I am 19 years old and unattractive. I am short, skinny, have a bad face due to recessed maxilla, my face is androgynous and to make it worse I am a virgin, poor man with no status and am autistic with a pessimistic attitude towards life because of my circumstances. Right off the bat it seems like everything that could of gone wrong has gone wrong.

Advice in my situation from people have suggested hit the gym, surgery, socialise, stylemax, get money, be positive, or some guys have suggested give up.

I have noticed women have always said do something like gym, socialise and style. They have never said give up.

Meanwhile men have said the same as women at times but I have also come across plenty of men who have said give up.

To me giving up seems easier and less of a headache. If I truly gave up, I would be able to move on and focus on enjoying life in other ways. I would have less pressure to go to the gym or earn money because I would only do these things for women. For the last 4 years I have been trying to lose my virginity and have got extremely close at times. One time I even got to go round a womans house who wanted to sleep with me judging by her energy but I blew the chance. Its worth noting I know my worth so don’t go for attractive women because they are better than me. I go for unattractive and average women but these women are also better than me. I know there are. Why would a woman with 100s of options settle for me? I know good women are out there but so are good men and even if I become a good man, I am still in heavy competition with good men and its likely they will be better looking than me. Also good women can fall victim to bad men due to their looks. My father was good looking and a bad man and my mother a good woman fell for him. So I feel like being a good man isn’t much attractive to women.

As an underdog who should be finishing bottom of the table on paper, do you truly believe that if I don’t give up and take the advice of exredpillers, I can defy the odds and be the underdog that shocks everyone? It has happened before like in football when Leicester City won the league at 5000/1 odds and my odds are most likely similar to theirs.