A guy asks 100 girls for sex and gets turned down flat, but the girl asking guys has a 50% success rate. Why is he creepy, but she's fine? (2nd Vid in comments)

McFeely_Smackup · 2013-07-29T21:58:15+00:00

To be perfectly honest, the guys who said "no" were either with female partners when they were asked, or didn't believe the offer was legitimate.

If you eliminate those, the number of men who accepted was nearly 100%.

Why even approach people who were clearly with a partner? those are just red herring responses.

This is a comedic play off of actual studies performed on college campuses. They asked young men and women on a questionnaire how likely they would be to agree to a spontaneous offer of sex from an attractive member of the opposite sex. Then they actually performed the offer with actors like this clip did. They found that on a survey, men under reported how likely they were to agree to sex, and women over reported it.

In other words, men said they would do it LESS than they actually agreed to the offer, while women said they would do it MORE than they actually would.

Short answer: people respond differently to surveys than they do in real life.

Pecanpig · 2013-07-29T19:19:46+00:00

To be fair, the first guy in the Girl's video calls the cop on her.

geengaween · 2013-07-30T03:02:55+00:00

I would say yes. That girl is smoking hot. Then I'd have to deal with the disappointment of her offer not being genuine.

2013-07-29T21:00:12+00:00

nothing to do with mra

typically speaking guys have to do the chasing, and girls have to do the *rejecting thus why it's less of a deal for girls to say no and more of a deal when girls ask the question

Griddamus · 2013-07-29T18:41:28+00:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5JJFBtHcBnM

Second Video showing that a girl can ask guys and get a 50% hit rate.

I was just wondering why theres such a difference in attitudes when its the same question asked by each sex.

ahora · 2013-07-30T01:54:33+00:00

As a gay guy, I would say yes. But it's not OK, so I would say NO.

butter14 · 2013-07-30T03:09:38+00:00

I would like the experiment done in different situations. Outside of a bar at ~2 AM would be interesting.

samsc2 · 2013-07-30T16:07:21+00:00

I guess it's very similar to the concept of supply and demand. If there is a lot of something then the demand for it decreases. Simply thinking a guy needs to work very hard in order to gain sex and as such rarely has an excess of it which means his demand "want" for it does not go down. A girl almost never has to work hard for sex because the supply of sex from guys is so high due to their demand "want" of said sex, meaning ease of access and quantity of sex means less demand for sex.

It's a unbalanced equation in which Men always seem to want to have sex because of the amount of work that is needed to put in to gain said sex from women means they rarely will have an excessive amount of sex to lower the demand, and women who never seem to want to have sex because of the lack of work needed to gain sex because of an excessive quantity of demand from men.

DAMN ECONOMICS SCREWING UP MY SCREWING!

Qix213 · 2013-07-30T16:24:24+00:00

I'd say it's less about the sex of the asker, and more about the sex of the person being asked.

Even men that decline are more likely to take it as a compliment than as an insult. Women are far more likely to be insulted by the question.

Being 'creepy' isn't something someone does/acts. It's how the other person views/judges someone else.

MaximilianKohler · 2013-07-30T16:03:37+00:00

To be fair, he was a lot less attractive than her.

IreadAlotofArticles · 2013-07-30T03:25:05+00:00

In the video he often ask a group of women, that's a big no no. Especially when after the first rejects he moves to the next one. No woman would be a slut in front of the group unless the group has agreed to be sluts. The shaming on promiscuous women is at an all time high in the US. This needs to be done over and have him only approach women who are alone.

mechakingghidorah · 2013-07-30T08:23:16+00:00

Where did the 50% come from?

Every girl in the video turned him down.

krypto1339 · 2013-07-30T14:30:49+00:00

Where are all of these beautiful women? I live in Los Angeles, and I don't see stuff like this on the daily.

Tastysalad101 · 2013-07-30T22:20:20+00:00

I would honestly say no if this was legit she'd prob be infested with diseases and could get pregnant and using a condom feels like crap i personally get more pleasure from using my hand than having sex with a condom.

SecareLupus · 2013-07-29T20:19:38+00:00

I would argue that they're both creepy, violating the social contract by approaching people they don't know, and propositioning them. It's unwanted attention no matter who is perpetrating it.

It perhaps says something about how many men see themselves in society. We bring boys up telling them that they need to have sex to be a man, and that's fucked up.

This lines up a bit with the scumbag stacy the other day about it being unacceptable for men to desire sex when she doesn't, but also unacceptable to deny their partner it on request. It's an obvious double standard that most of society seems to buy into.

It's no wonder that many boys will, when confronted with an offer of sex, look at it as an option they're /expected/ to take, or else they'll be looked down on by society or their friends.

Griddamus · 2013-07-29T19:10:08+00:00

Hypergamy vs. Polygamy

This really has nothing to do with men's rights.

Babill · 2013-07-29T21:14:30+00:00

Because of the 50% success rate... Less men seeing it as unwanted sexual attention than females.

CeleronX · 2013-07-29T22:15:22+00:00

This has nothing to do with mens rights. if anything, the reason why she got a 50% success rate is not that he's creepy and she isn't. From the evidence I see here, I would perhaps maybe suggest that men have a higher sex drive then woman? MIND SHATTERING CONCLUSION, I KNOW! Hahaha in all seriousness, this is not always the case... But for these individuals in these videos, it seems to be. the men seemed to be willing to go through the risks of sex with a random stranger whereas the women did not.

Edit: down votes? Statistics don't lie. Not one out of 100 girls said yes to the guy asking for sex. Not one. The girl asking got 7 to say yes just by asking 14. Down vote me all you want, I didn't make the numbers up. Some of you guys in r/MensRights are just as bad as the extreme feminist-rights activists. Don't be in denial of the numbers presented in front of you.

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