33, Married for 10 together for 12 with 3 kids, 5’11”, 194lbs, Lifts: Bench: 280lbs, Squat: 365lbs DL: 450lbs OHP: 165lbs

Currently around 12-13% BF. Aiming for 9-10% within 3 months.

Sidebar/reading: NMMNG, SGM, WISNIFG, TSM, TMMSLP, PFS

MRP for right at a year.

Now to the question:

I’m getting sex, and the sex is getting better.

BUT, I can not for the life of me seem to get my wife to start actually having sex until like 1am, which isn’t super convenient.

I like to go to bed around 10:30pm.

I kino throughout the day, state my desires, lead her in the bedroom, but am met with lots of talking.

I may fool around with her leading up to the 1am mark, but she seems almost passive until it’s 1am.

I love connecting throughout the day (which can involve me listening and some talking on my part) and in the afterglow, but not endless talking leading up to sex.

If there’s any tricks to bypass all the talking, I need to be enlightened.

So far, my best guess is that she reaaally wants to make sure the kids are asleep. So, maybe if I can get them wound down sooner, it’ll shift the sex sooner.