Most of the pills more or less have their mythological characters that are designed for one purpose: a security blanket.

If I were _____ then [bad result] wouldn't happen.

So if it's TRP --- if I were alpha then women wouldn't cheat on me

If it's black pill it's if I were chad then women wouldn't cheat on me.

if it's bluepill it's if I were a good kind man then women wouldn't cheat on me.

Ultimately, this is a big reason why these philosophies are juvenile.

Any and everything can happen to you as a man. Comes with the territory. Men receive outsize negative feedback for losing (or rejection) but men also receive outsize rewards for victory.

We all know what happens to men who complain about their dating lives or not getting laid, but if fortune turns and a man starts getting laid --- everything about that fact being known will spread and the only results will be positive. Case in point, those FB groups "Are we Dating the Same Guy?" afaik and my own experience...they're just helping the men on there be more successful.

So ultimately, the best personality trait to hone as a guy is just resilience. It's cutting the time down that you spend feeling sorry for yourself after a failure. The less time you spend there is more time you're spent just mixing it up.

And if you think a so called 'Chad' just has it super easy...check this dude out. Verified male model, great body, GREAT HEIGHT....and still....tons of rejections

https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x2ozvd9