I’m jealous of my roommates. I need help

honey-bundy-88 · 2021-11-27T16:23:57+00:00

Find reasons to get out of the house that you actually enjoy. You may not be interested in online dating but have you tried local meet up groups? Meetup.com has a list of available events and groups that help adults meet new people. Try that.

israelregardie · 2021-11-27T15:48:04+00:00

I’ve been there. Heck, still am. You are NOT alone.
Do you study? Have a job?

softnmushy · 2021-11-27T17:27:05+00:00

I think you should try to find a house with roommates in a city. Or at least very close to a city.

You need to find some friends. It’s much easier to date if you have a few friends. And if you can’t find any friends, it probably means there aren’t enough people around for dating.

RedPillDetox · 2021-11-27T16:09:20+00:00

Get yourself on extracurricular activities to meet new people and chill regarding that dating shit, some of the darkest moments of my life were when i was in a relationship. Being in a relationship, dating, won't really make you that happy.

PJ_GRE · 2021-11-27T16:35:17+00:00

Hobbies that get you into a flow state and the company of good friends. Get out there and meet new people, and feed your current connections.

DiabloTheDreamer · 2021-11-27T20:35:08+00:00

You're not ugly man none of us are.The bar was raised UNFAIRLY that is the truth

cranky_sparkle · 2021-11-27T22:24:34+00:00

I get that this subs is all anti redpill, but here's a redpill concept why not use this time to go workout, learn something...better yourself.

No-Recording-8670 · 2021-11-27T16:34:33+00:00

Online dating sucks anyways. Meeting someone organically… in real life is always best. When you’re ready for it mentally, it’ll happen. Without much thought or effort. 💕 don’t be so hard on yourself.

Coollogin · 2021-11-27T22:59:18+00:00

Do you have to live in the suburbs? There are so many more fun things to do in the city. Even as a single person.

HGW86 · 2021-11-28T07:52:13+00:00

If you have to leave your house every night just to escape your room mates and you feel you have no friends there, then I'd support the idea of moving out. Even if it's just back home until you figure out a new place to live.

It would be easier to look for dating opportunities if you feel comfortable in your own living space.

mmsbva · 2021-11-29T00:51:53+00:00

How far away is the city? I lived in the suburbs and went into the city all the time. Start volunteering or join recreational sports clubs. Your school has to have clubs you can join. And when you meet new people, take a chance and reach out to them. Don’t try to date right now. They’ll be able to smell the desperation. Just make friends. After an activity, if you were talking to someone, “hey want to get a coffee?” Do that a few times. Then exchange phone numbers and text about an event you’d like to go to. Baby steps to make connections.

spankyourkopita · 2021-11-27T20:58:04+00:00

I tell people this whether it's dating or just comparing yourself in general: what other people do has nothing to do with you!

Title	I’m jealous of my roommates. I need help
Author	Sorry-Watercress4589
Upvotes	14
Comments	24
Date	November 27, 2021 3:39 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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