Men like I said we're very action-oriented, we're very instrumental, we're very performance-oriented, we're very tactile and we are also very socially hierarchial, meaning we have to earn eachother's respect. Well the opposite is true for women's social behavior, women are expressive, women are verbal, women are more open with their personal dialogues, where as men are usually more to-themselves and mindful(mindful in this context means they internalize it more, not that they're being careful about what they open up about), women are also much quicker to go with the flow than men. So I promptly think for this reason alone women are more iniutive and can trust their gut instincts better than men in social situations. Women are as well more for the group, we men are more gravivated towards certain individuals, individuals we want to relate to. Women are brought up to also be socially agreeable where as men are brought up to be socially tactical and cautious, makes sense since in tribal societies the men had to keep an eye out for other men looking to rape or murder the women and children and to this day this is still heavily engrained into us. Not that I agree with male on male hostility, but tribes had to make sure to lynch anybody stepping territorial bounds, didn't matter if they were beta or alpha. And then last but not least, I understand that I am not a woman, but I don't think they have to prove their worth to others as much as we men do. As long as you got good social skills and aren't too ratchet and annoying, you pretty much have already a sweet social spot landed anywhere. Men on the other hand can be handicapped socially by just about any slight flaw, including being too talkative, not being loyal enough to his peers(meaning not falling into peer pressure), being socially akward, being someone who lacks raw passion and enthusiasm for anything, being someone who doesn't stand out, being someone who's afraid to tell like it is, so on and so forth. We're not taking apperance into account here since this is primarily about the social mannerisms here. In the dating market if a man fails to understand certain social cues, chances are he will falll more prone to manipulation tactics. Which is why is important men get rejected as much as possible person to person from both friends and crushes, this lets them know where to work on their social game.