Female smv question?

No-Rough-7390 · 2023-01-08T18:42:24+00:00

Just don’t be fat. Honestly, a woman who goes to the gym and cares about her diet will gain her a bunch of points.

And by fat, I mean don’t weigh more than the average guy at your height.

BigZaddyZ3 · 2023-01-08T18:52:37+00:00

You seem to be struggling to accept that despite what the mainstream would having you believe, men do NOT place very harsh or rigid beauty standards on women. That’s just a misandrist myth. However here are a few things that will dock women a few points :

-An extremely ugly face (to the point where even makeup or surgery can’t save it.)

-If she’s morbidly obese (even then, she’ll still get a few chubby-chasers. But the majority of men won’t touch her)

-A ridiculously high body count.

-Extremely annoying or masculine behaviors

-A fucked up past (like let’s say you found out she lied about her ex and got him sent to prison lmao. You probably wouldn’t want to be her next man would you?)

Birb-brained · 2023-01-08T19:09:20+00:00

Really it’s someone who doesn’t look after themselves. Poor cleanliness and hygiene, very unwell drug user, badly dressed in tatty clothing etc. you can’t really give specific features as unattractive since I think when it gets to that point, attractiveness is really subjective.

propyl21 · 2023-01-08T18:45:56+00:00

The whole SMV and every other terminology that the red pill employs are very limiting to the person who preaches them.

Life is not black and white. It is a thousand shades of grey. But tell that to these radicalised men

purplish_possum · 2023-01-08T18:48:34+00:00

if a girl is bigger if she has proportionately large backside and or chest she will be pursued

You can add pretty face to that list. As long as she isn't a really unfortunately proportioned fatty with an ugly face she'll get play.

M3taBuster · 2023-01-08T19:52:42+00:00

You hit the nail on the head. What makes women attractive or unattractive to men has much more to do with proportion than scale. Whether you weigh 90 lbs or 180 lbs, as long as your hips are substantially wider than your waist (ie, you are "curvy"), there will be at least some niche of men that are attracted to your body type. Men have pretty varied preferences, but a low waist-to-hip ratio is the closest thing we have to a universally desirable trait.

That said, although some men prefer the lower end of the weight range while others prefer the higher end, and most men would be ok with any weight within a reasonable range as long as she's curvy, the closer you are to average/normal weight the more broad appeal you will have.

And you're correct in your observation that the lower weight a woman is, the less waist-to-hip ratio matters--to a certain extent. It does still matter though. In other words, men are willing to tolerate somewhat narrower hips as long as you're thin enough to make up for it.

Breast size is a bit different though. There is a niche of men who prefer each breast size, even AAs. However, the bigger they are, the more broad appeal you will have (to a certain extent). So conventional wisdom that larger breasts are generally preferred is... kinda, sort of accurate.

januaryphilosopher · 2023-01-08T18:43:28+00:00

It's way easier to say what's conventionally attractive, as there are millions of ways to look unattractive. Simply put, when you look at a woman, for one reason or another she looks bad.

Lyzard96 · 2023-01-08T18:40:57+00:00

The same as an unattractive man. Extremely obese (over 300) or heroin chic skinny, usually poor, dresses in raggedy or stained clothes, unwashed hair, aged 40 to 60 and not at least trying to increase your health span. No teeth, smokes a lot.

I'm bisexual so I think I'm qualified to answer this.

HardTruthssss · 2023-01-08T18:37:38+00:00

only his age, we wont give women the benefit of the doubt, if I am rich, well positioned man, I will date 18-22 women who are 5/10 or more.

if I am a deadbeat guy with no money nor job I will date women my age who are 5/10 more.

The difference is youth and fertility, we want that on women.

If we fail as man we look for women our age for relationships, if we succeed we go for young women in their 18-22.

Theres a saying that says "Men will truly know when a woman loves him if he loses all his money, and women will know if a man turly loves her if he becomes rich"

Young women not only are more beautiful, more fertile but also they have their pairbonding ability intact while women 30+ wont have it because they have been with so many man that their pairbonding ability is broken because they will take the best of everyman they have been and will create a ficticious perfect man with the best attributes of all the men they have been and will compare their current partner with it and will feel their man is inferior and will be unable to pairbond.

Its like candies, give children all the candies in the world, where they can choose and then give them a fruit and they wont like, since it is not as sweet as candies, I see pretty much many kids reject fruits in favor of candies, it is because their sense for enjoying fruits have been broken by eating so much candies.

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-angels-fan- · 2023-01-08T19:08:59+00:00

Overbite/underbite with crooked teeth

Asymmetrical face

Poor posture - hunched over

Balding or super thin hair

DreJ-X · 2023-01-08T19:25:26+00:00

For me, the body make it over face so a hot body is something i really like in a woman fuethermore if she work out.

But to most guys ive talked with, a pretty face is required for them to take the gurl as a relationship material

I would say a trully unatravtive woman its one that has the skinny fat type of body

DryOutcome3407 · 2023-01-08T20:04:20+00:00

Weight, deformities, thick facial hair, bad choice of hair and tattoos.

Latter-Impression-26 · 2023-01-09T00:03:04+00:00

Weight is subjective until they are unreasonably fat so IMO take that out of the picture. Tattoos are subjective too. Even ugly faces dont really matter like butterface women exist not butterface men. I'd say noticeable blemishes all over body that maybe denotes a drug addicted past, crooked/yellow teeth, dirty matted hair. high T faces and boyish bodies are some of the most unattractive features a girl can have.

DisasterPeace7 · 2023-01-09T02:50:49+00:00

If a woman is so unattractive dad most men are not going to approach her for sex or straight up deny her if she initiates, that tells me

she is ridiculously unattractive, either a really ugly face or some deformity
morbidly obese ( even though yes there are chubby chasers)
has an incurable STD

That's really about it

SoldierExcelsior · 2023-01-09T03:00:07+00:00

Ugly face,Fat,Stretch ,marks saggy breast,flat but or just being odd shaped I've seen women shaped like the Mucinex man .

I won't say a flat butt makes a woman ugly but I do loose sexual attraction for flat butted women It's probably not logical but it is what it is.

daisydaisydaisy12 · 2023-01-09T14:53:47+00:00

For me 95% of beauty is physical health. I find fat repellant.

Swimming_Salary_8456 · 2023-01-13T22:01:29+00:00

Fat

Shaved head

Excessive makeup

Long talon like nails

Those would be things I can think of that would make a woman ugly to me

Title	Female smv question?
Author	Temporary_Visual8414
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Date	January 8, 2023 6:30 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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