Why do some guys with alot of female friends start hating other men?

wiptcream · 2023-08-25T16:25:45+00:00

it actually did the opposite for me. it made me realize how toxic women can be.

hwjk1997 · 2023-08-25T16:28:40+00:00

He says whatever it takes to get them to like him. Male feminists have a reputation for a reason.

mrkpxx · 2023-08-25T17:56:05+00:00

White Knighting is an expression of a feeling of inferiority.

FlankFlunk · 2023-08-25T16:21:13+00:00

It's called the Banty Chicken syndrome. Once he gets a "harem" he feels is his he becomes hostile to men because he doesn't want to be shown up or have them leave so he simps for them and disparages other men

wes_bestern · 2023-08-25T18:11:59+00:00

Hate is contagious.

plumberack · 2023-08-25T17:42:50+00:00

Simp mindset. They struggle with dating women so they end up becoming agreeable to blend in in a hope of increasing their chances of dating. It never works and instead they become a sink hole to suck male bashing from their female friends and spew it online on men.

RandHomman · 2023-08-25T16:26:35+00:00

Seeking validation

KrazyJazz · 2023-08-25T16:35:10+00:00

It is called "Vagina pandering". For what it's worth:

The Crow and Foxy

Mr Crow , perched on a tree,

Was holding in his beak a cheese.

Mr Foxy allicked by the smell,

kept it this language pretty much:

“Hello, Mr. Crow,

That you are pretty, that you seem beautiful to me

Without lying, if you’re singing

Relates to your plumage,

You are the Phoenix of these woods’s hosts.”

At these words the crow does not feel joy,

and to show his beautiful voice,

He opens a wide beak, and drops his prey.

Foxy seized it, and said:

“ My good sir,

Learn that any flattering

Lives at the expense of the listener.

This lesson is well worth a cheese probably.”

The shameful and confused Crow Swore,

but a little late,

that we would not take it anymore.

Hornydaddy696 · 2023-08-25T17:17:51+00:00

They don't.

They pretend so that they can be seen as more than friends

killcat · 2023-08-25T21:23:22+00:00

They don't HAVE female "friends" they are orbiters, they say what they think will get them laid.

vanislandbroyo · 2023-08-25T20:50:07+00:00

As a gay man, even other gay men do this shit. "Men are the worst" I just wanna fucking slap them. Especially them saying that as a man. And when women say "I should just be lesbian" like it's a fucking choice. Basically, people piss me the fuck off.

cloudlessjoe · 2023-08-25T21:29:28+00:00

Beta energy.

doctor_bobolas · 2023-08-25T15:58:06+00:00

they are afraid of losing their female friends, they have essentially became weak and pathetic men which no woman would give a single chance at dating

AbysmalDescent · 2023-08-25T23:06:38+00:00

Do you think women would want to be friends with him if he didn't feed into their echo chambers? If he started really being objective or reasonable about men around them, it would probably cost him a lot of friends. This is especially true with social circles comprised of many women, who are far more likely both gossip about him together as women and blindly believe, accept and follow any negative sentiment one woman might have against him. Those women would drop him pretty quickly if he ever stepped out of line, and then he would effectively be left with nothing.

There's also the fact that some men, when hanging around a lot of women, not only start adopting a lot toxic traits from women as well, especially if they are lonely or desperate for female approval/attention. A lot of women are especially brutal to men who they view as "feminine" as well, so it's often the case.

AdAny7443 · 2023-08-26T05:07:24+00:00

It's just the usual male feminist simp playbook. These dudes don't have "female friends" they have girls they're trying to hard to have sex with and think this pathetic attempt at being on "their side" is how to do it. Even the woman he calls friends don't respect him, they know what he's doing and they use him, they friendzone that loser and keep him there to fight their battles for them. It's a sad position to be in, but these guys are willing to do it.

He might get the occasional "I'm glad I have a friend like you" txt from these woman, but they're never gonna touch his penis. They're too busy getting their back blown out by the same type of men they tell him they hate lol

OldTrapper87 · 2023-08-25T23:43:53+00:00

You are what you ek I had a phase where most of my friends were girls but in my defense I was a construction worker and after a week of working with cow boy pirates I needed to ground myself with a polar opposite.

Naturally I became a pin cushion for all theirs problems even the ones they didn't want fix. It started to make me hate the ass hole player type of guy but it didn't take me long to notice the woman loved the ass holes most of all so who was I to judge.

Only a stupid person would let a ass hole come back repeatedly and for every ass hole there are 5 stupid bimbos.

2023-08-26T12:04:00+00:00

Basically, it's a case of being exposed to one point of view. If you only hear one sort of thing, you'll think it's the only truth/correct side of the Argument.

Shdwfalcon · 2023-08-26T03:48:07+00:00

They are hen-pecked cucks and simps. That is why.

Local-Willingness784 · 2023-08-26T04:07:50+00:00

lots of shade here for these dudes, but I will be playing devil's advocate here and say that its just the very human act of trusting your friends first and foremost, and in the specific case of friend groups very female-oriented, it also happens to hear and absorb a lot of bad experiences or second-hand experiences regarding men.

Of course it isn't healthy nor commendable, but its understandable. they should be held accountable for spreading more hatred towards men, the real problem here is tho, how common and normalized talking shit and generalizing men is, its almost a fucking team sport at this point, but calling these men simps and pussies aint solving anything, and at worst would just make them even more susceptible to fall deeper and deeper into more extremist feminist ideologies.

im also not advocating for pandering to them and what not, specially if you have had to deal with guys like this online, or worse yet, in real life. hell even ignoring them is fine in my book, but personally, i just don't want to treat these guys like a feminist would treat us, throwing around stupid words like incel, or in this case simp or pussy. i dont want to reach that level of low.

Superyoshikong · 2023-08-26T17:12:51+00:00

Why do women with a lot of male friends start hating women? Lol same thing, they're both sellouts

Coolio_Street_Racer · 2023-08-25T18:31:10+00:00

Dude fr, I knew this guy who hated men and I was just like ????. Man slayed tho

C-Murder504 · 2023-08-25T22:25:08+00:00

What a bunch of scared little pussies 😆😆😆🤣🤣🤣

(I mean this sub)

Sufficient-Row674 · 2023-08-25T17:27:19+00:00

Because they start becoming smarter.

PadenJedi · 2023-08-26T04:04:37+00:00

Hey guy who has a lot of female friends or rather did and it somewhat made me dislike certain men.

I don't hate other men, it made me realize some of my guy friends were really toxic for mental health when I was already struggling. I did eventually make better friends with different guys. It made me dislike certain types of men but not just random men or all men out of nowhere. I now have more male friends than female friends but there was a time and it was helpful for the time.

KaiserVonFluffenberg · 2023-08-26T18:22:03+00:00

Because they’ve realised that stuff ain’t funny.

Title	Why do some guys with alot of female friends start hating other men?
Author	afewquestion
Upvotes	86
Comments	33
Date	August 25, 2023 3:47 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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