I’ve been out with this guy three times over the last two weeks. Ever since the first time we went on a date, he’s been trying to get me to plan our next date which I refuse. I explained to him this evening that I don’t like to plan dates for men in the early stages of dating. He is now saying that he doesn’t subscribe to that idea and that he is annoyed that I am making him do all of the planning.

Is it unreasonable that I expect a man to plan the dates during the early stages of dating? There aren’t any red flags apart from this, which is bothering me a little.