Women's sexuality gives them, and the state, almost unlimited power to control men. As long as women are free to use their power of sex to exploit men, then all the things we resent in women will continue and get worse.

2010-12-23T00:56:14+00:00

You're not going to restrict female sexuality. That genie is out of the bottle and long gone. Instead, men need to learn self-control, and to take the right to say "no" to sex unless they want it.

angelcake · 2010-12-22T21:30:35+00:00

Dating a single Dad can be equally as challenging. Beyond the small bit of truth the rest is little more than a bitter, long winded rant....

We're all led by our libidos to some degree but everything he says points to men being so controlled by their desires that they become total and complete idiots and that is so untrue.

AdamLovelace · 2010-12-22T20:51:32+00:00

This is patronizing.

OH NO, WOMEN HAVE BOOBS! I MUST OBEY!

Pretty cool perpetuation of the "men think with their dick" stereotype.

A_Real_Jercough · 2010-12-23T00:59:50+00:00

My Mom was a single Mom and is a hero.

redox000 · 2010-12-22T20:35:17+00:00

Why so much hate for single mothers? Single women without children use sex as a weapon, too. Also, I don't get the logical jump from "don't let women lure you in with sex" to "the nuclear family is the only valid family." This link reads like a rant from some conservative nut job who got burned by a single mother.

helleborus · 2010-12-22T20:33:11+00:00

Wow! So much hate on one page.

We can tell how much male sexuality is demonized by the nonstop viagra/cialis ads on prime time tv. They really have it out for men who want to have sex!

This one completely false statement is enough to discredit the whole shebang: "make us fight wars for elitists who sees us only as cannon fodder in the name of protecting women". Anyone who thinks that wars are about protecting women and not about protecting profits is seriously gullible.

Today, women only engage in sex for as long as it takes to establish a claim on a man's resources.

I don't even know how to respond to this. Does anyone actually believe this? I guess there are some guys who are attracted to whores instead of well intentioned, decent women - they would probably buy into this.

Keep linking to fact challenged, hateful nonsense like this and you will continue to see your movement garner absolutely no mainstream support. This is truly vile!

Kuonji · 2010-12-22T20:41:31+00:00

We continually hear how men have always controlled their women through marriage and the institutions in society. But the truth is marriage equalized male power (the power to create wealth) and female power (the power of sexual attraction). It was a mutually beneficial and equal contract. Women got a provider and men got a wife and children.

AdamLovelace · 2010-12-22T20:59:13+00:00

Hi. I'm bisexual. I've also gotten REALLY good at wanking. There are certain intimate activities that I would require a partner for, and certain ones still that require specifically a woman. I have a healthy sex drive, though that may be a slight understatement, but I am honestly past the need to get my knob wet. I am past the point where something giving me an erection constitutes a loss of control.

I'm trying to think of a more eloquent way to say this, but that is proving impossible, so I'll just out-with-it: jerk off, get on with life. If this does not help, you did it wrong, add lube, use less porn, try again. Liberate yourself from the need to stick your dick into someone else to get sexual gratification.

On the other hand (no pun), if it is the intimacy and emotional aspect that keeps you longing for some cooch, then I can't help you, but isn't a matter of sexual control any more, that is a personal, emotional issue.

Edit: phone keyboard typo.

barebackbacon · 2010-12-22T20:38:53+00:00

What an unbelievably elaborate way of saying "women don't like me very much and I refuse to believe it's my fault."

gphorce · 2010-12-22T20:25:39+00:00

im serious, being gay has its benefits.

DrDeezee · 2010-12-22T20:52:03+00:00

I'm finished with that, but I not finished with you. Because I'm on pace of blowing this thing wide open.

what

dorklogic · 2010-12-23T09:00:28+00:00

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rantgrrl · 2010-12-22T22:15:21+00:00

If a woman has demonstrated her willingness to walk away from her commitments to the father of her children (and those children too) why shouldn't other men be cautious about entering into a commitment with her?

There's a rule the SPCA has. If you abandon an animal at the SPCA you don't ever, and I mean never, get to adopt one again.

If a man is thinking with his dick, the fact a single mother has a pussy is the salient factor. If he's thinking with his heart, the fact that she walked away from her commitments is the salient factor.

2010-12-23T08:11:56+00:00

2010-12-22T21:15:42+00:00

Not my favorite piece of writing.

wild-tangent · 2010-12-23T00:07:23+00:00

Agree with the first half of male sexuality and liberation, but then I feel he misses the point completely. No, I just think that we need to make it so that we aren't afraid to let women say that a man is attractive- the sexualization of men is long overdue. Let a woman be allowed to say that she picked a man for something OTHER than how much money he makes- and the problem should go away.

ConfirmedCynic · 2010-12-23T07:01:08+00:00

If men didn't have this weakness (thinking with their little heads, according to most women), the human race would cease to exist in short order.

It will all be moot anyhow when the first android made-to-order girlfriends start rolling off the assembly lines.

no-Godnik · 2010-12-25T09:23:05+00:00

I would tend to believe not all women are that manipulative. And generalizing all single mother's that way isn't exactly fair. Too many broad and general claims.

seclifered · 2010-12-29T05:55:18+00:00

Another self-contradictory rambling. We should encourage "sexual liberation" in men by not handing out condoms, not having sexy clothes, and promoting marriage? Now, I think of "sexual liberation" as having more sex instead of less, which is what all of his suggestions will do.

Blowtart · 2010-12-23T14:05:15+00:00

Decent women? Where at?

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