Can't even blame em tbh

Embarrassed-Tune9038 · 2023-10-08T15:20:58+00:00

That is basically Chad's position and women get salty at the competition for him.

ZookeepergameTasty12 · 2023-10-08T21:00:35+00:00

Just be chad bro

ar_menelos · 2023-10-09T00:29:59+00:00

It's chad or nothing. If they can't have chad they'll tell you that it isn't true.

BlackpillEnjoyer · 2023-10-08T15:07:20+00:00

Yeah I don't blame them either. Rough times to be a man right now.

NotARussianBot1984 · 2023-10-08T17:14:27+00:00

I do hate the lying. Life would have been so much easier if the women I asked out and was rejected by just told me I wasn't Chad enough for them. None of this "I'm not looking for a relationship", ya just casual sex with bad boy Chad?

Cool just be honest. Imagine what the world could be like if society was honest about the gender relations. I'd pay a lot less in taxes that's for sure!

NoFapGymColdShowers · 2023-10-08T15:11:40+00:00

Thats pretty much how i feel. I dont even feel angry at them the whole situation is just terrible

zastale · 2023-10-08T17:15:00+00:00

Yes, you can actually. If you purely indulge in hedonism, hubris, and think your decisions won’t affect you, you’re a fool. Those who are only limited to thinking in the short term will (and usually do) lose in the long term. Women’s ultimate fulfillment is in having a loving family, whether or not they will admit to it.

untilfurthernotic3 · 2023-10-08T20:31:23+00:00

Probably, but at least I would have the decency to not start crying, whining, and posting on social media when Chad refuses to commit. I also wouldn’t be gaslighting ugly or short people saying stupid shit like “it’s probably your personality” or “have you at least tried treating women like people?”

Dapper_Level2915 · 2023-10-08T16:38:57+00:00

Imagine getting hit on everywhere you go.

Imagine having women 10x hotter than you down to fuck at anytime.

Imagine having essentially limitless options.

LOL if that's what it was like for the average male, then bluepillers would make sense when they say "women have varying preferences" and things like that

Dolphinfucker3000 · 2023-10-09T07:56:01+00:00

This is exactly what I've been saying. We'd be hypocrites to judge them for their selectivity. If the roles were reversed, we'd be just as picky. It's natural selection.

Even in our position, we are still factor our based on appearance. Ugly girls do have plenty more options than we ever will, but they'd still be ostracized by most men as we are just as picky (if we can afford to be) when it comes to appearance.

So don't hate the player, hate the game.

Xbox-Loud-Cloud-216 · 2023-10-08T19:17:48+00:00

Why I gotta go to my motherland of Nigeria , at least I can be of novelty cause in America I’m a dime a dozen apparently

DesolateDanse · 2023-10-08T17:11:51+00:00

This is why I consider guys hating high n women to be sour grapes because most of you would be exactly the same if you were a woman. If I wanted Chad even my ugly ass would be getting piped too and wouldn’t be here. The only reason I’m technically a “femcel” is because the sub 7 men I actually want to lay are too scared to approach anyone or give compliments/signals in fear of metoo so I have no indication of whether to approach myself 😞

Konoha_Shinobee · 2023-10-08T19:45:24+00:00

If we were the ones getting bombarded with sex offers, we'd be picky as fuck too.

Doubt.

There would just be a lot more sex and a lot less monogamy. Men just like to have sex, if you had 10 women offering to fuck you, in all likelihood you'd just fuck all of them. This difference in sex drive is why women are more picky in the first place.

SianOiseau · 2023-10-08T15:59:48+00:00

Your mistake is to think that women behave exactly like you would in this situation and you overestimate the amount of options women have. We don't consider empty "hey, beautiful" comments or DMs as options - cold approaches generally aren't successful and just aren't safe. Some women are fine with it, but I don't think the majority is. We also don't get hit on "everywhere we go", it happens, sure, but the quantity greatly depends on one's appearance and culture.

In reality there are so few options to seriously consider - men who can be good long-term partners and who are compatible with you, that you don't feel much of the proclaimed abundance mentality.

NefariousNaz · 2023-10-09T13:59:26+00:00

I had similar experience going on international dating app. Multiple messages a day

I very quickly just filtered by attractiveness and didn't bother responding to everyone.

Title	Can't even blame em tbh
Author	KeepCopingBuddy
Upvotes	54
Comments	97
Date	October 8, 2023 3:03 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AllPillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/1731c2q/cant_even_blame_em_tbh/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/AllPillDebate/cant-even-blame-em-tbh.1234404 https://theredarchive.com/post/1234404

Comments