Dating is exhausting, waiting for a bailout is much easier

RatingsOutOfTen · 2021-03-05T16:36:10+00:00

This isn't talked about because the government likes dependent single mothers to vote a certain way.

Glittering-Meat3088 · 2021-03-05T16:53:21+00:00

She looks quite a bit older in the right pic. Took on some hard miles she did.

NoEyesNoGroin · 2021-03-05T16:38:52+00:00

Why didn’t she keep the father lol 😂😂😂😂 How do you get yourself dumped during your pregnancy lol 😂 I never understand 🧐🧐🧐

Miggymoggy · 2021-03-05T17:52:46+00:00

Society would tell you that he bailed on his daughter but in reality we all know that in most cases women initiate all of the drama, so a lot of men just have had enough and go on their merry way leaving that nonsense behind them.

I wish Tyrone a happy stress free life.

Cursedwithknowing · 2021-03-05T17:19:32+00:00

Did Tyrone not stay, or did she throw him out?

Old_snowboarder · 2021-03-05T17:28:59+00:00

I'm always inspired by these strong independent women who don't need no man fish bicycle.

houseoftolstoy · 2021-03-05T19:33:46+00:00

If her biggest fear was becoming a single mother, she should have made absolutely sure that she did not end up pregnant from a guy who would not be around for the child. Given that he was available for the first picture, this was not simply not the result of a one night stand. This means she would have had more time to make sure that he was someone who she would want around for the long run and/or would be the type of guy to stick around. That is, assuming she did not just sleep with him after first meeting him.

Either way, she did not do nearly enough to make sure her biggest fear did not come true. No child should be raised in a home without the father. What man is going to want to be your backup plan when you have not proven to take your own life seriously enough? No woman should get impregnated by a given man unless she is absolutely certain that they will remain together to raise the child. Asking a different man to compensate for your failure to do this is just disrespectful and irresponsible.

TheObelisk · 2021-03-05T18:53:30+00:00

I mean this is cliche at this point.

plz_say_sike · 2021-03-05T23:27:19+00:00

The mainstream tries to make dysfunctional families the fault of the fathers. The father abandoned the family, he was an alcoholic, was abusive, etc. Of course there are men like that but to imply that the majority of fathers are like that is disingenuous.

Even the few men I know who only see their kids twice a month get shamed all over social media for being a deadbeat by their kids moms. Most of these guys didn’t want to abandon their kids but they just couldn’t tolerate the women anymore for their own sanity’s sake.

Remember gents, single moms are single moms for a reason. Either they willing chose and birthed the child of a bad man or they drove a good man away even at the expense of being apart of his own kids life.

NickTesla2018 · 2021-03-05T16:54:54+00:00

Keep it clean guys

2021-03-05T23:55:45+00:00

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DarkstarInfinity2020 · 2021-03-05T19:50:31+00:00

I'm not telling anyone what to do.

However, realistically, in this world you need to consider the implications of diversity marriages and adoptions on the children. What kind of bullying and abuse will the child receive its entire life. Black, white, asain, Hispanic, I dont care.

The children should be the most important concern.

xraidednefarious · 2021-03-07T19:39:09+00:00

Sorry but no white guy with a pair of balls is gonna date a white chick with black kids. Ain't gonna happen.

asdf333aza · 2021-03-05T20:45:16+00:00

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2021-03-06T00:26:50+00:00

I'm willing to bet that she's the one that fucked up

42252252 · 2021-03-05T22:10:25+00:00

All the social media posturing and party making always seems like a hedge to me. Maybe in the back of her mind she felt he didn't really wanna stick around for this, so she tried to make signboards and announce to the world his presence and commitment. In her mind, he thinks just like her, fearful of the condemnation of others, terrified of being ostracized for going back on his word and abandoning his family.

He's not her, though, so it had zero effect on his actions in the end, anyway. All it did was provice more evidence of poor judgement to future suitors, hopefully smart enough to dig a little deeper on their new flame. Her friends and family probably loved this guy, and jumping into her life now will always leave newbie playing back up, second fiddle replacement work as a placeholder until original baby daddy feels like coming back.

IntergalacticPigeon · 2021-03-05T21:33:25+00:00

Skipt Chad. Found Tyrone lol

Sumfuc · 2021-03-06T00:30:16+00:00

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vtec__ · 2021-03-05T22:07:45+00:00

not going to comment anything as i dont want to get banned. JFL

No-Cry-4771 · 2021-03-06T03:47:07+00:00

That’s definitely not Tyrone. That’s Prince Eno from Nigeria, who told her that he’d take her away from all her troubles and that they’d live in wealth and happiness forever and ever........ before he bailed.

asdf333aza · 2021-03-06T06:51:21+00:00

This guy doesn't look like a Tyrone. And I think a lot of guys here are showing their blue pill side by blaming him for ditching her.

The guys here know these modern day women are insufferable. We all know they have entitlement issues and crazy standards. That's why we are on this sub. Yet when they see this type of relationship something happens in their mind and they forget about that. They forget about the woman's actions and tThey start blaming the guy for leaving her. It's a product of their upbringing, and they don't even realize they're contributing to the favoring of females in society.

Women today have kids. And they don't think "I'm pregnant or I just gave birth. I need to be very good to my man to keep him around". They instead think the exact opposite. They think "I'm pregnant, or I just had a kid, now I can hit him with the bait and switch and act out and treat him terribly". And the government backs that kind of behavior by essentially rewarding women for getting rid of their men. They are rewarded for it.

And when said man doesn't put up with that bullshit and leaves, society (and even some the men in this very sub) blame that guy for leaving and not her for driving him away. Women get commitment, and suddenly stop trying to keep their guys around. Sex drops off. She gets fat. She stops wearing sexy clothes. We have all heard the stories.

Ask yourself whats more likely? This nice looking guy is actually pure evil and just wants to knock girls up and ditch them and neglect his responsibilities orrrr a girl got pregnant and changed her behavior and her attitude toward the guy because she believes she has power over him cause she's having his kid and knows she can now use the government to fuck him if he doesn't bend to her demands. Like honestly, which one of those two is more likely? The second women get power in relationships they become tyrants. End of story. We know which one is more likely, yet we still treat this guy as less than for not putting up with her shit. They very same shit that we all post and like about in this sub.

I don't blame the guys here making this mistake. They just don't know. That's the blue pill in them. When one of these succubus gets ahold of their sperm, they will know what's going on and realize the error in their judgement.

My money is on she drove him away versus him just getting up and leaving. You can alway see her forcing him to take stupid pregnancy photos like this one. Who knows how much more controlling she was when we couldn't see them.

2021-03-06T05:50:29+00:00

Well Kimber, maybe if you weren't such an insufferable bitch, the father of your daughter wouldn't have run away from you.

Mundane_Worldliness7 · 2021-03-05T16:59:50+00:00

Been posted before.

ThaiEscapePlan · 2021-03-05T21:46:03+00:00

are you kidding. he's looking at red exit sign in this picture. She's happy....He's got GTFO face.

2021-03-05T16:39:07+00:00

Hmmmmm

asdf333aza · 2021-03-06T08:04:03+00:00

He's a "good man" for putting up with his baby momma and staying with her no matter what she does. She's sending nudes to other men and he still pays her bills. He's a good man.

But if she acted crazy or he found out she was cheating and left her ass, he would be another deadbeat,right? He would be a pussy, and a bitch and a loser for not tolerating disrespect from his cheating baby momma. Because she had a kid, he should tolerate everything she does. She can never be in the wrong because she had his kid. He owes her the world. How Dare he stand up for himself.

Ask yourself, what's more likely? This young man being evil and a deadbeat who likes to knock girls up and leave them, orrrr this young modern day women doing a bait and switch after getting his kid and going on a power trip and driving him away? Women don't have kids and think to themselves "I need to do everything I can to keep my man and make sure he is happy". They think the exact opposite. They think "I just had his kid, so I can treat him however the fuck I want. And he owes me the world. And if he dares to fight back I'm telling everyone he is a dead beat and getting daddy government to fuck him up".

bbqbeerfreedom · 2021-03-07T02:03:32+00:00

One of my wife's friends is going through this right now. She wasn't a close friend but my wife is pregnant right now too and this friend is about 8 weeks further along so they started chatting a lot more. Then the friend's husband left her a few weeks ago when she was at about 25 weeks. Funny thing is her and her (ex-)husband used to post cute little IG things like this all the time about her pregnancy while my wife and I aren't really into that stuff so don't post anything. Her friend also used to always tag these posts with things about how great and supportive her husband was, etc. Now she tells my wife he was awful and had completely "checked-out" of the pregnancy, never came to her doctor appointments or asked much about them. People put up such a facade online. I do feel bad for her though because she is scared as hell about being alone as a single mom and having someone leave you while you're pregnant must be pretty crazy.

happychickenpalace · 2021-03-06T01:24:44+00:00

Sure, that man is the one you got pregnant from.

bag-o-kindness-coins · 2021-03-06T02:27:39+00:00

We live in a bizzare world

GrannyLesbian · 2021-03-06T04:57:01+00:00

No Whammy No Whammy No Whammy

Awwwwwww Whammy.

2021-03-06T21:34:58+00:00

She's just like the companies the government bails out. Greedy, stupid, and narcissistic.

Blogginginvicecity · 2021-03-06T07:12:18+00:00

My biggest fear was becoming a single mother

Yeah, at what point though? Like, chicks will say they want the best for their kids, but at what point did they want that? Battles are won before they are fought, in many senses.

Cad3Con3e11y · 2021-03-10T05:09:41+00:00

Burned the ----, has to pay the toll, now looking for someone else to help pay it.

DemoniteBL · 2021-03-08T14:55:43+00:00

Homie dodged a bullet it seems

ThexVee · 2021-03-10T21:46:13+00:00

To anyone thinking "lol Tyrone", observe the photo to the left. He okay with having the kid. He stuck around for the pregnancy.

I'm not going to theory-craft what happened after (would love to hear anyone's guess) but at one point he was committed to having a family.

IncorrigibleLee86 · 2021-03-13T18:19:25+00:00

Seeing as this post isn't from Tinder; homie might have died or something.

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SpecialOctopus89 · 2021-03-05T16:50:08+00:00

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Title	Dating is exhausting, waiting for a bailout is much easier
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Date	March 5, 2021 4:11 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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