Why is no one talking about the type of rape where a partner pesters you into having sex?

Charming-Bee-2337 · 2021-03-25T16:05:36+00:00

Because then they would have to admit that they themselves do or have done this. Men only like to count violent stranger rape as rape because if they counted other forms of rape they would have to admit they did it themselves or knew people who did or encouraged this behavior.

Jane1911 · 2021-03-25T15:31:50+00:00

Trigger warning**

When I was pregnant with my son, the male person and I (he is not worthy of any title) were still together. I remember at seven months pregnant I found out he had been spending inappropriate amount of time with his ex-girlfriend and confronted him about it when he got home from work that day. I told him I was not happy and we argued and I went to bed crying. After about ten minutes he comes in apologizing and I’m still crying. His apologies are coupled with him groping me and trying to kiss me as I am ugly sobbing.

You can probably guess what happens next. I said “I don’t want to” , “no, please not right now” multiple times through my crying. But he still pushed me onto my side (as I was heavy with child), and did what he wanted to my body.

After he finished he got up and left, saying “well I thought that might make you feel better but I guess not.” And he left the room. I was still sobbing.

Men do not care, men only think of themselves and their penis. This is an ongoing issue still today and I will attest to the fact that even if you are in a relationship NO MEANS NO, and it’s absolutely rape/sexual harassment if a someone does NOT want the attention.

I wish I knew how to make this more known. My only way I can so far is to tell my story and let other women know how this is NOT OK, and is RAPE. Protect yourselves ladies. Vet him, don’t have his kids until he is married to you, you have an exit plan and can safely be sure he will never do such a thing. Even then it may not be a guarantee that he won’t. Please be careful with your bodies and who you trust ♥️

Technical_Moth248 · 2021-03-25T17:17:05+00:00

It is sexual assault. It’s just not as easy to process for LVM because it’s not their accepted version of a stranger grabbing some innocent woman and raping her in the night. It’s the man you’ve been with for years harassing you until you let him use you as a sex toy, which a looooooot of them have participated in whether they want to admit it or not. And they can’t be rapists, no, coercive rape can’t be a thing!

In my first ltr as a teenager I had come into our relationship as someone who had already been raped by an older man, which was horrifying. I figured my teenage boyfriend who was a virgin would never be like that with me, particularly because he loved me and knew how bad it was. He immediately started forcing me to have sex with him by wearing me down constantly and being passive aggressive when I wouldn’t, and one day he even did it while I was asleep and I apparently screamed and started crying. He admitted it later because he “felt bad”, but when I said “You raped me” that was unfair, it wasn’t like that.

In our world withholding sex because you genuinely don’t want it is a bigger issue to most people than someone guilting you into it. I blamed myself for a long time for causing our “dead bedroom”, but now I just realize I was failed by everyone I confided in. It’s so dangerous that most folks seem to want to look over it, and I sincerely hope in the future it starts to change and we actually hold them accountable (I know it’s easier to silence us or make us feel like we are the monsters, though)

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-03-25T15:25:04+00:00

This is a huge issue that not only is not spoken about but when women try to speak up we are silenced and even insulted and attacked.

This is absolutely rape. Even if he doesn't succeed in badgering the woman into having sex with him it's still attempted rape just because he verbally badgered her constantly in an attempt to force her into sex.

The_Pyramidion · 2021-03-25T15:22:53+00:00

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IndividualRoutine661 · 2021-03-25T15:49:31+00:00

Yep I woke up and I was having sex 😡

I’m sure I saw a statistic somewhere that a huge percentage of rapes occur within a relationship

Ancient-Cucumber · 2021-03-25T17:29:23+00:00

I had an ex who could talk for hours and not let me sleep until I gave in to sex. Then, and only then, would he shut up and let me sleep. He would do this even with my terminally ill mother in the house.

KMDMD · 2021-03-25T20:17:38+00:00

TRIGGER: I had been dealing with resurfacing memories of childhood molestation, and after weeks of crying and turmoil, finally told my ‘partner’ what I was remembering and processing. He pretended to listen and I thought he really heard me. I told him the thought of sex right now made me want to puke, and I needed time to grieve and heal. He said he understood...

When we stood up to go in the kitchen, he gave me a hug, I thought to comfort me, as I’d been crying throughout the conversation. I felt his erection between us, and asked if he was hard. He said yes, pulled it out and said ‘see what you do to me? You should be worried when I don’t find you so attractive I don’t get hard when we hug.’

I actually went to the bathroom and vomited. That was the end for me. There were other things that precipitated this, but I felt sexually assaulted by someone who told me he’d protect me.

This is the first time I’ve shared this story. Thank you for creating a safe place to share it.

_differentmentality_ · 2021-03-25T15:53:23+00:00

I say this a lot but I genuinely don’t understand how a person can have sex with someone who’s not into it. It feels so off and rapey to me that sex isn’t enjoyable anymore so I could never do it. It just goes to show how one sided men’s view of sex is.

Also “well that’s just how men are” is yet another example of this

KMDMD · 2021-03-25T20:22:37+00:00

I also want to add, I’m tired of people saying don’t use sex as a weapon. If I’m angry or hurt at my partner, not being physically intimate isn’t me using sex as a weapon, it’s me valuing my feelings and body. My vagina is not a shared asset in the partnership!

shelballama · 2021-03-25T16:42:19+00:00

"89 no's and 1 yes = a yes" - NVM

mintmint33 · 2021-03-25T18:22:58+00:00

We have this rape culture. Because rape was conceived as a crime when other men "steal" the sex from the legitimate owner (husband, father). Not because women's right. Sex was a duty for women and a right for men, if they marry to that woman or they pay (prostitution). These ideas still survive in our days, just in different ways. That's the reason they blame the victim if she was alone (no men/owner to protect). That's why they feel they can insist. They are just recalling what they subconsciously think they own.

We, women, are socially educated as a givers. They are educated to get what they want and to use violence if needed.

Completely offtopic: Please can someone send me the link to discord? For some reason I'm not able for open it using Reddit and discord from my mobile, I need the address. Thank you, queens!

stressy_n_depressy · 2021-03-25T16:10:04+00:00

This is something I’ve been meaning to bring up to my therapist but I hate talking about it because I feel disgusted. I was in a 2 year relationship and was miserable the entire time. He would always guilt me into having sex and would even jerk off next to me when he thought I was sleeping if I said no and wouldn’t give in. One time we had sex and immediately afterwards I went to the bathroom and cried. I felt so disgusting. I’ve had a hard time calling it rape because he never physically forced me and I willingly stayed with him when I could have left so many times. He just always made me feel bad about trying to leave him.

LilithWon · 2021-03-25T16:48:24+00:00

YES almost half of the times I have ever had sex was when I didn't want it and my BF would just badger me for sex until I gave in. It was about energy preservation. I knew that if I didn't just give in and let him fuck me, he would just pester me and make my life more difficult. Or he would emotionally punish me by acting moody and passive aggressive.

Now that I have FDS I know that ever happens to me again, I'm walking out the door.

all_or_nothing_bet · 2021-03-25T17:42:46+00:00

My ex said a week after I gave birth to his child "if you don't give it to me, I'll go and get it somewhere else."

Guess who has no problem getting laid now and who is celibate because "somewhere else" isn't interested in him in any way except in exchange for whatever is left after he pays child and spousal support. Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

queenagave · 2021-03-25T16:24:27+00:00

Did I...did I write this and forget??

I literally just experienced this yesterday and all the time. My husband is constantly grabbing at my body or makes hand motions and chomping sounds while gesturing at my vag?? Grabs my boobs, will try to rub my vag when he hugs me/ randomly in bed, sexualizes me getting ready for work. I was walking to the dryer and he came over and tried to grab my ass/put his finger between my cheeks and I kept trying to turn away, signal to stop and finally said "what are you doing" and he huffed and got all cold and was like "nothing I guess" and left to walk the dogs. At first I felt guilty and then I remembered "I don't owe you sex??" "respect my fucking boundaries???" He came home from work with flowers randomly that night.

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needsmoresilk · 2021-03-25T16:49:47+00:00

It’s assault. It’s coercive r*pe. You did not consent.

I’m so glad we’re putting labels on this. It’s soul destroying when you know something is wrong in your gut. But everyone around you acts like it’s ok. And, if you’re young / impressionable enough, you end up thinking it’s ok.

Labeling it makes it real. Now we have a word for the phenomenon. It’s real and it’s entirely unwanted and traumatizing.

Years ago, I woke up to my ex inserting a finger inside me. When I pushed him away, he got angry and threatened to leave. Figuring it wasn’t too bad, (I’d been seriously assaulted before this), I let him continue. Once that mental barrier was crossed, it was easier to gaslight myself into thinking coercive/forced sex acts with other men were also ok. I honestly spent years thinking the problem was me.

itsyourgirlfinn · 2021-03-25T19:24:07+00:00

Yes, I wish so very badly that this was spoken about more openly. This describes 70-80% of my sexual experiences.

warinmymind94 · 2021-03-25T18:03:00+00:00

Sending hugs, you are strong and thank you for talking about this. Definitely continue to call it out and keep mentioning it to your friends/ others when you hear them say the things like "that's just how men are".

My first boyfriend was a lot like this. They really do think that just because they're you're dating /living with them that they can have sex with you whenever they want and that "no" is not valid. Cue the men "joking" that women are never in the mood or tOo tIrEd for sex.

No means no, it doesn't matter if you're in a relationship, if he's paying your bills, it doesn't matter if he just took you to a nice dinner or paid for a vacation. You are not a sex doll that he can use whenever he likes.

Poking us with their boners repetitively and deliberately to try to get sex isn't cool either. It's predatory and rapey. It's not romantic and it doesn't turn any woman on.

Remember, if a man pests you into sex it is not your fault. Any man that pressures you into anything (even like going to a movie or carnival) is a sign that he is likely to also be pushy with sex. Look for signs early on as to how he treats your soft boundaries. Of course its not a for sure sign some men pretend and try to rape you anyways but never ignore red flags. If a man pressures you into sex though even if he doesn't get the sex, it is your job to cutoff all contact and that relationship.

iloveyoubabi · 2021-03-25T18:48:42+00:00

Ugh, this makes me so mad. My soon-to-be ex-LVM would basically coerce me into doing his kinks because if I didn't he'd just look at porn (and he knew how much I hated porn). I hate that men are like this.

I cannot wait for this lease to end so I can be free and single and start leveling up without all of the stress and anxiety that comes from being in a relationship with a LVM.

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soleirolias · 2021-03-25T16:35:40+00:00

my first relationship at 15 was just like this... not only did he use guilt and words but got me drunk or high so i was easier to coerce. it escalated fast and when i tried leaving and telling people he told them i was lying. he was a few years older and afaik still tells people about it. i still wonder how someone can just do “sex” at someone who’s laying there dissociating. very few people i know have acknowledged it as rape or stopped associating with him because of it

catlady4u · 2021-03-25T18:39:54+00:00

I have an nvex who loves when women go visit him and drink, because 'drunk girls don't say no' He's also a porn sick POS. Even as a 'friend' he wouldn't leave me alone.

ugly-princess · 2021-03-25T17:21:46+00:00

I wish schools taught this more.

My ex and I dated from 14-19 and he coercive rped me almost every time. If I was not mentally prepared he made me feel bad until we did it. As a result from being mentally not ready, I was also physically not ready. He continuously blamed me if I was in pain or not wet enough making it my fault that I did not make sure I was prepared. I had no idea that this wasn't ok. I think one time I really felt violated and brought it up with him. He got very mad that I would accuse him of rpe and that's not what happened. I wish I had known that it was instead of drawing my own conclusions and apologizing because HE said I was wrong.

All women (AND GIRLS) need to know that you do not need to have just because your partner demands it.

We are more than just sexual objects in relationships. You don't need to have sex every time. No one NEEDS sex

jenneke-gotenberg · 2021-03-25T20:34:45+00:00

For men or most them rape is a violent act in a back alley or deserted park, maybe at knifepoint, happening to someone else's mother or daughter or sister. Looking back I have been raped countless times in relationships, either by endless coercion (relenting to anal sex for example after endless badgering and then saying ok no stop this is bad when he started and he didn't stop) or waking up from sleep in the middle of the night because someone was having sex with me). But they would never agree it was rape and I only really thought of it as such recently.

Betty_Bottle · 2021-03-25T22:43:46+00:00

Yep. Having terrible sex I didn't actually want because the alternative was worse. He would sulk so much and get angry and start banging his fists on the mattress. All because I wanted to sleep instead. Then he started complaining that I was cold and robotic but couldn't figure out why.

Watching tv? He'd stand up and get his semi-erection out and expect me to instantly put it in my mouth.

A nice back or leg rub after work (physical job)? Nope, always ended up with a hand on my boobs or between my legs in the hopes it would lead to something.

The beginning of the end was when we had a huge fight and he told me I should go and watch porn so I know what I'm doing because no man will stick around if I can't satisfy him.

I said all this to my therapist last year and she instantly said "you do realise that is a form of rape, right?"

1Here4Bach · 2021-03-25T18:43:51+00:00

Yes, this is called sexual coercion. Men are trying to convince themselves it’s not rape because the majority of them do it and a lot of women are in denial because they’ve had it done to them multiple times and don’t want to come to terms with admitting it was rape.

Any woman who didn’t want to have sex but ended up having it because their partner just would NOT leave them alone or wouldn’t stop making them feel guilty knows how violating and disgusting it feels.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-03-25T15:27:46+00:00

By the way I noticed you posted this five times. Almost all posts get pulled into the mod queue for individual review by moderators which can take up to a day. There's no need to repeatedly post it.

But of course I noticed one of them went directly to the feed! Reddit is a mess as usual. There seems to be no rhyme or reason to which posts are pulled and which aren't.

2021-03-25T16:05:20+00:00

To me, and maybe this scares some women, but it makes me feel empowered thinking about it — I want to say; in the moment, in bed, “you’re coercing me by keeping on, and I just told you no. Do you need to sleep on the couch to be respectful and appropriate?” Like talk to them like they’re children.

msromperstomper · 2021-03-25T16:27:13+00:00

I think because it's really, really painful to think about.

I don't want to get into too many details, but I was friends with a guy, I guess secretly really liked him, we went out and had too much to drink, and while I was into initially hooking up he started badgering me for more and at some point, I gave up. I can still barely think about how I cried afterwards saying we had ruined our friendship. The next day I convinced myself that this was consensual.

I finally had the courage (and I guess time) to revisit this memory during Covid.

BLUEDIRT93 · 2021-03-25T17:39:45+00:00

I had an ex come over once and he was trying to get me back so he went down on me. After he got on top of me I didn’t want to but I felt like I “owed it to him”. In the middle of his having sex with me I started crying he didn’t stop.

I hung out with a guy I had been having sex with from tinder and while I was bent over the bed trying to get a condom and had said “let me get a condom” he just put himself in me. I felt like a “prude” getting mad about it.

I had just met a guy from tinder and we had had sex he slept over. While I was sleeping the next morning he pulled the blanket off me and turned me over and started having sex with me.

If I had been those men and the roles were reversed I would have been so scared and embarrassed to do the things they did to me.

This is why men need to be taught and put in their place. And why women need to learn that they owe nothing to anyone and that they are worth being treated with nothing but respect. It’s hard and I’m only learning how to do that now in my late 20’s.

ComfortableHead3 · 2021-03-25T19:15:54+00:00

This REALLY struck a chord with me, because my ex only touched me to get sex. No affectionate hand-holding, no hugs, nothing. I only realized it after the relationship ended....

rebel4acause · 2021-03-25T19:48:08+00:00

Coercion is not consent.

AliCandyBar · 2021-03-25T18:41:26+00:00

Yup, this kinda thing happened to me all the time in my previous relationship. Now I’m happily asexual!

ASmallGardenFairy · 2021-03-25T20:01:38+00:00

My ex would pester me constantly but switched tactics when he saw it wouldn’t work. Instead, he would completely ignore me and withhold affection to make me feel bad. I have a high libido, but I just don’t like doing any sexual activity during my periods (including oral) since I get very depressed when menstruating.

benkyou_shinakya · 2021-03-25T17:53:46+00:00

Oh yeah this happened to me with an ugly ass guy who was shorter than me... I told him it wasn’t going to work out and he had the nerve to threaten me with where I live and stalk me...

thatshadywitch · 2021-03-25T16:33:00+00:00

Totally. It's freaking manipulation. My ex would throw tantrums at me when I didn't feel like having sex. I gave up just so he would stop behaving like a child. In the end it was like being in a relationship with a toddler and I'm honestly not surprised that I was repulsed and annoyed at the idea of having sex with him. 💀

kangaskhaniscubones · 2021-03-25T20:14:41+00:00

I used to date a sex addict, who would whine and complain until I finally gave in and had sex with him 5+ times a day. This was after he tore my vagina, making sex really painful for a while. He just didn’t give a fuck. I’m thankfully healthy now, and resolved to never put up with such bullshit from a man again.

fabianoid · 2021-03-25T20:43:07+00:00

It is sexual assault, and it's normalised.

DangerousRiver9 · 2021-03-25T19:36:57+00:00

This was talked about extensively when I was in school and that was in the 00s. I couldn’t believe that my experience growing up was the rare one when I moved away after college. It’s crazy how we can live in the same country and have vastly different experiences solely based on which region we grew up in.

zombieeezzz · 2021-03-25T19:36:39+00:00

Yep. I’ve been through this before too and it took me years to realize it. I My ex pressured me into sex even though I had back & pelvic pain. I would have to use ice packs on my pelvic bone after every time. He would beg and guilt me. I seriously had to keep seeing a chiropractor to reset my hips weekly.

It’s called coercive rape & we def need to bring more attention to it.

Baekseoulhui · 2021-03-25T21:08:35+00:00

My first boyfriend literally threw a tanturm if i ever said no. One time he legit stormed out of the room and started screaming and crying that i didnt love him as mych as he loved me.... Because i didnt want to suck his dick..... Big yikes.

Another "man" i dated simply wouldnt take no as an answer "you know you want to" etc. Eventually would just wear me down.. Or wait until i fell asleep and just did it anyways.

miss_peach94 · 2021-03-25T20:23:44+00:00

This is 95% of my past sexual partners :(

valleycupcake · 2021-03-25T21:54:10+00:00

Ugh yes. Me too. The last time, I couldn’t stop crying. 100% not into it but went with it anyway because I knew he’d be angry and possibly not talk to me for days if I didn’t.

2021-03-26T02:06:01+00:00

Amy Schumer has that joke about how we’ve all been “kinda raped.”

Otherwise, yeah, this should probably be talked about more. I suspect it’s a pretty universal experience for women.

bizzybumblebee · 2021-03-26T02:37:23+00:00

my first bf pressured me into having sex. i told him i want to wait but he made it into a discussion about free will and played devil's advocate, you know how white and nerdy STEM are. i think he had a thing for "deflowering" virgins. i still cannot forgive myself.

idiopathictendencies · 2021-03-25T17:57:47+00:00

Thank you for bringing attention to this! I am in a committed four year relationship and three days ago my BF came up to me while I was working (from home) and began trying to take off my clothes. I put my call on hold and asked him to please wait until I was done with work...in 15 minutes. He wouldn’t stop even after I pushed his hands away and sternly said for him to stop several times. You guessed it, it was easier to just give up and let him fuck me. He left me alone afterward so I could finish my calls. I felt so embarrassed for the rest of the night. He’s NEVER done anything like this in our entire relationship.

numbers213 · 2021-03-25T19:04:04+00:00

alive realized this recently as well! I got a giant tattoo on my thigh and I mean giant. took 4 hours. mostly done with a 3pt needle so painful too. I love it. But I DROVE with my then boyfriend and of course he couldn't drive my car because it's manual and god forbid he drove me! Get it done havent eaten in like 6 hours at that point. Pounding headache and this mf demands sex and kept demanding till I gave in.

Previous-Focus-2013 · 2021-03-25T20:06:06+00:00

I had this happen to me when I was in my early 20es with guys I've dated that didn't like me that much.Which made it even worse because they didn't care about my feelings or me at all

bodysnatcherz · 2021-03-26T01:34:47+00:00

My first sexual partner and first boyfriend would forceably hold me down so I couldn't get away when things were heating up and I would tell him I didn't want to have sex. We lived in the dorms, and I'd have to physically fight him off (not in a playful manner) until I got out of his room.

So many fwb's over the years have pressured me to invite them over to have sex when I've just said I'm not feeling well. Like, post-surgery, or while I had a painful UTI.

Women are objects to them.

FemclFleshBeckyBones · 2021-03-26T17:35:28+00:00

There is an excellent book called Loving to Survive that talks about this. I've found an excerpt that explicitly addresses it:

"Bart has identified a heterosexual sex-rape continuum. At one end is consensual sex both parties equally desire sex). At the other is rape. In between are altruistic sex (one party submits out of guilt, duty, or pity) and compliant sex (one party submits because the consequences of not submitting are worse than those of submitting). Using Bart’s conceptualization, [researcher] Kelly found that most women ‘felt pressured to have sex in many, if not all, of their sexual relationships with men”. Yet she found that women perceived sex as coercive only when physical force or the threat of physical force was used. An event usually was not called rape by women unless the perpetrator was a stranger, it happened at night and outdoors, physical force was used, and they resisted. Moreover, Scheppele and Bart found that women tended not to define nonphallic rape (for example, digital penetration) as rape. These findings reveal that most women strongly resist perceiving an event which happened to them as coercive or rape, but that most of the sexual experiences of most women involve altruistic or compliant sex."

The_Pyramidion · 2021-03-25T15:26:28+00:00

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fds_account58 · 2021-03-25T18:53:32+00:00

Are there relationships that aren’t like this to some degree?

elainejay82 · 2021-03-26T01:15:49+00:00

Rape by manipulation or rape by mental torture really.

2021-03-26T15:08:05+00:00

A lot of men do this, unfortunately. I've heard it referred to as "grey (area) rape" and it's the #1 reason why men get bent out of shape about "false accusations." Because this shouldn't count in their minds

nymphaetamine · 2021-03-26T07:19:38+00:00

Trigger warning...

When I was 18 I had this loser boyfriend who would wait till I fell asleep then pull my panties aside and have his way with me. Every time he did it I woke up and told him to stop, I got angry and pushed him away, basically he knew damn well I did not consent or want it. Yet until I dumped him, that was how I got woken up most nights.

He's not the only one either. I used to think I've only been raped once, but when I think back on all the times I've been coerced and pressured into sex I wasn't in the mood for and didn't want to have, I've lost count of how many times I've been raped.

thowawaywookie · 2021-03-25T23:18:18+00:00

My xH used to wake me up at 2am he'd be groping me and pestering me for sex. I'd give him every signal from ignoring him to pushing his hands off me to cliff hanging on the edge of the bed away from him. He'd stop for a bit and then here comes hands again until he wore me down and I gave in.

He never wanted to do it at a normal time. Only after he stayed up late and I was already asleep and had to get up early for work.

Wish I would have "accidentally" elbowed the groper.

pinkgirly111 · 2021-03-26T06:48:24+00:00

my ex would tell me what a "horrible girlfriend" i was when i didn't want to have sex. i think about it and get ill.

TafahaDeTerre · 2021-03-26T07:29:03+00:00

Had an ex who would get really sad if I said no to sex or even if I wasn't super enthusiastic. He'd say "you're not attracted to me anymore." "You don't like me" and get upset for days after. He'd pretend he's so insecure so that I would feel bad for rejecting him and think twice before rejecting him in the future. It worked for a while. Very very manipulative.

lumijumalatar · 2021-03-25T16:57:50+00:00

I think most men are rapists just not in the stereotypical way. Basically every man i have been with has pressured me into having sex with them even when i have said no and clearly do not want it. Then i give in to the pressure, they know i do not want it. My ex used to say i am teasing him when i did not want to have sex with him, because i was not in the mood... at least he did not force me to have sex, but still.

I thought because of metoo movement men would be more careful, but nope they aren’t.

ComfortableHead3 · 2021-03-26T00:32:54+00:00

I found this series helpful: https://www.nytimes.com/series/in-her-words?te=1&nl=in-her-words&emc=edit_gn_20210326

Solid-Liquid · 2021-03-26T14:57:16+00:00

My ex did this to me all the time. It’s why, when I ended it, it felt like a massive weight off my shoulders

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littlepip38042 · 2021-03-26T19:23:08+00:00

This is the same thing as the "you should take it as a compliment" nonsense.

laeriel_c · 2021-03-28T16:27:47+00:00

My ex did this, he would even get extremely upset and accuse me of not loving him. Towards the end of the relationship I had nightmares of me shouting no and him physically forcing me into sex. My subconscious was telling me something, and soon afterward I broke up with him.

sugarcokeee · 2021-04-02T01:52:21+00:00

If i didn’t want to have sex my ex would proceed to slide his dick between my ass and “jerk” off that way. I would wake up to this bullshit i kid you not 🥴

Title	Why is no one talking about the type of rape where a partner pesters you into having sex?
Author	luceario
Upvotes	1326
Comments	144
Date	March 25, 2021 3:16 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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