how to attract women or treat them?

Urbantexasguy · 2021-10-08T22:34:49+00:00

Well, this is one of those posts where you're really going to get radically different answers from blue and red pillers. The BP's will advise you to treat her like an actual human being, while RP's will advise negging, dread game and various other forms of subtle and not-so-subtle abuse.

What you need to ask yourself, is what kind of person are YOU? How do you WANT to treat people? What kind of legacy do YOU want to leave? What kind of relationship are you most comfortable with, and how do you want your partner to see you?

Relationships aren't a cookbook......you need to find someone that fits your style, provides balance, and doesn't turn you into someone you don't want to be.

nameless-girll · 2021-10-08T22:26:19+00:00

I can just speak for myself (30f) but I really appreciate when a man is very polite and friendly and pays attention. These are usually things that stand out to me the most.

Of course many women are after "bad guys" but, would you really want to be with such a person? What are they really looking for and how sustainable would this relationship be with someone that goes after those guys.

And also, are this all girls or is it a certain type of girl? If so, may be you should consider taking a look at those who you usually don't look at. Get to know them, even if it's just a little chat and see who matches your energy, personality, humor. Be yourself and find someone that makes you feel comfortable with that and vice versa. :)

TomorrowsWar · 2021-10-08T22:26:17+00:00

It sounds like you’re not gonna be able to. Good luck tho!!

ShaktiSun · 2021-10-08T23:16:16+00:00

Women read novels? No mate I like porn too. Are you like 15?

old_wise_man_ · 2021-10-08T22:16:55+00:00

Piss on her to show dominance!!

more serious note: try to appeal to what she likes and makes her feel wanted. The majority of women fall in love with a men from what they hear from him. So learn how to sweet talk and when necessary telling convicing lies. Remenber a big lie is easier to believe than a small one.

Kitchen-Following-83 · 2021-10-08T22:11:26+00:00

Number one rule: don't care what women think. Women will fuck the asshole instead of the nice guy 9 times out of 10. Women will fuck the cocky womanizer that will pump and dump them without shame over the ordinary joe. It's basic biology. Once you stop caring what women think, you'll start getting laid.

In my college there was a guy who was a notorious misogynist who treated girls not very nice and he fucked half his way through campus bc he was fit and cocky. Women that called him out publicly were the same ones that fucked him at parties. This clarified a lot of things about women for me.

nationearthdotcom · 2021-10-08T22:13:37+00:00

Work on making yourself as physically attractive as possible in regards to grooming, hygiene, and style.

Look up narcissistic abuse cycle

Love bomb, withdraw affection, breadcrumb, future fake.

Those guys were nice to the girls until they got what they wanted then they become mean and the girls were left wanting things to go back to how they were.

Then play the numbers game, approach as many women as you can without letting them know about each other for as long as you can

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towerofcheeeeza · 2021-10-08T22:26:53+00:00

Meanwhile I've never seen a girl fall for a guy who treated her like trash.

I think some women with big egos want to believe that they can change shitty guys and make them loyal. They want to be the exception, but then get shocked when that isn't the case. They'll be rhe other woman because they think they're better than the current lady, but get surprised when the same fate befalls them. So women like that, sure. They want the challenge or the ego boost, or they just don't have any confidence or sense of self, but are you sure that's the kind of woman you want to attract? Sounds like a lot of the women around you are like this. You sure you want to deal with more of that? The answer is probably no. So if you're not trying to attract a woman with a massive ego, self-esteem issues, or who is batshit crazy, find a woman who doesn't put up with shit like that. And treat her well.

Mrs_Drgree · 2021-10-08T23:36:59+00:00

No advice posts

Title	how to attract women or treat them?
Author	fuck_life419
Upvotes	1
Comments	109
Date	October 8, 2021 10:03 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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