Why are the phrases “you aren’t entitled to women’s bodies” and “women don’t owe you sex” the default responses when men complain about how hard dating is?

Ok-Translator2294 · 2023-01-19T22:41:59+00:00

That's the only thing of value they find in themselves

Final_Philosopher663 · 2023-01-20T00:57:18+00:00

When someone complains about not having sex for them he is deemed "not worthy of having it" and possibly a creep and for them a creep wanting sex (from them) is disgusting so they will just say you women (myself) don't owe you sex.

efficient_slacker · 2023-01-20T02:15:26+00:00

"You aren't entitled to men's paychecks" and "Men don't owe you attention"

Black-Patrick · 2023-01-19T23:36:34+00:00

Misinterpretation and blindness to nuance.

dw87190 · 2023-01-20T00:31:45+00:00

Projection. Misandrists are many, only look at men as objects and have deluded themselves into the false premise that women are entitled to a man's body and men owe women whatever they want, when they want it, without question

LeLurkingNormie · 2023-01-20T07:25:44+00:00

Because feminists always seek excuses to blame men and defend women, even when men are not to blame and women are not attacked.

RunikVarze · 2023-01-20T02:31:21+00:00

Because these empty headed women think that sex is the only purpose for dating because that's the only thing they know how to offer. It's a sad form of projection and insecurity.

aBlackKing · 2023-01-20T04:38:17+00:00

It seems they have dating and sex associated with each other. It’s as if in their twisted world view that guys don’t want companionship from a loving girlfriend/wife.

It’s definitely hard nowadays to find the right one in this kind of environment.

Mr_MtTikiSoakie92 · 2023-01-20T03:55:17+00:00

Because they don’t want to have a real conversation on how the dating quality of women have plummeted and by telling you that it’s a “you” problem removes all responsibility from “them”

Naru4odo · 2023-01-20T02:06:42+00:00

That's the only thing they have to offer....

2023-01-20T11:59:14+00:00

True. But women ARENT entitled to yalls wallets, cars, and bodies either! 😃

Frird2008 · 2023-01-20T03:46:14+00:00

They (female counterparts) use seggs as leverage to get whatever they want. I can't say much more than that

_name_of_the_user_ · 2023-01-19T23:41:11+00:00

Because the ones that say those things are too narcissistic to think of anyone but themselves and therefore when someone complains that dating is hard all they hear is "dating me is hard". Of course from that point all they can think about is people feeling entitled to them not realizing how entitled it is to think anyone wants someone so self centered.

Langland88 · 2023-01-20T01:11:27+00:00

I think because of years of media portraying men as being horny and not being able to keep it in their pants, this has created some unconscious bias. It's been in our media for a long time to see men who'll drop their pants the minute a beautiful women reciprocates some kind of feelings. I could see how Feminists could interpret this as men simply just want sex and nothing else. It's annoying and I'm not gonna lie, but I have been through this. I have often expressed frustrations in the past over unrequited love I had for some women and wondering what I did wrong only to get these same answers. It's kind of like default answers from Feminists. Although I am in a happy relationship now, I have learned to ignore these kind of comments and point out the hypocrisy when Feminists complain about unrequited love they had for some men.

another-cosplaytriot · 2023-01-20T02:58:13+00:00

Because it's the one and only response they can remember.

MotleyCrew1989 · 2023-01-20T03:09:14+00:00

Because they know it is the only true reason men seek them for a relationship/fling

TheRetroConnoisseur1 · 2023-01-20T02:55:15+00:00

Hypocritical responses because 1. they just regurgitate whatever they see on social media, talk shows, feminist readings and blogs, etc etc but yet they sleep around when they know nobody is looking, in secret, then when back on their Twitter and Instagram profiles they're back regurgitating whatever is trendy to get clout and to appear as a bad bitch. Then there's the ones that say that and are even more miserable as hell because they've jeopardized themselves into rejecting potential males because they feel 1. social media and simp fed narcissism 2. confusion and delusion based on their philosophical/social beliefs 3. because it gives them a power trip. So which leaves us to the conclusion that many really don't know what they want and live life through the beliefs of someone they follow on Twitter or Tik Tok or read in a book from Barnes and Nobles but don't have a mind of their own to say "you know, that's a bad mindset that will affect me intimately in the long run."

casra888 · 2023-01-20T15:19:48+00:00

Men don't owe you dinner. Men don't owe you money. You aren't entitled to men's money and resources.

wild_psina_h093 · 2023-01-20T14:55:20+00:00

Because women always thinking, that sex is all we need, or... All they can provide.

heeroena · 2023-01-20T02:05:08+00:00

The disparity is in the fact that guys have to put effort to get sex whereas females feel entitled to attention. Unfortunately, guys are not as communitarian as women which would level the playing field by effectively removing any attention given to them. At the same time it wouldn't be possible to get sex without giving them attention so it is a damned if you do damned if you don't kind of scenario. The best way to deal with this imo is to just pay for it. At least that way you get what you paid for whereas in dates it is still left to the whims of the women whether you get sex or not. Hire a professional and your problems are solved

Toran_dantai · 2023-01-20T12:21:53+00:00

Why

Becauss they don’t care and are not a countable for anything

Dapper_Platform_1222 · 2023-01-20T17:24:45+00:00

Because when you boil it down they don't care about the issues that men have, just like we shouldn't care about the issues women have. This whole movement of we have to empathize with every single issue that anyone raises is getting really old.

KentuckyTriedFlickin · 2023-01-20T00:48:26+00:00

They love to bring guilt by association. A fair amount of incels are often bitter against woman and blame their issues on them. So, they assume anyone who complains about dating must also be an incel. It's a way to tune out being able to hear real issues or show any sympathy towards your "oppressors"

I bet if you would ask this in a feminist sub, they would double down and assume that you are also one of those people.

excessive_autism23 · 2023-01-20T11:29:43+00:00

You know, it feels like the men are too concerned abt having sex and not abt the person and the women are too conceited and rude.

When men complain about dating they usually say stuff like “I put so much money for her” which sounds like he’s just trying to win her with money, which is not what women are looking for.

bakalabalak · 2023-01-20T08:39:27+00:00

It’s because some men seem to think women are vending machines. They put in money, kindness, an expensive date, and expect sex. Key word SOME men. However, many women have had bad experiences with men like that, so when men complain about how difficult it is to get sex, it sounds exactly like entitlement.

figosnypes · 2023-01-20T17:32:22+00:00

Yet these same women feel entitled to a committed relationship from any man they go out on a couple dates with. Not only that but these are often the same women who will shame a man for not paying for them on a first date. And it should go without saying that they also feel entitled to sex. Usually this won't come up because they can get sex easily, but in the rare occasion that a man does turn down sex, they don't take very kindly to it. I've turned down sex a lot precisely because I don't want to deal with the unpleasant psychotic behavior that comes with a woman's sense of entitlement to a committed relationship after a guy sleeps with them.

traveller1976 · 2023-01-20T18:04:30+00:00

Yes true they define themselves as 2 boobs and 3 holes, sadly. Watch the skit with the comedian who asks what would happen if they lose their vaginas. Reversely women should be told they aren't entitled to 6 feet 6 pack 6 figures men. The world isn't fair.

Sean857mag · 2023-01-20T19:29:58+00:00

Because men aren't allowed to complain

Ok_Razzmatazz_1751 · 2023-01-20T06:42:45+00:00

How is the man exactly complaining relating to dating ?

I've seen men complain respectfully, and I've seen posts were men under anonymous type accounts talk about kidnapping a woman since one won't date them going into great details of what he'd do with the woman.

7legsspider · 2023-01-21T14:32:11+00:00

it depends a lot on the situation. when women say that we don’t owe you sex, it’s usually because the man does have that mindset. a lot of men think that if they are “nice enough”, to a woman and she still doesn’t want to date them, then the woman is an ungrateful bitch etc etc, which to that, we say, women don’t owe you anything

no woman is forced to date you or give you a chance even if you are the nicest guy in the world. if she just doesn’t want to date you then that’s it.

of course this is not always, this is not 100% of the cases. but it is usual. the next time a woman tells you that she doesn’t owe you anything you should consider for a second that you may be the problem, instead of blaming all of your problems on the evil feminists

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