This may not be news to anyone, but I don't see it being extensively discussed. Men nowadays see women as sex objects, and women see men as status objects. This is reflected is how men seem to subscribe to cold-approach/pick-up culture and pornography, while women are happy collecting likes on social media.

So much dating advice is being said as "women want..." or "Men look for...", while there is some necessity in generalizing, this tosses away the importance of understanding the personality of the person you are dealing with.

Personality is viewed as a meme in modern dating, but it really shouldn't. If you have any intention of bonding with a person without seeing him/her as a mere commodity of pleasure, you have to acknoledge who that person is under the face you physically see.

"Results demonstrated that short-term orientation was associated with lower levels of relationship quality and an increased likelihood of complaints about the partner and the relationship. Long-term relationship orientation, on the other hand, was associated with higher levels of relationship quality."

The truth is, 99% of men or women aren't for you, it's a mismatch of personalities. Let's say you're a masculine man, you're ideal woman should be but in a feminine demeanor. You shouldn't just look for a woman with a big chest, compatibility is crucial for the success of a relationship.

Long-term relationships seem to have lost their appeal in this ADHD nation ruled by pleasure. And it has opened the door for countless opportunistic behaviors for both men and women.

Countless studies have shown that married men and women are happier and healthier together.

Study 2

Dating apps aren't ruining dating, they are just a symptom of this pleasure obsessed society.

Men with successful careers often seek a high-value young wife. But contrary to what the pathetic red-pill claims, she is not going to date or hook-up with just any loser pathetic man-child moron Red-piller who cold-approaches. She would instead demand a long-term commitment from a real man worthy enough.

Short-term dating will not expose neither men nor women to any high-value partners.