First month of Financial freedom in almost 30 years, child support is over.

ijustdontcare74 · 2023-04-10T07:48:38+00:00

I’ve got another 12 months until my freedom. Already planning a long vacation across Europe to celebrate. I think my bitch exw is in for a rude shock, I know her income is not enough to cover the mortgage and her living costs. She’s not bothered to advance her career over the last 18yrs, instead relying on my income. Still earns roughly the same as when we met 25yrs ago. Even after I funded a masters she’s still not earning anything more. Any cries of poverty will fall on deaf ears. I did chat with my lawyer as I was worried about her trying to take me back to court but my lawyer assured me that she cannot get another penny once the kids are adults. We have a financial separation order in place and in my country that means the court approved settlement is final and binding and there cannot be any revisions.

Remarkable-Potato21 · 2023-04-10T03:56:25+00:00

NJ was the catalyst. Glad to read the amusement ride is over. You did all you could. It's nothing short of bs but you have a great attitude to persevere. Nothing in this life is given unless fought for. Wishing you the best for yourself.

Funny_Wolverine_9 · 2023-04-10T01:31:32+00:00

Wow...can't wait. Would love to hear more how life has been for you.

Was it CS + tuition or just tuition once they hit 18?

Disastrous-Aspect569 · 2023-04-10T15:32:32+00:00

My kid moved in with me last September. Stopped having to pay my court ordered prostitution payment. Now I just take care of my kid. I have so much extra money.

Her mom went from "I don't need child support" to 'go fund me for break pads and oil changes"

FunkyTownMascot · 2023-04-10T02:31:22+00:00

Now you have to grind and hopefully still be ale to retire. I'm still paying mom support while she's living a great life off of my back.

rb577511 · 2023-04-10T13:15:28+00:00

Great News! Happy for you.

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2023-04-10T22:26:16+00:00

I have about 7 years left if my youngest does not go to college.

I’m pushing them to do the trades. AI can’t take it over and a trade can’t be taken away.

Title	First month of Financial freedom in almost 30 years, child support is over.
Author	minilabthrow
Upvotes	30
Comments	26
Date	April 10, 2023 1:22 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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