Before we even address this topic, it has to be noted that current mainstream culture- glorifies stud behaviour and hypersexuality. The so called "swag", or coolness of acting like one, applied to the male gender, the idea that the more women you sleep with, the more valuable and good you appear to be in the light of other men, women and society, etc. That you have to be bad, rich and good looking to be perceived as attractive, and that those that are good, not rich or not as good looking, are deemed invisible.

Seriously, how is it possible that people - especially those in countries subjugated by the tyranny of woke rainbow fascism - allowed the mainstream culture to be polluted by degenerate forms of conducting relationships?

How can you claim to be a man if you act like a player? You are just fooling yourself big time.

The thing is while mainstream culture portrays this hookup culture of sleeping around as the new normal and a must-do, I actually find it repulsive. Because, let's be honest, when a stud is sleeping around with women -, these promiscuous women are also sleeping around with other men. And this screws the dynnamic of any attempt to build healthy relationships, as partners become discaradable like supermarket shelve items. One day one partner, the next day another, in an obsessive pursuit of narcissism, hedonism and selfishness.

Healthy relationships are formed on the basis of mutual effort, dedication, respect and affection. Yet the hookup culture promotes the idea that constant adultery for the sake of hedonism is beneficial and good. Then why is it that this hookup culture, so massively advertised on a daily basis by the current mainstream culture, is are being increasingly rejected by men?

One of the reasons of why more and more men are shifting away from hookup culture is that you don't have any partner stability whatsoever, that people come and go to your life like the wind, that is, you show you have no standarts.

Another reason is men in serious relationships, more inclined towards monogamy, see studs as threats to society. The stud only looks for himself, he wanders around town, preying with malice on other's mens girlfriends and wives, trying to convince himself it's totally okay what they do, because they think they're entitled to screw and ruin other's men's lives without any consequences. We're not concentrating on the part where the women is not interested in the stud's advances, but only on the stud's behaviour.

The fact that some of these studs do enjoy screwing those man's lives, or admit that they're screwing those men even though that is not their intention, only makes their behaviour more repulsive. How you would feel, being in healthy relationship, knowing there are 200 studs in town looking for serial hookups with women in that town, anywhere and anytime? You would have to feel unconfortable. Even if you women or wife says she is not interested, let's get to territorial facts: the stud is one click away from your girlfriend/wife, reachable by free social media apps, phone or any device. You would not want to have someone nearby who can't respect your relationship and needs to trash your life, just for the sake of narcissism.

I don't believe when some dare to say that "women" are attracted to bad boys and studs. For females with no integrity, certainly. You have people with no morals who need to trash on others everywhere, females or males alike. If you are a "good girl", look like a good girl and act like a good girl, but you go or "can't help but are attracted for stud trash", I'm sorry but you're delluding yourself, you are not a "good girl". You insult good women with that wishfull dellusion. You're just another hypocrite to throw to the streets. It doesn't matter if you look like a queen, if you act like a girl who belongs to the streets. Not all women need to be attracted by bad boys and studs and I guarantee you that a real good women can not tolerate a stud and what he stands for.

This leads to another point, so what is a real good woman, for what concerns a monogamous heterosexual relationship? I think some traits can be universally indentifiable in women who effectively are good woman.

First, she has to care for the man in a natural, instinct manner. This comes without saying, love is only real when unconditional, meaning that the man must be seen as worthy and loveable by the woman everytime. You can't fake caring instinct, either you have or you don't.

Second, she does not need to correlate the value she places on the man based on his income, his salary, job, career or his wealth. If the woman can not separate the ATM from the man, she can not genuinely value the dignity of the man.

Another aspect, the wilingness to comminicate and be there for the man unconditionally. A healhy relationship demands natural communication, willingness to assist at all times, not when it suits or when it gets convenient.

Also, a good woman will also have to support the man, through his trials, goals, life journeys and hardships. A good woman will not look for excuses to flee from hardships or difficult times, she will stay and be willing to help the man.

Lastly, motherly instinct is also a key component in a good woman. The ability to nurture empathy and compassion, acting selflessly and without any agenda, doing good and right are foundations for keeping a healthy home.

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