The average redditor is so ugly they can't even fathom the idea of a woman making the first move.

kukkle1111 · 2023-10-06T17:02:23+00:00

they should either wait for choosing singnals/indicators of intrest or wait until she approaches.

Yep.

Men refuse to believe women will actually actively show interest, if not directly approach, men they’re actually attracted to.

But most women aren’t attracted to most men, so most men have never experienced this and rationalize it with “Hmm, they must be waiting for me to make the first move”.

No, she doesn’t want you making any moves.

She thinks you’re ugly.

AsianAssDick24 · 2023-10-06T18:47:10+00:00

How tall are you? I'm 5'3" and I don't think I've ever had a single woman that isn't a cashier talk to me first ever after like elementary school

five10manlet · 2023-10-06T16:19:30+00:00

A lot of normie tier men don't understand the things we say because they're entirely ignorant of the treatment Chad gets, since they don't interact with Chads and just take women's word at face value. They don't even have the slightest idea and think Chad has to have a good personality, make the first move, etc just like them and maybe his looks give him a boost in success rate. LOL. No. Not even close, the game is completely different for Chad.

Bubbly_Pension4020 · 2023-10-06T16:41:40+00:00

I think a wild one I see on Reddit is “Men rarely receive compliments.”

Yes, Redditor. You don’t get any compliments because you’re a man. It has nothing to do with you being unattractive. Chad’s definitely not getting compliments on a daily basis.

partyn3xtd00r6 · 2023-10-07T04:20:18+00:00

There’s guys on the seduction subreddit convincing themselves they can’t get laid cause they’re too attractive and women are intimadated by their good looks.

Hubris1998 · 2023-10-06T17:38:02+00:00

No, I've seen it, and it was awful. I see a mid 304 at a bar (she banged one of my friends at a car park), I don't approach her because ew, and at the end of the night, she comes up to me and asks me if I'm gay lmfao

jaypb182 · 2023-10-07T08:11:01+00:00

Not a Chad

Has women ask for his number

Buddy, I know this is a LARP, but at least be consistent with reality, my guy.

Deebo_Sandals · 2023-10-06T18:23:40+00:00

I’m not a Chad, but I get compliments on a semi-recurring basis and my friends are all decently attractive. Girls do rarely approach but it is way more common for them (from what I’ve seen) to have their friends come up to you or as op said give obvious iois. Usually it’s a constant smile eye contact and giggling, but sometimes if they are drunk that can get touchy. My one friend straight up had a random girl walk up to him and ask to kiss a few weeks ago and the girl I’m talking to approached me at the bar not long after. I can’t even imagine the treatment top tier men and athletes get…

RonMexico432 · 2023-10-06T18:51:20+00:00

Guys need to stop getting their dating advice from tv. It is written to have a certain outcome in an allotted amount of time. It's not real. It's never appropriate to "ask out" a total stranger and pressure them to give you their time.

BoogersAndSugar · 2023-10-06T22:42:03+00:00

They clearly don't have "chad" friends, or they'd see it for themselves. It's a completely different world, one that has to be SEEN to be believed.

ropecelling · 2023-10-07T06:46:28+00:00

you arent average

Petrosmine · 2023-10-06T17:41:49+00:00

i cant fathom the idea of a teenage girl seeing me and not laughing out loud right away

AlastorSitri · 2023-10-06T16:07:28+00:00

I personally find mind games like these to be stupid af.

If you find someone you think you got a shot with, you don't really have anything to lose by approaching. To me it just sounds complicated playing some sort of game of to or to not approach. Though I don't understand dating dynamics to begin with, so who am I to judge

Agreed about the women approaching point though

EnlightenedAlbino · 2023-10-06T16:01:35+00:00

Yep, I'm around a 6-6.5/10 and I've had a girl reach out to someone else to get my number and then message me first. If you have basic social interaction skills and you are moderately attractive there isn't much difficulty in dating.

ROBYoutube · 2023-10-07T00:26:46+00:00

Hmm yes definitely a true story written factually and is found in the non-fiction section at your local library.

Leaving-trunk · 2023-10-06T17:53:43+00:00

I agree that waiting for iois is ideal. But my take is. Women say all the time that these things are not fool proof. Chatting to her will elucidate her interest wayyyy better than anything else. And you can have a polite chat with anyone in the world, don’t listen to that man hating BS of “it’s the grocery store! You’re a disgusting pig for talking to a woman there”

Every-Ladder-6101 · 2023-10-07T20:57:14+00:00

its the mans job to approach and choosing signals is a dumb concept you will very seldom be approached therefore go approach and meet girls until one likes you.

Happytallperson · 2023-10-06T17:06:34+00:00

I've been hit on by people who know I am married and I'm a probably autistic weirdo whose main social interaction atm is DnD.

The idea that women only hit on some "top teir" of men does not fit with the experience of perfectly average people like me.

DrunkOnWeedASD · 2023-10-06T16:54:30+00:00

You wanna stop ignoring people in the other thread you made or? Why are you even on reddit? Honestly just go away

its-probly-over · 2023-10-06T16:47:02+00:00

you guys think im chad? ive been approached recently

West-Advice · 2023-10-06T21:22:34+00:00

Honestly, you’re on point.

Assuming attraction is mutual you should prioritize woman who express interest first.

However if you don’t get the signs then approach anyway and see where it goes.

kunstbar · 2023-10-07T05:54:17+00:00

I've been jumped by girls, sent numbers by waitresses. Women approach

reise123rr · 2023-10-07T09:18:14+00:00

Hey, I had girls approach me and asked me out. One was series while some other ones felt like they were joking around. But yeah don’t prejudice people mate. However I do understand why you think like this.

Money_Magician9572 · 2023-10-07T12:09:00+00:00

I think the problem is that also it’s so normalized that men should approach women more often, which is kinda stupid it should be more even

The average redditor is so ugly they can't even fathom the idea of a woman making the first move.

Comments

Bitch please I’m sadder.

Sensational

That’s the shit that get me hard!

You guys do nothing but bitch. 😂

So you think losers crying about not getting laid…is new?

Title	The average redditor is so ugly they can't even fathom the idea of a woman making the first move.
Author	ViolentMagician1
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Date	October 6, 2023 3:54 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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