Helpful or unhelpful to talk with partner about female psychology

My wife and I love to talk psychology.

That said, I’ve kept what I’ve learned about female thinking in terms of anything redpill etc. out of conversation.

My intuition is that it may actually help her be aware of herself if we’re discussing it in friendly conversation.

But I think I’ve heard that it’s best to not “talk about fight club”.

I don’t see it helpful to tell her “all about redpill”—just to discuss some of the aspects of female psychology.

Bad idea? Or could that actually prove fruitful in some way?

Part of me thinks that my motivation would only be that she might “change” by understanding better. So, perhaps it’s a way for me to avoid my MAP.

Again, just thinking out loud here.