Why are people so mean to guys like us?

SilentFroggy · 2023-11-10T01:57:11+00:00

I don’t think most people care. The ones who do are women who are hoes and need to cope. The guys are white knights who’s trying to defend their simp mindset.

DonttouchmyPlumbus · 2023-11-10T02:17:59+00:00

Basically bullying and belittling gives you dopamine. I do not know why and I haven’t researched the psychology behind it. But finding and hassling a target that seems weak is a fun time. My quick hypothesis is that there is a subconscious idea that it will impress a mating partner by demonstrating strength over a rival, like two stags clashing, even if they don’t exist.

Petrosmine · 2023-11-10T06:10:53+00:00

We are genetically wired to make fun of inferior people and think that they are always wrong

ClothesOnInTheDark · 2023-11-10T02:28:36+00:00

All universities, the media, and corporations promote patriarchy theory that men are the oppressors and women the oppressed. When ugly men who are actually the most oppressed in society start complaining it puts a hole in that theory so people attack viciously to hold on to their lie. They can't admit that men don't have the power they claim.

Eyesofmalice · 2023-11-10T02:54:36+00:00

We’re not that easy to get along with for starters. It’s the result of years of frustrating and rejection.

fancy_leftovers · 2023-11-10T01:55:38+00:00

Even guys like you aren't all the same. Some of your "ilk" give all ya'll bad cred.

Society generally dislikes entitled and prejudiced people. They think all incels are hateful sexists who want to rape women.

So to them it's like being mean to a Nazi. Like being mean to you is the only society-accepted response.

Ok_Smile_60 · 2023-11-10T04:11:47+00:00

Hoes hate men they don’t want to sleep with calling them hoes. Like, it sets them off like nothing else.

The rest is just ducks and losers simping in hopes of pity pussy from said hoes

mewbestpokeman · 2023-11-10T07:53:46+00:00

Because "w*men good men bad" is the dominant religion now. Critcizing w*men is heresy.

Whiskeyjack1982 · 2023-11-10T10:31:21+00:00

They are bottom feeders. They are losers and need an easy way to feel better about themselves and their mediocre lives.

EverVigilant1 · 2023-11-10T16:48:55+00:00

Because average men aren't sexually attractive.

To society, Chads are the only men worthy of decent treatment.

DeepHouseDJ007 · 2023-11-10T02:33:48+00:00

I don’t find your social and emotional issues insulting, I’m sorry that any guy is experiencing those problems, I can’t imagine being in that position.

What I do find ridiculous is when incels try to avoid responsibility by blaming their problems on “made up” archetypes such as “Chad”, hypergamy, feminism, OF, online dating, “soys”, “cucks”, “bluepillers”, etc…

And I also find it ridiculous when incels who have never experienced sex and relationships personally act like they understand those things better than people who actually do have sex and relationships and spout their far fetched and completely unproven theories about women and male-female relationship dynamics.

And finally I find it ridiculous when incels capitalize the letters ER to basically allude to what that piece of shit and let others know they support him killing all those innocent people because he was jealous that they were getting laid and he wasn’t.

sometimesthisisweird · 2023-11-10T03:24:12+00:00

I don't doubt for a second the frustrations that you feel. My question is where are you getting all these hate from when you express your frustrations? From what I have seen, the only shaming is towards the "incels" that spew their own hate towards the world and encourage others to join in this hate. These fuckers should be ridiculed.

Gullible_Witness_610 · 2023-11-10T02:16:55+00:00

Some have been though shit, abusive relationship with men for ex and wanna get revenge in a way.

Some feels better about themselves talking down to others.

And others cares but can t help, so they just deny, no solution, therefore no problem.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-11-10T04:13:03+00:00

The guys here are incredibly nasty to women. Examples include saying that once a woman loses her virginity she has no right to wait commitment or marriage until sex, the scathing rants about women over 30, etc. some guy spouted rants of profanity at me because I called a chubby dude handsome.

TermAggravating8043 · 2023-11-10T09:00:57+00:00

Because you blame “woman” for your problems

It’s like a racist thing

SmoothForest · 2023-11-10T18:02:27+00:00

Because it's interesting.

People actually enjoy cruelty. The only thing stopping people from indulging in that pleasure on a regular basis is empathy. But once you admit that you're a sexless man, they'll use the just world fallacy to assume you have an immoral character, thus causing all empathy they may have for you to vanish, allowing them to take as much pleasure as possible into bullying you and making you suffer.

Title	Why are people so mean to guys like us?
Author	TraditionUnable9770
Upvotes	18
Comments	64
Date	November 10, 2023 1:44 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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