After graduating college I lived an alienated and sexless 3 years. I’ve never been successful picking up girls at bars in the US. There was always some issue. Perhaps her friend couldn’t be left behind so she couldn’t go with me. Or a fat friend placed the girl I was hitting on as Subject Presumed to Enjoy and therefore put a stop to any possible enjoyment she could derive from me. I still managed to bang women in the US, but usually from house parties or friends of friends. My Latin American experience however is a little different and I have articles written by /u/GayLubeOil to thank for convincing me to go. One big reason LATAM is better is the racial structure vastly differs from the US. White men are significantly higher on the caste totem pole and this is exemplified in hookups and casual dating.

A few days after arriving in the country and getting settled I went out to a local bar. I've found that the locals are much more welcoming than our American counterparts. Even if you're just talking at a bar and not buying something from them they'll gladly introduce you to their amigos and translate for you to talk to their amigas. In western countries you have to learn game and navigate various nuances of drugged up women to get laid, but let me tell you you'll know if a LATAM girl is interested in you. I walked up the stairs to the bar around 11pm and in less than 3 seconds after the bouncer let me in a cute Latina locked eyes and didn't let go. We immediately walked up to each other and after introductions she told me she was going to the bathroom and pointed a few times. Confused, I eventually realized she wanted me to wait for her. We didn't kiss yet and I don't even think I touched her yet. Never did I have a woman so immediately interested in me so quickly that she would ask me to wait for her within 30 seconds of meeting her. Any escalation was met positively and we banged a few times before I moved on to the next city.

No longer dealing with jet lag makes the transition to a new city much quicker. I met this women the night after I arrived in a new city around 1 am. Relaxing in another local bar, I had walked up to buy another beer and I noticed she was 6 feet away from me and staring. Same procedure as the first and we end up banging for around a month. Leaving her was a shit show because of the power dynamic between me, a white guy touring LATAM, and her as a working class native. While we were talking she would ask permission to clean my room on the grounds that some people wouldn't like others to touch their stuff. I responded that I nut in her butt so she can touch anything. Sometimes she'd do my dishes, pick up after me and even mopped the floor once. I lapped this up because I would negotiate sex with SSRI birth control pilled white girlfriends where here is a woman that’s not even my girlfriend that wanted to clean my apartment after anal. Unfortunately other issues came up and after an emotional fight we ended our fling.

I moved on to another city, but again the same sequence of events happened: a beautiful mestiza stares and you simply approach and escalate. This girl was the most attractive up to this point. The previous women were cute, but they were busy working 6 days a week while this girl "worked online on her computer." Still banged. When I first met her she was a Signifer of Lack of #2, then she turned into a nice fuckbuddy for my time in this city.

After leaving my last lay on good terms and promising to see her again when I returned, I arrived in the final city of my trip. This time I was at a club. On the prowl, I made my way around the crowd looking for eye contact and noticed she was looking around. We briefly made eye contact and even though she didn't stare like the others I still approached her and she was receptive. We danced the night away and banged all night. We talked for a week or so and she liked to bring me things like little gifts and drinks from her local region. Honestly could have been an excuse to bang, but it was a nice touch to feel desired after so long without any women in the US.

The day before I had to leave the city for home, I was invited to day drink on the beach with some locals. I obliged and seeing how I was leaving and had banged the day prior, I wasn't trying particularly hard to find a woman. Well, when a Latina asks you to sit with her on the beach 'you don't look a gift Latina in the mouth.' We eventually made our way to her place and I closed my 5th and final lay of my trip.

Importantly, when I would walk into bars Latinas didn't just stare at me as I walked in the door (except 1). It was still a numbers game and took sifting my eyes around the women at various bars and approaching a few to find one. However, given that approaching Latina's is 10x easier than American women and my immediate success, I can't recommend visiting LATAM enough. What I learned is that you don’t have to fight against western structures built to hinder your search to find a woman. You can simply leave. In the US you have to fight against the pharmaceutical industry pushing anti depressants and birth control that make your women sexless worker drones not to mention the latest psyop. I had to navigate these structures in the US where in LATAM I didn’t have to jump through any special hoops. Working out, having a nice haircut and clothes as a white man is good enough. Within a few months of touring LATAM I’ve almost had more sex than I did in my entire life in the US.

Again, thanks /u/GayLubeOil for your articles. I also read blogs and watched videos on international travel to follow up with his writing, but his articles were the seed that germinated the process to me banging 5 Latinas. If you’re living the alienated existence in the west go to LATAM. The women are beautiful, the ocean is warm, the food is delicious and the living costs are significantly cheaper. If you have any questions don’t hesitate to hit up my dm.