I’ll lay out the facts and hopefully someone can give me an opinion based on experience. Next, are there better ways to go about asking about exclusivity?

I’m not sure if the question has been asked before, so please be kind!

  • I’ve known him for about 4 months and we see one another once or twice per week. It wasn’t this frequent earlier on.

  • We haven’t had an exclusivity talk per say, but I know he wants me to be exclusive to him.

  • I’ve met his friends, including their girlfriends, and last time we hung out it was a double date at a nice restaurant with a close friend of his.

  • We are sexually involved and I spend the night at his place when I see him. He encourages it.

  • His closest friend referred to me as “his wife” once when we were together

  • He’s 35 and I’m 25

  • He gave me a task recently to buy a journal… I don’t know what the exact reason is yet.

  • He invited me to travel with him in the summer when he goes on a trip out of the country.

Why I’m suspicious: he’s close friends with Rollo Tomassi

Unless he’s a master of manipulation (he may be), he appears to be pretty serious about keeping me around. Thoughts?