Scrote hates his wife at almost absurd levels

spinsterchachkies · 2022-02-21T16:58:57+00:00

No this is a shitty situation he’s in. I don’t know what’s going on here. Maybe she has a mental illness or she just doesn’t care. I’m not sure. But I would be at my wits end too screaming into the void of the internet too.

vforvendetta87 · 2022-02-21T18:30:55+00:00

Definitely sounds like depression. I feel for her. It’s a nasty situation to go through. I’ve been depressed since I was 11 or 12 and although I’m more on the functioning side I know I can do better. Depression isn’t her fault but I think she would do well with recognizing that she needs help, bad. Her husband definitely resents her or her depression.

Jaelismyhomegirl · 2022-02-21T17:49:59+00:00

I’d like to feel sympathy, i really would. This man is in a shitty situation. But one that is eerily similar to the situation millions of women are in, who are told things like “you should appreciate the fact that your husband stays home so that you can work” or “he’s just depressed. That absolves him of all responsibility”. A woman in this exact situation would be given no sympathy whatsoever, as it is just the baseline level of misery she is expected to live with out of “duty”. So i’m afraid i just can’t muster up any sympathy for this man.

The_Cat_Empress · 2022-02-21T20:54:08+00:00

This is a weird post for FDS IMO.

We don’t know what the wife was like before the post or if anything changed. I just don’t get it? Why doesn’t he take the kids and leave like we always say if it was a man?

Heck, there could be thing he isn’t telling us (it’s all his perspective but we don’t see the wife’s side) but on the face of it IDK why he’s going to Reddit to scream and not leaving if he’s so miserable?

Why doesn’t SHE leave? Maybe it suddenly hit her that she hates being a mother? I’m spitballing here.

Jaelismyhomegirl · 2022-02-21T17:44:40+00:00

Have you tried cOmMuNiCaTiNg, sir?

Sallou9 · 2022-02-21T17:29:46+00:00

Even when women complain about men doing all the things his wife is doing (which is a lot), there isn't the same level of seething vitriol. I can just feel the pure, vicious hatred in hiw he speaks.

Women, even with all we endure, just do not hate men the way men hate women. Woman-hate from men is unhinged and terrifying.

Carneliancat · 2022-02-21T19:30:20+00:00

All I can see here is a raging man ranting about how he turned his wife into a zombified husk of who she used to be. Gosh, I wonder how that happened? He is clearly suchhhhhhh a compassionate and engaged and loving partner./s

ABQ_COgirl · 2022-02-21T17:41:59+00:00

Men exaggerate when complaining about their wives. Sure she might have mental illness but whatever he’s saying might be far different from reality.

jaqjaqz · 2022-02-21T17:18:53+00:00

I do appreciate the effort he's putting in to make this work. This woman is definitely depressed/mentally ill. Feel sorry for both in this situation. But why marry her in the first place knowing she was like this? How did she get this way?

cicerii · 2022-02-21T18:19:28+00:00

No, she’s problematic.

Far_from_deceived · 2022-02-21T17:00:56+00:00

She is clearly depressed and he is thinking she is just “lazy”, or has no hobbies. I mean, she is his WIFE!! He has to support her and seek treatment. I know it can be hard for him as well to have a depressed woman, the mood is kinda contagious, but he should help her get over it, seek therapy. He hates her and he wants to leave her. Now everything about her annoys him. The part he talks about the sex just made me feel so bad for her… Everything she was before, their children she raised it means absolutely NOTHING to him just because she is going through hard time!!! What a nice supportive husband!! Her problem might be him actually. Should leave his ass and seek a new life.

Averyhvw · 2022-02-21T16:48:24+00:00

He doesn’t want a divorce because he knows someone will be worse off. He knows if they divorce he can’t “help” but ruin her and their kids will suffer. He’s telling on himself. As though she isn’t also making a sacrifice by being unhappy with him.

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