Please beware of men who treat us like experimental projects... this is so extreme

2020-10-20T02:51:07+00:00

Lol, this guy thinking he is the prize.

I bet he is hoping this video gets out to some young impressionable girl who will think HVM actually operate this way and so the only way to get the man she wants is to contort herself to make it to the top of his make-believe pyramid.

Its the other way around scrote. Women are flooded by male attention and we vet them on our pyramid.

whendovescry2020 · 2020-10-20T02:50:47+00:00

I saw this on TikTok and I saw in the comments guys were asking him to make a book. They’re bunch of incels that hate women . But I’m glad some of the comments called him out and said he’s incel.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-10-20T04:10:21+00:00

Sexual compatibility: two dates.

???? Does that mean he really expects a woman to fuck him immediately? Moron. No woman who actually wants to buy his cow is going to fuck him on the first or second date. If a woman fucks you on the first or second date she's telling you "I just want you for your meat stick. I see no future." He needs FDS. (A little tongue in cheek)

His priorities here are a little messed up. Spending years with someone he knows there's no future with? Why?

I think his criteria and the way that he structured it in his "relationship pyramid" were correct, but the amount of time he's willing to spend in the beginning is far too short, and in the more serious stages, is far too long. Or maybe I have more of an issue with the fact that sexual compatibility comes before actually getting along as two human beings. That's just odd.

I think that first you have to get along and "vibe", second explore your values and goals, and then test your sexual compatibility. Next after testing sexual compatibility, I think you have to revisit values and goals because you are in the early stages of a relationship and people gloss over things or accentuate some things and downplay others. You still barely know someone at this point.

Final point, his tone is very "desperate loser male but very full of himself" and that hobo hoodie. 🤮

daglowup · 2020-10-20T02:55:43+00:00

Lol, watch this guy end up decrepit and alone.

_mooness · 2020-10-20T03:44:24+00:00

He’s trying to cope with the fact that no one wants him beyond 5 dates. How could they when he categorizes people like this?

Novemberinthechair · 2020-10-20T05:19:45+00:00

It's simple, really. He's an asshole. After a few dates, women catch on that he's an unbearable dick. Now he's trying to cope. He's got us figured out, ladies, and he's going to tell all his fellow assholes what a practiced LVM he is. Oh no! What ever shall we do?

2020-10-20T04:27:53+00:00

But he has NO problem stringing any/all of those women along.

He's a user.

2020-10-20T06:22:44+00:00

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2020-10-20T04:16:39+00:00

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daisy_0720 · 2020-10-20T06:47:23+00:00

Or he could just... you know... only date women he's actually romantically interested in?

2020-10-20T04:49:28+00:00

Lol @ this scrote thinking he’s so clever and interesting for being a player. He lacks the emotional intelligence to see women in a nuanced way, as people, rather than objects to be ranked/categorized.

rebel4acause · 2020-10-20T10:03:40+00:00

It’s a reminder that men can be with women for YEARS, yet know that they’ll eventually leave them. They feel no guilt about wasting our time.

ChocoBananza · 2020-10-20T08:22:53+00:00

No, no, he has a point. Not for him though, but I think that what he said is very applicable to us. I’m gonna cherry pick a bit here:

Attraction? Hell yes, first thing I want from my man is to be attracted to him. Also, his physical appearance tells me quite a lot about him and our compatibility from the start. I’m fit and outdoorsy, so if he’s scrawny, fat, of skinny-fat, we have no future together, no matter how NiCe or fUnNy he is. Two dates part? That’s a lol.

The next two are how a ‘get to know each other’ phase should progress, and I do agree that that should only last a few months (again, lol for the 5 days part and assumption that she wants to be exclusive after a few dates)

As for the rest sigh, unfortunately, no matter how much we vet our partners, there is always a possibility of them being an ass in the end. So maybe that max of two years is not that bad of a timeline? That’s enough time to get to know someone as well as you can, but still not wasting too much time on a relationship that (in hindsight only) had no real future.

Thoughts?

kycake · 2020-10-20T08:27:10+00:00

this male is disgusting. he’s very clearly an incel who can’t get women so he made this video just so some young girls will think he has value but no intelligent woman will actually even speak to him after seeing this video. also there are tons of comments under his video calling him an incel and an idiot which is nice ☺️

shaquielle0atmeal · 2020-10-20T09:35:23+00:00

"How comfortable are we doing nothing." If she's not your girlfriend she doesn't have to chill on your musty mattress planted on the floor along with your sheets you haven't washed in two weeks. Even if she was, low vibrational behavior is a no no. There are plenty of chill dates you can do such as picnics etc (and that's once you have been dating someone for a certain period of time). If he wants to do nothing all day, he can get a dog

2020-10-20T11:55:47+00:00

Aw I'm disappointed because I liked this guy's other Tiktoks on famous philosophers and such.

I really dislike this mindset because it feels like he doesn't see women as real people. It seems to me that he categorizes a woman before even getting to know her and using her according to a timeline.

I'm all for having standards and "testing" a person to see if you're compatible, but do it in a more... Humane way. See the other person as a person, not as Woman #3553 who's ready to be evaluated.

He sounds like he has a lot of issues and he's making all sorts of criteria to keep himself from getting hurt. I don't think he actually wants a woman to pass all these tests lol.

AnniaT · 2020-10-20T10:46:19+00:00

I like the idea if the pyramid itself but I don't like the time periods or the fact that he'll waste some of these girl's times even knowing they're not "it". Typical.

GAaliyah12 · 2020-10-20T13:00:25+00:00

Who would even date him? Ew

2020-10-20T13:13:20+00:00

My video player isn’t working but he nasty

Title	Please beware of men who treat us like experimental projects... this is so extreme
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Date	October 20, 2020 2:42 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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