Woman wants to date. Asks for feedback on Reddit and dating apps. Receives negative feedback. Doesn't like feedback. Wants to know if the negative feedback is a sign she is on the right track, but deep down knows it's a sign she's not and is scared of being alone.

MxCmrn · 2021-03-23T03:19:25+00:00

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styckx · 2021-03-23T03:22:09+00:00

Imagine discussing in length on Reddit like it's your full time job about your problems finding a "real" relationship instead of directing that energy into actually doing what you're bitching about.

imdaad_khan · 2021-03-23T03:42:16+00:00

For all their high standards and lofty strategies, none of the Eff-Dee-Ess posters ever seem to have any relationships, dates, or absolutely anything else to show for it

kidruhil · 2021-03-23T03:24:15+00:00

So typical.

And no she isn't receiving truckloads of hate mail. Reddit is leftwing af and would instaban any acct that did that dumb, petty shit.

ErickGrows · 2021-03-23T06:24:14+00:00

Have I lost my value as a women and am I on the track of being left behind?

No, it is the men who are wrong.

2021-03-23T03:23:27+00:00

Lol at the ending paragraph, how the hell do you come to that conclusion? I swear the women in that sub lack self awareness.

CentralAdmin · 2021-03-23T08:48:28+00:00

I love how she wants a relationship but expects something in return for offering sex.

And here I thought sex was something a couple enjoys together, not a transaction where one person is drained.

These are prostitutes pissed off they aren't getting paid more for opening their legs!

And only women could claim on the one hand that a vagina doesn't degrade and women lose nothing from casual sex, yet complain on the other they're not getting enough for the sex they offer. Sex which costs them what exactly?

By contrast, they want the fruits of a man's labour. He must pay with money he earned. If he loses out, he loses financially, which is far more tangible than a woman having sex.

The truth is that women have hyper inflated the cost of sex. They're angry that sluts cheapen it. They're mad at men for enjoying porn because it makes the ohsohard work of laying on her back and opening her legs as trivial as it sounds. They have to act like you have done the equivalent of torturing puppies or else they risk being caught out.

Indeed, men are catching on! They are getting sex with less commitment. They refuse to date shitty women. They're making women earn their affection for once, and women fucking hate it! They hate when the shoe is on the other foot because they are hypocrites. They believe they can do no wrong and are entitled to everything a man has by virtue of being passive, doing little more than spreading their legs and making the difficult decision to stay at home with the kids...and then bitch about it because they actually have to work!

There's a shortage of common sense among these women and they're celebrating their ignorance as if it's a victory to be alone and miserable.

houseoftolstoy · 2021-03-23T04:14:33+00:00

No, men are not attacking you because they think you are "powerful." If they are indeed doing so (nothing can be certain here), it is for mockery only. I do not condone attacking someone like this if it is indeed happening to her (also would need to see if they are actual attacks or not). I am against real, genuine attacks. But if it is as u/lurkerhasarisen suspects that they were just giving out harsh truths, that is not a concern from me. It is probably useless, but not a true attack.

Back to the "powerful" part, men are not going to be intimidated by such a woman, so she is nowhere near correct. And she will have to find out the hard way that the strategy she thinks will bring her a relationship that she wants will do no such thing. Sure she fears not finding what she wants, but it will become a certainty if she continues this route.

arokosi · 2021-03-23T06:48:56+00:00

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Autisticus · 2021-03-23T05:15:02+00:00

I want a nandroid so that I can be sweet and sappy. I wanna spoil her and wake up to breakfast and a kiss and a hug. I want a true "I love you!" I'd buy her flowers.

I'll never have to worry if she'll get bored and wants to check out with half of my life. I'll love her and she'll love me. I'll be nice to her and she'll be nice to me. It's not difficult but holy fucking shit.

sleepyweaselisawake · 2021-03-23T05:57:06+00:00

A smart RP man doesn't let her know he's RP. LPT... delete your YouTube account if you ever invite her over.

Overkillengine · 2021-03-23T07:51:48+00:00

The fact she says shes so powerful and they writes words along the lines of "I might be able to technically survivie single" is just such hypocrisy.

She also doesn't understand a lot about the red pill stuff. The men overwhelmingly hate the system that is biased against them. Its the courts, child support and various other aspects which are stacked against them which women abuse making long term releatinship completly unappealing in almost every way.

Sure if your going to write stuff on the internet your going to get a few people contact you and "have a go" but it would be the overwhelming minority that does so. When you also look at groups like FDS if you post something against their basic narrative your instantly banned so comments cannot be made publicly. Of course the only way you can be given feedback is by private message.

Shes right though FDS isn't the same as red pill stuff. Its much much worse. FDS pushes a narrative which sets out directly to expliot others for person gain though lies and decite. Men kinda do the same thing for sex but its a short term deal eg pump and dump and often they don't mislead people they will simply say they want something casual rather than the FDS long term expliotation by abusing a broken system. Which results in destroying peoples entire lives.

If she met / matched with a red pill guy she would probably not be aware who / what that person is. Just like men cannot be aware of the FDS women. Which is where lies the problem in modern releationships. Its impossible to tell if you going to get fucked over by the other person or not and the statistics show that men get screwed by the courts about 50% of the time in long term releationships. So to call people deluded on the bases of real data just shows how uninformed she is about what is actually happening in the world.

2021-03-23T06:40:14+00:00

The most powerful women are married ones, lol. Definitely not this one.

2021-03-23T07:07:54+00:00

This girl wants validation that she’s smart. She’s not. Just another bitch.

Dumloko · 2021-03-23T07:39:38+00:00

Surprised she says FDS is analogous or TRP which in my opinion is not even close.

lorum_ipsum_dolor · 2021-03-23T11:32:28+00:00

Have you considered trying to lose some weight? = Hate mail

FatherUnbannable · 2021-03-23T08:31:47+00:00

The ending is the best. Am I just too awesome and people can't take it? That must be it!

InevitableOwl1 · 2021-03-23T08:12:19+00:00

It seems pretty bold to assume all the guys DMing her are red pill ones. Perhaps they are as she has been able to check their post history

But I somehow stumbled upon FDS before even discovering red pill content. I didn’t direct message anyone but others might ...

But in answer to her question - they only thing that would prove they are “doing something right” is if they are able to attract the men they claim they desire that meet all their rules. They can’t (otherwise the sub wouldn’t exist)

laptopdragon · 2021-03-23T09:03:36+00:00

I'm confused on why she's asking "if" she's doing anything right?

Can't she evaluate her own options and know what's right and wrong for her or does she need literally everything to be spoon-fed to her?

At least she has that :

" notion of never going to be in a satisfying relationship"

out in front. With her views that men "drain women of emo/sex energy" is ridiculous. More like women create drama that suffocate men.

imo: Her chance of being in a loving and romantic relationship these days is dependent on if she adopts a dog or cat. Even then I feel bad for the pet that will have to put up with her through menopause.

I do wonder if she's even once, ever done anything remotely romantic for any of her ex's OR if it's the usual one sided (take/take/take) view point?

2021-03-23T13:21:16+00:00

Are they coming after me because I'm actually powerful...?

This is your brain on too much capeshit and feminism. No stupid, that's not proof that you're a "kween", it's proof that you can't handle criticism.

FatherUnbannable · 2021-03-23T08:28:29+00:00

Everyone gets hatemail on the internet who expresses controversial opinions. Or they get banned.

I don't condone either but that's how it is.

I have no sympathy for her for getting hate mail.

p3ngwin · 2021-03-23T09:43:13+00:00

"is it possible the evil men are hating on me because i'm a superhero, with super powers, and this is my origin story ?"

crew6dawg0 · 2021-03-23T12:29:15+00:00

There is a very high chance that no guy has messaged her as she claims. A lot of females like to pretend to be victims of hate in order to gather sympathy from other females and boys, and this is likely the case. We have seen people lie about harassment, assault, rape and everything under the sun in our personal lives and the news. Two instances come to mind, the NASCAR driver claiming a rope to control a garage door was racist even though it'd been there for years, and the black man who claimed to be assaulted by racist white men and ended up being proven completely false. Remember, these two scenarios were dealing with men, so you could imagine how much a female would be willing to lie since they need more attention, coupled with the fact she's posting on Reddit where nothing can be backed up. Leftist SJW types will often create fake Reddit accounts just to try and paint a narrative such as this.

2021-03-23T14:15:35+00:00

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heyyy-kiddo · 2021-03-23T09:49:26+00:00

Idk what to say ,but if she's a genuine good person i doubt she'll struggle dating,in the end what man doesn't want to date a good woman with her feet down to earth. Also considering the way dating works she would have 0 trouble to date since it's guys that initiate the most and she can initate too. What i don't agree on is this ideea that "powerfull women" attract men. Idk from where it came ,but whenever i hear this i cringe and think of another person with issues too big to want to put up with. In the end in a relationship "power" means zero since what purpose it serves,to dominate your partner mentally ? She doesn't seem to be a bad girl,but going on a date with the expectation of beeing a prize right away or dating around and finding a partner to just dump all your problems to him and then playing the "independent women" card in his face is not what i'd call success. Also people should learn that dating needs effort,people have flaws and they shouldn't expect to find their imaginary gf/bf in reality.

Joaquino7997 · 2021-03-23T11:18:41+00:00

Most men don't speak metaphorically or in hyperbole - we're pretty straightforward about what it is we want and don't want. If we want you, we'll move mountains to get you if that's what it takes. And if we don't, then it's really easy to tell that too. I don't see men coming after her with this feedback in the hopes of 'steering her in the right direction.'

If she were truly that 'powerful' (read: desirable) then she wouldn't be single, or at the very least, be on this platform to read all this 'negative feedback' from men whom are 'devoid of love and compassion.'

Bombolone99 · 2021-03-23T11:43:57+00:00

Can I ask why we obscure the Fuck-Dildos-Superthigt word from every post? Isn’t obvious that it came from there?

Nesarry31 · 2021-03-23T12:07:10+00:00

She literally has men telling her what they want and she goes to OTHER WOMEN to ask what men want. It’s unbelievable.

taavidude · 2021-03-23T09:01:51+00:00

She is a member of FDS afterall. Any woman that is part of FDS is just completely undatable.

_Nequis_ · 2021-03-23T10:08:32+00:00

I still can't believe how they use threatened as if it actually meant something,but then keeps hamstering away and get to the conclusion of "we're doing something right",like how the fuck would you draw that conclusion?

A tiger is threatening,a rabid dog is threatening,a white shark is threatening,an undateable woman sitting on a chair with a HR tag on her jacket? Not threatening

Ok-Adeptness4906 · 2021-03-23T11:11:47+00:00

Dear Ms. Kween: if you're on a dating site hoping to find a relationship, and getting hate mail instead of invitations for dates, you're definitely on the right track!!!

2021-03-23T12:11:30+00:00

She’s asking for dating advice on subs where men aren’t allowed to respond. Of course she gets DMs from men telling her to fuck off.

corytrevor710 · 2021-03-23T13:49:57+00:00

All I’m saying is they’re not HVW and HVM even if he did exist by their hilarious standards. It’s just “hate” because even LVM can see fds is pure entertainment at this point.

BluepillProfessor · 2021-03-23T13:52:11+00:00

hate mail directed at our members

Who? That violates the strict rules of this sub and Reddit rules as well. I bet she is getting PM's from MGTOW guys, not "Red Pill" guys and certainly not guys who read this sub for fun.

I don't believe her for a second. She got some responses to her posts and it hurt her fee fees, not PM's telling her she is undateable. If she did get some PM's I bet most were honestly trying to warn her about the truth and reality and probably trying to make a connection.

Of course reality and truth are tools of the patriarchy....

2021-03-23T09:35:16+00:00

This is the definition of cognitive dissonance.

Rexai03 · 2021-03-23T12:41:57+00:00

The projection is strong in this one.

BluepillProfessor · 2021-03-23T10:49:30+00:00

Do you think a woman who is on mind altering medications is capable of offering emotional support?

Aceryder824 · 2021-03-23T13:31:52+00:00

Shhhh... This post is from a subreddit that rhymes with r/gmailmatingstrategy

OwenWentFullMGTOW · 2021-03-23T13:53:36+00:00

Women often do something they know to be wrong and seek affirmation from others. Simps and white knights are a big help with that. But ultimately, the validation that's most precious comes from other women.

I mean, we all know which sub she's posting that to, don't we?

2021-03-23T15:18:24+00:00

Oh this is definitely FDS

peguy2000 · 2021-03-23T07:39:20+00:00

This hamster wheeling. Jesus

JayMeadows · 2021-03-23T12:01:10+00:00

... what? Is she high?

FatheredCleric · 2021-03-23T16:52:25+00:00

Humanity is lost

Joh_Ghurt · 2021-03-23T18:01:31+00:00

Paradoxically, she is on the right track and if she stays on course she'll avoid all those she doesn't want. That's all very good.

However this says nothing whether she gets what she wants. Most likely she won't, as high value men prefer high value women and those don't hang out on reddit.

TheApricotCavalier · 2021-03-26T16:03:46+00:00

Did you intentionally do a shitty job scrubbing the name?

TheApricotCavalier · 2021-03-26T16:04:52+00:00

> I have never sought out a man to say "I will gold dig you until I bleed you dry.."

We know you dont say it, you just do it. Its a problem.

Tweapodok33 · 2021-03-23T14:03:58+00:00

Is the red even necessary? Does anyone really not know which toxic shithole of a sub is being discussed here?

all_tha_sauce · 2021-03-23T04:24:16+00:00

After reading this post I've come to the conclusion that your crop game is hot garbage

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