Have you ever seen a couple in real life that DOESN’T fit your pill views?

Whiskeyjack1982 · 2023-08-14T14:16:12+00:00

I see them once in a while.

Most couples I see reinforce the 80/20 rule.

I see a lot of obese women with good looking guys.

I see a lot of Chads with average looking woman.

Most couples I see the woman looks worse than the man.

ProfessionalTwo8698 · 2023-08-14T13:04:54+00:00

An exception only proves the rule.

platinirisms · 2023-08-14T13:31:44+00:00

Even the ones who don’t visibly fit the rule, end up fitting the rule behind the scenes.

There’s only one relationship I know where the man is clearly more unattractive than the woman, she’s tall and pretty, he’s short and ugly.

They are sexless, she’s not interested in sex at all, he is interested but he just puts up with it to continue staying with her.

Besides that. No. I have never seen an attractive woman date an unattractive man. People date of equal attractiveness or women date up. I practically never see women date down.

When people online go “Noo I see tons of ugly men date plenty of attractive women”.
1. Women see 80% of men as ugly so I immediately don’t believe them.
2. The man is facially ugly, but he makes up for it by being tall/rich/muscular. Look at strongmen, they look like ogres yet every single one has a girlfriend, because they’re 6’5 and are made of pure muscle.

InternationalYou483 · 2023-08-14T17:56:11+00:00

When I look around it just gets worse for men with each subsequent generation

Boomers - lots of short/ugly guys in relationships, marriages

Gen X - short/ugly guys start to struggle. Some of them are single

Millennials - lots of short/ugly guys are single, sexless, virgins, etc. Average guys start to struggle too.

Zoomers - generally only see girls paired up with extremely tall Chads or in lesbian relationships with other girls. Most of the Zoomer guys are single, including average guys. I frequently see extremely tall Chads walking around with 3 or 4 girls on their arms. Chad harems are a real thing. I know because I've seen them.

That Pew Research survey showing that around 2/3s of young men are incels seems broadly accurate when I go out into the real world. Zoomer girls would rather share a Chad or get into a lesbian relationship than settle for some average guy. The idea that women are all Chadsexual and bisexual seems to be broadly accurate. We've removed the societal constraints that forced them into marriages with evenly matched men, so we are now seeing their real sexual preferences. They simply aren't attracted to most men. They want a top-tier man (or another woman if they can't get Chad to commit). And if they struggle to get either of those things they would rather stay single than get with their looksmatch.

timetraveller5000 · 2023-08-14T15:29:55+00:00

A few times I've seen males shorter than me (5'7) with girls but they had all full beards and perfect faces, it's a strange world we live in.

Southern_Fall983 · 2023-08-14T16:56:17+00:00

The couples who range within ages 18-25 usually consist of the male being exceptionally tall (6’3” and above) and handsome (good bone structure, full head of hair etc.). Not necessarily Chad but solid Chadlite and above. Physique is typically skinny to somewhat muscular..the women are usually average to above average only in facial features.

None of them are “in the top 10-20%” in attributes most men really prefer, such as body fat percentage, breast size, voluptuousness etc. In these categories, they all seem to fall within the 50% range, which says a lot to me because the comparable attributes women really prefer (demand) such as facial attractiveness and height all seem to fall within the top 80% range and above with respect to their boyfriend. I almost never see looksmatched couples anymore, as people who fall outside of the demographic I described above are usually alone, with the women typically burying their faces into their phones. The men are typically “homely” or unkempt, but how can you blame them, as they have 0 incentive to put effort into their fashion if even then they are still undesirable

Pretty_new_ · 2023-08-14T19:04:02+00:00

Women always date up. There are too many men that are simps. The other day I was reading comments on a home made porn video… woman was ugly but everyone was mesmerised by her tits.

zastale · 2023-08-14T13:01:33+00:00

All the time, but no one truly knows the dynamics besides them and (maybe) those close to them.

Everything is based on leverage, and whoever has more will dictate the terms. In this gynocentric social order, women have the leverage in most cases. At the end of the day, they still get fucked by top men. Those men always win.

Few-Horror7281 · 2023-08-14T16:51:26+00:00

You guys see couples in real life?

Enigmatic93 · 2023-08-14T17:04:45+00:00

I see it at about once a week. But within that week I also see 50 couples where the guy is just as good or better looking than his partner.

SilentFroggy · 2023-08-14T13:06:50+00:00

I see them everyday. These type of women have high bodies and do drugs/get drunk every weekend. They’re usually chasing status and have had many past relationships. I’m guessing this is what nonblackpillers meant when they see unattractive guys with women all the time.

There are a few good relationships where the guy isn’t fully attractive, but these are rare and you’re just playing your luck by pursuing them.

potoricco · 2023-08-14T17:10:29+00:00

I don't understand this question but I have a funny story

I went to a catholic church, and I saw one of the most beautiful women ever. she must have been East African or south asian, she had ruddy glowing skin, very long jet black curly hair, light brown eyes, tall, pretty face. then next to her I saw a very short chubby balding white guy with a patchy beard and they had a kid. I have never believed in hypergamy or the redpill. women's physical standards are not actually that high in real life.

wagoncirclermike · 2023-08-14T13:23:54+00:00

Yes because the blackpill is one gigantic bundle of logical fallacies and impossible statements.

TheSongsInYourHead · 2023-08-14T17:20:44+00:00

Cognitive bias.

When you make uncontrolled observations you're going to see what you expect to see.

It's for this reason that the common "Just go to Walmart" thing is so dumb.

RetroRedhead83 · 2023-08-15T01:03:16+00:00

Constantly

Agianttruckofpizza · 2023-08-15T02:20:00+00:00

I know an Indian guy who is dating a white woman who is taller than he is.

uselessloner123 · 2023-08-14T13:10:59+00:00

Not in real life, no

DicamVeritatem · 2023-08-14T13:14:06+00:00

Rarely.

Wrang1er · 2023-08-14T18:33:57+00:00

i see a lot of gl white guys with average non white women, especially gen z

DarkAdmirable653 · 2023-08-14T20:43:42+00:00

I only know of 1 such couple personally. The woman is about 10 years younger, and much better looking. The guy isn't rich, he's out of shape, balding, maybe 5'11. I don't think she's cheating either, she's just religious and they had kids very young and she stayed married.

Most couples the man is better looking than the woman though.

iamatwork24 · 2023-08-15T15:29:28+00:00

My god so many people in here are so full of shit and generalizations. Why is it only red pill morons comment on these things with their made up nonsense

Title	Have you ever seen a couple in real life that DOESN’T fit your pill views?
Author	avocado-afficionado
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Date	August 14, 2023 12:43 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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