My X made it Facebook official with her AP 30 days after we finalized our divorce. We were agreeing on everything during the divorce so it only to about 30-45 days to get processed. So far in the two months utes she has been moved out. She has only had the kids six nights and we are supposed to have 50-50 custody. Now that they are official she is already talking about having the kids around him. I am fine with whatever she wants to do but I do not like the fact she is trying to drag and rush the kids into it. My daughter still ask every night about if mommy can come home so we can have our family back. Mentally I have been doing very well. Taking care of the kids and have been doing a lot of things to keep myself busy but seeing that today has definitely put a damper on my mood. How did you guys go with us or things like this?