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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | He’s trying to make me jealous by tearing me down?It’s called negging and it’s intended to bring your self esteem down so that you will put up with poor behaviour. It also looks like he is trying to triangulate you with girls from his past. Block and delete this one! | /r/askFDS | 21/05/21 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Why is no one talking about the type of rape where a partner pesters you into having sex?Ew. This would be the kind of guy to say it’s not cheating if it’s not penetration and to say it’s not assault if it’s not penetration. So glad you got away from that trash bag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 08:36 AM |
| 22 | Becoming increasingly disturbed and disgusted by videos on TikTok of very young women and even teenagers asking to be dominated and choked and spat on and verbally abused during sex...True. I went on a few dates a while ago with a guy who seemed nice but on our first kiss, his hand slipped around my throat. We were outside, it was the middle of the day and it was supposed to be romantic and a little awkward because it was our first kiss but instead I was struck with the fear of a man gripping my throat and he just expected that I would enjoy and expect it. I gave him a piece of my mind and left immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 07:37 PM |
| 15 | Becoming increasingly disturbed and disgusted by videos on TikTok of very young women and even teenagers asking to be dominated and choked and spat on and verbally abused during sex...I agree with this and it makes me so sad at a deep level that I have to try not to think about it too much. So grateful for the strong women I have in my life to ground me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 07:33 PM |
| 5 | PSA: Healthy Friendships With Men Are Rare & Almost Impossible 🗣They really do lie in wait for you to be vulnerable or drunk or upset about another man so that they can start making their move. You put it perfectly here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 08:57 AM |
| 3 | PSA: Healthy Friendships With Men Are Rare & Almost Impossible 🗣I had a really good male friend that I believed was truly a friend. One time, we had a few drinks together with a group at the pub and I crashed at his place for the night because a taxi home was far too expensive. Cue him trying to shove his tongue down my throat. When I asked him what the fuck he thought he was doing, he said it would be fine and it wouldn’t ruin our friendship, just make it better because we are so comfortable with each other. We had been friends completely platonically for 5… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 08:52 AM |
| 21 | Cringe at me, sisters! Cringey pick me and cool girl behaviors I've done, a master list.I had an ex that said to me ‘I hate all women apart from you’ and for months I took that as a compliment and agreed with him that women were shallow and annoying and stuff like that. He also was one that watched lots of porn and even had a pornographic image as his screensaver but would comment on how girls were all really slutty these days and it was disgusting and I agreed with him. SO glad I found FDS and grew out of that mindset. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 01:02 PM |
| 28 | Why is no one talking about the type of rape where a partner pesters you into having sex?That’s horrific and I’m sorry you had to experience that. It’s so painful to realise that as women, we often see our partners in pain and want to comfort them, whereas some men will see women in pain and look for ways that they can take advantage of that to serve themselves due to the woman being vulnerable. Your partner was completely selfish in that scenario and it is disgusting that he would simply get out his penis and show it to you while he knows that you are distressed, especially when th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 09:08 PM |
| 28 | Why is no one talking about the type of rape where a partner pesters you into having sex?Ugh preach! If I want to withhold sex then I shall do so. I am not obligated to have sex with ANYONE who has made me angry, upset or uncomfortable, regardless of whether I am in a relationship with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 09:01 PM |
| 48 | Why is no one talking about the type of rape where a partner pesters you into having sex?Sorry - I think that may have been a glitch on my phone because I definitely only posted it once on my end! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 03:28 PM |
| 3 | For the Military guys, marriage and kids means a bigger paycheck for them. It's not always about love.My ex was military. He was extremely pornsick (couldn’t get hard, his screensaver was porn, his most visited website when he loaded up the internet browser to go on Netflix was a porn site), addicted to games to the point where he wouldn’t leave the computer for days on end, had used prostitutes in the past while deployed and just generally seemed to hate women. He had very strong anti-feminist views, and loved those ‘feminist rekt’ videos and Ben Shapiro. He also would tell me that he hated all… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 09:13 AM |
| 33 | Just broke up with a porn sick man. Thanks FDS for helping me assert my boundaries and hold my own.I love this. This resonates so much with my own views. Viewing porn is not only disgusting and disrespectful to a partner but requires ignoring the fact that you are potentially pleasuring yourself over someone’s trauma and abuse. It’s absolutely horrific. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 06:59 PM |
| 43 | Just broke up with a porn sick man. Thanks FDS for helping me assert my boundaries and hold my own.He didn’t know that I would leave him if I found him watching it, if that’s what you mean. However, he did know that I have very strong opinions about it and that I find it horrific and actively campaign against it due to the objectification and degradation of women that is perpetuated by pornography. So, I’d have to hedge my bets that he definitely knew it would be extremely hurtful to me to find out that he had been watching it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 06:40 PM |
| 15 | I want to break up with my boyfriend because of pornI have no idea. I assume it’s when he’s in the shower because he takes a weirdly long time in there. Or when I get up earlier than him and he stays in bed (he works a late shift). | /r/askFDS | 17/03/21 11:43 AM |
| 23 | I wish more men would admit this to themselves.It’s like we are accessories for them to show off to their male friends. Kinda like when you get the latest iPhone or something and everyone’s like wow that’s so cool! It’s gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 07:31 AM |
| 4 | I’m so sick of men interrupting me while I am running to give me advice or try to chat me up - I am WORKING OUT. I do not WANT your attention.Thank you! 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 11:16 PM |
| 17 | I’m so sick of men interrupting me while I am running to give me advice or try to chat me up - I am WORKING OUT. I do not WANT your attention.This! This is the response I have to it all. So many people tell me that I should just stop running outside alone which just is not possible right now due to restrictions, and they then say I should stop running altogether. Running is my therapy, part of my daily routine, part of my social life, my way of maintaining my health and yes, also a very important part of who I am because I am a competitive athlete and therefore cannot just ‘stop running’ without having to also give up goals and dreams… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 08:14 PM |
| 32 | I’m so sick of men interrupting me while I am running to give me advice or try to chat me up - I am WORKING OUT. I do not WANT your attention.I really might get a custom t shirt made that says ‘go away’ 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 08:12 PM |
| 17 | I’m so sick of men interrupting me while I am running to give me advice or try to chat me up - I am WORKING OUT. I do not WANT your attention.I have them already! They just shout instead so that I can ‘definitely’ hear them... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 07:22 PM |
| 21 | I’m so sick of men interrupting me while I am running to give me advice or try to chat me up - I am WORKING OUT. I do not WANT your attention.This isn’t an option at the moment - I live in a house share so don’t have space (or money) for a treadmill and gyms are closed due to the pandemic. Hopefully as it starts getting lighter now, this won’t be such an issue - I never have these problems in summer. I also usually run with a group but this is also banned due to the pandemic... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 07:11 PM |
| 9 | SO sick of seeing this bullshit at this time of year. It takes a couple of YouTube tutorials to teach yourself and actually put in some effort for your loved ones.Preach. It’s so frustrating and contributes to the whole man-acting-like-children charade that so many women have to pick the pieces up from in relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 07:49 PM |
| 46 | Hope you get picked, sis! 🤞🏻What object are women today? Handbags, ladies and gentleman! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 08:46 AM |
| 34 | Why girl, why?!I recently dated a guy without vetting him properly (stupid). He told me he wasn’t on Facebook. He popped up after our second date under his first name and middle name in my suggested friends so I checked him out. He had been in a LDR with this girl in the Netherlands for like 2 years and had FLOWN OUT to spend a weekend with her the day after our second date. He hadn’t even tried to hide it on his social media! Blocked and deleted, of course, but this scrote is still obsessed with me and finds … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 06:07 AM |
| 42 | Even a 35 yo man has these same meltdowns but they're the logical sex!!!My ex used to do this all of the time and I never had a name for it. Even when I told him I was leaving him and started packing my bags, he carried on tapping away on his computer game as if he didn’t hear a word I said. It really, really hurt me - more than if he’d gotten angry or upset back. He definitely knew that, though, and that’s why he did it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 09:15 PM |
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