 'do I bang this girl or spin plates' to monk mode and getting a dog?
/r/askTRP01/02/17 07:29 PM
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Respond with: "The little spoon doesn't get to ask questions. Meet me at place X at Y time. Wear something sexy."
/r/askTRP01/02/17 07:19 PM
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You sound like you have integrity, which is a good thing. One way of eliminating the conflict is to let her make the choice: "Look babe, I'm really in to you, and I want to smash that, but I'm not ready to be exclusive, so if you're down with that, then cool." The issue is letting her know what's up, without making her state a verbal preference, because then she would have to admit to herself that she's a ho. So give her some straight talk but don't ask for an answer. Just tell her the way it is…
/r/askTRP01/02/17 07:15 PM
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This guy isn't negative, AND he has frame. You stand to learn a lot from him: ‘I told her that I didn’t choose to look the way I do and that if she feels I am a burden, she is free to leave me’. Ugliest man in Uganda fathers 8th child
/r/askTRP01/02/17 07:02 PM
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Check out this post in TRP: 'Long-Term Relationship Game Theory: A Beginner's Guide to Managing Your Bitches' by u/HumanSockPuppet
/r/askTRP01/02/17 06:58 PM
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You're not serious about wanting to change. You'd rather indulge in your giant pity-fest. Come back when you are serious.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 08:27 AM
1

Evolutionary biology overrides religion. Attraction is not a choice. Questions to ask of yourself: Have you ever seen a 'hot guy' calendar for women? Ever see any dad-bods in it? Why are the books 'Story of O' and '50 Shades of Grey' extremely popular with women audiences? You know that both of those were written by women, right? Ever try fasting for more than 3 days? Going no-fap for more than a week? This girl has a great personality! You should marry her!
/r/askTRP01/02/17 08:12 AM
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To me, this comes across as playing the victim.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 07:44 AM
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Here is two minutes of truth: How Don Draper handles a shit test Yes, it is fiction, but remember, this show has 5 women writers on it. You know what other works of fiction are wildly popular with women? Story of O. 50 Shades of Grey. Gee, I wonder why.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 07:40 AM
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Black Phillip Show
/r/askTRP01/02/17 05:00 AM
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Seriously, your mind is your worst enemy. You are way overthinking this. Forget humans for a second. You're starting from the wrong end. You're trying to be a TRP robot first, then human second. Be a human first, then layer TRP philosophy over the top of that. How would you be with a dog? You'd have a normal range of human emotions and expressions. You would care for it and feed it and play with it and engage it on it's level. And when it tested you or got out of line, you would hold frame and d…
/r/askTRP01/02/17 04:50 AM
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First, A big dick doesn't mean good sex. This is what you are doing. You're doing reverse-projection. You are imagining that other men with big dicks would be manlier, because you would feel manlier if you had a big dick. Bottom line, wishing is not going to help. You will have to reprogram your mind. What if you got into a horrible car accident and were paralyzed from the waist down? And you were married. I'd bet you'd figure out how to pleasure your wife without a dick. You are focusing on the…
/r/askTRP01/02/17 04:33 AM
1

How would you treat a child or a dog in your household? Engage them at their level, and pull them up short when they misbehave. Do not argue with them, and do not negotiate.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 04:24 AM
1

What do YOU think a high-value man with plenty of options would do if a woman was making him low priority?
/r/askTRP01/02/17 04:20 AM
1

You haven't stated your goal clearly enough that a good answer can be given. What are you trying to accomplish? I can see at least 2 different conflicting goals in your post.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 04:19 AM
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Well the first place to start with, is why aren't you happy? It sounds like you are tying to think yourself into being happy. That will work about as well trying to will yourself into having a hardon. Happiness is a state of being, just like arousal.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 04:14 AM
1

Well it does depend on the venue. Fishing on a large boat with a lot of other fishermen, for example. But if it's just you and another dude, at least you can keep it to fishing. Discuss the equipment, techniques, recommendations, fishing holes, etc. It can be a safe, technical discussion without having to feel the pressure to charm or entertain.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 04:07 AM
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A violent reaction like that, means your SMV is way to low to be generating attraction in a girl like that. A normal shit-test would be something bitchy, but less vicious. The take-home is stop worrying about how to handle such a vicious rejection and go raise your SMV. Then when you start getting normal shit-tests, do the normal agree and amplify, disagree and amplify, etc.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 02:07 AM
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Okay so the good thing about dudes, is they aren't as chatty as chicks. So long as you're chilling and doing something together, there isn't always lot of talk, so you don't have to be nervous about that. Guys will be focused on the activity itself. My recommendation is to start doing activities that don't require a lot of talking at first. Something you do together with other dudes. Fishing, shooting, sports, lift weights, go karts. That way you'll get used to the interaction without feeling li…
/r/askTRP01/02/17 12:49 AM
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Who cares if it is normal or not? The question is, do you want to change it?
/r/askTRP01/02/17 12:27 AM
2

Demonstrate abundance, then soft-next.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:57 PM
1

Hahahaha, Game. Set. Match. Seriously. It's like playing whack-a-mole in here.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:39 PM
1

Not sure if you're asking the right question. Especially if you've heard this one before. She is putting you directly in the friend-zone, and telling it to your face. The problem is not how to shut her down, and the problem is not with the girl. The problem is with you. You aren't generating enough attraction in her. The question you should be asking is, what do I need to change about myself to prevent girls from perceiving me as a provider (beta)?
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:35 PM
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I just usually ignore stuff like this. Or I send them birthday cat. They usually get over it, and then send me something else. Birthday Cat Game Or even more Birthday Cat game Alpha Male Text Response However, if they keep pressing, and won't let go AND it is a girl that I want to keep around for a while, then I have to train them: Me: "It's one of my rules that I don't discuss politics or gender issues with girls." Then they might try to argue about one of my rules. Then it goes something like …
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:24 PM
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Whatever it is, it has to be YOUR frame. How are you feeling in the moment? Some suggestions: "8=======D" or "Come on over Thursday night and bring the movies/food/wine/beer" or Birthday Cat Game or Simply ignore it. You don't have to answer every text that some girl sends you. Remember, you are busy being awesome. Edit: Or even more Birthday Cat game Another Edit: Alpha Male Text Response
/r/askTRP31/01/17 10:48 PM
2

Search for the excellent field report 'Dirty Sheets' by u/RedPope
/r/askTRP31/01/17 09:05 PM
2

No worries Bro. It is a long, long journey out of darkness and into the light. Just keep at it. You have to be persistent and dedicated. You're undoing years of programming, which takes a while.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 07:06 PM
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Definitely get out of debt and stay out of debt. Debt is slavery. Especially in a contracting economy. So once you have your financial feet under you, and are managing your finances responsibly, then if it is going to be a better environment for you, then in my opinion it's worth additional money to maintain your independence from coworkers and not live with slobs either. You can't take it with you when you die.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 06:48 PM
2

My point is this: You need to learn that YOU are the point of origin. Right now, you're arguing with reality. You are getting pressure from your girl to do a traditional Valentines yet you don't want to spend the cash for whatever reason. Which is FINE if you don't want to spend the money. So you get to set the rules. "Guess what, hon. We're doing non-traditional Valentine's this year. We're going to this park and have a picnic and fly kites and do cartwheels." Or whatever you have planned. Go s…
/r/askTRP31/01/17 06:42 PM
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Don't get me wrong, I'm not celibate. I'm just saying that I am having trouble finding a woman worthy of my investment in an LTR.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 06:35 PM
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People say it doesn't last from simple observation. I believe this is due to the simple fact is that people's brains and personalities are still forming at that age. They are not complete persons yet. Especially the men.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 06:24 PM
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There's a lot to untangle there. Maybe you don't mean it this way, but to me you're coming across as a mooch. I'm not sensing the thrust of masculinity here. Your motives are unclear. Why do you feel the need to make her pay? In my opinion, getting a woman to pay for her own valentines is an odd dynamic, and I can't imagine how that could ever be successful.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 06:22 PM
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You don't have to say anything. You don't need to explain yourself. Let your actions speak for you. What's wrong with "Okay well, I gotta go. Talk to you later." You're not stomping off. You've made a decision and now you are acting on it. It's all about your frame. What you will and won't put up with.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 06:15 PM
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Ah, thanks for the clarification. Yes, I'm at that point too. Actually I'm past it right now. I am having trouble in seeing the value of having ANY woman around. It's all about return on investment and I'm finding it hard to find a woman worthy of my investment.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 06:12 PM
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You missed the point. Usually when people ask questions, they are emotionally invested in the answer. Seriously, are you taking a survey or something? What is going on in your life to even make you ask this question?
/r/askTRP31/01/17 06:09 PM
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Dude. You're the man. Live your life as YOU choose, not for others. If you want an LTR, go get an LTR. But you better know how to manage that woman long-term. You need to realize that you NEVER get to put down your sword when you come home.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 06:04 PM
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You need to tread very carefully. Is it an innocent request or is it a battle for frame? Let's deconstruct AFPJ's answer. He is giving her what she asked for, but on his own terms. i.e his own frame. And he is re-establishing his place as the leader in the power dynamic. You need to understand that this is the camel's nose under the tent. It all starts like this. First poems, then she wants nice gifts. Then she wants you to stop lifting and spend more time with her. And then once she has gotten …
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:59 PM
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Seconded. OP: It's not what you say, it's how you say it. What do you think a thug that just got out of prison would say? Do you think he would even ask this question? Or would he grab her hair, tell her to open her mouth, and then shove his dick in her mouth, and say 'Suck it, bitch.' OP: What you really need to understand is how you come across even asking the question the way you did. Even the most casual observer can tell you aren't exhibiting masculine characteristics.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:47 PM
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Scarcity Mentality. You should have several girls in the pipeline, and you should be seeing more than 1 girl at once.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:40 PM
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Speaking of saving money. Do you even have an emergency fund? You need to have at least 3 to 6 months of cash on-hand in case of emergencies. Preferably outside of the banking system. Having said that, How much is your personal comfort worth?
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:37 PM
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The appropriate question is: Why do you even care if they last or not?
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:22 PM
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Why do you care what her friends think? In my opinion, let her reward you with the risque gifs. Then if she does, you can reward her. Sparingly. Like a bag of Skittles. You need to think about being more of a Skittles Man
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:17 PM
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Why do you feel the need to keep your text-game fresh? I don't text my LTR. In my opinion, texting is for logistics only. Personally, I don't have enough time in my day running several businesses to be finger-fucking my phone. My guess is, either you fear you are going to lose her, or you want her to boost your ego.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:12 PM
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Failboat. She picked the 'no sex' frame and you hung around like a hungry frustrated chump. What was preventing you from getting up and leaving and going to find/meet another girl when she said she "didn't feel like it"? Edit: If you look at this situation as a battle for frame, the answer pops right out at you.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:07 PM
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No, the best thing to do is to learn to read women and know when it is some sort of test. Women are attracted to savvy men. Pick any world-class fighter. Did they only know one punch?
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:01 PM
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Seconded. She wants to bang another dude. This is why you should ALWAYS be working new leads and have women in the pipeline. Plus some active plates as well.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:58 PM
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Why do you need to do anything with her for Valentines day at all? Who's frame is it anyway in this relationship? Yours or hers? Edit: Also, Has she even earned something special?
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:54 PM
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Example of trauma stored in the body
/r/askTRP29/01/17 03:25 PM
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What do you imagine would happen if you said the wrong thing?
/r/askTRP28/01/17 12:53 AM
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The way I look at it, there are two distinct issues: What this guy can or might do to fuck up your life. How to deal with the anxiety that this situation causes. Your response to this all depends on how butthurt and unstable the guy is. In other words, do a risk assessment on item 1. If he is, in fact, all talk, then item 2 is easy. Just ignore him and realize that you will have to deal with an occasional temper tantrum. Possibly shaming you on facebook. Maintain frame, and never defend your act…
/r/askTRP26/01/17 03:00 PM
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Personally, I think you're asking the wrong question. You're are in a reactive mode with this woman. The question you should be asking is "What do I want to happen?"
/r/askTRP24/01/17 11:30 PM
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Not sure what you mean by "what happens". It's all about making a connection with the other person. So when you ask those questions, be genuinely interested in their answer. Listen to their answer. Figure out what the attributes of the cookie they are ascribing to themselves. For example, they may say 'chocolate chip, because everyone likes them' . Then you mirror them 'Interesting. I can see how you would be a chocolate chip cookie, because everyone likes to be around you' or whatever observati…
/r/askTRP24/01/17 11:19 PM
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Okay so first thing is the notion of 'fixing' your life. Life is a journey. Life is what happens when you are making plans. So the question is, what do you want your life to look like? Then start doing the things that will take you in that direction. Do you know if you are an introvert or an extrovert? (Are you energized when you are alone or surrounded by people?) Select a job that fits your strengths. Extrovert: Sales, bartending, telemarketer, etc. Introvert: Computers and programming, trades…
/r/askTRP24/01/17 11:04 PM
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Wow. I'm impressed. Good job. I disagree with that approach. The basic dynamic between men and women is predator -> prey. The men pursue the women and the women respond. Look at every trashy novel. They are written that way for a reason. Because women respond to that. It's always the man pursuing the women. My recommendation for you would be to get better at approaching. In the words of Beige Phillip, you gotta lay the 5 bricks. Meaning, go out and just talk to 5 women a week. Not to seduce, jus…
/r/askTRP24/01/17 10:48 PM
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You've got to offset your looks with other attributes that women find attractive. Social proof. Power. Charisma. Fit body. Wealth. Being well groomed. Will you ever be able to compete with underwear models on Tinder? No way. But you can do well in your own arena.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 10:37 PM
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Why are you asking this question? Why do you care what the answer is?
/r/askTRP24/01/17 10:28 PM
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Because you've put absolutely no effort into even mentioning the information in that long-ass post that you are interested in discussing. Nor have you addressed what's going on in your life and why that post is important to you. You want us to do all the work for you. The only possible answer to your question is something like: "I thought parts of it were okay."
/r/askTRP24/01/17 10:26 PM
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Well the first thing to address is your ability to be playful. That comes from within. So if you have a tough time letting go and being silly on your own, that will hold you back. Fortunately children have no problems being silly so you can stir them up and then join in. Having said that, it's quite simple. Engage their imagination, and tease them. Use the old classics: Declare a thumb war Do the old 'come here and pull my finger', then fart when they do. The old "What were you eating under ther…
/r/askTRP24/01/17 10:01 PM
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Good luck pal, you're going to need it.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 05:29 AM
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If you had to entertain your niece (13 year old girl) What would you do? Make fun of her. Declare a thumb war. Challenge her to Mario Kart. Critique what other girls are wearing. Accuse her of wearing hair extensions. Tell her her nails look cute... are they fake? Ask her about the girl she hates the most. Then say "hey that kinda sounds like you".
/r/askTRP24/01/17 05:27 AM
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So let me get this straight, just to make sure I understand. You come in to a men's sub, ask advice, and your counter-argument to every piece of advice is something your girl told you. Am I missing anything?
/r/askTRP24/01/17 05:11 AM
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Both. Buy the piano, then fuck the hooker on top of the piano.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 05:08 AM
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God, you really need to read the TRP sidebar. This is a textbook case. She did that for a reason. Because it was fun and exciting. Once she marries you, and betafies you, she'll start cheating on you. Because it's fun and exciting. Then she'll claim that you forced her to do it because of <girl logic>. I sincerely hope you are a troll, because if not, you have learned NOTHING. And you deserve what is coming to you.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 05:03 AM
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Yes you can fix this internally. Realize that: She's not yours, it's just your turn. The plate is already broken. Go out and spin other plates.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 04:59 AM
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This is a battle for frame. If you enter her frame, you lose. Treat like you would a standard fitness test.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 04:56 AM
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If this is a legit post, then she's doing the trickle truth. It rarely is "just once" with a woman.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 04:53 AM
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As to what's normal or not, I can't speak to that. I only am telling you what I see. I could be completely wrong. But what jumped out at me in your original post, was that nothing jumped out at me. So what that means to me is the issue lies elsewhere, and you're going to have to dig for it. I do wish you the best of luck.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 04:44 AM
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This is exactly what I'm talking about. You want to develop a large social circle, without having to go out and develop a large social circle.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 04:40 AM
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Can you not see that you are locked into a circular worldview? You are arguing with reality, and making a lot of unspoken assumptions. You want the world to be the way you want it to be, and you aren't open to trying something new, or even questioning if your assertions are valid. Good luck with that. By the way, the "normal way" of meeting people, is to go out and meet people.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 03:48 AM
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I have personally witnessed it many times. Emotional or physical trauma gets stored in the body, usually in a particular muscle or groups of muscles. And because those muscles are locked or knotted or weak, the posture of the body changes to compensate. The body goes out-of-balance. So when a therapist does bodywork, they discover the imbalance in the body and in the process of correcting the imbalance, the body brings the trauma forward into the conscious mind so it can be processed and release…
/r/askTRP24/01/17 03:38 AM
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It depends on the girl. For one of the ECs in TRP, all he did was make her eggs and toast one morning. Bam. Done. For me, all I had to do was quit my job. Two days later; Bam. Done. Think about your girl. What attributes does she like most about you? What makes you a man in her eyes? Figure that out, and do the exact opposite.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 03:22 AM
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I think that your post is extremely low effort and therefore you haven't earned my effort.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 03:08 AM
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I am not interested in pickup and day game - it's just not me. I also don't do the bar scene. So let me get this straight. You want to meet people, but you don't want to go out and meet people. What exactly do you think day game is?
/r/askTRP24/01/17 03:04 AM
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Man, you've got a lot of noise going on inside your head. It's almost like a bunch of random thoughts and emotions. There is no concrete thread to pursue. You're chasing your tail. Thoughts: Maybe all this mental activity and angst is a smokescreen for something deeper. Something you don't want to remember or feel. Behavioral issues. Maybe you have a real chemical imbalance or cognitive issues. You have a lot of work to do. If item 1 resonates with you, consider getting bodywork done. Reiki, mas…
/r/askTRP24/01/17 03:00 AM
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Go full Beta on her and she will break up with you. Look for constant approval from her. Beg for sex. Cry in front of her.
/r/askTRP24/01/17 02:39 AM
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Okay, you've got a lot going on. It sounds like you're really feeling the loss of your GF. This is normal. It took me a year to get over losing my oneitis. Be with it, and go through the process. You don't have to be passionate about your work. Just bring your passion TO your work. Don't look for ultimate fulfillment in work. That's found with family and friends. Mike Rowe - Don't follow your passion You can absolutely travel the world alone. You've just got to get your mind right. Only you can …
/r/askTRP23/01/17 11:47 PM
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Go for it bro. There are hundreds of thousands of guys waiting to shake your hand when you cross the finish line.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 11:13 PM
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The key word in that sentence is "should". That's a judgement. What "should" you be doing with your life? And who is saying what you "should" be doing?
/r/askTRP23/01/17 11:07 PM
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You bring up a good point. We have an extremely litigious society. On the other hand, isn't that exact sort of coddling that has created the problem with feminized men we have today? Do I have to warn them not to put their hand on a hot stove? When does it stop? There has to be a boundary somewhere. I'll have to think about my position on this issue. However, there are hundreds of different scenarios where talking to a minor is acceptable. Basically anywhere families gather. Parties, corporate g…
/r/askTRP23/01/17 11:04 PM
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That's a good start. But be more specific. What is the story inside your head? Look for the "BECAUSE". I feel like I am insignificant BECAUSE:____________________. Obviously you don't have to answer in public, but you have to keep going deeper. And usually it comes down to some sort of judgement. We are our own harshest critics.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 10:12 PM
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And right here is the critical point in YOUR life. Here is where the rubber meets the road. Your moment of truth. We've clearly identified a single actionable item that you need to work on. Fixing approach anxiety. Are you going to rise to the challenge? Are you going to set the goal of talking to 5 females a week for a month, and actually follow through? This is the defining moment. Are you going to define the moment, or let the moment define you?
/r/askTRP23/01/17 10:03 PM
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Sigh. Do I really need to spell this out? Okay, for the blindingly literal people here, I certainly didn't mean go talk to unaccompanied minors. I meant do not limit your talk to just girls your age. Which is why I used the term 'Female'. It was specifically chosen to indicate to talk to persons of that gender, whom you may or may not consider banging. The concept is to get comfortable talking to the opposite gender, regardless of your sexual attraction to them. Let's say there was a hot single …
/r/askTRP23/01/17 09:24 PM
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This is a really low-effort question. If you have something more specific, I will help. But this question screams entitlement to me. There is evidence all over the web about changes in people's lives. Go read the TRP sidebar and then ask a more specific question.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 07:44 PM
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It can be done. You didn't come out of the womb being a beta. Over many years, you were trained by friends, family, and society to be beta. This means it it will take time to unlearn what you have learned. The real question is WHY you feel beta. You will need to dig in to yourself. What is it that you feel when you say you "feel beta"?
/r/askTRP23/01/17 07:34 PM
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Also you may have approach anxiety. Start with talking to 5 females a week. Not to seduce, but to just talk. Little girls, grandmas, milfs, whatever. Just go and talk to women.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 07:29 PM
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Supermarket checkout counter. Bookstores (good for introverts). Starbucks. Shit, go to the mall, and walk around. Some sales girl will try to sell you body lotion or a cell phone or something. Start gaming her. Or walk in to Hot Topic, and chat up the first girl you see. For example, I was in a drugstore yesterday and saw a girl getting ice cream and a Red Bull. I opened with "Ahh yes! The breakfast of champions!" We both laughed and had a short conversation. I didn't want to close her, because …
/r/askTRP23/01/17 07:20 PM
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It all depends on your personality. I like daygame, because it's more intimate. I get to spend one-on-one time with the girl and get to know her. I have done same-day-lays on daygame, so it's possible. Krauserpua talks about this. Girls who are ovulating will be showing a lot of skin and walking around with a dreamy look in their eyes. Those are the ones you hit on.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 07:11 PM
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Let's do baby steps first. Do a month of approaches to just talk. Once you've completed 20 approaches, then try to get their number. Even if you never follow up. And actually, if you have a lot of approach anxiety, it's even better to go out and approach (not coworkers or classmates) with the intent of crashing and burning. Go out there and actively TRY to fail. Be crass, be rude. Make them laugh, then make a sex joke. However, DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES game coworkers or classmates. Too man…
/r/askTRP23/01/17 07:07 PM
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Bro, you are waaaay overthinking this. Just go out and have a good time. The attitude to have is: I bring the party with me. Wherever I am is where the fun shit is happening. If you show up, and start engaging people and BRING VALUE to their experience, no one will question you. Edit: For introverts, I recommend daygame. Rather than trying to be the life of the party, just go out and meet girls, one on one and get to know them.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 06:57 PM
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Okay so there are several issues here and you need to separate them. How to behave on a college campus: Do what you need to do to get good grades, earn your degree, and get out of there. This is not a political platform for you. Keep your TRP opinions to yourself. You WILL be stuck between Blue and Red for some time. It is a process, and it takes time to remake yourself. Stop thinking of college as your only arena. There is a big wide world out there. Do your practicing there. Let me ask you thi…
/r/askTRP22/01/17 11:05 PM
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There are two things at issue here. Morality and what to do to bang her. Morality wise, TRP is amoral. That one's on you pal. If you want to bang her, than escalate sexually. If she's receptive great. If she's not, next her. Also: 'Friend'? I hope that's shorthand for acquaintance. If it really is 'Friend', then you already know what zone you're in...
/r/askTRP22/01/17 10:50 PM
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Go get a better paying job at another company.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 10:39 PM
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Going RedPill is a process, not a single event. You don't have to go full-on RedPill at the dorm anyway. There is an entire planet full of other places you can practice your skills. It sounds like you are afraid that you are going to lose the 'aww you're such a good boy' pats on the head from the girls that tell you that you're nice, but won't fuck you. The real issue is that you are holding yourself back. And it's probably because of some fear. The question is, what are you afraid of?
/r/askTRP22/01/17 10:36 PM
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Well first of all, you need to distinguish between approach to get laid or approach to talk. Approach to just talk: Approach every woman you see. Young girls, women, grandmas, all of them. Talk, vibe, make them laugh, and then excuse yourself and go about your day. This will help you get over approach anxiety. And actually, you should set a goal of talking to at least 5 females per week. Approach to get laid: No coworkers or classmates. That way lies madness and ruin. No matter what happens, you…
/r/askTRP22/01/17 10:28 PM
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As a rule I don't go to clubs, because in my opinion, girls go to clubs to see and be seen, and to get drinks from guys. And it is a really tough environment because you are in immediate, direct competition with all the other males there. I daygayme exclusively and that's worked very well for me. When you are daygaming, usually you are the only guy approaching her right then, and you can have her full attention if you generate enough attraction. Check out Krauserpua for daygame strategy.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 10:21 PM
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In the end, regardless of what types of relationships you have, it has to be YOUR frame. If you're doing it because that is what is expected of you, then you're entering her frame. Fail. There are too many variables to give a blanket answer, other than whatever it is, it's got to be your frame. Even if that is just going no-contact because none of those bitches have earned something special yet. Personally, I view my spending time with a girl on holidays or special gatherings as a reward for her…
/r/askTRP22/01/17 10:11 PM
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Ahhhhhh, I get it. You're being extremely hard on yourself and telling yourself you're a big faggot pussy because you choked at the last minute. Am I right? If so, why are you holding yourself to such unreasonable standards? How many things have you done in your life where you did it exactly right the first time? Learning to talk? Learning to walk? Learning to ride a bicycle?
/r/askTRP22/01/17 04:01 PM
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It sounds like you want to just go on amazon, and order up the perfect wife. Or that you just don't want to put in the effort. You do understand that the only way to find out if someone is compatible is to meet them, right? Its not 'wasted time'. Its time you spent figuring out if it was a good fit or not. The rewards you receive are in direct proportion to the effort you put in. No other way around it.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 03:49 PM
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First and foremost, you need to understand if entrepreneurship is a good fit for your personality. For most people, starting a business and keeping it running is a daily grind. And when I say grind, I mean grind. Working long hours with no breaks for years at a time. There are no rewards at first. The only thing that keeps you going is your sheer grit and determination to keep going, day after day. If you are up to the challenge, then assess your strengths. What are you best at? Pick the top 3 t…
/r/askTRP22/01/17 03:40 PM
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It all depends on the experience, and what it took to get there. If you work hard and improve yourself and finally bang that girl you find attractive and she is in to you; feels good, man. If you bang the fuggo, or an escort who isn't in to you; feels bad, man. Now if you're really hung up on it, it might be worth it to go to an escort and get it over with, because then you won't have that mental block. But I've heard of guys doing that and it was an underwhelming experience for them. Because th…
/r/askTRP22/01/17 03:30 PM
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There is nothing to reconcile. You need both. Push-pull is the most basic of techniques. Pull: Be confident and express your desire in no uncertain terms. Joke, kid around, build attraction in her. Push: While kidding around there is another hot girl that catches your eye. And you are quite obvious that you are checking her out. And you give no fucks while doing it. However, I would argue that hiding your intentions is not appropriate in this case. That may apply in business but never with women…
/r/askTRP22/01/17 03:19 PM
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You may not completely understand the difference between internal and external validation. It all comes down to who is setting the measure of goodness. Or even more specific, whom you are giving the power over judging whether or not you are "good enough". Examples: Internal validation - I set a personal goal to lift 2x my bodyweight. I worked hard and accomplished my goal. Fuck yeah, I'm awesome. External validation - If I can lift 2x my bodyweight then other people will think I'm awesome. And i…
/r/askTRP22/01/17 03:00 PM
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Bro, I feel your pain. We're all here because of similar situations. Women do ridiculous shit and society never calls them out on their bullshit. I wish you the best of luck. And seriously, if not one of your friends said to leave her, then you need to get new friends. Find some supportive RedPill men. Also, realize that when you start changing yourself and making yourself into a better man, all those Blue Pill friends of yours will try to drag you back in to Blue Pill world. A man cannot remake…
/r/askTRP22/01/17 06:20 AM
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You're welcome. Thanks for your introspection. So if I understand this correctly, there is no issue where you are together physically. Bodies touching, etc. The issue is when you are separated from him and are on display. You are performing and he is watching, yes? If that is the case, then you'll need to delve a little deeper into that dynamic. Try to understand WHY this particular dynamic makes you feel uncomfortable. Do any of these resonate with you? You may feel love through physical touch,…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 05:07 AM
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So your telling me that every single one of your friends and family and everyone that you've spoken to ALL say to give her another chance? There was not one single person that said to leave her?
/r/askTRP22/01/17 04:50 AM
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I wasn't saying that you were BP. I was trying to get you to look at your own actions, and to get you to think about WHY you are doing what you are doing. You brought up what your family said, as counter-evidence to someone saying it wasn't a good relationship. but it's not just me, everyone is always telling me how great she is and that I should give her a second chance, my family and friends. Why did you post this statement?
/r/askTRP22/01/17 04:40 AM
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Okay first of all, if your family and friends are Blue Pill, then they are going to give you Blue Pill answers. So either you are wishy-washy and are succumbing to social pressure, or you are trying to find an excuse to take her back because you have oneitis. Look at what you are doing. You come in to a RedPill sub with a BluePill mindset and then use the opinions of your BluePill family as evidence to back up your assertions and/or feelings? Really? What if the issue was not cheating, but rathe…
/r/askTRP22/01/17 04:11 AM
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This is very much a mental issue. And it's all about judgement or being judged. From an evolutionary standpoint, women are innately socially sensitive because they depended on the tribe for support. To be outcast meant death. But there is a difference between how the tribe perceives you and how you act with your husband behind closed doors. Hence the dichotomy you mentioned. To many people, the more filthy the sex, the better. And I believe that is because it indicates a lack of mental boundarie…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/17 03:52 AM
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Watch how she treats the people she DOESN'T need. Waitstaff, people beneath her socially, strangers, etc. If she treats them with anything other than respect, that is an insight into her personality.
/r/askTRP22/01/17 03:34 AM
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Doctor! Doctor! I used to bang my head against the wall and it hurt like crazy so I stopped. Then I met this girl and I started banging my head against the wall again, and it hurts! Help!
/r/askTRP22/01/17 12:32 AM
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There is a difference between internal validation and external validation. What you are experiencing is the need for external validation. In the end, trying to be externally validated may consume you. There will always be someone richer, taller, younger, smarter, stronger, etc. than you. Also, what you don't see is the debt they are carrying while trying to live that lifestyle. How they agonize over paying the bills and which one gets paid first. It's no different than comparing yourself to othe…
/r/askTRP22/01/17 12:18 AM
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Okay so it sounds like cooking is special to her, because she gets to witness your full masculinity. You're taking charge, and leading her around. So maybe expecting her to cook for you isn't reasonable from her emotional standpoint because that's her special way to feel your masculinity. So the real question is: Is she investing in you in other ways? Maybe she gives you gifts, or praises you, or gives you physical attention, or performs other acts of service for you (Clean the house? Make the b…
/r/askTRP18/01/17 08:44 PM
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Cool. What are you cooking?
/r/askTRP13/01/17 04:30 AM
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This is the issue. Until you fix this, you will have a tough time. Women can smell that (lack of confidence) on you. What you're feeling is just your internal dialog (the voice inside your head). But you didn't feel this way when you came out of the womb. So you must have learned these feelings somewhere. And it took some time to get here too. But hear me now. Only you can go down this path and force yourself to unlearn what you have learned. And it will take time.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 02:48 AM
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A woman is the most dangerous pet a man can own. You can NEVER let your guard down. Women give you shit to make sure you ARE the shit. And when you are at your best or when you are at your worst, she will instinctively try to break you, your focus, and/or your frame. Should you choose to sign up for an LTR with one of those horrible creatures, the same rules that work for pickup, one-night-stands, and short-term relationships still apply. You must communicate to her, through your actions, that s…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 02:12 AM
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So I'm going to enjoy the decline from out here in the Pacific rim, spinning my Russian and Asian plates. No place on the planet is safe from what is coming, because there are processes at work that transcend politics, race, and gender. The next 20 years will be vastly different than the last 20 years because it is impossible to have infinite growth on a finite planet. We won the energy lottery with fossil fuels, and we were simply not smart enough as a species to properly manage Industrial Civi…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 06:42 PM
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The real issue that is not being discussed is the underlying covert contract that most beta/nice guys have when sending these types texts. If you're doing it in order to win fair lady's heart, that's a non-starter as has been proven over and over again. It also depends where you are in the seduction cycle. If you haven't banged her already, then don't. LTRs are another story. So the question to ask yourself is WHY you are sending this text. If you're doing it in order to get a 'awww how sweet' r…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 08:37 PM
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Its all about enjoying the present. Life is not perfect, but there are certainly perfect moments. And taking the time to recognize and celebrate a perfect moment will give you something to remember and savor in your old age. And by taking the time, I mean actually vocalizing it to yourself or whomever you are with. "Now THIS is a perfect moment." Enjoying the present, coupled with knowing (not fearing, but knowing) that some day you too will die is a powerful reconciling force. This knowledge he…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/16 05:46 PM
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Would you rather be you, or this guy? Ugliest man in Uganda has 8 children This guy HAS to have something other than looks. He does stand-up comedy and sings. He's got social proof and he's got frame. ‘I told her that I didn’t choose to look the way I do and that if she feels I am a burden, she is free to leave me.’
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 03:14 PM
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If you sincerely think this is a viable relationship dynamic, then you haven't fully absorbed the pill yet. It is actually a deadbedroom in the making. This advice is wrong on so many levels it is hard to start unpacking it. It goes against the power dynamic that makes stable relationships. The best behaved women are women that know they can be replaced easily. It takes the focus off what the woman needs to bring to the relationship. Men's love is sacrificial. What makes her worthy of sacrifice?…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 05:29 AM
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Actually, no. This is the exact reason why I'm here in TRP. I quit my job and 48 hours later I was dumped. Never underestimate the ruthlessness of a woman.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 04:12 PM
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Good job for standing up for yourself, but by justifying that you aren't the way she says you are, you're entering in to her frame. When you get accused like that, treat it like any other shit test, because it went on waaay longer than it had to. Agree and amplify: That's nothing. I've walked 50 miles to save 50 cents! Disagree and amplify: That can't be true, I don't even have one dollar to my name. I'm flat-ass broke. Actually, you will need to pay for this evening. Tomorrow I'm going to debto…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 11:37 PM
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All these teases fall into an intellectual category as they press her indignation button, signal your higher SMV by disqualifying her and demonstrating your willingness to upset her. There is a another class of teasing that is more physical and playful that can be used as well, although it doesn't carry the verbal disqualification, and therefore may not be as effective. But it can be used to get used to practice teasing girls if you're not as quick on your feet mentally. Anything you would do to…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 07:40 PM
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I side with the mod. A) An exception to the rule doesn't disprove the rule. That is womanspeak. B) What actionable advice have you provided to men in this forum? GLO is stating: 'Treat every gun as though it were loaded'. You are stating 'Not EVERY gun is loaded'. And what women want from long-term vs. short-term partners has no bearing on the fact that, in general, without male guidance, women will wreck their lives, and the lives of those around them. If you accept the basic tenant of this for…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 05:39 PM
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Your fear of rejection may or may not be related to low testosterone. However doing the things that raise your testosterone will likely help reduce your fear of rejection. Exercise, lifting weights, zinc supplements and going no-fap will generally boost your testosterone to the point where you have the confidence and desire in your eyes when you approach women. She will pick up on that. However, the fear of rejection and looking foolish may come from somewhere else. Usually it is from a fear of …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 05:52 AM
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Another bullshit evasion tactic. Again with the pressure flip. What are you, a one-trick pony? Do you have any understanding of yourself or do you have an anti-authority complex? And you still haven't answered the question. Please respond with a concise paragraph about what you understand TRP theory to be. If you can't say what it is, how can you claim it is wrong? Edit: Or is this all bravado and bluster because you are terribly insecure and socially uncalibrated?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 03:48 AM
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I asked you a question. What is your number?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 03:38 AM
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Your answer is a bullshit evasion tactic. It is a pressure flip and I won't fall for it. I asked you a question. What exactly, and concisely, do you understand TRP theory to be?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 03:35 AM
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Yes, FOR YOU. You've read everything and have comprehended nothing. What is your number? How many girls have you fucked?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 03:32 AM
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Why don't you explain to all of the 161,339 members of this group, exactly what you understand TRP to be all about? Please enlighten us on how we are all wrong, and you are right.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 03:28 AM
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I agree with you. Something is dumb around here. But it's not TRP theory of sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 03:22 AM
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That's right. Just give up because you haven't put in the time to understand what TRP is all about and what women desire. What did you do, read one sentence of some pickup book and run with that? Clearly by your response, you lack introspection and any significant knowledge about the subject. Read all of the sidebar content, come back with relevant, introspective questions, and there are many men here who will be willing to help you.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 03:17 AM
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You do realize that attraction is based on desire, right? And there is a difference between 'desire' and 'different'. A 1968 Camaro is desirable. A Pontiac Aztek is different.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 03:10 AM
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It doesn't matter what her underlying motivation is right now. The first question to ask is, is that behavior acceptable? Compliance first, happiness second. This is nothing more than a battle for frame. And if you engage her in any way other than stern discipline, she's won. She get what she wants. More of your attention, which she feels is inadequate, more drama, more feelz. Once you've corrected the bad behavior first, then you can have a discussion about what she's feeling.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 01:57 PM
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Not sure I understand your question. But I think you are asking what happens after the punishment is over. She must do both things, apologize and have a timeout.. If three weeks are over and she hasn't apologized, then you have learned something. She's a shitty LTR prospect. Hard next. Under no circumstances do you contact her after you give out your punishment. You give out the punishment, if she apologizes, great, if not, great. Some girls will apologize nicely immediately. If she does, you ca…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 04:49 AM
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Look at this as LTR training for yourself. ALL women will lose their shit on you and/or test you. I think you should use this opportunity to practice being the patriarch and treat the situation just like it was an LTR. With this approach, you can accomplish two things. 1) LTR frame management for you, and 2) see if this one is trainable. You need to calmly tell her where she went wrong and punish her with a non-trivial punishment. Either she will learn from this experience or not. Her reaction t…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 02:28 AM
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Past strategies and advice won't necessarily be valid in the future, because the economic environment is changing. We are entering into an age of scarcity. So being as self-sufficient as possible will be important. Consider being a trade-person in a trade that is low technology. Plumbing for example. Chances are there will be need for plumbers far longer than there will be need for International Bankers or Financial Advisers or Game Developers. If you want a peek into the future, look at what is…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 06:36 PM
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It's a simple matter of time management. There are only so many hours in the day. You can spend that time fantasizing, or you can spend that time making your life better. The problem is, revenge fantasies make you feel better in the short term. But they do nothing for your long-term success. So the trick is to recognize when you are fantasizing and drop that activity and substitute a healthier activity: "Fuck that bitch, I'm going to the gym right now."
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 06:21 PM
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Here are some links to compare prices: CompareGoldPrices CompareSilverPrices I've personally used APMEX and have had no problems with them. There is an overhead beyond spot price, but that is the market-established difference between the spot price and actual metal for physical delivery. The overhead is the price you pay for peace-of-mind by getting your product from a reputable vendor. Consider getting the American Eagle coins. Most people are familiar with them, and in my opinion they will be …
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 05:51 PM
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The problem in the next 40 years will be return OF capital, not return ON capital. Because the global economy and monetary system are functions of available energy to fuel growth, and because affordable energy is on the decline, the global economy will be in a deflationary spiral (contraction phase) for the foreseeable future. The value of a thing is only worth what other people are willing to pay for it. And if no one has any money to buy that thing, then the value of that thing declines. This …
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 03:26 PM
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You seem very cerebral and analytical, which is both a help and a hinderance. You understand the social norms, to which you don't conform, and you are judging yourself based on those norms. Life is a journey, and everyone's path is different. You must play the hand you are dealt, and do the best that you can with your cards. In my opinion, you are trying to solve all of your problems at once, and are tangled around the axle. You're panicking because your life isn't on schedule, and you want a ma…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/16 05:58 AM
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Patrice O'Neal called women like this "Brackish Bitches". He argued that they were just like fish used to living in brackish water. You take the fish and put them in nice clean water and they die. Edit: The takeaway from this is to learn to recognize brackish bitches from their behavior, and don't expect anything more from them than they are capable of. i.e. never wife up a ho.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 08:04 PM
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Awesome job with the ban hammer. The SJWs always have a tell. Notice how her comments devolved into ad-hominem attacks and shaming language. You don't realize how sad and pathetic everything that you write down is, and that's the worst part. It shows a complete lack of self awareness and social ability. I feel sorry for you. and Preach! Thanks for sticking up for us women! If Redpills want to believe in ideologies such as all of this than why are they even living in America?... This country is b…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 12:57 AM
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The issue is not 401ks per se, but rather our financial system in general. In the relatively near future, the issue isn't going to be so much return ON capital, as it will be return OF capital. In our current financial system, everything is manipulated and price discovery is broken. The kick-the-can policies of virtually every institution on the globe has prevented the normal clearing of misallocated capital via the business cycle. Just like when you suppress forest fires for too long and the un…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 05:52 PM
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I highly recommend the experience of job loss. Use this opportunity to examine your life, your friends, your preparedness, and the forces at work in the world at large. I understand you may be feeling panic and the short-term anxiety of loss of income, opportunity, social standing, etc. But there are also larger forces at work here. Paying attention to the bigger picture, we can gain some critical insight into the workings of our social systems as well as the universe at large. The first big obs…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 12:08 AM
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The first thing is to make sure your mind is in the right place before proceeding. Understand WHY you are interested in pursuing Kate and what your expectations are. You'll have a better chance of success if your expectations are aligned with the Red Pill theories of how the sexual marketplace works. If you decide to pursue her, do not apologize for your actions and do not discuss the previous event. Act like it never happened. Simply ask her to accompany you on one of your outings. "Hey sexy, I…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 04:20 AM
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Again, why do you think psychopathy is the answer? Psychopathy is just a set of behavioral traits. For example, you can become a wealthy man by being an honest businessman or by being a manipulative psychopathic asshole. But everything has it's price. Even psychopathy. Look at what happened to Theranos and Powa Technologies. Those businesses were run by, in my opinion, psychopaths. Yet the both detonated in a spectacular fashion. Psychopathy doesn't ensure success. And being an honest businessma…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 10:33 PM
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That is probably true. She wants to lose her V to the biggest badass in your social group. Are you the biggest badass in your social group? If not, then she probably doesn't want to lose her V to you. It still sounds like you are trying to negotiate attraction. Go out and make yourself a more desirable man.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 10:26 PM
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What makes you think you can't achieve your goals without being psychopathic?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 06:18 PM
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Why is it important to you what this one particular girl says? Are you asking because you're in love with her (oneitis)? Are you asking because you don't know how to blast past LMR? Are you asking because you're bargaining for sex and this is her covert communication that she doesn't find you attractive?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 06:16 PM
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Accept the fact that this is where you are in life, and what takes priority. I work a minimum of 70 hours a week. Would I like to date more? Yes. Is growing my two businesses more important than women? Absolutely. And paid companionship is always an option.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 06:51 PM
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There are girls everywhere. Do you go outside of your house? Do you go to the cafeteria, the corner store, the grocery store? Starbucks? Why don't you talk to those girls?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 06:47 PM
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That is definitely all in your head, and you will have to apply yourself to unlearn those feelings. Are they on permanently or will they come off eventually? Here's one thing I know about women, is that they will follow your lead. So if you don't make a big deal about your braces then they probably won't either. And if they do, just agree and amplify. To start accepting yourself, you may want to try some mirror work. Looking at yourself in a mirror like you are looking at someone else. Start smi…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 06:45 PM
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I hate texting, and I don't do it. I only use texting for scheduling when and where to meet. Problem solved.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 06:32 PM
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Chances are this stems from some emotional need or insecurity. Examine your feelings when you feel compelled to text back, then try writing down, as if you are explaining to someone, what exactly you are feeling. For example: I feel I must text this girl back right now, because if I don't, I think that X will happen.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 06:30 PM
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This is going to require some work. You've taken 10 years to get into this state, so it's probably going to take at least a few years to get out of it. You will have to unlearn the shaming, preferably in an emotionally safe environment. This will be difficult to do, because in general, women don't give a shit about men's feelings. Not knowing the exact nature of your shame, here are some options: Look into using a sexual surrogate service, if it is the actual intimacy and escalation that is the …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 06:27 PM
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I agree it's fear, but not sure if it is fear of being overt. In any case, you WANT to be overt when asking for a number. There is nothing wrong with being direct, letting a girl know you're in to her and asking her out. Then she can accept or reject. But everybody is comfortable because she knows your intentions. To summarize: Covertly let a girl know what your intentions are. Kino, alpha behavior, escalation, cocky/funny, etc. Then overtly ask for her number. She'll appreciate you being direct…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 09:50 PM
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Hang on a sec, fucking and relationships are two different things. I think you need to tease this apart more. What I heard you say was that you don't want to fuck unless they're relationship material, but you will take a girl from behind in the bathroom because it's almost like fucking, because that validates you in the moment, so you can go talk to your oneitis? If that is what you actually meant, then bro, you need to get your mind right. Sounds like you've got a case of oneitis. Either that, …
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 09:36 PM
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Get to actually know the girl. What actually makes her tick. Talk with her about her experiences, and what her feelings were during those experiences. Be genuinely interested in her feelings. Use the technique of mirroring: 1. She tells you something important to her 2. Ask her how that experience made her feel 3. She'll tell you. Listen. 4. Then repeat what she said back to her. "So, you're saying that when this happened, you felt x,y,z. Is that right?" 5. She'll either agree or correct you and…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 07:12 PM
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No, it's not qualifying if the abroad part is incidental to the story. Did anything cool or interesting happen to you on that trip? Talk about that. Here's an even more simple one. I used this one just recently. I, literally, and with great passion, described this experience: I described the experience of how I cooked a wonderful meal for myself. I grilled a ribeye steak on the grill, with a side of lump crab meat sautéed in butter, and accompanied those with perfectly steamed vegetables. I also…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 07:02 PM
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You've got a tough row to hoe, son. Your short-term 3-item plan: 1. Eat right. 2. Exercise/lift. 3. Start figuring out what exactly you are feeling right now. Some suggestions for #3: 1. Try to write down on paper what you are feeling. 2. Find someone who will listen to your issues and not judge, and try to explain your feelings to them. Just trying to explain what you are feeling may make it clear. 3. Go to a massage therapist. Sometimes the emotions are trapped in your body and just having som…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 06:41 PM
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Observe what she is doing and find a way to relate that to one of the awesome/interesting experiences in your life. Walk up to her and start talking about that activity and how it made you feel. Don't have any awesome/interesting experiences in your life? That might be the problem.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 06:30 PM
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Be the man that women are excited to be with.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 06:22 PM
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The problem might be your life. Are you content with your life or are you looking for women to fill a specific void in your life? Can you actually say your life is awesome? Can you walk up to a woman and speak passionately and authoritatively about something you recently did that you found really interesting and then describe how it made you feel? Fill your life with awesomeness. Also see my response to /u/TWYW
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 06:21 PM
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See my reply to /u/ChadsBrother Try to figure out the underlying fear preventing you from initiating kino. Practice non-sexual kino first. (be into nails) Take a dance class. Salsa for example. In order to dance, you need to learn how to lead a woman's body around. Leading a woman into and in bed is no different than leading her around the dance floor. You are guiding her according to your will, but watching her responses too. She'll let you know what she likes.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 06:15 PM
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This rabbit hole may be too deep for this venue, but I recommend you start exploring why you "forget" to touch a woman. The question that first came to my mind is: Why would you have to remind yourself to touch a woman? Don't you want to do that naturally? If the answer is no, then why? Short term plan: Pretend to be in to fingernails. Every time you meet a girl you're interested in, find something to like about her fingernails. And say "ooh, I like the <blah blah blah> on your fingernails. Let …
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 06:07 PM
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What are you doing in your life just for you? Done anything exciting or interesting? If so, talk about that. Make statements. Not a debate or an analysis, not compare and contrast. Statements about what you did and how it made you feel. If you haven't done anything exciting or interesting in your life, then maybe conversation isn't the problem, but rather your life.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 05:32 PM
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Are you actually feeling alone, or is it grief? Or maybe abandonment? Or betrayal?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 05:25 PM
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You can't change all at once. You'll be pulled in too many directions. Pick the top 3 things and work on those. I suggest these: Fix your eating habits Exercise/Lift Talk to at least 1 woman a day. Not hit on, talk to. It can be a grandma or a little girl or anything in between.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 05:15 PM
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The problem is you, not her. Why do you refuse to escalate?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 05:12 PM
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Welcome to manhood. This is life. You will never implement it completely, there is always something more to learn. Dogged persistence is the key. If you're feeling off, you have 2 choices: 1. Don't approach 2. Approach, and work your current state into the conversation. You: Hey, how are you today, my lovely? Her: blah blah blah You: Man, I'm kinda mellow today, you know? Ever have one of those days? Her: blah blah blah, me me me, bla bla bla bla me me blah. The most important thing is to be con…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 04:53 PM
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Women like covert, not overt communications. Make this your immediate goal: maintain presence of mind when conversing and, eventually woman will make some sort of comment or statement that could be misinterpreted sexually. "I was trying to put this over there and it just doesn't fit!" Then lower your voice, and say, slowly, "Ooooh, say that again." with a grin or smirk on your face. It's sexual, it's covert, and it's not crass or crude. But here's the thing. You don't even have to speak to imply…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 04:26 PM
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I get what you're asking, and the answer is yes, but not for the reason you might think. Have you ever eaten outdoors at, say a picnic or a barbecue? If you have, you know there are going to be occasional flies, and you will have to shoo them off your food. Same thing. "Oh, here's another fly. Wave my hand and away it goes." This picnic just happened to have a lot of flies at it. Would I intentionally go back to this exact same picnic spot (see this girl again)? Probably not. Too many flies and …
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 05:36 AM
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There is no way to make this concise. This chick was a non-stop shit-tester and "wheel-grabber", who was constantly trying to put me in her frame without any subtlety. Texted me about two hours before our meet-up time, saying she was going to be late 30 minutes. I almost aborted, but since she gave me advance notice, I let her have this one. Mentioning all the other guys chasing her. I didn't react one way or the other. -Abundance mentality Showed me a picture on her phone of her and one of her …
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 09:17 AM
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I disagree. It doesn't matter whether you are alpha, beta or omega. Every man gets rejected, regardless of their SMV. So it is better to start learning to handle rejection no matter what your SMV is at the moment. And actually being an omega makes approaching easier. You know you are going to get rejected. When starting out, approaching is not about actually getting the girl. It is about inner game: How to handle rejection. How to read a woman's body language. How to be funny. How to hold a conv…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 05:31 AM
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Perhaps I should have been more precise. The point was to expose readers to the concept of a normal distribution in the predictive ability of a behavioral model. If we define a ball as "aspects of feminine behavior, that can be predicted by the RP model", I believe my assertions are still valid. In your example of mental illness, that would be an outlier. The RP model doesn't say that all women are mentally ill. Again, the point was to help readers in thinking about the TRP behavioral model from…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 02:09 PM
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One of the most concise examples I've seen of holding frame is, believe it or not, this scene in Moonrise Kingdom The beauty of this is that these kids are probably too young to understand the depth of the sexual dynamic here. The director distilled the interaction down to the essence of gender dynamics and instructed them how to act. The whole scene sets the mood about how Sam is a man on a mission. The way he inspects the elephants trunk, and is indifferent to their stares. The way he checks t…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 06:18 AM
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No. NOT win/win. People are missing the core point here. Yes, both people got sex. But that's not what this was about. This was a battle for frame. The girl may have been testing the guy to see what kind of a man he was. Or she may have been a flake. Ultimately OP demonstrated, by his actions, that he A) is not a thirsty beta, and B) that he only wants to engage her on HIS terms, not hers. In the end, she entered in to HIS frame. She got his attention through sex. And by being difficult, she los…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 02:32 PM
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A lot of it has to do with being internally-validated versus externally-validated. If you are seeking someone's approval so that you can feel better about yourself (externally-validated), their rejection hurts that much more. If you are internally-validated (you believe you are the shit no matter what), then someone else's rejection doesn't hurt so much. Another way of saying to be internally-validated is 'Abundance Mentality'. Any single rejection doesn't hurt, because you know you are the shit…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 10:29 PM
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A couple of comments: Changing things will require taking a risk. It doesn't guarantee success, but if you are miserable now, you are guaranteed to be miserable in the future. The anxiety you may feel when trying to change thing is when you are pushing yourself outside your comfort zone. This is normal. Courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. Second shift can actually be a godsend if you are working towards something. I've been working second shift for about 4 years now, and…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 02:29 PM
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Just to be clear, it is one thing to commiserate here about the vapidity and self-centeredness of women. And that's okay. But in the end, the war is won one battle at a time. A woman is a reflection of the man she is with. The fact that he didn't discipline his women right then and there is the cause of his problems. Or even better, before it ever got to this point. Instead he should have demanded all the phones be left in the car as a condition of eating out. Guys, do not be afraid to check you…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 11:56 AM
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Good job overall. If you wanted to go for SNL (same night lay), one of the things that helps is to "time travel". If you hit at least 3 different venues in the same night, it's like 3 separate dates in her mind and that can help to reduce LMR (last minute resistance) For example, a drink at one place, drinks and something to eat at a second place, then bounce for a walk along a river or on the beach or in a park where it's more secluded and "romantic". Develop attraction in the first venue. Add …
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 09:24 PM
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Image: Image Tag line: "A girl's past shouldn't matter! I love only you!" Also, for the newbies, this is a thousand-cock-stare
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 07:24 PM
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I would think that a sticker that both pisses off women and intrigues men would be the best. We get to troll women and also bring more men into the brotherhood. Along those lines: Image: Happy Couple getting married Tag line: The quickest path to divorce is to do everything your wife asks of you. Or: Tag line: Marriage doesn't mean love, and divorce is often war. Or: Tag line: When you don't swallow the red pill the first time, life's got a way of making you deepthroat it the next. Image: Scumba…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 06:41 PM
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Sticker idea: Picture of a girl giving a blowjob to a guy, with a thought balloon coming from her head: "If my boyfriend finds out, I'll just claim rape". Then at the bottom of the photo, "AWALT" Then the red pill logo below that.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 05:40 PM
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Here is what Rollo says about Alpha... You can be a piss-poor example of a human being, and still be Alpha, e.g. Corey Worthington Alpha is like a gun or like nuclear chemistry. It can be used for good or evil. tldr; "Alpha is as Alpha does, it isn’t what we say it is. There are noble Alphas and there are scoundrel Alphas, the difference is all in how they apply themselves." Ghandi was Alpha. Corey Worthington is Alpha. Ghengis Kahn was Alpha. Ghengis Kahn killed so many people the earth actuall…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 03:51 AM
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Okay but that still doesn't answer the underlying question, which appears to me to be 'how do I discipline an irrational woman?'. At some point, a man is going to have to deal with an irrational woman. A woman that is losing her shit and throwing a temper tantrum and in general behaving like a child. An analogy would be 'how do I get out of a skid'. The best answer is 'countersteer', not 'don't let your car go into a skid'.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 12:18 AM
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A girl falls in love with you for everything that you are. Then she's going to spend the entire relationship trying to change you into everything that you're not. And when she succeeds, she will dump you for a guy who is everything that you were when she first met you. -- Beige Phillip
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:35 PM
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Let's look at this from a perspective of power and maintaing frame. To me, this appears like a blatant power grab on her behalf. Now you held frame and called her bluff. She one-upped you to try to force you into her frame, by giving you the silent treatment. Then the "you left me". I can't tell you how many times I've heard THAT one. It is a red herring to start a different argument unrelated to the initial problem which was her bad behavior. There can be only one frame in a relationship, and i…
/r/askTRP16/02/15 08:21 PM
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It's easy to hard-next. And that's fine if you're not that into her. However, knowing that all women are crazy, chances are you will come up against similar behavior in the future. So it would be an interesting thought experiment at this point to think about how you would handle this behavior in the future if you were married or were in an LTR that you considered worth saving at the time. Let's say that you are married for 8 years and have 2 kids. What then? I'm not condoning marriage, because i…
/r/askTRP16/02/15 07:50 PM
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I swear by Chad Thundercock, patron saint of TRP, that the dialogs are true. I left out what I couldn't remember.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 09:28 PM
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Yes, it is hard to overcome all that feminine-primary blue pill training that was foisted upon us. I've adopted this response when they get offended: "Hey you know how in school when a guy likes a girl but doesn't know what to say to her? That's why I said it." It's a Corey Worthington/Bill Clinton non-apology apology. This was Patrice O'Neal's follow up to the "You look like your breath stinks." opener after she got to express her indignation. I'm sure there are better ones out there, but it is…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 08:28 PM
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But that's the point. It is because they can't relate that makes it such a great lesson. Why can't they relate? Because they can't imagine doing this to their wives. Why? Because they have bought in to the feminine perspective and they don't understand the underlying power dynamic. See my description of how to get a pig into a truck.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/15 07:04 PM
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Why? Because it doesn't feel right? Because it doesn't put her on a pedestal? This is not about feelings or respect. This is about authority and frame. Let me ask you one question. Does her manipulating you into breaking one of your rules increase or decrease your authority? I want my wife to HATE me at times. If she thinks "That motherfucker wouldn't even let me in the damn door." Pout stomp, whine, etc. She didn't get what she wanted, but by Taru the Volcano God, she respects me. For a woman, …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/15 06:42 PM
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Let me spell this out so everyone can understand. Let's start with the premise: There can be only one frame in a relationship between man and woman. Now it may either be the man's frame or the woman's frame. Now we know empirically that when a woman's frame prevails the relationship is doomed. So, in order for a relationship to succeed, the man's frame must prevail. Okay so in order for a relationship to succeed, the man needs to set the rules (establish frame). The subordinates (wife, daughter,…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/15 06:40 PM
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Why does everyone assume she's my girlfriend? Is not a marriage a long term relationship? Why doesn't it work for a wife or girlfriend? In a relationship there can be only one frame. Either it's your frame or her frame. Lets do a thought experiment. Let's say you have a 16 year old daughter. And you set a hard and fast rule. "No boys over unless a parent is at home." Now let's say she violates that rule. How would you treat her? Would you not give a shit what explanations she says? Would you sta…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/15 04:44 PM
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Let's look at your position from a perspective of frame. This is your tldr: "It should be viewed as this: You're both making jellybeans and exchanging them. If she isn't holding up on her end of the jellybean bargain, then you need to find someone else to trade with." What you said, in your post was essentially "I will submit to her frame and if she can't understand the logic and treat me as an equal, then I will just divorce her." You don't get it. The battle for her was to get through the door…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/15 02:48 PM
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Thanks for your input, but I beg to differ. Not all LTRs are marriages, but all marriages are LTRs. The dynamics in them are the same. I specifically put LTR for a reason- to try to include as many men as possible. Why do you assume that what I put in the title makes any difference about whether or not it will work? Why do you assume I'm not married? Why do you assume that there's not a child involved whom I absolutely adore? Why did you assume that she didn't bring this child over with her to a…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/15 02:17 PM
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I'm glad I was able to help you. Thinking about it, the one other piece of advice I have is, try not to attach so much value to virginity. I get the feeling you are trying to make the one perfect choice because you can give your virginity away only once. Many people make a big deal about it. Don't get me wrong, chastity in a woman is highly valued. What I'm saying is value your chastity, but don't make it a part of your identity. Let's do a thought experiment. Lets say you find Mister Right. You…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/15 05:21 AM
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On choice, my view is this: Men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. The most desirable men have their choice of women. So both are choosing, in a way. But in the end, the man invites the woman into his world (and spends the rest of his life trying to keep his wife from changing his world). I understand your desire for a framework, but here's the thing: You have to deal with what life presents you. In my view, at some point you have to embrace the concept of "good…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/15 01:34 AM
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Personally, I'm not sure you're asking the right questions. I think the first place to start, is what kind of relationship do you want? Now I'm not talking about the 472 item checklist of what you want in a man. But rather what that relationship would feel like. Ultimately you need to screen for a suitable partner, and that isn't necessarily solely indicated by sexual history. Would you like a captain/first mate type of relationship? Then look for a good captain. Observe how he runs his life. Wa…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/15 11:13 PM
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Logic is only used after you've broken her pattern and she submits to your frame.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 08:42 PM
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Above all, maintain your frame. How would you discipline a child? Whatever you do, don't directly answer her question in the moment. She is trying to get you to submit to her frame or draw you into an argument. Off the top of my head, I'd consider responding with a pressure-flip. You: "Why don't you go think about it and then come back and tell me why." Her: "No, I want you to tell me now!" You: "What did I just say?" Her: "You just can't handle an independent woman." You: "Go ahead, ask me to e…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 08:30 PM
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Yes, you are correct. Point taken.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 07:54 PM
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Yes, you're making my point for me. That man was both calibrated and credible. He understood what you needed and gave it to you. And he demonstrated enough value to you for you to continue the interaction. In my opinion, when you say "guarding against sexual advances", you're thinking of an uncalibrated man. When an artiste rolls up to a woman, and calibrates himself with the woman, he can get a good idea of her receptivity to sexual advances. He may try a subtle push test to see if it is a bitc…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 07:29 PM
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I can understand that. My intention was to give her an unfiltered peek behind the curtain into the dynamics of seduction as well as a glimpse directly into my mental state. Regardless of what I say to a girl, this is the attitude I try to carry when I talk to her. That I am the shit. I am God's gift to women. That I make the interaction man to woman. That she knows I am a man and she knows what I want. So if a gazelle walks into a pride of lions, switches her tail back and forth and says "All yo…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 06:53 PM
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Exactly! Since this is a male space I was addressing her response using logic. Now maybe I didn't explain it correctly, but I was attempting to show her, through logic, why a woman doesn't necessarily have a choice during seduction and may fall into being a plate if the man demonstrates enough value to her. Now, she misinterpreted this as me negotiating desire. Which is why I attempted to explain it to her from a feminine perspective. That if a man provides enough value she will be attracted to …
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 06:04 PM
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What exactly is gross? Is it that I openly stated my sexual nature? Is it that I am confident enough to know that I will be one of the best, if not THE best time you've ever had in bed? That I'm a man that can read your subtle body cues as we are making love and can give you what your body is asking for without you having to say a word? I named a dynamic. Albeit from a man's point of view. I'll name it from the woman's point of view. Very few women get to experience a fully masculine man. One wh…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 04:50 PM
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TRP is not about NSA. A man using TRP is a fisherman. And TRP is his tackle box. The man goes out and catches the fish. He demonstrates value. He builds attraction. He ignites desire. He deflects her shit tests. She is hooked. It is then the quality of the woman that determines if she is catch-and-release (plate) or whether she winds up on your dinner plate (LTR). And by spinning multiple plates, the man has an abundance mentality and will be at the top of his game. So when he does finally meet …
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 02:54 PM
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Maybe, maybe not. A well calibrated, credible man will be able to read your reactions to his tactics during the first approach and vary his tactics accordingly. The phrase "He swept me off my feet" exists because it happens. I'm sure you've heard the phrase "The best makeup looks like no makeup at all." Same thing with seduction. The best seductions look like no seduction is happening. If I do everything exactly right, and I am several points higher in value than you, your body will be aching to…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 02:43 PM
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Pussy is not all that I want. Unless that's all that you've got. Also, your stated initial assumption is flawed. You are stating that TRP only works on sluts. Not true. TRP is about understanding the sexual marketplace. It is a toolkit that men can use to achieve their goals. Be it spinning plates or managing an LTR. The skill set is the same. So if I see you in the street, and you look feminine and inviting, I will approach. And understanding TRP, I will be able to demonstrate my value to you. …
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 09:49 AM
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Good job! It is difficult to push outside our comfort zone. Still, you were using logic to change her behavior. Some women do not respond to logic. And being a woman, chances are your feelings don't even enter into the equation. If she doesn't respond to logic, you may have to do something like this: "I just realized what you were doing. That was a bullshit question. If you want to do something, just ask." She will keep trying this. Eventually you will see her pattern and when she does the same …
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 09:41 AM
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Also, check out LTR Game: Maintaining Frame
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 08:18 AM
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It sounds like you may be trying to talk to him like you would talk to one of your girlfriends. There are two parties in a conversation, and it has to be interesting to both parties for it to continue. How does he speak? Try speaking in a way he can understand. Tune your communications to your audience. For example he may be a conceptual thinker. If you try to tell a conceptual thinker every little detail about an event in a meandering stream-of-consciousness method you will lose him for sure.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/14 07:26 AM
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There is no fine line. Understand that you are inviting the woman in to YOUR life. Full stop. The most important thing is maintaining your frame. Women can be extremely devious and subtly manipulative at getting you to submit to their frame. As an example of maintaining frame. I just turned down an invitation to a New Year's event. I'm still getting over a cold and I'm not going to sacrifice my health for someone else's enjoyment. Was she disappointed? Yes. Did she try to pressure me in to doing…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 05:09 AM
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Exactly. We're in total agreement. Rollo is trying to point out the dangers of formally declaring your woman as "First Officer". Doing so serves the Feminine Imperative.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 07:59 PM
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I think what Rollo is trying to say is that putting a woman in the role of first officer is that it still gives her a place in the hierarchy, thereby subtly changing her perception of her role and the power dynamic of the relationship. There is a different power dynamic between stating "You are my First Officer" and "This is a benevolent dictatorship" In other words, you can certainly ask your spouse for opinions. But to overtly state "You are my First officer" is detrimental. The benevolent dic…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 07:31 PM
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Good job dude! When girls get to you, you give yourself oneitis. Then you behave differently and lose the girl. You always need to think of yourself first. Just remember this: Dating a woman is like owning an exotic pet. Like a cougar or a tiger or an alligator. If you let your guard down for one second, you're dead. You always have to be on top of your game. And no, it never gets any better. Seriously, read everything on the side bar. Go on youtube and listen to the Black Phillip show. https://…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 06:31 AM
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Dude, the fact that you're trying to save it means you know nothing and have not read any of the sidebar and are just looking for quick answers. You're in the right place to learn, and it's good that you're asking questions, but you're trying to take shortcuts. There are no quick answers. And you're asking the wrong questions. But since I'm feeling magnanimous, here is the answer to your question: The best way for it to not be awkward when you see her is to not give a shit what the fuck she thin…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 06:03 AM
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You sound really young. Find a way to read the sidebar. There are no special ones. Most likely there is no way to save it. Man up and learn how to write. "Idk" makes you sound like a 14 year old girl.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 04:53 AM
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I agree. It was painful to watch at points. Its hard to make stupidity funny. "Everybody knows you never go full retard." But the underlying observation about the decline of societal standards was spot-on.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 04:16 AM
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This happens to every online community. As more and more of the slack-jawed troglodytes get involved, the collective IQ of the community gets debased. And I for one applaud the mods for their swift use of the ban hammer. Without that we would quickly be overrun. But there is a whole movie about this dynamic: Idiocracy.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 03:56 AM
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This is way more complex than it needs to be. Sexual strategy IS amoral. It is a social system that works in a certain way, regardless of how we wish it would work. However, it is how we choose to interact with that system that defines us as individuals. All IllimitableMan is saying is "Don't be a piece of shit trying to justify your actions with some male hamstering." That is like Duke saying "I blame Society". https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MKIaS0lh-uo My suggestion is that we can all have a …
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 03:51 AM
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Here's the thing. Whether you agree with it or not, you're implementing both redpill and PUA strategy. Basically you state that you don't care about all that shit; you are going to lift and do your own thing (approach). But that is EXACTLY what redpill and PUA techniques are all about. Setting goals for yourself, establishing a strong frame, demonstrating high value, and approaching women without fear. So when you approach women, you have higher SMV from lifting (redpill) and you demonstrate hig…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 06:56 PM
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Oh I agree with you completely. My point was that at some point in the whole interaction her 'nope' bit got flipped, and she didn't give it another thought. Just an in-field observation of solipsism at work.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 11:21 PM
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Right now, I am of the mind that women are like exotic pets. Fun and exciting and awesome to have around, but if you let your guard down for one moment, you get ripped to shreds.
/r/askTRP22/06/14 04:25 PM
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If you really want to be a programmer, you should be programming now without a job. Get yourself a computer, install Linux on it, and assign yourself a project. Fully develop your software until it is production ready. Then you can use it as a demo. I've been in the IT world for more years than I can count. If you don't have the drive and determination to assign yourself a project, teach yourself what you need to know without external help, and then drive your project to production-ready, you sh…
/r/askTRP22/06/14 03:12 PM
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If I understand your desires correctly, you haven't fully swallowed The Red Pill. Here, take some medicine: http://therationalmale.com/2011/12/27/women-in-love/ Iron Rule of Tomassi #6 Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 09:45 PM
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The monarchy statement was to convey an internal state of mind. If my actions flow from a position of internal strength, I can choose to be kind when I am moved to do so. One doesn't have to be a king to feel like a king. One doesn't have to be rich to give a meaningful gift.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 03:34 AM
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Being "nice" is doing things because you expect a certain outcome. Being "kind" is doing what is right (according to your rules, and yours alone), regardless of the outcome. Niceness comes from a position of weakness. Kindness comes from a position of strength. Think of a benevolent dictatorship or a monarchy. Your word is the final word, and yet you can act out of kindness when you are moved to do so, because that makes the world a better place.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 04:05 PM
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Remember Gentlemen, congruence is a big part of holding frame. How you hold frame/reframe depends greatly on how you've presented yourself to the person in question. Let's say in Example 2, you are the woman's superior. Then a cocky/funny reframe probably wouldn't go over as well as an amused mastery reframe. There is a youtube video of Tom Cruise holding frame when he was squirted with the water bottle. He was startled for a second but then held his mastery frame. And he left out the amused par…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 01:35 PM
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Taken in economic terms, it seems like you two are debating between Capitalism and a Gift Economy. Both have their merit under certain conditions. They are two different ways to approach the same issue of how to allocate resources. The issue is, where in the continuum do we choose to be as individual men? Taken to the logical extreme, Capitalism results in rapaciousness. Our corporate world is run by sociopaths and psychopaths because they are the most effective at "the game". And in my opinion,…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 05:57 PM
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But that's not what he said! He distinctly said, 'to blaithe.'
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 06:48 PM
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Response to a shit-test must be: Consistent with your frame/game. Demonstrate that you are holding frame. For the first item, what kind of tame are you running? Day game? Night game? Goodlooking Guy game, Provider game? It looks like 39andNotFine and I am running the same kind of game. And that is "I'm a sexual man, and I know what I want." I project that up front, and if they shit test, I don't pull any punches. Now many of the answers being up voted are these vague evasive answers. Which can w…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 06:21 PM
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"I want the same thing that all men want. I just want it more."
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 05:56 PM
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Premature ejaculation is the other side of the erectile dysfunction coin. In many cases with ED, if guys are too much in their head they have trouble getting an erection or ejaculating. One trick to prevent PE is to think about stuff other than what you are feeling. Slow down, don't look at the girl and think about other stuff. Look at the bedsheets or the pillow or the ceiling. This will distract your mind and take your attention away from the sensation and you will last longer. Also you can tr…
/r/askTRP15/05/14 10:48 PM
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It may be that you're doing exactly what every other being does when they first learn to say "No". I've noticed that whenever people find their "No" first it comes out as anger or even rage. If this is truly the case for you, It will pass and mellow. Eventually you will be able to say "No" (hold frame) and not have the raw emotion behind it. Just be with yourself in this moment and ponder the underlying emotion in your actions.
/r/askTRP13/05/14 03:51 AM
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I use the Pirates of the Caribbean test. Who is the best pirate? Jack Sparrow, Will Turner, or Barbossa? Now any man worth his sea legs would want to sail under Barbossa, because clearly he is the most effective pirate of them all. From women I've received zero answers for Barbossa. Sigh.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 04:29 AM
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If the answer is no, it is not because you are different or you prefer going your own way or opting out of the game due to moral reasons. It's because you are weak. On weakness: There is the story of the Zen temple that was overrun by soldiers. The Captain came up to the Zen Master and was shocked to see the Zen Master unafraid. The Captain said "Don't you know who I am? I could run you through with my sword and I would think nothing of it!" And the Zen Master replied: "Don't you know who I am? …
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 04:15 AM
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Because it makes the world a better place. Especially when the silverbacks mentor the up and coming males. With respect to sexual strategy, there are women out there who do respond to kindness. It is usually a longer game than a pure hard alpha play and there is a huge risk of LJBF, but it can be effective with the right women.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 01:44 AM
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Being a douchebag is like being in love. No one needs to tell you you are a douchebag, you just know it, through and through. Balls to bones.
/r/askTRP11/05/14 04:00 PM
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I'd like to introduce a nuance here. There is a difference between being a "Nice Guy" in a kind manner and being a "Nice Guy" in a supplicating manner. Supplication and breaking frame must be avoided at all costs. However, a man can be giving and caretaking, when done in the proper frame. i.e. the Iron Fist in the Velvet Glove. What kind of bait you use depends on what you're fishing for. Sometimes it can be okay to be more emotional and giving when going after the starry-eyed artist. However, t…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 03:47 PM
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How many other girls have you approached this week, besides this girl? If your answer is 0, then you don't deserve help.
/r/askTRP09/05/14 10:56 PM
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Most women don't want to converse. They want to be entertained. Kid around. Tease them. Don't ask questions, make statements about what's happening in your awesome life. Said in an upbeat excited voice: Oh, man. So I was at <fancy hotel> the other weekend and we were sitting there watching the pool. And out of the corner of my eye I see this couple in the pool trying to be all secretive and shit but like EVERYBODY could tell they were banging! Moms were pulling their children out of the pool. Si…
/r/askTRP09/05/14 10:20 PM
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Starting right now, go out, open 3 women a day, don't give a fuck whether you crash and burn or not. The purpose is not to close, the purpose is to train your mind to not fear the rejection. Do this while you are not developed physically. This is so after you have improved yourself physically, you will be that much more desirable because your game will be much tighter.
/r/askTRP09/05/14 06:57 PM
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How many other women have you approached in the last week?
/r/askTRP09/05/14 06:51 PM
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Exactly. Also, you should only be answering 2 texts for every 3 of hers. Don't immediately respond either. Sometimes you respond instantly. Other times don't respond for several hours. This sends the message that she is not your top priority. Then she'll start to wonder what else is going on in your life.
/r/trpGAME08/05/14 10:03 PM
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What I meant was, you were being constantly responsive to her texts. She was texting you and you were always responding. So she came to expect that. Then when you didn't she flipped out.
/r/trpGAME08/05/14 10:01 PM
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If you do something more than 3 times for a woman, it becomes expected. Try to be consistently inconsistent.
/r/trpGAME08/05/14 07:33 PM
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Usually "Taking the L" means taking the loss. In other words he was willing to take the loss and lose the girl. The person who is willing to leave has the most power in a relationship.
/r/askTRP08/05/14 06:52 PM
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Sorry dude, I feel your pain. Yeah something sounds amiss. Chasing her at this point would be counter-productive. Go out there and start spinning some plates. Hit the gym, work on yourself and your game. Find a girl or girls that are better looking than she is. Maybe you can start a bidding war and get her to be re-interested. But chances are you will just have to take the loss and move on.
/r/askTRP05/05/14 05:16 AM
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Okay the hot mom thing was a joke. And this post was not directed at someone of your caliber. It was directed at the guys who seem to be in agony. I'm sure you've read posts where you can feel the hand-wringing right through the screen. And if we can sense that here, then the women that are in front of them can certainly sense it too. This post is an attempt to get those poor guys who are suffering re-frame the nature of their problem. The issue isn't the technique, the issue is their uncertaint…
/r/askTRP05/05/14 04:51 AM
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I think it's going to be a combination of things. The first is to explore and understand why you get in that state. Only then can you come up with a plan to address it.
/r/askTRP04/05/14 09:18 PM
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Maybe you're asking the wrong question. Why wasn't she putting the effort in the first place? Women want to be with guys that other women want to fuck. What were you doing to keep her interested? How did you show her that you are a desirable man and have other options? What where you doing to make her say "Damn, my guy is the real shit!"?
/r/askTRP04/05/14 09:09 PM
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The point of this statement was to get guys who are posting here to think about two things: The first is that many guys are agonizing over one woman instead of getting out and doing the ground work. Which means to go out and approach so many women that the fear of the loss goes away. Even a smile from a new girl goes a long way to ease the pain caused by another girl. I.e. they need to get over their one-itis. The second, and actually the most important point, is that if I can pick up on the unc…
/r/askTRP04/05/14 08:57 PM
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Yes, but my point was, if you know you can replace her you're not outcome dependent. You have no fear of taking the loss. Therefore you can lay down the law in a kind and firm manner. If you had a daughter and she called you an asshole, how would you handle it? Hopefully you would sit her down and calmly explain your rules. And she has the choice of accepting those rules or accepting the consequences.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 07:29 PM
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Yes and no. What you are speaking of is being outcome independent and putting yourself first. Which is extremely important, but it is only one part of the equation. You still need to understand sexual strategy and how to play the game. Because the game is happening, and either you learn to play it or learn to lose.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 07:18 PM
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To live is to feel pain. Be glad that you are feeling pain because that means you are alive. And if you are alive, you can change. First, examine yourself and try to untangle what you are feeling about your mother. Maybe you're having an identity crisis. Maybe you're feeling depressed because you will no longer have her guidance. And if that is the issue, then that is a GOOD thing. Become your own man. Regardless of what the issue really is, the first thing to do is to commit to change. Then mak…
/r/askTRP04/05/14 05:25 PM
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Okay, first of all, a significant part of embracing The Red Pill is about self improvement. What is your plan for improving yourself? It sounds like you are looking to be a pickup artist.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 04:23 PM
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This isn't misogyny. It's having a standards and respect for yourself and your time.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 02:50 PM
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Better yet, go pick up a different bitch just to prove to yourself that you don't need this particular bitch.
/r/trpGAME04/05/14 02:02 PM
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It's all about attitude and mindset. Try this: Before you even open her, imagine that right now you're bending her over that chair next to her and fucking her from behind and she's loving it. Now, when you walk up to her and open her, your entire body will have a vibe. The way you walk over to her with confidence, the way you look into her eyes and deliver your opener with a slight devilish grin, the way you are unafraid to hold her gaze... All these things will be communicating to her that you …
/r/trpGAME04/05/14 01:53 PM
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Think about what motivated you to ask that question. Is your motivation to not lose the girl? That's a scarcity mentality. What if you knew that you could go out tomorrow and get another woman to replace her. (Abundance) What would you say to her then?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 01:36 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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