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Social Issuesboomboxspence/r/MensRights23/04/23 06:48 PM
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Social Issuesboomboxspence/r/MensRights17/10/22 01:25 PM
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social issuesboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/23 09:34 AM
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discussionboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/23 07:57 PM
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sexualityboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/22 10:22 PM
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social issuesboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/23 01:11 PM
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Social Issuesboomboxspence/r/MensRights02/04/22 08:34 AM
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Social Issuesboomboxspence/r/MensRights11/06/22 06:45 AM
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Social Issuesboomboxspence/r/MensRights08/08/22 05:47 PM
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masculinityboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/11/22 12:15 PM
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masculinityboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/22 06:58 PM
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discussionboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/09/22 08:51 PM
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discussionboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/23 09:24 AM
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Social Issuesboomboxspence/r/MensRights08/02/22 02:23 PM
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discussionboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/23 10:39 PM
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masculinityboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/23 12:16 PM
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social issuesboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/22 12:32 PM
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Generalboomboxspence/r/MensRights13/10/22 04:03 PM
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Activism/Supportboomboxspence/r/MensRights23/09/22 05:57 PM
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sexualityboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/22 06:57 PM
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discussionboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/10/22 10:24 AM
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Social Issuesboomboxspence/r/MensRights10/12/22 10:02 AM
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discussionboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/22 06:22 AM
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Discriminationboomboxspence/r/MensRights28/06/22 11:24 PM
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masculinityboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/22 09:02 PM
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discussionboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/23 02:41 PM
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discussionboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/23 07:08 PM
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discussionboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/02/22 04:17 PM
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discussionboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/22 02:57 PM
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misandryboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/22 07:04 PM
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Generalboomboxspence/r/MensRights09/02/22 03:14 PM
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masculinityboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/22 09:45 PM
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Generalboomboxspence/r/MensRights21/05/22 02:26 PM
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news/opinion articleboomboxspence/r/EverydayMisandry14/06/22 01:49 PM
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discussionboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/22 11:56 AM
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Discriminationboomboxspence/r/MensRights25/02/23 07:25 AM
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Discussionboomboxspence/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:02 PM
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otherboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/09/22 10:30 PM
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Discriminationboomboxspence/r/MensRights25/02/23 07:13 AM
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articleboomboxspence/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/22 09:23 AM
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Marriage/Childrenboomboxspence/r/MensRights08/08/22 01:43 PM
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Discriminationboomboxspence/r/MensRights25/02/23 07:14 AM
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Generalboomboxspence/r/MensRights01/03/23 12:55 PM
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Anti-MRMboomboxspence/r/MensRights18/03/22 10:55 PM
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Ugly women are treated as average men. Attractive men are treated as average women
/r/MensRights26/04/23 11:48 AM
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We can change that though
/r/MensRights24/04/23 10:56 AM
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Incel violence is barely a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:29 AM
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Can you give example
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:33 PM
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Do I just ask out random girls? Sorry I'm not really getting this. What is a temperature and compliance test
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:32 PM
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Autism
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:30 PM
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How to ask a girl out? I don't know any girls really and I don't think they see me as a boyfriend potential
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:30 PM
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I dislike women who are rude to me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:29 PM
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Ok thank you. When do you ask her to be your girlfriend or escalate your relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:10 PM
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What kind of areas/circles do you mean? I never had a job before because I struggle with that stuff. How do you get to know girls? I only know if I like a girl if I'm friends with her and if I ask them out It will ruin it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:09 PM
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Autism. How do you talk to people in flirty way?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:07 PM
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I don't think I can just go up to a girl and say can you be my girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:07 PM
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I am autistic so I don't think I have a chance dating
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:11 PM
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I am autistic so I don't know how to date
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:10 PM
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Yes I am too nervous to ask someone out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 02:35 PM
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Why can't they just ask out onto a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:01 PM
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I have no experience with asking out and I'm too scared
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:44 PM
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Every man has a preference
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:48 AM
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They don't care about violence against men even though it affects men much more. Also saying it's illegal to threaten to disfigure women but I constantly see people talk about sexual mutilation of male genitals. They also call incels "male supremacists" which couldn't be further from the truth
/r/EverydayMisandry18/03/23 03:47 PM
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Lmao what?? Men care about women way more than they care about men. Men who like Andrew Tate are misandrists. Women abuse women. Men are also raped at a high percentage when you include MTP. Women have never been forced against their will to go to war, they don't have to sign away their life in order to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 09:07 PM
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Empathy gap. Women have in group bias, men have out group bias. The draft. Women receive more help and men are assumed to not need help. There is literally so much. Men have been treated worse throughout history
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 08:04 AM
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Exactly. It's honestly hard to be ugly as a woman at this point. But also men have the expectations of being good looking too and a protector and the provider and the "leader". Yes many house holds have two sources of income but the EXPECTATION is on the man, not the woman. If you're a man you're expected to have a good job, a car, your own house, etc. For women it's just: don't be ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:20 PM
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Masculinity shouldn't matter. Free yourself from the chains and be yourself
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/23 08:08 PM
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So many likes as well
/r/MensRights25/02/23 07:18 AM
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I feel the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 08:47 PM
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If you take a woman's face and put it on a man's body, you won't find it attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:10 PM
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I'm so confused. Do I become friends with a girl first or just go up to a girl and tell her I like her? Both sound really awkward but I can't tell if I like a girl just by how she looks. I need to be friends first so I actually get to know her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:05 PM
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That's a shame because I'm not masculine at all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 06:03 PM
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How are you supposed to make intentions clear? What if you're unsure of intentions and want to get to know them? Isn't it creepy to just tell someone you wanna date them and that will put them off?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:28 AM
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This study shows that men who have a sense of personal deprivation such as feeling alienated or rejected are more likely to be sexist towards women. Same with men who feel like they have no control. What are your thoughts on this? I think you could say a similar thing with women. Women who have bad experiences with men are more likely to hate men. I think the reason men might feel this way is because of the pressure for men to provide, attract women and so on. There aren't expectations on women …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/23 02:45 PM
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Being against feminism will now be outlawed then
/r/MensRights04/02/23 10:58 AM
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I'm already a 5'2 autistic trans guy so just give me the money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 11:06 PM
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Women can't be incels because they will always be desired.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 02:35 PM
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If women are vulnerable maybe they should have more muscle? Men have more muscle because they do harder more physical jobs and work and it's in testosterone. Men don't exist for women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:18 PM
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That's stupid. And men don't exist to just protect women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:11 AM
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I cant get a relationship because I don't understand how to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:05 PM
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Women can tell who's gonna be a good father by how tall he is?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:02 PM
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Even if you find it funny, other men still can feel ashamed for it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:21 PM
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It's still wrong for other men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:11 PM
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No it is misandrist stereotypes and men don't exist for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:09 PM
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But it's only ever used as an insult against men. I don't think people should be shamed for this stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:53 PM
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You shouldn't use it as an insult though. A man's worth shouldn't revolve around women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:52 PM
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What?
/r/MensRights01/02/23 09:19 AM
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I don't want a traditional woman because traditional male roles are not for me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:01 AM
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But women don't have to do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:19 AM
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Yeah but many autistic people struggle with employment and work
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 10:31 PM
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I wish that was one of my problems lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:31 AM
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Men don't owe women protection
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/23 09:46 PM

They're not ugly or femcels. They're just insecure losers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:33 PM

I'm a trans man and was an ugly girl but guys still talking to me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:32 PM
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I was talking about traditional conservatives who think men have to be a certain way or will be homophobic to gay men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/23 07:49 AM
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Feminism has always been bad for men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/23 04:39 PM
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It isn't toxic masculinity, it's just misandry
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/23 07:06 PM
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This isn't really related but stuff like this can also lead to compulsory heterosexuality in men. Many gay men might identify as bi or straight because they feel the pressure of having sex with women and being with women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/01/23 08:13 AM
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Men with certain body types should be able to act however they want. Using "small dick energy" reinforces the idea that men with that body type need to act a certain way. I've also seen people saying that a short man who's confident is acting like he's 6'2... Whatever that means. You can be confident and short or while having a small penis
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/22 04:17 PM
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Yeah. It's so toxic to reinforce stereotypes about how someone should act because of their body. If you say men who are a certain way should act a certain way, then men with that body might think they need to stay that way. For example, staying quiet and meek if you're short or have a small penis. Men aren't less of a man for having a certain appearance
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/22 04:15 PM
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They don't have to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:01 PM
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Idk but I don't want a girl with a high body count
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:48 PM
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What
/r/AntiFeminists15/12/22 02:42 PM
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They call everyone an încel because they see men not having sex as a bad thing
/r/AntiFeminists14/12/22 07:52 PM
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No girls have interest in me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 08:23 AM
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What does this mean? Will it help gay men or single men?
/r/MensRights13/12/22 12:53 PM
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Women should change their standards if they're shallow. Don't don't have the option to have standards. Women can just exist, be extremely mentally ill, have no job and nothing to offer and can still easily get a boyfriend. Men have to have so much just for a woman to glance in their direction. What about disabled men? It isn't fair if mens value is based on certain things while women have value for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:17 PM
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I don't have the option to have that mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:49 PM
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What about trans women? She won't let them in bc of transphobia and misandry
/r/MensRights12/12/22 02:49 PM
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This proves that she and her transphobia has always been rooted in misandry. We should support trans women, they face the same stereotypes as men. They're seen as dangers to women for just existing. Misandry can have serious affects
/r/MensRights12/12/22 02:48 PM
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They banned me from there and said if I get upset if someone's ableist to me bc I'm autistic, it's my fault bc I'm just insecure lmao
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/12/22 09:26 PM
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Women are biphobic to bisexual men for the same reason many men want a girl with low body count: they think having sex with men dirties them. If a girl has a large body count but only with girls, it's fine. Same with guys. But if a guy has sex with a man its seen as gross and dirty
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 11:37 PM
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Gay men can't have anything for themselves
/r/MensRights10/12/22 09:57 AM
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Isn't there also a pay gap for short men?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/12/22 05:49 PM
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If anything, it's the opposite. Men know that they don't get much value so maybe some men might act out more to try and actually get attention because men don't get much
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/22 09:44 AM
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Me too tbh... That's why I asked in the first place. Kinda sad
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/11/22 08:09 PM
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And there is nothing wrong with incels in the first place
/r/MensRights27/11/22 07:54 AM
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Why
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/11/22 01:25 PM
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I think that it's not random mens responsibility to do this. If we should educate men about anything, it should be that men need to treat EACHOTHER better. Men don't value eachother enough or support eachother enough. For example, you see tradcons claiming they care about men and how women always say men are rapists, bad, etc but then they call gay men groomers and make fun of incels or other men who don't fit their standard of "what a man should be". Men should value eachother for just existing…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/11/22 08:11 PM
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He tells men they need to do certain stuff to be a man, men use depression as an excuse, it's mens role to protect women
/r/MensRights18/11/22 12:44 PM
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Andrew Tate is misandrist
/r/MensRights18/11/22 11:02 AM
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Incels don't advocate for that
/r/MensRights13/11/22 02:40 PM
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How about if YOU don't want kids, YOU take responsibility for that. Male or female
/r/MensRights09/11/22 07:28 PM
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They're more accepted than gay men. Do you see how many hate crimes against gay men they are? All the slurs and jokes against gay men? There's not much about lesbians
/r/MensRights04/11/22 08:11 PM
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The "mra Incel neckbeard" is just misandry. It's showing they don't value a man unless he is successful
/r/MensRights04/11/22 06:03 PM
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Nah. Lesbians are much more widely accepting and vast majority of homophobic jokes and hate crimes are specifically against men.
/r/MensRights02/11/22 08:39 PM
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No it's not. Men face more than women do in the west and even in other places they're still treated like shit because of their gender. Men don't have it easy in any way, especially men of colour and queer men. Misandry is never justified
/r/MensRights02/11/22 08:39 PM
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Oh I see you and I see your page. You can't say misandry doesn't exist if you believe in homophobia and transphobia, racism. They're all intertwined. You're just a man hating feminist who created this account to just hate men, kinda sad honestly
/r/MensRights02/11/22 07:15 PM
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Homophobia against women isn't as common
/r/MensRights02/11/22 07:14 PM
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Explain
/r/MensRights02/11/22 07:10 PM
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You can't change many things and even if you improve you can still be lonely
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/10/22 10:03 AM
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Even if men do take responsibility for themselves and don't give up, it might not happen. It's normal to feel frustrated in these situations
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/10/22 08:48 AM
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But what if you can't change? Joining a club and stuff won't do anything
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/10/22 08:46 AM
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I'm not fighting in any war
/r/MensRights21/10/22 07:05 PM
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I understand what you're talking about and that kinda stuff is just disgusting. Those "MRAs" that say that are just as bad as any other misandrist. The reason feminism isn't as good is because they take gay men suffering and use it just for their movement and make it about women and they still make homophobic jokes when they're rooted in misandry such as inferring a man is gay because he's not as masculine or because he rejects a woman or just to insult someone (like Andrew Tate). Any true mra w…
/r/MensRights20/10/22 06:35 AM
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How is it strawman? You say women fetishise gay men like that's gay men's problem. If men wanna have sex with eachother just let them? It's none of your business. A lot of gay men aren't submissive and there's nothing wrong with being submissive anyways. Please actually explain how you can't be gay and an MRA? Being gay doesn't mean you're misandrist or against mens rights or anything... It just means you're attracted to the same gender. Two men loving eachother isn't the same as an adult taking…
/r/MensRights19/10/22 09:36 PM
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What are you even on about? Not every gay man is promiscuous just like not all women are. They're both stereotypes. The women who fetishise gay men are disgusting but gay men don't exist solely because of them. The misandrist feminist gay men are also in the wrong but the reason they go to feminism is because they feel more accepted over there. How can't you be both mra and gay? Also you can't compare child predators to gay men.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 08:15 PM
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Yeah that's true. But I think that one reason for this is because of how much feminism and women speak about gay rights (even if they blame homophobia on misogyny and make it about themselves) so that can seem attractive to gay men. I think mens rights should be more vocal about gay men's problems without people saying "what about straight men?" And I also think those gay men shouldn't be misandrist.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 11:37 AM
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Yeah that's messed up. I wish men could support eachother more
/r/MensRights18/10/22 11:21 AM
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Yeah that's messed up that they said that. And the way they make homophobia about misogyny when it isn't and they imply that gay men (and straight men) objectify the gender they're attracted to which is misandrist and also homophobic in itself. Those types of women love to make problems that affect men all about themselves.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 11:19 AM
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I think it's a bit homophobic to not support them raising kids
/r/MensRights18/10/22 07:07 AM
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There's nothing wrong with not being manly but I think homophobia is just wrong
/r/MensRights18/10/22 07:06 AM
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Mens rights advocate
/r/MensRights18/10/22 07:06 AM
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Just in general. You see some guys talking about mens rights but are homophobic
/r/MensRights18/10/22 07:05 AM
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I know that most aren't but some people claim to be MRAs but don't support gay men. Just look at some of these comments
/r/MensRights18/10/22 07:04 AM
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I like r/leftwingmaleadvocates a lot more
/r/MensRights17/10/22 07:54 PM
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Anyone can spread STDs.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 07:52 PM
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How
/r/MensRights17/10/22 06:12 PM
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Homophobia definition -dislike of or prejudice against gay people. Don't hate on gay men. They're men just like us
/r/MensRights17/10/22 06:06 PM
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You shouldn't find people disgusting and you shouldn't think gay men are less manly or anything like that
/r/MensRights17/10/22 06:05 PM
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This subreddit is kinda all over the place. There are better subreddits for mens rights
/r/MensRights17/10/22 06:03 PM
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There are a few in these comments sadly. Well they claim to be MRAs but I doubt they really are
/r/MensRights17/10/22 06:01 PM
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Are you disgusted by lesbians in the same way you're disgusted by gay men?
/r/MensRights17/10/22 06:00 PM
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Human trafficking is completely different. You can't compare them. People being gay is their own business. You might not like it but don't discriminate or be prejudice, they're men too and so deserve our respect and support
/r/MensRights17/10/22 03:52 PM
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Yeah that's what I'm talking about. And I think gay and bi men should be more accepting towards mens rights as it affects them as much
/r/MensRights17/10/22 03:50 PM
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Yeah I don't think there's homophobia of here specifically but there are lots of men who will say they care about mens rights and then be homophobic. Or they'll talk about how mens mental health isn't taken seriously (which I obviously agree with) but then go ahead and bring down other men for whatever reason.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 03:41 PM
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Yeah that's why I think we should be more open to gay/bi men
/r/MensRights17/10/22 03:39 PM
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Yes this can definitely go both ways. I think gay/bi men should be more accepting to talking about mens issues because it affects them too
/r/MensRights17/10/22 03:38 PM
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The term "neckbeard" is a sexist gendered insults. They make fun of men they don't see as being the way a man should be. Usually they're men who are unemployed and living with their parents (and there can be many reasons someone's like this such as disability) and they're ugly and can't get a girlfriend. Really shows their perception on men and how they think of men who aren't the super successful types. They base mens value of their success. The attributes of "neckbeards" usually come from auti…
/r/MensRights17/10/22 01:18 PM
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I think there are more gay/bi men who might just be closeted. There's lots and lots more homophobia and stigma around gay/bi men and they're seen as a burden on their family or "not a real man". You barely see women be insulted for "acting too lesbian" but you see men get called gay, "fruity", etc. for not being the ideal man. It's sad. We as men should support all kinds of men. Also many bi men might just identify as straight because of the stigma and many girls shame bi men and say they wouldn…
/r/MensRights16/10/22 06:32 PM
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There have been hundreds of men dying for women in Iran because of the protests. She seems angry for some reason
/r/MensRights16/10/22 06:25 PM
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Well we shouldn't value women over men just because they're women.
/r/MensRights15/10/22 09:27 AM
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I think it's mostly a joke and it's because of how he acts
/r/MensRights14/10/22 12:10 PM
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When women get killed in films people say it's romanticising violence against women
/r/MensRights14/10/22 12:09 PM
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Getting penis bitten off is gendered
/r/MensRights13/10/22 09:11 PM
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Because men don't owe women anything
/r/AntiFeminists11/10/22 08:56 PM
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Well I still do face misandry because I'm seen as a man. But I don't face stuff that only cis men face
/r/MensRights11/10/22 06:14 PM
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Obviously I don't know what it's like being a cis man but I understand other aspects
/r/MensRights11/10/22 07:25 AM
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They just want to shame virgin men for not fitting into the role assigned to what a man should be. Which further isolated virgin men and pushed them to those forums. I wouldn't be surprised if they were actually more misogynistic because of how they're treated and how their worth is based on whether they can attract women and what they can provide for them
/r/MensRights07/10/22 12:14 PM
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I've seen women say they wouldn't help men and I wouldn't expect women to help men who are being attacked. Yeah maybe call 911 or something but getting involved can be dangerous especially if you don't really know what you are doing
/r/MensRights06/10/22 06:01 AM
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There are also more men being murdered in Iran
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/22 10:50 AM
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Yet the men who died for women won't get Protests or the other many men who have faced violence because violence against men is the norm, it's nothing surprising
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/22 06:11 PM
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Where are the protests for the men who died
/r/MensRights26/09/22 06:31 PM
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Men always have to pay for it
/r/MensRights26/09/22 06:31 PM
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People don't care about the men dying. Where's their protests?
/r/MensRights24/09/22 01:52 PM
18

What about the women who use men for money
/r/MensRights24/09/22 09:08 AM
13

Misandry always kills. Look at the victims of wars. Look at the men, especially men of colour who are killed by police. Look at the amount of men who have been murdered compared to women. Look at all the gay men who have been killed. People kill trans women because of both transphobia AND misandry. Violence against men is so common but it's ignored because it's the norm
/r/MensRights24/09/22 09:06 AM
3

We still need to do something about this though. I don't like to just sit around knowing I can't do anything to stop it or even bring attention to it. George Floyd got a lot of attention but that was mostly because he was black and people still ignored how police brutality affects men more, especially men of colour.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 09:14 PM
5

Why shouldn't it? We could at least try and if they shut us down that just gives us more of a reason.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 08:52 PM
2

Of course she mentions genitals
/r/AntiFeminists23/09/22 05:46 PM
5

The people hating it aren't even Incels. They don't even know what that really means I bet. They just want to shame men for how much sex they get.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/22 10:26 AM
45

Many of the men oppose the war. https://www.theguardian.com/world/2022/sep/22/my-heart-sank-with-news-of-draft-russians-flee-in-droves They're issuing a draft and mens lives should be worth protecting. Stuff like this makes me really sad.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/22 10:22 AM
2

I basically did this but permanently, I am a trans man. Don't get me wrong I'm happier with my body now but being a man is quite an isolating, dehumanising experience.
/r/MensRights22/09/22 01:28 PM
3

"Go out alone at night" hah funny since men are much more likely to be victims of stranger violence
/r/MensRights22/09/22 01:27 PM
6

The reason some women will be disrespected is because of how they act
/r/AntiFeminists21/09/22 06:51 AM
5

I guess it's not the same because when men are abused by women they get no support! In fact they're more likely to be arrested than the woman abusing them
/r/MensRights18/09/22 04:21 PM
21

Yeah I hate both parts equally because I'm a trans man. But people shouldn't let their misandry slide. Most of their transphobia actually comes from misandry in my opinion
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/09/22 06:35 AM
7

Thank you. He is a good dad
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/22 07:18 PM
5

He worked a lot and worked night shifts in a hospital and slept most of the day so I didn't see him that much.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/22 03:04 PM
22

I'm a trans man but before I came out as trans, my mum would constantly talk about how she hates men, joked about neglecting her son if she ever had one, said she doesn't really care when men get killed, raped, abused, etc. Growing up as a closeted trans guy, these things hurt to hear but it's what led me to be interested in mens rights. I still love my mum though
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/22 03:00 PM
13

Whereas every insult towards a man on this site is directed towards their masculinity. I also see so many people wishing rape on a man who might have done something wrong. Also alot of homophobic jokes have lots of misandry entwined in it.
/r/MensRights03/09/22 07:43 PM
7

Yes. Men treat other men terribly most of the time because they have a bias towards women. And a lot of men dehumanise other men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/22 08:15 AM
4

Men are more likely to be killed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/22 08:37 PM
5

Another reason why men aren't taken seriously when raped by a woman is because, mens worth is based of how many women they can "get". So getting more women as a man makes you "more of a man" even if it was rape unfortunately , That's how many see it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/22 09:46 AM
4

Yeah but that seems more feminist
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/22 09:55 PM
54

This is so true and annoying. Whenever a man talks about this, they're usually straight up gaslit because they think those men are supposed to just shut up and deal with it and never speak about it. But then people will say that the reason men can't get into relationships is because they don't show enough emotions or vulnerability. They don't care about men. Male sexuality is demonised
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/22 09:41 PM
10

But Andrew Tate still makes fun of men who aren't "alpha"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/22 06:48 PM
6

Many women can't even live up to those standards. They don't communicate, they just ghost you or throw tantrums
/r/MensRights14/08/22 01:24 PM
1

Mysterious skin is a really good but sad movie.
/r/MensRights13/08/22 11:39 AM
1

Just because it's come out that Johnny Depp did some shitty stuff too, doesn't mean amber is suddenly innocent
/r/AntiFeminists11/08/22 06:08 PM
20

Yeah that's true
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/22 11:02 PM
4

They often claim it's "femmephobia" which doesn't make sense. Femmephobia doesn't exist. Cis women aren't discriminated for acting feminine. Gay men do because of homophobia and misandry
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/22 10:14 PM
10

Sad but true. It shouldn't be though
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/22 08:11 PM
6

If anything they should be taught to support other boys because men are usually more violent to eachother but we need to support eachother instead
/r/MensRights03/08/22 03:34 PM
41

I think she sees all men as one. A lot of women, when they talk about men, they only actually are talking about the men on the top
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/22 09:22 PM
1

Why do people have to try and emasculate men all the time I thought something like this would be toxic masculinity
/r/MensRights02/08/22 09:43 AM
2

There is difference between feminists and people who want equality. People who only identify as feminist are sexist because of blaming patriarchy and toxic masculinity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/22 07:52 PM
4

I don't think it's entitlement, they simply just want it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/22 02:43 PM
1

There are some biological stuff but even then, not every man will do those things and they shouldn't be shamed
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/22 10:54 AM
2

Because men are expected to compete for women and men who attract more women are seen as more of a man
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/22 10:26 AM
1

Most aren't bad
/r/AntiFeminists31/07/22 10:08 AM
1

I agree that they're toxic but it's not because of lack of masculinity or weakness. And there's nothing wrong with feeling angry
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/22 07:13 AM
62

People like Andrew Tate are NOT incels. Being an incel and being a misogynist is completely different. They just like to use incel as an insult because to them, men not being able to have sex is seen as an insult which is literally proving what incels have been saying
/r/AntiFeminists29/07/22 09:25 PM
7

Incel tears are misandrist. Making fun of men for not being able to attract a partner is misandrist
/r/AntiFeminists27/07/22 01:20 PM
6

Yeah but I also think that when it comes to an individual man's masculinity, no one, male or female, should comment on it
/r/AntiFeminists24/07/22 05:38 PM
1

No. Men don't have to be masculine. Theres nothing wrong with not being masculine. Some people are just bad people, it's got nothing to do with masculinity.
/r/AntiFeminists21/07/22 07:52 PM
3

The reason women date ugly men is probably because those men actually have something to offer other than looks. Also they prove InceIs right so many times in this lmaooo
/r/AntiFeminists15/07/22 09:17 PM
8

"no bitches" is misandrist in my opinion
/r/AntiFeminists14/07/22 08:41 PM
3

Thank you for the advice
/r/MensRights14/07/22 08:59 AM
5

What if you are lonely
/r/MensRights13/07/22 09:56 PM
2

Why does big dick = good and small dick = bad then???
/r/MensRights13/07/22 12:22 PM
6

Literally worse than Incels. Incels might say bad stuff on the internet but it mostly doesn't translate into real life like this
/r/MensRights08/07/22 09:33 AM
9

These men feel left out and like they're falling behind. We are progressing so much with new technological advancements, political and social movements that many people (especially men) are drifting behind which can lead to feelings of alienation which leads to anger, frustration and eventually violence.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/22 10:31 AM
7

Targeting his genitalia shows that it is misandrist, otherwise she could have harmed anywhere else
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/22 09:16 AM
0

crickets
/r/MensRights06/07/22 11:36 AM
10

Boys with autism almost always grow up feeling ostracized because they're different and they don't have the support that girls have.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/22 07:12 AM
4

Men are more likely to die
/r/AntiFeminists30/06/22 05:51 AM
2

How has it got anything to do with masculinity
/r/MensRights29/06/22 06:05 PM
5

But that doesn't change that it's sexist and partly the reason why make victims aren't taken seriously
/r/MensRights29/06/22 05:52 AM
1

?
/r/MensRights28/06/22 10:35 AM
24

If a trans woman isn't passing well, she's seen as a gross perverted male who just wants to hurt women and for trans men it's a "poor oppressed woman who just wants to escape the patriarchy"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/22 04:02 PM
6

Most of the time, having sex is a choice so if they don't want to risk that, just don't have sex
/r/MensRights26/06/22 09:58 AM
15

support men and don't immediately dismiss their issues, sometimes men just want to be listened to and not given the exact same advice over and over again, don't bring other men down (especially for the man's sense of masculinity), don't overly compete and instead just work together.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/22 02:06 PM
25

Personally, I feel a lot worse now that I'm a man. I'm happy that I pass more but it still feels weird because I still have a feminine body which people always judge me on. But everything else has made my mental health a lot worse
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/22 11:41 AM
20

I feel the same way. At my old school before I transitioned, people felt sorry for me because I'm quiet. They just thought I'm cute, shy or mysterious but now people think I'm the "weird kid"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/22 11:40 AM
1

This stuff happens constantly with men.
/r/AntiFeminists22/06/22 07:03 PM
115

My mum said to me that she doesn't care when men get raped, abused, killed, tortured, etc. Which is a pretty weird thing to say to your own son. People who think like this are simply just misandrist. I'm sorry for what happened to your friend and that your mum said that
/r/MensRights20/06/22 02:02 PM
3

I am transgender and I recognise what's going on with men and I think most of my problems come from misandry rather than transphobia
/r/MensRights20/06/22 08:18 AM
2

I think it's got more to do with mental health. If they think masculinity is the problem, maybe help young men who feel lonely, bullied and ostracized
/r/MensRights19/06/22 07:59 AM
12

It's not easy for average men to be picky, most of us don't have that option
/r/MensRights19/06/22 06:51 AM
12

The girls in my class have said that a few times, even to the teacher and he laughed. But I still have girls who just openly talk disgustingly about men and it got so bad that I had to drop out of a class one time
/r/MensRights19/06/22 06:14 AM
21

It's normal to be upset but they don't get a chance because everytime they try to vent they get shut done and get told to get over it. If they're bullied their entire life and depressed and ostracized from everyone else, they deserve a community where they can openly discuss their feelings. Maybe to outsiders they're "bitching" but they face real struggles and they finally find a place that's safe enough to talk about it without being gaslit or invalidated. They don't have anything good going fo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/06/22 07:06 PM
1

Men don't really care about how much money his partner is making
/r/MensRights18/06/22 08:46 AM
3

No one is worthless. But they only want to call men that. They're so blinded by their hatred for men that they don't see that what you say makes sense
/r/AntiFeminists16/06/22 10:24 PM
4

I saw this on r/interestingasfuck and the title was "Marriage advice for young ladies from a suffragette, 1918. The pamphlet is on display the Pontypridd Museum in Wales.". I think that it's sexist personally and also pretty dehumanising, especially if you consider the other terrible things that suffragettes have done. They have always been sexist, classist and racist and have done many other bad stuff. The comments on the original post were defending it, saying that it's still needed for today …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/22 12:45 PM
1

This doesn't make sense. Even if I'm not guilty, I'm still gonna take offense. When someone says "black people are criminals" , I'm sure black people don't think "well I'm not a criminal, I'm one of the good ones so I'll just support them and their struggles" No because it's racist. It's the same thing here.
/r/MensRights14/06/22 07:29 AM
1

And then men will start to react which they won't like
/r/AntiFeminists13/06/22 07:40 PM
11

Most of the time a woman kills a husband people say it's because he abused her but it's usually also mutual abuse. Same when a man kills his wife they call him abusive and don't think about how maybe she abused him
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/22 12:35 PM
14

Both but mostly misandrist
/r/AntiFeminists09/06/22 11:29 AM
2

Both the left and right hate men
/r/MensRights08/06/22 10:28 PM
16

Most of the times, the wife was also probably abusive since abuse usually goes both ways
/r/MensRights08/06/22 10:09 PM
76

Saying stuff like "patriarchy" and "toxic masculinity" is misandry though
/r/MensRights08/06/22 08:26 PM
0

Yeah, I think it's disgusting to base a man's worth on whether women find him attractive or not
/r/MensRights08/06/22 05:58 PM
3

Yeah, I think it's disgusting to base a man's worth on whether women find him attractive or not
/r/MensRights08/06/22 05:58 PM
1

Yeah but InceIs themselves aren't bad but they think they are which is why they use as an insult and also because they seem to love virgin shaming
/r/MensRights08/06/22 05:49 PM
1

Yeah but InceIs themselves aren't bad but they think they are which is why they use as an insult and also because they seem to love virgin shaming
/r/MensRights08/06/22 05:49 PM
1

What do you mean
/r/MensRights08/06/22 05:37 PM
0

What do you mean
/r/MensRights08/06/22 05:37 PM
10

Incels are misunderstood
/r/MensRights08/06/22 09:44 AM
1

It's so dehumanising
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/22 07:58 AM
8

Women automatically get sympathy
/r/AntiFeminists06/06/22 10:15 PM
1

If you don't want to have disabled kids or won't be able to fully support your kids, don't have kids. If you're for bodily autonomy, it should be for everyone. Why don't women who don't want kids get tubes tied.
/r/AntiFeminists06/06/22 07:07 AM
2

They just say that to brush the issue aside
/r/MensRights05/06/22 09:32 PM
14

I don't think a woman would get punched, especially if she wasn't being rude
/r/AntiFeminists05/06/22 01:38 PM
15

Tbh, it's ironic that they say trans rights and then say they'll cut off peoples balls. I find that quite inappropriate especially with all the forced sterilisation of trans people. You could say it's even transphobic. Also getting a vasectomy is completely different to banning abortion. Vasectomies affect every male, banning abortion only affects females who have sex and get pregnant despite not wanting kids, which is your own choice
/r/AntiFeminists05/06/22 08:28 AM
2

You get taught in school that's it's rare to be taped while just walking down the street and murder affects men alot more, as well as most violent crimes
/r/AntiFeminists04/06/22 10:09 PM
25

Yeah she sounds abusive tbh
/r/AntiFeminists04/06/22 03:06 PM
6

I don't know how she's married and how that man hasn't divorced that insufferable woman. Men need to stick together
/r/AntiFeminists04/06/22 03:02 PM
7

I'm not right wing or lib but this is still gross
/r/AntiFeminists04/06/22 02:50 PM
2

Incels arent actually bad
/r/MensRights01/06/22 07:28 PM
2

I don't hardly ever see misogyny on here. If anyone criticises women slightly, they're instantly shut down
/r/MensRights31/05/22 09:39 PM
24

Most of the time they don't actually hate women and most of the time it's mostly males who are killed.
/r/AntiFeminists30/05/22 05:33 PM
3

Im also a trans man and have a similar experience to that person. Girls always talk badly about men and say "it's different for you because you're trans" which is actually pretty transphobic too. The men that I'm friends with have never made negative comments about women
/r/AntiFeminists30/05/22 03:06 PM
2

Everyone's definition of masculinity is different and I think it's hard to define. I don't think men should have to be a certain way, that's all
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/22 09:08 AM
5

I don't think men need to be masculine but it's good if they are, and good if they aren't as masculine
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/22 09:46 AM
5

And they say it's only other men who make fun of men for showing emotions
/r/AntiFeminists28/05/22 07:54 AM
3

Im just worried about men that don't want kids but won't get the option to abort or men who do want a child but their partner aborts it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/22 11:30 AM
7

Neither are that bad
/r/AntiFeminists23/05/22 09:12 PM
5

Incels arent bad
/r/AntiFeminists23/05/22 07:10 PM
7

Not everyone who is against feminism is an incel and most incel don't actually even hate women
/r/AntiFeminists22/05/22 10:55 AM
7

Yeah but many women are attracted to masculine men and saying "this is what women want, not this!!" Is pretty rude because men should be able to do what they want
/r/AntiFeminists21/05/22 12:44 PM
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If men wanna be masculine and work out to get super muscular, let them. They don't do it for women
/r/AntiFeminists21/05/22 07:41 AM
8

They are all voluntarily celibate
/r/MensRights17/05/22 09:20 PM
3

They hate mentally ill male virgins obviously and have no empathy for them but they also want to act like mens rights activists and incels are similar, some incels are mras but not all mras are incels. There's nothing wrong with being an incel
/r/MensRights14/05/22 04:19 PM
1

No don't say that. Sometimes it can be sexual harassment
/r/MensRights14/05/22 04:16 PM
4

It depends on the context. If it's sexual, it's sexual harassment
/r/MensRights14/05/22 04:15 PM
2

This is disgusting and just as bad as the men that cat call. I'm curious in which ways they will cat call. Will it be "you look hot/handsome" or some sexual comment? I don't mind the first but the second is sexual harassment and it's disgusting if they do the second one
/r/MensRights14/05/22 04:15 PM
1

What about the men who've had their baby killed due to abortion?
/r/MensRights10/05/22 12:32 PM
3

Yeah but people assume it's always based on gender
/r/MensRights07/05/22 07:28 AM
10

Incels aren't actually even that bad
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/22 04:29 AM
6

Why do they need to get therapy for not liking their height but women who get boob jobs don't need therapy?
/r/MensRights01/05/22 02:58 PM
6

Why do they need to get therapy for not liking their height but women who get boob jobs don't need therapy?
/r/MensRights01/05/22 02:58 PM
2

And they say only men are violent when they get told no
/r/MensRights30/04/22 06:17 AM
3

Not caring about incels feelings is exactly why incels happen in the first place
/r/MensRights28/04/22 03:22 PM
19

Many forms of violence against men aren't taken seriously
/r/MensRights28/04/22 07:55 AM
15

They think everything is incel
/r/AntiFeminists27/04/22 11:59 AM
6

So we shouldn't empathise with women's struggle
/r/AntiFeminists26/04/22 06:25 PM
6

I feel like a lot of this is sad for the boys room young boys are sexualised a lot in terms of people just expecting them to be obsessed with sex. It paints the idea in their head that they're only "man enough" if they can "get" sex, like it's an achievement and I feel like it's one of the reasons boys seem to make a lot of sexual comments
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/22 09:48 AM
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If there are no men working at the club then it's good BC women sexually harass men who work at clubs all the time
/r/MensRights19/04/22 06:54 PM
3

Not all of them are bad, most aren't and most just say stuff out af frustration and don't actually mean it
/r/MensRights18/04/22 09:28 PM
4

That doesn't mean every incel is bad
/r/MensRights18/04/22 08:04 PM
4

It isn't a subreddit
/r/MensRights18/04/22 05:09 PM
1

I am but I don't know what would help
/r/MensRights18/04/22 10:16 AM
3

Why
/r/MensRights18/04/22 10:12 AM
25

Doesn't it also make it hard for men who struggle with money and work to get a partner too? Especially if they're rejected and seen as less worthy because of their income, it can damage their mental health
/r/MensRights18/04/22 09:59 AM
2

And on that forum they only take the worst or make it look worse than it actually is and a lot of the posts are trolls
/r/MensRights18/04/22 09:44 AM
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They label anything as incel. This makes it so people think the main issue of incels is misogyny not lonely men being ostracised
/r/MensRights17/04/22 05:53 PM
6

Or that you have an abusive wife
/r/AntiFeminists17/04/22 08:16 AM
12

Making small sexist comments ≠ incel
/r/MensRights16/04/22 05:02 PM
8

Half of that stuff has nothing to do with inceldom at all.
/r/MensRights16/04/22 05:02 PM
12

I think the main issue is incels mental health not so much that some of them make mean comments about people on the internet
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/22 09:09 AM
19

That's just disgusting. R4pe is never a good punishment. But for some reason people think it's ok for men to get r4pes because they don't see it as tragic and traumatic but humiliating and emasculating. I see this all the time with the "don't drop the soap" jokes
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/22 06:36 AM
3

Isn't that what a lot of women do when they abuse men
/r/AntiFeminists06/04/22 07:30 AM
1

But if that's a grown woman wanting to have sex with a 16 year old, she's a creep
/r/MensRights06/04/22 03:36 AM
2

I don't think women should get away with taking advantage of young boys
/r/MensRights05/04/22 07:08 AM
2

Because women can easily take advantage of that
/r/MensRights04/04/22 10:06 AM
6

I'm also trans and transitioning has been like a "culture shock" but for gender. It's hard but you get used to it
/r/MensRights04/04/22 06:38 AM
23

Yeah I agree. I think people say "just be confident" is a way of telling men to shut up and get over it. I never hear people say that to women, they don't get told they need to change but that other people need to change for them because they're perfect the way they are. It annoys me because I am a very shy guy who barely even speaks
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/22 05:29 PM
2

Which is proving my point
/r/MensRights03/04/22 04:34 PM
3

That's sad
/r/MensRights03/04/22 06:06 AM
21

Would a woman help a man being abused or harassed? Probably not. Why are men expected to risk their lives for women?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/03/22 04:27 PM
17

Using it as an insult literally creates more incels
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/22 05:54 PM
14

That topic could be used to start an important conversation about difficulties autistic men face in sex and relationships but instead they demonise autistic men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/22 10:34 PM
6

Feminists
/r/MensRights18/03/22 11:37 PM
14

Yeah and because being a provider is traditionally what women look for in men and so it's saying you're unattractive to women which a lot of insults towards men do
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/22 08:02 AM
1

I see it in my class
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/22 10:20 PM
14

Yeah misandry needs to be treated like misogyny
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/22 07:32 PM
6

Yeah that's true but I can't edit the title now
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/22 07:23 PM
2

I understand what you're saying about animals but it's not for me
/r/MensRights15/03/22 01:03 PM
1

I'm questioning
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/22 09:03 PM
1

This is BC men are taught they should always strive for sex, it makes them "more of a man". It's also why men who don't have sex are shamed
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/22 11:00 PM
22

How do they know women are murdered just BC they're women? Or do they just assume that
/r/AntiFeminists13/03/22 10:22 AM
2

I think in the west it's men and other less developed countries it's both just as hard maybe a bit more women
/r/AntiFeminists12/03/22 01:38 AM
1

On the last one, what does it mean by second person?? If it's talking about a wife, I don't think she should be considered the second person
/r/MensRights10/03/22 12:15 AM
4

I hate it. Women aren't likely to be raped when they go out on the street at night, it's much more likely to happen indoors by someone you know. I hate when they act like it's so much more dangerous for women when most men would run to protect a woman if she needed help, maybe not so much if it were a man. Also men are much more likely to be victims of stranger violence. I see videos and people hanging out at night on tiktok and I see comments say "I would do that but I'm a woman" as if they're …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/22 05:52 PM
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Women and men are abused at practically even rates. They're both sexism
/r/MensRights08/03/22 01:40 PM
11

Toxic masculinity blames men. Toxic masculinity is just toxic attitudes towards masculinity and that's just misandry. We call toxic attitudes towards feminity "misogyny" so why don't we call "toxic masculinity" what it actually is, misandry.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 08:08 AM
14

I'm happy that I've been seeing people with this kinda view. But I personally don't have a problem with mgtow
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/03/22 11:26 PM
21

I've never seen average men being fawned over by women but I've seen "4/10" women fawned over by men. Men literally pay all kinds of women money just to speak with them
/r/MensRights03/03/22 02:01 PM
1

This happened with my parents
/r/AntiFeminists03/03/22 01:46 PM
2

Women think it's cool and empowering to drain mens money
/r/AntiFeminists03/03/22 01:38 PM
20

Somehow they view men with smaller penis's or who are shorter as "less of a man" which is incredibly sexist, no one is less of a man. I also think it can come across as transphobic at times
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/22 09:50 PM
2

And the fact that she isn't and probably won't ever be personally affected by this war while there are men forced to fight and die while she sits there and makes a stupid joke
/r/AntiFeminists28/02/22 10:51 PM
13

What do you say when people say " well it's men who made the decision"?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/22 09:17 AM
1

It's basically saying that men that don't have sex have "failed their role as a man"
/r/MensRights25/02/22 10:40 PM
15

Men really need to set more boundaries around themselves and realise that a lot of women have bad intentions. Stay safe
/r/AntiFeminists25/02/22 03:52 PM
13

Mens lives are valuable too
/r/MensRights25/02/22 09:19 AM
1

And it's bad
/r/AntiFeminists22/02/22 07:41 PM
1

Women are just seen as a lot more desirable than men and that's a fact.
/r/AntiFeminists22/02/22 01:23 PM
1

Even a 3/10 girl is more desirable than an average man. Men will have sex with any girl
/r/AntiFeminists21/02/22 08:32 AM
0

Women can be bad but femcels means women who can't get sex and it's pretty much impossible for a woman to not be able to get sex BC sex and dating is pretty easy for women
/r/AntiFeminists20/02/22 08:34 PM
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Femcels can't exist
/r/AntiFeminists20/02/22 08:29 PM
1

They don't get that it's because the girl hits first. They have more of an issue with the man defending himself than the woman who hits him in the first place
/r/AntiFeminists20/02/22 08:27 PM
23

Racism to brown people, especially brown men is so normalised
/r/MensRights16/02/22 11:37 PM
5

Do men get a choice in arranged marriages or are they also "forced" into it?
/r/MensRights16/02/22 11:37 PM
24

I've seen so many people say this as well and getting positive responses. I can't imagine how it must make a male victim feel hearing that their experience isn't as bad just because a woman did it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/02/22 09:24 PM
27

That is just so disgusting. I can't believe people actually think that way
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/02/22 09:23 PM
11

Yes that is exactly how I feel!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/22 12:46 PM
6

No I don't have any hobbies and I also have selective mutism so I can't talk to other people
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/22 10:24 AM
1

Because it's all about women. A lot of insults are about whether men can please women or not: "you get no bitches", "your dicks too small to please a woman", "you're too short to attract women", etc. Men are made fun of if they don't conform to what women want
/r/AntiFeminists12/02/22 12:18 PM
5

Also I would think that they would want incels to stop being incels but why would they want to leave those communities if they're used as an insult
/r/MensRights12/02/22 12:07 PM
24

It is part of an issue though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/02/22 10:06 AM
35

I hate that people see men who don't attract women as losers as if their worth depends on whether women like them and if they don't then they're "less of a man" or a loser.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/02/22 10:03 AM
8

For some reason people think it is more manly to have sex which is why there are many songs by male singers/rappers about getting loads of girls and men who don't have sex are considered "less of a man". It gets worse if that man is shy, disabled, unattractive. People also use "you get no bitches" as an insult now whereas "chad", whose character is designed around attracting women, is a compliment.
/r/MensRights12/02/22 09:57 AM
10

It was confirmed he's not an incel or has that ideology
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 11:04 AM
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There have been hardly any incels that have killed people and they're much more likely to harm themselves. They needed a place to be with people like them. FDS don't even have a justifiable reason to be bitter when they get boyfriends and men that like them all the time
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 11:02 AM
14

They're worse than the 1ncels tbh
/r/AntiFeminists11/02/22 10:58 AM
1

Ew sometimes it feels like (some) women just hate men that don't appeal to them
/r/MensRights10/02/22 07:44 PM
2

You said you thought it was funny
/r/MensRights09/02/22 06:17 PM
4

But it isn't a justifiable punishment. It's wrong to tell women they should be r4ped no matter what so why is it different for men
/r/MensRights09/02/22 10:23 AM
2

Yeah it's supposed to be rape but I used an Asterix
/r/MensRights08/02/22 04:10 PM
11

Women are most likely to divorce a man for having financial problems and mental health issues though
/r/AntiFeminists07/02/22 03:32 PM
2

That's messed up
/r/AntiFeminists07/02/22 08:51 AM
0

Cat calling is making sexual comments, not just telling someone to smile. If that's your problem then you've got no real problems
/r/AntiFeminists06/02/22 04:38 PM
0

Because he wants to see you happy? What's wrong with smiling? It's not misogynistic at all.
/r/AntiFeminists06/02/22 03:59 PM
1

What's wrong with it? It's a good thing and men would be happy to hear that
/r/AntiFeminists06/02/22 12:12 PM
1

I'm a trans man. Telling someone to smile is a compliment
/r/AntiFeminists06/02/22 09:01 AM
2

We said most of the time it's compliments. If it's sexual harassment then it's bad.
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 10:20 PM
9

Making a sexual comment to someone is cat calling but most of the time it's literally just compliments. Men would do a lot to get compliments. If that's their biggest problem then they don't actually have problems
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 05:16 PM
9

She doesn't deserve to work there. She shouldn't be judging them, she should be offering support. These people are mentally ill so of course theyre going to struggle with emotions
/r/FeminismStopsWhen01/02/22 09:32 PM
2

The punishment should be the same as a man who takes advantage of young girls.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 09:08 PM
7

It's not cool for older women to take advantage of young boys. They're pedos. And it's traumatising for the boys that go through it
/r/MensRights01/02/22 12:42 PM
9

Teachers shouldn't be having sex with children. They're pedos
/r/MensRights01/02/22 11:06 AM
4

What?
/r/MensRights01/02/22 10:35 AM
3

Yes I also don't like how men are respected based on their relationship with women. They're not respected if they don't /can't get a girlfriend and are seen as pathetic if they don't have tons of sex. People will deny it but the evidence is everywhere.
/r/MensRights30/01/22 12:44 AM
2

That too
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/22 04:19 PM
5

Why do men get hate for still living with parents without people knowing the full story? No one hates on a woman who lives with her parents or call her a "woman child". Most of these men are mentally ill and/or autistic or have some other kind of disability.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/22 02:30 PM
1

I can't see the article
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/22 12:43 PM
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