This question is preferably for mothers of men already, but childless women and mothers of women please feel free to chime in.

Would rather have a son that:

-Believes in true love and may have his heart broken by the wrong women

-Doesn’t try and play the field, but doesn’t mind promiscuous indiscretions of the women he is dating

-Courts women, is completely honest with them and takes them at their word until proven otherwise

-Is “himself” and uses his good character to try and attract women

OR….

-Doesn’t believe in “true love” and may break a few hearts along his journey

-Attempts to get laid as much as possible, but judges a prospective relationship women for their N counts

-Has no chivalry, does not trust women and has little interest in what she says if it does not pertain to his goals or getting laid

-Works out, focuses on looks and status to attract women with little interest in marrying them (unless the unicorn appears)

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I understand it is not all or none. But if your son had to lean one direction, which would you prefer it be?