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Dating Apps Are Not Only Mentally Dangerous . . .

Gologic34

February 11, 2022
183 upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

Here are some of the online dating app murder cases. If you are still using these apps, be clear on the risks!

https://listverse.com/2022/01/10/10-more-dating-app-murders/

https://omaha.com/news/state-and-regional/crime-and-courts/the-murder-of-sydney-loofe-a-timeline-of-the-aubrey-trail-and-bailey-boswell-trials/article_05943086-3e60-11ec-a9dd-efaba6427120.html

https://www.thedailybeast.com/mormon-teen-ashley-wadsworth-killed-after-going-to-meet-online-boyfriend-jack-sepple-in-uk

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Title Dating Apps Are Not Only Mentally Dangerous . . .
Author

Gologic34

Upvotes 183
Comments 23
Date February 11, 2022 5:52 PM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/sq59wi/dating_apps_are_not_only_mentally_dangerous/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/dating-apps-are-not-only-mentally-dangerous.1101210
https://theredarchive.com/post/1101210
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Comments

[–]pickmieshaexorcistRuthless Strategist 134 points135 points136 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

My wlw sisters need to be careful too, that there’s not an unhinged boyfriend waiting in the wings. There can be a false sense of security when you’re dating other women so I’d still urge the normal protocols of meeting in public and vetting.

[–]Gologic34FDS Newbie[S] 36 points37 points38 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yes. And of course, there are other crimes under murder that you have to worry about too . . .

[–]Gologic34FDS Newbie[S] 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Tinder Swindler case in point. That was also mentally harmful for those women.

[–]Gologic34FDS Newbie[S] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And physically! One got beaten up. I think predators are very plentiful on there. It’s a perfect hunting ground

[–]Competitive_Bar8657FDS Newbie 81 points82 points83 points 4 years ago* (9 children) | Copy Link

Guys I’ve talked to on OLD in the past sent flowers my jobs reception, went to the same bar I go to just to run into me. Last week, I got approached by some guy while grabbing coffee, apparently he recognized me from the app Ive used 2 years ago. He talked to me like I was his old friend but I was disturbed cause idk who he is! I’ve talked to so many men there, now these creeps recognize me on the streets and I don’t remember their name.

[–]Stellata_caeruleum 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Ew. It sounds like he kept your picture and info. That is disturbing indeed.

[–]Competitive_Bar8657FDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

i was dumb enough to use my real name and put my job info there so yeah I bet

[–]NonsluttymenFDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He probably had saved your pics to “use”😩

[–]thefutureisXX 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

He didn’t “recognize you.” This motherfucker stalked you and made it look like it was “chance!” People talk about stalkers that get caught. Not the ones that don’t and then women marry them thinking “what luck!” Nope. Fell right into a trap. That’s scary AF to me.

[–]Competitive_Bar8657FDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Stalking someone for 2 years? That’s new low

[–]ArugulaIsAwesomeFDS Apprentice 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It happens!!!

Then the move a block away from you…

[–]PinchePescadora 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh man that’s creepy AF! Like makes me wonder, fid he save your pics??? Ew ew ew

[–]Gologic34FDS Newbie[S] 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ugh, scary as hell.

[–]capresesalad1985FDS Newbie 47 points48 points49 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I was just reading a rant about how dating apps are awful for men…and I’m sitting here like yup uh huh ok. I’d love to see the percentage comparison of men to women who go on there and pretend they are single but really have someone waiting for them at home.

[–]fds_throwaway_4_uFDS Newbie 76 points77 points78 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

More solid proof against online dating. Thanks op.

[–]Optical_Optimus 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

never go to online dating after i saw tinder swindler ☠️

[–]TheMostOfMe 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I worked in the same office as a super successful older male attorney and he actually thought that E Harmony did background checks. 😂😂😂 We had to tell him they absolutely do not.

[–]GAaliyah12Pickmeisha™️ 29 points30 points31 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I would love a post on reasons why OLD is mentally dangerous…

[–]Gologic34FDS Newbie[S] 32 points33 points34 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

There’s a lot of posts already on how unpleasant (unwanted dick pics and sexting) and energetically draining they are to use (poor quality of men), all the way up to emotionally damaging if you get tricked, played, misled, used etc. by a psychopath or narcissist and or married dude. I found I got depressed using them, so dangerous to my mental health for sure. The commodification of human beings is now normal but never felt that way to me.

[–]electricgumi 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The amount of LVM on there. Finding a HVM is like finding a needle in a haystack. Most HVM are not on dating apps.

I found that when I used dating apps (before meeting my boyfriend), it was really draining having to swipe and make conversation with multiple men. Although, some dating apps are better than others (I’d say OkCupid was the best one compared to like Tinder. I never used Bumble because I do not like to approach the man first :p)

[–]KimPastaBowls 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They’re designed to make you keep coming back. The selection of partners on the apps is also so poor, you might have thoughts of, “huh, if this is the best there is out there, maybe I ought to settle?” When there are options aplenty who won’t ask you for your address, presuming he can just show up around your house.

That was a run-on, but only scratches the surface of the dumpster that is OLD.

[–]fireforestfairyFDS Apprentice 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is why I am uncomfortable with meeting men via OLD. It's much harder to verify the identity of a stranger you met online and he can turn out to be a psychopath.

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