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A_Rex/r/askMRP24/09/16 01:59 PM
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So sex, family, finances, kids all good. But OP threatens divorce in an argument similar to that which my 4 year old would have with a friend, because OP can't deal with her "anger issues". So much faggotry here it hurts. I'm taking a page out of your playbook here, Stoney. This one isn't worth the fucking effort.
/r/askMRP20/06/17 04:19 PM
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If you're even further along, sexy smile, look her in the eyes, and say "I approve".
/r/askMRP20/06/17 04:14 PM
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She sleeps over at her male "friends'" house and is telling you to go fuck other women For those playing at home, this means she has cheated and wants him to fuck another woman, somewhat to absolve any guilt, but mostly to save face. She can't look like a slut/asshole if they were both cheating, right?
/r/askMRP20/06/17 04:10 PM
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There's a conspiracy theory that Ken Lay faked his own death. Those Enron shares may be worth something yet. Keep investing, it'll come around!
/r/askMRP20/06/17 04:07 PM
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I think I can sum up everything you've been trying to say here. This is what I tell guys IRL: Women do not want to fuck a man's body. They want to fuck the entire man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 03:51 AM
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Was going to call you a troll, realized you're a woman. Imagine your husband/bf comes to you and gives you a book and web link on how not to act like a cunt, because your attitude is making him sad and upset. And then tell us how it would go when you learn that everything he's been doing for the last few months was taken from an internet message board comprised of autists and fat (or formerly) fat dweebs. Bet your panties are ready to fall off now, right?
/r/askMRP16/06/17 03:41 AM
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I'd recommend keeping her on the side, fucking her like a complete slut each time you can, and work on yourself and finding other girls. Don't let oneitis and lack of abundance be the reason you are a cuckold I wholeheartedly endorse this recommendation. OP needs to internalize that she's not an LTR, not a gf. She is a plate. A fucktoy. As a once every 2 week plate, he'll need several more. Stat.
/r/askMRP15/06/17 12:59 PM
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Even if it's troll bs, here's a teachable moment I'll always harp on: I did find out what his problem was. He is jealous at the fact that I'm more successful than him, always getting what I want when I strive for it. I am proud of his accomplishment too and constantly praise him, so I don't really know how to help him see that. The money a woman makes, her job title, degree of education, does not fucking matter. If you feel like a shit because she is "better" or "higher" at any of this stuff tha…
/r/askMRP14/06/17 06:19 PM
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I think the delay is a mistake - just don't go Rambo o the wardrobe until you're at the goal. Get a few pices that work really well for right now, and rotate the hell out of them. I've gone from 2XL shirts done to medium or small based on the brand, 40 waist to 32. At each point where the clothes started to look like shit, I'd get a few more new key pieces in the right size. Helps with the confidence, hand in hand with the lifting. Hell, even when i started as a 260 lb fatass, I'd wear shirts th…
/r/askMRP12/06/17 02:06 PM
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Problem is they don't listen if you aren't Edgy AF. I'm not edgy. I just get fucking results. The results were due to significant effort, understanding of the material, and application in a real world sense, not internet braggadocio. But I'll see what I can do for them. And I'm going to do more posting on gaming the wife/ltr here and there. I've been seeing again that guys just don't know what the fuck they're doing in this department. How (or more importantly why) you can get laid on almost any…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/17 04:55 AM
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Wait till she accuses you of anorexia and bulemia. I had the shits the other night, and wife literally asked me if I was taking laxatives for weight loss (acquaintences back in college was doing this). That's when you know you're doing it right
/r/askMRP08/06/17 02:05 PM
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Women should have their own lives and nights out with their friends. The issue is the difference between a night with the girls and "girls night out". A Quality woman attracted to her high value man would likely have little interest in "girls night out".
/r/askMRP08/06/17 02:02 PM
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If you were a man women wanted to fuck, she wouldn't be going to GNO. If you were a man women wanted to fuck, she wouldn't own granny panties, even for shark week (that's what the boring Vicki secrets bikinis are for). If you were a man women wanted to fuck, you wife would be doing everything possible every night to earn the even naughtier shit you bought, but haven't given her yet, because she hasn't earned it. If you were a man women wanted to fuck, she wouldn't be able to stop thinking about …
/r/askMRP07/06/17 09:53 PM
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eventually she call me a piece of shit. I could have gotten butthurt and listed all the reasons why I wasn't a piece of shit. Instead I laughed and said she was dumb for marrying a piece of shit. Glorious. This has been my go-to response to these type of shit tests for a while. "I am what I am, you chose to marry it! What's that say about you?" Is a good variant. Also, exaggerated pain in the gut (think Peter Griffin with his exaggerated hiss, ahh, hiss, ahh) followed by "ahhh, my feelz!" Do the…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 02:03 PM
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Second this and, to add, prepare yourself to hold epic level frame. If the other hens start clucking, their beta bitch hubbys will too. Your wife may get caught up in it. The women are testing your frame - the losers are pussy whipped so they join their wives. Above all else, do not lose your temper. Fuck this up royally, and you validate these other bitches to your wife. On the other hand, be cool, be the Oak, and do your thing with a smile, and you might see the other wives take notice. Yours …
/r/askMRP19/05/17 08:30 PM
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The issue is most guys are (or get) so fucking autistic they forget how to function as normal people. Move through dread steps and pass shit tests to get her feeling horny. Flirt/game her so she knows you want to fuck her, without being an overt creep. If you actually love/like your wife, guess what? Its OK to show her that and her hamster needs to see that now and then. Show her (like you show her you want to fuck her) when needed - don't beat her over the head with the overt or you look like a…
/r/askMRP19/05/17 02:52 PM
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It's nuanced and depends where you are at. My wife dresses up sexy for me from time to time (more often now). So if there's something specific I want to see her in, I'll buy it for me. The problem is the beta buying lingerie on Valentine's Day as a covert contract (if I get her this, she'll have to wear it and have sex with me). Not so in my dynamic - she's fucking me because she wants to fuck me. A new lingerie set is just to spice it up. Like new sex toys.
/r/askMRP19/05/17 02:42 PM
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No need to be a fashion plate. Just need to be attractive.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 07:19 PM
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No. Looking like a chubby dufus with a bland haircut, unbuilt arms & shoulders, and bland khakis is "every dad".
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 06:02 PM
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remember to yell at trump, have at her guy. Just grab 'em by the pussy hat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 03:01 PM
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The only one calling you a rapist is your fellow bloops - for doing the same shit TRP says to do, and which you continually rail against on here. How's the shoe feel on the other foot?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 02:50 PM
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It's not rape if a feminist does it! Equality for all!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 02:49 PM
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It's the nature of the beast. We're wired to spread our seed far and wide. Wife is excellent, which makes this tough for me in particular - would be easy if she was half as shitty as some of the wives on here. Ultimately, no matter what she does, she can't be someone different. She can't be conquered, because I've already done that. She's (so far) unwilling to explore further depths I've mentioned before. We'll see what happens. I'm giving her time to follow, after nuking the paradigm. But my wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/17 01:23 PM
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The pump is so rewarding. Looking like a Greek God when you get done with a good lifting session. Fuels my desire to get in and lift everyday. Keep at it. You'll eventually notice yourself looking great on a normal basis without a pump. Automatic confidence booster
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 03:52 PM
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I've just started getting responses from people noticing (wow have you been working out? Etc). Progress is good, but remember, you didn't balloon up 50 lbs overnight. Noticeable progress is the beginning of dread, but you have to keep working and become objectively "hawt" in all areas - body, dress, attitude, posture, and frame. You constantly worry what she's feeling - that's unattractive. That's what girlfriends are for.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 10:54 AM
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would you ever cheat on me? "It's not cheating if you're taping it" with a smirk, bear hug and kiss on the forehead. Also, if a woman initiates and you want to fuck her, fuck her brains out. Pay no attention to how timidly she initiates. She invited you to be a man and take her in a moment she felt a bit of actual dread, and you acted like a deaf mute. Do women typically get wet for deaf-mutes?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 10:46 AM
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Important point. A single woman can pretend that she wasn't "the bad guy" for fucking a married dude. A married woman knows she can try to excuse it all she wants, but she's looking like an asshole in some capacity of word gets out.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 01:34 AM
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Be nice. There's no one or thing to blame for his wife fucking other guys behind his back - that "just happens!"
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 08:48 PM
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Sniff, Sniff And I was just 3 more nice guy points away from a pat on the back...dammit....
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 08:43 PM
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This literally just happened during my lunchtime this afternoon, so no. I'll be perfectly candid - I'm riding a validation high right now so I'm not going to make any decisions yet. I'll reflect on it after I manage to deflate my ego and see. I've said before that I don't want to cheat, so I probably won't, but this is getting tough man. Majority of men fail to approach women because they are afraid of being rejected and told "no". I'm in the unenviable position of being hesitant to approach wom…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 07:40 PM
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Can't second this enough. Unless she's a total slut or damaged as you say, a woman will not go out of her way to cheat on a man she is in love with (right now). We know how women love - they don't love the man, they love the idea of the man and the feelings he gives her. If you are awesome in her hamster's mind, and you bring the tingles, she's "in love" with you, until she's not. This reminds me of a good pickup lesson from TRP. If a woman says she has a husband or BF, listen to how she talks a…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 07:33 PM
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6'0, 11% BF, you must be frickin shredded
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 03:38 PM
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No one is seriously considering that. I'm 37, and know for a fucking certainty I could bang a 25 year old (literally had to fight my natural instincts not to, to avoid cheating on my wife). It's not hard for a man that age, if he is objectively hot to score that level of ass. Now LTR? Marriage? Sure that's gonna be tough in that age differential. But you assume one thing...that men actually want an LTR or marriage. Perhaps, they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 03:29 AM
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Because it isn't true, you know it isn't true, and you post these things in an effort to discourage men from achieving their full potential. It's not good faith debate, it's agenda-driven shilling. "The loves of their lives", you mean, the bill of good they sold themselves and are selling you when they repeat this bunk?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 03:16 AM
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You're dead wrong about LTRs. There are defend looking post wall women in my office and my wife's office who can't keep a man if their lives depended on it. Going through your post history, it's pretty clear you are a feminist/bloop troll, so this it the last of my time you'll be wasting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 10:05 AM
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You're only referring to sex. Clearly a half-decent looking 37 year old woman can out fuck me in the market. Problem is that's not what they want. They want LTR/marriage, and they can't get it with a good AF/BB combo. The alphas only pump and dump them, and they don't want to saddle themselves with a thirsty beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 03:06 AM
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Wait, a red polled and a blue pulled admittedly agreeing on something? Quick, delete your comment before the universe implodes!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 10:31 PM
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I'm pretty much there, and guess what, chicks don't offer to fuck you out of nowhere. You have to at lease interact with them. You 16 year olds crack me up with how easy you think it is to get oussy just for being chiseled. It's way easier, but women are not desperate and won't just fuck you if you snap your fingers. Be Chad all you want, but Brad, Thad, Tyrone and Xavier are available too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 09:48 PM
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Two parts to that: Hot. Jocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 09:42 PM
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So what do? Should I kill myself for not being Chad, or jerk my dick until it's raw while dreaming about him like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 08:40 PM
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Yes they do. It doesn't matter hot good he looks if he's an awkward creep when the women meet him. He's likely smooth (enough) on top of his looks to seal the deals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 08:11 PM
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here's my reply to a similar comment. What do you make of this? And if he starts dressing hotter when he's not going out with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 08:06 PM
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Why do you automatically assume I'm a fat autistic neckbeard? I know women don't do nothing, I see what they do. They use their eyes and facial expression to invite you to approach if they are interested. They use body language and conversation to show further interest and give further invitations. That's seduction. I said "women who are hot enough need much less personality and game". And it's true. Hotter women need not try as hard as their less attractive sisters to get men. They do t have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 08:02 PM
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Yes, because it's true. You need to be hot (to the particular woman) to get in the door. You have to be something more than that before she'll actually want to fuck you. Women do not fuck the man's body. She fucks the entire man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 07:59 PM
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It's not the same. Men do not get fucked on their hotness alone (though lack thereof will instantly disqualify them). They need more (status, game/personality). Women who are hot enough need much less personality and game. That's the SMV difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 07:37 PM
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Your answer is non-responsive to the question: You expect us to believe that you wouldnt even feel the slightest twinge of insecurity as to his newfound quest to become noticeably more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 07:35 PM
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Frankly it has nothing to do with the club guy in the picture or archetype - you astutely latched onto that in order to derail that train of thought. What whiskers is getting at, and what you avoided answering, is don't you think your husbands image (build, clothing, car, detailed attention to style and hair, the whole package) would be different and more calculated to be as "hot" as possible if he was chasing (and getting) ass for five years instead of being married to you for five years?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 07:29 PM
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Ok. Now imagine one day he starts going to the gym and lifting. And does this six days a week. And keeps doing this for months, getting noticeably more muscular and toned. You expect us to believe that you wouldnt even feel the slightest twinge of insecurity as to his newfound quest to become noticeably more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 07:25 PM
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You intentionally chose an absurd example as your club guy. We aren't stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 06:19 PM
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Right, but if I couldn't back it up, that wouldn't have been the result. I'd have been laughed at/dismissed/divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 03:51 PM
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My SMV is definitely higher. She's been working too and has improved herself quite a bit, but I'm way ahead of her. She's Starting to throw more comfort as she is working on improving things on her end, big time. She's initiating sex a lot. She got a Kama Sutra book. She's dressing in lingerie at night without any prompting from me. She's asking for it in the ass. She's upped her foreplay 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 03:17 PM
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she knows where I'm going with this, and is wisely choosing not to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 03:13 PM
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You're missing the nuance. I said that generally our wives won't allow us to look terrible. They of course want us to be presentable. They don't want us looking fuckable. That's the difference. Wives want their man to look nice. They don't want him to look hot. (Wait, yes they do. Oh wait, no they don't. But yeah, they kinda do).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 03:08 PM
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Mine keeps complimenting me on the body, says she's glad I'm getting healthy, then proceeds to tell me how I've become way too cocky and arrogant and it's a huge turn off. THEN, she proceeds to fuck the daylights out of me half an hour later. I think it's a riot. They hate it and they love it at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 03:04 PM
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There is no such thing as rape by deception in the U.S.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 03:00 PM
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Yeah, 6'1, 195, and I've been lifting 6 days a week for that year and a half. How much shit did the Mrs give you when you started lifting? How bout when she realized you were serious and it wasn't just a "phase"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 02:44 PM
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Of course it's counter intuitive. Most of this stuff is. Before I discovered MRP I never would have dreamed that "make yourself less available to your wife increases her attraction". Or "having other women flirt with you makes your wife want you more". Or "make fun of her when she nags you about stupid shit, and she'll respect you more than if you communicate with her directly and try to fix that issue". hypergamy itself and a woman's betatization of her husband is counterintuitive. Women want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 02:41 PM
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There was a case in my Crim Law textbook where a woman tried this. Guy told her he was a model photographer, they go to his place, she models, they fuck. She has him charged with rape when she realizes he wasn't a photographer at all. Court threw out the charges. Not a crime to lie about your job. She consented to sex with him. Case closed. As it should be. I could literally have every woman I've fucked charged with rape for lying to me if we want to go that route. Girls lying about their n-coun…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 02:30 PM
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I would kill myself if I had to cut down to 1,200. I couldn't eat that little. I'm struggling big time with 2,000, and I've cut out every vice I can think of. Fucking six pack better be worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 02:24 PM
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Actually, let's try this. First - does your husband lift. Yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 02:22 PM
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You have already established that you are THE special snowflake, to which nothing else applies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 02:20 PM
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Dude, I got blowback for growing the beard, discouraged from dying it (I don't dye my hair, it's a pretty cool salt and pepper, so I don't mind the gray. The beard needed it because the grey didn't come in evenly and the beard looked "patchy", which was horrible). I get eye rolls whenever I try on and buy clothes that make my musculature pop. I get shit tested for showering "too much". I get told I need to "stop starving myself" on this cut where I'm trying to get my six pack visible (since when…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 02:16 PM
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take fashion and style advice from your wife with a heaping grain of salt. your wife won't be honest with you about anything unless you look indisputably terrible in it. They will lie to prevent you from doing things that will make you more attractive. They will lie and tell you you look fine even though that shirt makes you look like a fat fuck and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 02:06 PM
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I spent a good deal of time on malefashionadvice for clothing tips, and asked the fellow MRP guys (the fashion advice sub I used for the basics, my style is sophisticated simple and professional). Have been acquiring things so my look is complete. Have spent a good deal of money, because I've gone from an XXL shirt to a Medium and a size 40 to size 32 waist in a year and a half while being pretty muscular. Always have to dress the body you have, so I've been going through quite a bit. Also resea…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 01:48 PM
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This is the fucking gayest open marriage I've ever heard of.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/17 01:14 PM
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I don't disagree, but read what they say about his scenes. It's the rough fucking, by a guy like him, that they go nuts for over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 07:52 PM
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Feminist bullshit, is what it is. Women freely sexually objectify "hawt" men, and it's fine, but if men do it to women, they're disgusting pigs (unless the woman being objectified thinks the objectifying man is "hawt" and appreciates the way he does it. In that case, all is well).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 07:34 PM
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Yep. I made the foolish mistake of explaining to her why she was being tested so much more. Waste of time. Now when she rants about it I STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/17 06:00 PM
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That's part of the "owning your shit" we preach about at MRP. Take care of the house as if you were single. Something needs to be done, do it. If you can't, delegate, or tag team it. I agree with you and understand that women does not want to be my mother, and certainly doesn't want to fuck a child-figure. I'm also right though, that the traditional BP advice of "make her life easier and less stressful, then she'll be more receptive to sex" is utter bullshit. My whole point is that future tits d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 02:53 PM
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If the "ladies" on chickflixxx are to be believed, they like what you'd imagine they'd like - rough but not brutal sex with a "hawt" guy. James Deen was their hands-down favorite, until those Sasha Grey allegations. And now...he still is, though posts come with an obligatory hamster warning. Fascinating stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 02:29 PM
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Good advice and I already do that. Step one is a timeout. When it's done and I talk to her, i end it with "if you don't do X, you will get another timeout and I'm taking away favorite toy". Have only had to take away a toy once so far
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/17 02:12 PM
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Mine's only four, but we have the same dynamic. Kid tests my wife constantly. Me, hardly ever. It's all about frame (wife is easily rattled, I'm not) and carrying through on discipline. I don't threaten comsequences. I warn, and if behavior is not corrected, I carry it out. To the letter. Every time.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/17 02:06 PM
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nonsense like this is precisely what we mean when we say "blue pill conditioning". You make it seem as though the added responsibilities of being an adult cause divorce, when we all know that's ridiculous. This is why choreplay never works.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 12:52 PM
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Don't be too sure. I started lifting heavy for 6 months before I started cutting down from 260. I looked like a fat fuck with my clothes off, but find some nice shirts where you can hide the fat while showing off how huge your shoulders, back and arms are, and you'll get noticed. Shredded is my ultimate goal, as it is the sexiest look to a majority of women, but the huge bear thing has its appeal. Dress the body you have while working toward your goal.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/17 04:41 PM
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Sore shoulder preventing you from working the shit out of the leg machines? I pulled my left glute deadlifting in March. So I worked upper body and calves until my ass was better. Faggot.
/r/askMRP06/05/17 05:09 AM
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Read the sidebar. The ideal LTR pairing is a woman having SMV one notch lower than the man. Hence, girls go for guys just above their level and try to keep him. If he's too hot for her, she knows it and is intimidated (may still fuck him, but makes her too insecure for LTR). If he's not above, she's not aroused and he's either ignored/becomes beta orbiter/or is BB potential
/r/askTRP05/05/17 02:06 PM
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If mine's lucky she's getting a slave collar. But this is a family event, so lead your family. Last year my 3 year old girl and I made breakfast. It was simple, inexpensive, and a nice way to teach daughter to appreciate what mom does for her. Will be doing the same this year.
/r/askMRP05/05/17 03:24 AM
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Preach. Most women do not like to be called or referred to as slut. It triggers their ASD and jolts them out of the zone. Show some goddamn game awareness and refer to them as something else with the same meaning. I call my wife "kitten" (for sex kitten), if you have a Dom/sub thing going you can use slave (sex slave). Everyone knows what it means, but it doesn't trigger ASD, so they love it.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 03:02 PM
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To add to this, if you employ proper Alpha posture as set forth I. The sidebar post on body language, you should be slowly scanning every room as you walk, making eye contact with everyone. Bro nod to guys, smile to women and children. If a woman flashes a smile and holds eye contact (or breaks but then immediately looks at you again), she's likely receptive to conversation. I've never had a woman give me this reaction and then shut off if I start speaking.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/17 04:39 PM
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I'm not defending him. My entire point is that his behavior is a trivial non-issue that the OP, you, and several of your cohorts have blown out of proportion (calling it "harassment" and "abuse"'in an effort to shock/scare people into treating it with unmerited importance) - it ties into RP's philosophy that women put their feelings at the center of the universe. BPs take it to the next level, demanding that a particular woman's feelings regarding a non-issue become the center of everyone else's…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:20 PM
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Correct that the hypothetical man is acting like a childish brat. should we excuse him when he acts like a child not getting his way or hold him to the expectation to act like an adult? Neither. Form your opinion of him as an individual and move on with your life, like a well-adjusted adult. He's not the one on an Internet message board crying, whining and complaining about his hurt feelings, demanding other people act to impose a solution to a hyper-individualized non-issue. You and your ilk ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:08 PM
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Initiate when you want. Have no expectations. If she accepts, fuck the ever loving daylights out of her. If she rejects, go do something else (or if you're in the middle of doing something together, go back to what you were doing). Act like nothing happened. You should already be flirting with and gaming her. See some of my previous posts for beginner tips. Start setting the stage that fun, flirty stuff is just what happens at the eyeswideshut house. In a few weeks, she'll feel like it's always …
/r/askMRP03/05/17 01:50 PM
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belittled, objectified and slut-shamed player-shamed/ pressured to legally marry. What gender were we talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 12:55 PM
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youre a lawyer and you claim anyone "deserves" anything? Where does any statute or case law say that? You have certain rights guaranteed by the federal and state constitution. Being immune to hurt feelz isn't one of them. Being treated nicely by random people isn't one of them. You do not in fact deserve such treatment, nor is it guaranteed or mandated. You BP's hate when TRP says women are children. But yet here you and your fellow women go on rant after rant about "someone hurt my feelings, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 11:13 AM
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I didn't say that, nor am I justifying or excusing such low-brow behavior. I said it does not constitute abuse or harassment, despite how badly your feelings may be hurt. Nor does something so damn inconsequential require some sort of coordinated social shaming on social media. It is not also a societal issue that needs to be addressed. By the way, none of us deserves anything. It's that mentality that needs to be adjusted. Quit believing you deserve or are entitled to anything. You aren't. Your…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 03:49 AM
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There you go. abuse It's not abuse either. Grow up, Stop over-sensationalizing everything that you don't like, and quit demanding that others give a fuck about such ridiculous trivialities. This is why no one takes you SJWs seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:45 AM
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Just because you don't like it does t mean it's harassment. It's not. And frankly, you provide a great example of what is wrong with woman's thinking. You don't like something, it's therefore a criminal offense. You now feel entitled to people's sympathies for what you consider some grievous offense, when really, it's just some asshole being an asshole. Introspection is warranted here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:26 AM
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It's not that they have different tastes. It's that they always say they do, and as I replied to another commenter, cannot simply admit that they might like muscular dominant men and skinny hipster male feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 12:31 AM
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Most of the shit the women write on here are shit tests. By and large, both pill women have a disdain for TRP and MRPs. They mostly imagine us all to be ugly, autistic neckbeards. But since we're the only ones here, they have to interact with us. Hence the shit tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:40 PM
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She told me that she pursued him, and that it was a lot of making out and heavy petting before her co-worker put a stop to it. LOL!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 08:18 PM
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I like my boyfriend women like their 'nice guys' They like their orbiters a lot. No ones disputing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 07:59 PM
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there are other guys in line who are perfectly nice. That's just it. You do have more options. Problem is, you don't like these options
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 07:33 PM
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You're missing the point a bit. It's that the BP women, in particular, will reject the idea of liking the dominant, masculine man if confronted about it or in an anti-RP circle jerk, claiming to be attracted to some opposite (you're right, no one likes neckbeards). FWIW I agree that women don't require 6'7 juice heads with enormous dicks. I try telling that to TRP noobs and have tried with incels (Christ, what a fucking mistake that was), but if you loathe yourself, I can't help you. They can be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 06:40 PM
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Why should a man have to prove himself to you? What do you bring other than eat his food, drink the alcohol he paid for, and chat? Men should invest time and money into you, why? Because you have a vagina? What makes yours so special? The fact that you set an arbitrary timeline for him to maybe see it? The boy sort of 'proves' himself to the girl by being a gentleman because she has more options than he does. Always. Perhaps for immediate sex, sure. But if you aren't dating thirsty beta males (w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 06:31 PM
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First off, 25 isn't post wall. There may be men who prefer that because of the attendant horseshit of actually dealing with 19 year olds (can't legally drink, might not have car, may live with parents, probably broke, immature to the point of being annoying). Your better straw man would be some guy claiming to prefer a 35 year old. Don't know anyone on TRP or MRP who said, all else being equal, they'd prefer a post-30 woman to a 20 something for any purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 06:18 PM
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You'd think the people on this sub have been around long enough to know that the generalizations are subject to nuance, shades of grey, and occasional outliers. What's funny is that women need to be that outlier every time, if it inquiry is focused on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 06:14 PM
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You are a self described geeky feminist dork. Depending where in the Feminism Spectrum you fall, I imagine you expect men to be your servants and playthings, which is pretty much how you treat them based on what you've said. Tell me, if feminism means equality, why should either of the genders invest more into a relationship than the other? Shouldn't it be equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 06:11 PM
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Your BIL might have been surprised - I bet you sugar daddy would have probably had a good laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 06:08 PM
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I don't care what you do, but I do find it comical that you're now justifying it (well, it's not as bad as what they do, so it's OK).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 05:56 PM
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So you are literally screening for the epitome of Beta Bux - pays for everything for you on dates (even though you make your own money), must wait 10 dates for sex, etc. if he won't provide for you and live his life on your terms, it's a no-go. And this is why TRP says to ghost women like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 05:25 PM
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There's nothing wrong with explaining a process like how (or not) to install a chandelier. You don't DEER with respect to your opinions/actions. You're lucky - she's actually telling the therapist the truth. Cheating on her twice with your other trust issues has her at insanely high constant dread, right out of the gate. She's worried that you'll cheat again or just leave her ass. That's why she's being so submissive. It's good if you lead a woman to that point properly - problem here is that yo…
/r/askMRP02/05/17 05:11 PM
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The pathetic nature of white knighting aside, it bothers me from an intellectual standpoint. So, you believe that all women are strong, fierce, independent, goddesses, and yet they are simultaneously so fragile, weak and helpless that they will swoon onto your cock when you write a harshly worded comment to someone on an Internet message board. Guess that's just part of the doublethink necessary to be an SJW.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 05:01 PM
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don't confuse LTR's with those of us who are married with children (like me). i could sleep around with younger girls. It would cost me my marriage to a "quality", good-looking woman who fucks well on the regular, and the ability to see my daughter every day. That's the trade off I find myself in now that I'm RP aware. some guys are also more relationship-minded, whether that's from scarcity mentality (me as a youth), or because they want to have a family, and/or for logical reasons, such as STD…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 04:34 PM
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That's fine, but they shoot down the type they earlier said was attractive, when a RP states that all women find muscular men attractive. They never answer "I like muscular and skinny men", they say "I do t like muscular men, just my skinny boyfriend".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 03:35 PM
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Oh come now. There are very few people of either gender who are truly self-aware. We all lie to ourselves, probably more so than to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 03:11 PM
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You realize everything they wrote on that other thread is a shit test, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 03:06 PM
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Don't know if I'm exactly surprised, but it's funny to see how Red Pill aware women are, as long as the topic/comment has nothing to do with them personally. If it does, it's right back to AWALT solipsism. BP gals are great - they know what's attractive, they know what women want in a man, and they'll come right out and say it here, but always backpedal if you try to apply it to them, because NAMALT and they are special snowflake outliers. Every. Damn. Time. Example: BP "well of course women wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 03:06 PM
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Surprised by the fervor that feminist leaning men on this sub will white knight at the drop of a hat, often more than some women. This surprised me too (though I don't know why).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 02:55 PM
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My BIL is failing spectacularly with wife's sis, and the pay gap is a huge reason. Says he feels like less of a man, and has let that mentality literally make him into less of a man. For better or worse, my wife was my sugar mama all through college and after for a bit, so I had extensive experience in not letting that matter. No wonder I married the girl - fucks the hell out of me and buys me shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 02:34 PM
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Indeed. Instead of divorce rape, it'll be consensual divorce fucking.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 02:30 PM
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"Great job! Now you can finally afford me!" "Cool. Now I can quit my job tomorrow to start my own porn production company." Give her a slap on the ass. "Nice. So you want to go to [wherever you want to vacation] this summer or this fall?" Actually go and book the trip. "Yes! My lifelong dream of being a man-whore has finally come true!" Or, could go all leader/command presence with looking her in the eyes and saying "Great job, babe. I'm very proud of you". Shows it does t rattle you, and comes …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 02:27 PM
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you'll be able to tell her there aren't anymore clubbing nights. Better: "My wife doesn't waste her time and money clubbing like a 20 year old." Even better: she just stops doing it because she either can't stay off your cock, or because she's so dreaded about what you'll be doing while she's out that she needs to mate guard you.
/r/askMRP02/05/17 02:19 PM
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You arguably shouldn't. but MRP is a much older crowd than TRP. Most of us have been married for over a decade, well before the manosphere, and when getting married was just "what you did" if you wanted to start a "legitimate" family. Unless you have a Delorean and working flux capacitor, not much we can do but either stay married, or next our wives.
/r/askMRP02/05/17 02:16 PM
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Hubert Keller's Burger Bar, Mandaly Bay, Las Vegas. Kobe beef burger topped with fois gras and drizzled with black perigourd truffle sauce. Fucking heaven. I have a serious case of ONEitis for this burger. Holy. Shit.
/r/askMRP02/05/17 02:13 PM
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You have to keep a number of things in mind. First, who knows how well TRP worked or didn't, when you don't know the effort the poster put in? Here, we at least ask what your lifting numbers are, height/weight, etc. we can also tell if you have done and understood the reading. Guys can still lie, but what's the point? No one is in MRP to be impressed. We want tools that work and to bounce ideas off other men. That's why you don't see field reports bragging about how one of us had a FFFFM reverse…
/r/askMRP02/05/17 02:08 PM
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Girlz rule, boys drool!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 01:54 PM
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Prepare for the worst. See a lawyer and get ducks in a row in case she drops the divorce hammer. Till then, keep reading, internalizing the message, and lift your ass off. Fake it till you make it, but seriously stop giving any fucks about her being upset. As far along as I am, if mines being a cunt and I leave the house to go to the bookstore, I get at least 10 phone calls and a multitude of texts. I don't answer, don't respond. I get home when I get home, and I act like nothing happened - beca…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 01:48 PM
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I started losing battles again, and having to play in her game of ultimatums. If OP learned anything, he'd know that the only way to win this game is not to play it
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 01:42 PM
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Worrying about a wife making more money is beta weakness at its best (literally falling into her frame and whining about how much better it is) - good on you for recognizing this trap. Now avoid it like the plague. Keep maintaining your frame. Your job is part of your mission. What she does either doesn't matter or, in your case, is great. You are on the same team. More $ from her = more $ for the team. Keep leading, always. A&A the living fuck out of any shit tests about money (and there will b…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 01:38 PM
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We're getting meta here, but my theory is that certain women are drawn more toward the happy fun archetype, others the quiet brooder. Regular, non-intellectual types tend toward the former. After all, girls just wanna have fun, so latching on to a guy who is fun and laughs every minute is a natural draw for them. Your more intellectual/artsy/damaged chicks tend to like the brooding type more. Probably because of the mysterious nature (she thinks "he's cute, but he looks so tortured. I wonder wha…
/r/askMRP01/05/17 05:08 PM
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Remember - you owe her nothing. You do not owe her money. You do not owe her your time. You do not owe her a fucking explanation. So don't give her one. Part of STFU is to ignore. This is easy at work. Just don't text her, call her, or anything. When you get home, bound into the house like nothing's wrong - because there is nothing wrong. Slap her ass and go about your business. Stop feeling guilty for saying No. It's almost as though there's a sidebar book about that...
/r/askMRP29/04/17 03:49 AM
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I have a strong feeling that she is going to try and revert back to where we were before since I am not done here. This is why we say "embrace the suck". They will all try to revert to betatizing us, because it's in their nature. That's why this journey of constant improvement never ends. Always be better than the day before, always be one step ahead, always be leading. And when you are a man of value, she will eagerly follow (but never overtly admit it). Or she won't, and which point she is rep…
/r/askMRP27/04/17 03:42 AM
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Yeah don't respond to that other than "we can talk when I get home". Then never mention the fucking thing again. It's the equivalent of STFU if you 2 were in the same room. She's venting feels. I'm just angry. Keep doing the work, mentally as well as physically. When you achieve total abundance mentality and outcome independence, anger becomes the rare emotion it should be. Everything that can be controlled is under control - everything else? Who gives a fuck. Nothing to be angry about.
/r/askMRP25/04/17 10:03 PM
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Sounds like she's just being a properly dreaded woman. Can't really help with the email, since you gave a synopsis and not the text. Can you cut/paste?
/r/askMRP25/04/17 09:02 PM
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It's really more like Fight Club here. We dont just drill sergeant guys so they get their asses in shape - we do it so that those guys who are too weak, stupid, and ego centric either learn to kill their ego (a major first step - required to fully internalize the message here), or GTFO because there is no hope for them. (Think the scene where guys are berated on the porch for 3 days before being let in the house). Rollo says something to the effect of "perform triage on those you can help, worry…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/17 04:55 PM
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Her sending a text that directs him to an email is particularly obnoxious. So now he must jump through hoops for the pleasure of getting into her frame. Wow.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/17 04:49 PM
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Me: Hi Her: Hi Me: what's your name? And go from there. It's fucking easy. If she says nothing after the name, ask what she does, does she live or work around here, etc. then when she asks about you, tell her to guess, get the hamster spinning.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 04:10 AM
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It's a catch-22. You can never have absolute freedom, because there will always be those who use it to obtain power over others, this destroying freedom. The best we can manage, as a practical matter, is American style Rule of Law with free speech, etc. Thus, the rules should be clear and evenly applied to all. Is it total freedom? No, but it's the most workable way to achieve maximum practical freedom. Works for me - except when it doesn't. What I truly despise about the SJWs is their efforts t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:40 PM
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I hope not. What a sad fucking ending to freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 09:19 PM
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Of course they don't. The BP/SJW left have claimed the moral high ground. Anything to the contrary is blasphemy and heresy. Yours is not to analyze, but to hear and obey. I swear to God (pun intended) the left/SJW/BPs are the new religious right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 08:07 PM
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[s]he gets all upset and says "this is why you don't get sex, all you do is talk about it." Then I'm still not getting sex more than once every month or two. LOL. You're right that his response was too "bash you over the head" sexual, but seriously - when the hell will guys here learn that "we're not having sex tonight", "you don't get sex", or some variation literally means "I'll totally fuck you if you can demonstrate some balls".
/r/askMRP20/04/17 12:53 PM
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Will do. I'll also send pics of my wife's face when daughter brings home girlfriends in college who can't stop drooling over me. Should be priceless.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 10:32 PM
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Slim athletic hot girls have the opportunity to not do shitty things and end up with total d bags. Oh, I'll be up front as fuck with her. If she's running around with bad boy losers, I'll tell her "fuck that guy now and then if you absolutely must, but do not get involved with him - you can do better". Converse if she starts dating a Nice GuyTM "I don't care if you think he "makes sense". He doesn't light your fire, and you're leading this chump on. These are the guys who get all angry, bottle i…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 10:29 PM
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spot on except don't apologize. Say that "upon reflection, that joke may have been ill-timed" if it truly was bad form. If she's just being feelzy, then a hug and light A&A, something like "I'm so sorry ... That you and your parents are such lightweights that you can't handle a joke. How many whaaaaambulances should I call?".
/r/askMRP19/04/17 10:22 PM
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Fuckin A right. She's already in soccer and gymnastics, and she sees mommy and daddy going to the gym all the time. This will just be what life is to her. She will know no different. I will not let her get fat, just as I would not allow my son (if I had one) to become a fat neckbeard.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 10:18 PM
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Like everything else BE the example of what a man should be. My 4 year old girl idolizes me, tells everyone how big and strong I am, and I am her rock. I fully expect her attitude to shift as she becomes a teen - but I won't. I will set and enforce boundaries, I will remind her that I love her always, and I will do something almost no parents do - I will tell her the goddamn truth. I'll tell her what will happen if she becomes a slut, or if she settles for an AFC she doesn't want to fuck (find a…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 10:13 PM
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for women, just be the oak and tightly embrace them within your strong branches. That's it. This is another place STFU is your friend. If it goes on too long you can break the tension with an inappropriate joke. In this case, since no one died, you can always go "I'd love to comfort you more but my double dose of Viagra is starting to kick in, if you catch my drift".
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/17 09:47 PM
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It can depend. My dad got really sick last year, and my mom practically lived in the hospital with him for 3 weeks. But yeah, best not to count on that. I hope to go out with the same shit-eating grin I have on right now, whether my woman is beside me, or whether I'm thinking about the cute nurse's ass, or both.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/17 09:44 PM
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I did approach them and had one hanging on me all night. My question was more, is this generally how they act? Just because it seemed to once, doesn't mean it always does
/r/askTRP19/04/17 04:28 PM
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I think the hardest part was having my wife there with me. She kept asking if I was okay, asking how I was feeling, and was staring intently at my face to see if I was tearing up or whatever. Last time I cried was when my grandfather, major influence in my life, died. My wife was around and utterly useless in providing any compassion or comfort. Not that she was being a cold bitch, mind you, but that she literally had no idea what the fuck to do. I've seen her naturally comfort other women, chil…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/17 01:18 PM
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r/RedPillNonmonogamy Go there. It's low traffic, but those Guys know their shit and approach from an RP perspective. Open relationships and shit like this will be tricky, as they'll tell you. You're going to have to maintain frame and OI like never before, and communicate more than is commonly suggested here. Ask yourself this - are you willing to let your marriage go if this happens and you OR wife can't handle the fallout? Are you willing to do the MFM she's likely to ask for in return? Or let…
/r/askMRP12/04/17 09:01 PM
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Way late to this party, but facial ugliness doesn't matter unless you're fucking hideous, as long as you have your body, game and frame on lock. Look at some of these male "heartthrob" celebrities like Benedict Cumberbach. Chicks think he's "hawt" even though he's ugly as fuck. That's because his other attributes are so appealing they literally hamster his ugly mug into a positive, like he's "quirky" looking.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 07:08 PM
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You're overthinking it. She's in a silly mood and being funny. Have fun back. If she takes it, tell her the rental fee is a BJ a day.
/r/askMRP12/04/17 05:48 PM
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Her being basically alpha widow and me being hard core beta at the beginning of our relationship, it is an uphill battle. I'm a firm believer in this. It sucks to confront, but when a man starts full beta, she was never attracted to him. Attraction may form after the improvements, but it's a tough one and you were 100% right to call it like it is and file. Congrats on you for being self-aware and escaping the sunk cost fallacy. I have no doubt you will be successful moving forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/17 04:39 PM
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Expect similar bullshit when you start dropping mad fat. Mine accused me of starving myself. She loves/hates this six pack that's about to pop.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/17 04:34 PM
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Your name is amused mastery. Fucking love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 10:50 AM
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They do - but only as applied to every other woman. Never as to themselves. You can get a woman to eagerly agree to RP truth after RP truth - so long as you're talking about someone else. It's funny.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 10:04 PM
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Can't believe his strategy didn't work /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 12:41 PM
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Well, people react well to people who are nice to them, because it's disarming, and can elevate the total mood (like when sex is better when both are really into it - positive feedback loop sort of thing). In a sexual/dating/flirting context, of course. It signals that the woman appears at least "not unreceptive". Of course a man who knows what he's doing also knows "nice" doesn't mean much beyond that. Need to see some IOIs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 12:39 PM
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I agree. Bullying (within reason) needs to come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 12:33 PM
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I have a fat girl personality, which I think is a compliment. Fat girls run the gamut, like everything else. Some I know we're miserable bitches (no surprise). Some like my wife's best friend are boring as fuck (seriously, if you can't be bothered to be physically attractive, at least be fun and funny). Then some were pretty cool. Do they mean it in the sexual context? Reason I ask is because "fat girls" only redeeming SMV quality was their general willingness to do freaky kinky shit in order to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 12:30 PM
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its natural human social reaction. When a smiling person with a pleasant demeanor approaches, we can drop our guard because it seems they are not a threat. Jus think about how you feel when an angry person approaches you versus a happy person. Your guard goes way up in the first case, because they project a threatening demeanor. This is why the red pill preaches frame as much as lifting for men. You define your reality. You are a calm, satisfied man of abundance who is busy living his dream. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 12:24 PM
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If he was doing it to be funny, complaining to the manager is fucking hilarious. I'm betting he was a creep though, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 12:18 PM
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Yeah, I've known Indian guys who had mad game, lifted, and did better than their white compadres due to the draw of their ethnicity (at a predominantly white college). Here's the thing, these dudes were all born here or raised here, and we're city kids that got into the club scene early. Their game and frame was crazy tight. I doubt Indian guys born and raised in India would be like this. It's almost as though the arrogance and cockiness necessary to be a playa is discouraged in Indian culture. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 12:07 PM
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Dominance does not have to mean physically restraining them every time. Having dominant frame can do it. get on your back, I want to taste you again. This. Her body was given to you. Either physically take control, or order her to present her sex to you the way you want it. Your focus must be on your pleasure - if that includes ordering her to present her asshole for you to rim, then fucking do it. No hesitation. And don't fucking ask them what they want. Women will tell you if they want somethi…
/r/askTRP08/04/17 11:57 AM
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Not surprised. == Results from bdsmtest.org == 96% Non-monogamist 96% Primal (Hunter) 89% Voyeur 86% Experimentalist 83% Exhibitionist 77% Ageplayer 76% Dominant 64% Daddy/Mommy 59% Switch 50% Master/Mistress 41% Brat tamer 34% Rope bunny 26% Vanilla 24% Primal (Prey) 24% Submissive 23% Owner 23% Rigger 13% Girl/Boy 13% Masochist 13% Sadist 12% Brat 6% Degrader 4% Slave 2% Degradee 2% Pet
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 03:50 AM
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but I doubt that she'll find a better partner than I am. Need to be at the point where you know, and she knows, that she cannot do better. This is where dread is so important. She must understand, without being overtly told, that she could easily be replaced with a woman 10 years younger in a month or less (as an LTR; her pussy should be replaceable in under a week. Get to that point). Women are not stupid, she'll not admit it, but she knows her lot in life. She knows her SMV and RMV deep down. …
/r/askMRP06/04/17 03:43 PM
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To a thirsty man, a tablespoon of piss is a sparkling oasis.
/r/askMRP06/04/17 03:32 PM
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Here's the thing. In your scenario, if the couple divorced, what does she do? Chances are, she hits the gym, watches her diet, dresses to attract again, and meets new guys. She'll probably fuck ones she likes like crazy, just like she did with hubby back in the day. This is why dread, as defined at MRP, works. You, the man, are essentially returning to and always continuing to be the man women want to fuck, including hopefully your wife. Be the guy she's dating and hoping to land, and look at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:14 PM
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Yeah, defending your mate is generally not whiteknighting, it's the man's job to defend his mate and brood from attack. Not to be confused with mate guarding, which is beta. Also not to be confused with being captain save-a-ho. It's not your job to solve problems of a woman's own making. However, I can see whiteknighting within a relationship, though there should be a different term. It's when you try to defend your woman from her own feelings, or you try to defend her in a battle where she does…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:05 PM
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when she's mad at me. Dude, you are missing out. Getting hatefucked by your SO is great. Don't make it a habit, but sometimes it's exactly what's needed to break the tension. Next time she gets heated and in your face, look her straight in the eyes, say nothing, and kiss her hard. No hesitation, no half-assing. Go for it 100%. You'll be surprised. For the RP answer, her being mad is likely the result of a failed shit test or other loss of frame. Re-establish by doing what I said, and what you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:59 PM
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Zero fucking abundance. That's it. If my prime-aged rib eye walks off my plate, no prob. There's plenty of other meat in the market. These betas are starving you see, so crying and thrashing about over the loss of their last scrap of overcooked hamburger is expected. If only there was a way to change that... Edit: typo
/r/askMRP06/04/17 02:51 PM
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More like: Her: "...no?" (while feeling "Jesus, I can't believe I ever fucked this goober").
/r/askMRP06/04/17 02:47 PM
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First off, thanks for taking all this the time to write these responses. It is appreciated. You also likely would have never entered into a marriage with your wife without being open to her that you wanted to be polyamorous. Since you have done this years ago and routinely cheated, it isn't like you just arrived at this desire. See that's it. I committed to my wife about 0.5 seconds before I penetrated her for the first time, because she asked if we could be exclusive, and I wasn't about to blow…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/17 02:21 AM
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You sound like a fuckin woman. Yeah I managed to out-do the faggotry on this one. I get it. Figure out what I really want, develop the plan, execute, and be ready own the shit, whatever shit it is. Thanks for the ass kicking
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/17 01:58 AM
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Well, I'm looking for solutions. If I don't want to get fat but want the slice of cake, I know what I need to do (eat less during that day, or add calorie burn to work off the overage). So what do I do here? Lead wife to polyamory, with the full understanding that 1) that's RP on Nightmare Mode, and 2) I can certainly live that life if I want, but it may not be with her? As I said, I want to have my cake and eat it too. Is there any way to do that?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/17 05:22 PM
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Try cultivating abundance mentality to help with OI and IDGAF. Run game on strange women, play catch and release if you want. Once you internalize that you can be fucking other women with relative ease, your OI and IDGAF will become more natural. Also, are you fun? Are you actively flirting with/gaming your wife? Women rarely get the urge to jump on a cock out of nowhere. They need to be turned on. I'll add some of my posts as an edit so you can maybe try some new things. Edit: this will get you…
/r/askMRP30/03/17 04:50 PM
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Men are exclusively sexually attracted to physical traits in women. Not true. Women have personality traits, or demeanors if you will, that make them sexier (or less sexy) than their looks. An objectively prettier girl with the facial expression and dress of a prude may be less sexy than another woman who carries herself differently. Ever heard a guy say "she's not the hottest one here, but I bet she's a headboard shaker/fucks like a wild animal/etc"? Or hear a guy say "she's not that pretty, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 03:29 PM
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I may need to better understand myself a bit here. The usual question a man gets on here is "What do YOU want?". Well, if we're going to be honest, my answer is "I want it all." I want the cake, I want to eat it too, and I want some woman licking excess frosting off my cock till I blow in her mouth. To answer your question, I'm thinking there's a 95% chance that I can get away with fucking around if I'm caught once. I'm likely too high value for her to leave just because I drilled strange - her …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/17 10:21 AM
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Seriously, act like nothing happened. If she asks you if you're on drugs again, say "yep, my own personal invention. Part cocaine, part heroine, part Peptol Bismol. I call it the Pink Puff. $50 an ounce". She brings anything like that up again, broken record with "money talks, bullshit walks". Then carry on like normal and change the subject.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/17 03:01 AM
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Squatted for the first time in my life (I am 51) and I have been sore for five days That's known as DOMS. Soreness and stiffness from using the muscles in a strenuous way for the first time in a long time. Happens to everyone. Once it subsides, squat again. It won't happen the next time. Eye contact was tough for me at first too. Focus on it. It is as important as proper alpha posture, maybe more so. We communicate more with our eyes than you may think. Try it with randoms for practice. Store cl…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/17 02:55 AM
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Gave me a BJ. Hasn't givin me one since she was pregnant with kid #2, 8 years ago. I mean I get primers all the time. This was start to finish. Step in the right direction I suppose. I'd agree. Got her doing something she hasn't done in 8 years, solely to please you? Step in the right direction indeed. 6lbs in 2 weeks is a lot. Keep your lifting and protein intake on point. Beginning of a cut, this kind of loss is OK. If it keeps up at this pace, you might be losing muscle too.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/17 02:48 AM
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Point is a lot more of them fuck just to fuck than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 10:29 PM
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You see me enough on here to know I've got sex with wife, game, looks, frame, and marriage going well now. This is the big thing I need to own, and soon, before I do something truly Catastrophic. Other Women It's only a matter of time before I cheat...again. (I'll be deleting this comment after a week in case wife ever finds this account, she can find everything else I've written and I give zero fucks). I've had a multitude of indiscretions in the past, the last being about 7 years ago. Fuck, 2/…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/17 08:36 PM
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Agree. Need to sense the tone. "Aww, he's cute" is no good. "He's cute" means you're halfway there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 06:54 PM
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I'm far from what you describe and managed to do all of the above. As the saying goes, if I can do it, anyone can. Just have to put in the work on yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 03:56 PM
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Thought this was a debate sub. Didn't think you scored points by keeping your position to yourself... Edit: typo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 03:27 PM
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So you have no substantive answer. Didn't think so
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 03:14 PM
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Then please, explain to my stupid male mind what that type of behavior is rooted in, from your far superior female mind or "education".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 03:00 PM
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No, you're being delusional. Gee, can't seem to recall any false rape trials by men against women, or any men that wanted to protract a divorce proceeding to ensure the woman ends up broke and desperate. Oh yeah, maybe all the slut shaming men do to each other, right? The only thing you've proven is an inability to debate in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 02:46 PM
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Don't confuse aggressive outburst with hatred. Men are typically more aggressive, sure. But we don't (generalizing) tend to harbor the seething anger for long periods of time that women do. To see this, just look at the lengths women will go to in order to ruin the lives of the people they hate. Long, unnecessarily protracted divorce battles conducted out of spite in an effort to destroy the man, often with little to no real upside to the woman (am a lawyer, not a divorce lawyer, and the running…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 02:31 PM
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getting high and exploring a cosmic rainbow. Haven't done that since college.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 02:23 PM
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Your sample size must not include fuck-buddies, ONS, chicks that just wanted to bang you and your bro at the same time...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 02:21 PM
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So I guess "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" only gained popularity due to everyone's misogyny, not because there was a kernel of truth to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 02:16 PM
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An anti-communist feminist bloop. Don't see those every day. That's also not the real result. Guess what? Many guys who go to TRP already resent and are angry at women. They can either internalize the teachings, let go, and move on dealing with women in the same stoic fashion as other stuff in the world, or not. If not, they're no different from the way they came in, except that they might be better at getting laid. Either way, TRP don't care. It's a sexual strategy, not sensitivity training.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 02:07 PM
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You do you. I don't resent them one bit. I also don't understand what's unfair either. The BP system fucked over men who didn't know the real rules. Once you do, it's on you if you can't/won't follow them to success.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 02:01 PM
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Exactly. Most of the trash comes out of Buzzfeed and other feminist-agenda driving crap. They should start a course called "Betabux 101"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 01:46 PM
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It's information overload, for starters. Wanna waste an afternoon? Google something like "how to lose weight". You could spend the entire day "learning" all manner of things, some which wil work, others which are total shit, and most a mixture of both. None of it is helpful. None of it is a complete package. Now look at what you suggest. "Make yourself more attractive". I'm willing to bet there is just as vast a sea of discombobulated and largely useless advice on this topic as well. It doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 01:44 PM
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it takes guys who are scared of women and makes them resent them That's not the point. The point is ultimately not to resent or be angry at women for being what they are. Know them, know their general tendencies, optimize your success with them, and if in a marriage/LTR, know your woman and calibrate accordingly. put yourself first, and if a particular woman is shit, next her and find another. If you get dumped? Who cares, find another.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 01:30 PM
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Idiot. Only CIShet white males are responsible for their own problems. Everything else is the fault of CIShet white males. You need to edumicate yourself b4 u wreck yo'self
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 01:25 PM
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I'll get the popcorn ready. A troll that can feed itself! Now I've seen everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 01:20 PM
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So, Women can do and say whatever they want, and men must worship them and never judge them. Sounds fair. By your logic, a woman with a history of stealing just has a thief's brain, so we need to just accept that and not judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 12:58 PM
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I think you can do it if done with a smile and from a place of Amused Mastery. You're right that PUA neg-style flips won't work on a wife without iron-clad frame
/r/askMRP29/03/17 12:46 PM
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Chad isn't wasting time: he's lifting right now, texting your girl right now, making her wet as we speak. nervously bites fingernails Men need to worry about themselves. That's it. Not some homoerotic Demi-God. I'm not competing with Chad, or any other men. They're competing with me.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 09:32 PM
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Lol. Wife has said to me "my friends don't have sex nearly as often as we do. Not by a long shot." Me: "Look at them, are you surprised?" Or Me: "yeah, because their marriages suck. My marriage doesn't suck."
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/17 08:02 PM
2

The pressure flip is a highly under-utilized shit test response in here. You're right that it may not be for noobs, but it should be part of the repertoire for more advanced guys.
/r/askMRP28/03/17 05:57 PM
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Male here. Including any genital touching? Even tease jobs? God, at least 50. If someone had to cum? Probably between 30-50 (who keeps count at that point?). PIV = 15. (Wow, I thought I was a low-count loser. Guess not?). Can't answer your "appropriate" question because your definition is too inclusive. The PIV and PIA numbers are all that matter, unless the BJ number hits a crazy threshold.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 07:20 PM
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Why are all these women out here giving unreciprocated bj's? They're called Catholic girls. I went to a catholic university. Getting blown or HJ from a random girl at my frat's parties was easy. Literally shooting fish in a barrel. Getting laid with a bunch of virgins? Not so easy. It got to the point where I would ascribe almost zero value to a BJ and would ghost anyone who only gave hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 07:13 PM
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Flirt and be friendly with all of them. Good rapport = social proof. Example - so 2 weeks ago I open a 4 set at a bar by asking them to hand me a cocktail napkin. I'm charming and talk to all of them for a while. This past Friday, same bar, the mother hen is there alone (everyone else just left and she was waiting for a ride). So I chat with her. Well, this 2 set sitting to my right opens me as I was chatting with that mother hen. Why? Social Proof. Other woman laughing and chatting with me = I'…
/r/askTRP27/03/17 01:51 PM
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I have no issue with a spanking occasionally, but I forbid it in my house. Problem is, in this goddamn day and age, God forbid your kid blurt out that they get spanked to the wrong person at school/daycare/wherever. The shitstorm that could ensue is not worth the trouble. Enforce boundaries through other means works fine, if you actually enforce them.
/r/askMRP24/03/17 04:45 PM
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use MRP lessons on the kid. Amused Mastery works wonders for that age. Create boundaries, and enforce them in an even, consistent, business-like fashion. My 3 year old acts up? She gets one warning. Does it again? Immediate time out. Zero emotion on my part, all professional. I then ask her to explain why she got a timeout. I then tell her if she does this same thing again, next time is a time out AND a toy is taken away for the day. Do it. Be consistent. Do not get angry or emotional at their h…
/r/askMRP24/03/17 03:20 PM
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it's been about 9-10 months since I've found MRP I can...bench 105 So you're weak. Which means you're either scrawny at 170 or skinny-fat. Not attractive. There's a reason we say Lift, Lift, Lift...
/r/askMRP24/03/17 12:44 PM
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Well, you hate other men that are successful with women, so makes sense in your case
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 10:15 AM
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We need numbers on lifts and weight loss. Losing 10 pounds is a good start but meaningless in attraction terms if you're still 250. I agree with u/ParadoxThatDrivesUs. You probably aren't attractive - physically or with game. You admit the latter. So read my post, which is geared to this type of thing. In any case, she's clearly not attracted to you, because She simply doesn't notice or care about what I do or that I'm not as available to her. If she valued you highly, she'd give a shit. You nee…
/r/askMRP24/03/17 03:47 AM
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How many posts do we have to have by "men" who can't figure out how to handle a simple fucking logistics challenge without going full autist? Who cares what she contributes - you also need this car, so lead by either handling it yourself, or delegating all responsibility for handling it to her. Not one part of this is fucking difficult. Not. One. Part. It's pulling teeth to get her to contribute her fair share of money... The fuck? Does she not contribute her income to the household fund? Only h…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/17 08:53 PM
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He is the literal Beta in waiting. Crushing on Rachel since a teenager, finally gets her after decades of pursuit, right after she hits the wall and is done riding the CC. But portrayed as the hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 08:09 PM
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Remember, he didn't just run out an fuck copy girl right away. He called Rachel from the bar to try and "fix" it, when he overheard that coworker (Mark I think) was in her apartment. THEN he went and fucked copy girl. BTW mate guarding is weak. It disgusted Rachel into pushing for the break. It would've driven cowowrker's penis into her too, but that didn't happen for some reason (I forget why Rachel and that guy didn't fuck).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 08:07 PM
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Hugh was great in that episode. "By the way, it seems perfectly clear to me that you were on a break". (They were)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 08:03 PM
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He's a decent enough looking guy, and he's a professor. That's a tingles job. His dorkiness doesn't work against him because it fits the archetype (it's "cute" to women). There was one episode where Pheobe was trying to break Rachel's attraction to Ross. And Pheobe brought up his dorkiness and that his dinosaur lectures were boring. Rachel said something like "I don't know. I always loved how passionate he got when he was talking about those stupid dinosaurs". Not says he's alpha at all (he's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 08:01 PM
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It was a whole affair with that teen student, not just a ONS. In fact he gets with a slew of women throughout the show - Emily (who goes off to Vermont with him right after meeting), Charlie, dirty girl (Rebecca Romijn played her). Yep, true higher beta all around
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 07:52 PM
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You have a lot going on with the finances. I'm sure that's weighing on your mind, and hers. Keep doing what you can to either improve that or at least stabilize it. The stress is probably showing on you (unattractive), but even more importantly, it is also likely weighing on her. Inb4 someone calls me a betabux - finances will have to be stabilized if you want her to be generally more receptive to sex. There was a whole post recently about how money doesn't make pussies wet, and it doesn't. Howe…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/17 06:15 PM
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contrary to what many in here say, a wife who regularly refuses her husband is actually deflating his confidence You only need to stop by the deadbedrooms sub to see this is true. The goal here is to be so high value, so outcome independent, that a wife's rejection is as meaningless as some floozy's from the bar.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/17 01:39 AM
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"if you're angry at me for expressing what I want then that's on you" Here's the problem. You are operating in her frame and concerned about her (utterly fucking ludicrous) feelings. The whole point of A&A is to respond in such a manner that you don't acknowledge her feelings at all - because they are bullshit in this context. Custom tailor it to work with your natural demeanor. Search the TRP main sub for different ways to do A&A. Bogey also had a great post a while back about different ways to…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/17 11:44 PM
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Her getting angry at initiating is a shit test. Use A&A. Why are you worried about coming off as sarcastic? She's being a fucking cunt. Make fun of her. "Wait til the weekend!" You: "can't this weekend. I promised your sister/friend/Whoever in her circle I'd spend the weekend with her". Said with a wink, smile, and ass slap as you go off to do whatever else And yes, initiate when you want. She shoots it down hard No, go do something else.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/17 11:13 PM
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The getting on the scale thing can totally work, if it's done from a leadership position. I don't do this, but we both use MyPlate and track calories and Marcos. I also keep tabs on what she does at the gym. Surprise surprise, she defers to my knowledge and expertise on what to do for reacher her goals, and I'm more than happy to lead. Now if a guy who is phoning this in starts trying to impose mandatory weigh-ins, that's not going to work.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/17 06:29 PM
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but for a guy a small transgression can get him labeled a pussy. that's where the relative fragility comes in. This isn't "masculine fragility", it's a response by others to a man who is not acting how they perceive nature should cause him to act. It's a perjorative because, for all the "privilege" bullshit feminists like to sell, men are held to a higher standard. If we do not meet that standard, we are ridiculed and ostracized. It goes with the territory. Example: Look how the SMP treats fat w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/17 04:38 PM
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Thanks. I'm a bit jammed up today but I'll see what I can do.
/r/askMRP22/03/17 02:05 PM
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If I was inclined to cheat I'd fuck her brains out. Oh, you were asking about you. i'll ignore the obvious (i'd never be in a LDR marriage where the long distance was any sort of permanent). Also other guys have the frame issue covered. I'd work on myself as recommended here, so that if or when you get the "Milkywayer, look, we need to talk. I don't know how to say this...but...there's someone else" phone call, you can not give a fuck and be into several plates. As to her now, to salvage this (i…
/r/askMRP22/03/17 01:34 PM
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Hmmm, horny lonely married woman away from hubby for months, gets rejected for sex (real and phone, lol)...this is a fucking cuckold porno movie waiting to happen. Chad just needs to be at the right place at the right time and have a pulse to pull this off.
/r/askMRP22/03/17 12:59 PM
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My wife was my sugar mama when we were in college. Her folks also helped us out a ton when we were starting out (they are fairly rich but not crazy). Girl couldn't stay off my dick even though the only pot I had to piss in was paid for by her parents. Didn't bother me in the fucking slightest. It was all to help the TEAM. Once we were set up, we said thanks, and carried on our own.
/r/askMRP21/03/17 04:38 PM
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"I stopped paying attention when I heard 'sex'"
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/17 04:01 PM
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I have one kid, but the cheating was like 17 years ago in college. Kid is only 3. This other gal realized that dick was cheap, and even quality Dick was cheap for her, but really tough to keep around even with her looks (and I don't have fuckin ONEitis or anything, the woman is a legit HB9). I suspect having a kid was probably her biggest problem - no alpha (and that's who she dates) is going to be retroactively cucked. And she has no interest in betas, so she went back to hubby. I guess it's go…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 03:51 PM
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Sisters compare their men all the time. Your wife flipped out because your answer made it certain in her mind that her sister has a better man than she does. Your insecurity proved it. That's the real reason she flipped out, she's married to the bitch man while her sister gets her cool "asshole" boyfriend. THIS 1,000 times. Be the hawt asshole BF/husband, not the weak bitch. If I ever get the desire to nuke my family, I could be creampie-ing my SIL in a fucking heartbeat. If that's not you, you …
/r/askMRP21/03/17 01:28 PM
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I'm married, two kids, and am a lawyer so for me "full time" is far more than the 40 hours of most people. I wake up early so I can lift before work. Preach it brother. Same exact situation but only one kid. Up at 5AM for the gym, and I am a night owl by nature, so this sucks. But I do it every damn morning so I can get a solid routine in before work. If I have to be in the office ballsack early to get something done to go out that day, I bring a different bag so I can hit the gym after work. No…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/17 03:04 AM
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Even that second one wasn't a hard no. It's a "not here, not now". And you should have known that would happen, so can't fault her. You did the right thing by banging her at home later. As to your first one, you were correct again. Now matter how hawt we are, no woman is DTF all the time like we pretty much are. As long as her "no's" are really "not right now's", all is as going well.
/r/askMRP21/03/17 02:58 AM
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Chad isn't real and even the closest approximation doesn't have a 100% success rate. That's nuts. For guys who get quality sex from their SO on the regular, you need to know your woman and grasp the nuance. Like I said, I'm in your boat. So if I escalate and wife says "not right now" - that is not a hard no. Similarly, if I'm escalating and she says "stop" with a smile and giggle, that's "not right here/now", not a hard no. So keep up the flirting and initiate later. If she shoots it down later,…
/r/askMRP20/03/17 10:43 PM
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Saying that she won't care if he cheats is a mischaracterization. It's that she won't leave him is he's high value enough. The conjecture really comes in with the notion that even though she's hurt, deep down she likes the fact that her man can slay other pussy. Dread works in the sense that women, especially your LTR or wife, aroused by the fact that their man is attractive to other women. As Rollo's says, women want a man that could cheat, but they don't necessarily want him to actually cheat.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 10:09 PM
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Seconded. Mine got serious about weight loss after about 5 months of my improving. Few months after she started up, her sister asked what motivated this change in her, and she said "well, Rex is getting great results and I don't want us to be a mismatch as a couple". Translated, that meant "Wow, husband is serious about this and is getting hot. And I'm still fat. FUCK!. All without me even saying a word about her weight.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/17 08:59 PM
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Are there adjustments to the dread levels for happy relationships? Keep in mind that it's happy "right now". That could change in a year, month, or hour depending on the feelz. Thus, dread levels 1-5 are to be an area of constant improvement. Escalating beyond that depends on the circumstances, but I'm in a similar situation as you now, and I'm keeping it a bit higher - making sure I get IOIs from strange, interacting in a friendly but plausibly deniable flirty way with strange with her around, …
/r/askMRP20/03/17 08:51 PM
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Personal Trainer (somewhat different than a class instructor)
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 05:51 PM
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possible red flag. I mean, it's retarded to think that most girls haven't fantasized about that. The issue comes down to "does she actually want to do it while in an LTR with you?" If no, it's because she doesn't want to fuck other guys (right now) and/or mess things up with you. If she's doesn't really want to bit just gave you a semi-honest answer that really meant "in the right circumstances, I could see myself doing it, like if I was single and it just happened with two hawt guys" the. It's …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 04:35 PM
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I was a frat guy 20 years ago, so take this FWIW. But it depends on the girl and the sorority. Some sororities are for party girls/hot girls. These tend to be your sluts. But be careful. If your SMV is lower than theirs, they will not be sluts for you. Proceed as recommended by TRP, meaning play it cool like you would any chick. But for Gods sake don't fuck them if they're hammered. That's how you get false rape allegations, especially if you are lower SMV. Other sororities are a mixed bag. Some…
/r/askTRP20/03/17 01:35 PM
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Seconded. BECOME Chad instead of jerking off to him.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 01:26 PM
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Then you need to lift. Heavy Squats, Deadlifts, some accessory leg presses/leg curls/Romanian deadlifts and calf raises or presses. Follow one of the recommended programs here for the first two main lifts, then maybe PPL later to add the accessories. Eat (a/k/a 0.8-1 gram protein per pound lean body mass) and sleep right. You'll have legs and an ass eventually. Briefs are a bit touchy. I've never been with a woman that actually liked them. I'm sure there are some, but most prefer boxers. Boxer b…
/r/askMRP20/03/17 03:41 AM
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The trouble is finding them a dude who has his shit together (there arent that many). Very true. From the posts here, it's easy to assume that HB6s are getting hit on and fucked by a different Chad every day. That's not the reality for many of these women. These women do get hit on, but mostly by losers they have no interest in, and not just because the loser doesn't make seven figures - it's because the guys generally suck. Properly vet a girls with good backgrounds, good family, good social me…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 03:35 AM
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Great reply. Crabs in a bucket bullshit is not welcome here.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 03:30 AM
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Underwear - I love Under Armour boxer jocks. 9 inch for lifting/gym (they stay put and won't ride up), 6 inch legs for everyday. If you have a nice ass and/or nice quads, these will show them off. Plus they don't bunch, so they won't look like a fuckj g mess in suit pants, and won't bother you in jeans. As to the rest, better minds here will have some ideas. However, nice well-Fitting T-shirt, plain, no graphics, and jeans with good shoes can make you look dynamite. Hope you've been lifting.
/r/askMRP20/03/17 03:25 AM
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Now my wife would never like a guy friends flexing picture, it's just not appropriate for a taken female to do Not appropriate at all - but it's fucking dread gold if your wife's taken friends do it to your FB pics. Now I'm no douche and I don't post flex pics, I just post pics of me with my daughter and make sure I look great in them. and wife's one work friend not only likes them but makes pretty inappropriate comments on the thread about my visible musculature. And her hubby is also friends w…
/r/askMRP19/03/17 09:38 PM
1

Thirded. Hate fucking after a big fight is intense AF.
/r/askMRP19/03/17 03:24 PM
1

I don't have time to send pics of my chest about to pop the buttons off. There's plenty of gay porn on the Internet. I'm sure you'll find something good.
/r/askMRP18/03/17 08:59 PM
1

Thanks for the measurements. You're about the same size and build as I. Will give it a shot.
/r/askMRP18/03/17 03:58 AM
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Tell them you own a Dunkin Donuts in your profile. Plays way better than saying you own a 7-11
/r/askTRP18/03/17 03:40 AM
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I love just "gay". Remember, women like to believe they are fun and interesting, even when they often aren't. Just "gay" with nothing more, is actually a fun neg in a way - you're basically saying "I challenge you not to suck".
/r/askMRP17/03/17 07:04 PM
1

What sucks is knowing that her perception of my smv causes this This stings at first. By now it should be liberating. Your SMV is one of the few things in this world that is within your control. Lift and improve your other areas like your life depends on it - because it does. Her perception you cannot control - but as you improve, she will likely notice, and perception will likely change on its own
/r/askMRP17/03/17 05:42 PM
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Should i proceed through the rest of the day and weekend like nothing happened last night? Or should i cut all communication today until i get home? Yes. Life goes on as normal. No communication but for logistics. When you get home, be fun and flirty like nothing ever happened. Because you should be so OI and have zero fucks about a failed BJ/lay that you aren't phased. Any behavior to the contrary IS being butthurt and will come across that way. You totally blew the BJ thing (pun intended). You…
/r/askMRP17/03/17 02:22 PM
3

Not to sound like a retard, but I'm guessing I buy the large that looks good on top and have the tailor take in the sides?
/r/askMRP17/03/17 01:51 PM
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It's a losers mentality is what it is " I can't compete so let me say that the people who can have mis-aligned value Damn, you hit the entire SJW mentality right on the head here. No matter what the excuse (racism, sexism, fatness, etc), this is the mentality of the modern day loser. Well done, sir.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 06:48 PM
1

Yes, it's a mobile app. I have my on my iPhone, not sure about other devices
/r/askMRP16/03/17 04:58 PM
1

I'm using MyPlate now. So is wife. Even has a bar code scanner to make input a breeze. Put in your height, weight, activity level, and it calculates your TDEE based on your goals (bulk cut or maintain). Also tracks Macros. Great stuff.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 04:35 PM
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Seconded. The "you aren't doing this chore right" thing is an invitation to be obnoxious in a funny way.
/r/askMRP15/03/17 12:04 PM
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This, and be ready for an epic shit storm the first time you let your guard down. My wife responded beautifully the first three days I started really doing MRP and seized frame...and she was ready with mini-main event when I got home from work exhausted on day 4. Just hold frame, give zero fucks about the outcome and you'll be fine.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/17 03:30 AM
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Maybe not hard quotas, but SJW shaming is real as hell. Do you live in a "blue area" of the U.S. And vote for Trump. Holy fuck, the backlash was insane. Because trump is such an alleged misogynist, racist, etc. and Hillary worked so hard! It was her turn! Fucking disgraceful what the West was becoming.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/17 12:23 AM
1

Of course you are. You're perfect! I'm willing to bet your shit doesn't stink either
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 03:56 PM
1

Whoosh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 03:51 PM
1

Maybe that's why you only get paid .73 for every dollar I make.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 02:38 PM
3

Well, you create the doctrine that "normies" follow, and you don't fuck Chad even though the "normies" do. It very holier-than-thou, which is typical of feminists/SJWs like you. Your contemptuous attitude is shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 02:37 PM
3

Idiot. Sex with Herero men is always rape. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 01:32 PM
3

That's not a Nice GuyTM. A Nice GuyTM is the male orbiter that wanted to marry you, so he wasted his life listening to you cry and complain when you have a fight with your BF, hoping you'd see what a Good PersonTM he was. And you didn't have to shame women who enjoy casual sex with your moralizing. Some sex positive "feminist" you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 01:10 PM
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It's the only definition. The others have no idea what they are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 01:07 PM
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Chad is not a person. Chad is not an archetype. He is That Man Which You Find Irresistable In That Moment. So, unless you only fuck men that don't excite you, you have indeed fucked Chad. We feminists are the ones who create the doctrine, and party girls/normal women are the ones who carry it out in real life. must be nice to be so delusional as to take credit for everything. What's next on the agenda of the Feminist Doctrinal Committee? The Patriarchy Counterforce and Counterintelligence Commit…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/17 04:20 AM
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Yep, this. Red knighting is often a fool's errand, and you have to be especially careful with this shit among RL family and friends. Lecturing your BIL on how to be awesome is cringeworthy AF for all involved. OP basically embarrassed himself, and the rest of the gang was mortified. Hope he doesn't talks about fight club to his wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/17 03:14 PM
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Could have sworn there was an entire phase having to with anger somewhere. May have been on a certain sidebar...
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/17 01:51 PM
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I didn't suggest they only bite those that deserve it. They are always capable of biting. Be aware of this propensity, protect yourself, and know how to deal with the consequences. Much anger I sense in you
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/17 01:42 PM
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Women are no more awful than coyotes. Know them, know their nature, and deal with them accordingly. If they bite you or eat your cattle, it's not because the coyote is "awful" or "evil" - it's because you fucked up. We're men. We don't blame women for our failures. Women are inherently lazy, selfish creatures who will take advantage of you and manipulate you whenever they get the chance you allow them to do so. FTFY
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/17 01:12 PM
1

And the power of being "hawt".
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/17 01:41 PM
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so they settle for a beta BF that they can do the relationship shit with while never having to worry if he is out slaying because they honestly know he hasn't got other options and is scared to death of displeasing her. This 100%. Remember from Rollo's stuff, women simply do not want sex as much as men do. They don't have the testosterone fueling the drive. So many women are perfectly content with a dead/mostly inactive/boring AF bedroom, because sex is t on their radar much, and when it is, the…
/r/askTRP10/03/17 05:28 PM
3

Hah! Here's something funny. SIL is a world class bitch to her hubby, her parents, his parents, her brother, her sister (my wife)...but not to me. She'll oscillate between flirty, to "jokingly" inappropriate, to shit testing me in a witty-banter way. But she's never a raging cunt to me. I wonder why...(I don't).
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 11:22 PM
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Didn't for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 09:13 PM
1

There's no genuine desire there. The women don't want to fuck that guy, they want his money, the lifestyle he might be pussysuaded to provide. All beta shit. Let the rich 4 marry the HB10. He'll be crying in his diamond studded Cheerios when he finds out his dream girl is being routinely gangbanged by the yacht crew.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 09:01 PM
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Exactly. The "millionaire playboy" doesn't get truckloads of ass because of his millions. He gets it because he uses his money to be The ManTM. His devil-may-care attitude does it. Money is just another tool to achieve that state of mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 08:54 PM
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Honestly, I don't like this guy enough. I have another buddy that could use some Red Pill help, and if I had the time to devote to a fool's errand, I devote it to this other guy. My SIL is a world-class bitch. She puts 95% of other wives here to shame with her shitty demeanor and harpy-ness. I don't feel bad for her at all. Beta me used to feel bad for her husband. But honestly, RP me does not. Even a little bit. Nothing excuses SIL's shitty behavior, but I understand it now. This guy is such a …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 08:44 PM
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+1
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 08:01 PM
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Important - look at your eyebrows. If you have a unibrow, shave that goddamn middle part off, right now. Keep an eye on it and shave it down as soon as it starts growing back. Women pay an inordinate amount of attention to eyebrows, and a unibrow (or partial unibrow, or rhinoceros horns as my wife used to call them) is just revting to them. Wanna go the extra mile and be in the top 20%? Get your eyebrows waxed. No joke. Go into an Asian nail salon, tell them you want your eyebrows waxed. But be …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 03:35 PM
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Get a good razor, stand in the shower, and spread one cheek with one hand while careful shaving the inside of that cheek with the other. It's not easy, but take your time and go slow. Rinse often, and feel the area it's your hand to see where you missed. I haven't tried it, but there are Brazilian waxing places that will do men. You could try that instead. Good to eliminate the odor causing bacteria and for attractiveness. Look, I'm a pale guy with dark body hair. If I let my crack and top of th…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 03:23 PM
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Don't shave your legs, and don't shave off your "happy trail" either. Women love it - it's nature's visual cue for them to look at and follow down, which is why having an Adonis Belt is a huge plus. Have a flat stomach or six pack for maximum effect. I'll come back with a link from PPD where women were asked to rate some of the dudes from ladybonersginewild. They were all bitching about one dude with a six pack, but who was hairless. They all pretty much thought he looked gay without the happy t…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 03:04 PM
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Cannot stress the pube trimming enough. I've been doing that since college. Easily adds one visual inch to size, removes odor causing bacteria's habitat, and looks attractive. I also razor my balls 100% smooth, same with the undercarriage and asscrack. Again, bacteria live on this hair, so get rid of it. Also, not to sound gay AF, but wear boxer briefs (unless your wife has a distinct preference for regular briefs). Honestly, if you've been squatting and deadlifting and cutting fat like you're s…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 02:31 PM
1

Med school should be automatic dread for her. You are around other women all day. You study together. You will be a doctor at the end of this. Keep improving attractiveness (lifting and frame), and her hamster should be shitting itself with worry that you'll replace her for a better prospect(s). I had a similar situation. I was in Law school full time. Made zero money. Wife was making $50K and paying all the bills. During this time, the sex was constant and I had no worries that she was going to…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 02:06 PM
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Majority of men, even the supposedly unplugged, don't understand this concept: money never has, and never will, make a pussy wet. Money is a reason a man "looks good on paper"; i.e., she thinks the man is marriage material. It doesn't make her feel the need to fuck him. Or they worry how their wife will respond to something unmanly that he has to do, like have his income drop below hers My wife's sister's hubby is this. The guy is a fucking living billboard for "how not to be a masculine man", b…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 01:44 PM
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So wife asks me if any of the women at my office went on strike today (she didn't obv). I said yeah, my boss (dyed-in-the wool beta male, called in sick to be fair). She LOL'd. That and a creampie is what mine got for woman's day. Tl;dr - you're so gay you make my gay colleagues look homophobic. Read sidebar, do work, be a man.
/r/askMRP09/03/17 04:06 AM
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dont put your cock all the way in at first. Pause once you get the head in, and let her asshole relax first before you go all in the first time. Even with lube and plug first, it'll tense up upon entry. Let it unclench first, then begin the slow thrusting
/r/askTRP08/03/17 07:47 PM
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Only a matter of time before she finds a guy she does want to creampie her; OP should start saving if he wants to support that guy's kid.
/r/askMRP08/03/17 06:01 PM
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Well, it makes sense in this context - he's not a man. If he was, he'd be fucking her. But he's not. He's a living dildo. That should be his flair. "Living Dildo".
/r/askMRP08/03/17 02:02 PM
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Everyone else has covered cheating, so I'll leave that be. Your other problem is that you are a failure as a leader. Buying health food and expecting your wife to drop weight is a covert contract. Instead, download MyPlate or similar app on your phone and start tracking calories and macros for whatever your goal is (bulking or cutting). Buy food on the weekend and spend an afternoon prepping meals ready to eat for lunches and dinners. Label everything so you know what's in it. Do it together as …
/r/askMRP08/03/17 01:54 PM
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I've never seen such beta faggotry with respect to sex in all my time on here. Jesus. She cums cowgirl, you hold her pelvis and tell her you're not done, then Pound her from underneath until you are... Your frame fucking blows. You are not a prize. You are a servant. Fix that attitude. If you were a woman, would you be attracted to the man spineless bitch you present as? I wouldn't. Sometimes the mirror that reflects our unfuckability is in our heads. Find it and look deep within in.
/r/askMRP08/03/17 12:16 PM
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The general rule of thumb is one month of MRP for every year of beta pussiness in your relationship. During this time, focus on improving like it's your job. Divorce at then end if no improvement on her end. But you have to be leading. Where are you on dread? Levels 1-5 are simultaneous. You should be moving up to 6 if you haven't already.
/r/askMRP08/03/17 12:01 PM
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The opportunist in me would use her exhibitionism to start making sex tapes, bring her into FMF stuff (get a vid of that), and use her for the slut she is while moving forward with exit strategy, but this guy's worried that she doesn't like his new watch... Priorities man, priorities.
/r/askMRP07/03/17 04:32 PM
1

I'm the same way. Wife was in the middle of a BJ to completion for the first time in years on me, and asked if I wanted to finish in her mouth or her ass. I chose the latter. The pussy creampie is still the best though. The most raw, primal thing you can do. The greatest expression of desire from her end too - her not just pleasing you to keep you pacified, but begging for you to seed her. I can see why OP is less than thrilled with the ratio here.
/r/askMRP07/03/17 04:28 PM
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Based on your previous post and this, here's what I see: Wife is a (probably) cheating whore that does blow on girls night like An early 20's party girl. Wife is concerned that her meal ticket figured it out and is prepping to jump ship. Look up Rollo's post "Making up for Missing Out". This sounds like her. She's likely cheated already, and probably has no qualms about doing it again as part of this "look at me, I still got it goin on" phase she's in. This situation is likely unsalvageable. You…
/r/askMRP07/03/17 04:04 PM
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I'll make this easy. If you didn't care, you wouldn't be asking about it on two subs, now would you?
/r/askMRP02/03/17 08:35 PM
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what do you do instead? Sides super short, top longer, sweep with slightly spiked/raised front. Not covering receeding hairline (I'm thinning on top, not the front). Clean cut enough for my profession, but not boring or bad. I want to do better though. I can't link it, but there was a great article somewhere about measuring your facial features to see what haircut would look best on your face, with examples of a few different styles. Need to find that and give it a whirl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 07:44 PM
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Yeah, but she never changed. 18 years and it's always been like this. She was the most fun and outgoing gal in a friend group of fuddy-duddies, is a wimp as to her sister, toe-to-toe headstrong first mate/partner with me. She's different in different contexts, without trying to be. I've tried (in my beta days) pointing this out to her, and she just got defensive about the "wimp" allegation. Now I don't mind. I wouldn't be able to stand a super submissive woman - seems like a fucking bore to me, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 07:41 PM
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That depends on age. I stopped spiking my hair a little while back because, at almost 38 with salt-and-pepper hair, it was coming off as "edgy try-hard old guy thinks he's young". Your example of corporate boring is t boring either. It's fashionable chic with the length and sweep (dude looks like a fashion model, so no surprise). Corporate boring would be all short, no style, just "there". Like a beta is just "there".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 07:30 PM
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Reading through MRP comments to my recent posts, it seems like women enjoy different types of sexual dominance as well. Some get a kick out of the "throw her over the shoulders and plow her caveman style" thing, while others (like mine) hate that shit. Mine loves it when I game/charm her panties off, then she'll just get into doggy or whatever so I have my way with her. They all seem to like being truly fucked by dominant men, but the manifestation of that dominance varies. Some like being "take…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 07:19 PM
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Do you see women with different levels in different circumstances? My wife is mid-high, mid-high with me (like somewhere between Captain/First Mate and Partners-in-Crime dynamic). But with others, especially her family and older sister, specifically, she's a fucking doormat at times. It pisses me off when she rolls over like that. I will full Captain these encounters, so when I'm around or involved, there is no fuckery. But if not, she wilts like a flower. I'm then bewildered, thinking "how is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 07:11 PM
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Are you high? First off, I'm not convinced #5 even has feet. Smthat creature likely has talons. Also, no one is floundering before girl 4. Chick is as plain as it gets
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 01:39 PM
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Woman 1 - 8. Classic hot girl next door Woman 2 - 9. Professional model looks Woman 3 - 7. Cute face and good bod, but I despise glaringly fake tits Woman 4 - 6. OK face, but slim Woman 5 - 3. She is a fucking caraciture of a human being. Wouldn't touch, wouldn't even talk to. Woman 6 - 8.5. Pretty as hell, slender. Woman 7 - 7. Great hourglass body, face might be a bit horse-faced. Tough to tell from that angle. Woman 8. 7 as portrayed, though this is is airbrushed and photoshopped she's probab…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 01:34 PM
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This is a horrible post regarding this article. The question should be "Study concludes that moral outrage, like that seen in modern feminists and their "allies" is simply a way for people to broadcast their perceived virtues, when in reality they care almost nothing about the underlying people or issues involved. Agree or disagree?" Nothing in that study had anything to do with young, fertile women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/17 01:17 PM
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The beauty of squats is that they are one of the easiest lifts to fail properly (deadlifts being the easiest, just drop the bar). Always squat in the rack. If you fail, simply roll the bar off your back onto the safety rails. Easy - watch some quick YouTube vids on how to safely fail the big lifts.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/17 10:04 PM
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Ask your trainer about not doing Smith squats. I started with those too and noticed my lower back was always in pain afterward. Did some research, turns out the lifting community hates the Smith machine because the fixed range of motion of the bar does not comport with the real range of motion if you did the lift normally. Think of the mechanics, in a normal squat, the bar does not travel in a perfect perpendicular to the floor, there is some X-axis movement, which is natural, as your body moves…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/17 09:55 PM
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Guy #1 looks like his shoulders are undeveloped as fuck. Probably very skinny. And you missed the part where almost every woman says they have a hard time rating on pictures alone. Looks matter to women, but it is not all that matters. That fat dude in the suit looks like he's probably smooth as butter with women. He might not be Chad but I bet he'd do OK even if he wasn't famous or rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 04:54 PM
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You really don't think there's any face-saving defense mechanism shit in there? I suspect the real answer is somewhere in the middle. Since hypergamy is looking for best combo of alpha fucks and beta bux (or comfort) a given woman can attract, it makes sense that they discount men out of their league - those men are too far out of their league for the hamster to plausibly lie to itself regarding keeping that man around, so he's disqualified (or rather, she disqualifies herself). Guys who are sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 04:47 PM
1

When she says I only want her for sex, what she is really saying is the only time I show affection is when I want sex. How often and well is she fucking you? Are you "hawt"? If you're getting it well and she genuinely desires you, this isn't a shit test. It's a comfort test. Remember, it doesn't matter if a woman is a bar slut or a devoted wife of 20 years - they never want to face the idea that they are only good for their holes. My wife's chief complaint about our relationship can be reduced t…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/17 03:32 PM
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if she doesn't have sex on the first date she is not LTR material This is not necessarily RP. Rollo gives a "three strikes/dates" rule of thumb, but that's in the pure "three dates and the only interaction you two have is those dates" context. In other settings, wait no longer than 2 weeks, then move along. I always had a two week rule when I was "dating" 20 years ago. If she wasn't fucking me within two weeks, we were over. I even jettisoned this one gal that would blow me as often as I wanted …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 03:07 PM
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You may be missing an interesting RP observation that has come up from time to time. Guys who consider themselves "hawt" (8 or 9) report good success with HB8-9 women, but have a bitch of a time getting anywhere with HB6-7s. It seems that women are more astute deep down than they seem, in that they automatically select themselves out when approached by a guy who is well out of their league (presumably, since they know right at the outset that they are one-and-done pump-and-dump material). Simila…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 02:56 PM
1

Regarding laser hair removal - did she get that done to her labia? Was it painful? How much did it cost?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/17 01:15 PM
1

Stop with this 6 foot tall bullshit. Former colleague of mine got laid left and right, and he was 5'7. Helps that he had a good face, but most important was that he maintained a great physique, was confident, and always pushed the sexual envelope. If he wasn't rebuffed, he kept upping the ante. Dude's text game was mad tight. Stop wallowing in pity over shit you can't improve, and bust your ass fixing the shit you can. Also - money has never gotten a pussy wet. Women like men with status and/or …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/17 06:36 PM
1

Was she ever really attracted to you? Your story is very consistent with a post-Wall woman who panicked and married a beta provider she wasn't very attracted to, hoping that she could grow into it, or at least could stomach it ... and it seems maybe she can't. It is unclear that she will ever be attracted to you, however alpha you become This was my first thought too. OP, create your MAP and follow it. Improve like your life depends on it. Obtain OI and abundance mentality, and accept the fact t…
/r/askMRP26/02/17 03:29 PM
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By not responding harshly to such behavior you state "yes, you'r right, there is no reason for you to take me seriously as a man. Why would I expect sex from you." Your thinking is off. Giving any serious response to her eye roll is acting in her frame and giving credibility to her absurd response. Demanding respect in this situation comes off as desperate as fuck. You might as well just say "my feelings are really hurt because I depend on you for sex and you're laughing at me". See how pathetic…
/r/askMRP26/02/17 03:19 PM
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I agree with the sentiment. Done sparingly by a guy she wants to fuck is fun and gives her an excuse to do a different slutty thing she probably would have done anyway. Negotiating desire kinky acts can be fun when your wife already has a high amount of desire for you FTFY
/r/askMRP24/02/17 04:30 PM
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Trust but verify. He'll text her on occasion to invite her out which she has turned down every time Doesn't sound like she wants to fuck him proceeded to tell me that her and this one guy walked over to another bar once everyone left to grab a bite to eat, had another beer, she told him she was tired and left by 9pm. Again, trust but verify. If true, then you're being fucking gay. That's unattractive. We spoke around 10pm that night when she was already at her cousins house where she was spendin…
/r/askTRP24/02/17 02:54 PM
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Dudes killing themselves over pussy is ULTIMATE BETA True but tragic. A colleague's 20-something grandson offed himself a year ago because his ONEitis left to move halfway across the country to "find herself" or some shit. The funeral was painful, didn't even know the kid, but red pilled me wishes I had. Tough to see the young die, especially for the fucking stupidest of reasons imaginable.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/17 08:04 PM
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100% this. Friday night, I got the "I feel like you're only using me for sex" after a barrage of shit tests. I passed the shit tests, but had to STFU here because I didn't know if this was comfort test or shit test. I let her go upstairs by herself to get ready for bed, but went up after her to "get something" from the bedroom, and gave her a bear hug. Then I told her she could come downstairs and hang out with me for an hour (instead of me reading Meditations). She did, and we end up fucking la…
/r/askMRP21/02/17 02:55 PM
2

Gallup, who stopped doing presidential polls because their results were so terrible they voluntarily dropped out of doing them? Yeah, let's all start listening to you and that random blog you site to...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 04:32 AM
1

Automation just means the type of jobs will change, not that there will be less of them. The big problem in the U.S. seems to be a mismatch in available quality jobs and existing skill sets. Pribably a result of the last 40 years of "if you don't go to college, you're shit" rhetoric. People need to listen to Mike Rowe, learn a goddamn trade, and go to where the jobs are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 04:23 AM
1

Do you not understand that corruption is how socialism works? Leftists always make me laugh. They think socialism will eliminate the proverbial "1%". Well think again. There is always a 1%. In capitalism, it is the uber wealthy/power brokers. In a despotism/dictatorship, it's the leader, his ruling family, and military/intelligence leaders. In a socialst country, it is the ruling party bosses. The very idea that a human society will ever exist without a 1% is absurd. At least in a capitalist cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 04:20 AM
2

Most high value women never fell for feminism in the first place. Actually, replace high value with some combination of "happy", "successful" and "well-adjusted", and you're there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 04:16 AM
2

Your source is some blog no one's ever heard of? At least cite CNN or HuffPo if you're shooting with Fake News.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 04:11 AM
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See my other comment reply here Trump is no traditional conservative, but if you think he's pushing people to the left I strongly disagree. In fact, the massive (and often illogical) over-reaction to Trump by the radical left is pushing people against the PC culture. It's also pushing people farther right, or keeping centrists or slightly left leaning folks away from the leftist parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 03:24 PM
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They still don't see Reality. Total republican control of both houses, republican president, will get strict constructionist judges on Supreme Court (either keeping it from becoming more left, or pushing it right), conservative lower court judges to be appointed. Forget about Federal, look at the states. 32 states with republican dominated legislatures, and 33 with republican governors. And what does the Democratic leadership do? Double down on identity politics and open borders/mass migration. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 03:01 PM
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I watch what they do, not what they say. The far left's constant shrieking, massive protests and demonstrations, calls for impeachment/throwing out the election results, etc is a massively disproportionate response for a meaningless "flash-in-the-pan". The Trump win exposed the charade for what it was. Maybe the "populist" movement won't last, but cultural Marxism is on its last legs (for a while, then the pendulum will swing back the other way as it tends to do).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 02:28 PM
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Trump is not as unpopular as CNN and leftist on Facebook would have you believe. His approval rating went up to 55% last week according to Rasmussen. It doesn't really matter though, he's in for 4 years, and he's a product of the anti-left resentment, not the cause. This has been brewing in the underbelly for a long time. Wish I could link it, but I saw an article the other day stating that the current generation of high schoolers is generally the most conservative in decades. The left doesn't r…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 01:47 PM
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The future is leftist, feminist, globalist. I understand why some people might not like it, but it seems like this is where the world as a whole is going. Have you been asleep over the past year? It was becoming that way, but Brexit and Trump were a massive rejection and repudiation of all things leftist and globalist. The left has gone way too far with its PC and social engineering bullshit, to the point where you're seeing moderates and old school liberals abandon the Democratic Party in the U…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 01:34 PM
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Haven't done a Disney cruise yet, but have researched them and from what I understand they cannot be beat for kids. They have very well put together "kids club" type shit structured through all age ranges - teens, Tweens, elementary schoolers, and little ones. They focus their asses off on kids, so these things are open a lot, are well staffed, and should be so damn fun the kids will want to be there. This lets you game strange (or just be social) all over the damn place with the wife. Time for …
/r/askMRP19/02/17 03:41 PM
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Yep. Find an young alpha fuck with honesty and integrity. AF with a heart of gold and good potential to remain an AF as he gets older (smart enough to get a status career or run his own business). Keep his balls empty and don't be a shrew. Don't get fat.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 04:31 AM
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Of course. But Wife is very aware of it. I said next time I show up there and she starts with her antics, I'm gonna go over the top and soak hre panties Instead of chatting girl up and soaking her panties, you have told your wife you are going to do this. That's revealing the trick before you finish it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/17 08:17 PM
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Good post, but I’ve been half-assed unplugging for the better part of a year, now. I’m closer to being a fat-fuck than an Adonis. Dude, what the fuck? I hope you're lifting like hell. I agree with the advice here 100% that step 1, 2, and 3 on MRP is Lift, Lift and Lift. But step 4. needs to be "quit being a fat fuck!" Seeing way too much of this lately.
/r/askMRP16/02/17 08:04 PM
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They should change your flair to "Hard Core Wordsmith" /s Edit: and I agree, that's a better way of putting it
/r/askMRP16/02/17 07:53 PM
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I agree with Hobbes - you're talking about Fight Club. More like you're a magician telling the audience how the trick works as you're performing it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/17 07:50 PM
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No, you exhibited epic frame re-grab with this Amused Mastery move: A few minutes later I said "I know where my place is" and I grabbed her by the pussy. So then, this: After that, she was back to normal
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/17 04:11 PM
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asked me one day if I could come in to help out with something That says it all really. She's showing you off. Women are fucking hilarious if you think about it. Here she is trying to increase her social status, while simultaneously dreading herself silly.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/17 04:01 PM
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I have to get my wife better at it too. She's OK, but need to be better. I need to teach her more about edging. Look into that and "cock worship" type stuff. I'm going to try and turn it into a game. I'll tell wife that if she does a good enough job she might be able to get me to shoot myself in the face. I guessing it'll be "challenge accepted" (sounds weird but she has this playful bitchy thing about jizz. If I do t pay attention after she cleans herself up, she'll throw the jizz towel in an e…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/17 02:23 PM
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Used coconut oil
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/17 02:00 PM
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Mine doesn't like giving blow jobs. I've known this about her since the very beginning 18 years ago. We started fucking 4 days after we met, and we continued to fuck like rabbits through college, so it's not an attraction thing - she just doesn't like it at all. I never cared, because I always considered blowjobs to be a bullshit cop-out by girls who would do that but not fuck. Now, I could have gotten a blowjob if I wanted one, but I really didn't care. I wanted to get off well and go to sleep,…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/17 11:01 PM
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Anyone have any idea what the fuck happened here? Yep. raging pretty hard raised my voice I finally get exasperated That happened. This is red pill on hard mode because women are fucking relentless, and we live with them. If you have your shit together, are a good captain, are "hawt" and fuck them well, they will start letting the smaller occasional frame losses and shit test failures go. But, big frame losses send their hypergamois insecurity into overdrive instantly, like a backup generator in…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/17 04:52 PM
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I'm no expert on this, but here's a thought. Practicing game on women where you barely speak the language might be an interesting exercise in reading body language. Do the best you can, but since you can't understand a lot of what is said, might give you a chance to really watch what they do. Like a deaf person learning to read lips.
/r/askMRP15/02/17 03:11 PM
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I inadvertently did a good job vetting and ended up with a wife who is as practical and money-conscious as I. We never went over the top for Valentine's Day. We never get each other anything of cost. This year, I got her a cheeky card.. Wrote a dirty note in it. That's it. Got quality HJ (shark week). Win-win.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/17 03:06 PM
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I'd say they like the ending with the right man either way, but the better the story, the more satisfying the ending, and the more desire for the sequel.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/17 01:22 PM
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Pregnancy and new baby are touchy as fuck. I remember the first 6-7 months being horrible. I'd say just keep being the rock, while being fun and flirty if possible. Take what you can get. Don't push the envelope till the kid starts getting into a routine. If you do get a break and she's not exhausted, play around with her. A good lay might be just what she needs.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/17 04:22 AM
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Love it!
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/17 12:26 AM
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Genius!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 09:09 PM
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That's true. Piggybacking onto your comment to my post, it's about getting them to feel that doing X is OK because reasons. Being away on vacation is easy - women tend to have a "whatever happens on vacation is OK, because vacation" mentality. I guess you could try the special drink/activity, and then talk and get her reminiscing about the trip. Some "remember this", and especially "remember how hard we laughed at ...". Lead it to, "you remember when you asked me to do That Thing?" With a smile …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 08:37 PM
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Try to keep her in state for the weekend, and she might give you the chance to try for things she normally doesn't do. Yep. This is how I got mine to make a sex tape with me for the first time, after 18 years of being together. Problem is going to be carrying over any momentum gained back into everyday life. Yeah, this'll take work and thought, but can be done. We made our second sex tape the night after the day we got home. I told her I wanted to watch the footage to see how I did (I shot/direc…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 08:19 PM
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There might be something to that. My wife's sister is a nerdy STEM fielder. she's also much more overt than most other women. Most of my wife's friends will be coy about checking me out, and if they say anything it'll be the usual "wow, you've lost a lot of wieght! Great job" while staring at my shoulders or something. Not my SIL. She'll straight-up say shit like "wow, so you're fuckin hot now", or when working near me in the kitchen one time was like "don't move, it don't want to bump this hot …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 07:43 PM
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If she turns it overt, fine. You know what the answer is, so bang the hell out of her accordingly (or not if its a rejection).
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 07:18 PM
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It should go without saying that you have to be fuckable. But being fuckable by itself isn't enough. Women are not men. Unless you are super "hot" and famous, women do not generally throw themselves at men for sex. It is our job to be high value AND lead them to sex
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 06:35 PM
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Read what I just posted here This is how you communicate it without saying it. Scurve nailed it. Covert contracts fail because there is no communicating the expected result.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 06:26 PM
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That's an understood prerequisite.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 06:16 PM
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They live by the feelz. That's why they also love those shitty, predictable rom-coms, soap operas, etc. Get her feeling naughty in a fun way, reap the benefits.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/17 05:44 PM
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Based on your meager post history, you may need more help than this place can offer. But it's a start. Here's my story I see you've been reading, but have you been lifting heavy? Lifting is the cornerstone of masculine success here. Boosts energy, testosterone, confidence, and overall mood. I've had a few dark moments like you in my days, but not a single one since lifting and internalizing the material here.
/r/askMRP14/02/17 01:52 PM
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Become a man who can demand that type of effort from her. If you objectively are that man, and she doesn't respond to said demand, then you have your answer as to whether you stay or nuke. But, it is on you to first be worthy of effort, and then lead/require effort on her part.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/17 09:02 PM
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I'm an interesting case of borderline Omega turned Alpha Fuck, meets eventual wife, turned AF/BB, turned full Beta. Here's how that happened: Was a nerd in high school. Not a total dork, just skinny, dressed dumb and had social anxiety. Miserable that I was shot down by every girl I asked out (though did manage to land a goth chick gf my senior year, managed to lose virginity to her). (Borderline Omega/Beta) So I go away to college, and once there I was determined to reinvent myself. Got a new h…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/17 08:05 PM
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As to her dress, this is where you communicate overtly. Mine used to wear yoga pants and hoodies everywhere. When I had SMV and frame enough, I told her as we were getting ready to go to the mall "you are not going out in public with me looking like that." She tried to complain, I kept broken record. She changed into her tight jeans, boots and nicer top. I never had to tell her again. Lead by example, but make expectations and boundaries and explicit. As to the initiating, my wife was like that …
/r/askMRP13/02/17 05:16 PM
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Some women aren't initiators. Mine isn't. So, as a man, the burden is on me to lead her to sex. Be flirty. Always cleverly and smoothly have sex in the forefront. Then when I want to escalate, I escalate. Once sexy time begins, that's when she initiates the specific things she wants (doggystyle, anal, etc). If she's regularly blowing/fucking/anal, she does desire you, so that's not the problem. The issue is that she isn't the type to initiate. So, instead of trying to change her (you can't), wor…
/r/askMRP13/02/17 04:51 PM
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My next post will be on the subtle but important difference between a covert contract (bad, avoid), an overt contract (rarely works), and covertly communicating an overt expectation (my picnic idea - covertly tells her that we will be fucking outdoors if she accepts the picnic offer; no covert contract, no overt language (turns them off most of the time)).
/r/askMRP13/02/17 04:28 PM
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There's a cool secluded spot in a public park overlooking a small river near our town. When the spring arrives, I'll set up a picnic with wifey. Little wine, cheese, all that crap. It'll be a surprise. When she asks what to wear, I'll tell her dress/skirt. When we get there, I'll pull the picnic stuff out of the trunk. When she figures it out, I'll tell her that if she wants to come with me, she'll take her panties off right there in the parking lot and leave them in the car. If she puts up a fu…
/r/askMRP13/02/17 03:59 PM
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Explain yourself, what does that even mean? Congrats on asking for a main event you aren't ready for /s I'll ask her what her problem is You clearly haven't read or internalized the sidebar basics. MRP 101 is that her emotional problems are her problems, and hers only. who has communication issues and having no PROPER communication in the marriage This is blue pulled as fuck. If you bothered to read the sidebar, you'd know why. This is your second victim puke. Maybe try r/relationshits? I'm sure…
/r/askMRP13/02/17 03:52 PM
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I just did for the first time this weekend, so we'll see how it goes. Just the crack and hole hair though for hygiene purposes - I have no interest in starring in gay porn so the cheeks still have hair.
/r/askMRP13/02/17 03:27 PM
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Late to the party, but here goes: I still have the scoreboard up, but only to keep both her and myself accountable. As the prototypical Alpha lapses to Fat Beta, I'm keenly aware of how easy it is to get complacent and lapse. The scoreboard will stay up just like I will continue getting on the scale and continue to track each and every lift I do. Cannot bullshit the numbers. My wife provides tremendous value. She has amped up her sexual game 200%, doing a good job physically (has work to go but …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/17 02:28 PM
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Christ on his throne. Re-read your post. You sound like a guy bitching in relationshits about taking a new woman on a nice, thoughtful, expensive date, keeping it PG, only to find out later that an am hour after you dropped her off home, she had Chad come over and fuck her three times that night. You acted like a total beta chump the entire time, and now you're wondering how such a Nice GuyTM didn't get the lay. Hit the sidebar basics again, especially Rollo's stuff. You're doing a masterful job…
/r/askMRP13/02/17 02:07 PM
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But, but, but, they had a very nice dinner! For Valentine's Day! And he brought wine and chocolates for a picnic after with no pressure for sex, because that might have offended her sensibilities! And, and, he was respectful enough to give her space after they got home. I can't believe she didn't want to fuck a genuine Nice GuyTM like that...
/r/askMRP13/02/17 02:02 PM
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It's been said on TRP that feminism is one giant shit test. I agree. So, treat is as such. Ignore, STFU, or A&A. She rages about an issue, you get even more faux indignant about how that goddamn Patriarchy caused a ten minute traffic jam this morning! She gives you crap, you say "I'm too triggered to discuss it". Then a smirk/wink/ass slap. You try kino and she pulls a feminist line, tell her "the Patriarchy sets very strict rape micro aggression quotas." You leave to go to the gym after she har…
/r/askMRP12/02/17 01:31 PM
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Jesus. I'll add the following to the obvious and what others already said (bad hygiene = unattractive, you fuckin dummy): Try trimming your pubes, shaving your balls and undercarriage. If you sweat your ass off 24/7 like me, that hair traps odor producing bacteria. Eliminate their habitat for improved results. Also keep your ass pristine too. Any nasty smells emanating from that area can ruin it for her. Sponge bath the area as needed. Do not expect blowjobs, but always be ready for one. A/k/a b…
/r/askMRP12/02/17 01:21 PM
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I cannot believe we have to tell grown men this. What the actual fuck?
/r/askMRP12/02/17 01:14 PM
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Friend does not equal friendzone.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 01:11 AM
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Wife works full time - zero chance of anything in the week so I don't initiate Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. My wife works full time and deals with my daughter 90% of the time since I work longer than full time. And I fuck her every night now. The last time we didn't fuck was her last period. Bullshit excuses end here. sticking to her Sex schedule means that I don't initiate at other times, so she gets the illusion that all is well - but I can't initiate as she has a. "Not in the week rule" Youre not doi…
/r/askMRP11/02/17 02:08 PM
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The friend zone is not real; but it exists as a construct in the minds of thirsty men like "Socks Cuckington" in the picture
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 04:28 AM
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watch a loser get friendzoned Men do not "get friendzoned". They friendzone themselves by being low value pissants who cling to any vagina that will give them the time of day. My roommate in college was like this, as were a few friends from back home. I used to feel sorry for them. I don't anymore. If you put yourself in this position of being a pathetic fucking doormat, you deserve the scorn typically reserved for incels. May their suffering equal their faggotry.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 04:21 AM
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If you know the truth, you have three options: Be attractive and get the sex you want Be fat and complacent, and accept whatever you get, if anything, or Drop out. I'll put in the work and reap the rewards. To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 09:21 PM
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I skimmed your post history. It looks like you're going Red Pill Rambo at warp speed. /u/Archwinger was spot on. You aren't leading her anywhere, and you don't seem to be providing any comfort or reinforcement whatsoever. So, wife sees Paul Pushover start acting like Rambo with a perma-boner out of nowhere, who doesn't seem to even like her very much except for dominant sex...and you're wondering why she's become distant? She's confused as fuck, and women hate feeling confused. Even worse, you d…
/r/askMRP10/02/17 08:50 PM
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She doesn't want a "pet" anything. Pets are controlled and contained. She wants a true alpha male lion to select her. Strong, virile, leads by example, protects his brood, has his way with the ladies. In before "male lions don't hunt/do anything". Watch some lion documentaries. The females do a lot of the mundane hunting - the male comes in when needed to bring down huge game. Saw one where the gals were trying and failing to bring down a giraffe. Enter the male, who jumps on the things back and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 08:28 PM
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You pretty much nailed it. Most MRP guys fall into 2 categories: Alphas who beta'd out and got fat over time (me), and lifelong betas who followed all the "traditional advice" and were lucky to ever get more than a starfish pity fuck once a quarter from their wives and previous gfs. The blue pill idea of commitment gives men the idea that it's OK to be lazy and let yourself go, because "true love". Bunch of bullshit, but that's what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 03:38 PM
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You're missing the problem. Betas only get the commitment, and a tenuous one at that. They don't get the raw, passion fueled sex the alphas got, because she's not desirious of the beta the way she is to the alphas. The proverbial beta bux is the guy "who makes sense", not the guy who lights her fire. Men want to be desired on that level. The beta bux will never have that, so his commitment to this woman was a bad idea. He'll never get what this alphas did, and he'll have no idea why, since he th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 03:31 PM
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Definitely 1 and 3. Source: personal experience. Edit: add the following - NSA sex/fuckbuddy relationships fucking other men's wives/gfs without being labelled a scumbag (by anyone other than the aggrieved cuck)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 02:09 PM
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Trump employs a lot of the laws if you watch. "Be unpredictable" is his M.O.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 01:36 PM
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Girls weekend can be gay, depending on the girl. The issue here is the math in his situation. Woman + Coke = Sex. Every. Time.
/r/askMRP10/02/17 04:32 AM
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Document the drug use. Get it in writing if possible. Drug use by a mom is one of the few things a Court will use to award you custody - but be careful. The worst thing is a divorce war where the Court finds you both unfit. Get to a good divorce lawyer - like, fucking yesterday. Start building a case/defense. If she's hanging out with guys and doing blow, she's been fucking. Chicks do not do coke for itself. They do it to party harder, and they love fucking while amped up. Honestly, there is no …
/r/askMRP09/02/17 03:26 PM
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More like Hillary and the establishment are the filthy crooks we all knew they were. But you're asking SJWs to think logically - you have a better chance of an FFM than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 03:11 PM
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Original commenter nailed it. Women do not talk/write about details such as dick size, especially to this extent. They focus on feelings and sensations. They also do not refer to men as God. They talk about how they felt with them
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 02:51 PM
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Agreed. That post was 100% fanfic written by a guy. Women don't talk/write like this
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 02:15 PM
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In my beta days, wife and I used to fight about this constantly. She'd call me as she's leaving work. Asked what I wanted for dinner. I never cared, so then she'd get pissed because she didn't know what to do. /u/addictedtoyourface is spot on here. She wants a decision made, not more questions. You could simply state "I'm making X for me and kids. You can have that, or take care of it yourself". Your involvement is now over. She has 2 options, she can pick one. She starts bitching about dishes? …
/r/askMRP07/02/17 07:45 PM
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That pill of yours is starting to take on a crimson hue...
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/17 04:10 AM
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Women don't like to be told no. Plain and simple. The question itself is an outlier. Women generally don't put themselves in a position to hear no. They are subtle and give men clues. Men either pick up on it, or they don't. If they don't, woman hamsters it away. No rejection in their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 03:25 PM
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This guy is Hamsters 'R Us. His first post on TRP asking if wife is working out too much. From OP: But then, without my invitation, she begins hitting the gym as well. And she's starting to look...manly. All her work is doing wonders to her lower body -- legs look fantastic and toned, her back is curvy. Hard abs are fine. But she's starting to develop super developed arms and shoulders. Combined with her good diet (she's a size 2) her bodyfat is going down and developing significant definition -…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/17 03:08 PM
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NAAALT
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 09:06 PM
2

Ummm, Princess Anna's infatuation with the "hawt" bad Prince nearly got her and her sister killed. That guy with the reindeer risks his life for her, but I don't think they even end up together. Shows you what good white knighting will do for you (remember, he's funny looking, even the trolls said so). From Elsa's side, basically, if you're a frigid bitch, you'll end up alone (well, at least you'll have your hotter little sister and her friends to keep you company, so there's that).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/17 08:52 PM
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Brainwashing by the establishment media. The narrative was that "Hillary is glorious, Trump is evil. Don't get pesky things like facts and admissions of wrongdoing get in the way folks! Think what we tell you to think!"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 06:47 PM
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The Clinton conspiracies were proven. Donna Brazile? Debbie Wasseman Schultz (back when she conspired with the DNC to help defeat Bernie)? The wikileaks emails which were never denied, but instead met with outraged over the accusation source/methods (allegations as yet unproven)? The emails get me the most. Imagine your spouse cheating on you and you only found out by breaking into their e-mail. Now, breaking into their email is wrong, but are they absolved of their infidelity and the consequenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 05:24 PM
1

So referring to you as a Marxist/socialist/communist is a slur? I don't follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 04:19 PM
1

Those includes establishment figures on all sides of the political spectrum though, and has nothing to do with ideology. It was also never directed at anyone who voted for a particular candidate, unlike the vitriol spewed at Trump supporters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 02:57 PM
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Not you, the ideology. Unlike the "tolerant left" we don't burn down our cities or beat our political opponents when we don't get our way (after we finish crying and playing with Play-Doh in our safe spaces). We also don't call you racist, sexist, homophobic, transphobic monsters! You'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 02:36 PM
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Ha, too late. You were flying under the radar for a while, and would have continued to do so had Clinton won. But she didn't. Trump winning was like discovering the termite infestation right before irreparable structural damage occurred.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 02:14 PM
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So all you have is the typical leftist "attack the speaker" response? Or do you care to actually debate the points?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 01:49 PM
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CNN wasn't mean to him. They fucking conspired with the Clinton campaign all while pretending to be a reputable news outlet. They don't report news, they report stories (true or not) that fit the narrative. They were a major part of the establishment's propaganda wing, and have been exposed for the frauds they are - and Trump called them out on it right to their faces on national TV. That has to happen to more of the cultural Marxists - they and their intellectually bankrupt ideology need to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 01:38 PM
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I'm hoping it will be the death knell for cultural Marxism and all its current manifestations - modern feminism, HAES/fat promotion, false victim hood, special snowflakes, "safe spaces", political correctness, etc. About goddamn time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/17 12:00 PM
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It all comes back to the Golden Rule: A. Be attractive; B. Don't be unattractive. Being strong is attractive. Being weak, whiny, and child-like is unattractive. What men need to remember is that "attractive" and "unattractive" must be judged objectively. Built body is objectively attractive. Fat is objectively unattractive. And so on.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/17 03:35 PM
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So far it only got interest in /r/MensRights And it will only get interest from Men's Rights. Feminists do not give a shit about equality - they want power and control. That's it. Regular men and women don't care, and probably aren't on this or any related sub anyway. Red pillers are busy working on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 03:24 PM
1

That's where the "dress well" part of TRP kicks in. Go to multiple stores and try on clothes until you find tops that make you as attractive as possible. I lifted before I lost the weight, so I focused on shirts and sweaters that would show how built I was on top, without showing the gut I still had. Perfect? No. But attractive and getting noticed, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 05:05 AM
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Can't CMV. Building muscle through heavy lifts is the easiest and quickest way for the usual noob to become more physically attractive to more women. Noob gains are a real thing, and nice musculature can make you look great in your clothes. Aside from Tinder, you generally don't need a six-pack to be "fuckable" to women. Being jacked and fit is usually good enough, as you are ahead of 80% of your competition. It's also easier because to get the shredded, bodybuilder look, you must have 12% or le…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 09:45 PM
1

Second. This is exactly how I deal with mine. She gets a warning. Do it again (or continue failing to do it), I put her in timeout in a calm, businesslike fashion. I'm at the point where I only have to dish out a timeout once every couple of months. Edit: grammar
/r/askMRP16/12/16 02:36 AM
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"Micro threats"? This is SJW faggot-speak. She's not worried about micro-threats when she's bouncing on Chad's macro-cock. That's because she needs to fuck him right then and there, chores be damned. If chores come before needing to fuck you, the chores aren't the problem - You are.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/16 08:03 PM
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Pretend you're someone else and read what you just wrote. Sounds like a guy going into the massage with defeat at the front of his mind, doesn't it? Go in with a better attitude, and hold it throughout (basically, hold frame). She is shit testing the daylights out of you during the massage, and it sounds like you're failing. First, read up on how to do a good massage (hell, go get a real one yourself and copy what they do - that's what I did). Then approach the massage as a strong confident man …
/r/askMRP13/12/16 07:16 PM
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Could be her way of initiating. Remember, women communicate covertly. They rarely initiate by straight up saying "please fuck me", or by jumping in your lap naked while youre on the computer, no matter how "hawt" she thinks you are. Their initiation is more like them covertly trying to get you to initiate. Inviting you to rub your hands all over her sounds like just that. Massage her if you want, escalate if you want, don't get butthurt if she rebuffs your advances. If she hard no's you Twice co…
/r/askMRP13/12/16 06:54 PM
1

Yes! And if she complains about the penis whacking her head, tell her she needs to hold it out of the way...amazing how many times her stroking it "just happens".
/r/askMRP13/12/16 06:40 PM
3

What is your point? That we should all be ashamed of ourselves because some bitter MGTOW (read: too lazy or scared to internalize his own faults and improve them, instead content to blame the world for his problems) felt bad one day? Nice concern trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 03:36 PM
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why don't you post what you love about your wife? Because that is not what the site is for. That's like asking why we don't discuss men's rights advocacy if we're so concerned about divorce rape - wrong place. We're building men and unfucking their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 03:27 PM
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Liar. Human fetus at 8 weeks (2 months pregnant) is the size of a raspberry, (and I'm giving you a huge benefit of the doubt, because you said 1 week, whereupon the fetus would be the size of a poppy seed) so unless you picked out a shit nugget for analysis, I'm calling bullshit. And I'm pretty sure at that point, a pill won't just flush it. Nice try though. Troll.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 05:29 AM
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That's where my problem with the left, SJWs, feminists, fat acceptance people, comes in - these people refuse to accept that there is such a thing as basic human nature. Instead, they think humans should be re-programmable like robots if they would only just become "educated." they live in delusional-world
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 10:13 PM
3

I read it as "women don't believe they objectify men, because they objectify men differently than men do women", so I'm challenging that view by saying "no, they physically objectify men all the time, they don't think they do because of the double standard whereby their objectifying does not register, but men objectifying is "problematic"".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 09:36 PM
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Disagree. Women sexualize and objectify the male body just like men do theirs, given the opportunity. Why do you think People has the 50 hottest men of the year issue? Or, ever be hanging out with women and hear them talk about physically attractive men like a piece of meat? It happens all the time. But, that's "OK", while men sexualizing or objectifying women based on looks is "Not OK". The only difference is the BS double standard in our feminized culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 09:27 PM
1

Agree. True abundance sends their hamster and tingles into overdrive.
/r/askMRP07/12/16 02:10 PM
2

For the love of God, of course they can. My former coworker is 5'6, and he was homecoming king in high school, varsity soccer player in college, and all around smooth as fuck. He's good looking, in shape, funny, and unashamedly sexual with almost all women. Many don't respond, but many did. Dude's been with mad chicks his whole life, all different stages. Be attractive, don't be unattractive, and bang girls who don't give a shit about height.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/16 02:01 PM
3

It's been said repeatedly that shit tests never end, and they shouldn't - if she stops shit testing you, she's checked out.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 01:57 PM
2

Good advice. I'd also add that lack of sleep during that stage is a factor. Women don't get a pass for being tired and stressed in normal life - but it's a bit different if she's chronically sleep deprived and her hormones are all out of whack. He should keep improving and worry about no's in a couple of months when things normalize.
/r/askMRP07/12/16 01:53 PM
2

My life mirrors yours to an extent. I was a smart wallflower in HS, well liked and respected by all, but girls weren't interested in me. I reinvent myself as a frat guy party animal in college, meet my wife eventually, and the rest is history. I went from her alpha, to AF/BB, then slit into fat miserable dadbod betadom, which accelerated after my kid was born. I wasn't the hottest guy ever, and she wasn't the hottest girl. Like you, my fun loving nature was a big key. I disagree with the idea of…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 05:51 PM
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Every woman has boundaries and limits on some stuff, but almost all will be kinky in some aspects. It's your job as a man while dating to see if her kinks align with yours, or whether she's willing to explore stuff. Find that out early, and don't waste your time or hers if there's no match.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 03:38 AM
2

Then these men are pussies and deserve what they get. I made it clear to my girlfriend (now wife) about a year into our relationship that I required more than just PIV and BJs from a woman I would even consider marrying. Hence anal (and I took her anal virginity).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 03:35 AM
2

You are one of the few women on the planet who can admit that women can be shitty. The rest dwell within their own solipsism.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 01:41 PM
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Work people staying a out of my way a little more Careful with this shit. From the 48 laws of power: Rule #1: "Never outshine the master" Resist the urge to go red pill Rambo at work, unless you are the supreme boss. Intimidate your superiors, and you place a target on yourself as a threat. I inadvertently did this and earned myself the quiet scorn of my Beta Bob wannabe aggressive managing partner. At least now I'm as aware of The Game at the office as I am with women.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/16 04:39 AM
0

You can go from zero to caveman in 60 seconds, which is fun, only when she is already wet and tingling because your Chad or she woke up from a wet dream or a thousand other possible reasons. This right here. Look guys, AWALT in that women love to submit to a dominant, high value man. That does not mean that all women love to be tossed around like a rag doll, have their hair yanked, or have their asses bruised right when you walk in the door (or when just waking up). They all want to have their b…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 06:49 PM
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To help with abundance mentality, do more catch and release. But do it to the point where you can be 95% certain that the strange would actually fuck you. I fucked up a catch and release that turned out to be a blessing in disguise. Was hitting on cute, but post-wall bartender at local place after work one Friday. I read her body language, she seemed into me, so I asked for her number and set a date and time to meet up at a different bar (next Thursday). She wrote it in a napkin, but later came …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 06:32 PM
1

Very well put. Maintaining frame, and certain shit test passing techniques (amused mastery and command presence) work great with my little one. But you're right - as fathers we are our childrens' teachers as well. A great teacher knows their shit, explains their shit coherently so the audience receives and learns the lesson, as well as being And setting the example in all aspects of life. Case in point - when I need to put my 3 1/2 year old in time out (which is exceedingly rare), I always ask h…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 06:16 PM
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How is it not child abuse to alter their gender at 4? What the fuck? You have to be 18 to get tattooed, vote, join the military, use nicotine, and 21 to drink booze or smoke pot where legal. But at the age of 4, you are apparently wise and mature enough to irreversibly mutilate your body and body chemistry. This shit needs to stop. It's getting downright sick.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/16 03:15 AM
1

Gaston is not Apha enough given his oneitis for Belle. He should be having FFFM orgies with those village floozies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 11:17 PM
1

Late to the party, but I got mine a small butt plug last year. That gift keeps on giving. This year it's time to upgrade to a larger vibrating one... Point is, give her an experience. Give her a thrill. Get her a token thing in addition so she can show her mom and coworkers.
/r/askMRP29/11/16 10:45 PM
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I think we're agreeing. This looks like it can be turned around, and in relatively short order. You're right - she'll have a tough time locking down another guy. But if she truly is a "quntessential hottie", she will get another one, disabled kids notwithstanding (image the old superhero cartoons - "This looks like a job for Sir Save-a-ho the Gallant, with his magical shimmering white armor!"
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 06:32 PM
2

Search for Bluepillprofessor's 12 stages of dread post. The first 5 are basically passive, so that's the starting point. 15-20 is too many reps even for most accessory lifts - you're basically doing cardio at that point. General rule (I know 5/3/1 is different, so if it works stick with it) is 5 reps for 5 sets for strength (and what we mean when we say lift heavy), 8-12 reps for accessory lifts for hypertrophy.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 05:57 PM
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Focus first on lifting heavy. There a several beginner programs recommended here (strong lifts 5x5). Lifting heavy will make you stronger and will boost testosterone. I started my Journey a year ago, and within a month or so of lifting heavy, I felt like a goddamn 20 year old again (I'm 37). Focus on packing on muscle first, then cut if need be. As far as dread, work the passive shit first - and hit it hard. Active dread at the early stages can nuke a marriage, especially since you don't have th…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 05:12 PM
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Read this blog post by our pro-masculine evangelist u/thefamilyalpha here. As I said in a comment reply below, IF you decide that your wife brings value such that you wish to remain married to her on YOUR terms, I think there is hope. From what you wrote, your wife was not a slut (unlike the bitch from Rollo's Saving the Best post). She was a relationship minded gal that had a few boyfriends, who she repeatedly fucked absolutely senseless, with a FB or two thrown in. By today's standards, that's…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 03:14 PM
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I'm cautiously optimistic on this, if he can actually become (and stay) attractive. She wasn't a CC riding slut - she fucked a couple of guys hundreds of times each, not a hundred guys a couple times each. If he can be the man that Ends the Line of Chads, it may work out... That is, if he decides he wants it to work.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 02:51 PM
1

Great advice here. Basically, quit being a pussy in all aspects. Hell, I thought my last post on epic frame holding was great, until the vets pointed out that my epic frame hold was only necessary because of my faggotry in dealing with a precursor shit test. I owned it and learned to be better. Iron sharpens iron. Read the 48 Laws of Power. Law 28: Enter action with boldness. Everyone admires boldness. No one admires timidity.
/r/askMRP04/11/16 08:46 PM
1

Agree and Amplify. It's a good, commonly used shit test response.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 06:33 PM
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It's true that most women are dull as shit. They depend on men for excitement. Where you're off is that the excitement need not always be "epic level" every time. If you are constantly improving and being "hawt", actually spending time with her will be exciting. If you choose to move it into an LTR (or if you're already married), the trick is to keep it varied and interesting. A&A works as well with my wife of 12 years as it will with a random girl at the club, because you're being fun and funny…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 06:10 PM
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Except it's not an excuse - it's literally THE reason she's going to next this loser. She'll probably give him some bullshit platitudes (you're a Great Guy, but just not for me) when she breaks up (if she even tells him anything). Let that be a lesson. The worst goddamn thing you can do to a woman you want to keep around (plate, FWB, LTR) is to bore her. Be fun and exciting - fun and exciting is attractive.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 04:05 PM
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For the sex bit, check out DEVI from Sex God Method. Your wife may have bullshit Christian guilt hang ups about sex. Use fully immersive experiences to give her a place to unleash her inner slut. Steal mine if you want. Make sure to always be gaming her. Have sex on the forefront of her mind. House: I have a 3 1/2 year old. My wife is a full time working professional in a stressful job and our house is always picked up. Not spotless, but clean and presentable at all times. She gets home a few ho…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 08:06 PM
2

Bullshit. Eat 500 calories less than your TDEE a day, lose 1 - 1 1/2 a pound a week. And that's eating whatever you want if it fits your macros (IIFYM). It's that fucking simple. The problem is that it requires a modicum of effort and discipline, which is too much to ask of the entitled population we have. Source: me, lost 40 pounds in 5 months, and I eat out at least 3 times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/16 02:05 PM
1

Perfectly stated, and my sentiments as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/16 01:32 PM
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I have a theory that it is impossible for married sex to be as passionate as non-married sex. I don't know about not as passionate - but I would agree that it's never as exciting. There is no "thrill of the hunt" with the wife. No matter what crazy shit I get my wife enthusiastically doing, whether new or not, its just not as exciting as I remember simply fucking a new woman. Men just weren't designed for monogamy.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/16 08:14 PM
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Intelligence can be one part of a man that women can be sexually attracted to. Hell, more than one woman has fucked me claiming my intelligence was a turn on. But it wasn't because of my test scores, but because I seem to know everything and can communicate well, to the point of bordering on arrogance during discussions. Me explaining something interesting that they didn't understand is a form of dominance. Helps that I wasn't bad looking either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/16 05:48 PM
3

From Rule Zero TRP's mission is to increase men's sexual power and options. Morality is irrelevant. Your ex's pussy is an option. Exercise it if you want.
/r/askTRP29/10/16 01:47 PM
0

Shit, I meant 8 (being so that strange women flirt with you) should be standard op. Higher than that, nexting might be the better option.
/r/askMRP29/10/16 01:34 PM
1

Read bluepillprofessor's post on the 12 stages of dread. There is a reason active dread should only really be used if she's not responding to passive. If you don't have passive dread on full lock, active won't work. You need to be high-value, or she won't give a shit about your active dread. You need to be someone worth worrying about, before you can make her worry. If active is even necessary, you need to think about Nexting. Though I think all men should be at dread level 6 as standard operati…
/r/askMRP29/10/16 03:28 AM
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BobbyPeru is right. I've glanced at your post history. You've been at this a year, and you still don't know how to shut the fuck up if you have no better response. You need to go back to "how to pass shit tests 101". She comes at you angry, and you respond. Mistake. Every time. Look, we all fuck it up and fail a shit test now and then, but this seems to be a pattern with you, to the point where you are coming across as a sour grump in your FRs. Remember the golden rule: Be attractive; don't be u…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/16 03:21 AM
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Totally agree. this is what modern feminism tries to do - tear down the surroundings instead of having agency and working hard to rise above. Want Marilyn's body? Don't work for it. Instead blame some strawmen (Patriarchy, culture) for why you're fat. Then try to get everyone else to validate you as a fat person by either tearing down a sex symbol like Marilyn (she was a fat skank), or bring her down to your level as a comparison (see, she was fat and loved - I'm entitled to this too!)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/16 05:43 PM
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This shit is real. And it gets even realer. I'm going to have to make a decision soon about whether to fuck a potential source of business or not - good looking woman too, even if post-wall (my age). This is not only an opportunity for quality strange but an opportunity to generate business - and the way this woman and I have interacted so far, I don't know that I'd get her business if I didnt give her the business.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/16 03:45 AM
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Ultimately the guilt is why guys/gals get caught. The wives smell it on you, then track it down like a bloodhound. I'm late to the party, but this is the fucking key. Unless they find hard evidence, they don't know you cheated. They know you are acting bizarre. Women are experts on covert communication, and heavy guilt is a flashing beacon that cannot be hidden. you get caught when, in your weakness and confusion you start panicking, then either confessing or behaving so irrationally and careles…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/16 03:30 AM
1

I never said women should "get less". I implied that men and women are not the same - and they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 11:15 PM
1

Blue Pill Men - live in college or in urban hipster communities, like the non-poor sections of Brooklyn (such men of the people they are, living close to, but not in, neighborhoods like Bed-Sty). No muscle tone, thin, but decent looking guys. Picture Moby with some hair. Blue pill women- run the gamut. Most have mental issues (check their post histories), most are either over 40 fat messes, or college to early 20s age radfems with problem glasses. Mostly unattractive, or they'd have better thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 03:47 AM
1

I'll be seeing some hardcore SJWs around the holidays. Would fucking love the "This is what the patriarchy looks like" shirt. Preferably for my wife, and way too tight. (The ironing is delicious)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/16 03:38 AM
3

As originally conceived, socialism was where the means of production was to be controlled by the government. Socialism was never intended to be an end-goal; once Socialization was complete, the government was to "step aside" and the means of production were to be controlled collectively by The People - this would have been real communism. As you can see, that never happened. The states that became truly socialist never transitioned to communism. They instead became totalitarianism, with rule by …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 10:09 PM
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Trying to engineer life according to a fantasy ideal has been the leftist's problem for centuries now. We're seeing it manifested here as modern feminism, but go back and you'll see socialism and communism were the same thing. "Everyone should pitch in equally and share in equal prosperity". Sounded nice to a lot of folks, but it has never worked because the reality of human nature will not allow it to work. We are all inherently greedy, selfish beings - we had to be, or our family died in the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 04:28 PM
1

He hates women because he said they look like crap in yoga pants over a certain age? Straw man much? By the way, we have freedom of speech here. I can tell a woman she looks like ten pounds of shit in a five pound bag if I damn well please. I can say the same to another guy, a trans, or my MIL's cat. The idea that women are beyond criticism is indicative of the narcissistic entitlement mentality that's on the rise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 01:05 PM
0

no women give a fuck if you don't like them wearing certain clothes. Ummm, evidently hundreds of them have enough of a fuck about what one gay man thought about their clothes to go down and march in front of his house, some even issuing death threats (a crime). Looks like reality undercut your argument
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 12:52 PM
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This is probably a troll job, but for others, here's a pro tip on lingerie/sexy outfits: tell her to wear what you want. Don't suggest it, don't be a faggot and leave it out on the bed when you leave for work or buy something as a "gift" and give it to her with a shit-eating grin on your face. Tell her "wear the pink and black neglige when we hang out tonight".
/r/askMRP23/10/16 06:17 PM
2

Not the same. Just ask the question on r/sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 05:57 PM
4

majority of straight women will tell you dildos are not an adequate substitute for cock.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/16 05:56 PM
1

That's why Rollo's Tomassi's timetable is so spot on. Give a LTR prospect three quality dates (my timetable was always two weeks, which works to about the same). Even if she's realitively low n-count, she'll be fucking you within that timeframe. If she's not, she's not attracted enough to you, and you should be looking elsewhere. None of my gfs fucked on the first date, but they did within that window, and all had pretty low n-counts (no more than 4). All were pretty into me, and I ended up marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 08:02 PM
2

Good insight. Plausible deniability explains why women typically never approach. It also explains in part why they give IOIs and other signals to men they wish to fuck instead of more direct cues. if the guy doesn't fuck her, she can insulate herself from the sting of rejection/no validation, can hamster away any perceived sluttiness, and then tell herself that if he was too autistic to pick up her IOIs, then she's better off not having fucked him.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 04:54 PM
5

It may be less "confidence" than inadvertent aloofness. I was like this in law school. I had a couple of female friends who were apparently coming on to me pretty hard, and I apparently had no clue (my wife, horrified at how these 2 were behaving around me, had to point it out. I thought she was just being paranoid, until the other wives in the group confirmed the same). In my younger days, I had more than one gal tell me the sexiest thing about me was that I had no idea how sexy I was. I didnt …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 03:30 PM
2

I wanted to think about what you said for a bit before responding. You're right. Had I not botched this portion, the cancellation threat probably doesn't happen. I knew I fucked this part up right away, hence the parenthetical, but not the full implications of it. Good point.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/16 10:56 PM
1

Sniff, sniff But seriously, read my Edit2. Reading comprehension helps too.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/16 07:25 PM
4

As to your second point, re-read my Edit2 above. I realized that I wasn't clear enough in the OP. If she doesn't want to go to the sex club, fine. I don't force this woman to do anything, and I really don't want her doing something she doesn't organically want to do - that would be building a covert contract and is to be avoided. The disrespect was her attempting to threaten/punish me by withdrawing/depriving me of something (nice weekend getaway). Bullshit of this nature will not be tolerated. …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/16 05:14 PM
0

And then he showed those men of will frame what will frame really was. - Keyser Soze
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/16 04:35 PM
2

I'm stealing this for next time...if there ever is a next time.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/16 02:44 PM
5

In the moment, I figured that she booked the trip, on her own initiative, under her name, and was now trying to dangle its life in front of me. In this specific context, it seemed the best way to get the message across was to shoot the hostage. Agree that, had I arranged this trip, the 100% correct thing would be "I'm going no matter what, join me or don't." In that case shooting the hostage is basically shooting yourself in the foot.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/16 02:22 PM
2

Agree 100% about the chili drink. Needed way more heat to be interesting
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/16 01:55 PM
16

A great reminder. Men are the prize, but you cannot act like a prize unless you are, objectively, a fucking prize. You are not there on day 4 of MRP. Six months of busting your ass lifting, eating right, and obtaining justified abundance mentality is a good checkpoint. This is precisely why MRP is red pill on hard mode (with no reset button). You have to undergo the change under the wife's penetrative and calculating gaze. Do it slow, do it from within, and the change will register to her as gen…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/16 03:02 AM
9

I am a living example of this, and there is some truth to it. However, you cannot be poor and directionless forever. That's fine for college (I should have been spinning plates instead, but too late for that). However, had I not gone on to become successful in a prestige career, she would have branch swung in our mid 20's, no doubt. The other problem, as I insinuated, is that such a girl/dynamic must be LTR'd at a far younger age than recommended here - think early 20's. And of course you'd have…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/16 04:19 PM
3

I've been saying the same shit for months, and no one cares. i used to get salty about it too...but if you take a look around the rest of reddit outside the pill-o-sphere, you'll notice that everyone recognizes that TBP is a feminist mouthpiece masquerading as a satire sub. The only ones who think it isn't are some Bloops, as the rest of the bloops know exactly what kind of bullshit they're trying to pull. Tl;dr - I stopped wasting my time trying to unmask something that was already unmasked to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 07:19 PM
7

Good comment. tonadd to your Titanic point - Jack wasn't just an attractive guy - he was a "bad boy". Poor kid, hustled his way onto the ship, was unapologetic about his in your face behavior, and had his drawings of other chick he drew nude - alpha bad boy with looks and major preselection. He went all BP over his ONEitis at the end, but those alpha traits turned him into a "must fuck" for her, instead of just another pretty face.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 07:24 PM
3

I disagree. It's that men are not allowed to complain about being helpless and blame the world for their problems - again, rightly so. If after being told to man up AND being given all the tools in the world to build themselves into whatever they desire to be, they still whine, that's when the loathing kicks in - hence the treatment of Incels. Women are treated differently when it comes to this perceived helplessness. Sure, some will be offered similar self-help resources, but many times the ans…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 02:36 PM
3

Tumblr feminists generate the same revulsion and ridicule that Incels do, just from a different crowd. The women on Two X and tumblr get away with it more because of the feminization of western culture. They are allowed to bitch all they want, and if you complain you're a misogynist. But men whining and complaining like the Incels will continue to be treated like pathetic dirt (rightly so IMO). You won't see the Two X or tumblr stuff ridiculed on TBP, because that place is a feminist shill satir…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/16 02:06 PM
-4

Ha! Guess they wanna fuck me as bad as concert broad!
/r/askMRP26/09/16 02:05 AM
-1

The note thing threw me for a loop. You want wife seeing evidence of ability to pull strange. Telling her a waitress hit on you at lunch is lame and ineffective. Her seeing you get hit on is perfect. This crap fell in a gray area (or so I thought). Next time, I'll ask the strange to give me a "You're #1" sticker to wear on my way home so the wife sees how special I am. For real, thanks
/r/askMRP25/09/16 03:34 AM
1

So they're Incels in denial?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 04:41 PM
1

Read up onshitty comfort tests too. Also, as mountain says, you need to really internalize this shit so you understand the "why". Success will not be achieved by applying tips and tricks.
/r/askMRP21/09/16 02:27 PM
2

This AM she texts me it isn't about the laundry, it is that I am changing things that impact her w/o consideration and because of that it shows that I don't care what she thinks. Seriously considering telling her in person: You're right, I don't care what you think about the laundry. You my be having/approaching a mini main event. Read up on that. As others have suggested, you are changing the rules, she's losing control of you and she doesn't like it. I'll give you one tip - do NOT tell her you…
/r/askMRP21/09/16 02:23 PM
18

Spot fucking on with this line: Brad Pitt can't quite compare to Brad Pitt Women will never love you, they love what you are and how you make them feel. Even in my deepest BP days, I said to my wife more than once "you don't love me. You love the idea of me." How right I was.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/16 09:03 PM
167

Telling you. Read the sidebar stuff. It'll take you a few days, but it'll sink in. Women want a man who just "gets it". Her ex "just got it". You don't. Also, "watch what they do, not what they say". He statements are rationalizations (what we call hamstering). If she wanted you to fuck her like that, she'd have taken you up on your porn idea. Instead, she wants Chad to give her the treatment right in front of you. It's profoundly disrespectful and simply put the most unmasculine thing I can thi…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:47 AM
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She's looking to cuck you. Chances are, she already fucked him and now wants to do it with your blessing to erase any guilt. Start clandestinely looking for evidence. Btw, your sex life with her is "meh" because she is t attracted to you, she's desirous of her Ex. Look at it this way, if she was just interested in an MFM to get it off her bucket list, she wouldn't have a guy in mind. Tough break, but at least you came to the right place.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:36 AM
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I'm speculating, but I wager she got a little desperate when hubby moved on, and the first offer for BB that came her way, she jumped on it, because being along is scary. Agreed. I'm imagining Alden meeting the hubby and the younger upgraded version of this bitch. How long do you think it is before Alden realizes "Hey, why am I accepting this dude's trade-in, when I could get my own newer model." Edit: misspelling
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/16 04:49 PM
1

You hit it right in the head. This is precisely why cuckold porn is on the rise.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 05:18 PM
8

Good analysis. I'm usually on the side of trying to salvage a marriage if there's anything there, but this...this is a whole 'nother level. OP should follow the steps here, practice shit test passing and game on the wife, and make covert plans for divorce. This is too far gone. I could never look at my wife the way I should be able to look at a wife if she ever pulled this shit with me.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/16 04:41 PM
2

I'm not at the stage for real dread game yet. But I want to go nuclear about the affection problems Fucking read the 12 steps of dread and do it right. Jesus. Or next her. Whatever.
/r/askMRP30/08/16 06:20 PM
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I've noticed that she will get harpy with me when her friends/sister has issues with their relationships or big life events such as getting married. It's like their events make her feel insecure in her own relationship. They do. If you internalize the reading, put in the work, and become a high-value man, these things won't generate harpy shit tests. They'll generate tingles. i can still feel unresolved tension from before she left. Yes, and because you didn't "fake it till you make it" like we …
/r/askMRP30/08/16 05:17 PM
1

Glad I saw this. The other posters are right - there can be no covert contract here. If the massage is going to be a pretense for sex, you have to telegraph it clearly without being directly overt. Here's my suggestion. If you want to give her a coconut massage just to massage her, that's fine. But don't create the full immersive experience with the red light and shit. Save that stuff for your inappropriate only massages. The last thing you need is for her to ask for a coconut massage one night,…
/r/askMRP30/08/16 03:28 PM
1

That really surprised me. Their usual advice isn't Insta-divorce, it's to communicate your feelings, get emasculated by a couples therapist, etc. Guess they project their frustrations on others through pm. Makes sense, given that the impotent rage on there is probably as bad or worse than those pathetic incel losers. Edit: goddamn autocorrect (impotent rage building)
/r/askMRP30/08/16 02:01 PM
2

Wrong. He totally would've gotten an FMF if he had just cut the sandwiches into the right shapes!
/r/askMRP29/08/16 07:54 PM
1

Should've said, in a sultry voice "oh, so that's what turns you on, watching someone make lunch, huh? Mmmm, you like that don't you?" Then chuckle and go do whatever you were doing.
/r/askMRP29/08/16 07:53 PM
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You may have to be one of those guys that has to see the nuts hanging out of her to get it through your skull Probably not even then. After a year of his continued faggotry, he'll be posting this: "I can't believe she did this! She was such a non-sexual woman. And to me! I was so Nice and Provided a Comfortable life for her! She'll never be able to replace someone as nice forgettable as me!"
/r/askMRP29/08/16 07:44 PM
2

There was no rape. Either guilt got the better of her or she was afraid boyfriend would find out - so she tells him she was "raped". I'll bet my life savings that the boyfriend did not get the full story we did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 05:49 PM
8

You can't control them, you can only control you. The rest is on her
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 03:56 PM
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Stop acting like a fucking woman. You are nagging her, and that will never accomplish anything, pregnant or not. Instead, lead. Come up with a weekly meal plan, prepare shit on the weekends, pack the lunches, and make the dinners. Go more natural/from scratch. Process shit is loaded with sodium, which is a major trigger for preeclampsia, a high blood pressure problem in pregnancy that can be fatal for both mom and baby. Also make sure you woman eats stuff loaded with good vitamins and minerals -…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 03:14 PM
1

I went through your post history. You may be in great shape, but your frame obviously sucks, you have zero OI, no real abundance mentality (since you admittedly have ONEitis), and are only on dread level 2. Gainz are not enough by themselves. my wife needs a fucking clue that I'm thinking of nuking the relationship. My question: how much do you think she really cares about losing a non-high value man? Active dread will never work unless the man doing the dreading is both objectively and subjecti…
/r/askMRP29/08/16 03:01 PM
1

Depends on the age range. Younger uglies tend to be loners before they start pairing off toward middle-age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/16 02:12 PM
1

You beat me to the punch. Was going to bet a package of skittles that OP's wife has Chad Coworker's dick in Her in less than a month.
/r/askMRP27/08/16 12:10 AM
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I did that before I swallowed the pill, so she still throws "you just have to assert yourself don't you?". But now at least I can deflect it well. Try a sort of pressure flip like "would you rather have a passive-aggressive faggot like Suzie's husband?".
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/16 12:06 AM
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I'm just glad it's workin for ya. This place and the red pill helped me take control of my life and I just want to pay it forward. I need some new immersion ideas though. I'm worried the coconut spa thing will become played out.
/r/askMRP26/08/16 05:38 PM
2

I'll answer for him. "Thanks. I can't just right now, but someday I'll have a plan that will take care of all of this."
/r/askMRP26/08/16 12:34 PM
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If all else fails, maybe he can sell the videos there will be of his wife fucking her coworker to those cuckold porn sites. Heard that's quite a business.
/r/askMRP26/08/16 12:29 PM
3

an endorsement from sexyshoulderangel. Thanks, man
/r/askMRP26/08/16 12:26 PM
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You said she's got one foot out the door already. If you do nothing, she's gone. I'm saying - don't do it for her, don't do it for your marriage. Do it for you. If she resents it and leaves, so what? Because as you said shes almost gone anyway. So get your shit in order for you. And maybe, just maybe, your decisiveness, boldness, and fixation on improving the your situation will inspire her. Maybe it won't. At least you'll be better off.
/r/askMRP26/08/16 04:12 AM
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You tell me. You and your wife work for 135 hours a week, do not pay rent, and somehow cannot start digging out of debt other than refinancing gimmicks? Budget does not be refinancing. It means spending less than you make while paying off debt and saving some. Go to the library or online and get "The total money makeover" by Dave Ramsey. Do not consult your mommy wife, just get it and set the plan. Go to Daves website and get the free Every Dollar app. Ever goddamned cent you bring in will have …
/r/askMRP26/08/16 03:55 AM
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I have mentioned moving out and she doesnt want to Read this segment and tell me what's wrong with it.
/r/askMRP26/08/16 03:47 AM
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I was shaving at the gym after my shower a couple weeks ago, and this 50 something regular was shaving in the sink next to mine. I was clean shaven all my life, but grew a beard (short trimmed, and no neck beard) after swallowing the pill. He said "I wish I could grow a beard like you. I had one 20 years ago, but my wife doesn't approve and made me shave it off, and I've been like this ever since" Me: I just started growing mine one day. Didn't even tell the wife I was doing it. I just did it. H…
/r/askMRP26/08/16 03:40 AM
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We currently have financial issues ($100K in debt and living with my parents) The golden rule: be attractive; don't be unattractive. Living with your parents is unattractive as fuck. She doesn't want a provider, she wants a man with his shit together. You are not such a man. I'll break from the usual MRP dread steps and say that getting your finances in order and getting the hell out of your parents house is Job 1, 2 and 3 for YOU. Not her, not her fucking biological clock, YOU. This shit has to…
/r/askMRP26/08/16 03:04 AM
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Out of everything, what surprised me the most about the red pill is how much their fear, insecurity and jealousy turns them on. It literally drives them wild.
/r/askMRP25/08/16 02:41 PM
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Disagree with your and /u/HopefullyAlphaSoon responses. Her questions like this are not informational. They are shit tests, and by responding directly, you both failed. Gotta A&A this shit. Her: when are you going to stop losing weight? You: when I look like Kate Moss in her heyday You: when I look like a starving Ethiopian You: when I look like I'm 14 again.
/r/askMRP25/08/16 02:06 PM
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Like anything else, don't use toys excessively. Use them now and then, and switch up your bedroom antics. Constant variety is the goal. This is just some ideas for ways to switch things up.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/16 01:57 PM
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A dildo cannot replace a real cock, so long as the cock belongs to a man she genuinely wants to fuck. That said, YMMV, but mine didn't like the huge dong I got her. Used it maybe twice, never wanted it again. Too big, was uncomfortable. Little known fact - while a huge dick is impressive to women, as a practical matter a lot of them don't like fucking them. Too big and there's a danger of crashing into her cervix, which causes either extreme pain or nausea for the woman. Hell, I'm nothing specia…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/16 01:53 PM
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"Are you going to see your wife...or your lover?" Great point. Be attractive, don't be unattractive, all the time Wife and I used to change into old bummy clothes after work when just hanging out at home. After swallowing the pill, I stopped that shit. I wear a tight-ish ringer tee or similar around the house now so that my guns, shoulders and back muscles are always showcased. Working on getting lean enough to not need the shirt at all, but for now, it has worked.
/r/askMRP24/08/16 04:50 PM
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Read this and the comments thereto Create an immersive experience (fuck, rip mine off exactly if you want). Create a space where she can feel free to unleash her inner beast. Create a way to ask/accept raunchy sex without her literally asking (or her literally being asked to have) raunchy sex. Your more conservative chicks will need this sort of thing to help them loosen up. Also - pregame her with a bottle of champagne or prosecco. 2 or 3 glasses of the bubbly ought to lower her anti-slut filte…
/r/askMRP24/08/16 12:52 AM
1

Be honest though, does the idea of being DP'd by your man and a vibe/butt plug sound like something you'd want to try?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 11:57 PM
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She's seen it in some porns we've watched together and says she's too intimidated... ... Guess I'll have to get one then, huh?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 07:27 PM
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No. A teachable moment for you. Do not leave it to her to get around to posting shit online and selling it - take charge and you sell stuff that should be sold (as opposed to thrown/given away). The Captain does what he needs to do. Lead by example.
/r/askMRP23/08/16 07:09 PM
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You are a man. It is your job to lead. If you want sex, initiate. Waiting for her to do it is passive. Many women do not know how to lead in bed. Do to her what you want, it's her job to tell you no if she's not interested. As for not wanting to change positions, my wife is the same. We will do a number of different positions, but not during the same episode of sex unless it's painful/uncomfortable/becomes uncomfortable and needs adjustment. She does not like it when I switch positions when she'…
/r/askMRP23/08/16 06:37 PM
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you should read up on how to do anal from a man's perspective. Basically, you can't just slide your dick in all at once like with the vag. You have to go super slow at first, even with lube. Get your head in first, and start very slowly inserting. Basically, her sphincter will seize up when you first penetrate. If you keep pushing, it'll be painful for her. You have to wait until her asshole relaxes, then slide in all the way. Thrust very slow and gentle at first, start going faster once she say…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 05:25 PM
1

Do you have a recommendation for brand of remote vibe? Always wanted one but was afraid of shit quality.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 04:27 PM
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Funny you mention the new bed. I have a king, and my wife has always wanted a headboard and footboard. I always said no, waste of money, until 2 weeks ago. I said she could get whatever headboard she wanted, so long as it has bars for easy handcuffing/tying. She spent a week looking at them in her spare time, and ordered one a few days ago that meets the criteria. Can't wait.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 04:25 PM
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I usually start her lying on her front, then flip her over to finish the massage by rubbing her tits and pussy, then climbing on the bed and pounding her missionary. just how it usually goes.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 03:53 PM
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and fuck me, I want more How often are you initiating? You should be initiating whenever you feel like it. Is sex only 2-3 times a month because you only initiate 2-3 times a month? You say you're gaming and flirting with the wife - do you try to capitalize on that tension later? Or is she still giving hard no's? Edit: I read this too fast. I missed this: Me and my wife's friend have a constant teasing/gaming thing going on. Ok, so you are gaming your wife's friend. What about your wife?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 01:48 PM
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She may want a 3rd pile of items to sell, but is she really going to get to posting and selling shit? Read this again, then tell me what's wrong with it. This is a good teaching moment.
/r/askMRP23/08/16 01:14 PM
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Yes, but Tyler broke a cardinal rule - never stick your dick in crazy. Marla Singer is the RP poster child for a BPD woman. Crazy, liar, thief, and she pulls the "I'm going to kill myself" crap over the phone - to which Tyler comes running to the rescue. Tyler knows Marla is the only one who can bring down Fight Club/Project Mayhem, and yet keeps bringing her around and giving her the opportunity to fuck it up by exposing him to himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/16 01:10 PM
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Yep. Lead. Take the reigns from the outset. There is no pile number 4. Just the three, and you will force her to make a decision on every item that's not a no-brainer. Even better - limit your inquiry on items that do not belong in the house, ever. Old chair she's going to re-upholster that's been sitting there for 3 years untouched? You pick it up and say "trash or donate". Don't even offer keep as an option. If she gives you any shit, you stand there with a smirk and repeat "trash or donate". …
/r/askMRP23/08/16 12:59 PM
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How bout option 3: you order the trailer on a weekend you know you'll both be around, tell her that's basement clean out day. Tell her that you expect her to help, or you'll take care of it yourself and throw out what you feel is garbage. She'll jump at the opportunity. Leading up to it, go down with her and tell her to separate shit out for trash. Here's how - you literally pick up each thing and say "trash, donate, or keep". Separate shit into piles. When trailer arrives, load up trash and don…
/r/askMRP23/08/16 12:47 PM
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Women shit test innately. It is automatic to them. If it was informational about the safety of the act, she didn't need to say she had done it before with another dude- it's pretty common sense. Adding that qualifier means she was shit testing you. She wasnt being disrespectful (thus, nothing for you to "not tolerate") and she didn't give you a no, she gave you a goddamn yes. And then you fucked it up by letting your insecurities run hog wild. Insecurity is the antithesis of confidence.
/r/askMRP22/08/16 03:51 AM
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Great post /u/Rollo-Tomassi. As all of us on MRP should know by now, a man's commitment is only as valuable as the man issuing it. Invest in yourself - be high value. (Of course, we all broke Law 20, but it is what it is at this point...) Question though - women hitting the wall and the recently post-wall actually seem to logically understand the value in a man's commitment. I say this because I still see a number of women who stay with low-value men they should leave, but they don't leave. Thes…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 03:19 AM
1

You're right, I mis-described it
/r/askMRP21/08/16 11:48 AM
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keeping it light, having fun This is it right here. Get her to laugh, and you've made her feel good. That's what she really wants. I'm a big fan of throwing out movie quotes to shit tests. Do the voices too. Make sure she knows and likes the reference well. She says something derogatory (but it a teasing, non-bitchy manner)? Me: (from Ferris Beuler's Day Off, in the voice of Cameron pretending to be Principal Rooney) "A family member dies, and you insult me. What the hhhhhhhhhell's the matter wi…
/r/askMRP19/08/16 05:41 PM
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This is the trick though. Women will freely and generously drop red pill truths - IF the conversation is about anyone else. I red pill analyze plenty of other relationships and wife agrees with damn near everything. But don't even think of telling her about Fight Club, or try to drop any red pill shit on her, about her.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/16 04:50 PM
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Should have just kept STFU once you shot her down. Let her imagine that you're butthurt instead of opening your mouth and removing all doubt. If you did need to speak, this was the perfect time for AA: "Yeah, so I hired a consultant and revised the plan. Weekends will now entail FFM threesomes on Saturday and an all-anal marathon on Sunday's", closed with a kiss on the forehead and a smile.
/r/askMRP19/08/16 01:30 PM
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If you have FB, you'll see a wife from time to time post that meme of "I'm sorry, I have to devote everything I have to being a mother now, I just don't have the time/energy to be that wife you need right now." When I see that, all I can think is "Husband is a ball-less chump."
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/16 11:09 AM
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Don't those idiots know they just need to put on an apron and start feather dusting the place while communicating their feelings about how they can't live without their wives?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/16 01:53 AM
3

Careful, your lack of mastery of the subject matter is showing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 05:55 PM
10

It's not just that. To put it bluntly, Marriages fall apart when the woman realizes the guy she married sucks. He has either sucked all along as u/PemBayliss suggests, or he has become sucky over time. Not maintaining the castle is one symptom, but becoming less manly, more supplicating, getting fat and out of shape, having a losing attitude, this combined will kill it for any woman over time. Love using my wife's sis as an example. Her hubby makes more $$ than me (though not by much), but he is…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 01:26 PM
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Are you fucking retarded? Have you read anything here? Women are not aroused by money. Money does not make pussies wet. Never has, never will. Status, power, and success get pussies wet. Betas do not get anal play. Go ahead and be the beta that showers women with money. They'll be sure to fuck Chad (and he'll be licking their assholes right before plowing them) while marrying you
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 12:44 AM
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Seconded. Couple times with total STFU, and this shit stops. Kids will stop throwing temper tantrums when they see that they do not achieve the desired result. Your wife will do likewise.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/16 09:00 PM
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Have you read the sidebar? Read The Rational Male, best of year one. There's literally a post called "Kill the Beta". Read it, and kill your inner beta, because he's killing you. Be vigilant too. That fucker is like Freddy Kreuger, coming back now and then after you think you've killed him for good
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 08:56 PM
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Don't hate betas. They do the best job eliminating the competition - themselves.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 08:41 PM
1

No, high betas are still betas. The best LTR material is an Alpha with a side of beta. Your high beta will still be a validation seeking wimp, just a good looking high earning one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 05:10 PM
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Selena Gomez has that super cute thing working - I expect her to fade hard as she ages though. Agree with the rest, especially Angelina Jolie. Never understood why she was such a thing. Has a face like a fish
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 02:16 PM
1

Gigi Hadid is borderline drop-dead gorgeous (a little too thin and a little too much resting bitch face, but god damn she's sexy) I don't understand Katy Perry. She has massive tits - that's it, and even those a probably pushed up to all hell. She's almost goofy looking. There were at least 6-7 hotter women at a recent networking event I was at
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 02:12 PM
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Technically, it is, but males must register for the draft when they hit 18, and the draft can be instated at any time in an "emergency", as defined by congress
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 02:01 PM
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Because the man has the burden of performance. It is his job to live the life he wants. He should be able to take care of his shit, with or without a woman. Where he gets it wrong is saying its on the man to be a better provider. Provisioning is one of those reasons a woman thinks "it would be a good idea to settle down with this guy". It does not, and never will, turn her on on a visceral level. The ideal relationship would have both - a high value man who is hot and has his life on lock - a gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 01:57 PM
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of course. That why we at MRP focus on being a "high value man". A high value man has a great body, dresses well, knows how to game women. He also has his shit together, has his life on lock with friends, cool hobbies, maintains a nice dwelling and standard of living, and always pushing career forward. He is with his wife/LTR because he wants to be, because she adds value to his life. Contrast this with your typical beta bucks nice guy, wo is a good fellow, but is out of shape, emotionally depen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 01:51 PM
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What really determines the success of the relationship is being able to be a stable provider My lord, do you run a beta male training seminar?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 01:06 PM
2

I feel pressure from myself and my own moral code to love her in spite of her flaws, and to help her overcome them. This whole victim puke was about her. You still obviously have ONEitis, and I don't understand what you're doing to lead. How much have you objectively improved over this last year? What was starting bench vs now? Starting body fat % vs now? How many new hobbies do you have that take you out of the house? Where are you in dread? Have other women been flirting with you or giving off…
/r/askMRP17/08/16 01:26 AM
2

The trolls aren't even trying anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 03:32 PM
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Not sure that, at this point, cheating is lying of any sort, or immoral. She breached the deal by unilaterally changing it from monogamy to de facto celibacy. In this case, I think cheating is completely appropriate. However, I like your take on it, not from a moralistic standpoint, but just from a textbook MRP standpoint - If your wife is still non-responsive through the passive (and early active) levels of dread, aren't you supposed to have an explicit talk about expectations and boundaries? C…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/16 02:21 PM
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start preparing for divorce outwardly. I like this better than serving her with papers. To me, serving papers then taking them back would be an irreversible loss of frame with a woman. You put a gun to her head, pulled the trigger, but then jumped in front of your own bullet. Serving papers should mean the end. "Getting ready" for divorce can be scaled back without the attendant loss of frame. It's loading the gun in front of her. But if he's going down this road, he needs to be 100% ready to pu…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/16 02:01 PM
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What you did regarding the farewell was better than what you think you should have done. Read your own post, and answer this: which approach reeks more of validation seeking and beta supplication? When mine acts like this, I act as though nothing is out of the ordinary (because her shitty attitude is a fucking joke, so no need to take it seriously), give her the mouth peck, say "love ya!" with a grin on my face, and let her hamster the details. Never mention the encounter again. If she "wants to…
/r/askMRP15/08/16 03:04 AM
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No questions, just a thanks for posting this. You improved yourself, gave her a shot, spelled it out explicitly when she failed to follow, then had the balls to pull the plug. Your introspection in your comment to another thread was inspiring. You said: Don't be hurt over what could have been, because it would have never been. Realizing this was the most important piece to your puzzle. Others should be reminded that this place doesn't fix marriages, it fixes men. Congratulations.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/16 03:48 AM
1

My experiences couldn't be more different. Color me shocked
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 03:24 AM
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They want the best of both worlds. If they think they have the best they can get, they are unlikely to stray (unless they are total sluts). If they marry a beta, or an AF/BB that falls to far beta, she'll start seeking more alpha elsewhere (attempt to branch swing), or if she doesn't want to lose her beta bux (older women), she'll get her Chad dick on the side. Today's younger women are different than in the past. With the societal influence of putting off a family, they are free to spend their …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 08:15 PM
1

Acing a shit test should be tingle generating. Keep them fun and flirty, not bitchy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 12:07 PM
1

Are you trans? Having gender identity issues? It's men that want to spread their seed far and wide. Women want to fuck, then have kids with, an awesome man. The best AF/BB combo she can attract is each woman's "holy grail". If she has it, she's not going to jeopardize it lightly. TRP points out the disconnect in modern society, where the problem for women is that AF and BB rarely align in the "perfect" combination at the "right" time. Thus, young girls slut it up with AFs, hit the wall and say "…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 04:48 AM
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Does blowing your load on a feminist's face count as thanks? Cuz if so, I've already given.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 04:31 AM
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You made it to easy by saying "if she thinks she can do better". If that's her attitude, I'd laugh and say "good luck"! Because she can't do better. Would be a little sad and nostalgic. I'd probably think about that from time to time when I'm not busy fucking women 10 years younger than her. Would miss seeing my daughter everyday, but that'd be out of my hands, and I'd make the best of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 04:18 AM
1

I thought troll too, but I went through a bit of his history... He might just be that much of a retard.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/16 04:09 AM
3

Oh come on. Are you the same person you were ten years ago? If not, I guess you're a phony. "Hey everyone, look over here - he's a phony. A great big phony."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 03:47 AM
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All women will shit test their men. It's what they do. If you're married or in an LTR, they are actually a good thing - a woman who no longer shit tests her man has checked out for good. But debating this guy is pointless. As you can see, he's one of those "but this advice is everywhere" and "no woman has ever treated me like anything less that Don Juan" bullshitters.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 03:45 AM
4

Forget the tired makeup argument for a second. Do you mean to tell me it is some sort of accident when you are interacting with a man (or woman if that's your thing), and you start talking and acting in a seductive manner in order to convey your sexual interest in the hopes of actually having sex with that person? Are you not consciously trying to fuck (or be fucked by) them by adjusting your behavior/demeanor accordingly? Call it Whatever label you want, but at a base level it's manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 03:37 AM
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Hate to say it, but she's right. Extreme speech is tacitly encouraged by the powers that be for shock value and attention. That said, it doesn't mean the strategy is wrong - far from it. It's effective, and at the end of the day, that's the point of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 03:31 AM
3

Just be yourself is meaningless advice for two main reasons: because yourself is fluid, and your sexual worth is not determined by your own self-evaluation, but by the evaluation of others (upon whom you depend for sex as a result of their attraction to you). There can be no introspection in light of such a vacuous statement. As to your second point, there are some guys preoccupied with Chad and the drive to become Chad. What those guys don't get is that Chad doesn't exist. Chad is not a person …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/16 03:18 AM
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Agree with this.
/r/askMRP12/08/16 06:06 PM
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Swallowed the pill 5 years ago I hate being told what to do. I hate when people tell me my business when I already know, or when someone has a pointless criticism that achieves nothing. As you can imagine, my wife does this and it is a sore spot Five years into the red pill and shit tests still hurt your feelings. In five (purported) years, you have done nothing, you have learned nothing, and you have internalized nothing. What response do you expect? Here. Have a Pamprin for that sore spot vagi…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 04:46 PM
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Epic Frame ... Faggot
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 04:37 PM
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Keep going. Remember, you are not fixing your marriage - you are fixing you. Wives need lead time to follow a newly-minted captain's example. If she keeps going and you decide she adds more value to your life than not, keep her if you want. If you decide otherwise, the get your ducks in a row and jet. If she doesn't improve at all, you know what you need to do. How's your OI and abundance mentality? Are you gaming and number closing strange bitches? You should be.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 02:29 PM
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Stop it right now. His mommy is being mean to him! Can't you see that OP this faggot just needs a hug?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 01:34 PM
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what are your thoughts? That you are a pussy and haven't learned a fucking thing. You dont talk to a girl you nexted unless it's logistics for sex - and only sex, and only if you even want her as a plate. You don't develop ONEitis, which you still have for this bitch.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 03:09 AM
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The lies piss me off, but perhaps they shouldn't. From a Machiavellian perspective, they've eliminated much of the competition for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 03:44 PM
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Disagree. FPH was not a solution - it was unproductive bullying. And being a bunch of shits in general didn't get them banned - they got banned when they doxxed and harassed an Imgur employee. Any sub should get banned for that sort of behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 03:35 PM
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go cuck yourself Way ahead of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 03:31 PM
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But see what you did there? You assumed more behind the platitude and have the correct way of looking at it. Not everyone will, and I posit that the common way this platitude is construed is to mean "you should love yourself, because each one of us is a special person, perfect in our own way". Therein lies the problem, and why the saying "love yourself" is meaningless and empty by itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 03:07 PM
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how was your confidence and attitude back then? Not about your body, or career, but towards your ability to be successful with women? Whether you buy all of TRP or not, AWALT is 100% true in the sense that women can smell desperation, lack of confidence, and self-loathing in a man like a cologne. It's uncanny. So even if you had your shit on lock in other areas, if you didn't feel confident with women (always assume the deal will be sealed) it will blow you out of the water every.single.time. Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 02:47 PM
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it can be a downward spiral, but for that to happen one must let it become a downward spiral. It stops the minute one takes real action to change. Today, our society coddles the ego. Sometimes, a person needs to be called out, because their ego won't let them call out themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 02:39 PM
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but if they are that miserable, they really shouldn't love themselves, because they are making themselves miserable. I can't stand people who make me miserable, so I don't waste time with them. If it's me creating the misery, then I need to kick that guy's ass and make him someone who is actually happy, not tell myself some meaningless fairy tale. A bit Meta here, but a lot of the difference between blues and reds (and by extension the far left vs. the right and most of the middle) and the big p…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 02:04 PM
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To say "I am the prize" you must objectively be a fucking prize. That's where the platitude fails. It essentially says you should love yourself just for existing, and further, that others will pick up on your self-love, and love you too. That's a lie, unless you are objectively high-value in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 01:20 PM
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this is no different than your "just be yourself" platitude that you wheeled out here a few weeks ago. "Learn to love yourself" is meaningless and empty. You can love yourself all you want. If you're Chad, you're going to get pussy. If you're an obese slob with no direction in life, you will be alone. useless, blue-pulled feel-good propaganda like this caused the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 01:11 PM
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And now you're validation seeking. See Stoney's advice above.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 06:50 PM
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she keeps buying games for "us" to play. Yea...no. I'm a former gamer myself and get your aversion, but depending on the game, you could use it to game her. Ever play Strip Wii Bowling? I suggest you do.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 02:59 PM
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Dread does not seem to work as well with motivating a fat bitch to get off her ass and work out. Won't disagree, but this seems to be more specific to the individual woman, as opposed to the other results of dread which should be universally apparent. It's funny. We say "watch what they do, not what they say", and that's 100% correct when it comes to her dealings with you. But keep your ears open, because they will tell the truth to others (and to you about other people's relationships). My wife…
/r/askMRP08/08/16 09:02 PM
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Everything we say is wrong. If the TRP sidebar said the Earth was round, you'd say it was flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 12:23 AM
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You deal with an awful lot of absolutes. Affairs are never about sex? I don't expect you to understand the man's perspective, but yeah, they always almost are from a guy's standpoint. Either wife isn't putting out, or as you say the thrill of "new pussy". For women, sure, affairs are much different. Besides, married sex is not always a joke. It wasn't for the first 8 of my twelve years, and sure hasn't been for the last nine months since swallowing the red pill. Have you considered the fact that…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 06:39 PM
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Your argument is illogical. Married guys generally don't want to get caught. They do not get clingy for that reason. These other women are an outlet for sex. Nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 01:16 PM
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Better advice would be to ignore the haters (which is all TBP is).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 03:57 AM
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can you spot the logical fallacies in your position? If not, you need to educate yourself more. It's not my job to mansplain it to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 03:52 AM
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This. 1000 times this. SIL and her fam visited recently. They are fat irresponsible folks. Got so triggered by how great I looked and how much weight my wife lost, that SIL actually told wife not to talk about the gym and how we did it because it made them feel bad. They are also palpably jealous as fuck of our marriage and our kid (better behaved and better at a lot of shit than their, who is 2 years older). MIL actually saw the jealousy and commented to wife. Worked out great though. Wife fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 03:49 AM
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Fit isn't good enough. Lift. Be jacked. Become "hawt".
/r/askMRP06/08/16 06:13 PM
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I have a 3 year old girl. She loves her mommy. She fucking idolizes me. Know why? Because even in my fat blue pill days I was present. I spent time with her, and not just sitting in the same room on my phone. I hung out with her, did fun things with her, and was happy as hell to see her even when watching her fumble with DUPLO blocks for an hour or so bored me to tears. Nine months into MRP and lifting has only made it better. Amused Mastery and Command Presence make discipline a piece of cake. …
/r/askMRP06/08/16 04:21 AM
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It just seems sort of beta is completely fucking pathetic to always be the person starting a conversation and having to go to her to spend any time together. Fixed that for you. If you were a man worth a woman's time, you wouldn't be grovelling to her like a hungry dog needing a meal. She'd come to you. What's that tell you? Like I said above - read, lift, read, lift, and read some more while you otherwise keep things status quo for a few months. Internalize the material, and develop introspecti…
/r/askMRP06/08/16 03:57 AM
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You have to unplug and understand reality before any changes we can offer you here will be meaningful. Go to r/marriedredpill and read the sidebar material. While you wait for the books, read The Rational Male - best of year 1 (link in sidebar). You'll start to see the why. As in, frankly, it's almost worse that your wife is pleasant but disinterested, as opposed to a raging bitch. A woman will not act like a raging bitch to her husband unless she cared. A woman who is bored and disinterested...…
/r/askMRP06/08/16 03:51 AM
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I get, from an LTR perspective, his unmarried status might be a red flag depending on the explanation. But, if as you say, he had it all going on with good personality and solid game, under the right circumstances, would the unmarried thing actually prevent you from fucking him (of you were single, blah blah)?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 01:20 PM
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The trick, as you imply, is not to look like a typical 40 year old. Body, grooming, dress, all just as critical (if not more so then). As to why you're not married already. That's interesting. I don't think that would matter nearly as much to women, as an unmarried 40 year old woman would mean to a guy (even regular ppl with no pill knowledge). Agree or disagree? Edit: good "reasons"? I've never met the "right" woman; focused on career but now ready for family/settle down, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 12:48 PM
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Money has nothing to do with it. It's fame and looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 11:48 AM
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True, need game too, and they would only be ONS or FWB potential, but to say there'd be no interest? Untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 11:47 AM
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I'll be honest - it's not just the wedding ring, it's the attitude with a real ring for the win. Preselection PLUS an attitude of total outcome independence (guy isn't thirsty and desperate because he's getting pussy, it only becomes a question of whose pussy it will be). Of course, you have to be attractive at a minimum. Edit: it also checks off a lot of logic boxes for women. Examples: Married guy less likely to be pshycho murderer Married guy probably safer from an STD standpoint Married guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/16 11:40 AM
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4 days ago. Don't want to link to it, but thread starts as Jesus Fucking Christ, woman spends her last days with a redpiller. I go in and call them a bunch of Shitbags, then OP does an edit and the tone of future comments is all soft and nice. Then I trigger some 42 year old bitch with c-ptsd (purportedly) and rake her through the coals. Bunch of nasty, hate filled little liars over there.
/r/askMRP05/08/16 02:11 AM
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Legal definition? Not rape Rape Probably could get a rape conviction, but not a lock Not rape. She didn't say no, and knew what was happening. Different than unconscious. Recipe for a rape trial that'll ruin the guys life though. Not Rape. Probably not rape; possibly sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 09:03 PM
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When she says she doesn't want to do that with you, add "right now". With these words, Brodin gives us hope. Do not forget another holy word - Next.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/16 07:34 PM
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When she says she doesn't want to do that with you, add "right now". And when she says she will always treat you like she did when she was swallowing your cum, remember, she means "right now" Wheymen.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/16 07:29 PM
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This is a good point. TRP is right that texting plates is generally not a good idea, but if you got mad text game you can do quite well. Former colleague pulls crazy amounts of tail, almost all through text game (he's stuck with that because married). Course, he's attractive as hell, so these bitches are mostly very responsive.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/16 12:43 PM
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Lots of guys like the ketogains sub for dropping fat while packing on muscle.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 10:03 PM
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That's why the focus is constant improvement. Women live by their feelings in the now. The burden of performance is on the man. Always has been. So suck it up buttercup, and become the grand prize - every day
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 07:25 PM
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still searching for that non-solipsistic woman. Let me know when you find a unicorn that turns into Jessica Alba in your bedroom. Till then, the best you can do is find on who is mostly non-solipsistic outside her dealings with men. Good, smart, feminine women exist, they just aren't easy to find. When you do find one, let's hope you are high value enough to inspire her hindbrain to want to copiously mate with you. Happy hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 06:52 PM
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They'd have his stats for review by the women looking for sperm. Doubtful any would actually choose it.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 06:26 PM
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Not money. Fame. Being THE MAN. Bruno could blow every cent he has, wind up $20 million in debt, and go on tour solely to pay back that debt. Guess what? Bitches won't care, because Famous.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 06:24 PM
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They went after the guy whose wife just died. Went over and gave them what for. That place may finally be decaying from their own filth.
/r/askMRP02/08/16 05:43 PM
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She's not really blaming you. She lost her wallet = feels deep anxiety = feels helpless = feels upset = shit tests you, because feels. Be the captain and lead to a solution. Easy. If I took notes every time this happened, I could fill a library. Yesterday wife walked into the corner of her desk at work. Last night she said she "blamed" me. We don't work together.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/16 04:12 PM
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No, you're right. The happily polyamourous are the outliers. She won't admit it verbally, but my wife loves that I am the most attractive man (physically, career, attitude) compared to her sister's and friends' husbands, and by quite a mile at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 02:53 PM
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Women want a guy that could fuck other women, not one who does. Think hypergamy. Optomizing that means a woman seeks the best combo of AF/BB she can attract, then lock that shit down for providing for her and offspring. A harem means the male's provision would have to be shared with other women and his kids with other women. No bueno. Edit: there are many benefits to monogamy from both perspectives. Personally, I like being reasonably certain that I can bareback my wife and not worry about getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 02:24 PM
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Cannot stress joining a fraternity enough. Changed my life for ever.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 11:36 PM
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No sex while drinking? Do you grow up in a fucking cave?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 01:57 PM
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get their number for another day ROTFLMAO. Sure, if you like calling girls and having them flake. Good advice on not fooling around with them if their shitfaced - don't need false rape charges.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 01:55 PM
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You believe studies are "scientific" even if they have no observable, measurable results, so I'm not surprised you believe in a mythical betafucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 12:33 PM
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You post here all the time, but it is clear you have no comprehension whatsoever about the red pill. Literally none. plenty of women will pair off with betas. This is how you get deadbedroom marriages and wifey fucking Chads on the side. Your cited article reinforces shitty blue pill conditioning - that beta pussies make "great" husbands because they have to work so much harder for their hot wife to keep her around. "Men should be taking notes" - I agree with you on this, they should be taking n…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 12:15 PM
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Don't be obtuse. The effort was to see if there was an increase in desire. There is no way to quantify whether Cause A resulted in an increase or more of an increase than other causes or "background noise" without objective, measurable metrics. Point - the methodology of this experiment is so flawed from the outset that it is ludicrous to use it in an effort to prove BP ideas/ disprove RP ideas, or, frankly, to prove anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/16 12:36 AM
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The sexual desire was self-rated, and the researchers didn't actually measure how often the couples had sex. In other words, no objective proof as to whether this increased sexual frequency at all. Not even an attempt at objective proof. Analogy: drug company gives new experimental blood pressure medication to study participants. At the end of the study, doctors asked patients if they felt like the medication lowered their blood pressure. 90% of patients said yes. No blood pressure measurements …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 09:47 PM
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It literally is a lie of sorts. They tell their beta provider prey this shit when he cries about how she doesn't fuck him like she fucked those other guys. "But our emotional connection is so much better" she says, and the chump accepts it. Of course, truth is, it was just about the sex with those Alphas in the past. But can't let Beta Bob know that she doesn't desire him like that.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 12:30 PM
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The SMV and/or RMV of the friend often leaves something to be desired. Source: literally every friend that my wife or her friends have set up or tried to set up is a hambeast or psychologically undateable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 11:18 AM
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Didn't say the concern was invalid (it's a reason I haven't tried banging certain women in the past I was confident that I could), just that it does exist
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 11:07 AM
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Not necessarily slut-shamed, but there is a stigma. My buddy Chad in college fucked tons of girls, several of whom were noted for their promiscuity, but ultimately earned the designation of being "dirty", like a girl would say "he's hot but I'm worried I'd catch something if I slept with him".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 02:48 AM
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they even hook you up with their friends. Because you weren't good enough for them, else they'd be fucking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 02:42 AM
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Men are the romantics. You loved your wife, no shame in that, and no shame in grieving for the loss. You have even more shit to handle now, since you are on your own. Want validation? Raise your boy to be a real man. Be the man in his life, and see your reflection in him. As far as second guessing yourself? That's to be expected with such a traumatic event. At some point, you'll have to let it go with the understanding that you were improving, doing your best, she saw you were doing your best, a…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/16 02:19 AM
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Even simpler - Abuse: anything a man does, or omits doing, which displeases a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/16 12:57 AM
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You are conflating sexual preference with fetishization. Look, we all have the capacity to like new things, but the preference for who you are viscerally attracted to doesn't change. A 100% Herero woman may fantasize about having 3 dicks in her at the same time, Jill off to that kind of porn every night, but have no interest (or an aversion) to any woman with a dildo being one of the "dicks". SAHDs are an archetype of a feminized man, and women aren't generally naturally desirous of feminized me…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 09:59 PM
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I'm thinking of doing a post about how the term "abuse" is wildly overused and has almost no real definition anymore. Calling a woman a name is now "emotional abuse"? People need to grow the fuck up and stop being such babies....always crying for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 09:48 PM
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Good point. There's been an uptick in faggotry around here lately with guys being too damn timid to escalate with their wives. Central to RP - assume the sale (fuck). Don't say "no"for her.
/r/askMRP28/07/16 08:36 PM
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I don't understand this mentality of "unlearning things than seem to be an innate part of who we are as people, collectively, by group, or by individual." To me, you think that women just need to teach themselves how to desire stay-at-home dads, in the same way certain psychologists tried conversion therapy on gay people. Seems to me that gay men are sexually attracted to certain other men, because thats just the way they are, and no amount of re-education will "cure" them of that drive, just li…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 08:00 PM
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Does being able to handle risks resonate alpha mode? You will have HB10s literally putting themselves on a wait list for your cock if you approach one at the club and tell them the nitty-gritty of your stock picking decisions. Just like if you told them how awesome your new source code you invented is, or how badass of a retaining wall your are designing with your engineering firm.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 06:25 PM
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The problem is that today's media, social media, universities, etc are all broadcasting a message that says "All women are constantly subjected to sexual harassment/assault by men nearly all the time every day", when that simply isn't true, while at the same time never saying one damn thing about what happens to men. The narrative is false and incredibly biased, with unattractive men taking the biggest hit as a group. it's a shitty time to be a 18-22 year old male. Edit: if you don't believe it,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 03:47 PM
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Corollary - he's got to fucking stop with this confronting her and giving her the terms, etc. he has no frame, OI, abundance mentality, or anything. Forcing confrontation while enraged, leading to fighting, this is how beta men snap and do the unthinkable. OP - listen to the others here and ignore wife. Focus on you and only you. If you become enraged, get your ass to the gym and lift the fuck out of something until you are too exhausted to be enraged.
/r/askMRP27/07/16 12:52 AM
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Agree. I'm guessing he's trying too hard and coming across as desperate. Desperation is the ultimate pussy repellant.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 01:06 AM
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Ha, game magic I had with said random cashier. For the life of me, I will never understand cat-calling or wolf-whistling. Simply from an efficacy standpoint, who in the hell actually thinks that it would work? Thanks for the heads up about the groping of teen girls. I'll add that to the list of fucked up shit I'll need to warn my daughter about when she gets a bit older.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 08:47 PM
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I was an introvert in HS. Shy, polite, one of the "smart kids". Not bullied, generally well liked and respected by all, but couldn't get laid/ get a gf if my life depended on it. Managed to go out with this girl from a neighboring town my last summer before college and lost the V card. When I got to college, I was determined to reinvent myself. I became as social as possible, tried to dress better, etc. critical for me was joining a "good" fraternity. Get in a good frat and be cool (not a sex th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 08:00 PM
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You can get dates by hitting on strange women in public if she finds you attractive and have game. I asked out a random cashier at a store during college and we saw each other casually for a few months. It's not the only way to meet love interests, nor is it the most effective on a "per attempt" basis, but it can work. I'm also calling bullshit on this "men hitting on you in public leads to stallings and physical assault". Pretty sure the statistics are clear that women are sexually assaulted fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 07:01 PM
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How do you know these men "thought you should be grateful"? You are not a mind reader. You are projecting in an effort to try (unsuccessfully) to prove your point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 04:10 PM
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Couldn't win the argument so you changed the subject. We were not talking about being stalked, threatened or cornered - we were talking about men talking to you and hitting on you in public. It looks like you are, in fact, more interested in winning the outrage Olympics than in having a real discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 03:54 PM
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Try having gay friends and clients. I am always complimented on something, told I look handsome, sometimes more. I have zero interest in men or their their advances, but you know what I do? I smile and say thank you. I don't seethe with resentment at these guys' audacity to pay me a harmless compliment. Get over yourselves. Stop trying so hard to get outraged
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 03:18 PM
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It's a shitty comfort test. Search to find older posts that discuss them and how to handle them
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/16 01:35 PM
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Perhaps I'm a retard, but I'd say what you're doing is working. The transformation does not happen overnight, and you can read post after post here by noobs who go to far, too fast, and too far inside their own head that the only thing they accomplish is making a giant fucking mess (see u/Alpha_as_wolf). Look at what has transpired in only six months: 1. Sex frequency increased threefold 2. Wife is actually initiating 3. Wife expressed remorse when she turns in a shitty bedroom performance. 4. W…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/16 02:15 AM
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9 days ago you said wife is no longer attracted to me. Has explicitly said she'd probably be okay never having sex again. Now today it's wife says she is still attracted to me, but simply never wants to have sex anymore. A noob might be tempted to as you "well, which is it? Is she attracted or not?" But I'm not going to ask. If you bothered reading the sidebar, you'd know the goddamn answer. Since this is your second post here, I'll go a bit easy on you. Read the rational male - first year posts…
/r/askMRP24/07/16 01:53 AM
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TBP is a far left feminist SJW propaganda sub. Stop with the lie that it is anything but - literally no one is buying it, so drop the act. It's getting old. TBP is coming up on tumblrinaction and cringeanarchy nowadays because that stupid satire veneer isn't fooling anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 03:06 PM
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Your first sentence has nothing to do with the second. Sure anyone of any persuasion can make fun of a subreddit. That says nothing about the makeup of TBP.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 03:01 PM
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TBP shouldn't be taken seriously because it's not an actual satire sub, and your comment about the top stickies post is spot on. Is a far left radfem sub with copious white knights who fall back on their "this is a satire sub" bullshit whenever anyone calls them out. The satire bullshit is the worst kept secret in the reddit pilliverse But it's not surprising. The TBP denizens are incapable of engaging in a rational discussion (I'll at least give the bloops here credit for their ability to do so…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 03:24 AM
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I'm not a family lawyer, but from a basic legal perspective it may be best for OP to get his wife diagnosed with all her shit (mental health, substance abuse) now, because he loves her and is worried about his daughter of course, before doing anything to try and fix or nuke the marriage. That way, when he does divorce her, he goes in to the custody battle as the sane, normal one. On the other side, wifey has certified mental and addiction disorders. This ought to carry a fuckton more weight in a…
/r/askMRP22/07/16 02:13 AM
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we aren't animals Thank you for proving what I have been saying for ages. This, right here, is the root problem of you far leftists and bloops. You honestly believe humans are better than what they are, which are highly intelligent animals. This you hate the notion that humans are given to violence, aggression, selfishness, sexual needs, distrust/disdain toward strangers and other tribes. instead of trying to work within that framework to promote a better life for all, you act as though these th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 02:41 PM
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Thank you. The "get in shape" advice from all these places isn't helpful either. Being in shape and healthy is great, but that by itself isn't going to get women to notice you, it'll just get them to not notice you negatively for being a giant Fatass. What red pill does, among other things, is make it abundantly clear that you need to be as "hot" as possible. Being hot means having low body fat and good muscle definition. That makes a man stand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 02:31 PM
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I never got the sense that TRP was nofap. Or really no porn, for that matter. It's more of a "don't substitute porn or fapping for getting laid, which is what you're really trying to do". Porn/fapping is a quick fix, not the solution. Use it as such. What TRP seems to rail against is the cuckold/fetish type porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 02:28 PM
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Just like drugs or alcohol, people can get addicted to anything that rewards the brains pleasure receptors. Porn is becoming a bigger problem than before because there's just so damn much of it, of all types, available for free 24/7 on your computer or phone. Back in the day you had rent porno movies or go to a "dirty book store" to buy a video. Greater availability and no cost = easier to become hooked. Why do you think meth and heroin are becoming today's major drug addiction problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 01:19 PM
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There are posts all over the place on the sex and other such subs about the death grip problem and the porn abuse issue. There are guys that watch and beat off to so much porn that they can't even get hard for a real life naked woman who is blowing them. There's a post a day on the sex sub about this it seems. And the kicker? These guys are all in their 20's. Think about it. Your hand feels much different than a girl's mouth, pussy or ass. If you've only conditioned yourself to respond to the dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 12:54 PM
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Then get out there and start lining some up, instead of wasting time on a debate sub, ffs. The point about no porn is because porn is unrealistic, and starts making guys fantasize about crazier and even more unrealistic shit, and most importantly wastes time and energy that should be spent improving you so you actually get laid. Plus the "death grip" problem. If you don't have any ladies to help you out, then fap once every 3 days if you have to. Just don't use porn to self-medicate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 02:52 AM
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How the fuck many times do we have to say the following on here before noobs get it: If you haven't improved yourself through dread levels 1-5 so that you are now "hawt", active dread will never work. Flirting with women (and being overtly desperate to do so like OP) does not, and will never, inspire dread. What does inspire dread? Other women flirting with you! Game other women a bit, but if they aren't responding, you are generating no tingles in the Mrs. And look pathetic. Here, your wife thr…
/r/askMRP20/07/16 12:57 PM
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Maybe I'm wrong, but I don't think there's any such thing as a conditional hard no. Those are shit tests/compliance tests. Just keep smashing through them. If she acts like a cunt, be OI and DGAF. It'll frustrate her, shit tests may get more intense, but be the oak. Demonstrate that you wil not be phased by this crap. She'll get the message eventually. Succeed often enough and the shit/comfort test conditional crap should go away No sex until you buy her jewelry? This is a fun one - come home on…
/r/askMRP20/07/16 12:49 PM
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I posted a comment, was shocked that it got no replies, downvotes , mod messages, etc., so I had a friend check and they couldn't see my comment at all. Looks like I got shadowbanned...
/r/askMRP20/07/16 02:58 AM
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me taking ownership and responsibility for one of her most important female attributes 1000% this. Normally, my wife keeps herself trimmed, but if she's going bald, I'm the one shaving her pussy. Has led to porn star quality sex immediately afterward every single time. You hit on a really great point I hadn't though about in this light before - but it makes sense. Her submitting to you is not just about letting you ravage her body, but sometimes about putting all trust and control over her own f…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 02:48 AM
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Similar to putting your arm around her, holding hands, and spinning her in public - give her a light, well-timed smack on the ass in front of others. All these things send huge signals to others, especially other women. They will say shit to your wife like "wow, you guys look happy, etc," that'll make her glow, especially if the other women are jealous. She'll be fucking you senseless later on.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 02:41 AM
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Can confirm what Stoney said. I'm banned from the fitness sub, twice suspended from the sex sub (with ban threat), and shadowbanned from DB. The SJWs are everywhere, and they'll silence anything that doesn't fit their agenda. A good way way to Red Knight is to PM the OPs. The DB sub pisses me off in particular. Those people are at rock bottom, but instead of engaging in Introspection and fixing themselves, they sit around wallowing in self-pity and ban anyone who offers a real solution (like us)…
/r/askMRP20/07/16 01:06 AM
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Good catch. The whole "male coworker came over to drink and she cheats on the guy basically right in front of him" thing is absurd. #thathappened.
/r/askMRP19/07/16 01:05 PM
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this whole thing is like comparing apples to oranges, no? (Or figs to bananas?). I mean, it doesn't seem rational to try and compare whether men age better than women by comparing how easy it would be for a 40 year old man vs a 40 year old woman to get laid. It is almost always easier for a woman, any woman, of almost any age under 50 who is non-hideous, to get laid than even the most attractive man on the planet, at any age. She just needs to go online and with a little effort could have a dick…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/16 06:00 PM
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This is my account. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 09:10 PM
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The problem with Bloops is that they refuse to believe that there is constant, often unintentional, manipulation in damn near every single human interaction. Because RP talks about employing tactics that could be considered manipulative unabashedly, we look like assholes to them. Really, we're just saying "Grow up. The truth is manipulate or be manipulated. Be a sucker if you want, but if you want the best chance of having your needs met, here's what you do." They refuse to believe the constant …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 03:05 PM
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"just be yourself" is an empty, meaningless platitude. If "yourself" is objectively awesome, than continue being yourself. If "yourself" is a fat, miserable piece of shit, being yourself is abysmal advice. Saying "just be yourself" to a kind-hearted, intelligent introvert who dresses poorly and has a terrible body with geeky hobbies and poor social skills will not help him get laid or find a gf - and since you KNOW that won't help him, you are not being a good friend by giving that advice. You a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 02:23 AM
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Don't buy a few things to bring home and "get started". It'll be that proverbial fucking treadmill everyone owns but never uses. Join the damn gym with proper equipment (read: must have at least more than one squat rack), take a lesson or 2 to learn proper form, and make going to the gym part of your routine. It is just another thing you do, like going to work and eating dinner. Also, a home gym removes a great dread "get up and leave the house when wifey is being a cunt" option. Don't cut off y…
/r/askMRP10/07/16 03:32 AM
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Her mental health is not your problem. Your fucked up life is. Tell her to get help - and ignore her forever. As for being with her for years, look up "sunk cost fallacy". Next her. She's killing you, and she doesn't fucking care. And never will
/r/askTRP07/07/16 03:00 AM
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As Pem says, just don't act butthurt. She'll ascribe butthurtedness onto your behavior, but her emotional response is irrelevant. Can't give a fuck about her reaction. She'll get the hint
/r/askMRP01/07/16 03:40 PM
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Looking forward to some good replies myself. As for the looking butthurt thing? Check out this post by u/[deleted] here
/r/askMRP01/07/16 02:41 PM
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The on again off again screams "fall back guy" to me
/r/askTRP01/07/16 02:53 AM
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NEXT her. She's toxic. You already know this. Focus on studying for the bar. Stay organized and get it done. It blows, I've been there, but it's only a couple months if you pass it the first time. Use only the meds you need for the job. Do not use it to improve your recreation. Your sole job is to study and pass the fucking thing. The second you finish the test, get your shit together on the drugs. Illegal/non-prescription shit is over, forever, for you. Get busted for that and your state's ethi…
/r/askTRP01/07/16 02:45 AM
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Tough to tell because we don't know how old they are (is cousin in party years, epiphany stage, post-wall?). Also, we know nothing about either of them. Is she a slut? Is he a beta? Again, not enough info. Bottom line for you is give advice where you can but realize you can only control you, not others. She got into this, now she's going to have to lie in the bed she made. (My guess though? She married him for the betabux farm, dream wedding, etc., but never really had the tingles for him. She's…
/r/askTRP01/07/16 02:35 AM
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The "options" you mention are retarded - SHE'S FUCKING ANOTHER GUY BEHIND YOUR BACK. Your question should be: do I divorce this bitch now, or pretend like everything is fine while I get a lawyer, line everything up, then file for divorce? The answer is the latter, btw. As for you? Read the MRP main sidebar, books, the top posts, and start lifting now. Wanna know why she cheated in only 30 days from the start of a new job? Because she is not attracted to you anymore. It's that simple. Quite frank…
/r/askMRP29/06/16 11:23 PM
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Exactly this. I think the problem with the BPers, SJWs, leftists, etc. is that they hate human nature and hate themselves for being human. Face it - we are animals. We are driven by the need to secure food, water and shelter. Sex pervades our psyche. We are prone to terrible violence. We are selfish, greedy, exploitative, and distrustful of our fellow man and especially other tribes. Their "wishful thinking" dreamland socialist utopia doesn't work with humans, and they've realized that. instead …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/16 08:39 PM
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Length: 8 months Dread Level: 6 Marriage: 12 years, together 17, going better than ever, even with a toddler in the mix Sex life: much much better. Never get hard no's, and soft no's are getting rare. Getting laid 4-5 times a week, with maybe 1-2 starfish/caveman sessions and the rest of good to outstanding quality. Anal about once a month. Need to eliminate the starfishing, but SMV not quite there yet. How am I? Better than I've been in years. Been lifting religiously 5 days a week. Have been o…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/16 02:22 PM
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She believes 100% that she FEELZ that way at that moment - but she doesn't actually believe the truth of the statement itself. If she bothered thinking logically, which she doesn't, she'd have no choice but to agree that the statements are untrue. That's why I love the pressure flip, and I don't think it gets recommended enough on here. It forces her to confront the abject absurdity of her statement without actually engaging. YMMV, but I've found that pressure flipping these superlative shit tes…
/r/askMRP28/06/16 02:00 PM
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She doesn't believe these statements. They are shit tests, plain and simple. She's expressing her emotional state by making absurd statements designed to elicit a reaction from you. If you address them directly in any fashion, you lose. The tried and true techniques like A&A, pressure flip, etc are perfect for this type of bullshit. Can't use ignore all the time or you'll come off as withdrawn and possible socially inept. Tl;dr - She's being silly. Be silly too.
/r/askMRP28/06/16 02:04 AM
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"Hmmm. A counter offer. That's what we lawyers - I'm a lawyer - call a counter offer. Hmmm. Let's see, getting my ass kicked or collecting $200. I could use a good ass kicking right now, I'll be very honest with you." My Cousin Vinny
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/16 11:39 PM
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Fitness has a different one every day, which might be a bit much, but it can be done. You could have like "Faggot Fridays", where guys can confess to a quick recent bout of faggotry on their part or the part of a relative, and receive the appropriate beating. An off-topic one might be fun too.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/16 04:36 PM
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Amused mastery is unbelievably effective on small children. I have only had to raise my voice to my toddler 1 or 2 times since I started using it. Kid misbehaving? Just stand over them, look them in the eyes with a smile on your face and stand there otherwise stoic, and they'll cut it out. I often don't even have to use words - she knows she's being bad or silly, and she knows I don't approve.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/16 02:19 PM
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Been said a million times here - if you can't handle shit from a bunch of randoms on the Internet, how the fuck do you expect to handle women? Introspection and change are impossible if you don't kill the ego defending and justifying your previously shitty existence.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 03:32 PM
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Doing only two days a week is critical though. Go to the fitness sub and you can read study after study about the deleterious effects of alcohol on hormone production, muscle building, fat loss, etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 03:00 PM
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Good post. I used an online calculator to figure out TDEE and macros for bulk v. Cut, and do the IIFYM method. I find it works because it doesn't restrict the type of things you can eat - everything is on the menu as long as you hit macros and don't bust your calorie budget. I've been on a cut for six weeks (to go for a total of 3 months max) and have lost about 18 lbs. I'm making sure I hit protein every day and am still lifting hard not to lose - have not regressed much at all in the gym. Here…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/16 02:52 PM
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It's a way for the elite to remain elite - convince the unwashed masses that it's OK to be a fat retard...but the elite's kids? They will not be fat. They will not be uneducated. No, they will be free to rise/stay at the top, and their competition is keeping themselves oppressed. We all have choices. I'd rather be among the elite - feel free to watch the world burn if that's your thing.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 10:37 PM
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This is all part of the race to the lowest common denominator (crabs in a bucket) mentality that is sweeping the west. The biggest sin we can commit according to "progressives" used to be making others feel bad - now it's doing anything that some maladjusted weak ass piece of shit can construe as offensive. Achievement is no longer to be celebrated - it is to be shamed because the weak losers might feel bad that they can't or won't achieve greatness. Don't buy this bullshit. Progressivism, like …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 09:23 PM
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Why she "gave in" is irrelevant. She decided, of her own volition, to strip to her skivvies and put her legs in the tub. It was her decision. Women have got to knock it off with this "but,but,but, he manipulated me" bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/16 02:10 PM
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You are a low value person.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 03:56 PM
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Go back to validating fat chicks and prostrating yourself before those man-hating feminazis on TwoX, you pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/16 03:49 PM
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read the comments on the TBP thread from ontheragnorok and cynzia and you'll get it. Typical knee-jerk take the woman's side even though, had they read that guys full post history (which was brought to their attention and discussed thoroughly on that thread), he is the sympathetic one despite his foolish, desperate mistake. At that point they continue sitting upon that guy, because penis. So transparent its laughable - even a few BPers realize it there Edit- spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 04:11 PM
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Here's one good example Look at the comment threads for johnny_lawless and his replies. Tl;dr - TBP regulars crap all over this deadbedrooms guy, who poorly imements some of Married Man Sex Life Primer in a last ditch desperate effort to save his marriage to a woman who has treated the guy like shit for years. Big surprise, TBP regulars treat the guy like an asshole and have no empathy for him, even after being called out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/16 03:45 PM
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she puts no effort into the relationship? Why would she? You were a pathetic beta orbiter who held onto a fat bitch for 10 years because you can't do any better. Why would she need to put any effort in? She's already got you doing everything for her. I want her to change her attitude. Tough shit. You can't change others. Only yourself. She either changes to reflect your improvements, or she doesn't. It's your call as to what to do. By your writing, it seems clear that you haven't unplugged, beca…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/16 05:37 PM
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I don't always agree with the brutality of the rhetoric on this sub The brutality is often necessary, especially for the noobs. Many come here with egos so big they can't possibly start learning how to unfuck themselves until the ego is killed. Bullshit and sugar-coating only placate the ego - that fucker needs to die.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 05:03 PM
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Pretty much agree. I was a decent looking guy in a good fraternity at that time, so I was a prize of sorts, though much more useful than the giant teddy bear (teddy bears don't get you and your friends into parties as VIPs, don't get you and friends hooked up with stuff, don't fuck your brains out and have you come begging for more in an hour). I think that's the key if you want to keep your marriage/ltr in a similar state - don't just be a big fat waste of space after she "wins" you. Be somethi…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 04:31 PM
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About a year ago when I was at the depths of betadom, I asked my wife why we didn't fuck like rabbits anymore like we did in college (where this conservative good girl literally could not keep her hands off me whenever and whereever we were alone), even in the opportunities we got now as adults. She started with the usual "but we're older now, we're both tired from work and kid" crap. I pressed the issue, and this nugget of dread affirming truth comes out: Her: well Rex, I guess I figured that i…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/16 02:23 PM
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You are spot on with prostitutes as ego junk food and a roadblock to improvement and success (however each of us defines success). The perfect example was that post from Rivereyes yesterday. That guy wasn't a weak suace fuck because he was using prostitues per se. The problem is that he was using prostitutes as a drug to keep him just pacified enough so that he never took action to fix himself and his life. Same as relying on booze/pills/porn/gaming. It can rarely lead to anything good. As far a…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 08:41 PM
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Bit of a tangent, but I'm with you as far as legalizing, regulating and taxing prostitution as well. Make it safer, eliminate underage workers and put a massive dent in the worldwide sex trafficking industry, turn it from tax revenue negative into revenue positive, and as a normal business the employees can get 401Ks, be legitimate taxable workers, all that shit. You would think that if the feminists really gave a shit about freeing women from slavery and exploitation, this would have happened w…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 02:15 PM
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Not true. My marriage is going great since I've implemented the red pill, yet I still post and comment regularly on MRP. For me, it's paying it forward. If I can help other men unfuck their lives (and perhaps with it their marriage), I'm more than happy to do so. Plus, even though I have a solid grasp of the concepts and their application, you can always learn new things or bounce ideas off the other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 01:02 PM
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Agree with this 100%.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 12:56 PM
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He's pretty legit. I actually checked his post history to see if he was a troll - account is 2 years old and his posts have been consistent. Started on the adultery sub, went to TRP (where, surprise surprise, he was called a whiny bitch by those commenters), and now he's here. Hopefully we knocked some sense into his shit mindset. Edit: he posted on adultery and TRP at the same time in the beginning. All else is accurate.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 11:52 PM
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"...your wife probably has almost zero interest in fucking you." Incorrect. Your wife has zero interest in fucking you because you are a worthless pussy. But go ahead and tell yourself that those call girls really really desire you. Your fragile fucking ego can't handle reality. EDIT: so I looked at your post history. Tl;dr - you are a serial cheater who was busted by your SO, have spent the last years grovelling to her while continuing to cheat on the side, all while projecting your anger for y…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 12:53 PM
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you DEERed in the main event, which is why it went so poorly (explained exactly what you were doing and why). There were better ways to handle it. Whenever my Mrs. gets like this, I pressure flip it. Could have said something like "a family member is incapacitated for life and we helped him out, isn't that what family does for each other? Would you be happy if our kid #1 helped our kid #2 if they were in that situation?" Make it so that the only responses she can give either agree with you or ma…
/r/askMRP01/06/16 12:43 PM
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Where is it legally considered rape to have sex with a woman who consented to the sex, but not the taping? The Unconsented taping would seem to be an entirely different crime than rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 09:27 PM
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My wife never went through the horny phase. Sex was infrequent, but it is what it is during pregnancy. Also, be prepared for your wife to be exhausted 24/7 during pregnancy. Be prepared to be exhausted yourself for the first few months after kid is born unless you're rich enough to afford a live-in nanny.
/r/askMRP29/05/16 01:47 PM
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Make sure to check out compliance tests too. For example, if wifey had given you a no, and then asked you to go make her tea (and you weren't going to do that for yourself anyway or as part of the usual morning routine), it would be a compliance test. You pass those by just not doing them, and deflect her with A&A and other techniques.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 02:19 PM
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"Double Fail?" Sort of. First, a soft no isn't a fail, especially since you got it the prior 2 mornings (if my assumption is correct). Jabbing her with your dick then getting up to do something else is fine. Failing to make her tea, and then being passive aggressive about it is where you fucked up. You'll get opposing views on this, but here's my take - if making both of you tea would have been the ordinary thing you did, then you should have just made her tea along with yours as normal. Why? Be…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/16 12:43 PM
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You need to read more here. At MRP, we make it abundantly clear that you have no control over others. You can only control you. Lift, read the sidebar here and on TRP, read the top posts, and start actualizing yourself. Create your vision and work your ass off every day making that vision your reality. The rest of the shit you mentioned is unnecessary distraction that's draining time (your most precious resource) and energy that should be spent improving you. Note, IMO, most women do not buy int…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 03:50 PM
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If I were you, I wouldn't spend much time on the feminists. Feminism is just a giant shit test - better off ignoring it and focusing on YOUR vision for YOU. WISNIFG and NMMNG are good resources for becoming an assertive person and have general application beyond just dealing with a wife. Read them. Also check out u/TheFamilyAlpha and his post and blog. Excellent stuff for owning your masculine vision for your life. As is often said here, MRP is red pill on hard mode, so you'll learn a lot here. …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 12:43 PM
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Here's a tool for dealing with feminists and their ilk, provided your frame is solid
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 12:22 PM
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sips sparkling water off OmLiLi's wife's tits I expected better from this particular Bloop. Profoundly disappointed.
/r/askMRP26/05/16 07:06 PM
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Agree, with the caveat that Kiyosaki's breakdown of an asset v. Liability is spot on and an important paradigm shift for 99% of people. The general theme of owning productive assets (ie, poor people work for money, wealthy have money work for them) is also rock solid. You're right about the rest though - I read that most of the book is made up (including rich dad)
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 01:38 PM
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So instead of lifting and reading the sidebar, you want to live vicariously through a fictional alpha man.... You're going to make the perfect cuck....
/r/askTRP26/05/16 12:59 PM
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I'm in a similar boat. My BIL is with a single mom of 3. Marriage is probably happening. I try to lace the truth in there, but that's all you can do. I've educated him as much as I can about the pitfalls of such a stupid fucking arrangement, but it's not derailing him. Ultimately, not my job to fix someone who doesn't want to be fixed. As Rollo says, save and perform triage on the ones you can, read last rites to the ones you can't. Follow Shockley's advice, give him the talk (like a mentor, not…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/16 12:32 PM
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Great story, and great example of masculine leadership. I will be this example for my nephews. Unfortunately, the one that needs it most is several states away and is being fucked up six ways from Sunday by my uber-bitch SIL and that spineless beta she calls a husband.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/16 01:10 AM
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Agree that she's probably already physically cheated. Most women who are into their man absolutely detest the idea of him fucking another woman. Even if she's not into him anymore, if he fucks another woman she still considers it a slap in her face, like "how dare that fucking loser cheat on ME". If she's giving you a hall pass, she's already fucked other D.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 02:34 AM
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Yeah, the club scene would be why those guys don't get fucked by the article commenters, not their general unattractiveness /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 03:58 PM
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It's not really a satire though. Literally one guy on there creates real satire posts. The rest is them laughing at people who are trying to improve themselves, especially when they fail, from their little safe space. They were the mean girl clique in high school. Upright and pleasant on their face, sadistic bitches behind everyone's back.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 03:16 PM
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The commenters say they think these guys are hot, but let's put them in the club together and see if any of these ladies fuck these guys. I highly doubt it. But don't worry fellas! A bunch of randoms on the internet said your attractive just the way you are! Just be yourself, guys! BP conditioning at its finest right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 03:06 PM
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"Circle jerking about coconut massages and anal sex...". OK, now who is the asshole responsible for this behavior?! Seriously though, great post. Lifting is the bedrock foundation upon which all other improvement is built. It is literally the only step in the process that signals to the world that you are improving, because it cannot be faked. You can get cool clothes. You can adopt PUA tactics to beat shit tests. You can have good posture. You can adopt abundance mentality and outcome independe…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 02:43 AM
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"...wear out any one wife's naughty bits from too much friction" Bullshit BP lies - they never wear out. You forgot AWALT. All Women Always Lube Thoroughly.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/16 03:53 AM
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Downvotes were prob from the bloops. They've been brigading every comment section on here lately. Edit: and now I'm getting downvoted. Their retardation knows no limits.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/16 01:24 AM
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dont waste your time trying to talk sense into those shitheads. They don't get it, because they don't want to get it. They don't care. They are the same miserable, mean-spirited entitled little shits that you used to see on FPH. They are professional trolls. They have nothing positive or constructive to offer - nor do they even pretend to. They exist solely to dump all over people who need help, then try to demonize those giving advice to those in need. Let them live in la-la-land. There's no pl…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 07:42 PM
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"Stop placing an unreasonable amount of importance on fucking" Says the guy who posts on Truecel about how he enjoys fucking male virgins. Well, as we say here, you do you. Meanwhile, the rest of us aren't going to sit in denial about the importance of sex in a man's life (especially a married man's life).
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 03:38 AM
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Can confirm. I've tried to sprinkle the truth in there a few times, and recently discovered I'd been shadowbanned from DBR. Pathetic. At least the Bloops put on their big girl panties and come out swinging... But yeah, dead bedrooms is a fucking miserable place. Men (and women) in sexless, passionless, loveless marriages for years and years who do NOTHING about it, except visit Reddit. There is no help to be found there. It is a support group for people who have given up. There's a reason it's c…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 03:04 AM
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She initiated 2 minutes after I rolled over to go to sleep, so the whole elapsed time was more like 5-10 minutes. Idk if it's still impressive or not, but I've always had a fairly short refractory period, especially between rounds 1 and 2 (at this age and at night before bed, round 3 would be a pretty tall order). If you want to try back-to-backing the Mrs. And dont have such a cooperative refractory period, you could use a cockring.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/16 12:16 PM
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Thanks, and yes, it partly inspired me to post this on the main MRP sub. the comments there were great but I though it was an important enough issue to be brought to the forefront - that wisecracking A&A and slap-assery are not the sole way to generate tingles and are not the only things you should be throwing out there. I also love the results it got for me, so I figured I'd lay out the exact circumstances that led to this success so that others could follow if appropriate for their situation.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 05:35 PM
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Shit, maybe I misread it. Well, the advice not to generally LTR a 30 year old woman still stands. I wonder though, TRP insists that older guys can bang 18-20 something's, and I don't doubt it if he's attractive enough and uses good game. But what's the likelihood of a 21 year old gal of this generation getting into an LTR with a 30 something guy? I can't imagine it's all that high.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 04:51 PM
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Can also confirm. LTRd her at 18, married by 24, now going strong in mid-30s. She messed around a little before me (n=4 including me), but I got her early enough that she spent her best SMV years with me, and never got on the cock carousel because she never got off mine. As the other posters said here, you have to know what you want first. Once you do, own it, whether it's vetting for an LTR or just spinning plates forever. I also agree with the sentiment that waiting until a woman is approachin…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 03:25 PM
3

Start locking your phone. Last thing you need is for the kid to accidentally one-touch dial 911 or start buying apps. As for the wife, I'd A&A this bullshit. Something like "I'm pissed too. It usually takes me a while to find a nice set of tits on the Internet, and this kid does it in 2 seconds!" Instead you DEERed. Just stfu at this point and move on. If she keeps harping on it, say "my phone is locked from now on". Broken record that until she drops it. Then proceed with your life as if nothin…
/r/askMRP18/05/16 04:20 AM
1

"That's the social life of a father. I'm almost 40 so I'm not around younger single women...ever" Bullshit. I'm your age, and I'm around available women all the time. They are store clerks, waitresses, women I deal with on the phone at work....they are literally everywhere. Read the sidebar post on Week 5: Game, then search some posts about how to practice game with random women. The point is not to actually pick them up to cheat, the point is to be better at gaming in general, so you can game y…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/16 03:58 AM
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The last two "selections" are comfort tests. Don't use A&A on those. Search on MRP for posts on how to recognize the difference between a shit test and a comfort test. Defeating these tests requires different approaches. Re: shit tests, don't forget that there are other ways to pass them other than A&A. Pressure flips can be funny (the commenter that came up with "what are you, the lunch police?" Gave you a perfect example of that). You can also ignore, or change the subject.
/r/askMRP17/05/16 02:12 AM
2

Couple of tough clues, but they're there. OP refers to unplugging as his "awakening" - a feminist term. Also, a redditor for 3 months who allegedly swallowed the pill 15 months ago - doesn't add up. Also, his story appears to have been written to make OP look like the biggest shitbag in history - the "fuck you or fuck me" talk to a pregnant wife, cheating on wife who is home breastfeeding a newborn, going to a toy store to hit on underage chicks, gratuitous homophobic insult directed at his wife…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/16 05:53 PM
2

A bloop wrote a whole OP on blue pll about how terrible we all are and used this (now, conveniently deleted) post as the poster example of how all MRP does is ruin marriages. Typical bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/16 02:58 AM
2

Spot on observation. Women will tend to overlook one or two "not attractive" features if they are otherwise attracted to the guy as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 02:11 AM
2

Honestly. Wasn't Beethoven partly deaf? I mean FFS.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 01:59 AM
3

So his options are starfish or nothing? I agree with you earlier when you suggest he never should have married her. If he had been following TRP he would've Nexted her early on. But what now, especially if he has been duped as many commenters suggested? He's supposed to live a ho-hum sex life with a woman who he expected better from? thats the fundamental problem with you bloops - you don't give one shit about the man in this situation. When you see relationships where the guy has doted on the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 07:58 PM
1

I'm curious. If you're right, and she doesn't like BJs but did it in the beginning and claimed to enjoy them to get this guy to commit, is that acceptable in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 07:48 PM
1

Here's the thing - you're right, she CAN say those things, but they never do. You have to figure it out and take the initiative to remedy the issues without being told how to do it. If you have to be told, you're a pretender, and she's your mommy. Attraction over.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 06:32 PM
3

Can't really CYV. Blowjobs/anal/[insert kinky non-ordinary PIV she used to do with you or other guys here] is attraction based. A wife or LTR may give you starfish even if not attracted to you, but she won't do that extra stuff, that carnal, lusty stuff, unless the desire is 100% genuine. This guy's supplicating, nagging and whining are making him unattractive (more so than he already apparently is if she stopped blowing him so early in the relationship). Note: before you bloops all pounce on me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 06:26 PM
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Just to add to your thought, many on the nice guy/orbiters I knew in college and high school didn't have sex with the girl in the forefront of their mind. They had a puppy love romantic fantasy about their ONEitis, thought she was their dream girl, appreciated all her little faults and quirks, and dreamed about the day they could star a relationship together. They were never using a nice guy/orbiter approach for sex - they were thinking that it might help win her heart, because she already capti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 02:56 PM
5

Being "fit" does not make you stand out. It just give you a leg up on obese men. Being built gets you NOTICED by all women. Of course, that by itself isn't enough to get them to be opening their legs, but it puts you above 80% of guys out there who are just fat or, who might have a good BMI but not the kind of body a woman will notice. Put differently, being built starts you off from a position of "he's kinda hot" by default, thus making her more receptive to conversation, and eventually hooking…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 02:42 PM
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The problem is that there is no "common sense" on the Internet. For every post you cite that gives pieces of red pill advice, you see countless others giving BS advice, like just be yourself, etc. even the ones with some sensible advice don't tell you the truth - that your lack of success with women (or in your LTR/marriage) is YOUR FAULT. Can't get laid? It's because you are unattractive. But mainstream articles need to make money, and that advice might hurt a bunch of feels, so it isn't thrown…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 01:10 PM
2

I never said it was easy. I've had to struggle to maintain an erection when that crap happens too. The old advice of "don't focus on her" is spot on because the minute you care about her, you get inside your head and make a simple pleasureable act into a chore. It works like reverse psychology - the less you GAF about her and the more you focus on getting as much pleasure for you out of the act as possible, the better your performance winds up being.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 03:52 PM
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You got too far inside your own head during the act. It happened to me a few times at the beginning of the journey too. I'll go against the grain a bit here though, and say that rejecting starfish at your stage is not a good option. You haven't had it in 8 months - gotta start somewhere. In fact, even if she's starfishing, fuck her even harder and get even more into it yourself. When she feels your energy at this point, her body may pick up on this and she may start responding accordingly. My wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 02:53 PM
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Ha. You beat me to the punch. I have never seen such a display of butthurt beta bullshit from a purportedly red pill leader in all of my time on Reddit. He is literally still fucking crying about being dumped by a bunch of women on the Internet. You're right - solid titanium frame right there. Then he gets all butthurt and starts crying about how the men here at MRP won't join his modified circle jerk (modified so that he is the only one being jerked by the rest of the circle). It's pathetic. So…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 01:44 AM
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I'm sure it's not a new account created by RPS himself. Nawwwww, couldn't be. Edit: Look farther down the thread guys - BubbleCafe is willing to help with the new TRP flair system too. Great add...check out his post history, a bunch of repeat throw away lines in all manner of random subreddits. I'm sure he's not a bot though. I mean seriously, could this be any more fucking pathetic?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 01:08 AM
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The whole thing seemed to be about RPS becoming butthurt over TFA's "I'd get married again post". Seems petty and childish to me, especially considering the fact that any analysis of whether marriage is a good idea or not is completely fucking moot over here, since 90% are already married. The TRPers also seems to forget that TRP, Reddit and the manosphere are all relatively new. This shit didn't exist when I was dating or when I married my wife, but evidently we're all a bunch of blue pill reta…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 12:56 AM
1

Those women either settle or acquire cats to fulfill their need for companionship. Thus some guys will end up forever alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 10:43 PM
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Sort of yes to question one - there are way more men in the 4-6 range than men in the 1-3 or 7-10 range. Your second question is a bit loaded. What I should have added to my above post was the low SMV pair-off phenomenon we see. Later in life (usu. mid 30s and up), your SMV 1-3s come to realize that they aren't winning in the SMP, ever. As such, you'll see these men and women pair off, usually for companionship more than anything else, but it's not like they are thrilled with what they have - th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 04:01 PM
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You are wrong here, because you are equating the market for females with the market for males. The theory goes that women only go for men higher in SMV than they are. Women will tend to shoot a notch or two higher than themselves, and if in the mood for an ONS will shoot for the moon. However, there is an SMV floor for the guys such that women will not venture below. Male 5s fall into this zone. Contrast that with female HB5s, which a male 9 will fuck under the right circumstances, and who could…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 03:08 PM
2

Agree that your SMV is determined by what the market will bear, not what you think you're worth. However, your example is flawed. Women of such low SMV (1-2) are almost completely unattainable because they are withdrawn from the market due to their own ultra low self esteem. Even if they weren't completely unavailable, they may not be gettable by a male 5 because his comparative SMV is too high (she understands that she would have no higher potential with him than occasional use as a human flesh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 11:34 AM
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Not all of us think all women are brainless idiots, and if you think that's what TRP stands for, perhaps you are. TRP states that women will default to emotion over logic, especially when it comes to interpersonal relationships. It doesn't suggest women are incapable of logic. But here you are proving the very point. GLO makes one of his typical, intentionally over-inflammatory "shock value" comments, and you get on your soapbox and preach defensively about how you're not like that and, moreover…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 01:10 AM
2

Female INTJ? You truly are a special snowflake unicorn! I suppose you have Marilyn Monroe's measurements too. You're also probably not attracted to "muscley" guys, and had sex with the men in your life because of how they could just be themselves! But you don't have that advantage you state. We men are fully aware of how manipulative, deceptive and cruel you women can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 12:50 AM
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Watch what they do, not what they say in full effect. "You've gotten it enough this week" or some variation is one of my wife's go-to lines, then of course we're fucking shortly thereafter. Way to go, but never rest on your laurels.
/r/askMRP26/04/16 03:05 PM
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They get stressed and are looking for someone to take control of everything, including her emotions, even though in your mind, nothing is actually wrong. My wife used to do this. Some of our biggest screaming matches in my BP days were in stressful situations, whereupon my wife turned into a raging mega bitch on top of it. I once told her that the only thing she could be counted on for in a bad situation was to make it exponentially worse. Now I know that in those situations, I have to coolly an…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/16 12:42 PM
2

"...preference changes with maturity". Substitute "maturity" with "approaching the wall". Then it's true. You can thank me later for fixing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 03:28 AM
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"...each time it turned into a nagging, shitfest of criticism and bitchy behavior on the part of the RPW mods" Replace "RPW mods" with "my wife" and we'd all be punching you in the face for this victim puke. I still can't understand why this is even a fucking thread on this sub. It isn't helping me or anyone else improve as men. if anything, it belongs on PPD.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/16 02:58 AM
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A couple of angry teenage geeks do not represent most of us. There was a RP thread the other day where every father said they would teach their daughters to be self-sufficient and not dependent on anyone - a man, woman, parents, whoever. I have a daughter, and she will be raised to be self-sufficient as well. However, I fully expect her to be AWALT, and that's fine too. When it comes to talking about sex and relationships, I will not be sugar-coating anything about human nature and about men and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 02:51 PM
1

Shit I'm owning: still going to the gym religiously 2 days on, one day off. Finally quit being a pussy and am doing barbell squats, overhead press and deadlifts (wow do deadlifts take a lot out of you) instead of leg presses and other isolation shit. started calculating calories and macros exactly. Still packing on muscle through the end of April, but will do a six-week micro cut starting May 1. I've gone from fat beer bellied slob to built-fat. Still a long way to go (27% body fat), but at leas…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 01:23 PM
3

Worse. It's like being in a weight loss forum and Rule #1 is "Don't tell anyone here that they're overweight."
/r/askMRP08/04/16 07:54 PM
2

Here"s the difference between DBR and MRP MRP provides the truth, pushes you to introspection, and offers proven techniques to change YOU, and perhaps your DB with it. DBR is a support group that offers nothing but unactionable sympathy and canned, ineffective advice that only supports the OPs' victim mentality
/r/askMRP08/04/16 01:47 PM
3

Agreed. instead of worrying about his wife boning Chad at work, this guy should be worried about why he's such a loser that she'd even consider banging Chad in the first place.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 09:01 PM
2

I agree. My wife works and if she were a SAHM, I'd resent her. Also, the idea that working women are looking to cheat with Chad the co-worker is only an issue if 1. Your wife is a slut, or 2. You are a fucking loser who is less attractive than Chad. Further, the bored housewife banging the mailman/delivery guy/gardener/pool boy is such a real thing it's a common plot device. Plus, if she's at home, she has all day to go on tinder or any of the various subs on here and cuck you all day long while…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/16 08:59 PM
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Truth. just recently there was a DBR post where guy and his SO went on a "break" for a couple months. During this "break", SO banged a coworker of hers repeatedly - but now they're back together, and guy can't figure out what to do with his low libido SO. I was nice, but essentially said "There was nothing wrong with her libido when she was fucking her coworker, was there Dipshit? Think about that". Of course I get downvoted. What that sub and its contributors fail to understand is that genuine …
/r/askMRP06/04/16 09:03 PM
2

Agree. Status and power are arousal factors. Money is not - it's a BB attraction factor. This is why you have women who are sexually attracted to certain male archetypes, like doctor, lawyer, professor, cop, soldier. There is a huge difference in the amount of money made in these professions, but they are all power positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 03:18 PM
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Your point about intelligence not being a drawback is spot on, and Commenter would do well to heed your advice. I though it was in high school- turns out the fact that I was unattractive otherwise was a drawback. The key is to use your intelligence as the thing you are irrationally self-confident about, not as something you apologize for.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 02:54 PM
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You should have gotten more up votes for this, because playing up the "forgetfulness" with amused mastery is how to win this shit test. A great response is also to look around confused, then say "where am I? How did I get here?"
/r/askMRP04/04/16 04:56 PM
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This is going to sound cheesy as fuck, but make sure you really are in a positive, good mood. Change your attitude and the body language will match (and we know how perceptive women are to body language). If you slip and she catches you, I like to treat it as a mild shit test. I defeat it with a combo of cocky/funny and changing the subject. Ex: Her: What's wrong? You look sad? Me: I just can't believe how mean people are to Donald Trump because of his hair! eye contact and smirk. Anyways, what'…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 04:29 PM
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Another bullet point for Don't Be Unattractive: Do not be a mean/miserable/depressed prick. I have heard from my wife through the years, as well as various posts from women in different subreddits about how fast they lose any and all desire to fuck you if you are in a foul mood. This was one of my biggest past problems. Leave the work frustration at work. Be stoic and maintain frame at home - don't let her bullshit, the kids' bullshit, or random everyday bullshit bring down your attitude. She is…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/16 01:08 PM
2

But not with my wife. Sperm donor = she might as well have fucked another guy, gotten pregnant, and had me raise and pay for it. Adopt a "stranger" child? Completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 02:28 PM
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Because I'm not raising some other guy's child WITH my wife. FWIW, she wouldn't use an egg donor for the same reason. Plus, with some many unwanted children born into the world, if we could have a child that was biologically both of ours, we'd take one of those poor souls in and give them a good life with a good family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 02:20 PM
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If you use a sperm donor you are cucking him. You are having him raise your kid with another man. I would never have done that. I told my wife if either of us were infertile, we'd adopt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 01:32 PM
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"...RPW has decided to cut ties to the TRP sub." Looks like they didn't dread you hard enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 01:01 PM
2

Do not confuse "sexual experience" with partner count. My wife has a relatively low partner count (even if i double her admitted number), but I have fucked her thousands of times. She has more sexual experience than 10 sluts combined, but she's done 99.9% with one guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 05:42 PM
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Pair binding is not exclusive to virginity. Just don't bang 30 guys and expect pair bonding to happen. I also don't understand the mentality of staying a relationship you know is unsatifying and unfulfilling, just because you are afraid of the unknown. I feel like I'm talking to a guy here. This a typical TRP request for advice with the gender roles reversed. Whatever. If what you're saying is true, You are your BF's beta orbiter and emotional tampon (jockstrap?). You probably have low SMV, a se…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 05:32 PM
1

Ummm....break up and find a guy who is interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 05:14 PM
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there is no such thing as a romantic relationship without sex. That is called a friendship. You should stop trying to rationalize away what this relationship is and look at it head on. You are in the friend zone with this guy (odd, but whatever). You should stop focusing on trying to consolidate beta bux at your age with a guy who is not interested in you and, it seems, who you are not interested in sexually. It will not work. My wife's friend from college married a guy under these circumstances…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 05:08 PM
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You are completely wrong about the RP mindset. RP mindset is to spin plates if you're single. Then, just spin plates forever, or LTR a quality woman, if you wish. Once you give commitment though, you mean it. This means generally no fucking around on the side. Simply put, there is no benefit whatsoever to marrying a woman without sex from the woman. None. Not a damned one. If a guy wants to bang sluts, he should just go around banging sluts. No need for a wife in that scenario. Finally, your fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 04:39 PM
1

K, aside from that, was my rephrasing of your question accurate?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 04:22 PM
1

Not once in 37 years have I ever wanted to cuddle with a female friend or a guy. Jesus you don't understand men IRL at all. I don't particularly like cuddling with the Mrs. either. That's a rare treat for her, or reserved for when she suffers something truly emotionally painful
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 04:17 PM
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I can and do have wild sex with my wife/mother of my child. Why the hell wouldn't I? If she didn't do crazy shit with me when we first started our LTR, I would never have considered marrying her in the first place. Why would I be in a monogamous relationship with a woman who didn't fulfill the majority of my kinks? What would have been the point? FYI, She does anal, light bondage, some role play. Threesomes are out because she isn't getting another dick (nor does she want one), and she couldn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 03:56 PM
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Of course. But you'll need to have a sip of wine first, that way when he does find out, you can say you were crazy drunk and didn't know what came over you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 03:16 AM
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How bout men quit being pussies and go after what they want? This is a seduction forum, right? How do you guys on here expect to "seduce" women by sitting in the corner expecting women to approach? Be bold, men. Step up, approach, initiate, and if you're rejected try with the next one.
/r/seduction01/04/16 01:50 PM
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You are probably being downvoted by weak losers who are too scared to approach a woman. Tell them the truth - women are generally not attracted to men who are too weak to approach them. Help them understand the "why"
/r/seduction01/04/16 01:39 PM
1

Up vote for telling the truth. You'd think the boys on here would appreciate that...
/r/seduction01/04/16 01:28 PM
2

Thank you for explaining this so coherently. I really wish they would change the terminology because, if you didn't know what LMR and breaking though LMR actually meant, it does look "rapey" on its face. I'm sick of explaining to BPs that "breaking through LMR" is actually the exact opposite of forcing sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 09:27 PM
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You are hung up because the freeze out is a tactic that covertly communicates, in her language, the following: "you got naked, grabbed my cock, aroused me, then you say no. Okay. I'm not going to play stupid games. Get on my cock or get lost. You pick." If you say this overtly like most normal betas might, you are being a butthurt loser and showing that the lack of sex phases you, meaning you're weak and desperate If, instead, as many betas might do, when she says no you just say "ok Hunny, I un…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 09:16 PM
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Maybe you should start a thread about this, because it's interesting. I too was taught that "beauty is only skin deep", "it's what's on the inside that counts", "just be yourself", and "looks aren't everything" from girls and women growing up. The problem is that they weren't telling the entire truth. Yes, they want you to be a good guy who cares about them, would never intentionally hurt them, etc. But here's what they didn't say: "But, by the way, we won't even get to the merits of that other …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 08:10 PM
2

I think we agree. It's the passive, wussy way he goes about it in your example that is a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 07:53 PM
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Can't disagree. The example of unreasonable niceness is not niceness at all - it is an attempted covert contract by the man that creeps the woman out. In your example, she inherently KNOWS that you are only bringing her coffee every morning because you want to fuck her (actually, beta/omega losers like this really aren't hoping for sex, they're hoping she'll fall in love with them like some bullshit fantasy movie once she sees what a heart of gold he has). Why the hell would someone go that far …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 06:53 PM
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Your examples are not gas lighting. It's just lying, and in the example of "men over 30 are gross", typical hamstering/solipsism. Idk if my wife is BP or not (if she ever overtly told the truth she'd probably fall in the redder side of purple), but her gas lighting of me was what led me to reddit and ultimately TRP/MRP. One night during a pre-pill, complete beta bitch argument, she told me that if I died in a car crash that it would make her happy - THEN, when I confronted her over that statemen…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 03:19 PM
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Happily married here. Found this place after marriage and sex were going downhill after 11 years of marriage (together for 17 years). Still has bumps but the family is happy, she's happier than she's been in ages, and the sex is frequent and of excellent quality. Most importantly, I'm happy. I've utilized what I've learned on MRP and am making myself better than I thought possible. The rest is following along quite well.
/r/askMRP30/03/16 02:22 AM
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I appreciate when she initiates, but I've gotten pretty good at picking up her cues so she rarely has to do so overtly.
/r/askMRP30/03/16 02:15 AM
1

Perhaps because the bigger risk is that the woman either dies or hits the wall (or, in antiquity, loses fertility) before she has the chance to be seeded with superior genes, thus missing the opportunity to reproduce at all, or leaving her with the concept of having to mate with an inferior beta (yuck). Her hypergamy figures "I need to get impregnated by an alpha, bar none. I can figure the rest out later.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 11:32 AM
1

My point is humankind never really had much decency. In the 1930's to 1950's, about 6-10 million people (probably more) were exterminated in Europe, Russia and China either intentionally or through disastrous government policy. That was less than 100 years ago. Rape, murder, assault, all of those things have been going on since humans arrived in this planet. Yes, to the extent people seem to be generally more self absorbed than in the past, it may seem that way. But perhaps it's because you're r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 04:08 AM
1

married red pill Been forever since I've dated, but should be split I believe in small acts of kindness and decency for strangers, but I'm not bending over backwards for any stranger, regardless of gender. Already married with a kid. If divorced tomorrow I wouldn't get married again - cannot have some woman take half my (and my child's) shit. Ever. Would I have another child? Maybe, but only 1 more max. I believe abortion, prior to viability, should not be criminalized. After viability, it's hom…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 03:50 AM
2

To be fair, the world has always been a violent, dangerous and brutal place. In fact, if you live in a first world nation, a child born today can easily expect a quality of life and safety that is unparalleled compared with life less than a hundred years Ago, and the violence, evil and brutality only get worse the farther back in history you go. Point being, the world (again, in a first world country) really isn't that bad, comparatively speaking. If the only thing you're waiting on to have chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 03:32 AM
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I can think of a few reasons. As stated above, she may try branch swinging to a new dick, only to later discover that new dick changed his mind, was only planing to plate spin her, etc. that's discussed above so I won't belabor it. Another reason - Because they no longer see the guy they are with as the best man they can get. He has slid so far into beta bitchness that she's fed up, checked out of the relationship mentally, and is looking for the next decent guy she's attracted to , because new …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 07:43 PM
1

It depends largely on the individual. Some of us wanted (or want) families and children. Now I got married way before the manosphere and TRP existed, so I can't speak for young single guys today. Generally though, the male sexual strategy is to spin plates. If all you want to do is spread your seed and live alone, that's fine and its up to you - just keep spinning plates. But if you want a family, plate spinning is a good process to vet women who are not good relationship material (super slut, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 01:36 PM
2

your side theory is pretty close. According to Rollo Tomassi, for one gender's sexual strategy to succeed, the other must compromise its strategy. RP flips the script society has given us for the past 60 years, so now instead of men grooming themselves for a lifetime of subservience to the female sexual strategy, we are focusing on making ourselves awesome. Those who realize that the power they have (and their beta white knight manginas who realize that The RP is putting the nail in the coffin o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 12:40 PM
1

"Most of the girls I've asked..." And you listened to what they said at face value?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 10:00 AM
1

Bonus points for use of the word "betwixt".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 10:14 PM
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Ahh, those are the feminists and SJWs on your team. i saw how they tore you apart for saying something like "you need a man in your life". That's what they (or really any extreme left group, and some rights) do - they have a position on something, and any statement to the contrary is blasphemy. The blasphemer is then to be taken down and beaten (verbally here) for being out of line. Tow the party line in the face of all opposition, perceived or real, and silence dissent by vicious assault pushin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 09:58 PM
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I don't yell, but I will disagree. Women need to be physically attracted to a man as much as the man need to be attracted to the woman - perhaps more so. Go to any of the other advice subs on this issue, and the general consensus is that women are attracted to confidence, yes, but they have to be physically attracted as well or it simply won't work. One such question posed was "when does a woman know if she'll have sex with a guy or not". My favorite answer was "we know within the first 30 secon…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 09:40 PM
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Again, it helps to think of it differently (as a married guy, I hang out at MRP more than TRP, so if you've only lurked TRP you may not be getting my perspective). For me, it has nothing to do with controlling my wife. I recognize that I have no control over her, nor do I want that. I DO have full control over myself and my life. Thus, no one (except the Law) can tell me what I can and cannot do. So I will do what I want - with the important caveat that if I want to be attractive, I'd better be …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 07:55 PM
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It helps to look at it from the negative. It seems that nothing breeds disappointment and contempt in a woman more than when her man acts like a doormat. This applies within the relationship, and in how he behaves in outside situations. Women, it seems, need to at least be able to sell themselves on the fac that their man is actually a man. A guy who acts like a pussy and/or child badly enough, for a long enough period of time, will eventually push his woman beyond the capacity to plausibly lie …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 07:02 PM
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I think there's some truth to this. A childhood friend of mine became a liberal activist. He lead a lot of movements and was the face of one very big organization involved in liberal activism. He married an admittedly good looking feminist (rare) that shares a lot of his liberal views. Their relationship seems to work, and here's why I think that is: he is a good looking guy (not built but has an attractive face) who is an alpha IN THAT particular subculture. Thus, while we RP guys and gals woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 06:44 PM
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Never underestimate a woman's capacity for solipsism. There are women who stay in relationships with men who are abject losers, but they stay because they lie to themselves (and others) about how great he is/was. Point being, if a guy does not cross the beta point of no return, even if he was beta from the moment they met, it's possible that she will eventually buy into his new leadership role even if it means she has to lie to herself about what a beta bitch he used to be. Remember, women live …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/16 01:07 AM
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She is by no means above average, actually fits "average" to a T. I watched with the sound off because I'm at work, but she and the long haired dude look like they could be brother and sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 09:05 PM
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If anything it has galvanized my disdain for TBP and its supporters. They refuse to engage in real debate on any pill related issue, and resort to the same worn-out tactics to try and win every discussion. The "unfounded attack on the speaker" gag, the "what you said could hurt someone's feelings so it's wrong" argument, the "I'm pretending to be afraid of TRP because I refuse to actually learn about it" crap, and so forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 12:45 PM
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"You might stem the creeping darkness of loneliness and depression in yourself". Can you bloopers at least try engaging in a discussion without resorting to vacuous "attack the speaker" arguments? FFS.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 12:37 PM
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But how much sugar is in these delicious moral treats?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 02:30 AM
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Exactly this. A big problem with America today is that the biggest sin you can commit now is to hurt someone's feelings. Don't tell that 300 pound woman she's fat! She's beautiful! She should be celebrated for being so brave! Stop projecting your own toxic insecurities! Ummm, no, she's fucking fat, and giving her a merit badge for it while attempting to make me feel bad about telling the truth (hint: I won't) isn't solving anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 02:28 AM
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I wouldn't advocate bullying or shaming small children. They have no control over what food is given to them - that's on the parents. Education can only go so far though. As the saying goes, you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 02:17 AM
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So, the obesity epidemic is either something that just happened to someone, or is the fault of a nameless entity (pollution) that absolves the obese from any responsibility? If pollution causes obesity then why isn't Beijing plagued by fat people (it's not, despite being one of the most polluted cities on the planet)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 02:00 AM
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I don't know about whether higher taxes/costs caused people to quit smoking, vs became another item on the "list of reasons this was a good idea" that quitters told themselves in support of the decision already made for greater reasons. Even if it were a major cause of smoking cessation, obesity's causes are too varied to effectively tax at the source. Do we tax fast food? All restaurants? Foods that contain over X grams of sugar per arbitrary serving size? Too hard to implement IMHO. What you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 01:55 AM
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You e got to be kidding. So obesity is due to wealth inequality according to you? For children who don't know better, in certain geographic locations, with no control over the food provided to them, possibly. For adults? Now you're just making excuses. Will you bloopers ever hold people responsible for their own decisions?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 01:50 AM
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To clarify, the chit-chat and comraderie happen more in the locker room than on the gym floor. If you go to a gym near your house and go home to shower, you may not get that. I go to the gym before work and shower/change there. Maybe that's why our experiences differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 01:46 AM
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They need food to survive, not an addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 11:32 PM
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I don't know what goes on in your gym, or the women's locker room at mine for that matter, but the guys at mine are just as chummy with the fat guys as they are with the meatheads and everything in between. There is also a lot of positive interaction between the older and younger guys, which is cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 09:15 PM
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I agree that the approach has to be multi-faceted. The only thing we disagree upon with smoking is whether shaming the individual was part of that approach - I contend it was, you disagree. That's fine. But I don't like the answer that the fast food industry needs to be attacked (they're getting it pretty bad as it is) for the problem to go away. You are removing individual agency from the equation, and in addition to educating the public about healthier living, I think the cultural shaming of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 09:12 PM
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Not necessarily true. Smokers who are trying to quit receive encouragement, at least in my experience. I've also never seen anyone get fat shamed in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 08:50 PM
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I didn't really care, though it did cause me to think "hmmm, if she thinks it's gross and it killed my opportunity with her, perhaps it will kill similar opportunities". More effective is when I was told that I stunk, specifically my clothes, and I realized it was true, and that my odor was a turn-off. That prompted introspection and change more than the "smoking is bad for your health" campaign. But Therein lies the challenge. We can tell fat guys that being fat is disgusting and will prevent t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 08:40 PM
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But so is smoking, in fact nicotine is recognized as one of the most addictive substances in use. Shaming smokers got them to wake up, then take steps to fix the addiction. It also had a deterrent effect on those who may have taken up smoking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 08:00 PM
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Look what RP has done for my marriage: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/41hg65/frtestimonial_got_anal_for_the_first_time_in_4/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 07:05 PM
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Honest question - how much of that phenomenon is the result of your friends being legitimately, naturally attracted to sensitive "betas", versus your friends intentionally seeking out such men because their political leaning requires them to be in a relationship with such a guy, and their solipsism telling themselves (and everyone else) how attracted they are to such a guy? It'd be tough to get a real answer because I don't suspect these women could be truly honest, but I'm curious to know every…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 02:08 PM
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Don't bother. You cannot "win" an argument with radicals like this. They slap a label on your point of view (misogynist, sexist, abusive, racist, insert inflammatory term here) and they win, you lose. It allows them to "win" the debate without even confronting the issues on the merits. Waste of time talking to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 01:54 PM
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Please do pose that question, though you might want to parse it into 2 separate questions, as BP and third wave feminism are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 01:48 PM
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That could be, but it is also "ewwww, prostitutes are dirty disease bags, and he banged one". Most likely, it's this - "what a LOSER to have to pay for sex. How pathetic". That's what I hear most whenever I bring up the subject of legalizing prostitution to women. I think this is the truest response as well, for a couple reasons. One, a guy who has to pay for sex obviously doesn't just get it and is therefore not alpha. It's like negative pre-selection. The other is because women hate the idea t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/16 07:30 PM
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Those particular guys have a fundamental misunderstanding of Chad. Chad is the Maker of Wet Holes, he need not slum down to wet holes that are attached to revolting women. Chad, as the ultimate alpha, is also the Ultimate Awesome Man. If he's banging a hideous troll, that is not awesome and, thus, cannot truly be Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 08:34 PM
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I'll take a crack at your first question. The problem with "portraying women as victims of certain gendered issues" is that it simultaneously does two things. First, to be a "victim", there must be a perpetrator. Thus, feminism invents its own Devil (the patriarchy, and by extension, all men) to rally against. Instead, it could simply look at an issue and say plainly why women are being treated inequitably, support it with irrefutable data, and push for change. Problem is that approach is not in…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 08:01 PM
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Women you describe (morbidly obese and of deplorable hygiene) cannot pull Chad. He has standards, and while he may be willing to pump a gal several SMV notches below him if he's needing to bust a nut at that moment, he won't go for what you describe. I can't link to it, but good ole Rollo had a recent post describing his theory about how women all shoot for higher than their SMV, but it's a sliding scale that drops off completely when you get down to HB1s and 2s, who don't reach for anything at …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 07:21 PM
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You are just again proving that women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men either have to be attractive and charm a gal's panties off, or pay her to drop 'em. We can't just go up to any woman and say "have sex with me", and boom, it happens. That doesn't even happen in a marriage or LTR. Still have to game your SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 06:16 PM
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i do not believe that they are unable to accurately convey interest. If they were really, truly interested in banging a guy that approached them and is so oblivious that he's missed any covert IOIs, she could drop the subtlety and make it easy for him. They, for whatever reason choose not to, and in doing so, have decided to close the gates.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 06:09 PM
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Okay, then I still disagree with your premise that women are not the final gatekeepers of sex. Your hypothetical girl is still the gatekeeper of sex, but in your example she's (perhaps inadvertently) doing a masterful job of keeping the gates closed by not giving any indication that she's willing or available. This could be thorough lack of attention to appearance, to a stand-offish unfriendly attitude. They could also just put themselves continually in positions where they dissuade males who ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 05:57 PM
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Not true for most guys, which is why TRP contains a number of materials to help guys pick up on IOIs (indicators of interest). It borrows from the old PUA stuff and is a part of improving one's game. Think about it - what good is learning to be smooth with women if you don't also learn how to pick up on their covertly communicated cues?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 05:18 PM
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You are talking about compliance tests. Run a search on here for ways to identify and defeat them. Example: you and wife are sitting on couch. Her: Hunny, go fetch me a diet coke. That's a compliance test. Defeat it with amused mastery or a simple "no", delivered with a smirk. I like to laugh for a bit, then just remain seated and carry on like nothing ever happened. Don't make the noob mistake of treating everything she asks of you like a compliance or shit test. For example, if she's in the co…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 05:58 PM
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Thank you for this. You have the freedom to be promiscuous and the free and equal opportunity to successfully hook up. You are not guaranteed success. Like the American Dream, you have to have some know how and be willing to put in the work. Some people have it easier (party example - the hawt people, American Dream - those born to wealth/power), but you are not disqualified due to your major. Improve qualities about yourself that will make you objectively more attractive, and get out there and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 04:35 PM
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There has to be more to it. I was a Chem engineering major when I started college, didn't dress well, and had no understanding of women and I still managed to hook up just fine. No girl ever abruptly turned away when I told her I was in engineering. Hell, this one guy in my class with the chiseled face and six pack got girls by the boatload, and he was in engineering. You are either going after girls with a high-school "smart guys are yucky" mentality, or something else about you is off. Your br…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 04:04 PM
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I was totally oblivious in college and law school. It stemmed from the fact that I was so unsuccessful with women in high school that I gave myself the "I'm a loser and no girl will ever be interested in me" complex. Thus, any flirting at me was either over my head (lack of experience and people skills), or I chalked it up to "she's just being nice, because she's a nice girl. She doesn't actually want you, you loser." I reinvented myself in college and ultimately wound up with a gf that I would …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/16 03:15 PM
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Her assessment of the failure-success ratio is likely skewed due to lack of reporting of successes, on the one hand, and the over publicity of FR's on here by complete retards, some of whom amaze me by how the ever managed to marry a woman in the first place. I posted a pretty good FR and testimonial on how MRP resuscitated my marriage. I really don't feel the need to post about the amazing sex the Mrs. And I are having all the time now, as it doesn't advance the sub's goals, help anyone, or ser…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/16 05:59 PM
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Seconded. When mine started asking why, I told her I was eliminating toxicity from my life and becoming dedicated to healthier living. It makes sense and cannot rationally attacked. Point to examples of other people you don't want to end up like (my alcoholic friend, a fat friend or relative, etc). If she asks why you want to fuck her all the time, say you feel like a teenager agin since you started going to the gym.
/r/askMRP09/03/16 10:40 PM
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This will happen in the beginning stages. I'm of the opinion that a green light is a green light. If you get caught up in the "whys", you're being a beta bitch. She offers a hole, you fuck it like it was meant to be fucked. Over-analyze it later if you have to. Women will do and say they craziest shit. You need to practice outcome independence (OI). If she gives you a nasty look for poking your head in the shower, your response is " whatever", and then start brushing your teeth. Her reaction is …
/r/askMRP04/03/16 04:28 AM
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From experience, it doesn't matter so much to you what age you are. Your ability to provide for your offspring is what matters. For the mother, age is critical. The BP establishment has given women the false idea that they can have kids whenever they want. It's a fucking lie. Wife and I started trying at her age 34, needed infertility treatments, and managed to have a daughter. This year, we've been trying again but even the treatments aren't helping. The Dr's diagnosis? Egg quality is the issue…
/r/askTRP04/03/16 04:14 AM
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Why not? By this time, you should have career, money, body, and life objectives in order. Women love guys who have their shit together and, by this age, you ought to have it together (or be busting your ass to make it so). Remember, men age like a fine wine.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 04:07 AM
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Have you come over to MRP yet? Sounds like just he place for you. Myself am 37 and getting my baby mama to ask for shit I used to get in college. Come check it out.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 04:03 AM
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True, with a qualifier. I had several nice guy friends in college and high school who were forever getting friendzoned. Some of them were unattractive, which was their main problem. My roommate, however, wasn't a bad looking guy (was better looking than some of my friends who did way better with the ladies). His problem was all attitude and approach. He always approached women as a harmless nice guy, let's be friends way, and hope they'd see how great he was and want to be in a relationship with…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/16 07:31 PM
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You are going off-topic on some ill-fated attempt to "one up" me for some reason. Your post was asking how that AskWomen thread validated red pill beliefs. I gave you the answer. Your cited thread does not validate all red pill ideas, as it does not even address many of them (nor was it intended to). Moreover, the red pill does not advocate tearing women down as you suggest. The fact that a lot of angry young guys on TRP vent their frustrations by tearing women down does not equate to red pill i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 10:25 PM
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Stop the solipsism for a minute. It is silly to think that a woman "considering" dating a guy less attractive than them is the same as actually dating (and, critically, being truly sexually attracted to said guy). It's also foolish to think than no male has ever considered dating a woman below his SMV. That happens too, because even if they aren't as physically attractive, maybe there's something else "awesome" about that person that makes them sexually desirable and relationship-worthy. (This i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 10:10 PM
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Exactly this. Male feminists and white knights do what they do in order to curry favor within a group of women for....wait for it....the perceived opportunity to end up having sex with them. Real nice guys, those male feminists and white knights...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 10:00 PM
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In truth, the problem is both men and women's own overinflated sense of self worth that is holding them both back. Fatass dadbods with the social skills of a leper thinking that women should want to fuck them because they make good money are delusional. Does a woman's $100K salary get you hard? Not unless she's sexually attractive as well, right? So it works both ways. Women today are having the same issue and I posit that the "fat acceptance" movement (which conveniently applies only to women) …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 09:54 PM
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This AskWomen thread is interesting, because for once women are telling the truth. Contrary to the BP indoctrination we all got, it is not good enough to be a nice person and make good money. You need to be better than that to interest women sexually. In fact, you need to be awesome, or you will either forever alone, married as a betabux chump, or eventually wind up pairing off with a woman of your own, low, SMV. Red Pill teaches introspection and accountability for your looks, game and status i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 09:46 PM
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Thanks for your input. What do you do for a living? I'm trying to find something (or a different area of law than high volume collections, which I'm struggling at mightily) that may be a better fit for this condition.
/r/askMRP05/02/16 02:27 AM
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I have the same problem with not finishing tasks, etc. I've made an appointment to see a psychiatrist next week because I believe I may have Adult ADHD. I'm exceptionally intelligent, but disorganized, unfocused, forgetful, and inattentive. I'm going to own my shit by finally identifying the problem and getting professional treatment, as it is interfering with my job performance and has for years. I think owing your shit means to see a professional and have yourself properly diagnosed and treate…
/r/askMRP04/02/16 02:38 PM
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Not alpha necessarily, but that she at least valued him enough to do it. Frankly, nagging for it is a beta trait (this often leads to starfish sex). The point is, if she didn't value him enough sexually, she simply wouldn't have done it, no matter how much he nagged and whined.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 04:28 AM
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It's not the "I tried it once and I hated it" thing that gets guys worked up in this context. Any reasonable guy would be understanding of her not wanting to do it with him, I would think, because she genuinely doesn't like it and has been up front about it for the guy to take or leave. What kills them is when the gal DID IT and enjoyed it with other guys but won't do it with him. That communicates that he is not worthy/valuable/sexy enough in her eyes to want to do things with him that she enjo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/16 04:13 AM
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Flip the script entirely. Imagine dating, falling in love with, and marrying a guy who was a successful lawyer that busted his butt to make sure his ex-wife was provided for, so you marry him. But then, he quits working as a lawyer, goes on unemployment for a bit then gets a job at Walmart, where he intends to spend his life as the manager of the Christmas department. That's the equivalent to you. You married a guy who was a fucking Rock star, the decided to be a below average loser because, wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 04:36 AM
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But that can be met and successfully overcome if she values the current guy enough to try again. I had this with my first GF. She would fuck me, blow me, but wouldn't let me go down on her even though I love doing it. Her stated reason was that her last bf was awful at it and acted all weird when he did it. I explained that perhaps it wasn't the act that was the problem, but the performer, and that she should at least give it one more shot with someone else before she gave up on it forever. Well…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 04:15 AM
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But again it's woman-specific. My wife, for example, doesn't like giving head. My former BP self asked why on multiple occasions and the answers were, in order of frequency: "Why would I suck your dick when I could be fucking it?", "what are we 16 again?", and " I don't like it because I feel suffocated/can't breathe/etc". And yet, after starting my MRP journey, I'm already getting anal again and predicted that I would get that first before a full BJ. It no doubt helped that she came from the an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 04:03 AM
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You are wrong because you don't go far enough. Even the suggestion of dumping/nexting a girl for not doing oral/anal will get you downvoted to hell or banned by a mod (in the case of the sex sub). It is beyond sickening.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 03:45 AM
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He even rage-quit his entire account. What a pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/16 02:54 AM
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I'm with you. If you expect a good looking 28 year old woman not to have had a few dicks in her, youre fucking delusional. And there is nothing ONEitis about vetting a woman for quality traits while accepting - get this guys - that she's a human fucking being that may have a flaw or 3. Move to Saudi Arabia if you expect a 28 year old virgin. Just don't expect her to be hot.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 04:30 AM
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Not weird, just different. On the rare occasion when my wife wants me to go down on her, she wants to be tongue fucked, not clit licked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 01:03 PM
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Thanks for stating this. My wife is the same way about this, going down on me, and most foreplay in general. She literally just wants to fuck (she cums vaginally, so this of course makes sense).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/16 01:00 PM
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Read up on it online. The refined stuff has a bunch of other shit added to it that may affect your skin (and I'd be really wary of using anything as a lube that contained any additives or impurities).
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 07:19 PM
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Coconut everything is awesome. If you are ever in the Caribbean, get some locally made, fresh coconut candy. It's goddamn delicious. Stranded on a tropical island? Coconut water is 100% sterile, provided the coconut hasn't rotted. Add shredded coconut to your batter when making fried shrimp, and elevate it.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 03:48 AM
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Thanks for pointing this out. There seems to be a debate on this sub about whether wives can have ASD. One camp says no, of course not, because she can fuck you as much as she wants because she's married and it's "ok". I disagree. I think they have ASD, but it's changed. Instead of anti-slut defense, it's anti-submission defense. Basically, she and her hamster do not want to feel like the only thing they're good for are her holes. Thus, she is resistant to being horny to fuck you at the snap of …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 02:53 AM
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Worth a shot. Sell it as you compromising to benefit her!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 02:05 PM
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I agree with the other posters on this. Use her fantasies, then develop a workaround to make them happen without really doing them. Multiple guys? Either fuck her while she has a butt plug in, or have her dildo her pussy with a vibrator while you bang her ass at the same time. Rape fantasy? Come up with a safe word with her in advance, and role play. Get into character and don't break it unless the safe word is used, and respect the goddamn safe word. Don't just break into your own house one nig…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 02:04 PM
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It is a solid at room temperature, but melts quickly in your hand. A little goes a long way. A container cost me $8.00 U.S. Best 8 dollars I've ever spent. I'm actually going to do a post about the coconut oil thing, as it is generating a lot of questions.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 01:40 PM
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Stop. Stop being a pussy, that is. Think of what that will do for your sex life. I'm guessing you're young. Well so was I when my gf (now wife) got a vibe for a joke gift. One of the best things ever. Use it to buzz her pussy till she's soaked and begging for a real cock (yours, dummy). Fuck her missionary While she holds it against your balls, and be taken to a new level. Make her wait to open the vibe until you're there and then command her to get herself off in front of you. Tell her to suck …
/r/askTRP20/01/16 04:35 AM
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Smile when they meet your gaze. Otherwise you look like a fucking goober.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 04:17 AM
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For me, it was an attitude change, with going from clean shaven to tight scruff. Acting and truly feeling like I was on top of the world, like I used to years ago. Cocky/funny worked great, and then we decided to go to the mall that weekend. Even though I hadn't started lifting yet I wore the best shirt for my frame (made my top look big but not my gut) and was fucking magnetic with everyone I interacted with. all that had to do with was Alpha behavior/posture. Eye contact with strangers in a fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 03:37 AM
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I don't know if lying about n-count is a deal breaker by itself. AWALT, and in this specific context, all women really are the same. Fuck, I deflowered a virgin who lied about having more experience than she actually did (probably thinking, and rightly so, that I wouldn't bang her if she said she was a virgin - back in my BP days). They will all lie about this.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 08:56 PM
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Following her captain's stellar example into overweightness, of course
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 08:09 PM
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Always towels down - they go immediately into the laundry. As for shower right away? There are conflicting views as to whether you need to to prevent clogged pores, or not (as the oil is a nice moisturizer). We've done both with no problem. Make sure you start somewhere other than genitals to make sure no one's allergic. CRITICAL. It has to be extra virgin unrefined coconut oil (buy it in your grocery store). DO NOT use the refined stuff, which has extra shit added into it.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/16 08:08 PM
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I agree with you. massage her and do whatever the fuck your want with her body. I also think that, depending on where you and the wife are at, this is not an overt contract, but her way of initiating without seeming like she's "easy to get". For example, I give incredibly naughty coconut oil massages that always end in my cave manning her. Thus, if she asks for a coconut massage under any pretext, I know she's basically initiating sex and hoping for the kind of quality sex that results from thos…
/r/askMRP17/01/16 03:37 PM
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Try gaming her first with passing shit tests, laying innuendo out there, etc before doing kino. Sometimes I think that because we're married, we "forget" that our wives are women like any others...would you expect some chick at a bar to reapond positively to what you described out of the blue? Of course not. Set the stage by flirting with your words, eye contact, and body language. Get her to laugh at a shit test you pass using agree & amplify THEN smack her ass. Make it playful, not sappy/needy
/r/askMRP15/01/16 03:40 AM
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Read u/jacktenofhearts comment to this thread https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3qm961/verbal_intercourse_is_optional/
/r/askMRP15/01/16 03:35 AM
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Solid advice here, but this is where having a kid can be an advantage. If wife presses you with mega shit tests, you can easily deflect with unassailable alibis - when in doubt, and if you can't maintain frame by STFU alone, use your daughter as the supreme hamster food rationalization engine. "My daughter deserves the best father on the planet" is a license to do damn near anything MRP self-improvement related without further explanation, defense or rationalization". I used this to barely stave…
/r/askMRP14/01/16 03:26 AM
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As to point 3 in your comment: Thank You. I'm surprised no one else jumped all over this. OP, on what goddamned planet do you think a woman would be horny and ready to go immediately after breastfeeding a kid and with no discernible prior game on your part? Next time, try walking in on her while she's having diarrhea and tell her you'd like a blowjob, then ask us where it all went wrong. I'm starting to wonder why some guys think that swallowing the red pill means they should completely abandon …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 10:47 PM
1

I second this, to the extent that it is understood by both (yet unspoken) that the massage is just a pretext for sex, or part of the sex act itself. Also, massage should only be a once in a while thing that You break out after you've games her sufficiently, otherwise it becomes so routine it's no longer "unpredictable", or a covert contract. Get into the immersion aspect of it too, like if my wife jokingly says "hey, it's not very professional to touch me there", respond with something like "we …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 10:39 PM
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I have a 2 1/2 yr old girl too, and am 2 months into the pill. Re-read everything you can on amused mastery and command presence. Use that shit on your daughter and watch it work like a charm (especially amused mastery...when she starts whining/crying about something retarded, look at her and start laughing, maintaining eye contact the whole time, then, in a soothing gentle voice, start almost making fun of how silly she's being. She'll start laughing with you. Once the tantrum is over, talk to …
/r/askMRP13/01/16 03:38 AM
2

She said things were "fine" when they were not, unless of course you mean that as long as things were "fine" in her mind, they should be "fine" in mine and, if they're not, my attitude needs an adjustment. This a major difference between the Blue and Red pills - according to you, I should be perfectly accepting of a marriage even if I'm truly miserable, because she's "fine". Evidently, me and my happiness are not worth shit (beyond my ability to provide a "fine" life for her). Wrong. I want bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 08:42 PM
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This, and it's why women still single in their 30's complain about "where have all the good men gone". The pure AFs are spinning plates endlessly, so they're out. The overwhelming amount of men are unattractive BBs or Omegas, so the women aren't interested, until they realize that, by now, all the "quality men" (a/k/a the AF/BB holy grail hybrids) have already been locked up by other women. Thus, they end up spinsters, or try to make it with a BB they convince themselves they might be attracted …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/16 02:20 PM
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I cannot second this enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 10:55 PM
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So open communication is the key? Well, not for every lock. Before I swallowed the pill, I did damn near everything I could think of to get more than just 2 times a week "starfish" sex out of my wife. This included talking to her about what she wanted (she always said things were "fine"), trying the come up with a list of fantasies challenge (which was supposed to be 10 fantasies, i made it easier on her and asked for 3...I only got 1. Know what that was? Me dressed as a cop with a flat stomach,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 10:49 PM
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Well put, and this explains why MRP, if applied properly, can be more effective for those of us who met our wives as alphas and became a combo of AF/BB, but slid into fat, inept Betadom. In this case, MRP works because to her this is just "wow, the man I married/fell in love with is back". Contrast this with guys who were beta schlubs the entire time, who can look, as you say, foolish and phony, especially when they go full-on Rambo mode right out of the gate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 10:31 PM
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Well put, and this explains why MRP, if applied properly, can be more effective for those of us who met our wives as alphas and became a combo of AF/BB, but slid into fat, inept Betadom. In this case, this is just "wow, the man I married/fell in love with is back". Contrast this with guys who were beta schlubs the entire time, who can look, as you say, foolish and phony, especially when they go full-on Rambo mode right out of the gate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/16 10:29 PM
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I don't know why you got downvoted so much, there is some truth to what you said. But I don't think it's just unattractive women that watch porn, it's girls that aren't getting any (or not getting satisfying sex) at that moment. The converse seems to be true. My lady lies and says she doesn't enjoy porn, which lie is exposed when I feel how wet she gets when we watch together. However, she doesn't watch lorn on her own and wouldn't because, in her words, "why would I waste my time watching peopl…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 10:05 PM
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You are not alone apparently. There is a sub dedicated entirely to women discussing/sharing porn clips they like. Before Stoya's rape allegations, James Deen was far and away the most sought after movie (basically anything with him in it), and especially the ones where he is banging a non-porn star "fan" (and yet TrP detractors claim that women do not fantasize about rougher sex with a man they find Hawt? Please...) Second to that was the demand for porn focusing on the men's reaction and wishin…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 09:26 PM
4

Get everything lined up before you nuke it.
/r/askMRP10/01/16 01:20 PM
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You are being bitter. The red pill is about seeing reality. The RPWs see reality and are helping each other share notes on how to best actualize it for themselves, presumably so they don't end up as a post-wall retired slut crazy cat woman. Remember, it is pointless to be angry at women for what they are. These women at least (seemingly) want to try to get the best man they can while being the most traditionally feminine women they can be FOR their man. Some of it is hokey as fuck, but I'm a guy…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 03:49 AM
3

What about joining and becoming active in a political party? For some of us it's a good networking thing, but I'm curious if that would do any tingle generating (well, if you're ever elected to anything it's a power trip thing so that's always good). Thoughts?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/16 03:37 AM
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You lost frame by giving your LTR commitment, then continuing to try spinning plates (and being a dumb fuck for getting caught on top of that). Without knowing what this "plate" said, it's hard to tell whether you need to delete her or pressure flip this on your LTR
/r/askTRP08/01/16 04:35 PM
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Keep reading and search for posts on here cautioning about going full on Rambo mode with the Mrs. As a newbie. You will likely trigger a Main Event sooner than you are ready to handle. I did, and I didn't really pass it (more like treaded water enough to get it adjourned, which was fucking weak). Read, internalize more, find u/jacktenofhearts epic comment on taking a methodical and measured approach to this.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 03:36 PM
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Sell yourself, and what you can do for that company. As to your demeanor? Go in with total OI. Every job I've never gotten was one where i went to the interview with the feeling "I really want/need this job." Every job I've actually gotten was where'd I went into the interview expecting nothing and wanting nothing more than to have a nice time practicing my interview skills and getting a chance to sell myself. That's how I was with women when I look back on life - every woman I've ever gotten wa…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 01:29 PM
2

Just don't be all beta about it and I bet you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 08:21 PM
3

Come back with a field report in a couple days and let us know what happened. I'm curious to see how it turns out when a guy misses so many obvious signals, then tries to close later. For the record, I'm rooting for you, and curious to see how small this proverbial window is.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 07:52 PM
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Great FR. It doesn't get said enough here about how taking the wife and kids out now and then for a surprise (of any kind) can generate tingles. Should be a staple of married game.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/16 02:45 PM
1

Exactly this. This fat ugly girl started a rumor that I was sexually harassing her in middle school because we were talking about porn one day, and literally no one believed her because she was fat and ugly. Even kids that didn't like me would say thing like Girl said what? That Girl's a beast. I denied doing any harassing and the thing went away on its own with no further effort on my part.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 08:23 PM
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I have noticed this a lot lately on this sub. Guys are torturing their wives' words or behavior into shit tests that don't exist. Another guy was bitching about how, when he got up from dinner to put his plate in the sink, wife asked if he could take hers too. I saw this as a simple fucking ordinary thing you do (you were already up, table needs clearing, and accepting a passed plate from your wife isn't fucking difficult), but this dude interpreted it as the mother of all compliance tests and r…
/r/askMRP06/01/16 02:21 AM
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Try also posting on r/askMRP
/r/askTRP05/01/16 08:47 PM
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/u/bicepsblastingstud is right. "we're not having sex" in your context is not a pre-emptive "no", it is her way of flirting and trying to overcome her anti-slut defense. Source: experience. My wife says this damn near every time I initiate and when she does, I easily defeat the shit test and have gotten successfully laid every time. Since your girl is a plate/ons YMMV, but it is just a shit test. By the way, whoever said making a girl laugh in a lead up to (or during) sex is a bad thing is wrong…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 07:19 PM
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This. Look at some of the chicks posting on other subs. Sure, they could easily get one of thei loyal followers to fuck them if they wanted. But they don't want to fuck those Betamax losers. They want validation from them. They think "it's ok that I'm 50 lbs overweight, all these guys are telling me how much they want me/love me and it makes me feel good". But there's no way they'd actually want to fuck the majority of these pathetic little supplicants. Hence, she dildos herself while dreaming o…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 04:16 PM
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My new motto has been to expect nothing, be prepared for anything. I throw a Listerine breath strip in if I think sex is at all close. Those are better than mouthwash. I also jump in the shower real quick when I get home from work every night to wash my undercarriage. My wife once complained about giving head because it was so close to my sweaty balls. Well, sweaty balls no longer.
/r/askMRP30/12/15 07:12 PM
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I don't know enough about your situation, but if she was pseudo-hiding texts right in front of you and giggling, she was probably fucking with you. If she was looking to really cheat, why would she be so obvious. She could have responded to ex in the bathroom, or after you left, etc if that's what was going on. My guess from this info is that it was a little active dread on her part, and she let your male hamster spin out of control. But you could always snoop her text/call history to be sure. T…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/15 07:43 PM
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Nerd question - what is the unit of measurement in your "length of marriage / 2" equation? Months?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/15 03:45 AM
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Quit being a butt-hurt little bitch and internalize the sidebar more. "You're bad in bed" is a shit test, and you failed with flying colors by acting butt hurt. Your RP mentality is wrong and you need to fix it or you will continue to fail these easy shit tests. Ex. "She can be a total shit testing harpy". Newsflash: They ALL can be and will be. AWALT. If you're thinking you'll find the special snowflake out there who won't shit test you then you haven't digested the pill. My wife shit tests the…
/r/askTRP23/12/15 11:07 PM
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It was more than the handshake. Bill apparently had a magnetic personality. It didn't matter what gender you were or your political beliefs. Apparently, if you ever met Bill, you could not help but love the guy even if you disagree with everything he stood for. The man had charm radiating from him. Not hard to see why if you really look. He had irrational confidence (but did not come off as arrogant), maintained eye contact, spoke in the same measured tone in an educated, intelligent fashion no …
/r/TheRedPill20/12/15 03:40 AM
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Given your name, I figured you would demand they tell you to cum on a doorknob...
/r/askTRP19/12/15 06:39 PM
2

With any lawyer, hiring the right one is key. Some female attorneys are woefully inept. Others are sharks, and I wouldn't worry about them playing OP for Team Girl. These women HATE spoiled, self-entitled little bitches more than you will understand. The feminist myth that all women are secret besties is a total lie (see also slut shaming). A female attorney might be what the doctor ordered for this.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 07:35 PM
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Thanks for your work. My wife did all sorts of shit when we were in college and I was in Law School (15 and 10 years ago, respectively) that she doesn't do anymore. Was hoping someone would put up specific pointers about how to get (back) to that phase beyond the general lift, game, and maintain frame. Can't wait to see the finished product.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/15 02:35 PM
1

The eye contact hold, with widenening grin, followed by chuckle, is good too. I learned that technique with my 2 1/2 year old daughter.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/15 03:25 AM
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Knock it off. There are a million other girls out there. She is not perfect. She is not the ONE. There is no one. Cut her out of your life and move on. And don't ever put yourself in the goddamn friend zone again. If you are interested in a girl and she dies not reciprocate, MOVE ON to the next, and the next.
/r/seduction27/11/15 02:52 AM
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My wife shit tests me during sex. I've been using a combo of agree & amplify plus banging her harder so she'll shut the fuck up. Working so far!
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 01:08 PM
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