Would love to hear some success stories right now.

Ran into my ex in the post office after a year NC, and she was bragging about how she was doing well. Engaged to a doctor, new promotion, startup might go public. she’s also in better shape than she ever was.

I looked like shit following an accident where I can’t even workout for a few more months. I felt so small around her. It was like a movie scene where I just wanted to die.

Part of me believes karma will eventually give her what she deserves. Any success stories of exes wanting to get back or just in a bad state years after a divorce where you know they know they really effed up?

How did you yourselves get out of a mental hole years after a divorce?

I feel like I’m starting from scratch here after 2.5 years. Feel like my ass peaked in high school or something at this point. Dating has been awful in the US for me. (I’m a short Cambodian guy).