I was a bit of an ugly duckling in high school, and my hair was long and frizzy. I assumed I’d never be able to have long hair. When I got to college (where I blossomed physically), I cut it to shoulder-length, and it was cute and manageable.

Guys liked me, but the only ones who actually asked me out were over 40. I always had to approach them (cute men my age.)

During quarantine, I let my hair grow out past my shoulders. I have a much better diet, so it’s beautiful and healthy. Sometimes it gets frizzy, but nothing like what it was.

Oh my God. For the first time in my life, men off of dating apps are asking me out. I work remote at a coffee shop and I get approached 3 to 4 times a week by attractive men in their early 20s to late thirties, and the older creepy men mostly leave me alone. I have to block guy’s numbers to get them to stop calling me. Insane.

I have always been feminine, with make-up and dresses, but my hair was just on the shorter side (chin-length to two inches above shoulder.)

Just wanted to a subreddit that would say “duh.” Dating advice: Get long hair.