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Always be on your guard around men, and learn to spot hidden cameras!

BasieSkanks

August 22, 2021
218 upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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Title Always be on your guard around men, and learn to spot hidden cameras!
Author

BasieSkanks

Upvotes 218
Comments 24
Date August 22, 2021 12:38 PM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/p9bqd4/always_be_on_your_guard_around_men_and_learn_to/
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Top posts by BasieSkanks

Where is the lie, tho?

4653 upvotes
September 10, 2021
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Online dating in a nutshell; heads men win, tails women lose

4106 upvotes
December 22, 2020
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My wish for 2021 and beyond is that more women realise that they don’t have to put up with callous, selfish behaviour in their relationships.

3427 upvotes
November 28, 2020
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One smart Grandma! I came across this post on LinkedIn, and the comments were full of PickMes and men saying that this is “misandrist and dishonest”. Ladies, looking out for yourself is in YOUR BEST INTEREST.

3202 upvotes
May 20, 2020
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The number of comments saying that the man acted this way “because he really likes her”. 🙄 this is not about affection - what you’re seeing here is the very early stages of controlling and abusive behaviour.

3152 upvotes
February 4, 2021
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The uglies always have the most to say 🤡

2587 upvotes
July 13, 2021
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Men have become so comfortable with violating women’s boundaries that they don’t feel any shame in admitting to it

2414 upvotes
October 14, 2021
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This is the double bind society presents women with when we try to speak the truth about male pattern behaviour. If we call it out, it’s misandrist. But if we don’t call it out and end up getting harmed anyway, it’s our fault for not seeing the signs. Head men win, tails women lose. Again.

2360 upvotes
March 11, 2021
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[–]electroloopRuthless Strategist 183 points184 points185 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Ladies, they make hidden cameras so small now that you wouldn’t be able to spot them unless you have a hidden camera detector that helps you find them by emitting signals. I recommend this one because it does a pretty good job with finding if the place is bugged: https://www.spyguy.com/products/lm-8-hidden-camera-bug-detector?currency=USD&gclid=CjwKCAjw64eJBhAGEiwABr9o2Caa10GcNRPThXnSAkB0MaKSMU4hh54hrfwBO0NHDkXlIFI8c7K0AxoC2pgQAvD_BwE

I’ve heard of way too many stories where women have been filmed without their consent and posted to porn sites. I’m always sceptical of going over to men’s houses. When it comes down to being intimate, watch out if a man is trying to position you in certain angles where you know it’s not part “of the act”. These angles are to better get you on camera. Alarm clocks in particular are so easy to have hidden cameras hidden in them. In fact, it’s kind of weird for someone to have an alarm clock when there’s alarm clocks built into your phones these days.

You can never trust anyone these days. Stay vigilant.

[–]give_mefriesFDS Newbie 124 points125 points126 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Oh man, the hidden cameras thing makes me so anxious. I’ll find myself randomly reevaluating past encounters to wonder if I’ve ever been recorded. Men really don’t know the kind of world we battle every single day.

[–]electroloopRuthless Strategist 100 points101 points102 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It’s a terrifying thought. Men are so pornsick.

Basie’s post has inspired me to write a post about where to find hidden cameras and staying vigilant. I’ll post about it soon!

[–]give_mefriesFDS Newbie 84 points85 points86 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Men will rather look at videos of women recorded without their consent, women they have no chance of meeting in real life. But God forbid if they have to work on themselves and actually love a woman.

Looking forward to your post.💕

[–]crossiantfunFDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Please do!!

[–]Inside_Inside_8610FDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They do, because they're the ones doing it!

[–]czoocz 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The amount of times I’ve come across Twitter accounts posting hidden cam videos of women in a public bathroom, or even just walking around the store, with plenty of retweets and likes. Makes me fucking sick, this constant paranoia of going anywhere in public alone, especially in public bathrooms…

[–]MildlySchizoFDS Newbie 130 points131 points132 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

I called my partner and he was kind of like "Well, maybe it's the pregnancy hormones, maybe you're reading into something and it's not what you think it is".

I then called my sister and she told me to ring police.

And this is why we need to always maintain close female friendships. Imagine if she had listened to her dismissive husband...

[–]panicpanicanxiety 77 points78 points79 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What a surprise the two male policemen tried to get her to confront him for them. Another sign of how important it is to trust our instincts.

[–]BasieSkanksRuthless Strategist[S] 63 points64 points65 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But men are protectors of women! That’s why women need them. Right?! 🤡

[–]bookworm1896FDS Newbie 66 points67 points68 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Those kind of stories always scare the shit out of me... especially in changing rooms at the gym or the pool you cannot check everything for a hidden camera. There were also those stories about airbnb hosts who had hidden cameras...

What do those men get out of their pics? It has to be about power over women and humiliation once again...

I don't think that I could ever feel safe anywhere again when I would find out, that such a creep had taken pictures of me somehow.

There are so many ways men try to abuse us when we trust them. Yet we are living life in easy mode. /s

[–]discoveringlibertyFDS Newbie 60 points61 points62 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This is one of the reasons why the drive in both the US and the UK to remove single-sex spaces is so dangerous for women.

[–]springtulip475FDS Newbie 24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

and in Canada and NZ💔

[–]shesavillain 54 points55 points56 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The gall of the cops “put a lot of time and effort and expertise into this investigation and the result shows the merit of the work we've done".

What work? Dismiss the victim that came forward with suspicion and have the guilty pervert admit to it the second he was questioned? So much hard work. Not!

[–]discoveringlibertyFDS Newbie 53 points54 points55 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's so fucking insulting that that detective was bragging about how much 'time and effort and expertise' they put into catching this guy, when ultimately the police only bothered to check the pervert out after this woman made a formal complaint about the police not handling the case properly. They also literally didn't follow the law initially since they told her that the pervert may have had a 'legitimate' reason for filming her non-consensually, and for good measure implied that the pervert may be doing it to avoid false rape accusations. This is the systematic misogyny that women constantly have to face when dealing with police officers. How dare this detective claim that tackling sex crimes is a priority for the police, he should be embarrased by himself.

[–]JulyParade 29 points30 points31 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Wow, this is just men protecting men. WFT? They don't take women seriously, they refuse to protect pregnant women... How awful. Her partner and the police probably still see nothing wrong with filming women naked without their consent because "men gotta protect themselves".

[–]BasieSkanksRuthless Strategist[S] 28 points29 points30 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Also, MASSIVE FUCK YOU to the police. They did absolutely nothing when this woman complained and even tried to justify why this perv would be recording (to protect himself against false allegations 🤡)

[–]ShieldMaidenLagerthaFDS Disciple 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m also really curious what the cops would have done if he did not admit it.

👮‍♀️: Did you record you clients? 👨: No. 👮‍♀️: Okay, bye!

[–]ShieldMaidenLagerthaFDS Disciple 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Yes, there was a guy I went out on a couple dates with (who traveled to my city for business) that kept trying to get me to go to his hotel room. He was super specific about us going to his room not coming to my house and I started to get suspicious. I’m 99% sure he was trying to film me. .

[–]Minute_SignFDS Apprentice 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Don’t be silly, there’s the 1% chance he was just trying to murder you! /s Seriously though I’m glad you got away from that creep!

[–]ShieldMaidenLagerthaFDS Disciple 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Right...it’s just so depraved out here. The guy ended up being a married liar with 3 young daughters.

[–]dkwantsdkFDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Or trafficking

[–]aquietswordFDS Newbie 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow, every single male in this story is trash. From the husband to the police to the creepy scrote. The sad thing is that this is exactly how this would play out for many women. Imagine if men had to deal with this kind of lack of support on a regular basis. They would malfunction.

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