Desperate women hit the biological wall try to cut deals with stupid beta males to have kids

DavidByron · 2013-08-18T23:16:52+00:00

Wanted:

Male to breed older woman. Woman is incapable of meaningful relationship and/or intimacy. Please attach income records with application.

Holy crap, you can't make this shit up.

iluuuuuvbakon · 2013-08-18T18:40:31+00:00

Technically wouldn't this be objectification and prostitution?

pocketknifeMT · 2013-08-18T18:45:30+00:00

‘I knew Charlie would be a great dad because he’s a really good provider, he’s got a huge heart and he’s very driven. With those qualities, I knew no matter what happened that we’d always be a family,’ says Apryll. Damian and Charlie ‘are like best friends’ and they all regularly meet up. ‘To all intents and purposes, I have two husbands!’ she laughs.

This is the key to the whole article. It seems like a nifty way for women to hedge and compartmentalize relationships. Bad boys are fun, but not great for raising kids. Solution? find another to raise the kids, and just fuck the bad boys. Where is the downside?

edit: I missed this:

Like Modamily, the site recommends that women go through a licensed fertility clinic and use artificial insemination (AI) rather than natural (NI — sex), as their rights are better protected.

Surely Co-parenting has men in mind...

Tastysalad101 · 2013-08-18T19:16:44+00:00

I don't get it why would any man agree to this?

CertusAT · 2013-08-19T10:18:18+00:00

I don't really give a shit about this.

Yeah it's fucking weird but it is a deal between 2 consenting adults. Nobody is forced to do anything here.

guywithaccount · 2013-08-19T00:06:08+00:00

If you make it to 40 and you still can't find a man who wants to father your children, there's probably a good reason for that.

forensic_freak · 2013-08-18T20:52:16+00:00

It's unfortunate for the resulting child. They are simply the product of mechanical, clinical procreation and not love of two humans. There are plenty of already born children needing fostering and adopting in the U.K. and if someone (regardless of gender) wants to be a parent, I can see no nobler way about it.

baskandpurr · 2013-08-18T19:00:30+00:00

I really hope paternity testing is a requirement.

AvgGuy101 · 2013-08-19T13:18:43+00:00

So... basically you skip the whole marriage/relationship thing and go straight to the living like a divorced father? Anybody think about how that's working out for the average divorced dad?

Here's the thing about contracts that involve the care of children... they are not worth the paper they are written on. As soon as the mother changes her mind or decides that she does not like the way things are going, she will change things to suit her desires. The courts will typically side with her because they employ the "best interests of the child" doctrine which really means the best interests of the mother. So all of those terms you spent hours and thousands of dollars in legal fees on for your contract in one of these arrangements will probably go right out the window the second mommy changes her mind.

Furthermore, look at what's currently happening in Callifornia with an unwed couple who used IVF to conceive a child. Divorced fathers typically have a difficult and expensive effort just to get the courts to force an unwilling ex to honor the terms of an agreement they signed. I am sure it would be much worse for someone in one of these arrangements.

TracyMorganFreeman · 2013-08-19T05:18:38+00:00

Male co-parent to father at least one child with an attractive, financially independent 42-year-old woman. Must be a fully involved co-parent happy to share emotional and financial responsibility. Pregnancy via IVF by January 2014.

Why doesn't this financially independent person just go to a sperm bank and get a nanny?

Unless they do want a relationship, just more of a one way version?

Pecanpig · 2013-08-18T18:21:40+00:00

2/10 would not couple with.

Revoran · 2013-08-19T10:46:54+00:00

Can we quit it with the whole "alpha" and "beta" thing?

Other than that (and the fact that this was in the Daily Fail) ... interesting article.

westhau · 2013-08-19T00:19:41+00:00

Your commentary in the title of this post is unwarranted, ignorant, and simply wrong.

A "stupid beta" has nothing to gain from inseminating a woman without sex or a relationship. What he wants is a relationship, and physical contact, not fatherhood.

If he does want fatherhood, then this is a means to an ends, and not any sort of coercion from the female. In fact, this is a pretty good solution for a MGTOW wanting a child.

This is a mutually beneficial decision made by two consenting adults. If both parents want the child, it is only natural that both parents will contribute financially (and emotionally). If this was only about money, the mother would never even say that she wanted the father to help in raising the child, or would later recant it.

2013-08-19T00:10:27+00:00

Sounds like these women want it all, and that check off those achievement boxes.

2013-08-19T02:40:54+00:00

Seems like a raw deal to me... but if he's wanting to buy what she's trying to sell, I don't see an issue here.

2013-08-18T23:27:21+00:00

Poor kids, destined to not have a chance at mom in dad living in the same house. Selfish.

2013-08-19T14:10:00+00:00

If men want a sexless relationship where they are the sperm and money donor then can't they just get married? Hiyoooooo

2013-08-19T14:55:48+00:00

Hey if it works for both parties more power to them.

FreddyDeus · 2013-08-18T21:33:08+00:00

Women and men often choosing partners for the wrong, or pragmatic and selfish reasons isn't particularly big news. Unless you're a socially awkward 16 year old who's still pissed at the nice girls ignoring you, and who is yet to embark upon all the joys and pains of actual relationships.

By all means draw attention to the media if it advocates this behaviour, or use it as ammunition against those of a certain political persuasion who suggest only men behave like this, but let's not pretend that it's a profound revelation.

Title	Desperate women hit the biological wall try to cut deals with stupid beta males to have kids
Author	madmartian
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Comments	58
Date	August 18, 2013 5:44 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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