And he will never admit it to you because he knows like a child throwing a tantrum you will cry or get enraged at reality until you reach the emotional state you desire.

Now what do I mean? First of all yeh if he leaves you it's not like he'll have what he wants but you are not what he truly wanted, wants or ever will want.

If there were no rules about upsetting others then your man would have many women who he has the option to spend time with of varying looks, personalities and of course they would all be young, from freshly 18 to 28.

They would be far more interesting and fun than you. They'd still have defects which he complements.

Face it sis, you're extremely lucky he put up with you this long. Or the fact anyone would.